How to Use a Vibrator on Your Wife [Guide]

In this blog post I’ll guide you on 1) how to use a vibrator on your wife/girlfriend, and secondly, 2) what products to choose.

After all, knowing what to do and how to do it is useless if you don’t have the right tools.

Therefore, I put together a list of products you can use as a guide when you’re shopping for the perfect sex toy for her.

The Bullet Vibrator

Bullet vibrators are the perfect, compact sex toy when you’re learning how to use a vibrator on her.

Not only are they small, many bullet vibrators are extremely powerful and have several settings. That way, you can discover the vibration level that sends her through the roof.

Plus, bullet vibrators can be used for massages as well as on your body too!

So, when you are discovering how to use a vibrator on your wife or girlfriend, going small, in the beginning, is a great way to introduce a toy into the bedroom and learn exactly what gets her off. But remember, bullet vibrators are for external use only.

Fingertip Vibrators

While bullet vibrators are the perfect first sex toy to use on your lady, finger vibrators allow for all of the tingly sensations without the worry of dropping the toy in the heat of the moment.

So, when you’re discovering what gets her excited and learning how to use a vibrator on her, a fingertip vibrator is very easy to use. Just slip it on your preferred finger and turn it on!

Clitoral Stimulators

Clitoral stimulators are small vibrators created specifically to stimulate that bundle of nerve endings in her clitoris. They come in all shapes and sizes, many of which are made for her to use as a masturbation toy.

However, there is no reason why you can’t use this sex toy on her and rock her world while watching every expression on her face!

Sure, you can use bullet vibrators on her as well as internal vibrators. But isn’t it nice to have a few tools in your toolbox?

Internal Vibrators

Internal vibrators are the type of sex toy that you can use on your wife or girlfriend both internally and externally. Use just the tip to tease her clitoris. Then, once she is on the brink, you can use the toy internally to bring her to orgasm.

Just remember to follow her moans, groans, and cuesso as not to thrust too hard.

When figuring out how to use a vibrator on your wife or girlfriend, be sure and find the right internal vibrator for her. They come in all materials, from plastic to silicone as well as missel shapes and realistic penises.

And yes, we ladies do understand that some of you have a problem handling any penis but your own, and that’s okay! Find a vibe like this one.

The G-Spot Vibrator

G-spot vibrators are made to stimulate her internally. And, when learning how to use a vibrator on her, bringing her to a g-spot orgasm with a sex toy will help you master your own technique when you are making love to her!

A g-spot vibrator looks a bit different as it has a curved tip that will rest against the right spot when you slide it a few inches in (not all the way!)

In addition, that curved tip allows you to vibrate her clitoris externally.

The Multi-Function Vibrator

The multi-function vibrator may look like a crazy sex toy. But, if you want to give her both a clitoral and a g-spot orgasm at the same time, this is the perfect tool for the job.

See, the shaft of a multi-function vibrator rotates to rub against her g-spot. And, externally, there is a clitoral stimulator that’s situated perfectly with no work on your part.

However, using a multi-function vibrator on her may take a bit more practice as they have separate controls for both the shaft and the clitoral stimulator. But I’m sure you’ll get the hang of it pretty quickly.

Now, there are a ton of different types of multi-function vibrators to choose from so where do you begin?

How to use a vibrator on her

Knowing how to use a vibrator on your wife is an exciting way to add a spark to your intimate life. Just like shaking things up and having sex in new places, trying new positions, or even role-playing, learning how to use a vibrator on her can take sex to an entirely new level.

Okay, it doesn’t have to be a wife, for those of you who are single, knowing how to use a vibrator of your girlfriend is an awesome skill to have too.

So, if you are looking for tips on how to use a vibrator on her, you’ve landed in the right spot.; as I am going to show you the right spots – internally and externally – to stimulate her with a vibrator. Plus, with the help of Be-Be and Grey, I will share photos of positions you can use to rock her world with a vibrator all night long.

But first, there is something important to keep in mind….

You’re All She Wants; Vibrators Are the Icing on the Cake

If she’s the one asking for a vibrator, don’t take it personally! She’s not asking for a new sex toy because you’re not enough. On the contrary, you are all she wants and vibrators are simply the icing on the cake. So, if you’re worried that you’re not satisfying your wife or girlfriend, stop. The lady in your life just wants to make a good thing even better.

