The 13 Best Plus Size Strap On Harnesses for Bootylicious Banging
If you want to delve into the world of strap-on sex, but you’re unsure if inclusive sizing is involved, I’ve got great news- it is! Everyone should feel comfortable and satisfied when using sex toys, and everyday I see inclusivity making its way further into the sex toy world- as it should! In this review, we’ll look at the 14 best plus size strap-on harnesses on the market today and what each of them has to offer. And in post I included the best options for beginners, advanced users, leather enthusiasts and so much more!
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How to choose the best plus size strap on harness?
Harness Style: Secure, aesthetically pleasing, and supports heavier strap-ons, but it’s more complicated to put on and remove.
Underwear Style: Ideal for beginners, easy to slip on, but they offer limited adjustability and may struggle with heavier/larger dildos.
Materials:
Leather: Durable and strong, perfect if you want to achieve that heavy-duty look, but requires maintenance, and it’s more expensive.
Plastic (PP, Faux-Leather): Vegan-friendly, and cheaper, but it’s less comfortable and durable
Polyester: Machine washable, stretchy, comfortable, affordable.
Nylon: Suitable for both harness and underwear, but might be uncomfortable as a harness
Adjustable Straps
Offers comfort and secure fit for multiple wearers, but can be tiresome to adjust each time.
O-Rings
Stretchy O-Ring: Fits multiple dildo sizes, versatile.
Multiple O-Rings: Suitable for a wide range of dildos
One-Size O-Ring: Limits to one dildo size.
Dildos Inclusion
Included: Ready to use, but limited choice in dildo.
Not Included: More freedom in dildo choice, but requires a separate purchase.
Reviews of the 13 best plus size strap-ons
Test Winner Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Harness
The Spareparts Joque is a plus-size strap-on harness worth its weight in gold when combined with your favorite dildo. This plus-size strap-on harness was a clear test winner for me because I’ve found them super comfy, versatile, and nicely designed. Durable and made from breathable materials, this harness will adapt to your body and provide you with itch-free play. The high-quality plus-size strap-on harness has a built-in O-ring that is flexible enough to fit up to 2-inch diameter shafts while remaining snug on the flared-base dildos. On the top and bottom of the ring, there are two tiny pockets that can hold any bullet vibrator, to extend your pleasurable moments with your partner. Available in two multisized options, the Joque strap-on can be adjusted to fit either 20-50 inches around the waist, or 30-65 inches around for the chunkier of users.
Pros
- ✅ Breathable high-quality materials
- ✅ Adjustable band fits plus-sized bodies
- ✅ Snug hold on the dildo
- ✅ Can be used by all genders
- ✅ Use for pegging or DPs
Cons
- ❌ Expensive
- ❌ Set does not include dildo
Verdict
Strap-ons are excellent ways to add secure phallic stimulation within the bedroom, regardless of your gender. Whether you have a slimmer build or some junk in your trunk, I think the Joque plus-size strap-on is a perfect way to add simultaneous stimulation to both partners, in cases when both parties lack penises. On the other hand, straight couples can utilize the constricting O-ring to amplify the male erection or combine the plus-size strap-on harness with two vibrating bullets for additional stimulation. Vibrating strap-on dildos are an excellent choice with this strap-on, due to its removable backing which provides easy access to both penis-lacking users. If you are looking for a super comfortable, adjustable, durable, and reliable plus-size strap-on harness, I highly recommend this one! So, get to thrusting now – just remember to lube up!
Buy, if you...
- Have a larger body
- Need a high quality strap-on
- Want a harness with pockets for additional toys
- Want a fully adjustable strap-on harness
- Durable materials
- Do not own a penis
Don't buy, if you...
- Do not own any dildos
- Find the price too much
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Cheapest Lovehoney Full-Back Strap-On Harness
If you are looking for a comfortable, nicely designed and durable plus-size strap-on harness, I recommend the Lovehoney Full-back. This plus-size strap-on is an ideal addition to your on-a-budget sex collection! The slightly padded harness, not only provides comfort and support for the wearer’s back but is also has fully-adjustable straps to suit US dress sizes up to 28. The plus-size dildo harness comes with 3 O-rings with varying sizes, that can be secured with tight buttons on the front. Behind the ring on the skin side of the harness, a little pocket can be used to store a powerful bullet vibrator that will provide stimulation for the wearer during penetrative intercourse.
