How to make a spanking paddle? Yes! You’d be surprised at the number of folks that want to dabble in a little BDSM or fantasy play.
I can’t count how many times I have screamed, “Spank me!”.
However, not everyone has a fancy paddle, a flogger or even a leather flogger in their nightstand in preparation for the day someone asks to be spanked.
So, before you find yourself running the house naked, in a frenzy to find something with which to spank your adventurous lover, I have done the legwork for you!
I will show you simple, household items that can be used to spank that naughty lover. Plus, I’ll show you things you can use to make a DIY BDSM paddle without the need for saws, patterns and a shop of woodworking tools.
After all, not all of us are wood shop savvy!
So, grab the Gorilla Glue or hot glue gun, some duct tape and a bit of rope and I will show you how to make a homemade spanking paddle. But first, a little explanation for those still scratching their heads.
What is a Spanking Paddle?
A spanking paddle is a tool used in BDSM and fantasy play and is especially nice for BDSM beginners.
They are used to spank a partner or yourself during a non-sexual or sexual situation in which both participants have consented to such play. Further, a spanking paddle can be used for light spanking, which only causes mild discomfort, if any at all. Or a paddle can be used to inflict pain of various degrees, depending on what the participant desires.
Spanking paddles are made from various materials including wood, leather, faux leather, rubber, plastic and more. They include a handle and a flat area, in a variety of shapes and sizes, used to spank the consenting, willing participant on their bottom.
Why Make a Spanking Paddle?
Unless you are already a regular BDSM participant, there may come a day when you or your partner want to dabble in that practice or a little fantasy play. I mean, enjoying a little spanking doesn’t mean you are into hardcore BDSM. Additionally, not all people who enjoy BDSM like being paddled. Therefore, if the idea is brought up, you can create your own DIY spanking paddle before deciding if you’d like to invest cash into a nice, BDSM spanking paddle.
So, knowing how to make a spanking paddle not only saves you money but may please your partner as you created a paddle with your own 2 hands. Therefore, if your Dom has ordered you to create your own homemade BDSM paddle, here are some fun and easy ideas for making that paddle. Trust me, your Dom will be pleased.
Supplies for Making a DIY BDSM Spanking Paddle
You may be surprised to learn that you already have the supplies for making a DIY BDSM spanking paddle. Some items need absolutely nothing but a bottom to spank! However, others need a little bit of craftiness and some household supplies most people keep on hand. So, here are just some of the supplies for making a homemade spanking paddle:
- Anything flat with a handle (spatulas, paddle brushes, paddleballs, sports paddles, etc.)
- Strong, multi-purpose glue or a hot glue gun
- Rope, cordage, leather strips
- Leather or faux leather belts
- Duct tape, either regular or decorative
- Grommets, decorative jewels, studs
And remember, you can take any of the following DIY spanking paddle ideas, add a little twist and make it your own.
Kitchen Items That Make Great Spanking Paddles
There are plenty of kitchen items that can be used to make great homemade spanking paddles with little to no effort whatsoever. These are great items to grab when the, “Spank me now!” happens to come up during a hot and heavy make-out session. Or, you can easily customize these things and keep them in your BDSM tool box.
Pizza Peel Paddle
A pizza peel is a large, flat paddle or spatula that is used to put a whole pizza into the oven as well as retrieving it. They are made from stainless steel (which I would NOT recommend using) as well as wood and bamboo, both of which make perfect DIY BDSM paddles. They come in all sizes, starting at 9” and can be used as is for a good, not-too-painful spanking. However, here are some tips for customizing a pizza peel into a homemade spanking paddle.
Tips:
To make a pizza peel into a custom DIY spanking paddle, here are a few things you can do.
- Drill holes into the flat part to create air flow and a wee bit more pain.
- You can paint a pizza peel with your desired color.
- Wrap the handle in leather strips, faux leather or duct tape.
- If your pizza peel has a hole in the handle, connect a wrist strap using cordage or rope.
- You can also hammer in grommets or glue on studs or jewels.
And if you don’t happen to have a pizza peel lying around, you can find them in wood and bamboo most anywhere you shop as well as online.
Spatula DIY Spanking Paddle
Spatulas can also be used as DIY spanking paddles as is. Most all of us have them in our kitchens, so they are a quick grab in a pinch. They are made from nylon and other flexible materials that withstand heat, making them a snap to clean up. Plus, the pain infliction level varies due to thickness, flexibility and whether or not it features holes or slits.
