5 Best Dildos with Handles

Cassie M
by Cassie MUpdated:

Dildos with handles are a godsend for people like me: a perpetual pillow princess, who very rarely uses suction cup dildos for riding and grinding. Instead of getting tired and cramped hands from reaching down to grasp a flat base, dildos with handles offer amazing assistance and comfort during solo and partnered play! In this review, I’ve compiled a list of the best dildos with handles that we’ve tested here at Bedbible.

Test Winner

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Mike Johnson

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 116 user reviews

Best For Beginners

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie M

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on user reviews

Best Vibrating

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 75 user reviews

Best For Couples

5.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie M

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Expert Pick

4.9Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 381 user reviews

Gläs Purple RainTantus Goddess HandleWe-Vibe Nova 2Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Smallnjoy Pure Wand
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Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
  • Glass is non-porous and can be sterilized
  • Compatible with all lubes
  • Great for temperature play
  • Firmness provides intense g-spot or p-spot stimulation
  • Very beginner-friendly
  • Takes time to warm up
  • Might be too small for more experienced users
  • Slim diameter is great for newbies
  • Made of high quality silicone
  • Non-anatomical design with a gorgeous, shimmering purple color
  • Doesn't provide great g-spot or p-spot stimulation
  • The silicone is super soft and squishy
  • Fully waterproof
  • Can be adjusted to fit your body
  • Offers dual stimulation
  • App-controls allow for very versatile play
  • Might be not girthy enough for more experienced users
  • Pricey
  • Great quality construction
  • A few different sizes and colors to choose from
  • The adjustability makes it accommodate different bodies
  • Provides great internal stimulation on both sides
  • The dildo is a bit floppy
  • The firm and weighted steel provides intense internal stimulation
  • Curved design helps target the g-spot and p-spot
  • Great for temperature play
  • Compatible with all lubes
  • Too heavy for those with limited wrist or hand strength
  • Expensive

How We Test dildos with handles

We’re a team of 363 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best dildos with handles, our testers tried and reviewed 150 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre dildos with handles didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1457 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
The testing process when reviewing a dildo with handle

Test Winner Gläs Purple Rain Dildo Glass Dildo

4.3/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Mike Johnson

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 116 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Gläs Purple Rain Dildo Glass Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo with handle.

75/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Gläs Purple Rain Dildo Glass Dildo was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Gläs Purple Rain Dildo Glass Dildo was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Double-ended glass dildo 
  • One end features a beaded shaft
  • The other end has a curved shaft with a bulbous tip.

Pros

  • Glass is non-porous and can be sterilized
  • Compatible with all lubes
  • Great for temperature play
  • Firmness provides intense g-spot or p-spot stimulation
  • Very beginner-friendly

Cons

  • Takes time to warm up
  • Might be too small for more experienced users

Specifications

Why I Chose It

This glass dildo with handle is a simple and elegant toy. It only has a diameter of 1 inch which makes it extremely accessible for beginners. That said, the glass provides some pretty firm stimulation, so I’d say it’s significantly more intense than a slim silicone dildo. Our tester, Mike, tried it with his wife and concluded that “While it might not deliver the satisfying sensation of ‘fullness’ on its own, it transforms into an excellent accomplice when paired with oral or manual techniques.”

The double-ended design (which is what essentially makes it a dildo with a handle) makes it versatile. Each end offers different sensations, and are more or less suitable for both vaginal and anal play. Whichever end you’re not using doubles as a handle that’s surprisingly easy to grip – even when covered in lube!

Glass is one of my favorite dildo materials since it’s easy to use, compatible with all types of lube, great for temperature play, and easy to sterilize. I love that the curved tip on one end really targets the g-spot or prostate. It’s incredibly cheap for something so long-lasting, beautiful, and versatile.

Best For Beginners Tantus Goddess Handle

4.7/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie M

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on user reviews

85/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Goddess Handle was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo with handle.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Goddess Handle was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Goddess Handle was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Slim silicone dildo with a whimsical, non-anatomical design
  • Ergonomic handle with finger ridges and a grippy texture
  • Glossy, iridescent purple silicone.

