How to use a vibrator on a guy, photo of a nude man's bottom
How to Use a Vibrator on Him

Needing to know how to use a vibrator on a guy? Congratulations for taking your between-the-sheets fun to the next level! And, considering it’s not something you may be accustomed to doing, I am going to give you all the tips, tricks and positions you need to know when using various types of vibrators on your man.

After all, I thoroughly covered how to use a vibrator on her, so it’s only fair we ladies (and guys) learn how to use a vibrator on a guy. So, let’s talk vibrators for men, anal plugs, prostate stimulators and strap on vibrators then, the best way to use those sex toys on your husband or boyfriend.

Does He Want You to Use a Vibrator on Him?

How to use a vibrator on a man, illustration of a doctor touched the prostate of a man though the anus and rectum
Although you can stimulate his perineum from the outside, reaching the prostate, or p-spot, is done through the anus and rectum, as illustrated here.

Does he want you to use a vibrator on him? If so, ladies, don’t be freaked out or suddenly think your man is gay. On the contrary, there are plenty of reasons why a man craves that back-door stimulation. First and foremost, anal play and penetration is the best way to stimulate his prostate and give him the most mind-blowing and intense orgasms he’s ever experienced.

Plus, he may just want to experiment sexually – no different that you wanting to try anal sex yourself – and spice things up in the bedroom. So, there’s no need to worry, just be happy that he is open-minded and sexually adventurous!

Types of Vibrators to Use on a Guy

Before you learn how to use a vibrator on a man, it’s probably a good idea to know the types of vibrators you can use to pleasure him. Some of the types of vibrators to use on a guy are nightstand staples. However, there are a couple of types of vibrators made specifically for him. Here is a list of vibrating playthings that are perfect for massaging and thrilling him from head to toe:

No list of products or how-to blog post is complete without a product guide! Click here to learn more about the products listed above with links to specific items so you can see what they look like and how they work.

How to Use a Vibrator on a Guy’s Penis, Testicles and Perineum

How to use a vibrator on a guy, photo of a penis with the anatomy labeled

How to use a vibrator on him, photo of a penis with the anatomy labeled

Knowing how to use a vibrator on him will not only spice up the sex, it can make foreplay a whole lot more fun for him too. Use a smaller vibrator or handheld massager around the head (glans) of his penis, the super sensitive frenulum, down the shaft and on his scrotum and testicles.

Just be sure the vibrator doesn’t buzz too forcefully as it can desensitize his most sensitive spots.

You can also stimulate his prostate from the outside by pressing either of those types of vibrators behind his testicles and against his perineum – especially while fondling him or performing oral sex.

How to Use a Vibrator on Him for Massage

Who doesn’t like a good massage? Relax him from head to toe by knowing how to use a vibrator on him for massage. A handheld vibrator is a great tool for undoing knotted muscles in the neck, shoulders, back and buttocks. Then, roll him over – before he falls asleep – and use it on his thighs and perineum for a happy ending that’s sure to make him a content man.

Using a Vibrating Butt Plug on Him

Using a vibrating butt plug on him is one of the easiest ways to give him back-door fun will doing nearly anything you want to him -blow job, hand job or wild and crazy sex. See, most anal plugs are shaped thin at the top, for easy insertion, widening in the middle then narrowing again with a larger, flared base. This keeps the plug in place – look ma, no hands!

Positions for Using an Anal Vibrator on Your Man

Most of us ladies are pretty well-versed on using a vibrator on ourselves. But, when it comes to knowing how to use a vibrator on a man, we may be a little awkward. Therefore, Be-Be and Grey are going to show you some positions to try that make it easy to stimulate him with a vibrator.

Stroke and Cuddle

How to use a vibrator on him, the stroke and cuddle position
The Stroke and Cuddle Position

Curl up next to him with your head on his chest or stomach – depending on your height – and stroke his penis – or he can masturbate – while using a vibrator to stimulate his p-spot from the outside. You can also use a male vibrator or prostate stimulator to penetrate him in this position.

Oral Vibrations

How to use a vibrator on a man, photo of the Oral Vibrations position
The Oral Vibrations Position

How to use a vibrator on a guy, second photo of the Oral Vibrations position.
The Oral Vibrations Position

Any position you use to pleasure him orally is the perfect position to give him some good vibrations at the same time. Simply use one hand to stroke while you suck and the other to hold the vibrator or prostate stimulator in place. This is when a remote-control vibrator comes in handy!

How to use a vibrator on a man, third photo of Oral Vibrations position with the female using a suction cup dildo to pleasure herself at the same time.
The Oral Vibrations Position with a little fun for her.

Or, use this same position on a smooth surface, position yourself on your knees and move up and down on a suction cup dildo while you pleasure him.

