The 13 Best Plus Size Strap On Harnesses for Bootylicious Banging

Anastasija Migulovska
by Anastasija Migulovska
best plus size strap-on in test
If you want to delve into the world of strap-on sex, but you’re unsure if inclusive sizing is involved, we’ve got great news- it is! Everyone should feel comfortable and satisfied when using sex toys, and everyday we see inclusivity making its way further into the sex toy world- as it should! In this review, we’ll look at the best plus size strap-on harnesses on the market today and what each of them has to offer.

The Secret Behind Ranking the Best Plus Size Strap-On Harnesses

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The Secret Behind Ranking the Best Plus Size Strap-On Harnesses

How to choose the best plus size strap on harness

Style:

Harness-

Underwear-

  • good for beginners with small strap-ons
  • slips on easily
  • cannot be adjusted
  • different styles and aesthetics
  • can struggle when holding heavy dildos

Materials:

Leather-

  • durable
  • great aesthetic
  • needs to be maintained
  • strong
  • more expensive

Plastic (PP, faux-leather)-

  • vegan friendly
  • still a great aesthetic
  • can be more uncomfortable due to material
  • cheaper alternative to leather

Polyester-

  • machine washable
  • stretchy
  • comfortable to wear
  • can be cheaper

Nylon-

  • can be used for harnesses or underwear
  • can be uncomfortable as a harness (scratchy, irritating)
  • machine washable
  • can be cheaper

Adjustable straps:

Adjustable-

  • great for multiple wearers
  • allows ultimate comfort
  • extra secure use
  • can be annoying to adjust for every session

Non-adjustable-

  • great for one wearer
  • needs to be exact size of wearer
  • easy to slip on and off
  • not as secure as a harness (dildo tends to sag more)

O-rings:

Stretchy O-ring-

  • great for multiple, closely diametered dildo uses
  • single O-ring fits multiple diameters

Multiple O-rings-

  • great for a wide-range of dildo uses
  • need to be stored safely incase of losing them
  • can be annoying to change O-rings during sex

One-size O-ring-

  • good if one size dildo is used
  • restrictive

Dildos included:

Included-

  • use immediately
  • no separate purchases
  • you know the dildo fits the harness
  • can’t choose dildo material or size
  • can’t choose style of dildo

Not included-

  • can’t use immediately if no dildo
  • can choose the dildo material and size
  • can choose style of dildo (phallic, non-phallic, color)

Read on to see our review of the best plus size strap-on harnesses on the market today!

FAQ

Why do I need a plus size strap-on?
Plus size strap-ons are an all-inclusive way to add another dimension to your sex life, regardless of your sexual preferences. Mainly marketed towards the use of people with vaginas, they provide a way for vagina/penis couples to enjoy pegging, while non-penis-owning couples can explore hands-free ways to penetrate using their favorite dildo.
Can penis owners use a plus size strap-on?
Yes! People with penises can enjoy harnesses for a plethora of reasons; many penis owners who experience erectile dysfunction use strap-ons to enhance their play. On the other hand, penis owners who like to explore double penetration often opt for harnesses both for the additional shaft and the comfy cock rings.
What type of toys can I use with a plus size strap-on?
Any flared-base dildo will work. Some plus-size dildo harnesses come in a kit with an included dildo, while for others that don't, your favorite dildo will do. As long as it has a flared base or a scrotum, your dildo will fit.
Is there a way to implement vibration into my plus size strap-on use?
Yes! Most plus size strap-ons have a little pocket that can hold a standard bullet vibrator, and some of the kits even include one. Another option to add vibration during harness play (pegging and vaginal penetration) is to opt for a hollow dildo that can hold any bullet vibrator.
Are there ways for both partners to enjoy pleasure when using a strap-on?
There are plenty of couples' strap-on sex toys on the market and we have featured many of them. Vibrating strap-ons are the most popular to use with two-way harnesses since the design allows for both partners to experience penetration and vibration simultaneously in the G/P-spot. Another great way to experience double pleasure is to use a strapless strap-on with a plus size strap-on harness. A strapless strap-on can only be worn by someone with a vagina, as this is where the strap-on sits when in use.
How tight do I make the straps on my plus size strap-on harness?
Think about the tightest jeans you have, but that you can actually manage to stay inside for longer - that tight! It should be enough so that you feel the snugness, but not too much so it doesn't cut off blood flow. Most importantly, it should feel comfortable and secure.

What is a Plus Size Strap-On Harness?

