The 9 Best Discreet Fleshlights that Look at Home on Your Nightstand
Fleshlights are the most iconic penis-pleasing toys, but maybe you don’t want everyone knowing you have one! If you live with your family or room mates and want to minimize the risk of them catching you out, these discreet fleshlights are perfect! They feature all the incredible stimulation of a regular fleshlight, but with a less obvious design. They are also great for anyone who prefers a less realistic design.
Test Winner4.7  Overall Rating 4.7/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.8/5 User Ratings: 4.5/5 Based on 942 user reviews | Budget-Friendly4.5 Overall Rating 4.5/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Jason BragdonUser Ratings: 4.0/5 Based on 111 user reviews | Best for Beginners4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.3/5 Reviewed by: Matt JenkinsUser Ratings: 4.4/5 Based on 440 user reviews | Most Advanced4.2 Overall Rating 4.2/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.9/5 Reviewed by: Cassie MørchUser Ratings: 3.5/5 Based on 33 user reviews | Double-Ended4.8 Overall Rating 4.8/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.9/5 Reviewed by: EdieUser Ratings: 4.8/5 Based on 538 user reviews | Vibrating4.7 Overall Rating 4.7/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: John ShepardUser Ratings: 4.3/5 Based on 424 user reviews | Best Remote Control4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.6/5 Reviewed by: Jason BragdonUser Ratings: 3.9/5 Based on 89 user reviews | App Control4.4 Overall Rating 4.4/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.2/5 Reviewed by: Rachel WorthingtonUser Ratings: 4.6/5 Based on 142 user reviews | 4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.2/5 Reviewed by: Kevin FoleyUser Ratings: 4.3/5 Based on 316 user reviews |
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How We Test discreet fleshlights
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To find the very best discreet fleshlights, our testers tried and reviewed 204 different products in this category.
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Test Winner Fleshlight Flight Pilot
Overall Rating
4.7/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5
Reviewed by:
Jeremy MosleyUser Ratings:
4.5/5
Based on 942 user reviews
Rating: Fleshlight Flight Pilot was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the discreet fleshlight.
Rating: Fleshlight Flight Pilot was rated 94 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fleshlight Flight Pilot was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Fleshlight Flight Pilot was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Fleshlight Flight Pilot for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Fleshlight Pilot has been one of the best seller masculine sex toys ever! Why? because it feels great and because it cost nothing! This discreet fleshlight is great to carry on due to its size. It is easy to use. The texture is amazing and the feeling is even more. The sleeve is 6.5 inches long and the aperture is just 0.5 inches. It is waterproof and made out of soft plastic.
Pros
- ✅ Discreet, non-anatomical design
- ✅ Great price
- ✅ Excellent quality
- ✅ Simple to use
- ✅ Adjustable suction cap
Cons
- ❌ May still be too large for some
- ❌ Has Fleshlight written on the case
Why I Chose It
Fleshlight pilot has revolutionized male masturbators. It is a masturbator that is easier to carry on but at the same time, it is a bit bulky when using it. The feel and the texture of the sleeve are fantastic! Perhaps a better grip would do better. The price is just a steal, you are paying so little money for an amazing quality on this toy. It is not easy to wash since it is Soft Plastic and it is very hard to dry out.
Budget-Friendly Tenga Egg New Standard Pack
Overall Rating
4.5/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Jason BragdonUser Ratings:
4.0/5
Based on 111 user reviews
Rating: Tenga Egg New Standard Pack was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the discreet fleshlight.
Rating: Tenga Egg New Standard Pack was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Tenga Egg New Standard Pack was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Tenga Egg New Standard Pack was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other discreet fleshlights.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Tenga Egg New Standard Pack for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
The Tenga Egg New Standard Pack is a great option if you want to have a very discreet fleshlight. These cute little masturbation eggs actually come packaged like eggs! It’s doesn’t get more discrret than that! This shape and small size also makes them very portable and ideal to bring with you on your travels for some fun on the go! The TPE material is very light, soft, and squishy. It adds a nice texture to your handjob and feels very natural. The fact that you hold it in your hand during use allows you to adjust the tightness as you please. You can find 6 eggs in the package and each one of them has a different texture to explore.
Pros
- ✅ 6 different textures
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Includes lubricant
- ✅ Natural feeling with added texture
- ✅ Discreet storage
Cons
- ❌ Not reusable
Why I Chose It
If discretion is as important to you as affordability is, you’re going to want to try out the Tenga Egg New Standard Pack. This pack includes 6 different kinds of masturbation eggs for you to explore one by one!