Here are a couple of things you can do to up your spatula spanking game and make your own homemade spanking paddle.
Spatula Tips:
- Wrap the handle in leather, fabric or duct tape for comfort.
- Make a wrist loop and place it through the hole that most spatula handles already have.
DIY Spanking Paddles from Sports Gear
Another easy tip on how to make a spanking paddle is to take a look at any sports gear you may have lying around. Whether you use it every day or it’s something you’ve packed away in the garage, different sports paddles can be easily brought into the bedroom for fantasy play. Best of all, they need no additions and can be used as is. However, if it’s something you lost interest in, long ago, why not breathe new life into it?!
Pickleball Spankings
The game of Pickleball seems to be the new, trendy sport to play. Therefore, if you happen to have a pickleball racket, you already have a DIY paddle! The best part of pickleball rackets is that they are the perfect size for a BDSM paddle, come with a comfortable handle and in all sorts of colors and designs. So, you can use a pickleball racket as it is.
But if you tried out pickleball and your racket is now collecting dust in the garage, blow off that dust and change that racket into a fantasy paddle. Simply paint your racket a different color, add some faux leather to the handle and embellish with studs or grommets, if that’s your thing.
Ping Pong Spanking Paddle
Still have those table tennis paddles even though the ping pong table is long gone? Well, then you have a perfect do-it-yourself spanking paddle! The great thing about ping pong paddles is that they are made of solid wood and oftentimes feature and rubber pad on each side. Therefore, they can inflict a moderate amount of pain and hold up well.
You can use a ping pong paddle as it is or customize it with paint. Additionally, you can drill holes on the paddle, or drill a hole in the handle in which to place a wrist strap. Then, cover the handle in tape, leather or fabric and you have the perfect paddle.
Spanking Paddle from a Beach Tennis Racket
Beach tennis rackets differ from court rackets in that they are made from wood. And that makes them perfect DIY spanking paddles! Plus, you can use a beach tennis racket as it is or customize it with these ideas:
- Paint the paddle in your choice of color.
- Add leather, faux leather or tape to the handle for comfort.
- Drill holes into the paddle.
- Cover the paddle with cut outs made from leather, rubber or silicone.
- Hammer in some grommets or studs to increase sensation.
Misc. Household Items Morphed into DIY BDSM Paddles
If you’re wondering how to make a spanking paddle with other miscellaneous household items, you’ve landed on the right page. Not all of us have wood shops or the skill to use woodworking tools. Therefore, I present to you other items from around the house that can be used to fashion your own DIY spanking paddle.
The Belt Paddle
If you’re from my generation, you already know that a belt makes a fine paddle and disciplinary tool. And if you happen to have a leather or faux leather belt that no longer fits, here’s how to make a spanking paddle with 3 easy steps and a roll of tape.
Step 1:
With thin, sharp scissors, cut the stitching around the buckle and the leather loop. Then remove all of the hardware and extra pieces. This prevents unintentional injuries to your spanking partner.
Step 2:
Next, loop the top of the belt and line up the 2 ends at the bottom.
Step 3:
Finally, using the tape of your choice or leather strips, wrap it around the belt, moving upward, toward the loop. Go as far as you choose in order to make the handle as comfortable as possible. And now you’ve created a DIY spanking paddle that can be used for fantasy and BDSM spankings, from gentle to intense.
Flyswatter Paddle
Ah, yes, a good, old fashioned fly swatter can make the perfect homemade spanking paddle in a pinch. Shaped like a riding crop with a flexible paddle on one end, the fly swatter can be used for gentle spankings or can be used for swift swatting that will definitely leave a mark. This cute little fly swatter became mine for a grand total of $1.25 from the Dollar Tree!
If you’d like your fly swatter to look darker and naughtier, try spray painting it with a paint that bonds to plastics. You can also wrap the handle in tape or leather to create a more comfortable to grip. Either way, a fly swatter makes the perfect spanking paddle to use in a pinch.
Ever Been Spanked with a Race Track?
I know this may sound silly and even preposterous to some of you. However, us older folks remember being spanked with those orange strips of plastic race track. Surprisingly, I found a 2-pack of tracks at the Dollar Tree. And not only did it bring back memories of my being a petulant child, I realized they make a great DIY spanking paddle.
But I want to offer a quick note to you; these race track strips are extremely painful and will 100% leave welts on yourself or your partner. Therefore, be sure and know the level of pain your partner will accept before using this homemade paddle.
