6 Best Dildos for Men to Hit That P-Spot
As a sex toy expert and a self-proclaimed dildo connoisseur, I know a thing or two about finding the perfect dildo. For penis and/or prostate owners, you’ll be looking for anal safe dildos that stimulate the prostate or the anus during use. I’ve consulted with our Tester Team to sort through all of our reviews here at Bedbible to find the very best dildos for men. Using insights from our testers, I’ve reviewed each product and given them individual ratings of aspects such as design, quality, and ease of use.
Test Winner | Runner-Up | Budget-Friendly | Best for Beginners | Expert Pick | Best Beaded Dildo |
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Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel | Fun Factory The Boss | Gläs Honey Dripper Dildo | Tantus Charmer | Mantric P-Spot Probe | Lovehoney Desire Luxury Beaded Stainless Steel Dildo |
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How We Test dildos for men
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- The best dildo for prostate massage – The njoy Pure Wand is definitely the best option for some firm, manual massage of the prostate. The Mantric P-Spot Probe Vibrator is a great alternative if you prefer vibrations over manual massage.
- The best dildo for anal stretching – The Fun Factory The Boss dildo is made of firm silicone and offers a pretty impressive girth. This one is great for exploring the world of anal stretching and warming up for bigger and better things.
- The best dildo to share with your partner – The Gläs Honey Dripper Dildo has an amazing design that will stimulate both the prostate and the g-spot or a-spot for vaginal use. The glass also allows you to fully sterilize the dildo in between and anal and vaginal use.
Test Winner Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo
- Sleek stainless steel dildo
- Curved shaft with two bulbous heads
- Weighs 1.51 lbs.
Pros
- ✅ Massages your prostate like a dream
- ✅ Works with any lube
- ✅ Can be shared with a partner
- ✅ Great for temperature play
Cons
- ❌ May be too heavy for some
- ❌ Expensive
Why I Chose It
I picked out the njoy Pure Wand as the Test Winner in this review because it’s one of THE best dildos out there. Period! It’s a premium quality construction that will last you a lifetime with the proper care and maintenance.
It is definitely a pricey purchase, but another huge pro is that it can be shared with a partner since it works amazing for vaginal use as well. Our tester, Isabelle, used it for g-spot stimulation and it completely changed her view of this kind of pleasure.
It stands out to me as a great dildo for men because of the curved design and the bulbous tips. This shape is ideal for delivering some serious massage to the prostate during penetration. The 360 grade stainless steel both looks and feels great. The unyielding sensation along with the weight makes for a much more intense sensation that with a silicone dildo.
“The weight distribution and curve take all of the hard work out of getting that deep stimulation exactly where you want it, and you only have to apply minimal pressure to get some incredibly intense sensations.”
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Runner-Up Fun Factory The Boss Dildo
- Firm silicone dildo
- Semi-realistic design with a pronounced head
- Suction cup base.
Pros
- ✅ Firm silicone makes for intense stimulation
- ✅ Suction cup is incredibly strong
- ✅ Great to use with a strap-on harness
Cons
- ❌ Sanded silicone surface attracts dust and lint
Why I Chose It
Another great dildo for men is the Fun Factory The Boss dildo. Now, I’ve actually had the pleasure of testing this one out myself. While I do not have a prostate, The Boss did a great job at stimulating my g-spot and a-spot.
The silicone is super firm. It’s probably one of the most firm dildos I’ve ever tried. This bodes well for intense internal stimulation. This sensation along with the pronounced tip and the slightly curved shaft makes it great at hitting those sweet spots.
Now, for anal play, The Boss is definitely on the girthier side so I strongly recommend this to experienced users. It’s not incredibly tapered either (compared to most other anal dildos for men) so it definitely requires a lot of patience and lube.
One of my favorite things about The Boss is how strong the suction cup base is. I’m serious! Once stuck to a table or chair dresser, it can easily lift the whole thing up if I don’t release the suction seal beforehand! This kind of base also allows you to use it in a strap-on harness.
My only minor critique about it is that the surface of the silicone is sanded and feels a bit textured in an unnecessary way. This can easily make it look dirty and attract dust and lint. So, it just requires a quick rinse before use.
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Budget-Friendly Gläs Honey Dripper Dildo
- Double-ended glass dildo
- One tapered tip, on rounded tip, and a smooth, slim shaft
- Weighs 0.61 lbs (279 grams).
Pros
- ✅ Double-ended design for variety
- ✅ Great for both anal and vaginal play
- ✅ Compatible with all lubes
- ✅ Great for temperature play
Cons
- ❌ Difficult to grip when lubed up
Why I Chose It
The Gläs Honey Dripper Dildo is my top recommendation for a dildo for men that won’t break the bank but still delivers amazing sensations. In my experience, glass dildos are elite. Similarly to metal dildos, this unyielding and slightly weighted material will massage your prostate in a way that silicone dildos could never.