Plus size strap-on harnesses, are couples' sex toys that provide the additional sensation of penetration to the bedroom- the plus size element refers to the harness which holds the strap-on. This type of harness is designed to fit larger bodies more comfortably. Primarily designed to be used by people with vaginas who enjoy penetrating their partner's vagina or anus hands-free, or for pegging enthusiasts who want to dominate their partner's prostate, a strap-on can bring lots of pleasure to the bedroom. They can be used with a plethora of dildos and flared base vibrators for penetrative pleasure. They can also be used with strapless strap-ons which gives both partners pleasure. When securing the straps of your harness, you should tighten them to the strength of a pair of jeans which are tight, yet comfortable- the strap-on dildo shouldn't sag and should be secure when moving.

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The 13 Best plus size strap-ons in Test

1 Test winner

Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Harness

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The Spareparts Joque is a plus-size strap-on harness worth its weight in gold when combined with your favorite dildo. Durable and made from breathable materials, this harness will adapt to your body and provide you with itch-free play. The high-quality plus-size strap-on harness has a built-in O-ring that is flexible enough to fit up to 2-inch diameter shafts while remaining snug on the flared-base dildos. On the top and bottom of the ring, there are two tiny pockets that can hold any bullet vibrator, to extend your pleasurable moments with your partner. Available in two multisized options, the Joque strap-on can be adjusted to fit either 20-50 inches around the waist, or 30-65 inches around for the chunkier of users.

Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Harness test
Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Harness features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Spareparts Strap-on Harness if you...
Have a larger body
Need a high quality strap-on
Want a harness with pockets for additional toys
Want a fully adjustable strap-on harness
Durable materials
Do not own a penis
You should NOT buy the Spareparts Strap-on Harness if you...
Do not own any dildos
Find the price too much
Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Harness features
Features
DiameterStretches to accommodate 1.25-2 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
AdjustableYes 
MaterialsPolyester and spandex 
Harness Size20-50''/ 30-65 inches
Storage Bag IncludedYes 
AllergiesLatex-free/ Phthalate-free 
FlexibilityFlexible - Non constricting 
Pros
Breathable high-quality materials
Adjustable band fits plus-sized bodies
Snug hold on the dildo
Can be used by all genders
Use for pegging or DPs
Cons
Expensive
Set does not include dildo
Conclusion

Strap-ons are excellent ways to add secure phallic stimulation within the bedroom, regardless of your gender.  Whether you have a slimmer build or some junk in your trunk, the Joque plus-size strap-on is a perfect way to add simultaneous stimulation to both partners, in cases when both parties lack penises. On the other hand, straight couples can utilize the constricting O-ring to amplify the male erection or combine the plus-size strap-on harness with two vibrating bullets for additional stimulation. Vibrating strap-on dildos are an excellent choice with this strap-on, due to its removable backing which provides easy access to both penis-lacking users. So, get to thrusting now – just remember to lube up!

2 Cheapest

Lovehoney Full-Back Strap-On Harness

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The Lovehoney Full-back plus-size strap-on is an ideal addition to your on-a-budget sex collection. The slightly padded harness, not only provides comfort and support for the wearer’s back but is also has fully-adjustable straps to suit US dress sizes up to 28. The plus-size dildo harness comes with 3 O-rings with varying sizes, that can be secured with tight buttons on the front. Behind the ring on the skin side of the harness, a little pocket can be used to store a powerful bullet vibrator that will provide stimulation for the wearer during penetrative intercourse.

Lovehoney Full-Back Strap-On Harness test
Lovehoney Full-Back Strap-On Harness features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the The Lovehoney Full-Back if you...
Have a larger body
Need a cheap, but quality harness
Like strap-ons that adapt to the body
Do not own a penis
Have dildos in multiple sizes
You should NOT buy the The Lovehoney Full-Back if you...
Do not own any dildos
Lovehoney Full-Back Strap-On Harness features
Features
DiameterS: 1.25 inches M: 1.75 inches L: 2 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
AdjustableYes 
MaterialsPolychloroprene 
Harness Size25-68 inches
Storage Bag IncludedNo 
AllergiesLatex-free/ Phthalate-free 
FlexibilityFlexible - Non constricting 
Pros
Secure rings
Adjustable between 25''-68''
Up to US size 28
3 O-ring sizes
Great for pegging
Cons
Set does not include dildo
Straps can be harsh on sensitive skin
Conclusion

The Lovehoney Full-Back plus-size strap-on with three interchangeable O-rings is will elevate your bedroom experiences without making a dent in your budget. Soft and slightly padded, the harness is comfortable and doesn’t chafe the skin during the longer penetrative sessions. The three rings provide a secure hold on the base of the shaft, for the receiver’s convenience, while the added bonus of a bullet vibrator pocket, is an excellent way to provide stimulation for non-penis-owning wearers. Due to the wearer’s anus being exposed, users can opt to combine a butt plug for additional pleasure. The plus-size dildo harness can be adjusted to fit up to 68 inches, making it great for curvier bodies. Hetero couples can indulge in some pegging action – just make sure to use a lot of water-based lube and start off with a dildo that fits the smallest diameter ring.