Of course, you have to be alright with the fact that these masturbators are actually disposable and not meant to be reused. Although, if you clean and dry the inside of the egg properly, you can get away with using it 2 or 3 times!
I love how easy they are to use and how travel-friendly they are. These compact little babies fit perfectly in your overnight bag or your carry-on. They also make a great little gift to your special someone. They will elevate any handjob and allow you to explore a bunch of different textures! When you consider how cheap they are and how much fun you can get our of one “carton” of eggs, this is a great option for anyone who’s looking for a beginner-friendly set of “discreet fleshlights”.
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Best for Beginners Tenga Flip Hole Masturbator
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.3/5
Reviewed by:
Matt JenkinsUser Ratings:
4.4/5
Based on 440 user reviews
Rating: Tenga Flip Hole Masturbator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the discreet fleshlight.
Rating: Tenga Flip Hole Masturbator was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Tenga Flip Hole Masturbator was rated 50 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Tenga Flip Hole Masturbator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Tenga Flip Hole Masturbator for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
If you are looking for a discreet fleshlight, the TENGA Flip Hole masturbator has the design for you, bet that’s not all. The TENGA has an internal texture that allows you to have more sharp and pleasant sensations. By using the three flexible buttons on the main body, you can change the form and feel of the internal texture, allowing you to use it on your more sensitive points. Remember to use water-based lube for maximum pleasure. The TENGA case can be opened, allowing you to wash it with hand soap and let it dry. Keep in mind that this product can expose you to chemicals including Bisphenol-A.
Pros
- ✅ Texturized insides
- ✅ No battery use
- ✅ Easy to wash
- ✅ No noises
- ✅ Adjustable tightness
Cons
- ❌ Non removable texture sleeve
- ❌ No automatic movement
- ❌ Limited uses
Why I Chose It
I was looking for something new to replace my old and now noisy fleshlight. I’ve found this alternative to be great. It’s very practical in many things. First, it doesn’t make strange noises, my old fleshlight made a lot of suction noises and now I’m noticing how high they were. It can simulate oral or a pussy if you press the appropriate buttons. It’s easy to wash and take care of, what it’s very important if you keep in mind that it has a limited amount of use. It’s important to keep it open while it dries to extend its lifespan.
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Most Advanced Arcwave Voy
Overall Rating
4.2/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.9/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
3.5/5
Based on 33 user reviews
Rating: Arcwave Voy was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the discreet fleshlight.
Rating: Arcwave Voy was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Arcwave Voy was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Arcwave Voy was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Arcwave Voy for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Meet the Arcwave Voy stroker, your ultimate travel-friendly pleasure companion! This dual-ended adjustable penis masturbator, coated with luxurious and body-safe CleanTech silicone, offers 8 levels of tightness for a customized experience. It’s sleek, discreet, and perfect for solo or partnered adventures. High-quality, versatile, and packed with sensations, the Arcwave Voy is worth every penny.
Pros
- ✅ Lots of sensations packed into one stroker
- ✅ 100% body-safe, non-porous materials
- ✅ Compact and discreet
- ✅ Adjustable levels of tightness
Cons
- ❌ A bit expensive
- ❌ Can be tricky to remove sleeve from casing
Why I Chose It
Not only does the Arcwave Voy score top points in most categories that I usually rate my sex toys after, it also just looks and feels like a high end compact stroker. The variety of sensations it offers and the pleasure it brought to my partner were truly impressive. We found it to be an invaluable addition to both solo and partnered sessions, and the fact that it’s made from body-safe silicone that still feels squishy and soft is really just the icing on the cake!
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Double-Ended Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage Compact
Overall Rating
4.8/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.9/5
Reviewed by:
EdieUser Ratings:
4.8/5
Based on 538 user reviews
Rating: Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage Compact was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the discreet fleshlight.
Rating: Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage Compact was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage Compact was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Premium
Rating: Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage Compact was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Fleshlight Quickshot Vantage Compact for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Fleshlights Quickshot is the real deal when comes to discreet fleshlights that you can travel with. This small badass is going to give you a lot of satisfaction thanks to the textured sleeve that is transparent, this will allow you or your partner to watch all the fun and make the mood kinkier. It is just 3.5 inches in internal length, there are two orifices, you can choose the one that you like the most! It is tight, with .75 inches of internal diameter but lubricant will be your closest friend. Screw both caps and take it with you anywhere.