How Using a Vibrator on Your Wife Enhances Sex

Many ways are using a vibrator on her enhances sex. Sure, you have seriously, mad skills but can you vibrate? Can you stimulate her clitoris with pulsating bliss while making love to her? Or can you manage double penetration on your own?

The answer is yes to all of the above if you add a vibrator to your time between the sheets. And, depending on the type of vibrator you choose, you can bring her to screaming, squirming orgasms in so many different ways.

Types of Vibrators to Use onlisted above.

How to Use a Vibrator on Her

Now that you know the basic why’s of how to use a vibrator on her and the right tools for the job, it’s time to get down to the nitty-gritty and show you exactly how it’s done. Our models, Be-Be and Grey, will show how to use a vibrator on a woman and the best positions to maximize her pleasure as well as your own.

But first, let’s take a close-up and intimate look at her vagina. That way, you’ll know how to use a vibrator on her clitoris and other, sensitive, erogenous zones that surround that sweet spot.

How to Use a Vibrator on Her Clitoris and Vagina

When using a vibrator on your wife or girlfriend, hitting the right spots is crucial for her to have maximum enjoyment without getting numb. They key to giving her an incredible clitoral orgasm is to be gentle and not to use too high of a speed. Follow her verbal and physical cues or ask her which spot feels the best.

Furthermore, when using a vibrator for penetration, it’s very much like using your penis but you get to see her excitement without worrying about finishing before her. However, remember to use plenty of lubricant and start slow, watching and listening for her cues and don’t push too hard as you might hurt her.

Use a bullet vibrator, clitoral stimulator or other vibrator against her clitoris. Some women like more pressure, some like less. In addition, she may enjoy direct stimulation or just above the clitoris (the clitoral hood) or just below the clitoris. Just be cautious around the urethral opening with any type of stimulation of penetration as it can cause irritation, soreness and painful cystitis.

How to Use a Vibrator on a Woman for Massage (Positions)

Knowing how to use a vibrator on her for massage is important in that it relaxes her and is the perfect foreplay before bringing her to the big-o manually. Start by using a nice massage oil then run a vibrator over each of her most sensitive spots. Just think about the spots that you stroke or kiss that make her moan and apply different amounts of pressure.

The Best Positions for Using a Vibrator on Your Wife

Now, Be-Be and Grey are going to show you how to use a vibrator on her and the best positions for watching her squirm, giving her oral sex while using a vibrator and penetrating her while using a vibrator on her clitoris.

Missionary Style

Using a vibrator on her in the missionary position allows you to watch her body and her expressions as you rub her clitoris or penetrate her vagina or anus. Plus, this position gives you full access to her breasts and sensitive nipples so you can send her over-the-top with the trifecta of sexual stimulation.

Doggy Style

Using a vibrator on her in the doggy-style position gives you the most thrilling views. Plus, you can stimulate her clitoris, penetrate her vagina or her anus. In addition, this position makes it easy for her to rock back against the vibrator, a cue to you that she wants more.

During Oral Sex

The vast majority of we ladies’ love receiving oral sex. And if you’re good at it, you can make yourself the king or oral gratification by penetrating her with a vibrator while using your cunninglingus skills.

During Intercourse

The best way to use a vibrator or your wife is by stimulating her clitoris while you are inside her. Not only do you get the thrill of having intercourse, you will be stimulating her in two ways which very-well could lead to explosive, mutual orgasms. Plus, these positions bring you physically closer for that sensual, skin-to-skin contact.

Doggy Style with a Twist

Slip it to her doggy-style while reaching around and holding a vibrator against her clitoris. To change things up and give her deeper penetration, have her lay with her chest on the pillow and bottom in the air.

Spectacular Spooning

Spooning is the one way to get super close to your girl while making love. But, by holding a vibrator against her clitoris while spooning, you may both hot the big-o at the same time.

Missionary Buzz

This position isn’t as easy to pull off, but if you can do it, this is the best position for hitting her g-spot while using a vibrator to make her clitoris tingle.

The Electric Cowgirl

Using a vibrator on her clitoris in the cowgirl position is easy to do! Plus, as she grinds on you, she will put more pressure against the vibrator. And the best part is that you have a free hand to squeeze her rear and breasts.