3 Beginner

Spareparts Tomboi Harness Brief

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Get ready for some slip and slide fun with the Tomboi Brief plus-size strap-on. Just slip on the briefs and slide your favorite flared-base sex toy for some penetrative fun. The Tomboi is decorated with three mesh pockets – two dedicated bullet vibrator pockets, and one flapped pocket for quick access to a condom or a travel pack of lube. With a waistband that goes up to 48 inches, this plus-size dildo harness is a comfortable fit for bigger bodies, providing security and sex appeal in one go. The secure O-ring on the front is flexible enough to hold up to 2 inches in diameter, meaning you can use the toy with girthier dildos. The tomboy briefs are made from a submersible material, making way for steamy shower sessions – just make sure you are using waterproof toys!

Spareparts Tomboi Harness Brief  test
Spareparts Tomboi Harness Brief  features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Tomboi Brief if you...
Like a secure hold
Like beginner-friendly toys
Want more size options
Need pockets for bullet vibrators
Prefer comfortable harnesses
No straps
Easy to use
You should NOT buy the Tomboi Brief if you...
Do not own any dildos
Spareparts Tomboi Harness Brief  features
Features
DiameterFrom 1.25 inches to 2.25 inches
Waterproof100% Water-friendly 
AdjustableNo. Separate sizes 
MaterialsSpandex nylon 
Harness Size26-48 inches
Storage Bag IncludedYes 
AllergiesLatex-free/ Phthalate-free 
FlexibilityFlexible - Non constricting if correctly sized 
Pros
Comfortable briefs
Up to 3XL in size
Secure ring
No straps
Multiple pockets
Bullet vibrator friendly
Cons
Not suitable for large sizes
Set does not include dildo
Conclusion

The Tomboi Brief plus-size strap-on, not only is comfortable and makes the wearer look good, but it also provides a secure hold for your dildos during penetration. A great way to ease your way into the world of strap-ons, this plus-size dildo harness is beginner-friendly and can be used by any gender, although primarily catering to female users. While using the Tomboi with any dildo make sure to use plenty of lube for easy gliding. The brief has mesh flaps on the front and back of the ring, meaning that this dildo can be used with vibrating strap ons. Hiding under the mesh flap there are two pockets that can hold vibrating bullets for additional vibration where necessary. A great high-quality brief strap-on at a reasonable price!

4 Extra Large

Sportsheets Divine Diva Plus-Size Strap-On

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The Devine Diva is for all of your curvy vixens out there! Catering to bodies of all shapes and sizes, the adjustable straps help fit 28-82″ in the hips and up to 44″ in the thighs. This plus-size strap-on is perfect for bodacious babes and thicker queens who love to dominate their partners in bed! The plus-size dildo harness includes 3 O-rings in different diameters meaning it can hold any flared-based dildo you might have in your collection!

Sportsheets Divine Diva Plus-Size Strap-On test
Sportsheets Divine Diva Plus-Size Strap-On features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Divine Diva if you...
Need sizes up to 82 inches
Enjoy practicing pegging
Have different sized dildos
Prefer comfortable harnesses
Like easy to use sex toys
You should NOT buy the Divine Diva if you...
Want pockets for bullet vibrators
Do not own any dildos
Sportsheets Divine Diva Plus-Size Strap-On features
Features
DiameterS: 1.5 inches M: 1.75 inches L: 2 inches
WaterproofWashable 
AdjustableYes 
MaterialsPolypropylene, ABS plastic, nickel-free metal & brass hardware  
Harness Size28 - 82 inches
Storage Bag IncludedNo 
AllergiesLatex-free/ Phthalate-free 
FlexibilityFlexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted 
Pros
Comfy harness
Adjustable straps
Fits bigger bodies
Three rings
Cons
No pockets for additional toys
Set does not include dildo
Conclusion

Comfortable and supportive, the Devine Diva harness is sure to fit even the bigger bodies. The four-way customizable plus-size strap-on feels excellent against the skin and can be worn by women for some pegging action, or vaginal sex, with your partner. The different diameter rings can fit most flared-based dildos on the market, however, make sure to previously own a smooth or ribbed dildo, since this set doesn’t include one. Whichever dildo you may choose to attach to the harness, prepare it with lots of lube to avoid discomfort. Without breaking the bank, this plus-size dildo harness will help you get off on some thrilling power-play!

