5 Best BDSM Whips
I’m a huge fan intense impact play, and I’ve tested quite a few different types of BDSM whips in my day. In this post, I’ve rounded up the best BDSM whips that we’ve tested here at Bedbible. I’ve created an overview over each products’ main upsides and downsides. I’ve also included insights from our testers’ personal experience so you know exactly what kind of sensations you can expect. Let’s dive in!
Test Winner4.8  Overall Rating 4.8/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 User Ratings: 4.6/5 Based on 5 user reviews | Runner-Up4.7 Overall Rating 4.7/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.5/5 Reviewed by: Lea SparksUser Ratings: 4.9/5 Based on 23 user reviews | Cheapest4.9 Overall Rating 4.9/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.8/5 Reviewed by: Cassie MørchUser Ratings: 5.0/5 Based on 7 user reviews | Best Flogger4.4 Overall Rating 4.4/5 Bedbible Rating: 4/5 Reviewed by: Theo KogodUser Ratings: 4.8/5 Based on 10 user reviews | Best Riding Crop4.8 Overall Rating 4.8/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Isabelle UrenUser Ratings: 4.7/5 Based on 143 user reviews |
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How We Test bdsm whips
We’re a team of 324 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best bdsm whips, our testers tried and reviewed 204 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre bdsm whips didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1073 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
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If You’re Looking For…
- The most intense sensation – The Tantus Tawse Small offers incredibly intense sensations if wielded properly!
- The best BDSM whip for beginners – The Sex & Mischief Silicone Tickler is perfect for beginners since it’s lightweight and also works wonderfully for sensation
- The most versatile BDSM whip – The Tantus Tawse Small is by far the most versatile product in this review. Made 100% of silicone, the handle can be used for penetration as well!
- The best faux leather BDSM whip – The Sportsheets Saffron Braided Flogger is made of PU leather and 100% vegan.
Test Winner Tantus Tawse Small
Overall Rating
4.8/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
4.6/5
Based on 5 user reviews
Rating: Tantus Tawse Small was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm whip.
Rating: Tantus Tawse Small was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Tantus Tawse Small was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Tantus Tawse Small was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest this if you're progressing beyond the basics; it’s straightforward but adds useful features.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Classic tawse whip with two tongues
- Made of 100% premium silicone
- Handle can be used for vaginal or anal penetration.
Pros
- ✅ Versatile design
- ✅ Sharp and intense sensations
- ✅ Silicone is 100% body-safe and can be sterilized
- ✅ You can secure your own wrist loop to the handle
Cons
- ❌ Silicone is floppy and tricky to wield at first
- ❌ Less intense than real bull whip
Why I Chose It
I picked out the Tantus Tawse Small as the Test Winner in this review because it is one of the most impressive and intense impact toys I have ever tried. It may look small and slightly innocuous but the dense silicone delivers quite a sting when wielded properly!
For anyone who has not tried a BDSM whip or paddle made of 100% silicone, I can highly recommend it. There’s nothing like it! It doesn’t take much force to get some serious impact. That’s why it also takes a bit of practice to master. The Tantus Tawse Small is a bit floppy and this can be a bit tricky to get used to.
Other than being able to submerge it in water for cleaning or being able to sterilize it completely, I love how the silicone allows you to use this whip for penetration as well. There’s really nothing quite like being penetrated (and pleasured) by the one thing that’s been causing you “harm” during a heated BDSM session.
All in all, this is a fantastic BDSM whip that feels a lot more intimidating than it looks!
Runner-Up DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger
Overall Rating
4.7/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5
Reviewed by:
Lea SparksUser Ratings:
4.9/5
Based on 23 user reviews
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm whip.
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is somewhat intuitive and easy to use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find this best for those with some experience; it offers a well-balanced challenge.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Medium-sized flogger
- Made of genuine leather
- 48 falls.