Pros
- ✅ Secure rings
- ✅ Adjustable between 25''-68''
- ✅ Up to US size 28
- ✅ 3 O-ring sizes
- ✅ Great for pegging
Cons
- ❌ Set does not include dildo
- ❌ Straps can be harsh on sensitive skin
Verdict
The Lovehoney Full-Back plus-size strap-on with three interchangeable O-rings is will elevate your bedroom experiences without making a dent in your budget. If not for the price, I would get this plus-size harness for its adjustability and extra comfort. Soft and slightly padded, the harness is comfortable and doesn’t chafe the skin during the longer penetrative sessions. The three rings provide a secure hold on the base of the shaft, for the receiver’s convenience, while the added bonus of a bullet vibrator pocket, is an excellent way to provide stimulation for non-penis-owning wearers. Due to the wearer’s anus being exposed, users can opt to combine a butt plug for additional pleasure. I also think that this plus-size dildo harness great for curvier bodies; it can be adjusted to fit up to 68 inches! Hetero couples can indulge in some pegging action – just make sure to use a lot of water-based lube and start off with a dildo that fits the smallest diameter ring.
Buy, if you...
- Have a larger body
- Need a cheap, but quality harness
- Like strap-ons that adapt to the body
- Do not own a penis
- Have dildos in multiple sizes
Don't buy, if you...
- Do not own any dildos
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Beginner Spareparts Tomboi Harness Brief
Are you looking for a plus-size strap-on that looks and feels like high-end underwear? Then I’ve got something for you! Get ready for some slip and slide fun with the Tomboi Brief plus-size strap-on. Just slip on the briefs and slide your favorite flared-base sex toy for some penetrative fun. I am a big fan of the Tomboi’s design, the harness is decorated with three mesh pockets – two dedicated bullet vibrator pockets, and one flapped pocket for quick access to a condom or a travel pack of lube. Comfortable, easy to use, made with top-notch materials, I recommend the Tomboi Brief for anyone that values classy designs, and they will be a great pick for beginners! With a waistband that goes up to 48 inches, this plus-size dildo harness is a comfortable fit for bigger bodies, providing security and sex appeal in one go. The secure O-ring on the front is flexible enough to hold up to 2 inches in diameter, meaning you can use the toy with girthier dildos. Plus, the tomboy briefs are made from a submersible material, making way for steamy shower sessions – just make sure you are using waterproof toys!
Pros
- ✅ Comfortable briefs
- ✅ Up to 3XL in size
- ✅ Secure ring
- ✅ No straps
- ✅ Multiple pockets
- ✅ Bullet vibrator friendly
Cons
- ❌ Not suitable for large sizes
- ❌ Set does not include dildo
Verdict
The Tomboi Brief plus-size strap-on, not only is comfortable and makes the wearer look good, but it also provides a secure hold for your dildos during penetration. I think the simple, yet classy design is a great way to ease your way into the world of strap-ons. This plus-size dildo harness is also beginner-friendly and can be used by any gender, although primarily catering to female users. While using the Tomboi with any dildo make sure to use plenty of lube for easy gliding. The brief has mesh flaps on the front and back of the ring, meaning that this dildo can be used with vibrating strap ons. Hiding under the mesh flap there are two pockets that can hold vibrating bullets for additional vibration where necessary. In my opinion the Tomboi Brief is great high-quality brief strap-on at a reasonable price!
Buy, if you...
- Like a secure hold
- Like beginner-friendly toys
- Want more size options
- Need pockets for bullet vibrators
- Prefer comfortable harnesses
- No straps
- Easy to use
Don't buy, if you...
- Do not own any dildos
Extra Large Sportsheets Divine Diva Plus-Size Strap-On
I chose the Devine Diva for all of you curvy vixens out there! Catering to bodies of all shapes and sizes, the adjustable straps help fit 28-82″ in the hips and up to 44″ in the thighs. This plus-size strap-on is perfect for bodacious babes and thicker queens who love to dominate their partners in bed! The plus-size dildo harness includes 3 O-rings in different diameters meaning it can hold any flared-based dildo you might have in your collection!
Pros
- ✅ Comfy harness
- ✅ Adjustable straps
- ✅ Fits bigger bodies
- ✅ Three rings
Cons
- ❌ No pockets for additional toys
- ❌ Set does not include dildo
Verdict
Comfortable and supportive, the Devine Diva harness is sure to fit even the bigger bodies. I really appreciate the design of this plus-size strap-on harness; the four-way customizable plus-size strap-on feels excellent against the skin and can be worn by women for some pegging action, or vaginal sex, with your partner. The different diameter rings can fit most flared-based dildos on the market, however, make sure to previously own a smooth or ribbed dildo, since this set doesn’t include one. Whichever dildo you may choose to attach to the harness, prepare it with lots of lube to avoid discomfort. I think this plus-size dildo harness will help you get off on some thrilling power-play, without breaking the bank!
