5 Best Dildos with Handles

Why I Chose It

This glass dildo with handle is a simple and elegant toy. It only has a diameter of 1 inch which makes it extremely accessible for beginners. That said, the glass provides some pretty firm stimulation, so I’d say it’s significantly more intense than a slim silicone dildo. Our tester, Mike, tried it with his wife and concluded that “While it might not deliver the satisfying sensation of ‘fullness’ on its own, it transforms into an excellent accomplice when paired with oral or manual techniques.”

The double-ended design (which is what essentially makes it a dildo with a handle) makes it versatile. Each end offers different sensations, and are more or less suitable for both vaginal and anal play. Whichever end you’re not using doubles as a handle that’s surprisingly easy to grip – even when covered in lube!

Glass is one of my favorite dildo materials since it’s easy to use, compatible with all types of lube, great for temperature play, and easy to sterilize. I love that the curved tip on one end really targets the g-spot or prostate. It’s incredibly cheap for something so long-lasting, beautiful, and versatile.

Why I Chose It

The Tantus Goddess Handle is my top choice for beginners who need a good dildo with a handle. The Tantus Goddess Handle is very similar to the Tantus Echo Handle. They both even share that iridescent purple color. The main difference is the diameter and the shape of the shaft.

Compared to the Echo’s 1.75″ in diameter, the Goddess is only 1.5″. Combined with the smooth surface of the silicone, this dildo is a lot more suitable for those who are new to using dildos or simply prefer less of a stretch. It’s perfect if you’re also into anal play!

I was the lucky tester for this dildo, and I really enjoyed the unconventional shape. It stimulating but not too textured, and the non-anatomical design is fun and whimsical. Just as with the other dildos with handles from Tantus, I very much appreciate the ergonomic grip on the long handle. It’s super comfortable to thrust with, and provides a bit more insertable length. All in all, it’s another high quality option that’s both durable, long-lasting, and approachable for beginners who don’t want their hands to cramp up!

Why I Chose It

The We-Vibe Nova 2 is my top pick for those who love enjoying a blended orgasm from dual stimulation. This is a rabbit-style vibrator with a nice, wide base to hold onto, making it a lot easier to use on yourself or a partner without straining your hands or wrists.

My favorite feature of the We-Vibe Nova 2 is the adjustable shaft and the flexible clitoral stem. As someone who has always had issues with rabbit vibrators not fitting my body, this customizable toy is a godsend!

After testing it out for us, the We-Vibe Nova 2 quickly became Kasia’s favorite sex toy in her collection. The vibrations are incredibly rumbly in both motors, and the clitoral stem even feels like it’s tapping against your clit when at full blast. The app-controlled features take things up a notch and offer so much more versatility in use and interactive features.

Why I Chose It

I also had the pleasure of testing out the Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap-On Small myself. While it worked surprisingly well as a strapless strap-on, I want to focus on how well it performed as a dildo with a handle! For solo play, I had a blast with this little device. I tried using both ends for different kinds of internal stimulation. I quickly noticed how much easier it was to thrust the dildo when the opposite end doubled as a handle.

The adjustable features actually allowed my to line up the bulbous pony with my clitoris. This way I could grind up against that while enjoying the dildo internally. Even though it’s a simple silicone construction without any vibrating bells or whistles, it was an amazing additional function!

I would really recommend this to couples who use dildos regularly–both on each other or on themselves–and could benefit from this built-in handle. If those couples also have an interest in strap-on play or pegging (or might want the option to in the future), I highly recommend this product! Although, I would opt for a larger size if you’re an intermediate dildo user.

Why I Chose It

I picked out the njoy Pure Wand as my expert pick because it’s an amazing double-ended dildo that’s surprisingly easy to grip and control. As our tester, Isabelle, says in her review: “The weight distribution and curve take all of the hard work out of getting that deep stimulation exactly where you want it, and you only have to apply minimal pressure to get some incredibly intense sensations.”

The combination of the weight, the firm steel, and that curved, bulbous design makes the njoy Pure Wand stand out among other dildos with handles: “The sensations I felt with the Pure Wand were quite unlike any other dildo I’ve used before.” That said, keep in mind that it gets slippery with lube!

As amazing as it is, it also comes with a price tag to match the luxurious aesthetics and quality of the toy. So, it might not be for everyone, but it very much deserves an honorable mention.