The 11 Best Dildos with Handles for Gratifying Gripping
The testing process when reviewing a dildo with handle
We’ve written hundreds of reviews here at Bedbible and together with our sexperts (Bedbibles testers) we tried thousands of sex toys. So, if you wonder if we know what we’re doing – yes, we know exactly what to look for in a good sex toy.
A sex toy is rated in a lot of different ways. It’s rated from the first impression of the packaging, does it come with instructions? How does it charge and how long time does it take, and how long does the battery last? How does it feel, is it flexible and how is it designed? Does it have any extra features, maybe vibrations, in that case how are the vibrations?
Yes, I think you get it by now, a review like this takes over 50 hours just because we want to go as deep as possible before providing you with this review.
Why you should buy a Dildo with a handle:
- Comfort – If you want to masturbate without struggling to find a good position, or if you have mobility issues this is great.
- Use – You can use your new dildo both vaginally, anally, and orally if you want. So it means that it’s a dildo for all body types. Just make sure it has a flared base if you want to use it anally!
- Partner – It’s also handy when being with one or more partner(s). It gives the possibility to do more powerful thrust movements. Great for you who wants to explore pegging.
What to think of when buying a dildos with a handle:
- Shape – There are straight, curved, and rounded handles. Which one would you prefer? Some even have textured grips and some have smooth surfaces.
- Material – Do you prefer dildos in glass, silicone, or some kind of plastic? Either way, we will help you to find one for your liking. We always recommend going for a non-porous, non-toxic material like silicone, metal, or glass.
- Price – You can find dildos within different price ranges, are you in a situation where you need to find a budget-friendly dildo or are you in for spending a lot of money on luxurious toys?
FAQ
What is a dildo with handle?
The name says it all - dildos with handles, it's a dildo-looking sex toy with a handle to hold onto. A dildo is used is supposed to resemble penis penetration, but nowadays a dildo can be designed in a lot of different ways. A dildo is an object, that is made for internal satisfaction and is supposed to go inside the vagina, anus, or mouth. The handle makes it easier to hold onto, especially handy for some materials that can become slippery and/or for it to be more comfortable for the user. A handle makes the dildo designed more ergonomically.
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The 11 Best dildos with handles in Test
njoy Pure Wand
Njoy Pure Wand is an obvious test winner, after all, it’s famous for being the first dildo with handle people squirt with.
It’s a double-ended dildo with a curved shaft and two rounded ends, one with a diameter of 1,5 inches and one smaller end of 1 inch. The dildo with handle is made out of 316-grade stainless steel and thanks to the fact that it is hand-polished, it’s got a nice smooth and sleek design.
You can choose which end to use and the stainless steel makes it possible to use it for temperature play, heat it up, or cool it down (don’t put it in the freezer). When you’re not using it you can store it in the box with satin lining that’s included.
| Length | 9 inches |
| Insertable length | 8 inches |
| Diameter | 1 and 1,75 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Medical-grade stainless steel |
| Weight | 1,51 lbs |
| Storage Bag Included | Box |
It takes some practice to get the right technique, but when you learned how to handle this perfectly curved dildo with handle, you will enjoy deep internal massage. You can enjoy it both solo and together with your partner as well as for both G-spot and P-spot pleasure.
Thanks to its double-ended rounds with two different sizes you can vary the way you use it. When it comes to lube, it doesn’t matter which kind you use – it’s compatible with all kinds of lube.
Lovehoney Lifelike Lover Classic
Here we’ve got a cheap realistic dildo with handle, a handle that also functions as a suction cup. This means you can place the suction cup on any flat surface and use it hands-free or place it in a harness (it needs an o-ring with a 1,5-inch diameter).
It’s designed like a real penis, with realistic detailing including bulging veins, a nice glance, and balls and it’s even available in four different skin tones.
This dildo with handle is made out of soft plastic and has got a firm surface with a flexible shaft and the girth is similar to an average penis.
| Length | Soft plastic inches |
| Insertable length | 6 inches |
| Diameter | 5 inches |
| Materials | 1,59 |
| Waterproof | Yes |
This realistic-looking dildo is great for you who are looking for a cheap and easy-to-use dildo with handle. One of the reasons it can be so cheap is that it’s made out of soft plastic, which means the rubber surface can be a bit hard in the beginning and might also smell strongly. But as long as you give it a proper rinse with soap it disappears.
Choose a skin tone in your preferences and use it either by sticking the suction cup to a flat surface, in a harness, or just by holding onto it.
