13 Best BDSM Spreader Bars for Bondage and Restraint

Sarah Williams
by Sarah WilliamsUpdated:

This is my comprehensive ranking of the 13 best BDSM spreader bars available! A spreader bar is in fact a very simply bondage device – simply a bar to keep things held wide open. Thus, I’ve used a lot of time testing the most minute details! Some spreader bars come with a few additional features, and I’ve included all the different versions in this ranking.

Test-winner4.3Bondage Boutique expandable spreader bar rating 4.3
Runner Up4.9Sportsheets Spreader Bar rating 4.9
Beginners4.2Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Spreader rating 4.2
Cheapest4.5Sportsheets spreader bar  rating 4.5
Thigh Spreader4.0Purple Reins thigh spreader bar rating 4.0
Inflatable4.2Dominix inflatable spreader bar rating 4.2
Real Leather4.6Stockroom Thigh Spreader Bar rating 4.6
Adjustable4.5Bondage Boutique expandable spreader bar rating 4.5
Luxury4.8XR Brands Master Series spreader bar rating 4.8
Metal cuffs4.5Sportsheets wrist spreader bar  rating 4.5
Bondage set4.7Fetish Fantasy spreader bar and handcuff set rating 4.7
Under mattress4.5Dominix under-mattress cuff set rating 4.5
4.8Fifty shades faux leather spreader bar rating 4.8
Bondage Boutique expandable spreader barSportsheets Spreader BarSportsheets Saffron Thigh SpreaderSportsheets spreader bar Purple Reins thigh spreader barDominix inflatable spreader barStockroom Thigh Spreader BarBondage Boutique expandable spreader barXR Brands Master Series spreader barSportsheets wrist spreader bar Fetish Fantasy spreader bar and handcuff setDominix under-mattress cuff setFifty shades faux leather spreader bar
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  • full 180° ankle cuff rotation
  • 4 padlocks
  • 8 keys
  • padlocks can be time-consuming
  • static wrist cuffs
  • spreader bar may not be strong enough
  • Sturdy construction and high-quality materials
  • Comfortable, detachable cuffs for versatile use
  • Can be used in multiple restraint positions
  • Vegan-friendly design
  • Cuffs may feel stiff initially
  • Color scheme might not appeal to everyone
  • May not accommodate all body sizes
  • Easy to use during penetrative sex
  • Neck rest supports head
  • Can be used around thighs, legs, or feet
  • D-rings neck rest for hand cuffs
  • Fully adjustable straps
  • Might not be suitable for more advanced bondage
  • Not lockable
  • Straps can slip mid session
  • It gets sticky on thighs/neck
  • cheap and cheerful
  • 16-inch spread width
  • no-frills fun
  • not adjustable
  • only Velcro fastenings
  • simple construction
  • simple construction
  • cheap as chips
  • strong and effective
  • bar not adjustable
  • cuffs not suitable for all sizes
  • rough material
  • fully deflatable
  • huge spread width
  • cute balloon shape
  • it's not really a spreader bar
  • the bar length isn't adjustable
  • the balloon can bend and twist
  • Can withstand heavy duty play
  • Lockable
  • Swivel mounted cuffs
  • Eye bolts to add more restraints
  • Locks are needed but not included
  • completely adjustable
  • 2 padlocks
  • 4 keys
  • it's hard to think of any
  • not cruelty-free
  • honestly, this is a bargain
  • beautiful construction
  • detachable spreader bar
  • luxury leather cuffs
  • not suitable for vegans
  • stiff metal bars
  • you might love it too much
  • sexy, cool metal
  • high-quality locking handcuffs
  • 14" spreader bar
  • length is not adjustable
  • static wrist cuffs
  • unyielding metal
  • detachable central strap
  • fully adjustable in every way
  • four O-rings
  • straps may not be robust enough
  • only Velcro fastenings
  • honestly, though, it's a great set!
  • super sturdy straps
  • strong leather cuffs
  • 9-hole buckle fastening cuffs
  • only suitable for use with beds
  • neoprene can irritate some skin
  • that you didn't buy it sooner
  • luxury faux leather
  • beautiful gold accents
  • four clips
  • 50 shades is slightly problematic
  • not useable without further purchases
  • only 20" spreader bar

Testing the best BDSM spreader bars

Testing the BDSM spreader bars for this review is not the easiest thing in the world, but with our team of amazing sex toy testers and an army of freaky freelancers out there, we made it look like a piece of cake! Great to use alongside BDSM furniture, spreader bars offer a whole range of sexy options. We looked at all aspects of the BDSM spreader bars, and highlighted not only the positives but the negatives in order for you to get an honest and unbiased review.

