5 Best Female Sensitivity Arousal Gels
As the resident lube expert, I have transferred over to the slightly more exciting sister of normal lubricant, the female sensitivity arousal gels! These gels are made to heighten clitoral sensitivity and make sex just a little more exciting! Read about my favourite and compare the best of the best!
Test Winner | Budget Friendly | Best for Beginners | Best oil | CBD Infused |
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Bijoux Indiscrets Clitoral Serum | Bijoux Indiscrets Clitoral Balm | System Clitoral Stimulant | Sensuva ON Natural Clit Gel | Bijoux Indiscrets Oil with CBD |
$19Shop Now | $11Shop Now | $17Shop Now | $20Shop Now | $38Shop Now |
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How We Test Female Sensitivity Gels
We’re a team of 334 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best Female Sensitivity Gels, our testers tried and reviewed 81 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre Female Sensitivity Gels didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1190 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
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Test Winner Bijoux Indiscrets Sex au Naturel Clitoral Arousal Serum
- Volume: 13 ml/0.44 fl. oz
- Condom safe: Yes
- Travel friendly size
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Gentle but effective stimulation
- ✅ Luxurious user experience
- ✅ Beautiful floral rose scent
- ✅ Small and travel friendly
Cons
- ❌ Small volume
- ❌ Small, slim bottle can be difficult to grip
- ❌ Requires several reapplications
Why I Chose It
The most luxurious and high quality serum in this round-up, there was no doubt in my mind when it came to picking which product was going to be my Test Winner. The Bijoux Indiscrets Sex au Naturel Clitoral Arousal Serum makes the clitoris feel sensitive and heightens its nerve endings, making sex more intense and exciting! On first application, the serum feels warming and works immediately, playing with the nerve endings of the clitoris. The easy to use pump allows the serum to be accurately directed onto the clitoris, giving this serum a localised feeling. With a thick consistency too, the serum doesn’t run all over the vulva, often finding itself in areas that are not that sensitive!
Our tester Sami loved the mixed feelings this serum gave her, from warming, cooling and tingling, all at the same time! When using the serum on her clit, she said “I noticed that it made me more responsive and attentive to sensations and stimulation.” If you are some who has never used a clitoral balm before, this serum is great for beginners, all the way up to experienced users, as Sami controlled the intensity of the liquid, by starting with a couple of drops, and applying more as and when she desired. I would highly recommend using this serum if you sometimes need a slight boost in feeling during solo play, as you can control how sensitive you want you clitoris to be.
As my Test Winning product, every aspect of this product is what I love – a product that works affectively, with the intensity being controlled, as well as the packaging and overall product feeling premium and luxurious, while still having a desirable price tag. As the self proclaimed Number 1 lube expert (in the office), I would say I have a fair bit of knowledge to give on lube and clitoral stimulants, and this product truly is one of the top dogs. From a reliable brand, the Bijoux Indiscrets Sex au Naturel Clitoral Arousal Serum will always be a go to sex accessory for me!
Budget Friendly Bijoux Indiscrets Bad Day Killer Clitoral Balm
- Travel friendly balm pot
- Solid balm to be rubbed on the clit – not liquid
- Affective immediately
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Light scent
- ✅ Warming but not burning
- ✅ Comfortable
- ✅ Non-sticky
- ✅ A little goes a long way
Cons
- ❌ Anise-scented, which isn't everyone's thing
- ❌ Can be overstimulating
- ❌ Small container
Why I Chose It
Sometimes it can be difficult or tiring keeping a vibrator or toy on your clitoris during sex, so why not have something hands free instead? Well I have found exactly what you’re looking for – the Bijoux Indiscrets Bad Day Killer Clitoral Balm is one of the easiest ways to keep your clit stimulated while you can focus on other things. Faith, our tester, exclaimed “I love clitoral stimulation during sex, and this was so much easier than trying to keep a toy there while playing.” I would recommend putting this balm on your clit before sex with a partner, or when using an internal sex toy. This clitoral balm warms up the clitoris, heightening its’ nerve endings, making it more sensitive to touch and physical contact.