Buy, if you...
- Need sizes up to 82 inches
- Enjoy practicing pegging
- Have different sized dildos
- Prefer comfortable harnesses
- Like easy to use sex toys
Don't buy, if you...
- Want pockets for bullet vibrators
- Do not own any dildos
Leather Full Curves Leather Plus-size Strap-on
I’ve got a special treat for all leather enthusiasts out there! Made from high-quality leather, the Full Curves plus-size strap-on is an excellent choice for anyone looking for a durable harness. I love how soft and supple the leather feels, making for chafe-free, tug-free playtime with your partner. Whether you are a curvy queen who likes to dominate or a couple of non-penis-owning lovers — the plus-size dildo harness will adjust to your needs!
The set includes a wine-colored harness and three interchangeable dildos with different diameters: 1.5, 1.7, and 2 inches.
Pros
- ✅ Comfy harness
- ✅ Adjustable straps
- ✅ Fits bigger bodies
- ✅ Three rings
Cons
- ❌ No pockets for additional toys
- ❌ Set does not include dildo
Verdict
Luxurious and supple, the leather Full Curves plus-size strap-on will elevate your pegging experiences and keep any flared-base dildo secure while penetrating your partner. Accommodating sizes up to 50 inches in the waist and 58 inches in the hips, consider the Full Curves if you got some junk in your trunk. Keep in mind that leather products can be quite pricy, due to their durability and comfort, so make sure that this is the right harness for your body before purchasing! Other than the price, I find this leather puls-size strap-on harness one of the most beautiful and sexiest sets out there. And it’s comfortable and suitable for anyone, no matter the level of experience.
Buy, if you...
- Prefer leather harnesses
- Are a plus-sized lady
- Love pegging
- Want a durable strap-on
- Like different O-ring diameters
Don't buy, if you...
- Have a waist over 50 inches
- Do not own any dildos
- Are on a budget
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Kit Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit
Looking for a ready-to-go strap-on kit? I got you! The Supersex Pegging Kit is your gateway into the world of prostate stimulating pleasure. The plus-size strap-on kit comes with a comfortable harness, two different-sized dildos, and a bullet vibrator with 7 vibration modes. Both dildos are made from medical-grade silicone providing easy gliding when combined with your favorite water-based lubricant. The black dildo is smaller and great for untrained receivers, while the pink dildo works as a sleeve that goes on top of it. The horn-shaped pink sleeve is quite girthy and it tapers off into the head in ridges, making for gradual stretching. The bullet vibrator can be placed in a secret pocket inside the comfy harness or inside the sleeve for some handheld fun! For more girth pair with any realistic dildo, you love to ride!
Pros
- ✅ All pegging bases covered
- ✅ Includes two dildos & bullet vibrator
- ✅ High-quality materials
- ✅ Built-in bullet pocket
- ✅ Machine-washable harness
- ✅ Multiple O ring and dildo sizes
- ✅ Submersible
- ✅ Dildos can be used with harness or own their own
Cons
- ❌ Waistband fits up to 64''
- ❌ O-ring can stretch over time
- ❌ Straps can be awkward
- ❌ Packaging is heavily gendered
- ❌ Bullet vibe takes LR44 batteries which can be hard to find
Vibrations: The vibrations of the Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit are quiet, quite powerful, and neither really buzzy nor rumbly
Verdict
If you are looking to ease into pegging without spending too much, consider the Tracy Cox Supersex Pegging kit. The plus-size strap-on pegging kit includes two dildos, a bullet vibrator, 3 O-rings, and a comfy harness. I love how comfort and convenience meet within this kit and pleasure is the next stop!
The pink dildo works as a sleeve and can be used either with the bullet or the smaller dildo inside the orifice. Which means you can choose to stimulate one of you more than the other. Or buy one more and enjoy it both of you.
Couples of all genders and preferences can utilize the kit in various scenarios, not simply for pegging. Use the items together or separately for handheld stimulation, but always remember to use several pumps of lube alongside. All in all, a versatile on-a-budget harness and dildo kit, for anyone who wants to gradually increase the pleasure in the bedroom.
