5 Best Handcuffs for Sex and Bondage
Even as someone with a lot of BDSM experience, handcuffs are still a staple in my bondage toolkit! And the great thing is, you only really need one great pair! I’ve selected the best handcuffs we’ve reviewed here at Bedbible for this review, making to sure include some beginner-friendly cuffs as well as some more secure ones!
Test Winner5.0  Overall Rating 5.0/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 User Ratings: 4.9/5 Based on 20 user reviews | Best for Beginners4.7 Overall Rating 4.7/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.7/5 Reviewed by: Rachel WorthingtonUser Ratings: 4.7/5 Based on 44 user reviews | Budget-Friendly4.8 | Best Metal Cuffs4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4/5 Reviewed by: Kasia HalinowskaUser Ratings: 4.6/5 Based on 77 user reviews | Best Door Cuffs4.0 Overall Rating 4.0/5 Bedbible Rating: 4/5 Reviewed by: Cassie MørchUser Ratings: 4.0/5 Based on 3 user reviews |
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If you are looking for…
- The most secure handcuffs, I recommend the Bondage Boutique Soft Leather Handcuffs as they have a buckle fastening.
- Handcuffs to attach to other restraints, you should look for cuffs with D-rings, like the Bondage Boutique Soft Leather Handcuffs or the Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs.
- The best cuffs for travelling, the Quickie Cuffs are the best option.
- Handcuffs for standing bondage, I recommend the Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs.
Test Winner Bondage Boutique Soft Leather Handcuffs
Overall Rating
5.0/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Peter WenhamUser Ratings:
4.9/5
Based on 20 user reviews
Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Leather Handcuffs was rated 99 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Handcuff For Sex.
Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Leather Handcuffs was rated 99 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Leather Handcuffs was rated 99 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Leather Handcuffs was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest this if you're progressing beyond the basics; it’s straightforward but adds useful features.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Adjustable leather cuffs
- Buckle fastening
- Double ended lobster clasp D-rings
Pros
- ✅ Great quality materials
- ✅ Secure
- ✅ Comfortable to wear
Cons
- ❌ Leather feels stiff at first
- ❌ Needs other ropes/clips to attach to other points
Why I Chose It
I love these Leather Handcuffs from Bondage Boutique! They look the part, they play the part and they are just an all-round solid pair of handcuffs!
Peter and his partner tested them for us and gave them a perfect score of 5/5! They loved that the cuffs had a “a nice comfy fit and feel” and that the leather and metal design gives them “a luxurious look and finish.” They did note that the leather feels “slightly stiff” but “softens up with time,” and this is totally normal in my experience!
They were pleasantly surprised by the low price considering the “quality of the product is high and the materials used are not a cheap.”
Although the cuffs only come with one double ended clip, the D-rings mean you can attach your own restraints, and Peter found they worked well with his spreader bar.
As these cuff fasten with a buckle, I would go for them as my first set of restraints, but I would love a pair for more heavy duty bondage!
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Best for Beginners Quickie Cuffs Super-Strong Medium Silicone Restraints
Overall Rating
4.7/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.7/5
Reviewed by:
Rachel WorthingtonUser Ratings:
4.7/5
Based on 44 user reviews
Rating: Quickie Cuffs Super-Strong Medium Silicone Restraints was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Handcuff For Sex.
Rating: Quickie Cuffs Super-Strong Medium Silicone Restraints was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Quickie Cuffs Super-Strong Medium Silicone Restraints was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Quickie Cuffs Super-Strong Medium Silicone Restraints was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other Handcuffs For Sex.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Silicone cuffs with light stretch
- Available in 2 different sizes
Pros
- ✅ Super easy to use
- ✅ Comfortable
- ✅ Easy to get on and off
- ✅ Travel friendly
Cons
- ❌ Not very secure
- ❌ No way to attach to other restraints
Why I Chose It
I think the Quickie Cuffs are a very simple but pretty smart design that’s just perfect for beginners! I know it can feel pretty scary to have your hands locked up, but with these, you can experience the thrill of restraint while still being able to escape!
Our tester, Rachel, was a bondage newbie when she tried reviewed the Quickie Cuffs and “ended up liking [them] way more than [she] was expecting to.” Her and her partner really liked that they were “easy and approachable.”
When I first saw them, I thought they would be too stretchy to provide satisfying restraint, but Rachel discovered that they “don’t have a lot of stretch to them, so […] you can tell they’re not going to fall off.”