Pros
- ✅ Easy to carry for traveling
- ✅ Small but tight
- ✅ Great texture
- ✅ Double end
Cons
- ❌ Might be too small
- ❌ Needs revival powder from time to time
Why I Chose It
For an inexpensive discreet fleshlight, the Fleshlight Quickshot is amazing. The material is great and the texture in the sleeve is mindblowing. It is a very short and compact fleshlight, so bear in mind if you don’t like this kind of toy. It is very easy to use and to carry on if you want to take it to travel. It is totally transparent, which is great if you like to watch (or your partner) what is happening inside. Material is Soft Plastic, which is porous, so just be careful when washing it and be sure you let it dry well before you put it inside of the screwing caps. The price is marvelous and I think is a great deal to have a different kind of fun, would be nice to have it totally made of silicone or with other features different fleshlights offer.
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Vibrating Satisfyer Men Vibrating Masturbator
Overall Rating
4.7/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
John ShepardUser Ratings:
4.3/5
Based on 424 user reviews
Rating: Satisfyer Men Vibrating Masturbator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the discreet fleshlight.
Rating: Satisfyer Men Vibrating Masturbator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Satisfyer Men Vibrating Masturbator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Satisfyer Men Vibrating Masturbator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Satisfyer Men Vibrating Masturbator for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
The Satisfyer Men Vibrating Masturbator, which is a toy like no others. This toy is not a stroker, it is a pinpoint vibrator that will give you the best of the pleasures ever. It is totally rechargeable and is very easy to use. You can take it with you to the shower because it is waterproof. The design is amazing and can be confused with an electronic device due to its shape. This toy is made for half your member, mostly for the tip of it, and it is not flexible, but the vibrations are strong and the sound is not loud. The material is medical-grade silicone, and besides being easy to wash and clean, it feels just amazing.
Pros
- ✅ Pinpoint vibrations
- ✅ Made out of medical-grade silicone
- ✅ Easy to clean
- ✅ Powerful vibrations
Cons
- ❌ Just for the tip of your penis and part of your shaft
- ❌ Requires a learning curve
- ❌ A little louder than other vibrators
- ❌ Not ideal for larger penises
- ❌ May require hands to hold it during use
Why I Chose It
The Satisfyer Men is a toy that has a good value for money. The design is nice and is made out of silicone, which is good for cleaning. The battery lasts a lot and is easy to charge. The main features are pinpoint vibrators that will give the tip of your penis the right pleasure. Bear in mind this toy is not made for stroking and is actually short, which means you will insert the tip of your penis and part of your shaft and keep it there, because of this, this toy has a learning curve. It is totally waterproof and the vibrations are super-strong. Perhaps a full-size version would be good, with the option of using it as a stroker that would increase the possibilities when exploring new sensations. For the price and how powerful it is, I think it is totally worth it.
Best Remote Control Hot Octopus Pulse Solo Essential
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.6/5
Reviewed by:
Jason BragdonUser Ratings:
3.9/5
Based on 89 user reviews
Rating: Hot Octopus Pulse Solo Essential was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the discreet fleshlight.
Rating: Hot Octopus Pulse Solo Essential was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Hot Octopus Pulse Solo Essential was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Pricey
Rating: Hot Octopus Pulse Solo Essential was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Hot Octopus Pulse Solo Essential for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Design it’s a tool that can have a lot of fresh ideas. When you are looking for a discreet fleshlight, some think of trying to make it look like another thing, but this one it’s unique and stylish and comes with unique technology, the Pulse Plate that oscillates instead of vibrates, will drive you nuts! This rechargeable male vibrator has a futuristic design and comes with an equally stylish remote control. The Hot Octopus Pulse Solo Essential is powerful and will make feel intense orgasms with each one of its 8 levels of intensity and 6 patterns. It has a USB cable it’s magnetic to recharge it and the main body is completely waterproof. You can use it with or without lube.
Pros
- ✅ Good quality
- ✅ Remote control
- ✅ Rechargeable battery
- ✅ Waterproof
- ✅ Travel pouch
Cons
- ❌ Not insertable
- ❌ Fragile USB cable
- ❌ Expensive
- ❌ Not the quietest
Why I Chose It
The remote control is something you might want to have. Seems like a good idea to power on something and let it work. It’s not quite simple as that, but it’s easy to use. The feeling of the pulses is great, and you can change the strength of it very easily. Be careful with the charging cable though, it feels a little fragile, and it takes a long time to recharge. The design is pretty good and I ended up sometimes not using the remote control. It’s waterproof which makes it very easy to clean.
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App Control Lovense Max 2
Overall Rating
4.4/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.2/5
Reviewed by:
Rachel WorthingtonUser Ratings:
4.6/5
Based on 142 user reviews
Rating: Lovense Max 2 was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the discreet fleshlight.
