The 8 best dildos for men to hit that p-spot

 By  Pete Martin
Last updated: Dec 7, 2021
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Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo

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You should buy the Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction if you...

  • are an anal first-timer
  • want the option for solo fun!
  • like to add a little vibrating action...
  • are on a budget

You should NOT buy the Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction if you...

  • don't like the firmness of silicone
  • prefer a bit more girth

Product description

The Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup may not have the most enticing name but it’s gotta be the best value for money dildo I’ve ever wrapped my hands around! Although the curved shaft and curved semi-realistic head make it a sleek, attractive piece of kit, what really sets it apart is the usability and value for money. The hollow, curved suction cup that gives it it’s name means that, as well being able to slip in a bullet to get things buzzing, you can stick it to any surface for a bit of hands-free fun if you’re on your own… And the cherry on the cake is the price. At a quarter of the price of dildos boasting the same features and user reviews, it’s a fantastic bang for your buck!    

Pros

  • Great for beginners and anal-veterans alike!
  • Use hand-free and on your own
  • Fits a bullet inside
  • Amazing value

Cons

  • Not the thickest
  • Firmness of silicone not for everyone
Features Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction
Length7 inches
Insertable length6.5 inches
Diameter4.75 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsSilicone
Remote ControlsNo

Conclusion

Whether you have been working your way through the Lovehoney catalogue or you are taking your first tentative steps into anal play, the Curved Silicone Suction Cup is a worthy addition to your box of tricks. It looks the part and it works a treat. At 6.5inches insertable length it’s big enough to satisfy most, yet not too intimidating for newbies. Whether you want to stick a bullet in it, whack it onto the harness or just stick it on the wall and jump on, it’s so versatile and, boy, does it hit that spot. G or P! And at about the price of a couple of cinema tickets, there’s almost no good reason not to give it a try…

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BASICS Slimline Anal Starter Dildo 6 inch

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You should buy the BASICS Slimline Starter 6inch if you...

  • are an anal-beginner
  • don't want your dildo tooo big
  • want to use it with a harness
  • are on a budget!

You should NOT buy the BASICS Slimline Starter 6inch if you...

  • prefer more girth
  • plan on using the suction all the time

Product description

The BASICS Slimline Anal Starter Dildo 6inch is clearly aimed at the anal-beginners market and on this basis, it ticks every box. It’s slim and not-too-long so it won’t scare anyone off before they’ve even started. It has a tapered, realistic head and veiny shaft for lifelike sensations. And you can plug the suction onto a smooth surface or use it in a harness when you are ready to take things up a notch. Plus, it comes in at less than twenty bucks so even if you have blown the rest of your budget on chocolates and lube, you should still have enough left over to buy it!

Pros

  • Great starting point for newbies
  • Looks and feels great
  • Can use the suction for surfaces or a harness
  • Crazy-good value!

Cons

  • 'Slim' isn't for everyone
  • Porous material can harbour germs
  • The suction isn't the greatest
Features BASICS Slimline Starter 6inch
Length6.5 inches
Insertable length6 inches
Diameter3.5 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsSoft plastic
Remote ControlsNo

Conclusion

The Slimline Anal Starter 6inch is a great option whether this is the first time you’ve lubed up or whether it’s not even the first time today. Not only does it look the part but it’s perfect size for beginners (and anyone who doesn’t enjoy the longer, thicker options out there)! The suction leaves a lot to be desired, unfortunately, so if that’s one of the features you want most, you’d probably be better going elsewhere. But that’s a minor quibble- and probably fairly inevitable, as something had to give to get to that giveaway price!

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BASICS Ribbed Anal Starter Dildo 5 Inch

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You should buy the Ribbed Anal Starter 5 inch if you...

  • are an anal newbie
  • are not comfortable with a bigger dildo
  • are on a budget!
  • want to use it with a harness

You should NOT buy the Ribbed Anal Starter 5 inch if you...

  • need a bigger, more durable dildo
  • porous material harbours bacteria

Product description

The Ribbed Anal Starter is 5 inches insertable length and goes 3.5 around so it’s perfect size for anyone taking their first few steps into anal play. The ribbed shaft and tapered head deliver a smooth and pleasurable sensation inside. The PVC it’s made from means it is on the floppier side of things compared to some of it’s competitors- whether you think that’s a plus or a minus point will depend on your tastes (and experience). It has a decent suction cup too should you want to hook it up to a harness or a hard, flat surface.

Pros

  • Not too big
  • Design feels great
  • Can use on your own or with a partner
  • Crazy-cheap!