The Honey Dripper feels every bit as good as it looks. The curved and bulbous tip is large enough for a satisfying massage but tapered enough to ensure an easy insertion. Better yet, this double-ended design allows you to explore two different types of penetration. Our tester, Sarah, used it vaginally and was thoroughly impressed with the pinpoint stimulation. “The curved tip was amazing and I was able to twirl it around inside of me so I could feel it from multiple angles.”
It’s described as an ‘anal slider’ since the smooth shaft is a lot slimmer than the tips on either end. Once the tip is in, the rest of the dildo slides in comfortably. This is what makes it really great for beginners as well as intermediate users. However, since it is so smooth (and gets pretty slippery with lube), Sarah noted that “if you have carpal tunnel, tendinitis, or any serious wrist pains, beware, this may not be for you.”
Best for Beginners Tantus Charmer
- Slim silicone dildo
- Subtle ridges along the shaft
- Flared base.
Pros
- ✅ Great shape and size for beginners
- ✅ Simple design that also creates varied sensation
- ✅ Made of high-quality silicone
Cons
- ❌ Still requires warm-up with fingers or a butt plug
- ❌ No suction cup base
Why I Chose It
The Tantus Charmer is perfect for beginners due to its unique, slim-line design. Its approachable for newbies but definitely not boring to use. It’s also made of high quality silicone and has a gorgeous metallic sheen.
Our tester, Isabelle, initially bought it for vaginal use but quickly promoted it to her go-to anal dildo. “I find the firm but flexible silicone and the shape are much better suited to anal play, for me at least!” The tapered head and slimmer shaft feels more comfortable for anal use, since it doesn’t put much pressure on the sphincter, but you still get to enjoy the fuller head. “The ridges have the slight feel of anal beads, as the shaft is inserted but not as intense, and they add some subtle stimulation while the toy is inside as well.”
The only downside is that this dildo doesn’t have a suction cup base. That said, the flared base still lets you enjoy it with a strap-on harness.
Expert Pick Mantric P-Spot Probe Dildo Vibrator
- Prostate vibrator with a tapered tip
- Large handle and a flared pad with stimulation bumps
- LED lights on the side of the handle indicate changes in vibrations settings.
Pros
- ✅ LED lights make it easier for a partner to see what they're doing
- ✅ Very strong vibrations
- ✅ Fully waterproof
Cons
- ❌ Stimulation bumps can be difficult to clean
- ❌ Too tapered to provide pinpoint contact with the prostate
Vibrations:
Why I Chose It
Now, this is a dildo for men that offers a few extra bells and whistles. For all of those who prefer vibrations over manual stimulation of the prostate, the Mantric P-Spot Probe offers incredibly powerful and rumbly vibrations. I like that it has a sturdy handle for a good grip (whether you’re playing solo or with someone special).
The vibrations offer a range of sensations that add excitement to both solo and partnered play. However, if you’re someone who needs precise prostate stimulation, you might find the shape a bit lacking. For our tester Jesse, the shape itself didn’t target the prostate as well as other products do, “but I thoroughly enjoyed the toy none the less, it’s the vibration settings that really make this toy what it is.”
While he wasn’t keen on the LED light indicators in the beginning, “but they really do look good and make a great addition to the toy.” This is also what made it easy to use during partnered play, since whoever is wielding the toy can easily see which vibrations settings their partner is currently enjoying.
Jesse “wouldn’t describe it as a quiet product when on higher settings”, so it might not be the best for those needing discretion. Cleaning the stimulating nubs requires a bit of effort, but it’s a small price to pay for the pleasure it provides.
Overall, if you’re after a visually appealing, versatile prostate vibrator with great vibration options, this is a solid choice. For Jesse, “the device performs well and definitely went beyond expectations with its vibrations.”
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Best Beaded Dildo Lovehoney Desire Luxury Beaded Stainless Steel Dildo
- Beaded metal dildo
- Slightly curved shaft with gradually sized beads.
- Weighs 1.71 lbs.
Pros
- ✅ Versatile design creates varied sensation
- ✅ Good for temperature play
- ✅ Weighted feel increases intensity
Cons
- ❌ Cannot be used hands-free
Why I Chose It
The Lovehoney Desire Luxury Beaded Stainless Steel Dildo is great for those who love a varied sensation with every thrust. It’s the perfect blend of the pleasure you get from anal beads and the intensity provided by metal dildos.
