Today, I’m diving into the world of queer-friendly sex toy with this Wet For Her review. This is an interationally-established, inclusive and queer-friendly online sex toy store. Its known for its wide range of sex toys especially catered to queer women.

As someone passionate about the diverse landscape of sexual wellness and queerness, I was intrigued! Let’s find out if Wet For Her lives up to its reputation!

Content Summary:

📌 Topic📝 Summary
🌐 Legitimacy of Wet For HerWet For Her is a legitimate and specialized online shop focusing on lesbian and queer couples. Known for its high-quality, non-realistic sex toys designed by women for women.
🏢 Wet For Her’s OriginsFounded in 2009, Wet For Her has established itself as a prominent designer and manufacturer of sex toys for all kinds of folx in the LGBTQ+ community, offering a wide range of products from strap-ons to vibrators.
🖥️ Website AuthenticityThe Wet For Her website is authentic and user-friendly, featuring a wide range of products with detailed descriptions and user reviews.
🛍️ Unique OfferingsOffers an extensive range of products specifically designed for lesbian and queer couples, including their signature Two Finger Extender and RockHer Scissoring Vibrator.
🌈 Commitment to DiversityWet For Her is very inclusive, catering to lesbian, bisexual, queer, cis, trans, and nonbinary people. They also offer gender affirming gear as well as sex toys and other plesure items.
💰 Savings & PromotionsWhile regular promotions and discounts are available, there’s also the Wet for Her Orgasmic Loyalty Program. Earn points (or “orgsms”) for various activities like referrals, social media follows, purchases, etc. The amount of “orgasms” on your loyalty account can be used as discounts for future purchases.
🎁 Product SelectionSpecializes in a diverse selection of inclusive sex toys for all kinds of bodies, including strap-ons, dildos, and vibrators, all made from high-quality, body-safe materials.
💳 Payment OptionsAccepts major credit cards and PayPal, with discreet billing under “WFH Design”.
📦 Shipping & PackagingOffers discreet packaging in the U.S. with a range of shipping options including free ground shipping on orders over $65. International discretion varies due to customs requirements.
🤝 Customer ServiceReviews describe helpful and efficient customer service. The website provides contact information for inquiries. There’s also a comprehensive page on return policies on the offical website.
⭐ ReviewsThere are both products reviews and user reviews available on the site. They score an average of 4.9/5.0. This does not include external reviews.

About Wet For Her

Wet For Her stands out as a designer and manufacturer of non-realistic lesbian sex toys. Their mission is clear: to cater to women who love women, offering an array of products like double dildos, strap-on harnesses, and vibrators, all designed by women for women.

In June 2009, Alice Derock founded Wet For Her in Paris, France. Somethig important was missing in the sex toy world – there just weren’t many choices out there for the lesbian and queer community. In an attempt to create pleasure products that cater specifically to queer women, a range of products was specially designed for exactly this purpose. That’s how the Two Finger Extender came to be – the first creation to quickly become a crowd favorite and to even receive numerous industry awards.

Fast forward to 2011, Derock took the vision online and started the Wet For Her e-boutique. Now, more than a decade later, Wet For Her has made a name for itself globally in the LGBTQ+ community.

Present Day

The shop’s grown a lot since then, now offering a bunch of top-selling lesbian sex toys like strap-on dildos, double dildos, harnesses, and some of the best vibrators for lesbian couples. Plus, they’ve got all the essentials like lube and foreplay goodies. Known for speedy and discreet shipping, Wet For Her serves customers all over – from Europe and Australia to the US and Canada.

A key aspect of Wet For Her’s product design is to avoid flesh-tone and realistic-looking sex toys. Most of their toys are made from 100% medical-grade silicone, ensuring they are phthalate-free and feature a silky texture that’s easy to clean and maintain. The products are available in neutral and non-realistic color options: often purple, pink, black, or with rainbow designs.

Additionally, the WFH Finger Sizing Guide is a unique feature that helps estimate sex toy size based on the number of fingers represented, ranging from two to four fingers’ width, with the width of one finger assumed to be around 1.3 cm or 0.5 inches in diameter.

Wet For Her Review: Website Experience

Front page of the Wet For Her website.

For new customers, the Wet For Her website presents a welcoming and informative platform, specifically tailored to the needs and preferences of the lesbian and queer communities. The site’s design is modern and user-friendly, making navigation relatively easy for visitors, whether they are experiences sex toy users or exploring for the first time.

Upon landing on the homepage, customers are greeted with a clear and concise overview of the brand’s mission and product range. The layout of the website is intuitive, with an organized menu with categories that are easy to navigate, like dildos, double dildos, strap-on harnesses, and vibrators. The categories simplify the shopping experience, which then allows customers to quickly find products that meet their specific interests or needs. I also really appreciate the option to filter your search in terms materials, size, price range, design, etc. while browsing on the category pages!

Product pages on the Wet For Her website are particularly useful. Each product is has a lot of information, detailed descriptions, specifications, and user reviews. This level of detail is always very valuable for customers trying to make informed decisions about their next buy.