While I wouldn’t use these for every day bondage because I prefer something a little more secure, I could see myself throwing them in a bag for some fun on vacation!
The only downside Rachel came across was there wasn’t an easy way to attach the cuffs to other restraint points.
Budget-Friendly Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs
Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Handcuff For Sex.
Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Bondage Boutique Soft Handcuffs was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other Handcuffs For Sex.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest this if you're progressing beyond the basics; it’s straightforward but adds useful features.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Velcro fastening
- Neoprene lining
- Swivel clips
Pros
- ✅ Easy to put on
- ✅ Soft and comfortable
- ✅ Velcro is completely adjustable
Cons
- ❌ Not for heavy-duty use
- ❌ Not sure secure
Why I Chose It
I like that you don’t need to spend a lot to get a really decent set of handcuffs that will get the job done! I think these soft cuffs from Bondage Boutique are going to satisfy most needs and are a real steal at well under $20!
Edie, who’s got more than 30 years of sex toy experience under belt, tried them out and gave them her seal of approval! She loved that they were “comfortable, breathable, and don’t leave any bruises or marks on [her] wrist.”
As they are velcro, I would recommend these to anyone looking for their first pair of handcuffs, but Edie also found they were “surprisingly secure” even when “pulling, wiggling and struggling.”
Another nice feature is that the metal clips “swivel so they don’t get stuck.”
In my experience with these kinds of cuffs, they aren’t as durable as stronger materials like leather or metal, so they aren’t good for hardcore bondage, however, they are great for light bondage and occasional use.
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Best Metal Cuffs Fifty Shades of Grey You. Are. Mine. Metal Handcuffs
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4/5
Reviewed by:
Kasia HalinowskaUser Ratings:
4.6/5
Based on 77 user reviews
Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey You. Are. Mine. Metal Handcuffs was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Handcuff For Sex.
Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey You. Are. Mine. Metal Handcuffs was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey You. Are. Mine. Metal Handcuffs was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey You. Are. Mine. Metal Handcuffs was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest this if you're progressing beyond the basics; it’s straightforward but adds useful features.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Adjustable metal cuffs
- Lockable
- Quick release lever
Pros
- ✅ Strong
- ✅ 2 keys included
- ✅ Comes with satin storage bag
Cons
- ❌ Metal can be uncomfortable
- ❌ Could be too small for bigger wrists
- ❌ Can't be attached to another restraint point
Why I Chose It
I think metal handcuffs like these are the quintessential sexy handcuffs that spring to mind for many people. They aren’t as comfy and maybe not quite as versatile as separate cuffs but they do have a very naughty vibe to them! On top of that, the cold metal can add an extra thrill as it hits your skin, helping to set the mood!
Kasia tried them out with her partner and thought the overall “quality is great,” especially for “those new to bondage [or] roleplaying.”
She found that “they are lightweight, easy to adjust, and the lock works smoothly” but she did find herself wanting “something weighty, sturdy, and more serious.” With that in mind, I wouldn’t choose these for more intense bondage but instead as a fun accessory for a particular look.
Kasia, did “really like the shiny silver look with the Fifty Shades of Grey branding engraved” that was a nice change from the usual black leather or fabric cuffs.
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Best Door Cuffs Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs
Overall Rating
4.0/5
Bedbible Rating:
4/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
4.0/5
Based on 3 user reviews
Rating: Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Handcuff For Sex.
Rating: Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Sportsheets Door Jam Cuffs was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Velcro cuffs
- Plastic bar secures behind closed door
Pros
- ✅ Travel-friendly
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Comfortable
- ✅ Compatible with all doors
Cons
- ❌ Straps are not adjustable in length
- ❌ Cuffs aren't removable for independent use
- ❌ Not the strongest materials
Why I Chose It
I love getting creative with bondage positions so wanted to include some handcuffs for sex that moved beyond the bed, while still being super accessible! I love just how easy these cuffs are to use and that they can be use with any closing door.
Cassie and her partner had fun trying them out and she loved having “a much more versatile playground at [her] disposal.” She even discovered that they “can even be used under the door to secure your ankles” for even more ways to play!
She also appreciated that they are “super affordable, very easy to use, ideal for bringing with you on the go.” She was a little concerned that they don’t feel the highest quality but found that “during use they actually are quite durable” and that the “velboa fabric feels super soft on the skin.”
The main drawback in these cuffs is that you can’t adjust the length of the restraint, so while they will fit most people and doors, if you are particularly tall or short or have very high doors, I recommend measuring to make sure they will work.