Pros
- ✅ Durable and longlasting (wth proper care)
- ✅ Comfortably weighted
- ✅ Makes a great sound upon impact
- ✅ Provides varied sensations
Cons
- ❌ Takes a bit of practice to master
- ❌ Pricey
Why I Chose It
The DOMINIX Deluxe Thick Leather Flogger is another great option for anyone who loves some intense lashings. While this is definitely more of a flogger than a whip, I still think it deserved a spot in this review because of its performance.
For our tester, Lea, it wasn’t a perfect fit in terms of size: “I have rather small hands and I personally find it a bit too big and I find the laces a bit too long which doesn’t make it the easiest to handle.” Other than that, she found that it, in general, “is a good quality leather flogger that can deliver some strong impact.”
The slightly weighted leather flogger is definitely well suited for more experienced and even advanced users. Of course, one has to be aware that “because of its size, it requires more distance to be able to target where one wants the impact to land on the body.”
The genuine leather is also a lot more long-lasting and durable compared to a lot of vegan leather alternatives. Although, keep in mind that maintenance is important. Clean and condition the leather once in a while with saddle soap and leather conditioner.
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Cheapest Sex & Mischief Silicone Tickler
Overall Rating
4.9/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
5.0/5
Based on 7 user reviews
Rating: Sex & Mischief Silicone Tickler was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm whip.
Rating: Sex & Mischief Silicone Tickler was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sex & Mischief Silicone Tickler was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Sex & Mischief Silicone Tickler was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other bdsm whips.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Long and slender silicone tickler
- Silicone falls
- Rubber handle
- ABS plastic wand
Pros
- ✅ Affordable and versatile
- ✅ Nice and stingy when used as a whip
- ✅ Soft and smooth when used as a tickler
- ✅ Silicone falls are easy to clean
Cons
- ❌ Quality is a bit lacking
Why I Chose It
Now, for stingy lashings that won’t break the bank, I can highly recommend the Sex & Mischief Silicone Tickler. This is basically a small BDSM whip and a tickler in one. It’s super beginner-friendly, surprisingly versatile, and an affordable alternative to a full-sized BDSM whip.
I was the lucky tester of the Sex & Mischief Silicone Tickler. At first I was a bit skeptical about the quality since it was so cheap and didn’t come in any packaging. Although, after using it a few times, I was very pleasantly surprised at how good it felt.
As a tickler, the soft silicone falls feel really nice when dragged across the skin. The silicone feels a bit cold (which is a nice touch) and it tickles delightfully! For more sharp sensations and some light impact play, lashing the silicone falls at sensitive parts of the body feels great.
Since the falls are made of silicone, they’re safe to use on intimate areas and super easy to clean afterwards. I particularly liked using it on the clitoris and my partner’s scrotum and peineum.
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Best Flogger Sportsheets Saffron Braided Flogger
Overall Rating
4.4/5
Bedbible Rating:
4/5
Reviewed by:
Theo KogodUser Ratings:
4.8/5
Based on 10 user reviews
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Braided Flogger was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm whip.
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Braided Flogger was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is somewhat intuitive and easy to use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Braided Flogger was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Braided Flogger was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other bdsm whips.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find this best for those with some experience; it offers a well-balanced challenge.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Braided flogger with cat-o’-nine-tails
- Made of vegan PU leather
- Black and red design
- Beaded handle with a wrist loop.
Pros
- ✅ Vegan-friendly materials
- ✅ Heavier tails for more impact
- ✅ Sturdy and durable
- ✅ Stunning design
Cons
- ❌ Not as long-lasting as genuine leather
- ❌ May be too heavy for some
Why I Chose It
The Sportsheets Saffron Braided Flogger is a step in the right direction for those who want more intense impact play. Its falls are heavier and the cat-o’-nine-tails deliver a deliciously sharp bite. I am also partial to the gorgeous black and red design as well the braided look.