We combine expert knowledge, customer reviews, and first-hand testing from our sex toy testers to you a balanced and reliable view of each product, so you know exactly what you are buying!

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What to consider when buying a BDSM spreader bar

If you’re thinking about buying a BDSM spreader bar then you’re going to want to think about a few different things.

  • Fixed or expandable – With fixed ones you’re tied to a certain width (no pun intended), but with expandable ones you can change and customize the experience.
  • Does it come with cuffs – Some BDSM spreader bars require you to buy additional cuffs to help you use them. This is different from product to product.
  • How many o-rings – Depending on which spreader bar you get, it might contain a different amount of O rings. That is, rings that you can strap lets/wrists etc.
  • How secure are the restraints – You don’t want your sub slipping free, right? Making sure the BDSM spreader bar restraints are firm and won’t become loose or broken is essential.
  • Comfort – As much as you want to have all kinds of naughty fun, it’s important that whoever is wearing the spreader bar is comfortable.

Spreader bar vs Bed restraints

There are two main camps when it comes to getting awesome access to the fun bits on the body: those that love spreader bars, and those that love bed restraints.

We’re going to take a little look at the two and weigh up the pros and cons of each!

  • Spreader bar – They are easy to be used, can be used anywhere, and require no additional apparatus to get them to work. One issue that you might have with spreader bars is that the bar itself may get in the way when you’re getting down to it! That can be quite the annoyance!
  • Bed restraints – Strap your partner to the bed with these kinds of restraints. Sexual straps are great if you have an actual bed to strap them to. They are a little fiddly to get tight enough and get your partner in the right position, but it offers unobstructed access to whatever you want!

Keep reading to find out why BDSM spreader bars are an incredible sex accessory.

Start spreading the word, not just your legs!

Reviews of the 13 best bdsm spreader bars

Test-winner Bondage Boutique Extreme Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.1/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Williams

User Ratings:

4.5/5.0

Based on 43 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Bondage Boutique Extreme Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm spreader bar .

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Bondage Boutique Extreme Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Bondage Boutique Extreme Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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Rating: Bondage Boutique Extreme Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Bondage Boutique Extreme Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs

Bondage Boutique’s extreme spreader bar is the perfect tool for a little bit of loving ‘cruelty’ in your BDSM play! With an ankle spreader bar that expands from 18 to 26 inches, you can expose your partner just a little bit or really put the blush on things with a full Monty style spread.

The cuffs in between really allow for a full ‘southern exposure’ and uninhibited play with your partner’s body, particularly when locked and the keys taken away. If giving up (or receiving) power is your bag, this BDSM spreader bar is right up your street.

The wrist cuffs are static, which is one downside to the construction, but you can always play around with restraints tied to the bars if need be. The really fab thing is that the ankle restraints allow for a full 180 degree rotation – just think of the sexy scenarios!

Pros

  • full 180° ankle cuff rotation
  • 4 padlocks
  • 8 keys

Cons

  • padlocks can be time-consuming
  • static wrist cuffs
  • spreader bar may not be strong enough

My verdict

Based on some of the reviews, you may want to think twice before splashing out on a spreader bar some describe as difficult (locks) and not as durable as they’d like. However, most users have reported a sturdy construction and really fun play-time with this leg spreader bar, depending upon how far the bar is spread. With the holiday season coming up, this is probably one to add to your wishlist!

Buy, if you...

  1. are ready to spread 'em!
  2. want to take your kink play up a level
  3. love the idea of exposure kinks

Don't buy, if you...

  1. don't want to buy real leather
  2. are daunted by time-consuming locking and unlocking
  3. hate fiddly devices
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Runner Up Sportsheets Spreader Bar

4.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

5.0/5.0

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Spreader Bar was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm spreader bar .

