Wet For Her Union Strapless Strap On Review

Moira Callahan
by Moira CallahanUpdated:
4.6/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Moira Callahan

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 275 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Wet For Her Union was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Wet For Her Union.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Wet For Her Union was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Wet For Her Union was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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Rating: Wet For Her Union was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

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My Verdict

This is my first strapless double dildo, and I don't think I'll ever go back! As a beginner in the strapless dildo game, this dildo is just enough width and length so it's pleasurable for both users without being overwhelming. This toy is obviously aimed at partner use, and it can take some getting used to using without the security of a strap-on (although this toy can be compatible with some straps, and Wet for Her does sell one!). This toy also is great for solo use, and the ridge at the end of the toy is perfectly made to provide some clit stimulation in addition to penetration.

Buy, if you...

  1. Love penetration
  2. Want to invest money in a high quality toy
  3. Are interested in strap-ons, pegging, or dual partner stimulation

Don't buy, if you...

  1. Are completely a beginner at toys
  2. Are on a budget
  3. Don't like penetration, or can usually only orgasm with intense clitoral stimulation

About The Wet For Her Union

The Union is a double ended dildo with a bulb for insertion for one partner, and the dildo end for another partner. This toy has 10 vibrating speeds on both ends (three classic increasing intensities, and then 7 patterns). The bulb end also has a ridge for grinding your clit against during penetration, and it can also provide clit stimulation for your partner. I got the Union Small, so around 5 inches of insertable length, with the bulb being around 2 fingers or 2 inches wide. The toy is 100% silicone, and feels very well made and is very soft.

The vibrations of the Wet For Her Union are noisy, very powerful, and somewhat rumbly

SoundSound rating

Rating: Wet For Her Union was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is noisy.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Wet For Her Union felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Wet For Her Union was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Wet For Her Union felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Pros

  • Can be used solo or with partner
  • Can be used with or without a strap-on
  • Shaft is longer than other toys

Cons

  • Expensive
  • Vibrations are not super intense
  • Might need adjusting based on you or your partner's bodies

Personal Experience

My Personal Experiences with Wet For Her Union

With a Partner

This was really fun to experiment with! This kind of toy is definitely for users who love penetration. It takes some getting used to clenching around the toy in order to support it without a harness, but once we got the hang of it, it was easy to keep inside. Based on the shape of the bulb, it sits fairly securely. We did occasionally reach down and adjust, or hold on to it. Additionally, if you would like the security of a strap-on harness, this toy is compatible with the Wet for Her Jock, Boxer or Brief Strap-Ons! The vibrations of the toy are rumbly, and not super strong, but enough that it definitely provides extra stimulation. We loved that the dual motor sits inside both the bulb and the dildo part, so there’s equal vibrations for both partners.

Solo Use

This toy is also great for solo use! You can use it as a standard vibrating dildo; the ridge of the toy provides great clit stimulation and the bulb part can be adjusted for clit stimulation similar to a rabbit vibe. You can also insert the bulb end vaginally, and tug on the shaft for a more grinding-against-your-g-spot feeling. The shaft vs bulb girth is also pretty different, so if you might have a preference on which end feels better based on width.

Design

Wet For Her Union Design

I really enjoy the design of the Union. The adjustability for the bulb end and the dildo end gives it a high score for me, because these types of toys will really make it or break it for you based on shape. But because you can adjust it for your body type, I feel like the toy is pretty well suited for everyone. The ridge as I've mentioned above is also a nice feature that other double ended dildos don't have. I would say the only qualms is that for some people that the bulb might be too small based on how well they can grip the toy, but there is always the option to size up, as the Union comes in Small, Medium, and Large.

Ease of Use

Wet For Her Union Ease of Use

For use, I think the insertable parts are fairly self explanatory. I actually wasn't aware you could fully adjust the bulb and the dildo, so the first time I used it with a partner there was some position adjusting that needed to happen. Also the toy has one button to control the vibrations which isn't my favorite because of how tedious it can be sometimes to try to adjust. I would also not necessarily call this a beginner level toy, in terms of size, girth, and the adjustments you might need to make.

Quality

Wet For Her Union Quality

The Union is made of high quality 100% silicone, and is probably one of the softest toys I've ever felt. I've had the toy for almost a year, and feels very durable. The vibrations are less strong, and it is pretty loud.

Price

Wet For Her Union Price

So depending on the sales you can shop, it seems like Wet for Her sells this toy between $90-100. So compared to Fun Factory ShareVibe ($130-170) or Lovense Lapis ($130), I would actually say that it's on the cheaper side of double ended dildos, but it definitely doesn't feel like it. If you want a quality toy at a great price, I think this toy is it.