For our tester, Lucy, “being a newbie to a metal dildo the weight of the beaded dildo was slightly daunting but it made for a brilliant experience and the weight added to the sensation and versatility.”
The lightly curved shape and the firm metal is a great recipe for some intense p-spot pleasure and the largest bead acts as an effective stopper to keep the dildo from going all the way in. That said, if you’re sharing it with a partner for vaginal play, you can insert both ends an play around with the size difference. The temperature responsive steel also makes it great for external stimulation of the nipples, clitoris, or frenulum. As Lucy notes, it’s a super versatile dildo and “there are lots of options to experiment with.”
Since the beads gradually increase in size, Lucy also felt like it gave her “good control over the depth” during insertion. You can take the dildo as far you’re comfortable with and work your way up. In this way, it’s a dildo that will grow with you as your experience level increases.
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Comparison
Best | Test Winner | Runner-Up | Budget-Friendly | Best for Beginners | Expert Pick | Best Beaded Dildo |
Overall score | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.8 / 5.0 from 288 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 31 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 36 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 39 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 123 users | 4.9 / 5.0 from 76 users |
Price | Premium | Moderate | Moderate | Affordable | Moderate | Affordable |
Design | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 |
Ease of use | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
Quality | 100 / 100 | 97 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Sound | - | - | - | - | 40 / 100 | - |
Power | - | - | - | - | 80 / 100 | - |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | somewhat rumbly | - |
Length | 9 inches | 7 inches | 6.75 inches | 7 inches | 7 inches | 8 inches |
Insertable length | 8 inches | 7 inches | 5.5 inches | 6.5 inches | 3 inches | 6.5 inches |
Diameter | Small ball: 1, Large ball: 1.5 inches inches | 1.75 inches | 1.25 inches | 1.1 inches | 1.43 inches | 1.59 inches |
Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
Materials | 360 grade stainless steel | Silicone | Borosilicate glass | Premium silicone | Silicone | Medical grade stainless steel |
Storage Bag Included | Yes | No | Yes | No | - | No |
Colors Available | - | Vanilla, Pink, Black | - | - | - | - |
Vibration modes | - | - | - | - | 4 | - |
Vibration speeds | - | - | - | - | 3 | - |
Rechargeable | - | - | - | - | Yes | - |
Travel Lock | - | - | - | - | Yes | - |
Charging Time | - | - | - | - | 180 minutes | - |
How to choose the best dildos for men
There are lots of things you need to keep in mind when shopping for dildos for men.
After all, you really do need one that will suit you and your naughty needs.
So let’s take a dive into a few of the things you need to consider!
- Size – You want a dildo that’s going to fit you just right! You can get big dildos, and you can get small dildos, but you need the perfect one for you! You want something that will fill you up and give you the stretch you desire without being TOO big or TOO small.
- Shape – The shape of your dildo matters! You can get perfectly straight ones, dildos with a slight curve, dildos with a large curve, tapered dildos…all sorts! Each shape has a different feeling inside you, so choose wisely!
- Texture – The actual texture of a dildo really emphasizes the experience. Some are smooth, others are ridged or bumpy. Each feels amazing in their own way, and you just need to figure out which texture you prefer!
- Materials – When shopping for dildos for men you need to consider the material. Silicone, glass and metal are all body safe and non-porous, meaning they’re easy to keep clean!
- Realistic…or not – You can get dildos that look like real life cocks, and you can get dildos that are shaped differently. If you’re going for realism then there are awesome options out there. On the other hand if you’re not fussed about a life-like dildo then there are still just as many awesome options available to you!
- Suction cup – If you want to take your dildo into the shower or something then a suction cup anal dildo is a great idea. Stick it to the wall at the perfect height and go to town on it. Delicious!
- Harness compatible – Sometimes you want a dildo that is harness compatible for pegging or something like that. You don’t want your dildo to get damaged or to cause damage to the harness, so be sure that they go together perfectly so you can get prepared properly!
Types of Dildos That Stimulate the Prostate
Dildos for men come in a few different shapes and styles.
I’ll talk you through a few of the most popular and well-loved choices!
Curved/straight
You can get straight dildos, and you can get curved ones.
Both are great and pleasurable, but it’s the curved ones that really reach in and around and stroke against that all important P-spot!
Bulbous heads
A dildo with a bulbous head gives you a nice stretch as it enters, but it also better massages against the prostate.
This one little, simple design feature adds a lot of extra pleasure!
Slim/chunky
You can get dildos for men in all kinds of sizes; slim and smooth ones are a lot better for beginners, as they slide inside easier and using them is a lot more simple.
On the flip side, chunky textured dildos add an extra stretch and more sensations that more advanced users will enjoy.
Reviewed by:
Isabelle Uren