5 Leather

Full Curves Leather Plus-size Strap-on

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85/100
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Made from high-quality leather, the Full Curves plus-size strap-on is an excellent choice for anyone looking for a durable harness. The leather is soft and supple, making for chafe-free, tug-free playtime with your partner. Whether you are a curvy queen who likes to dominate or a couple of non-penis-owning lovers — the plus-size dildo harness will adjust to your needs!
The set includes a wine-colored harness and three interchangeable dildos with different diameters: 1.5, 1.7, and 2 inches.

Full Curves Leather Plus-size Strap-on test
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Stockroom Full Curves if you...
Prefer leather harnesses
Are a plus-sized lady
Love pegging
Want a durable strap-on
Like different O-ring diameters
You should NOT buy the Stockroom Full Curves if you...
Have a waist over 50 inches
Do not own any dildos
Are on a budget
Features
DiameterS: 1.5 inches M: 1.75 inches L: 2 inches
AdjustableYes 
MaterialsLeather 
Harness Size36-50 inches
Storage Bag IncludedNo 
AllergiesLatex-free/ Phthalate-free 
FlexibilityFlexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted 
Pros
Comfy harness
Adjustable straps
Fits bigger bodies
Three rings
Cons
No pockets for additional toys
Set does not include dildo
Conclusion

Luxurious and supple, the leather Full Curves plus-size strap-on will elevate your pegging experiences and keep any flared-base dildo secure while penetrating your partner. Accommodating sizes up to 50 inches in the waist and 58 inches in the hips, consider the Full Curves if you got some junk in your trunk. Keep in mind that leather products can be quite pricy, due to their durability and comfort, so make sure that this is the right harness for your body before purchasing!

6 Kit

Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit

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The Superstar Pegging Kit is your gateway into the world of prostate stimulating pleasure. The plus-size strap-on kit comes with a comfortable harness, two different-sized dildos, and a bullet vibrator with 7 vibration modes. Both dildos are made from medical-grade silicone providing easy gliding when combined with your favorite water-based lubricant. The black dildo is smaller and great for untrained receivers, while the pink dildo works as a sleeve that goes on top of it. The horn-shaped pink sleeve is quite girthy and it tapers off into the head in ridges, making for gradual stretching. The bullet vibrator can be placed in a secret pocket inside the comfy harness or inside the sleeve for some handheld fun! For more girth pair with any realistic dildo, you love to ride!

Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit test
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Super Pegging Kit if you...
Like to try out pegging
Are on a budget
Do not own dildos for pegging
Like silicone dildos
Like easy to use sex toys
You should NOT buy the Super Pegging Kit if you...
Need more than 65'' around the waist
Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit features
Features
Vibration modes7 
DiameterDildos: 0.9 & 1.5 inches/ Rings: 1, 1.5, 2 inches
Insertable lengthDildo 1: 4.5 inches, Dildo 2: 6  inches
WaterproofHarness: machine washable, Dildos: Submersible, Vibrator: No 
AdjustableYes 
MaterialsVibrator: ABS plastic, Dildos: Silicone 
Harness SizeUp to 65  inches
RechargeableNo, swappable batteries  
Storage Bag IncludedNo 
AllergiesLatex-free/ Phthalate-free 
FlexibilityFlexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted 
Pros
All pegging bases covered
Includes two dildos & bullet vibrator
Comfortable harness
High-quality materials
Built-in bullet pocket
Machine-washable harness
Cons
Waistband fits up to 64''
Conclusion

If you are looking to ease into pegging without spending too much, consider the Tracy Cox Supersex Pegging kit. The plus-size strap-on pegging kit includes two dildos, a bullet vibrator, 3 O-rings, and a comfy harness. Comfort and convenience meet within this kit and pleasure is the next stop! The pink dildo works as a sleeve and can be used either with the bullet or the smaller dildo inside the orifice. Couples of all genders and preferences can utilize the kit in various scenarios, not simply for pegging. Use the items together or separately for handheld stimulation, but always remember to use several pumps of lube alongside. All in all, a versatile on-a-budget harness and dildo kit, for anyone who wants to gradually increase the pleasure in the bedroom.

7 Vac-U-Lock

Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Supreme Harness

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Vac-u-lock owners rejoice, for Doc Johnson has a nifty plus-size strap-on harness in their product range. The comfortably-padded harness, comes with a vac-u-lock plug and three interchangeable O-rings, meaning you can use virtually any dildo you can think of! The plus-size strap-on harness is designed similarly to an open-back jockstrap, with adjustable lateral straps that go up to 60” waist-wise. Excellent for butt stuff connoisseurs or pegging noobs, the Supreme Harness will have you falling in love with your favorite toys all over again – it even works as a garter for your stockings!

