Dildos VS Penis: Is There a Difference?

It’s time for yet another sexual smackdown; dildos vs penis and is there a difference? To be honest, those of us who are more sexually experienced feel there is no comparison. However, some of you may be a little less experienced. Or, you may have more experience with dildos than you have with penises. So, let’s dive into this sensual subject and discuss it openly.

Do Dildos Feel Good?

If you don’t have a great deal of experience with sex toys, you may be pondering, “Do dildos feel good?” I get it. Why spend money of a plaything if it’s not going to feel good? Fortunately, if you find the right length and girth for you, dildos do feel good. In addition, dildos are now made of so many high-end materials, they feel much more realistic than they once did.

Do dildos feel good? Photo of a rainbow striped dildo
Rainbow Dildo



For instance, back when I started experimenting with sex toys, the popular dildos were either hard plastic, soft plastic or jelly dildos. In comparison, today’s dildos are made of TPE, silicone blends, and skin-like materials. Plus, many of these dildos look and feel like a real penis. But, if that’s not your thing, you can find dildos in a rainbow of colors, including, well, a rainbow!

So, yes, dildos feel good.


How Do Dildos Feel?

You may be considering buying your first dildo but are unsure and wondering, “How do dildos feel?” I will be 100% honest with you and say that dildos feel much like being penetrated by a penis, with a few differences that I will explain below. Dildos stretch your vagina or anus, electrifying all of those sensitive nerve endings. Plus, they will give you the feeling of fullness.

Add to that the ability to stimulate the female g-spot or the male prostate gland and dildos are capable of bringing you to that big-o you need. So, whether you are having solo time with a dildo or your partner is using one on you, dildos feel like penetrative intercourse. And, if you can find a way to go hands-free via your partner, a suction cup dildo or even a sex machine, a dildo feels amazing!

Dildos That Feel Like the Real Thing

Did you think I would tell you about how realistic dildos feel without hooking you up with some links? These dildos are made from high-quality materials and feel more like a real penis. And, the more realistic your dildo feels, the better your sexual experiences will be. So, here are 3 of the most realistic dildos on the market.

Vixen Creations Johnny VixSkin Dildo

Dildos that feel like the real thing. Photo of the Johnny Vixskin dildo
Johnny Vixskin Dildo

Meet Johnny Vixskin, a platinum silicone dildo that looks like a realistic penis and feels closer to the real thing than most. The reason for this is that Johnny has a firm inner core and a softer layer of silicone outside so that it feels lifelike – to the touch – and reacts more like a real dick. For $126, this 7 plus inch dildo is thick, veiny and has just enough of a curve to stimulate the g-spot and the p-spot.

Big Shot Silicone Vibrating Squirting Dildo

Dildos that feel like the real thing. Photo of the Big Shot Silicone Vibrating Squirting Dildo
Big Shot Silicone Vibrating Squirting Dildo

A dildo that ejaculates? That is definitely taking realism to a whole other level, don’t you think? But surprisingly, these types of dildos were created for couples trying to conceive a baby and wanted a more lifelike experience that a turkey baster. There’s a great article by The Guardian that tells the entire squirting dildo tale, if you are as curious as I was.

Sadly, the original liquid spirting dildo has been discontinued. But, you can still find another brand that gets the job done. The Big Shot Silicone Vibrating Squirting Dildo gives you 6 inches of vibrating, rechargeable power, a thick, soft, silicone, veiny shaft and ejaculation of an ounce of fluid with a single push of the button. And at a regular price of $119, it’s certainly cheaper than a bad date!


Most Realistic Dildo on the Planet: The Real Cock 2

When I say that the Real Cock 2 is the most realistic dildo on the planet, I am not exaggerating.

Dildos that feel like the real thing. Photo of the Real Cock 2 Dirk model dildo
The Real Cock 2 “Dirk”

In all seriousness, if you were to find one of these along the sidewalk, you’d probably throw it into a cooler filled with ice and rush it to the nearest emergency room and inquire if they had a penis-less patient needing to reattach their severed tool.

Yes, they are that real.

Created by the same minds that developed the first sex doll that interacts like a human female (the male sex robot is still being worked on); the Real Cock 2 boasts the most naturalistic skin. Built from superior quality silicone, the Real Cock is designed with layers, so the skin moves along the shaft like a genuine penis. And with a soft ball sack and individual testicles that softly smack against your body, this dildo is sure to rock anyone’s world.