Grip Thruster G-Spot Dildo
Normally when looking for a dildo with handle that’s easy to grip it means having to use a big dildo, but finally, Calexotics has made this gorgeous dildo.
This is a dildo with a handle is recommended especially for beginners or for you who have mobility issues and struggle to reach with a classic dildo. Also great for you with a bigger body because of the extra length. There is a textured handle for better grip, so it will stay put even if your hands get wet or lubey.
It’s made out of smooth silicone, and whenever you want to truly clean it you can boil it in water. The shaft is slightly flexible but still firm and the shaft has got detailed veins and a ridging surface. Remember the extra length is only because of the handle, it’s still only 5,5 inches of insertable length.
| Length | 7,5 inches |
| Insertable length | 5,5 inches |
| Diameter | 1,25 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Allergies | Phthalate-free - Non-porous |
The grip will give you a good hold that will make you feel secure and safe. Between the insertable part and the grip, you will find a flared base which means you can easily use this for anal play such as pegging, but also vaginal play, and thanks to the pointy tip it will be nice to stimulate the g-spot and p-spot.
The shaft is firm enough for you to be able to do hard and fast thrust motions without worrying it will bend too much because of the length.
Satisfyer Booty Call Plugs
Who knew Satisfyer would develop some great anal toys too, not just vibrators? If you’re looking for an anal dildo with handle you should try Satisfyer Booty Call. You can find them in either black or colorful ones tinted in pink. They all are made out of smooth medical-grade silicone and are easy to wash.
For a cheap price, you get three different ones. Two of them are similar to beaded anal plugs, one has two beads and one has got three and they increase in size as you insert them. The third one is more intimidating and has got a unique spiral design.
| Length | 3-bead: 5.4 inches |
| Length | 2-bead: 5.25 inches |
| Length | Spiral: 5.5 inches |
| Diameter | 3 bead: 0.7, 0.9 and 1.25 inches |
| Diameter | 2-bead: 1, and 1.2 inches |
| Diameter | Spiral: 0.6-1.25 inches |
| Diameter | Ring handles: 1.75 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Silicone |
Here you don’t get only one anal dildo with handle, here you get three. One more exciting than the other. They will all provide different kinds of massage for your back passage.
Most people prefer to use the two bulbous ones during vaginal penetration because they stay in place better than the spiral one. But then most people prefer the spiral one when not using it combined with penetration.
They are even pleasurable to use on someone else as the different designs are thrilling to see sliding in to your partners butt.
Lovehoney Sensual Glass
This glass dildo with a handle is truly something extra. It’s got a luxurious design which makes it look expensive even though it’s not. With its 6 insertable inches and 4 inches of bulbous beads, it will stimulate and put pressure on just the right spots. It’s great for both G-spot and P-spot stimulation.
Glass dildos can easily become slippery that’s why this dildo not only comes with a handle, but the handle has also got small raised colorful dots for better grip. If you enjoy the thrill of temperature play you’re good, this borosilicate glass can both be cold and hot.
If you want to know more about how to use a glass dildo safe – read here.
| Length | 8 inches |
| Insertable length | 6 inches |
| Diameter | 1,3 inches |
| Materials | Glass |
| Allergies | Latex-Free , Phthalate-Free |
A glass dildo with a handle that’s got an S-shaped shaft, some might say it looks like a seahorse (a shape some find more or less intimidating). The shapes make it great for stimulating the G and P-spot.
Some find the small raised dots on the handle nice to rub against your external parts, for some this could be the clit and for others, it might be the perineum. Some find the loop in the handle to be too small, but you can still hold onto the whole handle instead of using the loop.
You can use the glass dildo with a handle on both yourself and someone else, and it’s also great for foreplay as it’s easy to slowly penetrate with the bulbous beads. It’s also great to combine with a clit sucker.
Fun Factory G5 Big Boss G-Spot Vibrator
Deep rumbly vibrations, a full feeling, and a perfect finger loop handle, that’s what you get when you buy Big Boss.
This is a big dildo with handle, also possible to use as a vibrator with handle, it has a girthy shaft of 2 inches in diameter it will provide you with fullness and can also be used as a vibrator with handle. At first sight, it can be a bit intimidating, but the slightly squishy but soft silicone will feel nice against your skin internally and externally.
It’s got a slightly curved shaft with a small, raised ridge before the head and a small, raised ridge just before the handle. It will stimulate you during thrust movements and as you enter your opening with Big Boss.