Rating: Lovense Max 2 was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovense Max 2 was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Lovense Max 2 was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Lovense Max 2 for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Lovense Max 2 is an absolutely great discreet fleshlight. It comes packed with a lot of features. One of these features is that it can be controlled through your smartphone. There you can change patterns and speeds and also it is compatible with other Lovense toys to have an interactive play with your partner. It has a built-in air pump that mimics the muscular movements and you can choose between 3 different contraction strengths.
Pros
- ✅ App controlled
- ✅ Interactive with ohter toys
- ✅ 10 different settings
- ✅ Air vent for suction
- ✅ 210 minutes of play with one charge
Cons
- ❌ Too loud
- ❌ It is heavy
- ❌ A bit tricky to clean
- ❌ Expensive if you are on a budget
Vibrations:
Rating: Lovense Max 2 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is noisy.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Max 2 felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Lovense Max 2 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Max 2 felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
The Lovense Max 2 is so far one of the best options when looking for a discreet fleshlight, and it is not because of the size because this masturbator is big, but because of the design, it can be confused easily with a speaker or any other electronic device. You can choose between 7 different options to play with it, also, the battery lasts up to 210 minutes with one charge. It is not easy to wash, so you have to be careful and patient and it is heavy, but this is nothing compared with all the pleasure and fun you can get out of it, and if that’s not enough, it can be controlled through an app and also remote controlled if you want to have a different kind of fun. It is compatible with other Lovense toys for interactive play and also with other Lovense Max 2. It is a bit pricey, but overall I think is a wonderful option if you are looking for a nice, well-made, and powerful discreet fleshlight. Bear in mind vibrations are strong and a bit loud.
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Tenga Flip Zero
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.2/5
Reviewed by:
Kevin FoleyUser Ratings:
4.3/5
Based on 316 user reviews
Rating: Tenga Flip Zero was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the discreet fleshlight.
Rating: Tenga Flip Zero was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Tenga Flip Zero was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Pricey
Rating: Tenga Flip Zero was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Tenga Flip Zero for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
The Tenga Flip Zero Masturbator is a discreet fleshlight masturbator designed to create suction to stimulate the gland. The glip design provides easy access to lubricate it, and also this can be used to wash it properly and let it adequately dry. The side pad can be pressed to control the internal texture. You can explore every sensation to make it feel the way you want. It’s compatible with water-based lube. The material used is TPE Plastic and phthalate-free.
Pros
- ✅ Great Texture
- ✅ Flip Design
- ✅ Easy to wash
- ✅ Avoids lubricant leakage
Cons
- ❌ Non removable sleeves
- ❌ Does not vibrate
- ❌ Expensive
Why I Chose It
When I first see the Tenga Flip Zero, I went to watch videos to try to convince myself to buy it. At last, I decided because of the texture of the toy. When I used it, it wasn’t the texture but the suction instead that made me feel great. It feels amazing, the texture it’s good and the suction it’s a pleasant sensation. It’s very easy to wash but be sure to let it dry well before storing it or it may get smelly. I use it with water-based lube, the texture and the grabbing (or squishing) are important to get the sensation of tightness.
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Comparison
| Best | Test Winner | Budget-Friendly | Best for Beginners | Most Advanced | Double-Ended | Vibrating | Best Remote Control | App Control | null |
| Overall score | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.2 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.8 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.2 / 5.0 | 4.2 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.5 / 5.0 from 942 users | 4 / 5.0 from 111 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 440 users | 3.5 / 5.0 from 33 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 538 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 424 users | 3.9 / 5.0 from 89 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 142 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 316 users |
| Price | Affordable | Cheap | Moderate | Moderate | Premium | Moderate | Pricey | Moderate | Pricey |
| Design | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 97 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 94 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 95 / 100 |
| Quality | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 50 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | 80 / 100 | - |