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Spreader Bar was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Spreader Bar was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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Rating: Sportsheets Spreader Bar was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Sportsheets Spreader Bar

The Sportsheets Spreader Bar is a BDSM toy featuring a sturdy metal bar with detachable, padded vegan leather cuffs in a signature red and black design, suitable for various restraint positions.

Pros

  • Sturdy construction and high-quality materials
  • Comfortable, detachable cuffs for versatile use
  • Can be used in multiple restraint positions
  • Vegan-friendly design

Cons

  • Cuffs may feel stiff initially
  • Color scheme might not appeal to everyone
  • May not accommodate all body sizes

My verdict

In my opinion, the Sportsheets Spreader Bar is an excellent choice for both beginners and advanced users in the world of BDSM. Its sturdy construction, ease of use, and versatility make it a great investment for enhancing bondage play. The detachable and comfortable cuffs offer creative positioning options, making it a suitable tool for a variety of scenarios. However, if your preference leans towards real leather or more customizable spreader bars, this might not be the ideal product for you. Overall, it’s a well-made, high-quality product that’s worth considering for adding an intense and exciting element to your play.

Buy, if you...

  1. Are exploring intense restraint play
  2. Need a versatile bondage tool
  3. Prefer vegan leather over real leather
  4. Favor buckles to velcro for fastening

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Are specifically seeking real leather cuffs
  2. Want an extendable or adjustable spreader bar
  3. Prefer a spreader bar that is lockable

Beginners Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Spreader Sling

4.3/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Mariah Lyons

User Ratings:

4.5/5.0

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Spreader Sling was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm spreader bar .

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Spreader Sling was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Spreader Sling was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Spreader Sling was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Spreader Sling

Let the Saffron Thigh Sling from Sportsheets keep your legs exactly where you want them, while you lie back and enjoy they fun!

The red vegan leather neck strap is padded to add some comfortable support, while the two stirrups can be used to support your thighs, lower legs or feet.

Both the main straps and stirrups are adjustable, so you can get the right fit in a range of positions. The neck support has also got two D-rings to make it even more easy to attach wrist restrains or what else you might want to secure.

Pros

  • Easy to use during penetrative sex
  • Neck rest supports head
  • Can be used around thighs, legs, or feet
  • D-rings neck rest for hand cuffs
  • Fully adjustable straps

Cons

  • Might not be suitable for more advanced bondage
  • Not lockable
  • Straps can slip mid session
  • It gets sticky on thighs/neck

My verdict

This is a great thigh sling that both looks the part and performs well. The padded neck rest makes it comfortable to lie back on and stops the sling from pulling too much on your neck. It’s also nice and easy to adjust. While it doesn’t have a fixed spreader bar, it is more versatile in the ways you can use it! You also have the opportunity to attach your own handcuffs to restrain your partner’s wrists to the collar. This sling is best suited to light to moderate bondage.

Buy, if you...

  1. want to explore thigh and leg restraint
  2. prefer the sling style
  3. want to use it during penetrative sex
  4. Want deeper penetration
  5. Have mobility issues
  6. Want the option for hands free positions

Don't buy, if you...

  1. want lockable cuffs
  2. Have neck issues
  3. Want a more rigid positioning device
  4. Don't enjoy the leather feel

Cheapest Sportsheets Spreader Bar with Cuffs

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Williams

User Ratings:

4.6/5.0

Based on 15 user reviews

50/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Spreader Bar with Cuffs was rated 50 out of 100, which means it is designed well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm spreader bar .

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Spreader Bar with Cuffs was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

50/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Spreader Bar with Cuffs was rated 50 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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Rating: Sportsheets Spreader Bar with Cuffs was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other bdsm spreader bars.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Sportsheets Spreader Bar with Cuffs

If you want to quickly get down and dirty with your sex spreader bar, Sportsheets has you covered – well, exposed, to be honest. With a no-nonsense, no-frills approach, this handy little restraint bar will have you and your partner arguing about who gets to be restrained first! The neoprene and Velcro cuffs are simple to use, making this BDSM spreader bar perfect for first-timers or old-timers who want it fast and dirty. There are two stiff metal spreader bars inside the neoprene case, so this is not for people who want a flexible hold on their bondage gear.