 

Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Supreme Harness test
Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Supreme Harness features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Supreme Harness if you...
Have Vac-u-Lock toys
Like pegging
Like to try out different dildos
Need extra support
Like easy to use sex toys
You should NOT buy the Supreme Harness if you...
Want pockets for bullet vibrators
Do not own any dildos
Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Supreme Harness features
Features
DiameterS: 1.25 inches, M: 1.75 inches, L: 2.25 inches inches
WaterproofSplashproof 
AdjustableYes 
MaterialsPolypropylene 
Harness Size25 - 60 inches
Storage Bag IncludedNo 
AllergiesLatex-free/ Phthalate-free 
FlexibilityFlexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted 
Pros
Vac-u-lock dildos
Plug included
Padded back
Pelvic support
Adjustable straps
Fits up to 60"
Three rings
Cons
No pockets for additional toys
Set does not include dildo
Conclusion

The Vac-U-Lock plus-size strap-on harness comes with a Doc Johnson plug that can fit a variety of compatible dildos of your choosing. Secure enough to hold even bigger and girthier dildos, this plus-size strap-on harness is a great on-a-budget option for couples and women who own Doc Johnson dongs. However, this doesn’t mean that you cant use other dildos with a flared base for this harness, rather by removing the clasped plug from the harness you can attach one of the included O-rings with a dildo of your choosing! All that is left is to lube up and start enjoying!

8 Corset

Sportsheets Lace Corsette Strap-On

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90/100
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The chantilly lace Corsette plus-size strap-on harness provides style and comfort for any diva looking to stay sexy while thrusting inside their partner. Comfy and highly adjustable, the plus-size dildo harness fits sizes 12-30 and can accommodate up to 72″ in the hips. The harness has a vibrating bullet pocket for the wearer’s pleasure, while 2 different-sized rings (1.25 and 2-inches) can fit any flared-base dildo you might have in your collection.

Sportsheets Lace Corsette Strap-On test
Sportsheets Lace Corsette Strap-On features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Corsette if you...
Need sizes up to 72 inches
Like stylish harnesses
Have flared based dildos
Like easy to use strap-ons
You should NOT buy the Corsette if you...
Do not own any dildos
Sportsheets Lace Corsette Strap-On features
Features
DiameterM: 1.5 inches, L: 2 inches
WaterproofMachine washable 
Harness Sizeup to 72 inches
AdjustableYes 
MaterialsPolyester, Polypropylene, ABS plastic, nickel-free & nickel plated metal 
Storage Bag IncludedNo 
AllergiesLatex-free/ Phthalate-free 
FlexibilityFlexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted 
Pros
Fits up to 72'' in the hips
Stylish corset design
Includes 2 rings
Bullet vibrator pocket
Cons
Set does not include dildo
Conclusion

It’s a happy day for curvy pegging queens out there because this plus-size strap-on fits up to 72” in the hips. Seductive-looking and adorned with red satin and chantilly lace, the plus-size strap-on harness feels great against the skin. The included rings can fit almost any dildo with a flared base that has up to 2 inches in girth, while the pelvic part of the harness has a bullet vibrator pocket – great for providing stimulation for the wearer. At a convenient price point, it’s quite forgivable that the kit doesn’t include a dildo. Great for plus-sized women who like to penetrate and look good doing it!

9

Fetish Fantasy Plus-Size Strap-On

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If you enjoy the look of  BDSM toys, look no further than the Fetish Fantasy plus-size strap-on. Designed to accommodate bigger bodies, the waistband can fit up to 48-inch waists, while the full pelvic plate makes for care-free penetration. Providing sturdy support, the metal ring can accommodate most dildos with a base. Don’t worry if you don’t have a dildo in your collection, this plus-size dildo harness comes with its own girthy jelly dildo – a few pumps of lube is all you need to slide the dildo in for G-spot or prostate stimulation – perfect for him or her!