Buy, if you...
- Like to try out pegging
- Are on a budget
- Do not own dildos for pegging
- Like silicone dildos
- Like easy to use sex toys
- Want different size options for dildos
- Want a complete strap-on kit
Don't buy, if you...
- Need more than 65'' around the waist
- Prefer a brief style harness
- Prefer a strapless strap-on
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Vac-U-Lock Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Supreme Harness
Vac-u-lock owners rejoice, for Doc Johnson has a nifty plus-size strap-on harness in their product range. The comfortably-padded harness, comes with a vac-u-lock plug and three interchangeable O-rings, meaning you can use virtually any dildo you can think of! I think it’s a great feature if you own a lot of different dildos that you want to use as a strap-on. The plus-size strap-on harness is designed similarly to an open-back jockstrap, with adjustable lateral straps that go up to 60” waist-wise. Excellent for butt stuff connoisseurs or pegging noobs, the Supreme Harness will have you falling in love with your favorite toys all over again – it even works as a garter for your stockings!
Pros
- ✅ Vac-u-lock dildos
- ✅ Plug included
- ✅ Padded back
- ✅ Pelvic support
- ✅ Adjustable straps
- ✅ Fits up to 60"
- ✅ Three rings
Cons
- ❌ No pockets for additional toys
- ❌ Set does not include dildo
Verdict
The Vac-U-Lock plus-size strap-on harness comes with a Doc Johnson plug that can fit a variety of compatible dildos of your choosing. Secure enough to hold even bigger and girthier dildos, this plus-size strap-on harness is a great on-a-budget option for couples and women who own Doc Johnson dildos. However, this doesn’t mean that you cant use other dildos with a flared base for this harness, rather by removing the clasped plug from the harness you can attach one of the included O-rings with a dildo of your choosing! So, if you have a big collection of fun dildos you dream of turning into strap-ons, I recommend this harness!
Buy, if you...
- Have Vac-u-Lock toys
- Like pegging
- Like to try out different dildos
- Need extra support
- Like easy to use sex toys
Don't buy, if you...
- Want pockets for bullet vibrators
- Do not own any dildos
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Corset Sportsheets Lace Corsette Strap-On
The chantilly lace Corsette plus-size strap-on harness provides style and comfort for any diva looking to stay sexy while thrusting inside their partner. I am sure, not everyone will like the design of this harness, but I am into the cheeky and cute look. It’s for sure unique and very feminine. Comfy and highly adjustable, the plus-size dildo harness fits sizes 12-30 and can accommodate up to 72″ in the hips. The harness has a vibrating bullet pocket for the wearer’s pleasure, while 2 different-sized rings (1.25 and 2-inches) can fit any flared-base dildo you might have in your collection.
Pros
- ✅ Fits up to 72'' in the hips
- ✅ Stylish corset design
- ✅ Includes 2 rings
- ✅ Bullet vibrator pocket
Cons
- ❌ Set does not include dildo
Verdict
It’s a happy day for curvy pegging queens out there because this plus-size strap-on fits up to 72” in the hips. I really enjoy the seductive-looking style adorned with red satin and chantilly lace. Plus, these smooth and gentle materials feel great against the skin. The included rings can fit almost any dildo with a flared base that has up to 2 inches in girth, while the pelvic part of the harness has a bullet vibrator pocket – great for providing stimulation for the wearer. I think that this plus-size strap-on harness has a great price, and I can forgive that the kit doesn’t include a dildo. Overall, it’s a great pick plus-sized women who like to penetrate and look good doing it!
Buy, if you...
- Need sizes up to 72 inches
- Like stylish harnesses
- Have flared based dildos
- Like easy to use strap-ons
Don't buy, if you...
- Do not own any dildos
Fetish Fantasy Plus-Size Strap-On
If you enjoy the look of BDSM toys, look no further than the Fetish Fantasy plus-size strap-on. Designed to accommodate bigger bodies, the waistband can fit up to 48-inch waists, while the full pelvic plate makes for care-free penetration. Providing sturdy support, the metal ring can accommodate most dildos with a base. Don’t worry if you don’t have a dildo in your collection, this plus-size dildo harness comes with its own girthy jelly dildo – a few pumps of lube is all you need to slide the dildo in for G-spot or prostate stimulation – perfect for him or her!