The only downside is the price tag…. A cool $499 will buy you this realistic dong. But keep in mind, no relationship strings or morning-after breakfast required. Well worth the investment, in my book.

Tips to Make Your Dildo Feel More Realistic

If you’ve decided to buy your first dildo, there are ways to make your sexual experience more lifelike. It simply takes a little bit of preparation and creativity on your part. Here are some examples:

  • Soak your dildo in warm water prior to sex.
  • Use a good-quality lubricant.
  • If you’re using your dildo solo, choose one with a suction-cup base for hands-free play.
  • Take the time to get yourself in the mood by reading a steamy adult novel or watching a little porn.
  • For you ladies, stimulate your clitoris while using your dildo. It will help you achieve orgasm more quickly.
  • For you guys, start small, maybe with a butt plug training kit, so you’re ready to take on a full-sized dildo. Then, follow the tips above.

Does Penis Feel Good?

Does Penis Feel Good? Photo of nude couple in bed, covered by sheets.
Does Penis Feel Good?

Either you are still a virgin or you’re fantasizing about your first time with a man. Either way, I’m sure you’re asking, “Does Penis feel good?” I can say with all certainty that yes, absolutely, 100%, all-in, penis feels good. Actually, penis feels beyond amazing. However, it sometimes depends solely on who is attached to the penis.

Your see, some men can carry the best tools but may not have a clue as to how to use them; their penis included.

But, if you are with a man that you find attractive and he pushes all of the right sexual buttons, his penis will feel fantastic inside you. And, if he’s not a porn star in bed, remember, practice makes perfect.

How Does Sex with a Penis Feel?

I’ve never had sex with just a penis as there has always been a man attached to it. So, how does sex with a penis feel?

Delightful, passionate, sultry, amazing, tender, overwhelming and mind-blowing are just some of the words I use to describe how sex feels. However, those words are also attached to the owner of the penis and how well they used it.

In detail, sex with a penis feels similar to having a dildo inside you. But the big differences are that penises are warm, come in all shapes and sizes and move with no assistance from you – to an extent. The weight of a man’s body, attached to the penis, adds a great deal to the experience as well.

Also, sex with a penis gives you those tingly, erotic sensations throughout your chosen opening from the entrance to deep inside. The feeling of fullness and the in-and-out motion of a penis, strokes your g-spot or p-spot. And, if you’re lucky, you’ll feel that overwhelming sensation of electricity exploding from the very depths of your body as you’re thrown into convulsing waves of blissful orgasm.

Pardon me while I go stick my dildo to the shower wall.

Dildos VS Dick

Dildo vs dick, which do you choose? Photo of man and woman in thought.
Dildo vs Dick

So now we get to the sexual smackdown, dildos vs dick. Which one feels better? That all depends on you and what it is you desire.

For example, if you’re stressed from a rough week at work and just need an orgasm and nothing more, having a dildo to fulfill those needs is just right. Additionally, you have no emotional strings attached, no worries of being cheated on or contracting a sexually transmitted infection.

And dildos never talk back, miss the toilet bowl or fart at inappropriate times.

One the other hand, there is a great deal to be said about having penetrative sex with another person. The weight of their warm body moving against yours, the feeling of an erect penis moving inside you; all followed with the moment his penis gets rock-hard and explodes inside you; those are all things you just cannot get from a dildo, no matter how much you spend.

Sure, relationships can be messy and frustrating and hard. But they can also be wonderful, uplifting and fulfilling.

Plus, there are ways to have the best of both worlds, great sex with another human without the strings of a relationship.

They’re called fuck-buddies and I highly recommend one. Just be sure and practice safe sex!

So, in comparing dildos vs dick, they both get you where you want to go; sexual satisfaction and a toe-curling orgasm. However, one comes with an entire person attached and the other lives in your nightstand drawer.

In the End, It’s All About Feelings

In comparing dildos vs penis, in the end, it all comes down to feelings. On the one hand, a dildo can fulfill your sexual needs any time of the day or night and you never have to worry about it getting finished before you. And you can go for hours without needing a break. In comparison, a real penis gives you emotion attached, things like passion, lust and love – something a dildo cannot provide.

Therefore, in deciding which choice is right for you, dildos vs penis, it all rides on whether you want a relationship or just a great orgasm.