How to use a vibrator on a woman, photo of poseable figures, female on all fours with male behind her using a vinrator.
Be-Be and Grey demonstrating one position for using a vibrator on a woman

As a companion article to “How to Use a Vibrator on Your Wife” (girlfriend, her, significant other), I thought it would be good to give you a product guide to get you started. After all, knowing what to do and how to do it is useless if you don’t have the right tools. Therefore, I put together a list of products you can use as a guide when you’re shopping for the perfect sex toy for her.

The Bullet Vibrator

Bullet vibrators are the perfect, compact sex toy when you’re learning how to use a vibrator on her.

Not only are they small, many bullet vibrators are extremely powerful and have several settings. That way, you can discover the vibration level that sends her through the roof.

Plus, bullet vibrators can be used for massages as well as on your body too!

The Screaming O Soft Touch Vooom Bullet is a fantastic value, price wise, and offers a great deal more than most bullet vibrators. First, the soft coating glides smoothly across even the most delicate skin (think her clitoris). And, with several settings of vibration, you’re sure to find the one she likes the most.

Most importantly, this bullet vibrator has Screaming O’s exclusive Vooom motor. The Vooom motor has a deeper, more rumbly vibration, rather than a buzzing sensation which oftentimes will make a woman go numb. Therefore, this little toy’s sensations are more amplified throughout her nerve endings, allowing for more intense orgasms.

So, when you are discovering how to use a vibrator on your wife or girlfriend, going small, in the beginning, is a great way to introduce a toy into the bedroom and learn exactly what gets her off. But remember, bullet vibrators are for external use only.

Fingertip Vibrators

While bullet vibrators are the perfect first sex toy to use on your lady, fingertip vibrators allow for all of the tingly sensations without the worry of dropping the toy in the heat of the moment.

So, when you’re discovering what gets her excited and learning how to use a vibrator on her, a fingertip vibrator is very easy to use. Just slip it on your preferred finger and turn it on!

The Color Pop Fingo Tips are super small, cost under $10 and have a nice, textured covering that’s just the thing for gently rubbing her clitoris or teasing her nipples.

They have one powerful setting, so no need to search for the perfect speed. Just follow her cues or ask her to guide you to the right spot to bring her to the big-o.

Clitoral Stimulators

Clitoral stimulators are small vibrators created specifically to stimulate that bundle of nerve endings in her clitoris. They come in all shapes and sizes, many of which are made for her to use as a masturbation toy.

However, there is no reason why you can’t use this sex toy on her and rock her world while watching every expression on her face!

Sure, you can use bullet vibrators on her as well as internal vibrators. But isn’t it nice to have a few tools in your tool box?

I believe one of the best clitoral vibrators on the market is the Screaming O Tri-It Vibe. It’s a rechargeable sex toy, so you never have to worry about replacing batteries. Best of all, it has that rumbly Vooom motor and patterns of vibration, pulsation and escalation.

Most importantly, the 3 points of contact on this amazing clitoral stimulator, cover the clitoris and the sensitive points around that sweet spot for the ultimate in tingly sensations. Plus, she may use it on herself and let you watch as she brings herself to climactic bliss.

Trust me, I own one.

Internal Vibrators

Internal vibrators are the type of sex toy that you can use on your wife or girlfriend both internally and externally. Use just the tip to tease her clitoris. Then, once she is on the brink, you can use the toy internally to bring her to orgasm.

Just remember to follow her moans, groans and cues as not to thrust too hard.

When figuring out how to use a vibrator on your wife or girlfriend, be sure and find the right internal vibrator for her. They come in all materials, from plastic to silicone as well as missel shapes and realistic penises.

And yes, we ladies do understand that some of you have a problem handing any penis but your own, and that’s okay! Find a vibe like this one.

The Shimmers vibrator is a simple, plastic vibrator that is waterproof so you can take your fun into the shower or tub too. It has easy, multi-speed operation by twisting the bottom and it is under 20 bucks. Plus, it’s a great option for a first sex toy.

The G-Spot Vibrator

G-spot vibrators are made to stimulate her internally. And, when learning how to use a vibrator on her, bringing her to a g-spot orgasm with a sex toy will help you master your own technique when you are making love to her!

A g-spot vibrator looks a bit different as it has a curved tip that will rest against the right spot when you slide it a few inches in (not all the way!)

In addition, that curved tip allows for you to vibrate her clitoris externally.

The Scarlet G-Spot Vibrator is a great first sex toy as it’s inexpensive – under $25 – and has a firm core with a silky-smooth coating. It has 3 speeds of vibrations and the larger, bulbed tip allows for a greater area to be covered.

The Multi-Function Vibrator

The multi-function vibrator may look like a crazy sex toy. But, if you want to give her both a clitoral and a g-spot orgasm at the same time, this is the perfect tool for the job.

See, the shaft of a multi-function vibrator rotates to rub against her g-spot. And, externally, there is a clitoral stimulator that’s situated perfectly with no work on your part.

However, using a multi-function vibrator on her may take a bit more practice as they have separate controls for both the shaft and the clitoral stimulator. But I’m sure you’ll get the hang of it pretty quickly.

Now, there are a ton of different types of multi-function vibrators to choose from so where do you begin?

In my opinion, you can never go wrong with a rabbit vibrator. My First Jackrabbit is under $50 and has easy-to-use controls on the handle. The shaft is shorter for maximum g-spot contact and the bunny ears cradle and tantalize her clitoris without you having to put in much effort at all.

Using the Right Vibrator for Fantastic Orgasms

If you’re just now learning how to use a vibrator on her, be sure and get the right sex toy for the job. The best way to know which one to use is to talk to her and find out what she likes. However, if this is a first vibrator for the both of you, I would suggest to start small. Either way, you’ll both have fun while you navigate her body and learn how to bring her to orgasm.

Plus, once you learn how to use a vibrator on your wife or girlfriend, you’ll have even more knowledge you can apply when you are using your own body to pleasure her.

Be sure and read the first part of this blog; “How to Use a Vibrator on Your Wife” for pics and positions so you’re not feeling awkward and have a leg up when you first get started. And, don’t forget to follow me on Facebook and on Twitter @BedBible so you never miss a post.

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