Pros
- ✅ Fits big bodies
- ✅ Dildo included
- ✅ Fantasy eye mask
- ✅ Secure D-rings
Cons
- ❌ No pockets for additional toys
- ❌ Porous material
Verdict
Quite intimidating at first, you may find the design of the Fetish Fantasy plus-size strap-on a bit tough to get on but that will take nothing away from the pleasure it provides. I think that the harness is great, but the addition of a jelly dildo was a really bad move. Of course, you can still still use it with a condom on, but I recommend using a non-popous and 100% body-safe silicone dildo instead.
I enjoy the design of the harness; the frontal pelvic plate provides additional security while thrusting, and the metal cock ring cal fit virtually any average dildo you might have in your collection. However, it might take some time to properly secure the straps due to the lack of instructions.
Buy, if you...
- Have up to 48-inches in the waist
- Do not own any dildos
- Want more pelvic support
- Prefer comfortable harnesses
Don't buy, if you...
- Want pockets for bullet vibrators
- Do not like jelly dildos
Crown Plus-size Harness
I chose to add this product to the post, because it’s specifically designed to fit bigger bodies. By sitting higher on the hips, it hugs the natural curve of the body and fits up to 40” waist and 60” hips. With three swappable rings, you can fit a variety of dildos in different girths. I think the most important feature of this harness is the adjustability; with the leather-belted design, you can customize the angle to the wearer’s body, paving way to no-fuss entry, each time!
Pros
- ✅ Adjustable
- ✅ Fits big bodies
- ✅ Angles for easy penetration
- ✅ Three rings
Cons
- ❌ No pockets for additional toys
- ❌ Set does not include dildo
Verdict
I see the Crown Harness is an excellent plus-size strap-on for anyone who wants a durable and budget-friendly harness. I love how adjustable and accommodating to most bodies it is, and it provides an easy way towards better sex for couples. Alongside plenty of lubrication, use it to peg your partner’s anus or to tickle their G-spot, without worrying about the dildo will fall off during penetration. In addition to being secure, the plus-size dildo harness adjusts to provide an optimal entry angle for multiple bodies.
Buy, if you...
- Need a no frills harness
- Love leather
- Like a thicker waistband
Don't buy, if you...
- Want pockets for bullet vibrators
- Do not own any dildos
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Aslan Leather Jaguar Harness
Are you a fan of more heavy-duty looks? Then I’ve got a perfect harness for you! As fierce as the powerful feline that it’s named after, the Jaguar plus-size strap-on is a high-end addition to your toy chest that you won’t stop using. Sitting comfortably against the skin, the buckles provide a secure hold to curvy pegging enthusiasts. The plus-size strap-on harness comes in two sizes, the standard fits hips 26″ to 42, while the large one fits hips 36″ to 56″. The three-point clasps come with a single ring, however, they can fit additional ring sizes to accommodate multiple girths. Two D-ring straps on the back offer easy adjusting and are designed to provide a secure hold without cutting off the blood flow to your legs.
Pros
- ✅ Luxury design
- ✅ Comfortable straps
- ✅ Easy to adjust
Cons
- ❌ Only one ring included
- ❌ Set does not include dildo
Verdict
I am huge fan of this wet look design! Plus, I find leather a great pick for any strap-on harness. It’s sexy, comfortable to wear, and gives you that hot Dom vibe! With a sophisticated design that pays homage to luxury brands, the Jaguar plus-size strap-on will elevate your sex toy collection and give a second wind to old dildos. Entice your partner to some pegging fun, and start off your penetrative adventure by attaching your favorite toy to the plus-size dildo harness, applying a generous amount of lube, and thrusting away into orgasmic bliss. In my opinion, this is a real treat for plus-sized women who love the feel of leather and have the budget to spare it.
Buy, if you...
- Prefer luxury materials
- Like nice-looking harnesses
- Have girthy dildos
- Need a secure hold
Don't buy, if you...
- Want pockets for bullet vibrators
- Do not own any dildos
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Sports Kit Plus-size Strap-on by Tantus
Packing a premium silicone dildo, a bullet vibrator, and an adjustable harness that fits up to 60″ around the waist – the Tantus plus-size strap-on kit is a great choice for first-timers. I love its colourful design and the use of high-quality materials. The silicone dildo comes in two colors, either black or violet, and is designed to stimulate the G-spot or prostate while penetrating with the harness. The straps and padded ring holder are comfortable and feel soft against the skin, and there’s even a little pocket to house a bullet vibrator for the wearer’s pleasure. The plus-size strap-on harness is machine washable, while the silicone dildo is non-porous allowing for easy clean-up after each pegging session.