In terms of performance and suitable experience levels, our tester, Theo, did note that “it’s a little heavy for the start of a scene, but is good for amping things up once things are going. This isn’t going to be a lifetime investment, but it will get the job done.” It delivers mostly thuddy thwacks but these were “accented by a stingy bite”, and he found that it swung nicely.
As with most vegan leather, it’s not as durable or long-lasting as a genuine leather item. However, Theo did find that it got the job done and that he “personally find(s) the texture to be similar enough not to mind.”
Best Riding Crop Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat Riding Crop
Overall Rating
4.8/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.7/5
Based on 143 user reviews
Rating: Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat Riding Crop was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm whip.
Rating: Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat Riding Crop was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat Riding Crop was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat Riding Crop was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other bdsm whips.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest this if you're progressing beyond the basics; it’s straightforward but adds useful features.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Heart-shaped riding crop
- Tip is made of body-safe silicone
- Plastic handle (18 inches).
Pros
- ✅ The tip is super easy to clean
- ✅ Feels amazing to use on the nipples, clit, or labia
- ✅ Delivers sharp and stingy sensations
Cons
- ❌ Even light taps can easily feel too sharp
- ❌ Plastic handle doesn't seem very durable
Why I Chose It
“My heart did skip a beat for this sweet but spicy spanker! I love the cute heart design that’s just a little more fun than a standard crop.”
That’s how our tester, Isabelle, started her review of the Bondage Boutique Skip a Beat Riding Crop. She is “also a big fan of anything silicone! It creates a lovely crisp spank and can be cleaned easily.”
I also love the fact that the tip of this crop is made of silicone. This just makes it so much easier to use on intimate areas without worrying about the material. Because of the length and weight of this crop, it is particularly good for swatting on your nipples, clitoris, scrotum, or perineum.
That said, it isn’t just for gentler impact. The silicone can provide a really sharp sting when wielded properly! Therefore, it’s a super versatile crop that can be used for teasing foreplay or relentless punishing depending on your mood. Oh, and the cute heart design does add a nice touch!
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Comparison
| Best | Test Winner | Runner-Up | Cheapest | Best Flogger | Best Riding Crop |
| Overall score | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.6 / 5.0 from 5 users | 4.9 / 5.0 from 23 users | 5 / 5.0 from 7 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 10 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 143 users |
| Price | Affordable | Affordable | Cheap | Cheap | Cheap |
| Design | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 90 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Quality | 100 / 100 | 70 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 95 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - |
| Length | Tongue: 9 inches, Total length: 15.75 inches inches | 20 inches | Wand: 14 inches, Silicone falls: 7 inches | Flogger: 24 inches, Falls: 17 inches | 18 inches |
| Insertable length | Handle: 6.75 inches | - | - | - | - |
| Width | Tongue: 1.75 inches | - | - | - | - |
| Diameter | Handle: 0.53 inches | - | - | - | - |
| Waterproof | Yes | No | Splashproof | No | Yes (silicone parts) |
| Materials | Premium silicone | Genuine leather | Silicone falls, ABS plastic wand, rubber handle | PU Faux Leather, Nylon | Silicone, hard plastic |
Sexual Restraints to Keep Your Sub In Place During Lashings
A big part of BDSM is getting to play around with bondage and sexual restraints. Using a BDSM whip while your partner is fully or partially tied up can really elevate the psychological aspect of your kinky sessions. Here are few suggestions for fun ways to experiment with bondage and restraints for lots of different levels of experience!
Quickie Cuffs
The Quickie Cuffs are a great beginner’s item for exploring some light bondage. They are made of super soft and flexible silicone. Easy to put on, easy to remove, and easy to clean! Don’t worry about keys, buckles, or velcro straps, simply slip quickly in and out of these flexible (but surprisingly strong) bondage cuffs!
Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System
This Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System is a great way for you and your partner to explore a full body restraint system that does not require any significant (or permanent) home renovations or built-in hooks on your bed. This system simply wraps around your mattress and keeps you in place with four cuffs for each wrist and ankle! An easy and discreet way to play around with full body restraints while using a sex whip.
Fifty Shades of Grey Spreader Bar
The Fifty Shades of Grey Spreader Bar is another great device to play around with some partial (or full body) bondage. Suitable for more experienced kinksters since you’re required to have your own cuffs to clip into the spreader bar. Experiments with loads of different positions with the option of fastening all four limbs to the spreader bar and surrendering all control to your partner during your sex whip play.
Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash
The Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash is a classic BDSM collar and chain leash set with a fun spin on it! This glow-in-the-dark feature adds a sexy, mysterious vibe to your sex whip bondage play. Having fun combining your BDSM whip with the manual restraint of controlling your sub on a BDSM leash!
BDSM Whips vs Floggers: A Deep Dive Into the Difference
The names ‘whip’ and ‘flogger’ are sometimes used interchangeably, but there are some differences, and similarities, so, let’s have a look at some of them.
Stingy and Thuddy and Sharp, Oh My!
If someone asked you which was better, sex whips or floggers, you’d have a hard time answering.
Both are fantastic for exploring sensation play but there are some key differences in design and sensation!
So let’s take a look at what makes them so uniquely individual!
- Design – here’s the most obvious divergence between floggers and whips! Whips contain a handle with a long, slim, flexible tail that can be lashed and literally whipped against someone. Floggers on the other hand have multiple tails or “falls” that can come in loads of different size and numbers. Depending on this, some floggers can feel similar to sex whip or have more of a “thuddy” impact, if the fails are broad and heavy. Some people prefer whips, some prefer floggers. It’s all down to personal taste, but floggers are often more suitable for complete beginners.
- Pros and cons – There are definitely pros and cons to both the sex whip and the flogger. These are relatively subjective pros and cons of course, but still! Floggers may feel harsher and leave bigger, wider marks that may be painful. Whips on the other hand can leave thin, targeted marks that could – if taken too far – break the skin. On the other hand they both provide different sensations that are sexy in their own ways. This leads us neatly onto the next section…
- Thuddy vs Stingy – Because of the shape of floggers they give you a much more impactful ‘thud’ as it hits you. That larger surface area only makes the thud deeper and more sensual (if you like that kind of thing)! On the other hand, sex whips, BDSM crops and canes sting. The tails hit only a narrow, thin strip of your skin, and as such it causes a pleasurable and concentrated sting.
Let's have a look at some similarities
- They both have a rigid handle.
- They both sometimes have a wrist loop for extra security, control that can be used for hanging it up.
- They both come in different lengths, sizes and materials.
- They can both be used in a variety of different ways for different sensations.
- They can both have multiple tails/tresses.
- They are both used in impact play.
The differences in tails/tresses
- Sex whips tend to have fewer tails than floggers.
- Flogger tails can be made from softer materials like suede, rubber, even fabric as well as more sturdy materials such as leather or faux-leather.
- Sex whip tails tend to be made of of leather or faux-leather with a ‘popper’ at the end.
The differences in sensations
- Sex whips and floggers can both be used to trail across the skin, to build anticipation, to tease, to tickle to strike.
- Floggers, because they have more tails and the tails can be of different thicknesses and weight, can elicit a wide variety of sensations depending on the level of force used.
- A strike from a flogger can feel like a ‘thud’ or can sting
- A strike from a sex whip will sting and cause more intense pain.
For beginners or advanced?
- Low-intensity floggers can be used by beginners.
- These let you build up your practice, figure out what your likes and dislikes are, and see if you’d like to venture into more stronger pain sensations.
- Although sex whips can be used to tease, they can also cause more intense pain.
- Sex whips aren’t recommended for beginners. They need practice and skill before using them on a person as incorrect use can be very painful and damaging.