Cons

  • only 3.5 inches girth
  • some prefer a sturdier material
Features Ribbed Anal Starter 5 inch
Length5.5 inches
Insertable length5 inches
Diameter3.5 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsPVC
Remote ControlsNo

Conclusion

The Ribbed Anal Starter is perfect for what it is- a cheap, no-frills-but-effective starter dildo. If you taking those first tentative steps from fingers then it’s size is a huge plus- it’s a natural progression. However, for more experienced anal-players the 3.5 likely won’t cut the mustard. And that’s what it boils down to really. But for a first-time anal toy that you’ll feel in your ass but not in your bank balance, you can’t get much better!

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Njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

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You should buy the Pure Wand Stainless Steel if you...

  • love your anal play
  • want to hit your P-spot
  • like playing with hot and cold
  • don't mind spending a few extra pennies for the quality

You should NOT buy the Pure Wand Stainless Steel if you...

  • have very thin or weak wrists (it's 1.5 lbs)

Product description

Made from sleek, stainless steel, the Pure Wand not only looks good enough to hang on your wall, but it works so well you’d think it was engineered by NASA themselves. It’s been out a few years now and it’s already got itself quite the fan-club. And it’s not hard to see why! It’s a great size, sturdily built, with gentle curves that hug your insides and rounded ends designed purely with the aim of getting your legs shaking. On a more practical note, it is compatible with all lubrication types, can hold hot or cold brilliantly for temperature play and is completely non-porous so you can clean and sterile it however you want too (just avoid abrasives or you could damage that shine!)  

Pros

  • Hits your P-spot LIKE.A.DREAM!
  • Works with any lube
  • Easy to wash
  • Works for hot and cold temp-play

Cons

  • quite heavy
  • not the cheapest
Features Pure Wand Stainless Steel
Length9 inches
Insertable length8 inches
Diameter5.5 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsMetal
Remote ControlsNo

Conclusion

This is fast becoming a love-toy of legendary proportions. A real Rolls Royce of a dildo, it hits spots you’d only read about before. Sounds like I am going a bit OTT, doesn’t it? I know. That’s what I thought when I read the reviews before I tried it myself. I’ll leave it there and not spoil any more of the surprise.  *mic drop*

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Tracey Cox Supersex Glass Dildo Set

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You should buy the Supersex Glass Set if you...

  • want to give your ass a treat!
  • like hot or cold play
  • want a pair of toys you can play together
  • like teasing textures and sensual curves...

You should NOT buy the Supersex Glass Set if you...

  • prefer a bit more girth

Product description

Tracey Cox’s Supersex Glass Dildo Set is a beautifully made, amazingly effective piece of equipment. Where shall I start? It looks great and with 7.5inches insertable length and 4.5 around it should be big enough for most but not toooo big for the less-experienced. Smooth, strong and elegantly crafted, it’s contours are built with only one thing in mind: your pleasure! You can heat on up, cool the other down. Use on yourself, your partner or there’s one each. Use whatever lube you want and even stick it in the dishwasher when you’re done. If you like. Little word of warning with these wands: remember to keep a good portion of them outside the body while you are playing. Without the flared base most dildo’s come with it can be easy- and dangerous!- for the whole things to slip up in the heat of the moment! All in all though, the Superglass is a great all-rounder and it comes in at a price that doesn’t break the bank either. What’s not to like?

Pros

  • Elegantly designed
  • Ribbed and tapered for maximum stimulation
  • Works with any lube
  • Clean it however you like

Cons

  • 4.5 diameter not enough for everyone
Features Supersex Glass Set
Length9 inches
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter4.5 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsGlass
Remote ControlsNo

Conclusion

Another real fan favourite.. Tracey Cox knows her sex and what she’s produced here is a dildo that feels every bit as good as it looks. Versatile and just super-effective, if you’ve never used glass before don’t let that put you off. They can be used with whatever lube you have to hand, cleaned however you like and they hit the spot in a way that’s left thousands upon thousands of customers grinning giddily in their wake. Tracey, take a bow!

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Mantric Rechargeable Remote Control Prostate Vibrator

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You should buy the Remote Prostrate Vibrator if you...

  • are a beginner
  • love to hit your p-spot
  • are a fan of vibrating

You should NOT buy the Remote Prostrate Vibrator if you...

  • prefer a bigger toy
  • have thin walls!