Pros
- ✅ Dildo & bullet vibrator included
- ✅ Comfy harness
- ✅ Beginner friendly dildo
- ✅ Adjustable straps
- ✅ Machine washable
Cons
- ❌ No additional rings
- ❌ Ring doesn't fit girthy dildos
Verdict
Great for users of all genders and experiences, the Sport Kit plus-size strap-on will make you squeal in delight! Convenient and practical it includes a 6-inch dildo with a curved bulbous tip perfect for G-spot and prostate stimulation, which glides smoothly with the help of some water-based anal lubricant. Based on my research, the only downside to the plus-size strap-on harness kit is the lack of additional ring sizes that hold girthier dildos, but most shafts up to 1.5 inches in diameter will be work fine. At a super-attractive price point, you get a comfy padded harness, a premium silicone dildo, and a powerful bullet vibe – If you ask me, that’s a bargain!
In comparison to other plus-size strap-on harnesses I’ve added, its simple look might not be the most attractive, but if you like non-intimidating designs and you value functionality over looks, I am sure you will be really happy with this choice!
Buy, if you...
- Like G-spot/prostate stimulation
- Have up to 60'' waist
- Do not own dildos
- Love adjustable harnesses
- Like a pop of color
- Want to use a bullet vibrator
Don't buy, if you...
- Have a waist bigger than 60"
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Lovehoney Advanced Strap-On Harnes Kit
The Lovehoney Advanced plus-size strap-on kit is such a great find! It’s a hit for both experienced users and beginners. The kit includes a hollow 7-inch dildo, which is fantastic for housing a standard size bullet. The harness is comfy and adjustable, and it comes with two additional rings for more variety. I love its curved shaft for G-spot stimulation, and it’s also great for first-timers. The bullet pocket is super handy for changing vibration speeds easily. Plus, the two rings make it versatile for different flared-base dildos.
Pros
- ✅ Includes dildo
- ✅ Adjustable straps
- ✅ Fits bigger bodies
- ✅ Two rings
- ✅ Bullet pocket
Cons
- ❌ Could fit bigger sizes
Verdict
Taking a look at the Lovehoney Advanced plus-size strap-on kit you’ll find everything you’d need for a successful pegging experience. I think it’s a great idea that the kit comes with a silicone dildo, which is hollow in and has an opening at the base, meaning it can fit a standard bullet vibrator for additional pleasure. In addition to the comfy harness and dildo, there are two additional rings that can hold any dildo you might own from before. The shaft itself tapers off and is slightly curved for easy penetration without discomfort, however, make sure to always use generous amounts of lube during each session regardless of your experience. I think it’s a great unisex kit that doesn’t break the bank and provides practical pleasure on top of great orgasms!
Buy, if you...
- Don't own any dildo
- Are a beginner
- Enjoy practicing pegging
- Have different sized dildos
Don't buy, if you...
- Do not need a harness at all
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Comparison of the 13 best plus size strap-ons
Best | Test Winner | Cheapest | Beginner | Extra Large | Leather | Kit | Vac-U-Lock | Corset | null | null | null | null | null |
Overall score | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | - | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.2 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 3.9 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.1 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.8 / 5.0 from 566 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 46 users | 4.9 / 5.0 from 156 users | 4.9 / 5.0 from 12 users | - | 4.6 / 5.0 from 187 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 80 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 153 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 197 users | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users | 5 / 5.0 from 7 users | 4 / 5.0 from 2 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 337 users |
Price | Moderate | Cheap | Moderate | Moderate | Premium | Affordable | Affordable | Cheap | Moderate | Moderate | Pricey | Cheap | Cheap |
Design | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 89 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 92 / 100 | 88 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 91 / 100 | 99 / 100 |
Ease of use | 90 / 100 | 96 / 100 | 98 / 100 | 93 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 93 / 100 | 93 / 100 | 99 / 100 |
Quality | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 91 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 93 / 100 | 88 / 100 | 93 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 93 / 100 | 92 / 100 | 97 / 100 |