Pros

  • Slim diameter is great for newbies
  • Made of high quality silicone
  • Non-anatomical design with a gorgeous, shimmering purple color

Cons

  • Doesn't provide great g-spot or p-spot stimulation

Specifications

Why I Chose It

The Tantus Goddess Handle is my top choice for beginners who need a good dildo with a handle. The Tantus Goddess Handle is very similar to the Tantus Echo Handle. They both even share that iridescent purple color. The main difference is the diameter and the shape of the shaft.

Compared to the Echo’s 1.75″ in diameter, the Goddess is only 1.5″. Combined with the smooth surface of the silicone, this dildo is a lot more suitable for those who are new to using dildos or simply prefer less of a stretch. It’s perfect if you’re also into anal play!

I was the lucky tester for this dildo, and I really enjoyed the unconventional shape. It stimulating but not too textured, and the non-anatomical design is fun and whimsical. Just as with the other dildos with handles from Tantus, I very much appreciate the ergonomic grip on the long handle. It’s super comfortable to thrust with, and provides a bit more insertable length. All in all, it’s another high quality option that’s both durable, long-lasting, and approachable for beginners who don’t want their hands to cramp up!

Best Vibrating We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator

4.8/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 75 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo with handle.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Silicone rabbit-style vibrator with a wide handle
  • Poseable shaft and flexible clitoral stem
  • App-control feature offers customizable vibration settings and long-distance play.

Pros

  • The silicone is super soft and squishy
  • Fully waterproof
  • Can be adjusted to fit your body
  • Offers dual stimulation
  • App-controls allow for very versatile play

Cons

  • Might be not girthy enough for more experienced users
  • Pricey

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of We-Vibe Nova 2 Rabbit Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Why I Chose It

The We-Vibe Nova 2 is my top pick for those who love enjoying a blended orgasm from dual stimulation. This is a rabbit-style vibrator with a nice, wide base to hold onto, making it a lot easier to use on yourself or a partner without straining your hands or wrists.

My favorite feature of the We-Vibe Nova 2 is the adjustable shaft and the flexible clitoral stem. As someone who has always had issues with rabbit vibrators not fitting my body, this customizable toy is a godsend!

After testing it out for us, the We-Vibe Nova 2 quickly became Kasia’s favorite sex toy in her collection. The vibrations are incredibly rumbly in both motors, and the clitoral stem even feels like it’s tapping against your clit when at full blast. The app-controlled features take things up a notch and offer so much more versatility in use and interactive features.

Best For Couples Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small

5.0/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie M

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo with handle.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Silicone strapless strap-on
  • Bulbous insertable pony and a slimline dildo with a pronounced tip
  • Adjustable hinge allows you to customize the fit
  • Doubles as a dildo with a handle when not used as a strap-on.

Pros

  • Great quality construction
  • A few different sizes and colors to choose from
  • The adjustability makes it accommodate different bodies
  • Provides great internal stimulation on both sides

Cons

  • The dildo is a bit floppy

Specifications

Why I Chose It

I also had the pleasure of testing out the Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small myself. While it worked surprisingly well as a strapless strap-on, I want to focus on how well it performed as a dildo with a handle! For solo play, I had a blast with this little device. I tried using both ends for different kinds of internal stimulation. I quickly noticed how much easier it was to thrust the dildo when the opposite end doubled as a handle.

The adjustable features actually allowed my to line up the bulbous pony with my clitoris. This way I could grind up against that while enjoying the dildo internally. Even though it’s a simple silicone construction without any vibrating bells or whistles, it was an amazing additional function!

I would really recommend this to couples who use dildos regularly–both on each other or on themselves–and could benefit from this built-in handle. If those couples also have an interest in strap-on play or pegging (or might want the option to in the future), I highly recommend this product! Although, I would opt for a larger size if you’re an intermediate dildo user.

Expert Pick njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

4.9/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 381 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the dildo with handle.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Double-ended dildo made of 316-grade stainless steel
  • Tight curve and two rounded ends in different sizes (1″ & 1.5″ in diameter)
  • Weighs 1.51 lbs
  • Comes in a storage/display box lined with pink satin.

Pros

  • The firm and weighted steel provides intense internal stimulation
  • Curved design helps target the g-spot and p-spot
  • Great for temperature play
  • Compatible with all lubes

Cons

  • Too heavy for those with limited wrist or hand strength
  • Expensive

Specifications

Why I Chose It

I picked out the njoy Pure Wand as my expert pick because it’s an amazing double-ended dildo that’s surprisingly easy to grip and control. As our tester, Isabelle, says in her review: “The weight distribution and curve take all of the hard work out of getting that deep stimulation exactly where you want it, and you only have to apply minimal pressure to get some incredibly intense sensations.”