As this balm can be pretty intense, a little goes a long way, that’s why I have chosen it as my Budget Friendly pick. Being such a small pot I had my reservations that it would run out too quickly, but only a small amount is needed. With is being a balm too, it easier to place onto the clitoris directly, instead of a liquid spreading around the area too. This is great for those of you who want only the clitoris to be sensitive – working for both those who already have a sensitive clitoris, and those who need a little more stimulation.
Our tester Faith found that when using a sex toy on the clitoris, as well as the balm, it was very overwhelming and too much, so make sure you know what your stimulation limits are. I would therefore not recommend this balm to complete beginners, as it might be too much of a dive in the deep end. If you think you are in need of some extra stimulation, then this is probably the product for you!
Best for Beginners System JO 12 Volt Clitoral Stimulant
- Lipgloss design bottle
- Herbal scent
- 0.34 fl.oz volume
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Easy to apply
- ✅ Small, squeezy applicator bottle
- ✅ Premium product
- ✅ Good for all abilities - including beginners
Cons
- ❌ Not a very intense sensation
- ❌ Expensive
Why I Chose It
I know that when I was just exploring the world of sex accessories, I was far too scared to go anywhere near a clitoral stimulant – I was too scared to be too overwhelmed! Well fear not if this sounds like you, for I have found a soothing, non-intimidating serum that will still provide you with some extra stimulation. With an easy to use applicator, small bottle and soothing, tingling feeling, System JO have produced another top shelf product. The System JO 12 Volt Clitoral Stimulant is a great starter for any beginner in the clitoral stimualnt world.
With one of the easiest applicators I have seen, as well as the nicest smelling stimulant, I love how smooth and gentle the stimulation is in this product. As someone who needs a fair amount of clitoral stimulation in order to have an Orgasm, I was intrigued to try out a clitoral stimulant that was going to heighten and hopefully speed up the process. Although gentle and not overwhelming, this clitoral gel is something that I personally enjoyed, for a little extra tingle. Sure, now that I am pretty used to other, stronger products, this gel does seem a little soft on the stimulation, but still something I would use if I wanted a small, gentle session.
I would highly recommend this product to beginners, or those of you who like a smaller, less intense session. I must add, I think this product works a lot better during masturbation, where you are able to focus on your clitoris, rather than during sex with a partner. During sex with a partner, I noticed that the internal stimulation overruled the clitoral stimulation I was feeling from the System JO stimulant – therefore this is a gel that needs physical stimulation and doesn’t have much affect if it is left untouched.
Best oil Sensuva ON Natural Arousal Clit Gel
- Not compatible with condoms
- Drop bottle for easy application
- Cinnamon scent
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Natural ingredients
- ✅ Small amounts needed
- ✅ Gentle but effective
- ✅ Doesn't dry out the skin
- ✅ Aids natural arousal and feels fantastic
Cons
- ❌ Doesn't last long
- ❌ Warm sensation can be uncomfortable
- ❌ May not react well with latex condoms or silicone toys
- ❌ Cinnamon scent can be too strong
- ❌ Very small bottle
Why I Chose It
With the Sensuva ON Natural Arousal Orgasm Oil, this oil works almost immediately, being heightened through reapplication and stimulation. Our tester Rachel enjoyed “the warming sensation that was both novel and exhilarating.” This oil provides a warm, tingling sensation that certainly enhances arousal. If you are someone enjoys warmth temperature play, then this might be the clitoral arousal oil you have been looking for – opening up a new dimension of pleasure, showing how a touch of warmth can significantly elevate intimate experiences.
Rachel and I are both people that appreciate a product that uses natural ingredients – this oil having body safe ingredients that you don’t have to worry about messing up the pH of your downstairs. Having personally tried multiple sexual lubricants, I have always been one to avoid oils, due to the thin texture on my hands. Yet, when using this oil, it was very easy to use and rub onto the clitoris, as well as feelign natural and sensual. I have noticed that oils tend to feel warmer on the skin too, therefore the temperature of this oil felt hotter.
Unfortunately, size does matter with this product, as 17fl.oz of liquid isnt that much. Although the bottle only suggests 1-2 drops, if you are looking for that intense sensation, more is better. For the fairly high price, the bottle could be a little larger, but it is greta to travel with!