| Power | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | 80 / 100 | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | somewhat rumbly | - |
| Allergies | Phthalate-Free | - | - | - | Phthalate-Free | - | - | Phthalate-Free | Phthalate-Free |
| Waterproof | Submersible | Yes | Yes | Submersible | Submersible | Yes | Yes | - | Yes |
| Diameter (internal) | 0.5 inches | - | 1.77 inches | 1-1.3 inches | 0.75 inches inches | - | 2.5 inches | - | - |
| Openings | Neutral | - | 1 | 2 | Neutral | - | - | Neutral | - |
| Materials | Soft plastic | Sleeve: TPE, Packaging: Polyproplyene, Polyethylene | Sleeve: TPE, Case: Polycarbonate | CleanTech Silicone, ABS plastic | Soft Plastic | ABS Plastic, Silicone | ABS, Silicone | Soft Plastic | TPE |
| Weight | 1.1 lbs | - | 1.65 lbs | - | - | 0.6 lbs | 0.48 lbs | - | - |
| Length | - | Unstreched: 2.4 inches | 6.89 inches | 7 inches | - | 6 inches | 4.17 inches | 9.5 inches | 9 inches |
| Insertable length | - | Stretches up to 7.8 inches | 5.9 inches | - | 3.5 inches | 3 inches | - | 6 inches | 6.2 inches |
| Diameter | - | Unstretched: 1.9 inches | - | External: 3.4 inches | - | - | - | - | - |
| Texture | - | Includes WAVY II, BOXY, BRUSH, TORNADO, SPHERE, and SILKY II | - | - | - | - | - | - | Yes |
| Storage Bag Included | - | Comes with individual shells and egg carton box | No | Storage case | - | - | Yes | - | Locking case cover |
| Width | - | - | 3.35 inches | 5.5 inches | - | 2.8 inches | 2.63 inches | - | - |
| Colors Available | - | - | Black, White | Black | - | Black | Black, Blue | - | - |
| Adjustable | - | - | - | Yes | - | - | - | - | - |
| Vibration modes | - | - | - | - | - | 14 | - | - | - |
| Battery Life | - | - | - | - | - | 60 minutes | Up to 60 minutes | 210 minutes | - |
| Rechargeable | - | - | - | - | - | Yes | Yes, USB | Yes | - |
| Charging Time | - | - | - | - | - | 150 minutes | 180 minutes | - | - |
| Remote Controls | - | - | - | - | - | No | No | App | - |
| Travel Lock | - | - | - | - | - | No | - | - | - |
| Vibration speeds | - | - | - | - | - | - | 3 | 3 | - |
| Vibration patterns | - | - | - | - | - | - | 6 | 4 | - |
How Discreet is Fleshlight Shipping?
So, where are speaking not about discreet fleshlights, and we have checked how to keep a discreet fleshlight “discreet”. But how about when you order it? Should you be scared and nervous about the package? That everyone will see the enormous logos of sex shops all over the box being delivered to your house? Don’t worry, all the companies have your back! Check below for more info!
Check first!
Suppose you are interested in acquiring a discreet fleshlight or any other kind of toy, and you want to keep your privacy. In that case, the first thing you must do before you get over-excited ordering more toys than you need is to check the policies from the companies. Most of the companies have a special section in this regard. For example, in Lovehoney, it can be found at the very end of the page under the “Customer Service” section. If you are unsure if the site you are planning on using to buy doesn’t have this service, the best thing you can do is to send an e-mail asking for it. You don’t lose anything.
Take a look and understand how it works
So if you have found a store that actually offers that service for you, then you have to understand how it works, because if there is any special arrangement in order to keep your privacy you must know. For example, many stores, like Shevibe handle the package with a different stamp, the stamp they use is from the warehouse and there is not a single sign of “Shevibe” as a brand. So if you receive a plain package with a stamp you don’t know, don’t get scared!
You are prepared!
Now you are prepared to receive your discreet fleshlight (or any other toy) and keep it discreet all the time! Don’t worry if you are not home, or if you have to go to pick up the package from the post office. Everything will be covered just for you receiving a normal package!
What Makes a Fleshlight Discreet?
There are several elements that make a fleshlight discreet.
Yes, you can get big, bulky toys that are obviously for male masturbation, but sometimes you need something smaller and less obvious!
So let’s take a look at a few of the features you need to look out for!
- Shape – The shape of a discreet fleshlight is as important as what it does! Ideally you want a small, clear, handheld toy that won’t draw any attention to itself.
- Neutral orifice – A fleshlight with a neutral orifice looks less ‘weird’ than a fleshlight topped with a vagina or an ass. They are purely aesthetic anyway, and more for visual stimulation – they all feel the same to your cock! Plus a neutral orifice will draw less attention to itself if it is ever seen by someone!
- Case/storage – If your fleshlight comes in a case then that’s even better, as it hides away what’s inside. Others come with unique case designs, like clear fleshlights or masturbation cups, which look less like your more typical fleshlights.
- Size – One benefit of many discreet male strokers is that they are small! That means they’re not big, bulky toys that are difficult to hide away and unwieldy to use. They are instead palm sized, light, small, and no less effective than their larger counterparts!
Reviewed by:
Jeremy Mosley