Pros

  • cheap and cheerful
  • 16-inch spread width
  • no-frills fun

Cons

  • not adjustable
  • only Velcro fastenings
  • simple construction

My verdict

For the low price, you need to get involved, bent over, tied up and shagged rotten with Sportsheets’ lovely, simple approach to bondage and exposure! There are no frills and no time like the present on this straightforward bondage bar. The best thing about is is the simple construction and that it doesn’t take very long to get into or out of. Perfect for the super horny pair who can’t wait any longer.

Buy, if you...

  1. want to engage in simple bondage and spreadage
  2. love a no-frills look
  3. are into saving money

Don't buy, if you...

  1. want secure fastenings
  2. have particular spreader bar needs
  3. fancy adjustability

Thigh Spreader Purple Reins 12-Inch Thigh Spreader Bar

4.0/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.0/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Williams

User Ratings:

4.1/5.0

Based on 16 user reviews

70/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Purple Reins 12-Inch Thigh Spreader Bar was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm spreader bar .

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Purple Reins 12-Inch Thigh Spreader Bar was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

60/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Purple Reins 12-Inch Thigh Spreader Bar was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Cheap

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Rating: Purple Reins 12-Inch Thigh Spreader Bar was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other bdsm spreader bars.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Purple Reins 12-Inch Thigh Spreader Bar

Purple Reins is a wonderful company, simply for the fact that they got a punny reference to a Prince song into their company name – and who doesn’t love bondage-related puns! The company has released this handy dandy little contraption that forces you to keep your thighs open for business all. night. long. Just like Lionel Richie.

Crafted from sturdy purple nylon with a small, 12-inch spreader bar in between the cuffs, this is perfect for beginners or for more advanced users who don’t want all the fuss and drama of typical BDSM equipment. Plus, it’s insanely cheap!

Pros

  • simple construction
  • cheap as chips
  • strong and effective

Cons

  • bar not adjustable
  • cuffs not suitable for all sizes
  • rough material

My verdict

With such a low price, this is egalitarian bondage gear at its finest! You can literally spread the love with this inexpensive, yet high-quality piece of BDSM kit. It’s particularly wonderful for couples or groups who have a wide variety of wrist and ankle sizes, as it’s just adjustable. There really isn’t anything to complain about here. Happy spanking!

Buy, if you...

  1. love purple restraints
  2. are a sucker for a good pun
  3. want a simple spreader bar

Don't buy, if you...

  1. want wrist restraints
  2. desire lots of configurations
  3. hate puns
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Inflatable Dominix Deluxe Inflatable Spreader Bar, Cuff and Blindfold Set

4.2/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.2/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

3.9/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Williams

User Ratings:

4.5/5.0

Based on user reviews

70/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Dominix Deluxe Inflatable Spreader Bar, Cuff and Blindfold Set was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm spreader bar .

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Dominix Deluxe Inflatable Spreader Bar, Cuff and Blindfold Set was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

70/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Dominix Deluxe Inflatable Spreader Bar, Cuff and Blindfold Set was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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Rating: Dominix Deluxe Inflatable Spreader Bar, Cuff and Blindfold Set was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

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IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Dominix Deluxe Inflatable Spreader Bar, Cuff and Blindfold Set

A fun alternative to a metal sex spreader bar, this fun little gadget inflates to a whopping 29 inches – an extreme spread width, not for the faint of heart. Lacking any metal in the bar at all, your partner’s legs are kept apart by this cute little bondage ‘balloon’! The plastic inflatable ‘bar’ is encased in soft velvet for a luxury feel. Fully deflatable and compact, this is the perfect little BDSM travel gadget! Assisted adorably by matching cuffs and a blindfold (or sleeping mask, depending on your proclivities), this baby sports an O-ring on each cuff.

Pros

  • fully deflatable
  • huge spread width
  • cute balloon shape

Cons

  • it's not really a spreader bar
  • the bar length isn't adjustable
  • the balloon can bend and twist

My verdict

With the price tag the same as other spreader bars with a higher quality of material and construction, this may not be the main item you use for your “stop and spread ’em” activities. However, for travel and for gentle, no-metal-included spreading BDSM play, it may be just the ticket! Particularly if you and your partner are often on the road, or want to transport between your home and theirs, this is ideal.

