The 8 best dildos for men to hit that p-spot

Pete Martin
by Pete Martin
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Dildos for men are super popular toys! Because it’s not just women that should get to enjoy them! Choosing the right one for you can be a bit of a nightmare, but we’re here to help point you in the right direction with this review. We have the lowdown on 8 of the absolute best dildos for men available, and as well as unbiased reviews, we also have hints and tips to help you get the most out of them. But wait – there’s more! We even point you in the right direction of the shops where you can buy them! This is your one-stop review for dildos for men!

Our reviews of dildos for men explained

Our goal was to produce a review of the 8 best dildos for men that was as accurate, well-balanced, and unbiased as possible. We tested the toys and read reviews from people around the world. And not just anyone! Oh, no, we read reviews from average man-in-the-street sex toy users that weren’t going to give you the PR fluff or ‘selling’ spin that sex toy shops throw at you. We wanted the real lowdown. And that’s exactly what we got. The positives, the negatives, and everything in between! We then distilled it all down into this one-stop review of the best dildos for men!

Our reviews of dildos for men explained

How to choose the best dildos for men

There are lots of things you need to keep in mind when shopping for dildos for men. After all, you really do need one that will suit you and your naughty needs. So let’s take a dive into a few of the things you need to consider!

  • Size – You want a dildo that’s going to fit you just right! You can get big dildos, and you can get small dildos, but you need the perfect one for you! You want something that will fill you up and give you the stretch you desire without being TOO big or TOO small.
  • Shape – The shape of your dildo matters! You can get perfectly straight ones, dildos with a slight curve, dildos with a large curve, tapered dildos…all sorts! Each shape has a different feeling inside you, so choose wisely! 
  • Texture – The actual texture of a dildo really emphasizes the experience. Some are smooth, others are ridged or bumpy. Each feels amazing in their own way, and you just need to figure out which texture you prefer!
  • Materials – When shopping for dildos for men you need to consider the material. Silicone, glass and metal are all body safe and non-porous, meaning they’re easy to keep clean! 
  • Realistic…or not – You can get dildos that look like real life cocks, and you can get dildos that are shaped differently. If you’re going for realism then there are awesome options out there. On the other hand if you’re not fussed about a life-like dildo then there are still just as many awesome options available to you!
  • Suction cup – If you want to take your dildo into the shower or something then a suction cup is a great idea. Stick it to the wall at the perfect height and go to town on it. Delicious!
  • Harness compatible – Sometimes you want a dildo that is harness compatible for pegging or something like that. You don’t want your dildo to get damaged or to cause damage to the harness, so be sure that they go together perfectly so you can get prepared properly!

A bit of a warning!

When buying dildos for men, there’s one primary thing you need to look out for: does it have a flared base for anal use? You want to be able to use your dildo safe in the knowledge that you can quickly and easily remove it when you’re done. Flared bases allow you to do that. So always check for that feature!

FAQ

Are dildos for men safe?
Dildos for men are perfectly safe so long as pre-cautions are taken with lubrication and sterilizing of the toys afterwards (to ward off threats of infection, irritation and inflammation).
How long do dildos for men last?
There's no hard and fast rules here. Cheaper one's are normally made with a porous plastic that will start to soak up bacteria after a few uses and start to smell, so they *usually* need replacing sooner than those made with more robust, non-porous materials. But even these you are advised to switch every so often But a dildo that is not over-used, cleaned and stored regularly can certainly last several years. If you see any warping, discolouration or signs of wear and tear, then you know it's time to change.
Where can I buy dildos for men?
Right here, by following the links in this very review! We want you to have an awesome experience when shopping for dildos for men, so we have linked to some of the most well respected and reputable sex toy stops around!
What lube can I use with my dildo for men?
Water-based lubes are generally the best for toys for a variety of reasons. They are body-safe, won't damage your toys, and won't leave any residue when you clean it up! Don't forget to read the instructions that come with your toy for any specific instructions.

What is a dildo for men?

Let's talk about dildos for men! Because let's be honest, you don't normally associate dildos with man. Dildos are used for sexual penetration or other sexual activity during masturbation or with sex partners, providing internal stimulation to the vagina and anus. Many are textured to either replicate the look of a real penis and/or improve their stimulation of the G-spot and P-spot. So long story short, if you have a hole, a dildo can go in it! Enjoy, guys!

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The 8 Best dildos for men in Test

1 Test Winner

Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo

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The Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup may not have the most enticing name but it’s gotta be the best value for money dildo I’ve ever wrapped my hands around!

Although the curved shaft and curved semi-realistic head make it a sleek, attractive piece of kit, what really sets it apart is the usability and value for money.