Remember, consent is first and foremost in any and all fantasy, role playing and BDSM play.
BedBible Exclusive: DIY Spanking Paddle from a Paddle Ball Game
Remember the paddle ball game from childhood? You know, smacking the little rubber ball tethered to a wooden paddle with a thin piece of elastic string. That is, until, ultimately, the string breaks and we then use the paddle to smack our siblings and friends. Well, now you can create a homemade spanking paddle using this old school child’s toy.
Supplies Needed:
- 1-3 paddle ball games (depending on material and thickness)
- Hot glue or a strong, multi-purpose glue like Gorilla brand
- Decorative or regular duct tape
- Small piece of sand paper
- Craft foam, rubber or silicone (optional)
- Drill (optional)
- Thick string, cordage or rope (optional)
- Large, flat-bottomed jewels, studs or embellishments (optional)
Step 1:
First, remove the string and balls from each paddle ball game. Be sure there is no staple. If so, make sure to remove the staple too.
Step 2:
Next, roughen the surface of the center paddle ball, on both sides, using sandpaper. Be sure and sand only a single side of the remaining two paddle balls. This allows the glue to grip better. If you like the design on the paddles, keep the design side as is, while using the sandpaper on the opposite side. That way, once it’s glued together, it won’t be necessary to apply tape for aesthetic purposes.
Step 3:
Next, apply either hot glue or a multi-purpose, household glue to the sides of the paddle balls you just sanded. Be sure and get the edges too, so it will hold together and look like a single, thicker paddle.
Step 4:
Now, line up the center paddle and place it on top of the glue. Then repeat the process with the third paddle. Allow to dry thoroughly. You may also apply clamps, while drying, to ensure that the paddles dry evenly and tight.
Step 5:
If you like the look of the spanking paddle, you can stop here! You now have a DIY spanking paddle that’s thick, attractive and can issue a bit of pain on someone’s bottom. However, if you prefer a more BDSM look, go to the next steps for more customization ideas.
Step 6
Now, take your duct tape, or decorative tape and begin covering the paddle. Be sure and cover the handle, sides and top completely. Keep in mind, this may require you to apply the tape in a different pattern and direction. Also, trim edges or cut slits in the tape that overhangs the edges. This allows the tape to lie flat.
Once you have finished taping, it will look something like this.
Step 7:
Trace the paddle on a piece of craft foam, silicone or rubber, using a marker.
Step 8:
Next, choose a shape and draw it within the tracing of the paddle. As you can see, I decided to draw a heart. Keep in mind, the material on the paddle will add a different sensation to spanking play.
Step 9:
Cut out whatever shape you chose.
Step 10:
Next, glue the shape to one side of the homemade spanking paddle. If you choose, you can cut another shape for the opposite side of the paddle. Or, change it up so your DIY BDSM spanking paddle with have various thrilling sensations, depending on which side you decide to use.
Step 11:
Now, using studs, grommets or crystals (whatever you choose), glue them to the opposite side of the paddle.
Step 12:
For the final step, we are going to make a wrist strap to keep your spanking paddle close by, That way, you can use your hands for other things! First, create a loop, large enough to easily slide off and on your wrist. Then, glue or tape it in place.
Step 13:
Now that the loop is secured in place, starting at the top, wrap your rope, leather, cordage (or whatever you choose) around the handle, holding your loop in place.
Step 14:
Finally, take the last row of rope and glue it in place. Once it’s dry, your DIY BDSM spanking paddle is ready for your next dungeon session!
Paddle Hair Brush Turned Spanking Paddle
Paddle style hair brushes make effective spanking paddles when you need to grab something for impromptu fantasy play. This type of hairbrush is rounded or square, flat on the backside and are larger in size than ordinary hair brushes. Use one as is or wrap some tape around the handle to create a comfortable grip. However, just use the flat side! The other side can cause scratches, puncture wounds and injury.
Stir Up Spanking Fantasies with Free Pain Stirrers
Some paint sticks are thicker, some are thinner. Some are made from plastic and some, made of wood. But the best part of paint stirrers, sticks and mixers is that most of the time, they are free! Better yet, most of us will have a few of these paint sticks lying around the house or garage. These sticks make great DIY BDSM paddles in a pinch. They’re sturdy and they sting!
However, if you’re the crafty type, a paint stirrer is the perfect, structural base for a homemade spanking paddle!