Buy, if you...

  1. want a fold-away spreader bar
  2. love blowing things
  3. want a BDSM lite spreader

Don't buy, if you...

  1. want an intense spreader
  2. want to keep your sub's legs apart
  3. don't like plastic inflatable things
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Real Leather Stockroom Thigh Spreader Bar

4.6/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Williams

User Ratings:

0/5.0

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Stockroom Thigh Spreader Bar was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm spreader bar .

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Stockroom Thigh Spreader Bar was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Stockroom Thigh Spreader Bar was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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PricePrice

Rating: Stockroom Thigh Spreader Bar was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Stockroom Thigh Spreader Bar

This is a serious thigh spreader that will leave your sub’s legs stretched wide open and ready for your attention!

The bar measures 18 inches across and has adjustable leather cuffs at either end that are secured using padlocks. For even deeper submission, you can attach your own wrist restraints to the eyebolts on the bar.

The thigh cuffs are adjustable from 12.5″-25″ and you can choose between a black or chrome finish.

Pros

  • Can withstand heavy duty play
  • Lockable
  • Swivel mounted cuffs
  • Eye bolts to add more restraints

Cons

  • Locks are needed but not included

My verdict

This is definitely a more advanced spreader bar for someone who knows they love restraint play and are ready to spread wide open. While it’s more expensive than the other options in this review, it’s a very high-quality thigh spreader that’s made by The Stockroom’s leather team in LA. The extra eyelets are also a great addition if you want to restrain your partner’s wrists as well.

Buy, if you...

  1. are looking to invest in a quality thigh spreader
  2. love leather
  3. want a lockable thigh spreader
  4. crave a more intense stretch

Don't buy, if you...

  1. are new to thigh spreaders
  2. are on a budget
  3. can't stretch 18 inches
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Adjustable Bondage Boutique Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.4/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Williams

User Ratings:

4.5/5.0

Based on 37 user reviews

70/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Bondage Boutique Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm spreader bar .

60/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Bondage Boutique Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is somewhat intuitive and easy to use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Bondage Boutique Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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Rating: Bondage Boutique Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

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Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Bondage Boutique Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs

Bondage Boutique’s more cost-effective model of its  is a straightforward, yet sassy solution to your spreader bar woes! Made from high-quality leather, the best thing about this sex spreader is its extreme adjustability. Literally every bit of this can be adjusted, moved or modified, making it perfect for multiple partners and multiple scenarios. Doesn’t matter if you’re rocking a thruple, a his and hers, a hers and hers or a theirs and theirs!

The 2.5 inch high leather cuffs are lined with faux fur so that you’re comfortable while still being as ‘used and abused’ as you want to be. The bar breaks down into three pieces as well, making it perfect for Bondage-Cons, meet-ups and munches.

 

 

Pros

  • completely adjustable
  • 2 padlocks
  • 4 keys

Cons

  • it's hard to think of any
  • not cruelty-free
  • honestly, this is a bargain

My verdict

An easy ‘cheat’ if you can’t afford Bondage Boutique’s full wrist-and-ankle spreader bar is to pick up this one and use your own wrist cuffs! Kink on a budget is still just as fulfilling. Plus, this is a luxury item for half the price. With two padlocks and adjustable lengths plus comfy faux fur, you can’t beat this leg spreader bar. Get spreading!

Buy, if you...

  1. want high quality but low cost
  2. want to spread your 'wings'
  3. love super adjustable gear

Don't buy, if you...

  1. are vegan
  2. want wrist cuffs included
  3. don't want locking cuffs
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Luxury XR Brands Master Series Deluxe Wrist and Ankle Spreader Bar

4.8/5

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Overall Rating

4.8/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Williams

User Ratings:

5.0/5.0

Based on user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: XR Brands Master Series Deluxe Wrist and Ankle Spreader Bar was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm spreader bar .