Kneeling Position

How to use a vibrator on a man, the Kneeling position.
Kneeling Position

This position allows you to use a vibrator or prostate stimulator on him while being in a comfortable position. Simply sit between his bended knees to gain full access to his rear entry and his junk.

How to Use a Vibrator on a Guy by Pegging

How to use a vibrator on him pegging, photo of the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit
Tantus Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit

If you want to go all-in and learn how you use a vibrator on a guy by pegging him, here are some things you’ll need to know. First, be sure and find a good-fitting harness. Here’s one that is highly recommended for beginners by Sexual Alpha (fantastic blogger btw). Then, have the proper lube on standby – and don’t be afraid to use plenty of it so pegging is comfortable for him.

Then, find the positions that best suit your body size and shape as well as experience. Pegging is a sensual way to swap places and let him experience what it’s like for you and vice-versa.

Doggy Style

How to use a vibrator on him by pegging, photo of the doggy position with female on her knees.
Pegging him with a vibrator, Doggy Position on your knees

How to use a vibrator on him, pegging him doggy style, standing
Pegging him with a vibrator in the Doggy Style Position, standing behind him

This position is the easiest for pegging him with a vibrator. If you’re more petite, you can stand up so you’re more level with his anus.

How to use a vibrator on a man, photo of the doggy position with his chest on the bed
Doggy Style Position with his chest on the bed

You can also have him lie with his chest down on the bed to allow for easier penetration. You can also try other exciting variations of this position by bending him over furniture.

The Cowboy

How to use a vibrator on him, pegging in the cowboy position
The Cowboy Position

The cowboy position allows him to control the speed and depth of penetration and allows you full access to his penis so you can stroke him while he rides the vibrator.

How to use a vibrator on him pegging, photo of the reverse cowboy position
The Reverse Cowboy Position

Try the reverse cowboy too!

Miss Missionary

How to use a vibrator on a man, pegging, photo of the Miss Missionary Position
Pegging with a vibrator in the Miss Missionary Position

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The Miss Missionary Position with his legs up

Using the missionary position for pegging is slightly more difficult to do, so he may need to bring his legs up so you can access his anus more easily.

Primal Plunge

How to use a vibrator on a guy, photo of the Primal Plunge Position
The Primal Plunge Position

The primal plunge position gives you more control of the depth of penetration and is a good position for newbies. And, since you are entering him from above, the downward strokes will make better contact with his p-spot.

Little Spoon

How to use a vibrator on a guy, photo of the little spoon position
The Little Spoon

Who doesn’t love a little bit of spooning? Curl yourself around his backside and slowly peg him till he explodes with pleasure. This is also a position that leaves his hands free to masturbate.

Have Fun Using a Vibrator on Your Man

No matter if you’re a sexual pro or just starting out, knowing how to use a vibrator on your man will add a tantalizing thrill to your sexual escapades. Adding a vibrator puts a sexy twist on manual stimulation, oral sex and intercourse by stimulating his prostate and giving him the best dual orgasms he’s ever experienced.

5 Responses

  1. I’m going to state the obvious. There should be NO sharing of toys when it’s used for anal. There should always be a separate toy for him and for her. Same goes for lesbian, gay, and any non hetero couples.

    1. Yes! I agree 100% and have mentioned this in previous blog posts. So, everyone listen to Alexis, she knows what she’s talking about. Swapping bacteria, viruses and fecal matter is not the type of closeness you want. This is especially important for women as cross contamination around the vagina and urethra can cause painful urinary tract infections as well as bacterial vaginosis which is not only uncomfortable but causes the vagina to have an extremely fishy discharge.

  2. Said well to enco like anything a time for ruff n pounding crazed rage others to let go n enjoy a healthy pounding once
    Its the want lol mixing other things in helps take the journey decrimp from lost ideals that were outdated or hidden to the west since Europe more relaxed n the states others take more time to be open minded ,I like testing n inventing there’s pleasure in being able to see what u like n what blows your mind n excels at the best of times

  3. I’ve found my later years more in touch with my feme side it’s really nice enjoying shit most people I’ve spent time learning by Listerning n making all a rewarding feel n make it’s more appel it’s how you make it that wins or breaks it ,I always have people ask me how to get my x to suck or try more ,I never had problems ,it’s how you take them into a mind battle to enjoy n discover n have control at it’s actions oh some additives gets them revved up n great foreplay n stir up there fantasy and it’s lovely to think it inspired great orgasim n to go further in time n daydreams by touch n feel ,oh I’m a x musician so I like some throbbing additives n lubes n electrolysis is a great current fake organisms yes free n no effort just place n rates make it ,I like 48hrs of indulgences, record to see what works n why hmm lol

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