Fetish Fantasy Plus-Size Strap-On test
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Fetish Fantasy if you...
Have up to 48-inches in the waist
Do not own any dildos
Want more pelvic support
Prefer comfortable harnesses
You should NOT buy the Fetish Fantasy if you...
Want pockets for bullet vibrators
Do not like jelly dildos
Features
DiameterRing: 1.5 inches
WaterproofOnly dildo 
AdjustableYes 
MaterialsJelly  
AllergiesLatex-free 
FlexibilityFlexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted 
Pros
Fits big bodies
Dildo included
Fantasy eye mask
Secure D-rings
Cons
No pockets for additional toys
Porous material
Conclusion

Quite intimidating at first, you may find the design of the Fetish Fantasy plus-size strap-on a bit tough to get on but that will take nothing away from the pleasure it provides. With a few pumps of lube, the included jelly dildo will easily slide inside an aroused vagina or quivering anus. Use for his and her’s stimulation, or for pegging ecstasy!
The frontal pelvic plate provides additional security while thrusting, and the metal cock ring cal fit virtually any average dildo you might have in your collection. It might take some time to properly secure the straps due to the lack of instructions and the dildo material is porous, so special care and a condom are a must. At a convenient price point, the Fetish Fantasy is a great option for any curvy vixen looking to penetrate into the night.

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Crown Plus-size Harness

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The conveniently designed plus-size strap-on Crown Harness is specifically designed to fit bigger bodies. By sitting higher on the hips, it hugs the natural curve of the body and fits up to 40” waist and 60” hips. With three swappable rings, you can fit a variety of dildos in different girths. Due to the highly adjustable nature of the leather-belted plus-size strap-on harness, you can customize the angle to the wearer’s body, paving way to no-fuss entry, each time!

Crown Plus-size Harness test
Crown Plus-size Harness features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Crown Harness if you...
Need a no frills harness
Love leather
Like a thicker waistband
You should NOT buy the Crown Harness if you...
Want pockets for bullet vibrators
Do not own any dildos
Crown Plus-size Harness features
Features
WaterproofWashable 
AdjustableYes 
MaterialsPolypropylene, Leather  
DiameterS: 1.25 inches, M: 1.75, L: 2 inches
Storage Bag IncludedNo 
AllergiesLatex-free/ Phthalate-free 
FlexibilityFlexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted 
Pros
Adjustable
Fits big bodies
Angles for easy penetration
Three rings
Cons
No pockets for additional toys
Set does not include dildo
Conclusion

The Crown Harness is an excellent plus-size strap-on for anyone who wants a durable and budget-friendly harness. Fully adjustable and accommodating to most bodies, it provides an easy way towards better sex for couples. Alongside plenty of lubrication, use it to peg your partner’s anus or to tickle their G-spot, without worrying about the dildo will fall off during penetration. In addition to being secure, the plus-size dildo harness adjusts to provide an optimal entry angle for multiple bodies.

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Aslan Leather Jaguar Harness

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As fierce as the powerful feline that it’s named after, the Jaguar plus-size strap-on is a high-end addition to your toy chest that you won’t stop using. Sitting comfortably against the skin, the buckles provide a secure hold to curvy pegging enthusiasts. The plus-size strap-on harness comes in two sizes, the standard fits hips 26″ to 42, while the large one fits hips 36″ to 56″. The three-point clasps come with a single ring, however, they can fit additional ring sizes to accommodate multiple girths.  Two D-ring straps on the back offer easy adjusting and are designed to provide a secure hold without cutting off the blood flow to your legs.

Aslan Leather Jaguar Harness test
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Jaguar Harness if you...
Prefer luxury materials
Like nice-looking harnesses
Have girthy dildos
Need a secure hold
You should NOT buy the Jaguar Harness if you...
Want pockets for bullet vibrators
Do not own any dildos
Features
DiameterRing: 2 inches
WaterproofNo 
AdjustableYes 
MaterialsLeather 
Harness SizeStandard - Hips 26 to 42"/ Large- Hips: 36 to 56 inches
Storage Bag IncludedNo 
AllergiesLatex-free/ Phthalate-free 
FlexibilityFlexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted 
Pros
Luxury design
Comfortable straps
Easy to adjust
Cons
Only one ring included
Set does not include dildo
Conclusion

With a sophisticated design that pays homage to luxury brands, the Jaguar plus-size strap-on will elevate your sex toy collection and give a second wind to old dildos. Entice your partner to some pegging fun, and start off your penetrative adventure by attaching your favorite toy to the plus-size dildo harness, applying a generous amount of lube, and thrusting away into orgasmic bliss. Great for plus-sized women who love the feel of leather and have the budget to spare it.

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Sports Kit Plus-size Strap-on by Tantus

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Packing a premium silicone dildo, a bullet vibrator, and an adjustable harness that fits up to 60″ around the waist – the Tantus plus-size strap-on kit is your way towards unforgettable orgasms. The silicone dildo comes in two colors, either black or violet, and is designed to stimulate the G-spot or prostate while penetrating with the harness. The straps and padded ring holder are comfortable and feel soft against the skin, and there’s even a little pocket to house a bullet vibrator for the wearer’s pleasure. The plus-size strap-on harness is machine washable, while the silicone dildo is non-porous allowing for easy clean-up after each pegging session.

