How to Ride a Dildo

By Isabelle Uren / November 04, 2022

You know what they say, once you learn how to ride a dildo, you never forget! So it’s time to grab your trusty stead, master your mounting technique, and ride off into the sunset!

Riding a dildo gives a sense of wild freedom that you just don’t get lying down! The rocking and rolling motion mimics sex and can actually help you reach that big O. Not to mention, it leaves your hands free to roam.

There’s more than one way to ride to dildo, and we’ve got them all covered in this post:

How to Ride a Suction Cup Dildo

Suction cup dildos are one of the easiest and cheapest ways to go for ride! The suction cup base can stick to any smooth, flat surface, allowing you to ride hands-free!

You can explore a pretty wide range of positions as you can mount the dildo to a horizontal or vertical surface. Here are a few tips for a smooth ride:

  • Try use a completely flat, smooth, and preferably non-porous surface to get the best seal.
  • You can slightly wet the suction cup before sticking it down.
  • You might want a slightly longer dildo than you would usually use if you are planning to stick it to the floor or the wall as there will be some space between the surface and your body.
  • Keep it clean! Remember to clean any surface that will come in to contact with your genitals and clean up when you are finished.

Best Positions for Riding a Dildo

Chair champ!

Chairs make a great surface for your suction cup dildo, as they are solid and it’s easy to grind or move up and down.

  • Ride the dildo facing the back of the chair, using the backrest for support.
  • Ride you dildo facing forward – this makes it a little bit more difficult to balance.

Sitting down completely will provide deep penetration, so make sure to use a dildo you can comfortably take all of!

Doggy

Finding the perfect spot to ride your dildo doggy style can be a bit tricky as you need to leave room for your legs.

Don’t forget a blanket under your knees for comfort!

  • Attach your dildo to a table leg, and place your legs either side of the table.
  • Find a doorway or thin strip of wall that has space on either side for your legs

Bath Time Bliss

The bath is another great smooth surface for some slippery dildo fun! Here are a few options:

  • Suction your dildo the bottom of the tub and straddle it. You can hold on the sides for support.
  • Attach the dildo to end of the bath and lie with your legs over the end. If there is some water in the tub, you can slide back and forth.¨
  • Stick your dildo to the side of the bath tub and straddle it in a standing position.

My Top Suction Cup Dildos

Fun Factory Limba Flex 4.5 Inch

Best for beginners — The Limba Flex is small flexible dildo with a strong suction cup! The shaft holds it shape so you can bend it to perfect g-spot or p-spot pleasing angle.

Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Dildo 7 Inch

Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Multicolored Silicone Dildo 7 Inch

Best for intermediate — This swirling silicone dildo from Lovehoney has a slight curve for g-spot or p-spot stimulation and features realistic textural details.

Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Dildo 8 Inch

Best for experienced — This whopping 8 inch dildo from Lovehoney has a sculpted head, thick veins, and realistic balls for some serious stimulation!

How to Ride a Dildo Mount

Dildo mounts give you a base to take your favorite dildo for ride! They have either a pocket or attachment point to hold your dildo firmly in place while you bounce or grind until your heart’s content!

Sex toy mounts are fantastic for solo or partner play, and they provide a more support than using just a suction cup dildo.

To use a sex toy mount, simply install your chosen dildo by placing the base in the pocket or attachment point, apply a generous amount of lube, and hop on!

Liberator BonBon

The BonBon from Liberator is made with high-density foam that supports your body. You can use it with your favorite flared and non-flared base toys!

Lovebotz Bangin Bench

If you love bouncing up and down on your dildo, the Bangin Bench is the one for you! Not only is it perfect for riding a dildo, but it’s also great for riding your partner’s face!

Liberator Humphrey

Another great mount from Liberator, the Humphrey Sex Pillow can hold your favorite dildo and it even has a pocket for a bullet vibrator!

How to Ride a Sex Machine

If you are looking for a ride with a bit more oomph, it might be time to hop aboard a sex saddle! The saddle style seat allows you to straddle the dildo while the motor delivers some of the strongest vibrations out there!

These are definitely a riding option for the power kings and queens out there and while they are quite an investment, they might be the ultimate bedroom power tool!

Always start out on the lowest setting and work your way to higher intensities. Oh, and use plenty of lube!

MotorBunny Buck

If you just want to get buck wild, the MotorBunny Buck is the ride for you! This powerhouse combines thrusting and vibrations for some intense pleasure.

The Tremor

The Tremor will leave your legs shaking with it’s rotations and vibrations! It also has a narrower, A-shaped saddle that some might prefer to the wider barrel styles.

The Cowgirl

The Cowgirl Premium Sex Machine is a luxury ride down to the very last detail. As well as intense vibrations, the Cowgirl features 360° swivel rotation.

How to Ride a Sex Doll Torso

Sex dolls and torsos can satisfy that craving for something more realistic. Enjoy the look and feel of a real shaft that’s ready to play whenever you want and can go all night long!

Sex doll torsos are perfect if you love riding cowgirl style, forward or backward! They are also amazing for fulfilling a threesome fantasy with a partner!

Pipedream Extreme Realistic Male Sex Doll 

If you want the almost full experience, this realistic male sex doll from Pipedream features the whole upper body as well as a thick 8 inch penis and a textured anal canal!

Pipedream Extreme Fuck Me Silly Ride On Dude

If you want something slightly smaller and cheaper, Pipedream also makes the Fuck Me Silly Ride On Dude which features the 8-inch shaft and anal opening just without the upper body!

How to Ride a Dildo with a Partner

You don’t have to be a lone rider when it comes to riding your dildo! There are plenty of fun ways to incorporate your favorite ride on dildo into partner play! Here are some of my top partner positions for riding a dildo…

Dildo Riding Oral Sex

Choose your preferred riding technique and use your free hands and mouth to pleasure your partner! The rhythm as you grind back and forth will also add a delicious rhythm to your oral technique!

Double Penetration

Ride on dildos are perfect for exploring double penetration with a partner without needing to find an extra person! Simply climb atop your dildo and have your partner penetrate you anally.

Double penetration can feel incredibly satisfying but it’s also pretty intense, so take it slowly and use plenty of lubrication!

Strap On Sex

Strap-on dildos are perfect for exploring strap on sex or pegging and some are even made for double penetration! Riding positions, like cowgirl, are some of the easiest, as the receiving partner is on control of the movements.

Thigh harnesses are great if you have mobility issues and they can be strapped to pillows to create your own dildo mount! Or, if you want to enjoy the pleasure of oral sex while riding your partner, get yourself a strap-on chin dildo!