Product Guide: How to Use a Vibrator on a Guy

By Edie / February 01, 2023

In this blog post you’ll learn 1) how to use a vibrator on a guy, and 2) what sex toys to choose!

Once you know how to stimulate him with a vibrator, how do you possibly choose the right sex toy do get the job done?

Well, this is a great place to start!

Check out my product pics for the best vibrators to use on your man.

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Product Guide: How to Use a Vibrator on a Guy

Bullet Vibrator: The Charged Combo Kit 1

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The Screaming O Charged Combo Kit 1

Bullet vibrators are the perfect, compact companion to use all over his body for massage and sensual stimulation. The Charged Combo Kit 1, by Screaming O, is a great starter kit as it combines a bullet vibrator, a cock ring and a finger sleeve. Made of smooth, body-safe silicone, the ring can be used while pegging; simply flip it upside down to stimulate his perineum.

Plus, the rechargeable, Vooom bullet gives you 10 functions of vibration, pulsation and escalation to choose from with low, rumbling sensations instead of that desensitizing buzz.

Handheld Massager: The Rub-It Vibrator

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The Rub-It Vibrator by Screaming O

Handheld massagers are much easier to hold onto as well as having larger surface areas for greater contact. Screaming O’s Rub-It Rechargeable Vibrator has an easy-to-use, chunky shape that’s fantastic for massaging out knotted muscles as well as giving him an unbelievable perineum massage.

The silky, silicone glides across the skin while the Vooom motor rumbles deeply for incredible sensations. Choose from 20 delightful settings of vibration, pulsation patterns and escalation.

Vibrating Butt Plug: Under Control Silicone Vibrating Anal Plug

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The Under Control Vibrating Anal Plug

Remote control butt plugs will give him stimulating anal pleasure that stays in place! The Under Control Vibrating Anal Plug is created using premium silicone that’s body-safe and cleans up easily. It’s narrow tip and flexible neck make it extremely comfortable and great for first-time users.

It features a convenient remote control, so you can set it and forget it. And, with easy-to-use buttons, you can toggle between 3 vibration speeds and 7 patterns of wow.

Male Vibrator: The BOMBEX Vibrating Prostate Massager

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The Bombex Prostate Massager

Handheld vibrators, made specifically for men, are easy to grasp and the optimal length to stimulate his p-spot. The Bombex Prostate Massager is a waterproof wonder that can take showers to a whole new level. The smooth silicone, flared base and 5 insertable inches are great features. But the fact that it has 10 stimulating levels of vibration as well as being rechargeable makes it a sex toy staple for every man.

Prostate Stimulator: Chevan Wiggle Motion Prostate Stimulator

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The Chevan Wiggle Motion Prostate Stimulator

Make him scream with pleasure with this multi-function prostate stimulator. The Chevan Wiggle Motion Prostate Stimulator is made of top-quality silicone and features heat and movement. The insertable end massages his prostate directly with heat, vibration and motion. Plus, the exterior stimulator places pressure on the perineum and vibrates for dual pleasure.

This prostate stimulator has 7 vibration levels and 3 wiggle settings and is remote controlled with up to a 32 feet radius. All these fantastic features, plus affordability, make it a steal you cannot pass up.

Pegging Kit: Tantus Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit

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The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit

Are you ready to try pegging with your man? Then, by all means, invest in the Tantus Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit. This kit includes a comfortable harness with an O ring that is compatible with most flared-base sex toys, 2 non-penis-looking dildos and a long, vibrating bullet that can be placed inside each one or worn inside the harness pocket for clitoral thrills.

Knowing How to Use a Vibrator on Your Man is an Important Skill

Knowing how to use a vibrator on a guy is an important skill to have! It adds a sensual twist to manual stimulation, oral sex and even massages. Plus, knowing how to give him a p-spot massage and orgasm will earn you big, sexual brownie points. So, get shopping and sizzle between the sheets with your man this weekend!

How to use a vibrator on a guy – and as a guy on yourself

Needing to know how to use a vibrator on a guy? Congratulations for taking your between-the-sheets fun to the next level! And, considering it’s not something you may be accustomed to doing, I am going to give you all the tips, tricks and positions you need to know when using male vibrators on your man.

After all, I thoroughly covered how to use a vibrator on her, so it’s only fair we ladies (and guys) learn how to use a vibrator on a guy. So, let’s talk vibrators for men, anal plugs, prostate stimulators and strap on vibrators then, the best way to use those sex toys on your husband or boyfriend.

First, here is a list of our Round-up reviews of some of the best anal toys for men:

Does He Want You to Use a Vibrator on Him?

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Although you can stimulate his perineum from the outside, reaching the prostate, or p-spot, is done through the anus and rectum, as illustrated here.

Does he want you to use a vibrator on him? If so, ladies, don’t be freaked out or suddenly think your man is gay. On the contrary, there are plenty of reasons why a man craves that back-door stimulation. First and foremost, anal play and penetration is the best way to stimulate his prostate and give him the most mind-blowing and intense orgasms he’s ever experienced.

Plus, he may just want to experiment sexually – no different that you wanting to try anal sex yourself – and spice things up in the bedroom. So, there’s no need to worry, just be happy that he is open-minded and sexually adventurous!

