Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag Review
My Verdict
I loved the Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag! I was pleased with the overall quality and how easy it was to use despite it looking so intimidating! The leather strap is a tiny bit too wide to fit smoothly through the buckle loop so it can be fiddly to get on and take off. If you have limited hand or finger strength it might be a problem, but I did find that it got a bit better over time. The metal feels surprisingly comfortable, although the 'spikes' are a bit sharper than I would have preferred them. It's an amazing gag for provoking excessive drooling and it just looks incredibly BDSM-y! I love how easily it can amplify the kinky feel in any scenario and make you feel completely at your partner's mercy.
Recommended for
I advise it for advanced users; it provides greater complexity and depth.
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About The Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag
The Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag is a metal o-ring gag with four spikes on the outside that help keep the wearer's mouth completely open during playtime. This type of BDSM gag feels and looks incredibly intense and it's great for drooling or oral penetration with fingers, dildos, or penises that fit through the 1.5" diameter o-ring. The straps are made of real leather and are secured by a regular buckle fastening.
Pros
- ✅Quality construction and materials
- ✅Great for drooling
- ✅Feels super restrictive
- ✅Affordable
Cons
- ❌Buckle can be fiddly
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Personal Experience
Sexy Saliva?
As the true sex toy tester that I am, I have developed a habit for trying out or “testing” things in pretty a casual manner before actually bringing them into the bedroom. Especially with BDSM gear, it’s easy to flog yourself a little to gauge the sensation or put a collar on as you’re walking around the house to see if it feels comfortable or stiff. When I first received the Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag, I decided to put it on sitting at my desk while finishing up some tasks. I immediately felt that it was surprisingly comfortable despite the spikes keeping my lips open and the o-ring being made of rigid metal. But the strap also closed comfortably around my head and I honestly got excited about using this with my partner. I had been a bit scared of using a spider gag before and the level of comfort made me feel much better. That day, I wanted to get feel for what it was like to wear for a longer period of time. Although, I quickly had to shelve this casual testing phase because I quickly started drooling onto my desk! Thanks to the design keeping your lips wide open, this thing is an amazing tool for provoking excessive drooling–and fast! Not very casual nor very practical when you’re just trying to be a productive girlie!Ouch!
When I did try it with my partner, we both were a bit apprehensive because of the spikes jotting out around the o-ring. We usually love using our Fetish Fantasy Extreme O-ring Gag but that is covered in silicone and completely flat. Admittedly, the spikes on this spider gag did make it a lot less inviting for my partner to stick any of his body parts in my mouth. Since they were quite sharp and not as blunt as I had hoped (I am but a soft kinkster after all…), it did force us to act and move with caution under the threat of being poked and prodded. That is kind of the point after all, isn’t it? On the bright side, I found that it was actually easier to have some oral fun because things glide a bit more smoothly through the metal compared to the silicone coating I’m used to from the o-ring gag I own! Just be careful!Design
I really like the look of the Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag. Well, I like to look at it more than I like to look at myself wearing it. It effectively spreads your lips wide open and I don't know if I'm at fan of that look on myself. Although, my partner did seem like he was a fan. Something about the primal look of it, I guess. But overall, I do think it's a surprisingly elegant looking spider gag.
Ease of Use
The Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag is pretty straightforward to use and looks a lot more complicated than it is! The ring goes into your mouth behind your teeth and the spikes help keep your lips open. Now, I did find that it took some time to get used to this sensation. I had to find which placement didn't pinch my lips between the metal and my teeth. The leather strap, however, is a bit too wide to fit smoothly into the buckle so it can be a bit fiddly. Although, I think this improves over time.
Quality
Having tried a few other products from Fetish Fantasy, I know that high quality isn't always a given. But some of their products stand out and really deliver on quality and materials. The Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag is one of those. It feels like a quality construction made of good, durable, and long-lasting materials.
Price
The Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag is pretty reasonably priced in my opinion. For something that surprised me in terms of quality and durability, I think it's well worth the price point! It will also last a long time with the proper care.
Performance
The Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag exceeded my expectations in terms of how well it works as a BDSM accessory. Not only does the wearer look like they're intensely restricted orally, it feels like that s well! The excessive drooling and the wide open mouth that's ready to receive any kind of penetration really amps up the kinky feel to any scenario!
Packaging
The packaging for the Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag is not exactly subtle. It wouldn't call it very elegant either. But with a brand called Fetish Fantasy, how subtle and elegant are you really trying to be? The product itself is pictured on both the front and back of the box. It's even being modelled to show the product in use! There's some additional information about the product itself on the box and it comes in a resealable plastic bag.
Materials and care
The Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag is made of stainless steel and genuine leather. The leather needs regular cleaning with leather care products so it's a bit more maintenance than non-leather items. On the bright side, this will make it last a lot longer than any other faux leather item. The steel is easily cleaned with soap and warm water. The biggest con is that you can remove the gag itself from the strap to clean it thoroughly. That said, the design makes it easy to clean without getting the leather too wet.
Specifications and features
Length | 15-24 inches |
Diameter | 1.5 inches |
Waterproof | No |
Materials | Leather, metal |
Storage Bag Included | Resealable plastic bag |
Fastening | Buckle |
Adjustable | Adjustable strap |
Comparing Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag with alternatives
Fetish Fantasy Extreme Spider Gag | |||||
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Overall score | 4.6 / 5.0 | 3.4 / 5.0 | 4.2 / 5.0 | 4.2 / 5.0 | NaN / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 4.9 / 5.0 | 3.0 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.3 / 5.0 from 36 users | 3.7 / 5.0 from 57 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 55 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 27 users | NaN / 5.0 from 0 users |
Price | Affordable | Cheap | Affordable | Moderate | Moderate |
Design | 95 / 100 | 72 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Ease of use | 95 / 100 | 32 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 97 / 100 |
Quality | 95 / 100 | 50 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Sound | - | - | - | - | - |
Power | - | - | - | - | - |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - |
Length | 15-24 inches | Strap: 25 inches | - | - | 22.5 inches |
Diameter | 1.5 inches | Hole: 1.37 inches | O-ring: 2 inches | - | 1.5 inches |
Waterproof | No | Yes | Yes | - | Yes |
Materials | Leather, metal | Silicone, Vegan Leather, Nickel-Free Metal | Silicone | Leather, Rubber | Medical grade silicone and metal |
Storage Bag Included | Resealable plastic bag | No | No | No | No |
Fastening | Buckle | - | Silicone, metal | Buckle | Lockable buckle |
Adjustable | Adjustable strap | Yes | 19-24.5 inches | Yes | Adjustable between 14" and 20.5" in circumference |
Width | - | Lips: 2.75 inches | - | Strap: 16.5-22.5 inches | - |
Colors Available | - | Black, Pink, Red | - | Black | - |
Insertable length | - | - | - | 3 inches | - |
Quick-release valve | - | - | - | Yes | - |
Allergies | - | - | - | Contains Latex | - |
Flexibility | - | - | - | - | Strap are flexible, o-ring is rigid |
Reviewed by:
Cassie Mørch