CBD Infused Bijoux Indiscrets Arousal Sex Oil with CBD
- Easy-to-use pump bottle for direct application
- CBD infused oil
- Only safe with polyurethane condoms
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Great ingredients
- ✅ Pleasant scent
- ✅ Thick, nourishing oil
Cons
- ❌ Not very noticeable effect
- ❌ Contains glycerin
- ❌ Low CBD concentration
Why I Chose It
CBD has become a new global obsession, with foods, drinks, workout supplements and now sex accessories including the ingredient. There are many benefits that CBD has been known to have, but if I am honest, I have always been slightly sceptical of how much of it was a selling tactic, and how much of it was actually legit. When it comes to the Bijoux Indiscrets Arousal Sex Oil with CBD, it sounds like it is a very personal product, having a range of mixed reviews online.
Our tester Is found that it had weak stimulation, as it doesn’t include any ingredients that would produce a warming or tingling sensation. But fear not, it was not completely dead in the water – when she tried it with her partner, “the oil felt lovely as it was massaged in and it definitely added a more sensual feel than a regular water-based lube.”
CBD, the calming element to the cannabis plant, instead of the stuff that gets you high (THC), is being advertised as the modern world’s medical answer to multiple conditions, such as muscle pain, acne and migraines, but unfortunately not something that appears to make your clitoris buzz. Yet, an oil that feels sensual and intimate, while increasing arousal like a lube, the Bijoux Indiscrets Arousal Sex Oil with CBD isnt a complete loss, more of a subtle product that would always be nice to have a bottle of in your bedside draw, if you can afford it….
Comparison
Best | Test Winner | Budget Friendly | Best for Beginners | Best oil | CBD Infused |
Overall score | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.1 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.1 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 3.7 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.7 / 5.0 from 18 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 18 users | 4 / 5.0 from 79 users | 3.7 / 5.0 from 164 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 2 users |
Price | Affordable | Affordable | Affordable | Affordable | Pricey |
Design | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
Ease of use | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 75 / 100 |
Quality | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 70 / 100 |
Sound | - | - | - | - | - |
Power | - | - | - | - | - |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - |
Volume | 13 ml/0.44 fl. oz | 0.28 fl. oz | 0.34 fl oz fl. oz | 0.17 fl. oz | 1 fl. oz |
Ingredients | Glycerin, Aqua, Betaine, Ricinus Communis Seed Oil, Crambe Abyssinica Seed Oil Phytosterol Esters, Sodium Hyaluronate, Zea Mays Starch, Caesalpinia Spinosa Gum, Algin, Hydrolyzed Jojoba Esters, Menthyl Ethylamido Oxalate, Ascorbyl Palmitate, Vanillyl Butyl Ether, 1,2-hexanediol, Caprylyl Glycol, Propanediol, Phenethyl Alcohol, Caprylhydroxamic Acid, Parfum, Eugenol, Cinnamal, Coumarin, Cinnamyl Alcohol, Limonene | Butyrospermium Parkii (Shea) butter, Glycerin, Prunus Amygdalus Dulcis (Sweet Almond) oil, Sucrose Palmitate, Theobroma Cacao (Cocoa) seed butter, Cocos Nucifera oil, Parfum, Menthyl Ethylamido Oxalate, Capryl Glycol, Anillyl Butyl Ether, 1.2-Hexanediol, Ascorbyl Palmitate, Benzyl Benzoate, Hexyl Cinnamal, Citral, Limonene | Isononyl Isononanoate, Isopropyl Palmitate, Oleyl Alcohol, Zanthoxylum Alatum Extract, Ethylene/Propylene/Styrene Copolymer, Helianthus Annuus (Sunflower) Seed Extract, Rosmarinus Officinalis (Rosemary) Leaf Extract, Tetrasodium Glutamate Diacetate | Proprietary Essential Oil Blend including: Sweet Almond Oil, Cinnamo-mum Zeylanicum, Natural Tocopherols (vitamin e); silica, Natural Flavors, Rosemary Oil Extract | COCO-CAPRYLATE/CAPRATE, OLEA EUROPAEA FRUIT OIL, BUTYROSPERMUM PARKII BUTTER, GLYCINE SOJA OIL, RICINUS COMMUNIS SEED OIL, SIMMONDSIA CHINENSIS SEED OIL, ROSA CANINA FRUIT OIL, ARGANIA SPINOSA KERNEL OIL, CRAMBE ABYSSINICA SEED OIL PHYTOSTEROL ESTERS, CANNABIDIOL- Derived from Extract or Tincture or Resin of Cannabis, CENTELLA ASIATICA EXTRACT, CALENDULA OFFICINALIS EXTRACT, MATRICARIA CHAMOMILLA EXTRACT, CITRUS AURANTIUM DULCIS (ORANGE) PEEL OIL, EUGENIA CARYOPHYLLUS LEAF OIL, LAVANDULA ANGUSTIFOLIA OIL, SQUALENE, SILICA, GLYCERIN, TOCOPHEROL, BETA-SITOSTEROL, LIMONENE, EUGENOL, LINALOOL, ISOEUGENOL, GERANIOL, CITRAL |
Condom safe | Yes | Not compatible with latex condoms | Do Not Use with Latex or Polyisoprene Condoms | No | No (only safe with polyurethane condoms) |
Storage Bag Included | No | - | - | - | - |
Waterproof | - | - | No | - | - |
Openings | - | - | Twist off cap - flat face applicator | - | - |
Allergies | - | - | - | No menthol, L-Arginine, glycerin or parabens, Contains Almond Oil | - |
What should you look for in a female sensitivity gel?