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| Length | 9 inches |
| Insertable length | 6,5 inches |
| Diameter | 1,8-2 inches |
| Materials | Silicone & ABS |
| Vibration speeds | 5 |
| Vibration patterns | 4 |
| Allergies | Phthalate-free - Non-porous |
Most people that have tried Big Boss, a big dildo with a handle, are thrilled by just touching it. The silicone material is soft and slightly squishy which together with some lube slides in easily, even with the size in mind.
The silicone material collects lint easily, but if you just rinse it off before you use it, you’re good to go. The deep rumbly vibrations are primarily felt in the bottom of the shaft, instead in the top which some might look for in a g-spot vibrator.
The dildo handle makes it easy to control and the raised buttons are easy to find even during the wildest moments.
Vixen Nexus Jr. Double Ended Dildo
A daring double dildo with handle that’s possible to use in multiple ways, yes please! It’s developed to be used for either strap-on play or for solo players. It’s a double dildo which means that it can be enjoyable for both the giver and receiver as both get to be stimulated internally, making it great pegging.
Both ends have rounded heads, but what differs between them the most is that one shaft is curved and the other one is straight, and the straight side is also about 0,75 inches longer. You can use it with and without a harness made for double dildos. Or you can one side as a handle.
| Length | Curved side: 5 inches |
| Length | Straight side: 6 inches |
| Diameter | Curved side: 1,27 inches |
| Diameter | Straight side: 1,6 inches |
| Materials | Silicone |
| Allergies | Phthalate-free - Non-porous |
Good to know is that the dildo is pretty floppy, so a lot of people struggle when trying to use it without a harness and that’s also the reason why Nexus recommends you store it in the packaging tube. This avoids the shape to be ruined while storing it while not in use.
The curved side of the dildo is perfect together with thrust motions to hit the g-spot or prostate.
Ps. If there is a junior, there Is a senior… Check out Vixen Nexus Senior Double Dildo with handle here.
Brutus Glass Dildo Thruster
This glass double dildo with a handle is really something extra both for the eye and the body. You get to choose between two different ends, both with a phallic-shaped tip but with different girth and length. The longest has got an insertable length of 4 inches and the longest has got 6,5 inches.
The surface is textured with bulging veins that you can take advantage of through a twisted thrust motion to double the stimulation.
It’s made from sturdy glass, so it’s safe to use this glass dildo and if you want to make sure it’s fully cleaned and sanitized, you can boil it in 3 minutes.
| Length | 11,5 inches |
| Insertable length | 6,5 inches |
| Insertable length | 4 inches |
| Diameter | 1,75 as its widest inches |
| Materials | Glass |
This is a glass dildo with handle that you kind of want to put in the middle of your table, just to show off your beautiful toy. Glass dildos can easily become very slippery and that’s why, it’s so great, that you have a dildo handle to hold onto.
Remember to warm up and use a lot of lube, one that you like, because here you don’t have to care about it being compatible, all lubes are compatible. If you don’t do this, the bulging veins might end up feeling uncomfortable during insertion. But overall, a nice luxury toy.
Do you want to know more about how to use a glass dildo, read more here.
Lovehoney Sensual Glass Glow-in-the-Dark Dildo
This beautiful divine little magical thing will literally light up your life – it’s a glow-in-the-dark dildo. Just add some light to the dildo and then turn off the light and see how it lights up in your room. The dildo handle is comfortable to hold and gorgeous looking thanks to the moon shape. The dildo itself is sprinkled inside with small luminescent flecks.
The shaft is wavy with bulges, besides that it’s got a flat surface. Dildos with handles that are med out of borosilicate glass like these are a bit heavier than others. So even if the shaft isn’t curved you can use it for pressure stimulation on your G or P-spot.
| Length | 8 inches |
| Insertable length | 5,5 inches |
| Diameter | 1,43 inches |
| Materials | Glass |
Who doesn’t want a glowy glass dildo? Pretty for the eye and enjoyable for the body. The moon handle makes it comfortable to hold onto and easy to use when wanting to stimulate with more pressure.
For you who love texture dildos, it’s not for you although there are bulging rounded balls that you might enjoy during thrust motions. Thanks to the flared base you can also use it anally, but it hasn’t got a pointed end which might make it difficult to insert.
Gläs Candy Land Glass Juicer Dildo
There are a lot of great glass dildos with handles out there and here we’ve got another one, this time with a touch of two beautiful colors – blue and pink. They truly are special and when you buy a glass juicer dildo, you will get a dildo that’s handblown and handcrafted – wow.