The combination of the weight, the firm steel, and that curved, bulbous design makes the njoy Pure Wand stand out among other dildos with handles: “The sensations I felt with the Pure Wand were quite unlike any other dildo I’ve used before.” That said, keep in mind that it gets slippery with lube!

As amazing as it is, it also comes with a price tag to match the luxurious aesthetics and quality of the toy. So, it might not be for everyone, but it very much deserves an honorable mention.

Comparison

BestTest Winner Best For Beginners Best Vibrating Best For Couples Expert Pick
Overall score4.3 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.0 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0
User rating4.7 / 5.0
from 116 users
4.6 / 5.0
from 6 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 75 users
5 / 5.0
from 3 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 381 users
PriceModerate Affordable Moderate Moderate Premium
Design90 / 100 85 / 100 100 / 100 95 / 100 100 / 100
Ease of use75 / 100 100 / 100 95 / 100 85 / 100 95 / 100
Quality90 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100
Sound--20 / 100 --
Power--80 / 100 --
Buzzy/Rumbly--somewhat rumbly --
Length7 inches10.5 inches8.5 inches-9 inches
Insertable length5 inches6.5 inches5 inches6.1 inches8 inches
Diameter1 inches1.5 inches1.5 inchesPony: 1.53 inches, Dildo: 1.06 inchesSmall end: 1 inch, Large end: 1.5 inches
MaterialsGlass Premium silicone Silicone Exterior: Premium silicone, Interior: ABS plastic 316-grade stainless steel
WaterproofYes Yes Yes Yes Yes
Storage Bag IncludedYes No Yes Yes Box
Colors AvailablePurple Amethyst Pink, Blue Black, Purple Steel
Vibration speeds--10 --
Vibration patterns--10 --
Rechargeable--Yes --
Battery Life--120 minutes--
Charging Time--90 minutes--
Travel Lock--Yes --
App Controls--Yes --
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Why You Should Buy a Dildo With a Handle

  • Comfort – Dildos with handles are amazing for those who struggle to find a comfortable position while using a dildo. It’s great for those who get tired arms or hands while holding a flat base, or those who have mobility issues or limited hand strength. Handles enhance your grip and control over the dildo while ensuring your comfort.
  • Use – The handle ad increased length of the dildo make it easier for you to target any orifice in different positions, even during solo play! Dildos with handles are accessible to all body types and thereby offer more versatility. The added length also allows you to explore depth play!
  • Partner – Dildos with handles are super handy when you’re with a partner. They improve your control and stamina and make it a lot less likely that your hands cramp up or get tired during long sessions.

What to Think of When Buying Dildos With a Handle

  • Shape – There are a few different handle shapes out there. Some look like handles (with finger ridges and a textured, grippy surface) and others double as an insertable shaft (like the beaded end of a glass dildo or a strapless strap-on), and some have an ergonomic design (like finger loops or wide bases that are easy to grip). Consider which shape fits your needs in terms of your preferred positions and angles in which you might be using the dildo.
  • Material – Most dildos with hands are made of firmer materials like glass, metal, or firm silicone. These materials are non-porous, body-safe, long-lasting, and easy to clean. I always recommend opting for these types of materials.
  • Price – You can find dildos with handles with vastly different price ranges. Consider your budget, of course, but the most important thing to keep in mind is how the design of the handle (and dildo, of course) will fit your preferred needs. Most dildos with handles are not super cheap but you can definitely find some that are reasonably priced, like the Gläs Purple Rain Dildo.
Author
Cassie M
Cassie M

Content Specialist | Anthropologist with a passion for exploring how humans understand sex, pleasure, and intimacy. I believe sexual well-being and pleasure is intricately linked to our overall health and well-being in ways that we probably can’t even comprehend! That’s why I love being able to write about all things related to sex, masturbation, and kink. Hopefully, our informative and sex-positive approach here at Bedbible will allow you to explore your true desires – and help you fulfill them!

Age: 27
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Bisexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: Le Wand Hoop Stainless Steel Dildo
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