Performance

Wet For Her Union Performance

Wet for Her's website says "This enables you to choose the angle you want to give it to achieve a larger number of positions, want to go acrobatic, no problem, the toy will remain in position," which it definitely delivers on. The toy is very sturdy in that once you bend it into shape, it won't change shape while you're thrusting. The vibrations are a little less intense than what I'm used to, but they still felt good in terms of extra stimulation. They were a bit loud though, so definitely not a roommate or kids soundproof toy.

Packaging

Wet For Her Union Packaging

Unfortunately, I tend to rip open toys from their packaging and not save the manual or instruction guide, but from what I remember it came in a discreet white box and had clean, attractive looking packaging.

Materials and care

Wet For Her Union Materials and care

The Union can easily be cleaned with soap or toy cleaner. It did come with a silky bag for storage, however, still not very discreet so keep that in mind. You could also save the box for storage, but the name of the company is printed on the box so be aware.

Specifications and features

Vibration speeds3 
Vibration patterns7 
Length10 inches
Insertable length5.9 inches
DiameterReceiver: 1.06 inches, Wearer: 1.38 inches
FlexibilityVery flexible 
AdjustableYes 
MaterialsMedical-Grade Silicone 
WaterproofNo 
Battery Life90 minutes
RechargeableYes 
Charging Time150 minutes
Remote ControlsCompatible Wireless Remote Sold Separately 
Travel LockNo 
Storage Bag IncludedYes 
Colors AvailableBlack, Purple 

Comparing Wet For Her Union with alternatives

Compare Wet For Her UnionWet For Her Union
Overall score4.6 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 3.9 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 NaN / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.5 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 3.5 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 3.5 / 5.0
User rating4.7 / 5.0
from 275 users
4 / 5.0
from 1 users
5 / 5.0
from 2 users
4.2 / 5.0
from 51 users
4.1 / 5.0
from 249 users
NaN / 5.0
from 0 users
PricePricey Premium Premium Affordable Moderate Affordable
Design90 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 65 / 100 85 / 100 40 / 100
Ease of use80 / 100 85 / 100 90 / 100 50 / 100 40 / 100 40 / 100
Quality100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 70 / 100 90 / 100 40 / 100
Sound80 / 100 40 / 100 20 / 100 20 / 100 40 / 100 40 / 100
Power80 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100 40 / 100 80 / 100 80 / 100
Buzzy/Rumblysomewhat rumbly very rumbly somewhat rumbly somewhat buzzy somewhat rumbly somewhat rumbly
Vibration speeds3 3 preset 3 3 12 2
Vibration patterns7 4 preset 5 9 8 7
Length10 inches9 inches9.92 inches8 inches-7.5 inches
Insertable length5.9 inchesShaft: 5.43 inches, Base: 3.43 inchesWearer: 4.5 inches, Receiver: 6.1 inches5.5 inchesShaft: 5, Pony: 4.5 inches6.8 inches
DiameterReceiver: 1.06 inches, Wearer: 1.38 inchesShaft: 1.61 inches, Base: 1.52 inches1.42-1.61 inches1.4 inchesShaft: 1.35, Pony: 1.51 inches-
FlexibilityVery flexible --Firm -To some extent
AdjustableYes Yes Yes, dildo angle is adjustable -Yes No
MaterialsMedical-Grade Silicone Silicone Silicone Silicone Silicone Silicone, polyurethane, plastic
WaterproofNo Yes Yes Yes Yes Toy - yes, remote - no
Battery Life90 minutesUp to 150 minutes90 minutes-60 minutes-
RechargeableYes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes
Charging Time150 minutes105 minutes360 minutes150 minutes-90 minutes
Remote ControlsCompatible Wireless Remote Sold Separately App controls No -No Wireless remote
Travel LockNo No Yes Yes -No
Storage Bag IncludedYes Yes No No Yes -
Colors AvailableBlack, Purple Pink Burgundy, Cool Grey ---
Weight--1 lbs---
App Controls--No ---
Vibration modes---12 --
Texture-----Soft-touch
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Author
Moira Callahan
Moira Callahan

I’m all about good vibes—literally. With a growing collection of sex toys and a love for turning my experiences into fun reviews, I’m always up for exploring something new. I have years of hands-on experience (lol) and a love for all things sexy. When I’m not exploring new vibes, I’m either crafting playlists, reading books, or planning a new adventure.

Age: 26
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Sex toy experience: Intermediate
All-time favorite sex toy: Magic Wand Original
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