The hollow, curved suction cup that gives it it’s name means that, as well being able to slip in a bullet to get things buzzing, you can stick it to any surface for a bit of hands-free fun if you’re on your own…

And the cherry on the cake is the price. At a quarter of the price of dildos boasting the same features and user reviews, it’s a fantastic bang for your buck!

 

 

Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo test
Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction if you...
are an anal first-timer
want the option for solo fun!
like to add a little vibrating action...
are on a budget
You should NOT buy the Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction if you...
don't like the firmness of silicone
prefer a bit more girth
Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo features
Features
Length7 inches
Insertable length6.5 inches
Diameter4.75 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsSilicone 
Remote ControlsNo 
Pros
Great for beginners and anal-veterans alike!
Use hand-free and on your own
Fits a bullet inside
Amazing value
Cons
Not the thickest
Firmness of silicone not for everyone
Conclusion

Whether you have been working your way through the Lovehoney catalogue or you are taking your first tentative steps into anal play, the Curved Silicone Suction Cup is a worthy addition to your box of tricks.

It looks the part and it works a treat. At 6.5inches insertable length it’s big enough to satisfy most, yet not too intimidating for newbies. Whether you want to stick a bullet in it, whack it onto the harness or just stick it on the wall and jump on, it’s so versatile and, boy, does it hit that spot. G or P!

And at about the price of a couple of cinema tickets, there’s almost no good reason not to give it a try…

2 Beginners

BASICS Slimline Anal Starter Dildo 6 inch

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The BASICS Slimline Anal Starter Dildo 6inch is clearly aimed at the anal-beginners market and on this basis, it ticks every box. It’s slim and not-too-long so it won’t scare anyone off before they’ve even started. It has a tapered, realistic head and veiny shaft for lifelike sensations. And you can plug the suction onto a smooth surface or use it in a harness when you are ready to take things up a notch. Plus, it comes in at less than twenty bucks so even if you have blown the rest of your budget on chocolates and lube, you should still have enough left over to buy it!

BASICS Slimline Anal Starter Dildo 6 inch test
BASICS Slimline Anal Starter Dildo 6 inch features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the BASICS Slimline Starter 6inch if you...
are an anal-beginner
don't want your dildo tooo big
want to use it with a harness
are on a budget!
You should NOT buy the BASICS Slimline Starter 6inch if you...
prefer more girth
plan on using the suction all the time
BASICS Slimline Anal Starter Dildo 6 inch features
Features
Length6.5 inches
Insertable length6 inches
Diameter3.5 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsSoft plastic 
Remote ControlsNo 
Pros
Great starting point for newbies
Looks and feels great
Can use the suction for surfaces or a harness
Crazy-good value!
Cons
'Slim' isn't for everyone
Porous material can harbour germs
The suction isn't the greatest
Conclusion

The Slimline Anal Starter 6inch is a great option whether this is the first time you’ve lubed up or whether it’s not even the first time today. Not only does it look the part but it’s perfect size for beginners (and anyone who doesn’t enjoy the longer, thicker options out there)!

The suction leaves a lot to be desired, unfortunately, so if that’s one of the features you want most, you’d probably be better going elsewhere. But that’s a minor quibble- and probably fairly inevitable, as something had to give to get to that giveaway price!

3 Cheapest

BASICS Ribbed Anal Starter Dildo 5 Inch

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The Ribbed Anal Starter is 5 inches insertable length and goes 3.5 around so it’s perfect size for anyone taking their first few steps into anal play. The ribbed shaft and tapered head deliver a smooth and pleasurable sensation inside. The PVC it’s made from means it is on the floppier side of things compared to some of it’s competitors- whether you think that’s a plus or a minus point will depend on your tastes (and experience).
It has a decent suction cup too should you want to hook it up to a harness or a hard, flat surface.

BASICS Ribbed Anal Starter Dildo 5 Inch  test
BASICS Ribbed Anal Starter Dildo 5 Inch  features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Ribbed Anal Starter 5 inch if you...
are an anal newbie
are not comfortable with a bigger dildo
are on a budget!
want to use it with a harness
You should NOT buy the Ribbed Anal Starter 5 inch if you...
need a bigger, more durable dildo
porous material harbours bacteria
BASICS Ribbed Anal Starter Dildo 5 Inch  features
Features
Length5.5 inches
Insertable length5 inches
Diameter3.5 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsPVC 
Remote ControlsNo 
Pros
Not too big
Design feels great
Can use on your own or with a partner
Crazy-cheap!
Cons
only 3.5 inches girth
some prefer a sturdier material
Conclusion

The Ribbed Anal Starter is perfect for what it is- a cheap, no-frills-but-effective starter dildo. If you taking those first tentative steps from fingers then it’s size is a huge plus- it’s a natural progression. However, for more experienced anal-players the 3.5 likely won’t cut the mustard. And that’s what it boils down to really.
But for a first-time anal toy that you’ll feel in your ass but not in your bank balance, you can’t get much better!