Sports Kit Plus-size Strap-on by Tantus test
Sports Kit Plus-size Strap-on by Tantus features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Sports Kit if you...
Like G-spot/prostate stimulation
Have up to 60'' waist
Do not own dildos
Love adjustable harnesses
Like a pop of color
Want to use a bullet vibrator
You should NOT buy the Sports Kit if you...
Have a waist bigger than 60"
Sports Kit Plus-size Strap-on by Tantus features
Features
Length6.25 inches
Insertable length5.5 inches
DiameterRing: 1.5 inches / Dildo: 1.25 inches
WaterproofHarness: Machine Washable/ Dildo: Submersible 
AdjustableYes 
MaterialsPolypropylene, Silicone, Plastic 
Harness SizeWaist: up to 60 inches
Storage Bag IncludedNo 
AllergiesLatex-free/ Phthalate-free/Non-porous 
FlexibilityFlexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted 
Pros
Dildo & bullet vibrator included
Comfy harness
Beginner friendly dildo
Adjustable straps
Machine washable
Cons
No additional rings
Ring doesn't fit girthy dildos
Conclusion

Great for users of all genders and experiences, the Sport Kit plus-size strap-on will make you squeal in delight! Convenient and practical it includes a 6-inch dildo with a curved bulbous tip perfect for G-spot and prostate stimulation, which glides smoothly with the help of some water-based anal lubricant. The only downside to the plus-size strap-on harness kit is the lack of additional ring sizes that hold girthier dildos, but most shafts up to 1.5 inches in diameter will be work fine. At a super-economic price point, you get a comfy padded harness, a premium silicone dildo, and a powerful bullet vibe, that fits inside a dedicated pocket on the harness – that’s a bargain that brings a smile to your face before you even get to try it!

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Lovehoney Advanced Strap-On Harnes Kit

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Equally pleasurable to pros and newbies alike, the Lovehoney Advanced plus-size strap-on kit comes with a hollow 7-inch dildo that can house any standard size bullet, a comfy adjustable harness, and two additional rings for interchangeable satisfaction.
Perfect to use on your female partner for G-spot orgasms, due to its curved shaft, while the tapering girth is excellent for first-time peggers, too! The addition of a conveniently placed bullet pocket allows the wearer to easily change the vibration speeds with one hand, while the two rings allow use with any flared-base dildo on the market.

Lovehoney Advanced Strap-On Harnes Kit test
Lovehoney Advanced Strap-On Harnes Kit features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Lovehoney Advanced if you...
Don't own any dildo
Are a beginner
Enjoy practicing pegging
Have different sized dildos
You should NOT buy the Lovehoney Advanced if you...
Do not need a harness at all
Lovehoney Advanced Strap-On Harnes Kit features
Features
DiameterDildo: 1.5 inches/ Rings: S: 1.5 - M: 1.75 - L: 2 inches
WaterproofHarness: Washable/ Dildo: Submersible 
AdjustableYes 
MaterialsSilicone 
Harness Size28 - 65 inches
Storage Bag IncludedNo 
AllergiesLatex-free/ Phthalate-free 
FlexibilityFlexible - Non constricting if correctly adjusted 
Pros
Includes dildo
Adjustable straps
Fits bigger bodies
Two rings
Bullet pocket
Cons
Could fit bigger sizes
Conclusion

Taking a look at the Lovehoney Advanced plus-size strap-on kit you’ll find everything you’d need for a successful pegging experience. The kit comes with a silicone dildo, which is hollow in and has an opening at the base, meaning it can fit a standard bullet vibrator for additional pleasure. In addition to the comfy harness and dildo, there are two additional rings that can hold any dildo you might own from before. The shaft itself tapers off and is slightly curved for easy penetration without discomfort, however, make sure to always use generous amounts of lube during each session regardless of your experience. A great unisex kit that doesn’t break the bank and provides practical pleasure on top of great orgasms!

Need a Dildo For Your Plus Size Strap-on?

Considering most plus-size strap-on harnesses do not come in a kit with included dildos, you can consider taking a look at some of the best dildos according to your experience level.  Regardless of whether you’re looking to dip your does into the world of pegging, or if you’re a expert “wide receiver”, there’s something to suit anyone’s needs.

Your Strap-On Essentials

The key steps to having a pleasurable pegging experience with a plus-size strap-on are cleanliness and lots of lube. While the vagina is a self-cleaning, self-lubricating organ —the human backdoor isn’t, so having an anal douche and a tub of lube will come in handy, especially if you are trying out pegging for the first time. Ease into a world of pleasure with these essential additions, without worrying about any awkward surprises!

