Average Blow Job Time Statistics – How Long Does He Last or Should Oral Sex Take?

By Bedbible Research Center / August 11, 2023

This is the first ever study on how long the average blow job lasts. In this study we have extracted the average from 12,112 self-reported blow job timings. The timings have been reported by more than 3,271 different individuals. Some have been objectively timed (around 11%), while most others are based on respondents best guesses and estimates.

Feel free to use any of the data, statistics or facts found in this study. When doing so please remember to reference this article with a link. Additionally, any interest in the full data-set please reach out to: researchcenter@bedbible.com

Key Blow Job Statistics

  • The average blow job lasts for 9 minutes and 33 seconds.
  • The average blow job in a new hookup lasts for 11 minutes and 4 seconds.
  • Men on average report that their ideal blow job lasts for 7 minutes and 22 seconds.
  • Women report that the ideal blow job lasts for 10 minutes and 11 seconds (3 minutes longer than men).
  • Blow jobs in porn on average lasts for 11 minutes and 44 seconds.

The age old question with 3 different answers

The time of a blow job has three distinctively different perspective and hence also answers.

First, one might ask, what the average time in a statistical sense a blow job takes?

Second, one could ask, what the ideal time for a blow job is (for both men and women)?

Third, there is also the question of how long a man should or will last during a blow job?

Although all three are insanely hard to answer in a simply fashion, the below article is an attempt at that – with data and mathematical formulas to back up the arguments and claims put forward.

As the ever-critical reader that I presume you are, you know that these are only best estimates based on mostly self-reported data

How long does the average blow job last

Based on 12,112 self-reported timings from 3,271 different individuals (both singles, people that have been dating someone for less than 3 months, people in new relationships that have been together for 3-12 months, and long term couples).

  • The average blow job lasts for 9 minutes and 33 seconds.

To get as precise and unbiased data as possible we asked respondents to actually time the blow job. Around 21% of the reported timings had actual objectively measured timings behind them. Others were rough estimates from either gender.

To nuance the findings we also looked at the reporting across different demographics and relationship types, and found that:

Relationship typesBlow Job on Average Lasts
Singles, during hookups11.07 minutes
Dating, first 3 months of a relationship7.87 minutes
Couples, 3-12 month relationships8.52 minutes
Couples, 12+ month relationships9.97 minutes
All9.55 minutes

To convert the decimal numbers into seconds you can reference the below bullet list:

  • The average blow job for singles during hookups on average lasts 11 minutes and 4 seconds.
  • The average blow job for couples that have been dating for less than 3 months on average lasts 7 minutes and 52 seconds.
  • The average blow job for couples that have been together for 3-12 months on average lasts 8 minutes and 31 seconds.
  • The average blow job for couples that have been together for more than 12 months on average lasts 9 minutes and 58 seconds.

Note: Very few respondents who reported on blow job timings during hookups and reported to be single did not report to have objective timings, hence most of the data aggregation is based on estimates for this group.

How long should the ideal blow job last?

Based on the survey data we found that

  • Men say that the ideal blow job lasts for 7 minutes and 22 seconds.
  • 90% of men report that they prefer that a blow job is between 6 and 17 minutes

These numbers are both not far from reality of how long the average blow job lasts for.

Additionally, it is also very similar to the reported ideal blow job times by women:

  • Women report that the ideal blow job lasts for 10 minutes and 11 seconds (actually almost 3 minutes longer than men).
  • 90% of women would prefer a blow job be between 7 minutes and 14 minutes.

What the data also showed is that very few women (2.1%) reported that +15 minutes blow jobs where ideal, while it was almost double the amount of men who reported to prefer +15 minute blow jobs (6.8%).

It shows, that while men on average report to prefer shorter blow jobs, there is also a significant cohort of men that report to prefer long blow jobs.

How long do men last when receiving a blow job?

Albeit, the answer is provided during the last two sections it does not reveal more about, how long men of different ages on average last during a blow job.

Age groupHow long do men last when getting a blow job?
18-247 minutes and 12 seconds
25-348 minutes and 51 seconds
35-449 minutes and 13 seconds
45-549 minutes and 49 seconds
55-6411 minutes and 2 seconds
65-7413 minutes and 43 seconds
75+16 minutes and 38 seconds
All9 minutes and 33 seconds

How long does blow jobs last in porn?

A few months back we also did a Pornhub research study and looked at a lot of different factors. One of them, that we actually did not focus that much on in the following published article were blow jobs. One of the things we did was count and time the length of those.

Of course, this can hardly be compared in the sense that it helps explain the length of blow jobs in real life. However, it does provide a different perspective on how porn is different from the sex life of non-pornstars.

What we found is that:

  • Blow jobs in porn on average lasts for 11 minutes and 44 seconds, meaning it is 2 minutes and 11 seconds longer that the average blow job time (lasting 9 minutes and 33 seconds).

Calculating the time a blow job takes – a mathematical formula

S - (D + E) = T
  • S = Stamina of the person giving the blowjob
  • D = Duration of time needed to reach orgasm
  • E = Time spent edging the orgasm
  • T = Time of blow job

Note: If T < 0, then T = S. In other words, if the “Time of the Blow Job”, T, is calculated to a negative number, then the time is instead replaced with the stamina of the person giving the blow job, S.

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