4 Steel

Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

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Made from sleek, stainless steel, the Pure Wand not only looks good enough to hang on your wall, but it works so well you’d think it was engineered by NASA themselves. It’s been out a few years now and it’s already got itself quite the fan-club. And it’s not hard to see why!

It’s a great size, sturdily built, with gentle curves that hug your insides and rounded ends designed purely with the aim of getting your legs shaking. On a more practical note, it is compatible with all lubrication types, can hold hot or cold brilliantly for temperature play and is completely non-porous so you can clean and sterile it however you want too (just avoid abrasives or you could damage that shine!)

 

Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo test
Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Pure Wand Stainless Steel if you...
love your anal play
want to hit your P-spot
like playing with hot and cold
don't mind spending a few extra pennies for the quality
You should NOT buy the Pure Wand Stainless Steel if you...
have very thin or weak wrists (it's 1.5 lbs)
Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo features
Features
Length9 inches
Insertable length8 inches
Diameter5.5 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsMetal 
Remote ControlsNo 
Pros
Hits your P-spot LIKE.A.DREAM!
Works with any lube
Easy to wash
Works for hot and cold temp-play
Cons
quite heavy
not the cheapest
Conclusion

This is fast becoming a love-toy of legendary proportions. A real Rolls Royce of a dildo, it hits spots you’d only read about before. Sounds like I am going a bit OTT, doesn’t it? I know. That’s what I thought when I read the reviews before I tried it myself. I’ll leave it there and not spoil any more of the surprise.  *mic drop*

5 Glass

Tracey Cox Supersex Glass Dildo Set

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Tracey Cox’s Supersex Glass Dildo Set is a beautifully made, amazingly effective piece of equipment. Where shall I start?

It looks great and with 7.5inches insertable length and 4.5 around it should be big enough for most but not toooo big for the less-experienced.

Smooth, strong and elegantly crafted, it’s contours are built with only one thing in mind: your pleasure!

You can heat on up, cool the other down. Use on yourself, your partner or there’s one each. Use whatever lube you want and even stick it in the dishwasher when you’re done. If you like.

Little word of warning with these wands: remember to keep a good portion of them outside the body while you are playing. Without the flared base most dildo’s come with it can be easy- and dangerous!- for the whole things to slip up in the heat of the moment!

All in all though, the Superglass is a great all-rounder and it comes in at a price that doesn’t break the bank either. What’s not to like?

Tracey Cox Supersex Glass Dildo Set test
Tracey Cox Supersex Glass Dildo Set features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Supersex Glass Set if you...
want to give your ass a treat!
like hot or cold play
want a pair of toys you can play together
like teasing textures and sensual curves...
You should NOT buy the Supersex Glass Set if you...
prefer a bit more girth
Tracey Cox Supersex Glass Dildo Set features
Features
Length9 inches
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter4.5 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsGlass 
Remote ControlsNo 
Pros
Elegantly designed
Ribbed and tapered for maximum stimulation
Works with any lube
Clean it however you like
Cons
4.5 diameter not enough for everyone
Conclusion

Another real fan favourite..

Tracey Cox knows her sex and what she’s produced here is a dildo that feels every bit as good as it looks. Versatile and just super-effective, if you’ve never used glass before don’t let that put you off. They can be used with whatever lube you have to hand, cleaned however you like and they hit the spot in a way that’s left thousands upon thousands of customers grinning giddily in their wake. Tracey, take a bow!

6 Vibrating

Mantric Rechargeable Remote Control Prostate Vibrator

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The Remote Prostrate Vibrator’s silky silicone shaft feels fantastic and its big bulbous tip is designed with one thing in mind: hitting your p (or g!) spot! While it goes to work there the textured base massages the perineum. Quite the double-teaming!

It has 7 different vibrating settings and a push button wireless remote control for hands-free fun.

It requires a water-based lubrication.

Mantric Rechargeable Remote Control Prostate Vibrator test
Mantric Rechargeable Remote Control Prostate Vibrator features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Remote Prostrate Vibrator if you...
are a beginner
love to hit your p-spot
are a fan of vibrating
You should NOT buy the Remote Prostrate Vibrator if you...
prefer a bigger toy
have thin walls!
Mantric Rechargeable Remote Control Prostate Vibrator features
Features
Length5.5 inches
Insertable length4 inches
Diameter4.5 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsSilicone 
Remote ControlsYes 
Pros
Perfect size for beginners
Feels great
Vibrates with plenty of settings
Cons
Noisy
Too small for some
Conclusion

It’s feels as sleek as it looks and it’s just a fantastically effective piece of kit. Easy to use and not intimidatingly proportioned, it’s probably best for beginners easing their way into their anal play (so to speak!).