Product description

The Remote Prostrate Vibrator’s silky silicone shaft feels fantastic and its big bulbous tip is designed with one thing in mind: hitting your p (or g!) spot! While it goes to work there the textured base massages the perineum. Quite the double-teaming! It has 7 different vibrating settings and a push button wireless remote control for hands-free fun. It requires a water-based lubrication.

Pros

  • Perfect size for beginners
  • Feels great
  • Vibrates with plenty of settings

Cons

  • Noisy
  • Too small for some
Features Remote Prostrate Vibrator
Length5.5 inches
Insertable length4 inches
Diameter4.5 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsSilicone
Remote ControlsYes

Conclusion

It’s feels as sleek as it looks and it’s just a fantastically effective piece of kit. Easy to use and not intimidatingly proportioned, it’s probably best for beginners easing their way into their anal play (so to speak!).

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Lifelike Lover Classic Realistic Dildo 6 Inch

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You should buy the Lifelife Lover 6inch if you...

  • yearn for that realistic feel
  • want to use a harness
  • like the options suction brings

You should NOT buy the Lifelife Lover 6inch if you...

  • prefer a thinner toy

Product description

The Lifelike Lover 6inch looks amazing. The real gold-standard for realistic dildo’s, from the definition on the head and the veins popping along the shaft to the firm balls at the bottom. It has a bendable shaft and some of the strongest suction pads I’ve ever seen, which means you can have it working all kinds of angles! The suction cup makes it a great solo option but it’s compatible with a harness too (you’ll need an O-ring 1.5 inches diameter).  

Pros

  • The most realistic looking dildo there is!
  • Fantastic suction cup
  • Feels great

Cons

  • Tip is pretty firm
Features Lifelife Lover 6inch
Length6 inches
Insertable length5 inches
Diameter5 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsSoft plastic
Remote ControlsNo

Conclusion

Just look at it! What a job they have done recreating that look and feel. I’m pleased to report it’s not just a pretty, er, shaft, but it works every bit as good as you’d hope. My only real gripe was the tip was a bit firm but for the price it comes in at, it’s the pettiest of grievances. I heartily recommend!

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Tracey Cox Supersex Silicone Beaded Anal Prober

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You should buy the Silicone Beaded Anal Prober if you...

  • want to try something a bit different
  • are a beginner to anal play
  • want option to use alone or with a partner

You should NOT buy the Silicone Beaded Anal Prober if you...

  • are expecting it to feel like string of beads
  • want options for vibration/ harness-play

Product description

This is a…unique toy, trying to bridge the pleasures of a dildo with the sensations of a bead. The silicone beads feel great, graduating in size so they get bigger as you ease it in. The material ensures it is firm but flexible and easy to clean. It’s a toy that’s useful for solo fun or if with a partner. A real plus-point is the finger loop if you decide you want to remove it in a hurry…

Pros

  • great training toy
  • easy to use
  • finger loop is fantastic
  • cheap as chips

Cons

  • Not a dildo
  • Not really beads either!
Features Silicone Beaded Anal Prober
Length8.5 inches
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter3.75 inches
WaterproofSubmersible
MaterialsSilicone
Remote ControlsNo

Conclusion

The Silicone Beaded Anal Prober suffers a bit from falling between two stools. The design and the graduating beads that make it’s sensations so unique also disappoint a little if you want a feeling of a dildo or the sensation of beads. So that’s what it isn’t. What is, though, is something a bit different. Easy to use, sized and shaped for a beginner, it’s a lot of fun whether you’re on your own or with a partner. And the finger-loop makes for some explosive orgasm’s if you time it’s removal juuuuust right! 😀 At the same price of a cheap bottle of wine you afford to take a risk and see for yourself anyway.

Lovehoney Curved Silicone Suction Cup Dildo

Hollow strap-on dildo's

Fetish Fantasy Unisex Extreme Hollow Strap-On Dildo 8 Inch

Fetish Fantasy Unisex Extreme Hollow Strap-On Dildo 8 Inch - Hollow strap-on dildo's
The Fantasy Unisex Hollow strap-on has a hollow shaft so it can be used by either sex. It has a meaty 8 inches of insertable length and 7 inches around so you’ll need to make sure you’re not too shy with the lube! The faux-leather adjustable harness is adjustable too from 16-56 inches.

Fetish Fantasy Ejaculating Hollow Strap-On 7.5 Inch

Fetish Fantasy Ejaculating Hollow Strap-On 7.5 Inch - Hollow strap-on dildo's
Lets start with the vitals: it has 7.5 inches insertable length and the shaft measures 6.25 around so it’s a good size for most. Maybe on the big side for newbies. The adjustable harness fits from 30 to 52 inches. But lets be honest, if you are plumping for this it’s because of its’ not-so-sectret weapon: the special tip, which you can fill up with some creamy cum-style liquid lube to finish with an authentic money-shot of your own! Just give it a squeeze and squirt it wherever feels right!