60/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: XR Brands Master Series Deluxe Wrist and Ankle Spreader Bar was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is somewhat intuitive and easy to use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: XR Brands Master Series Deluxe Wrist and Ankle Spreader Bar was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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Rating: XR Brands Master Series Deluxe Wrist and Ankle Spreader Bar was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the XR Brands Master Series Deluxe Wrist and Ankle Spreader Bar

This beauty is for the bravest of bondage babes! XR Brands has produced another fabulous accoutrement for your BDSM play, this time in the deluxe wrist and ankle spreader bar with matching luxury cuffs. Each part of it is detachable, meaning you can lock up your sub by the wrists, by the ankles, or by both. There are a variety of fun positions to try with this sex spreader and you should definitely collect ’em all.

All four cuffs are crafted from fine leather with soft inners so you don’t cause any (intentional) damage to your precious sub. And the best bit? It comes with a 30-day warranty should your friskiness get a little too frisky.

Pros

  • beautiful construction
  • detachable spreader bar
  • luxury leather cuffs

Cons

  • not suitable for vegans
  • stiff metal bars
  • you might love it too much

My verdict

While it may be on the pricier side of the BDSM accoutrement spectrum, this beautifully constructed, luxury BDSM spreader bar is worth the splurge. Time to tell Santa you’ve been a very good (naughty) boy or girl!

Buy, if you...

  1. want a deluxe spreader bar
  2. desire configurable spreader toys
  3. want a full exposure

Don't buy, if you...

  1. are new to spreader bars
  2. have a tight budget
  3. don't like metal toys

Metal cuffs Sportsheets Bondage Spreader Bar with Metal Cuffs

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Williams

User Ratings:

0/5.0

Based on user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Bondage Spreader Bar with Metal Cuffs was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm spreader bar .

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Bondage Spreader Bar with Metal Cuffs was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Bondage Spreader Bar with Metal Cuffs was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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PricePrice

Rating: Sportsheets Bondage Spreader Bar with Metal Cuffs was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

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Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Sportsheets Bondage Spreader Bar with Metal Cuffs

Oh baby, you’re so metal! This new handcuff spreader bar is the perfect gift for the metal lover in your life. Featuring a 14″ metal bar with handcuffs at each end, this is intended for use on the wrists, but can also be used on smaller ankles (please be careful and don’t twist or bend your ankles if this is how you use it!). The metal is nickel-free, which is great for those with allergies or who find nickel an irritant.

With unyielding metal at your wrists, you’ll love the feeling of giving up full control and being completely at your lover’s mercy with this sexy spreader bar!

Pros

  • sexy, cool metal
  • high-quality locking handcuffs
  • 14" spreader bar

Cons

  • length is not adjustable
  • static wrist cuffs
  • unyielding metal

My verdict

While it may only be a one-trick pony, what a sexy trick it does! This is the back-to-brass-tacks, no-comfort tool for fun roleplaying for all your cop-and-robber fantasies, or just for good old fashioned bondage sex spreader bar use.

Buy, if you...

  1. only want a spreader for wrists
  2. enjoy cop roleplay
  3. are a metal lover

Don't buy, if you...

  1. are allergic to aluminum
  2. have very large or small ankles
  3. want gentle toys

Bondage set Fetish Fantasy 24-Inch Spreader Bar and Handcuff Set

4.7/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Williams

User Ratings:

4.7/5.0

Based on user reviews

60/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fetish Fantasy 24-Inch Spreader Bar and Handcuff Set was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is designed well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm spreader bar .

60/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fetish Fantasy 24-Inch Spreader Bar and Handcuff Set was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is somewhat intuitive and easy to use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

60/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fetish Fantasy 24-Inch Spreader Bar and Handcuff Set was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Premium

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Rating: Fetish Fantasy 24-Inch Spreader Bar and Handcuff Set was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

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BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Fetish Fantasy 24-Inch Spreader Bar and Handcuff Set

The folks at Fetish Fantasy have brought a great toy to kinsters around the world! Featuring a brave 24-inch ankle spreader bar, detachable smaller 10″ bar and enough possibilities, you might not have time to try them all out. The central strap that links the two bars together is adjustable and removable and there are two central O-rings and two end rings as well.

You can literally put your partner in just about any position you desire, making it perfect for sexy people who believe that variety is the spice of a sex life. This sexy set also includes a storage bag with padlock and keys, a detachable collar and a free blindfold. Ding dong!

Pros

  • detachable central strap
  • fully adjustable in every way
  • four O-rings

Cons

  • straps may not be robust enough
  • only Velcro fastenings
  • honestly, though, it's a great set!