Sound | - | - | - | - | - | 40 / 100 | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Power | - | - | - | - | - | 60 / 100 | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Diameter | Stretches to accommodate 1.25-2 inches | S: 1.25 inches M: 1.75 inches L: 2 inches | From 1.25 inches to 2.25 inches | S: 1.5 inches M: 1.75 inches L: 2 inches | S: 1.5 inches M: 1.75 inches L: 2 inches | Textuted dildo: 1.5 inches Smooth Dildo: 0.8 inches inches | S: 1.25 inches, M: 1.75 inches, L: 2.25 inches inches | M: 1.5 inches, L: 2 inches | Ring: 1.5 inches | S: 1.25 inches, M: 1.75, L: 2 inches | Ring: 2 inches | Ring: 1.5 inches / Dildo: 1.25 inches | Dildo: 1.5 inches/ Rings: S: 1.5 - M: 1.75 - L: 2 inches |
Waterproof | Submersible | Submersible | 100% Water-friendly | Washable | - | Yes | Splashproof | Machine washable | Only dildo | Washable | No | Harness: Machine Washable/ Dildo: Submersible | Harness: Washable/ Dildo: Submersible |
Adjustable | Yes | Yes | No. Separate sizes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
Materials | Polyester and spandex | Polychloroprene | Spandex nylon | Polypropylene, ABS plastic, nickel-free metal & brass hardware | Leather | Silicone, ABS plastic, Neoprene, Nylon | Polypropylene | Polyester, Polypropylene, ABS plastic, nickel-free & nickel plated metal | Jelly | Polypropylene, Leather | Leather | Polypropylene, Silicone, Plastic | Silicone |
Harness Size | 20-50''/ 30-65 inches | 25-68 inches | 26-48 inches | 28 - 82 inches | 36-50 inches | Up to 65 inches | 25 - 60 inches | up to 72 inches | - | - | Standard - Hips 26 to 42"/ Large- Hips: 36 to 56 inches | Waist: up to 60 inches | 28 - 65 inches |
Storage Bag Included | Yes | No | Yes | No | No | No | No | No | - | No | No | No | No |
Allergies | Latex-free/ Phthalate-free | Latex-free/ Phthalate-free | Latex-free/ Phthalate-free | Latex-free/ Phthalate-free | Latex-free/ Phthalate-free | - | Latex-free/ Phthalate-free | Latex-free/ Phthalate-free | Latex-free | Latex-free/ Phthalate-free | Latex-free/ Phthalate-free | Latex-free/ Phthalate-free/Non-porous | Latex-free/ Phthalate-free |
Flexibility | Flexible - Non constricting | Flexible - Non constricting | Flexible - Non constricting if correctly sized | Flexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted | Flexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted | - | Flexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted | Flexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted | Flexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted | Flexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted | Flexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted | Flexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted | Flexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted |
Vibration speeds | - | - | - | - | - | 2 | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Vibration patterns | - | - | - | - | - | 5 | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Insertable length | - | - | - | - | - | Textured dildo: 6 inches. Smooth dildo: 4.5 inches inches | - | - | - | - | - | 5.5 inches | - |
Colors Available | - | - | - | - | - | Harness: black. Dildos: pink, black. | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
Length | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | 6.25 inches | - |
Need a Dildo For Your Plus Size Strap-on?
Considering most plus-size strap-on harnesses do not come in a kit with included dildos, you can consider taking a look at some of the best dildos according to your experience level. Regardless of whether you’re looking to dip your does into the world of pegging, or if you’re a expert “wide receiver”, there’s something to suit anyone’s needs.
Beginner - Temptasia Twist by Blush
Even if you’re not using the Twist dildo with a harness, it will likely become your new favorite discreet penetrator. Designed with a twisted shaft, it can satisfy both men and women, to gently stimulate the prostate or tickle the G-spot.
- 5-inch shaft
- Beginner-friendly
- Twisted ridges
- Suction cup
- Versatile
Intermediate - Lovehoney Curved 7-inch Dildo
Without being overly filling, the Lovehoney curved 7-inch dildo is perfect for size queens and pegging pros who like the look of a nice curved shaft on their plus-sized strap-on!
- Suction Cup
- 7-inch curved shaft
- Semi-realistic tip
- Tapering girth
- Perfect for intermediate users
- Hollow orifice for bullet vibrator
Advanced - King Cock Girthy 8.5-Inch Dildo
For seasoned receivers, who aren’t satisfied by average dildo diameters, the King Cock ultra girthy 8-inch dildo is the next best purchase for your boudoir.