How to Find a Comfy Plus-Size Strap-on?

When it comes to plus-size strap-ons there are two main things you need to consider – the wearer’s comfort and the receiver’s experience. After choosing the best dildo according to the receiver’s experience, focus on picking the comfiest plus-size dildo harness for you and your partner’s needs. Moving forward, we will discuss several things you can consider before making a purchase.

Materials

Materials

Materials

Plus-size straps-on can be made from durable skin-safe materials such as leather, neoprene, nylon, spandex, polyester, rope or a blend of several types. Regardless of whether you’re using it with one or several partners, be on the lookout for harnesses that you can easily clean. Look for harnesses that are labeled by the manufacturer as machine washable, usually all materials that aren’t leather or rubber should be safe to clean in a washer.

Straps or briefs?

Straps or briefs?

Straps or briefs?

Plus-size strap-ons are mostly known for their unique strappy design, however underwear-style harnesses exist. They look like regular underwear (boxers ,briefs, panties and thongs) are perfect for beginners, while the strappy harnesses can be adjusted using customizable straps for a secure fit, for any experience level.

Thong or jockstrap?

Thong or jockstrap?

Thong or jockstrap?

If you opt for a plus-size strap-on with adjustable straps, there are two options to consider – thong style or jock strap.
The thong is great for vagina-owners, due to the single strap that connects between the butt cheeks, while the jockstrap harnesses are perfect for additional support around both thighs.

Size and measurements

Size and measurements

Size and measurements

Properly measuring your body, with a flexible measuring tape, is essential for choosing the right plus-size strap-on for your body. Most harnesses can be adjusted to fit a variety of dress sizes, and by knowing your exact measurements you can narrow down the amount of strap-on choices.

How to use plus-size strap-ons?

If you aren’t certain on how to use the specific plus-size strap-on of your choosing, consider researching whether the manufacturers or sellers offer additional instructions, or check the plus-size strap-on brand’s website for additional information. While most harnesses are pretty straightforward to use, some have a lot of straps that might need to be buckled, so knowing how to slip into your strap-on and doing so before you jump into bed will save you the awkwardness in the bedroom. In addition to this, here are several tips to help you make the best out of each use

How to use plus-size strap-ons?

Set the mood

Set the mood

Before partaking in pegging or other forms of anal, or vaginal penetration with a plus-size strap-on, prepare yourself and your partner for what’s to come. Play relaxing music, have a drink to unwind, and engage in some foreplay with your s/o so you can easily proceed to the next level of intimacy!

Choose the dildo

How to use plus-size strap-ons?

The receiver can consider their experience and usual preferences such as size, girth, ribbing, and need for vibration when choosing a dildo. If this is the first time you and your partner are using a plus-size strap-on for penetration and pegging, starting off with a smaller, less-girthy dildo will increase the success rate of your session.

How to use plus-size strap-ons?
How to use plus-size strap-ons?

Secure the harness and dildo

Secure the harness and dildo

Properly adjusting the plus-size strap-on to fit your body snuggly, without cutting off blood flow, is ideal for secure penetration. You have more control over the depth of penetration, so your partner is less likely to experience discomfort. With the dildo of your liking, use the best fitting ring to help keep it in place if your partner likes to thrust back.

Lube up

How to use plus-size strap-ons?

Regardless of whether you are a pro or a noob, always use plenty of sex lube for vaginal use and a separate thicker WB lube dedicated for anal use. Since certain materials can tug the delicate skin around our intimate areas, lubrication helps any dildo slip easily inside without discomfort. If you are planning on pegging, make sure the receiver has properly cleansed with a anal douche.

How to use plus-size strap-ons?

How to clean plus-size strap-ons

Always check the manufacturer's description for instructions on how to properly clean the harness. While most plus-size strap-on harnesses are machine washable, please note that leather, faux leather, and rubber harnesses should be only cleansed via dedicated toy cleaner according to the brand's care instructions - We've included a leather cleaning video below that might help. If you aren't sure how to clean your harness, mild antibacterial soap and warm water will usually do the trick - just brush that on in circular motions with a soft-bristled brush, rinse and dry. When it comes to harness kits that include electronic toys such as bullet vibes you cannot dunk them in water and soap, they are not waterproof and require surface cleansing with an antibacterial toy-safe solution. Cleaning dildos, on the other hand, usually depends on the dildo's material, and for that, we've attached an infographic to help with the most common ways to clean different materials.

Porous
materials

Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

Non-propous
materials

Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

The toys with electrical
components

If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.