My verdict

Despite being a little pricey, this leg spreader bar is so configurable, it could end up being the only one you need! It’s a beautiful item and we just love the connecting bar and four O-rings for lots of additional fun. With the extras (locking storage bag, collar and blindfold) and the incredible variety of ways this can be used, it really is a ‘must-buy’.

Buy, if you...

  1. want a flexible spreader bar
  2. love configurable bondage
  3. want to try different positions

Don't buy, if you...

  1. don't want to buy real leather
  2. are daunted by time-consuming locking and unlocking
  3. don't like neoprene or metal
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Under mattress Dominix Deluxe Adjustable Leather Cuff Under-mattress Set

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Williams

User Ratings:

4.5/5.0

Based on user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Dominix Deluxe Adjustable Leather Cuff Under-mattress Set was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm spreader bar .

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Dominix Deluxe Adjustable Leather Cuff Under-mattress Set was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Dominix Deluxe Adjustable Leather Cuff Under-mattress Set was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: Dominix Deluxe Adjustable Leather Cuff Under-mattress Set was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Dominix Deluxe Adjustable Leather Cuff Under-mattress Set

Any kinkster worth their salt or sugar knows that an under-mattress bondage spreader kit needs to be part of the furniture. If you don’t have one, do you really even BDSM?! This kit from Dominix offers full body or partial restraint, with fully adjustable ankle and wrist cuffs attached to uber firm but flexible neoprene straps.

Simply loop the top and bottom portions around and under your mattress, then belt your partner in by any configuration you want and get ready for the read of your life!

Pros

  • super sturdy straps
  • strong leather cuffs
  • 9-hole buckle fastening cuffs

Cons

  • only suitable for use with beds
  • neoprene can irritate some skin
  • that you didn't buy it sooner

My verdict

If you’re a casual or serious BDSM player, you really do need an under-mattress bondage and spreader kit, so get cracking and order this one! It features really strong, no-breakage neoprene straps, which is perfect for vigorous play and if you want to attempt to get away. It’s long, it’s strong and it’ll help you get the sexual friction on!

Buy, if you...

  1. want an under-mattress bondage set
  2. love a good bed spread
  3. don't want standing positions

Don't buy, if you...

  1. want a firm metal spreader bar
  2. like sex while standing
  3. don't like being comfy
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Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Faux Leather Spreader Bar

4.8/5

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Overall Rating

4.8/5.0

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5.0

Reviewed by: 

Erin Malchoff

User Ratings:

4.8/5.0

Based on user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Faux Leather Spreader Bar was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm spreader bar .

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Faux Leather Spreader Bar was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

85/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Faux Leather Spreader Bar was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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Rating: Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Faux Leather Spreader Bar was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look at the Fifty Shades of Grey Bound to You Faux Leather Spreader Bar

This bondage spreader bar has the luxury look normally reserved for Victorian lamps and medical equipment! While it sadly only comes with the spreader bar and can’t be used for the purpose unless you splash out for the accompanying cuffs, it’s still a beautiful piece of kit. Probably best for beginners and newbies to BDSM, as dedicated kinksters prefer a solid spreader bar that does what it says on the tin.

With beautiful faux leather that looks like the real deal and gorgeous gold accents, this is one for the youngsters and dedicated Fifty Shades of Grey fans. The faux leather is also easy to clean and take care of. It comes with four clips, two on the bottom and two each on the side. You can buy the accompanying cuffs here.

 

 

Pros

  • luxury faux leather
  • beautiful gold accents
  • four clips

Cons

  • 50 shades is slightly problematic
  • not useable without further purchases
  • only 20" spreader bar

My verdict

While the idea of a fan fiction branded bit of BDSM kit probably won’t appeal to most dedicated kinksters, and the price point is pretty high, especially as it doesn’t come with cuffs, this could be good for those new to the world of kink. Particularly if your BDSM is more bodice-ripper, romance novel style!

Buy, if you...

  1. really love fan fiction
  2. don't mind that cuffs aren't included
  3. came to BDSM via fiction

Don't buy, if you...

  1. aren't a mega fan
  2. want a fully useable spreader bar
  3. want to spend frugally
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