- Sex whips are only recommended for advanced BDSM practitioners.
Benefits Of Using BDSM Whips
If you’re new to the whole concept of BDSM whips, you might have been itching to ask the question: why would people use BDSM whips? Well, the answer may either seem confusing or it may be quite simple to you, but I guarantee you that there are many reasons as to why people would want to use sex whips in their kinky session. So, let’s go over some of benefits there are to using BDSM whips.
Gadgets are always handy!
If you love adding a bit of intense impact play to your kinky sessions and want give your hand a break from delivering those stingy spanks, then adding a BDSM whip to your repertoire is a great option! Using a BDSM whip instead will also provide a more intense sting and let you put some more power in your lash.
Versatility is key!
Depending on the size and design of your chosen BDSM whip, you’re gonna be able to create both super gentle tickler-like sensations by dragging the tail or falls across some sensitive skin as part of sensation play OR make your partner’s skin burn and tingle from super intense (always consensual) lashings. The world is your oyster when you’re using a sex whip!
Expand Your Kinky Horizon
Kinkiness exists on a continuum and can be practiced at any intensity level. No matter where you are in your kinky journey, a BDSM whip is a great way to expand your horizon when it comes to BDSM and impact play. It’s a great tool to involve all kinds of kinky practices! It can elevate any (appropriate) sexual situation and doesn’t require any additional gadgets or prep.
It hurts so good...
Intense impact play always has the potential to be painful… in all the right ways. If you and your partner are practicing open communication at all times and are aware of each other’s limits, using a BDSM whip to explore your boundaries when it comes to that good kind of pain can feel really great!
Things to Consider Before Buying a BDSM Whip
So, let me guess. After reading all this you’re definitely thinking of getting a BDSM whip for yourself. Well, I’m here to guide you in making sure you get the right fit for you.
Design: Size & Shape
You’re going to want to make sure that you’re not overwhelming yourself with a BDSM whip that’s way to big for you. This doesn’t really have that much to do with how big it looks but moreso the effect. A bigger and longer sex whip will allow you to take bigger swings that pack a lot more power with the help of basic aerodynamics! A smaller and short whip may give you more control over where your lashing land but there’s a clear limit to how much force you can comfortably put in those swings.
The shape of the tail or falls will also have a lot to say here. Slimmer and longer ends will more often create a stingy sensation where broader and flatter falls on a flogger, for example, feel much more thuddy and relatively comfortable.
Materials
The material of your BDSM whip will also have a lot to do with the sensation it creates when you’re going to town on your partner with it. Leather is a staple in the world of BDSM toys for a reason! It can feel soft and comfortable but the right shape and size will be able to send a sharp pain to your skin.
Silicone also varies like this, although sometimes silicone can feel a bit “grippy” and not as sleek. Although silicone BDSM whips are super easy to clean and maintain.
Metal is definitely a material that is more suitable for advanced kinksters when it comes to intense impact play. A metal BDSM whip can pack a scary punch. Always exercise caution when using metal whip and floggers. But metal is also a great material for not-so-advanced kinksters to use for less intense play, since the metal is great for sensation play. In this way metal ticklers can be great choice for all levels of experience.
Style
Even though BDSM whip is a term that can be used interchangeably to refer to sex whips, floggers, riding crops, or other impact toys, it is necessary to distinguish between the different styles of impact toys when you’re considering which one to purchase.
Because of the basic differences between floggers and whips that I’ve expanded upon in the sections above, there’s a clear recommendation. Usually it will be safer for beginner to intermediate users to start ourt with floggers made of leather or flexible silicone. Generally, the styles of toys that generate more “thuddy” sensations are great for this level.
Experienced and advanced kinksters are more suited for using larger and longer whips and riding crops, since the stingy sensations can be overwhelmingly sharp. Experimentation with these sensations requires a great deal of experience in navigating sensitive spaces of communication.
Reviewed by:
Cassie Mørch