The unique thing with this glass dildo that differentiates it from all other dildos with handles in the test is the handle itself. The handle is a rotary handle which means that you can rotate it instead of thrusting it and instead enjoy a new and unique sensation!
It’ s got a rigid shaft with a ribbed and nubbed surface that will provide you with intense satisfaction.
| Length | 1,45 inches |
| Insertable length | 4,5 inches |
| Diameter | 1,5 inches |
| Materials | Glass |
Enjoy an internal massage with this light-weighted glass dildo, the unique rotating handle will help you to intense stimulation. It’s great if you find the thrusting movement too tiering or just not that enjoyable. It can be a bit difficult to twirl it fast.
Thanks to the flared base it’s possible to use both for anal and vaginal inner massage. It’s not that pricy and neither is it that long in length. But thanks to its handle it’s still easy to use.
Anaconda Dildo With Handle
Tantus really knows how to make high-quality toys and Anaconda is one of them. Made from Tantus Ultra-Premium Silicone this material is nice and when lubed up is comfortable to use. You have a big handle that’s 4 inches long and the handle is shaped ergonomically with small ridges for you to hold onto. Comfortable partner play as well as solo play.
The top is phallic-shaped and got a small, raised ridge that provides extra pleasure during insertion. The widest point is up to 1,75 inches in diameter.
A big dildo with a handle like this is made for heavy thrusting and when wiggling on the handle it’s almost a wobbly sensation that appears. So the sensation will be different in comparison to the other dildos reviewed.
A lot of lube is a MUST with this dildo, it’s got a firm feel that needs to be smoothened with lube.
Tantus silicone requires you to use water-based lube as all other silicone toys do. It takes a lot of warm-up but if you want to, it’s anal-safe to use, which means you can explore a lot of areas of the body.
Attach Your Own Dildo Handle
If you already found a dildo that you love, instead of buying a completely new one, you can just buy a handle to attach to it!
It might be more economic as you can attach it to a lot of different dildos instead of just having one dildo with a handle.
Although you need to make sure the dildo handles are compatible with your dildo.
Go Hands-Free With Suction Cup Dildos
Sometimes you just can’t be bothered, it feels uncomfortable to hold a dildo, and you can’t get the movement or speed that you want. Yeah, you know what I’m talking about. This is the perfect time for a partner would be handy to have or… a hands-free dildo!
You can stick the suction cup dildo to any flat surface and enjoy a ride, maybe in the bathtub, on the chair, or to the wall. Here are a few recommendations.
Which Kind of Dildo Handle is Right For You?
As you probably noticed by now there are a lot of different handle dildos out there. Some might suit you better than others.
Below we’ll go through some of the different handles that exist, once with different grips, accessibility, size, and material. We hope you find one that you like!
The classic handle
When most people think of a dildo with a handle this is what they have in mind. An extra piece is attached down at the bottom that makes sure you can enjoy the insertable length at full deep without struggling to hold.
You can find slimmer alternatives and bigger ones.
For an even better grip, you should look for a surface with ridges (like the image).
The grip for big hands or powerful thrusts
For you who have big hands the one above can be hard to grip, this instead is more steady. It also allows you to in an easy way give more powerful thrusts when using it on a partner.
The finger loop
This is also a common handle, the finger loop. It’s suitable for the person who has got small hands and is mostly looking for a handle to have the dildo stay in place and for smaller thrust motions.
The rotater
This is an unusual handle that rotates. It will stimulate you in another way than the thrust movement does and is great for deep inner massage.
Different materials
Just like the dildos can be made in different materials, so can the handles. This is just about what you prefer. A good idea can also be to think of what lube you enjoy and want to use. Silicone lube should not go with silicone material.
Plastic and glass can become pretty slippery if you have sweaty hands so then it might be good to look at silicone or rubber.
How to use a dildo with handle
Grab it! It’s really just to hold on to it and explore whatever movements you want to.
Have a look at these guides to find out more about how to use different sex toys:
Solo play!
A lot of people want a handle dildo because they struggle with mobility for different reasons; short arms, long upper body, movement restrictions etc.
Partner play!
Using a dildo with a handle on someone else takes less effort than using one without. It’s easier to add pressure to the right spots and powerful thrusting is easy.
How to clean dildos with handles
It all depends on what material and if it is waterproof or not. If you have waterproof toys and toys that don't have any electronic gear attached to them you can just rinse them under water and use some mild soap, and after let them air-dry or towel dry. If it's not waterproof it's good to use a dampened cloth to wipe it off.
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.