Types of Vibrators to Use on a Guy

Before you learn how to use a vibrator on a man, it’s probably a good idea to know the types of vibrators you can use to pleasure him. Some of the types of vibrators to use on a guy are nightstand staples. However, there are a couple of types of vibrators made specifically for him. Here is a list of vibrating playthings that are perfect for massaging and thrilling him from head to toe:

  • Bullet Vibrator: Bullet vibrators are perfect little sex toys for men and women. Their compact size makes them great for massage, stimulating his perineum and his penis.
  • Small Handheld Vibrators: Different from bullet vibrators, this type of vibrator has a larger contact surface and are easier to hold, making them great for massaging and teasing his entire body.
  • Vibrating Anal Plugs: These little marvels are just-right for stimulating his back-door during oral sex or intercourse. Best yet, they are shaped to stay in place, no hands needed.
  • Male Vibrators: Male vibrators are created specifically for anal penetration and are curved slightly, like a g-spot vibrator, to give direct stimulation to his prostate gland.
  • Prostate Stimulators: Created specifically for the male body, these sex toys vibrate internally to stimulate his p-spot and oftentimes have an external vibrator to give him double the p-spot pleasure through perineum stimulation.

No list of products or how-to blog post is complete without a product guide! Click here to learn more about the products listed above with links to specific items so you can see what they look like and how they work.

How to Use a Vibrator on a Guy’s Penis, Testicles and Perineum

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How to use a vibrator on him, photo of a penis with the anatomy labeled

Knowing how to use a vibrator on him will not only spice up the sex, it can make foreplay a whole lot more fun for him too. Use a smaller vibrator or handheld massager around the head (glans) of his penis, the super sensitive frenulum, down the shaft and on his scrotum and testicles.

Just be sure the vibrator doesn’t buzz too forcefully as it can desensitize his most sensitive spots.

You can also stimulate his prostate from the outside by pressing either of those types of vibrators behind his testicles and against his perineum – especially while fondling him or performing oral sex.

How to Use a Vibrator on Him for Massage

Who doesn’t like a good massage? Relax him from head to toe by knowing how to use a vibrator on him for massage. A handheld vibrator is a great tool for undoing knotted muscles in the neck, shoulders, back and buttocks. Then, roll him over – before he falls asleep – and use it on his thighs and perineum for a happy ending that’s sure to make him a content man.

Using a Vibrating Butt Plug on Him

Using a vibrating butt plug on him is one of the easiest ways to give him back-door fun will doing nearly anything you want to him -blow job, hand job or wild and crazy sex. See, most anal plugs are shaped thin at the top, for easy insertion, widening in the middle then narrowing again with a larger, flared base. This keeps the plug in place – look ma, no hands!

Positions for Using an Anal Vibrator on Your Man

Most of us ladies are pretty well-versed on using a vibrator on ourselves. But, when it comes to knowing how to use a vibrator on a man, we may be a little awkward. Therefore, Be-Be and Grey are going to show you some positions to try that make it easy to stimulate him with a vibrator.

Stroke and Cuddle

How to use a vibrator on him, the stroke and cuddle position
The Stroke and Cuddle Position

Curl up next to him with your head on his chest or stomach – depending on your height – and stroke his penis – or he can masturbate – while using a vibrator to stimulate his p-spot from the outside. You can also use a male vibrator or prostate stimulator to penetrate him in this position.

Oral Vibrations

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The Oral Vibrations Position

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The Oral Vibrations Position

Any position you use to pleasure him orally is the perfect position to give him some good vibrations at the same time. Simply use one hand to stroke while you suck and the other to hold the vibrator or prostate stimulator in place. This is when a remote-control vibrator comes in handy!

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The Oral Vibrations Position with a little fun for her.

Or, use this same position on a smooth surface, position yourself on your knees and move up and down on a suction cup dildo while you pleasure him.

Kneeling Position

How to use a vibrator on a man, the Kneeling position.
Kneeling Position

This position allows you to use a vibrator or prostate stimulator on him while being in a comfortable position. Simply sit between his bended knees to gain full access to his rear entry and his junk.

How to Use a Vibrator on a Guy by Pegging

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Tantus Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit

If you want to go all-in and learn how you use a vibrator on a guy by pegging him, here are some things you’ll need to know. First, be sure and find a good-fitting harness – for example with a pegging kit. Here’s one that is highly recommended for beginners by Sexual Alpha (fantastic blogger btw). Then, have the proper lube on standby – and don’t be afraid to use plenty of it so pegging is comfortable for him.

Then, find the positions that best suit your body size and shape as well as experience. Pegging is a sensual way to swap places and let him experience what it’s like for you and vice-versa.

Doggy Style

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Pegging him with a vibrator, Doggy Position on your knees

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Pegging him with a vibrator in the Doggy Style Position, standing behind him

This position is the easiest for pegging him with a vibrator. If you’re more petite, you can stand up so you’re more level with his anus.

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Doggy Style Position with his chest on the bed

You can also have him lie with his chest down on the bed to allow for easier penetration. You can also try other exciting variations of this position by bending him over furniture.

The Cowboy

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The Cowboy Position

The cowboy position allows him to control the speed and depth of penetration and allows you full access to his penis so you can stroke him while he rides the vibrator.

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The Reverse Cowboy Position

Try the reverse cowboy too!

Miss Missionary

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Pegging with a vibrator in the Miss Missionary Position

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The Miss Missionary Position with his legs up

Using the missionary position for pegging is slightly more difficult to do, so he may need to bring his legs up so you can access his anus more easily.

Primal Plunge

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The Primal Plunge Position

The primal plunge position gives you more control of the depth of penetration and is a good position for newbies. And, since you are entering him from above, the downward strokes will make better contact with his p-spot.

Little Spoon

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The Little Spoon

Who doesn’t love a little bit of spooning? Curl yourself around his backside and slowly peg him till he explodes with pleasure. This is also a position that leaves his hands free to masturbate.

Have Fun Using a Vibrator on Your Man

No matter if you’re a sexual pro or just starting out, knowing how to use a vibrator on your man will add a tantalizing thrill to your sexual escapades. Adding a vibrator puts a sexy twist on manual stimulation, oral sex and intercourse by stimulating his prostate and giving him the best dual orgasms he’s ever experienced.