7 Realistic

Lifelike Lover Classic Realistic Dildo 6 Inch

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The Lifelike Lover 6inch looks amazing. The real gold-standard for realistic dildo’s, from the definition on the head and the veins popping along the shaft to the firm balls at the bottom.

It has a bendable shaft and some of the strongest suction pads I’ve ever seen, which means you can have it working all kinds of angles!

The suction cup makes it a great solo option but it’s compatible with a harness too (you’ll need an O-ring 1.5 inches diameter).

 

Lifelike Lover Classic Realistic Dildo 6 Inch test
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Lifelife Lover 6inch if you...
yearn for that realistic feel
want to use a harness
like the options suction brings
You should NOT buy the Lifelife Lover 6inch if you...
prefer a thinner toy
Features
Length6 inches
Insertable length5 inches
Diameter5 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsSoft plastic 
Remote ControlsNo 
Pros
The most realistic looking dildo there is!
Fantastic suction cup
Feels great
Cons
Tip is pretty firm
Conclusion

Just look at it! What a job they have done recreating that look and feel. I’m pleased to report it’s not just a pretty, er, shaft, but it works every bit as good as you’d hope. My only real gripe was the tip was a bit firm but for the price it comes in at, it’s the pettiest of grievances. I heartily recommend!

8

Tracey Cox Supersex Silicone Beaded Anal Prober

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This is a…unique toy, trying to bridge the pleasures of a dildo with the sensations of a bead. The silicone beads feel great, graduating in size so they get bigger as you ease it in. The material ensures it is firm but flexible and easy to clean. It’s a toy that’s useful for solo fun or if with a partner. A real plus-point is the finger loop if you decide you want to remove it in a hurry…

Tracey Cox Supersex Silicone Beaded Anal Prober test
Tracey Cox Supersex Silicone Beaded Anal Prober features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Silicone Beaded Anal Prober if you...
want to try something a bit different
are a beginner to anal play
want option to use alone or with a partner
You should NOT buy the Silicone Beaded Anal Prober if you...
are expecting it to feel like string of beads
want options for vibration/ harness-play
Tracey Cox Supersex Silicone Beaded Anal Prober features
Features
Length8.5 inches
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter3.75 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsSilicone 
Remote ControlsNo 
Pros
great training toy
easy to use
finger loop is fantastic
cheap as chips
Cons
Not a dildo
Not really beads either!
Conclusion

The Silicone Beaded Anal Prober suffers a bit from falling between two stools. The design and the graduating beads that make it’s sensations so unique also disappoint a little if you want a feeling of a dildo or the sensation of beads. So that’s what it isn’t.

What is, though, is something a bit different. Easy to use, sized and shaped for a beginner, it’s a lot of fun whether you’re on your own or with a partner. And the finger-loop makes for some explosive orgasm’s if you time it’s removal juuuuust right! 😀

At the same price of a cheap bottle of wine you afford to take a risk and see for yourself anyway.

Hollow strap-on dildo's

Big dildo's for men

How to use a dildo for men

Our own Edwina wrote a great piece that will talk you through the do’s and don’t of using a dildo for men… How to use a dildo for men

How to use a dildo for men

Solo play

Solo play

Many dildo’s have a strong suction cup that you can attach to the shower wall or, well, wherever takes your fancy so you don’t have to wait for a partner to start the fun!

Couples fun

How to use a dildo for men

Whether using their hands or strapping on the harness, dildo’s bring a lot of fun to the party for both of you!

How to use a dildo for men
How to use a dildo for men

Internal stimulation

Internal stimulation

Dildo’s have came a long way (that wasn’t my best choice of words) since the old 70’s-style chunks of metal and plastic. As well as the internal stimulation these days they can massage the clitoris, the p-spot, the g-spot. They’ll even do the dishes if you ask them nice enough.

BDSM/ power-play

How to use a dildo for men

Dildo’s are a great way to spice up your roles in the bedroom, try out a new dynamic and give you a chance to see where your fantasies take you. Just be sure to pick a safe Word you won’t forget!

How to use a dildo for men

How to clean a dildo for men

You should clean your toy after every use to stop bacteria from collecting- a bit of a mood-killer, yes, but hopefully you have nice spring in your step by that stage! How you do this will depend upon which material it was made from: the graphic below will walk you through the details. Finally, remember to dry and store your toys properly too when you have finished. Use the original packaging, get a plastic container or there are even satin sacks on the market for such an occasion. If you want the relationship with your new favourite sex toy to last the distance, you have to put in the effort!

Porous
materials

Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

Non-propous
materials

Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

The toys with electrical
components

If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.

Author
Pete Martin