Sensitivity gels are awesome accessories to help heighten those sexy stimulating sensations – when alone, with a aprtner or when using a sex toy! But how do you pick the best one for you?
- Ingredients – Try looking out for ingredients such as cinnamon oil, menthol, gingko biloba or peppermint. These will all help (to varying degrees) boost those sensations. Also make sure that you avoid any ingredients you are allergic to!
- Price – You don’t need to pay extortionate amounts for female sensitivity gel! You can get one for an affordable price, just make sure it has the features that you desire – such as numbing, tingling or prolonged sensitivity.
- Consistency – Some female sensitivity gel is runny and almost water-like in consistency, while others are more of a thick and spreadable gel. I would always suggest a thicker gel as it is often easier to locate it to a specific area, like the clitoris.
More Ways to Better Orgasms
Clitoral stimulation is a fun and exciting way to spice things up in the bedroom and to get you in the mood for all sorts of sexual shenanigans. We’ve rounded up a list of extra toys and tools that you can use to complement your sexual experiences to enhance them or make them more comfortable and pleasurable.
Lovehoney Enjoy Water-Based Lubricant
We love the size of this tub of lube! You will be slipping and sliding away to your heart’s content for many sexy sessions to come. Generously lather yourself and your toys with this awesome water-based lubricant for maximum comfort and pleasure.
Inspire Silicone Dilator Training Set (5 Piece)
We love this alluring set of dildo dilators that gradually increase in size. These are excellent for anyone who wants to try internal play for the first time. Whether you’re brand new to sex toys, want to try anal for the first time, or haven’t had penetrative sex, these five silicone protractors ease you in gently and help you learn your limits.
Although these are safe for anal exploration, we don’t recommend wearing them as butt plugs due to their non-flared base.
Elvie Silicone Rechargeable App-Controlled Kegel Exerciser
Elvie is an award-winning Kegel exercise tracker that will keep you motivated and on track to reaching your goals of a stronger pelvic floor and, consequently, more intense orgasms.
Elvie has four levels; training, beginner, intermediate, and advanced. Not only does it motivate you to train, but it also helps you to perfect your technique for optimal results. Plus, it has a month-long battery life!
We-Vibe Melt App Controlled Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator
Allow yourself to be wholly enveloped by waves of blissful orgasm with We-Vibe’s clitoral stimulator, which offers twelve sensually satisfying levels of clit-pleasing intensity in an ergonomic design. Designed with simple controls, this clitoral stimulator is intuitive and comfortable to use.
Melt Clit Stimulator is quiet, waterproof, and USB rechargeable, so you can bring it with you wherever you go. Plus, it will run for up to two hours on a single charge! What’s not to love?
How Does Clit Sensitizer Work?
Female Sensitivity gels are lubricants containing properties that stimulate blood flow to the areas they’re rubbed on. Basically, they mimic what happens inside your body when you’re turned on–blood flow will increase in your body’s erogenous zones, like your clit or nipples. When all the blood rushes to these spots, your labia become engorged, and for most people, their nerve-endings feel more sensitive.
Check out this video for more information.
Reviewed by:
Sami Townend