Comparison
| Best | Test Winner | Best for Beginners | Budget-Friendly | Best Metal Cuffs | Best Door Cuffs |
| Overall score | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.9 / 5.0 from 20 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 44 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 112 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 77 users | 4 / 5.0 from 3 users |
| Price | Affordable | Cheap | Cheap | Affordable | Affordable |
| Design | 99 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 99 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 |
| Quality | 99 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 70 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - |
| Length | 12.5 inches | 7.7 inches | 12 inches | 10.5 inches | Strap: 8.5 inches |
| Materials | Leather | Silicone | Neoprene, Velcro, Velour, Metal | Metal | Velboa fabric, polypropylene webbing, nickel-free metal hardware, and plastic |
| Fastening | Buckle | N/A | Velcro | Lock and key | Velcro |
| Adjustable | Cuffs: 5.5-9.25 inches | No | Cuffs: 5-10 inches | Yes | No |
Make Your Own Handcuffs
If you are in a bind (pun intended), you can always make your own handcuffs using some bondage tape or bondage rope.
Lovehoney Black Bondage Tape
Bondage Tape is fantastic for bondage on the go and super versatile! You can make a quick set of handcuffs in seconds!
The Lovehoney Black Bondage Tape only adheres to itself so it’s secure but won’t harm you skin! You get 20 meters to play with and it’s reusable!
Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope
Bondage rope takes a little more practice than bondage tape but looks and feels fantastic! Handcuffs are one of the easier, beginner-friendly bondage rope ties.
The Bondage Boutique Soft Bondage Rope is made of soft cotton and is 10 meters long.
Different Types of Handcuffs
Not sure which sexy handcuffs are the ones for you?
Here are the different types and what they are good for!
- Silicone handcuffs — These handcuffs are two silicone loops that are joined in the middle and stretch over your wrists. They are easy to remove yourself, making them perfect for beginners.
- Silk handcuffs — These soft handcuffs slip over your wrist and can be used to tie your partner to the bed, a chair or other restraint points.
- Velcro handcuffs — Velcro fastening cuffs makes it easy to get exactly the right fit, and they are easy to get on and off. Velcro restraints are also easy to escape so are best for beginners or light bondage.
- Metal handcuffs — These are more like the traditional police cuffs and tend to have a lock mechanism and quick release lever. They are more uncomfortable than fabric or rope cuffs as the metal can dig in to your wrists.
- Fuzzy Handcuffs — These are the same as metal cuffs with the addition of a faux fur sleeve that wraps around the cuff.
- Buckle Fastening Handcuffs — Cuffs with buckles are better suited to more experienced bondage players as they are much more difficult to get out of.
- Rope — Rope cuffs can be pre-made or you can make your own using bondage rope.
What to Consider
Bondage cuffs themselves are fairly straightforward items, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t a few things you should consider before deciding on a set. Keep these specifications in mind while searching so you can get the perfect cuffs for you the first time!
- Size – Many bondage cuffs are adjustable, but that doesn’t mean they’ll fit everyone. You should make sure your wrists will fit into the cuffs by measuring them and comparing your measurements to the manufacturer’s specifications. If you’re planning on using cuffs on your ankles then you’ll want to measure those as well. Although it’s possible to find a pair that will fit both, you might find having two pairs is more exciting!
- Material – This comes down to personal preference. Remember, the material you choose will be restraining your wrists so if you prefer a more “gentle” experience, metal might not be the best choice. Fortunately, there are plenty of softer materials like silicone, leather, or faux leather to choose from! The material used will also control the amount of “give” your cuffs have so it’s definitely a factor putting some thought into.
- Fastening – How rough are you planning to be in these cuffs? If you’re mainly planning on using them for some light bondage with your partner then stretchy silicone cuffs could be a suitable option. For a more secure fit, velcro straps or ropes are an option. However, if you want to be unable to remove the cuffs yourself, we’d recommend considering cuffs with belt-style straps or metal handcuffs. If you want the look & feel of handcuffs without the inability to remove them yourself (or if you’re worried about your partner losing the key!), don’t worry: most BDSM handcuffs have a safety lever!
- Lockable – As we mentioned above, most bondage handcuffs have a safety lever that can be used in case you lose the key or want to remove the cuffs yourself. For some people, the ability to remove the cuffs themselves might take away from the experience. If that’s the case, you may need to look for “professional grade” handcuffs. That said, bear in mind that “real” handcuffs won’t be removable without a key, which means you cannot lose the keys!
Reviewed by:
Peter Wenham