- Ultra girthy realistic 8-inch dildo
- Luxury skin-like softness
- Suction cup
- Only for advanced users
- Firm yet flexible
Your Strap-On Essentials
The key steps to having a pleasurable pegging experience with a plus-size strap-on are cleanliness and lots of lube. While the vagina is a self-cleaning, self-lubricating organ —the human backdoor isn’t, so having an anal douche and a tub of lube will come in handy, especially if you are trying out pegging for the first time. Ease into a world of pleasure with these essential additions, without worrying about any awkward surprises!
Tracey Cox Anal Douche
Anal douches are made to gently flush lukewarm water inside the anus, which in turn is expelled from the body leaving the orifice clean, usually before anal sex or rimming. Fill up the pump with water and lube up the nozzle to get started. Easy to use and perfect for beginners, the Tracey Cox Douche has a flexible tip that can be used by users of all levels.
- Up to 160 ml of water
- For comfortable anal use
- Narrow & flexible tip
Lovehoney WB Anal Lubricant
Lovehoney’s easy-glide water-based lube is a perfect formula for anal exploration. The gel-like viscosity is perfect for long penetration sessions without losing glide. Great for your plus-size dildo harness of choice or any sex toy.
- Vegan formula
- Long-lasting
- Big bottle
- Safe to use with sex toys and condoms
Comparing the Best Plus-Size Strap-on Harnesses
Best in design
In my opinion, the Lovehoney Advanced harness is a top pick for design, scoring high in both design (99/100) and ease of use (99/100), along with a solid Bedbible rating (4.8/5). It seems to be a user favorite. The Crown Harness also impresses with a design score of 95/100 and perfect user satisfaction (5/5). It has a simple, and very comfortable design that will many users, especially beginners!
Best price
For those looking for value, I recommend the Super Pegging Kit and Tomboi Brief. With quality scores of 85/100 and 90/100 and Bedbible ratings of 4.3/5, they balance quality and affordability well.
Biggest sizes
In the biggest size category, the Divine Diva harness leads, comfortably fitting up to 82 inches. The Lovehoney Full-Back is another roomy option, accommodating sizes up to 68 inches. Then there’s the Corsette harness, stylish and size-inclusive, fitting up to 72 inches. These three options cover a broad spectrum of sizes, catering to various body shapes and preferences.
How to Find a Comfy Plus-Size Strap-on?
When it comes to plus-size strap-ons there are two main things you need to consider – the wearer’s comfort and the receiver’s experience. After choosingthe best dildo according to the receiver’s experience, focus on picking the comfiest plus-size dildo harness for you and your partner’s needs. Moving forward, we will discuss several things you can consider before making a purchase.
Materials
Plus-size straps-on can be made from durable skin-safe materials such as leather, neoprene, nylon, spandex, polyester, rope or a blend of several types. Regardless of whether you’re using it with one or several partners, be on the lookout for harnesses that you can easily clean. Look for harnesses that are labeled by the manufacturer as machine washable, usually all materials that aren’t leather or rubber should be safe to clean in a washer.
Straps or briefs?
Plus-size strap-ons are mostly known for their unique strappy design, however underwear-style harnesses exist. They look like regular underwear (boxers ,briefs, panties and thongs) are perfect for beginners, while the strappy harnesses can be adjusted using customizable straps for a secure fit, for any experience level.
Thong or jockstrap?
If you opt for a plus-size strap-on with adjustable straps, there are two options to consider – thong style or jock strap.
The thong is great for vagina-owners, due to the single strap that connects between the butt cheeks, while the jockstrap harnesses are perfect for additional support around both thighs.
Size and measurements
Properly measuring your body, with a flexible measuring tape, is essential for choosing the right plus-size strap-on for your body. Most harnesses can be adjusted to fit a variety of dress sizes, and by knowing your exact measurements you can narrow down the amount of strap-on choices.
FAQ
What is a Plus Size Strap-On Harness?
Plus size strap-on harnesses, are couples' sex toys that provide the additional sensation of penetration to the bedroom- the plus size element refers to the harness which holds the strap-on. This type of harness is designed to fit larger bodies more comfortably. Primarily designed to be used by people with vaginas who enjoy penetrating their partner's vagina or anus hands-free, or for pegging enthusiasts who want to dominate their partner's prostate, a strap-on can bring lots of pleasure to the bedroom. They can be used with a plethora of dildos and flared base vibrators for penetrative pleasure. They can also be used with strapless strap-ons which gives both partners pleasure. When securing the straps of your harness, you should tighten them to the strength of a pair of jeans which are tight, yet comfortable- the strap-on dildo shouldn't sag and should be secure when moving.
Reviewed by:
Jen Schmidt