Packer Gear Soft Hollow Silicone STP Packer 4 Inch

Packer Gear Soft Hollow Silicone STP Packer 4 Inch - Hollow strap-on dildo's
The Silicone STP Packer is ultra-soft with an authentic-feeling head and balls. It has 3.5 inches of internal length and a wide opening area to accommodate all a range of sizes. Fitting snugly into a 1.5inch o-ring, it’s compatible for most brief and boxer style-harnesses.

Big dildo's for men

Doc Johnson American Bombshell B-7 Torpedo Large Dildo

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The Doc Johnson Bombshell is 6 inches insertable length and 6.75 (!) around so you better be ready for it! The PVC material gives it a nice firm feel and the bulging head feels fantastic. It’s compatible with Vac-U-Lock plugs and harnesses if you fancy a bit of handsfree fun too.

Lovehoney Realistic Textured Sensual Glass Dildo with Balls

Lovehoney Realistic Textured Sensual Glass Dildo with Balls - Big dildo's for men
This realistic glass dildo has a beautifully-textured shaft as well as a head thats shaped especially to massage your p (or g) spot. The glass can be heated or cooled too if you want to add a little temperature play into the mix.

Doc Johnson Belladonna's Bitch Fist Realistic Fisting Dildo

Doc Johnson Belladonna's Bitch Fist Realistic Fisting Dildo - Big dildo's for men
This was molded from the famous porn-stars very fist, right down to the lifelike details on the fingers and knuckles. You can feel every bump! It’s made with Sil-A-Gel which is firm but still nice and flexible (thank god!) and it’s also latex-free, odourless and anti-bacterial. All you need is a big glass of wine and an industrial-size tub of lube.

How to use a dildo for men

Our own Edwina wrote a great piece that will talk you through the do’s and don’t of using a dildo for men… <a title="How to use a dildo for men" href="https://bedbible.com/how-to-use-a-dildo-for-men/">How to use a dildo for men</a>

Solo play

Solo play

Many dildo’s have a strong suction cup that you can attach to the shower wall or, well, wherever takes your fancy so you don’t have to wait for a partner to start the fun!

Couples fun

Couples fun

Whether using their hands or strapping on the harness, dildo’s bring a lot of fun to the party for both of you!

Internal stimulation

Internal stimulation

Dildo’s have came a long way (that wasn’t my best choice of words) since the old 70’s-style chunks of metal and plastic. As well as the internal stimulation these days they can massage the clitoris, the p-spot, the g-spot. They’ll even do the dishes if you ask them nice enough.

BDSM/ power-play

BDSM/ power-play

Dildo’s are a great way to spice up your roles in the bedroom, try out a new dynamic and give you a chance to see where your fantasies take you. Just be sure to pick a safe Word you won’t forget!

How to clean a dildo for men

You should clean your toy after every use to stop bacteria from collecting- a bit of a mood-killer, yes, but hopefully you have nice spring in your step by that stage! How you do this will depend upon which material it was made from: the graphic below will walk you through the details. Finally, remember to dry and store your toys properly too when you have finished. Use the original packaging, get a plastic container or there are even satin sacks on the market for such an occasion. If you want the relationship with your new favourite sex toy to last the distance, you have to put in the effort!

It is important to know how to clean your his and hers strap-on

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FAQ

Dildo's are perfectly safe so long as pre-cautions are taken with lubrication and sterilising of the toys afterwards (to ward off threats of infection, irritation and inflammation).

There's no hard and fast rules here. Cheaper one's are normally made with a porous plastic that will start to soak up bacteria after a few uses and start to smell, so they *usually* need replacing sooner than those made with more robust, non-porous materials. But even these you are advised to switch every so often But a dildo that is not over-used, cleaned and stored regularly can certainly last several years. If you see any warping, discolouration or signs of wear and tear, then you know it's time to change.

Water-based lubes are generally the best for toys, however this depends too on the material used to make the toy: the instructions that come with it will specify.

What is a dildo for men?

Dildo's are used for sexual penetration or other sexual activity during masturbation or with sex partners, providing internal stimulation to the vagina and anus. Many are textured to either replicate the look of a real penis and/or improve their stimulation of the G-spot and P-spot.

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