Imagine role playing the house painter and naught house sitter.
BedBible Exclusive: Paint Stirrer + Belt Homemade Paddle
When you just can’t afford to run out and shell out cash for a leather or faux leather BDSM paddle, it’s easy to make one at home. All it takes are some things around the house, a paint stick and a leather or faux leather belt. I found this belt at the Dollar General Store for under $3.00. The open hole design is going to make one heck of an attractive homemade paddle.
Here is what you’ll need to make one of your own. And remember, you can switch this up to create your own, unique paddle.
Supplies
- Paint stirring stick
- Paint
- Leather or faux leather belt
- Hot glue gun and glue sticks or a heavy-duty, multi-purpose glue like Gorilla Glue brand
- Rope, leather strips or cordage (optional depending on the belt)
Step 1:
Paint the paint stick the color of your choice. Or, if you don’t have the time, paint or inclination, you can leave it as it is. Allow to dry well before proceeding.
Step 2:
Using thin, sharp scissors, cut through the belt’s stitching and remove the buckle and any other hardware. You should be left with one long strip.
Step 3:
Lay the painted paint stirrer on top of the belt. Using crayon or chalk, mark the underside of the belt at top of the stick and at the bottom, make a mark even with the bottom of the stick, before it thins into the handle.
Step 4:
Cut the first strip off of the belt using a sharp, heavy-duty pair of scissors.
Step 5:
Using the first strip, measure 3 more strips on the belt. Cut into 4 even pieces. The belt I used was a 32-34, so it won’t come out as perfectly had I purchased a bigger waist size. So, hopefully, you have a bigger belt in your closet.
Step 6:
Lay 2 pieces of belt, side-by-side, meeting in the center of the paint stick. Glue down thoroughly using either a hot glue gun or a heavy-duty, all-purpose glue, like Gorilla Glue. Allow several hours to dry.
Step 7:
Flip the paddle over and do the same thing with the remaining 2 pieces of belt. I had to poke holes in one of my belt strips since it was a smaller waist size. But if your belt is solid, you won’t have to worry about it.
Step 8:
Using rope or cord, cut small pieces, thread them through the holes and tie them off, leaving a bit of rope or cord hanging to add to the pleasure/pain when using this DIY BDSM spanking paddle. Or, as shown above, lace the cord through the holes, crisscrossing as you would lace a shoe.
If you don’t have holes in your belt, either poke holes on the outer edge of all 4 strips, using a sharp pair of scissors or drill. Or you can wrap the rope around the paddle, in a crisscross pattern, gluing it down as you go.
And there you have it! A faux leather DIY spanking paddle that you can use to fulfill all of your naughty fantasies.
Gardening Pad Homemade Spanking Paddle
Since I wrote this blog post in the spring, my local Dollar Tree had plenty of foam kneeling pads that you use for gardening. Considering the handle is already built-in and they come in textured selections, you are already more than half way there! Or, if you choose, you can use the gardening pad as is, for a spanking paddle in a pinch.
Plus, this is a perfect starter paddle as the pain level is relatively low.
Here are some steps to take in order to customize a gardening pad into a more manageable spanking paddle.
Step 1:
Using a marker, trace out a shape you would like your paddle to be. It can be simple, like mine or you can draw stacked hearts, squiggles or whatever you wish.
Step 2:
Cut out the shape using a sharp knife. Just be extremely careful not to cut yourself!
Step 4:
Round the corners, using the knife. Then, even out any edges that aren’t smooth. Leave your paddle as it is; the texture is quite stimulating when used for spanking. Or add some sting to your DIY spanking paddle by gluing on or attaching grommets, studs or jewels. Considering the material is a thick foam, it’s easy to apply things, pull them out and try something new.
DIY Spanking Paddles Are as Effective as Paddles You Can Buy
DIY spanking paddles are as effective as those you can buy in a store. Besides, if you’re just experimenting with BDSM or light, fantasy play, making your own homemade paddle is easy and cost effective. That way, if you find you enjoy the sensation of being paddled, you can then find a BDSM paddle, ready-made, that you can purchase.
Plus, you can choose from leather or faux leather paddles, DIY floggers with strips of leather or faux leather that aren’t as painful as a paddle. Or take it a bit further and try out a riding crop, which is definitely created for someone who enjoys the mixture of pleasure and pain. Either way, it’s great to step out of your comfort zone and fulfill those deep, dark and delicious spanking fantasies.