The website also includes educational and community-focused elements. There’s a section dedicated to FTM packers and dildos, highlighting the brand’s commitment to inclusivity and diversity with gender affirming gear. Additionally, the site encourages engagement through their Instagram page and invites feedback, which helps create a sense of community among its users.

Overall, the Wet For Her website strikes an excellent balance between aesthetic appeal and functionality. Its straightforward design, combined with a wealth of product information and a clear commitment to the LGBTQ+ community, makes it an inviting and easy-to-navigate platform for new and returning customers alike.

Product Range & Quality

Wet For Her shines in its product diversity, making them stand out with an extensive product range within their specialty. Thoughtfully curated to cater to the unique needs and preferences of the lesbian and queer communities, ensuring that there is something for every customer, regardless of their experience level or specific interests.

1. Signature Products:

  • The Two Finger Extender: This innovative product, which marked the beginning of Wet For Her’s journey, is an ergonomic sheath that perfectgly fits two fingers for deeper penetration. It’s a testament to the company’s commitment to creating unique and practical solutions for lesbian couples.
  • The RockHer Scissoring Vibrator: A newer addition, this vibrator is designed specifically for scissoring positions and offers 10 vibration modes controlled with a remote, offering a unique experience tailored to lesbian couples.

2. Diverse Range of Dildos and Strap-Ons

  • Strap-On Dildos and Harnesses: Wet For Her offers a variety of strap-on dildos and harnesses. Their range includes products compatible with different types of harnesses, and harnesses for different body types as well, ensuring versatility and comfort.
  • Double Dildos: There’s a small collection of double-ended dildos made of both glass and stainless steel, as well as a collection of strapless strap-ons in neutral non-representational designs and colors with added vibrations, one of which is modeled from the signature Two Fingers design.
  • Dildos in Different Materials: All of the regular dildos available on Wet For Her are made of 100% body-safe, non-porous materials, like glass, stainless steel, or medical grade silicone. These are all high quality materials tht each have their own benefits in terms of sensation and durability.

We’ve also had a member of our Tester Team try out some of Wet For Her’s Strap-On Dildos. Check out the in-depth reviews below:

Wet For Her Pride Fusion Dildo Review
Check out our review of the Wet For Her Pride Fusion Strap-On Dildo.
Wet For Her Rainbow Strap-On Dildo Review.
We’ve also reviewed the Wet For Her Rainbow Strap-On Dildo!

4. Inclusivity in Design

  • Wet For Her also offers a range of gender affirming gear, FTM packers and strokers and dildos, binders, pumps, and dilators, showing their commitment to inclusivity and catering to a broader spectrum of the LGBTQ+ community.
  • The WFH Finger Sizing Guide is a unique feature that helps customers estimate the size of sex toys based on the number of fingers represented, making it easier to choose products that meet their comfort and preference.

Wet For Her Review: Inclusivity and Diversity

This brand doesn’t just talk the talk; they walk the walk when it comes to inclusivity. Catering to lesbian, bisexual, queer, cis, trans, and nonbinary individuals, Wet For Her aims to be a beacon of diversity in the sex toy industry.

Their approach to inclusivity is multifaceted, encompassing product design, community engagement, and a broader commitment to representing and supporting diverse identities and preferences.

Inclusive product range on the front page of the website.

Product Design for Diverse Needs

  • As mentioned above, Wet For Her’s product line is thoughtfully designed to cater to a wide range of preferences and identities within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. This includes their range of FTM packers and dildos, which are significant for transgender and nonbinary customers seeking gender-affirming products.
  • Avoiding flesh-toned and overly realistic designs in their sex toys is an intentional choice to make their products more appealing and comfortable for users who may be put off by traditional sex toy aesthetics.

Representation and Accessibility

  • The brand’s marketing and product representation are inclusive, featuring folx of diverse gender expressions and sexual orientations. This visibility in marketing materials not only promotes inclusivity but also helps customers see themselves reflected in the brand. And we all know that representation matters!
  • Wet For Her ensures that their website and online content are accessible and welcoming to all. Regardless of their sexual orientation, gender identity, or level of experience with sex toys.

Community Engagement and Support

  • Wet For Her actively engages with the LGBTQ+ community through their website, social media, and other platforms. Here, I see them creating a space for dialogue, education, and support. I think this kind of engagement can help foster a sense of community and belonging among customers and followers.
  • The company’s involvement in LGBTQ+ events and initiatives speaks to their commitment to supporting the community beyond just selling products. This includes being a part of Pride events, working together with LGBTQ+ artists and influencers, and support for LGBTQ+ causes.

A Comment on Binary Language

Wet For Her has made great strides in terms of inclusivity. However, there’s an aspect of their approach that could be fine-tuned for greater inclusivity. I noticed a lot of binary language in some product descriptions and category names. There are a lot of references specifically to “lesbians” or “women.” Of course, this is inclusive of a significant portion of their audience. But it might not fully embrace the entire spectrum of gender identities that Wet For Her claims to cater to. For example, people with vulvas or vaginas who identify as male or non-binary. I suspect that coming across this language could feel uncomfortable. It could easily lead to a feeling of being less acknowledged or misgendered.

Worth Creating a Safer Space

“Made by women for women”

Found in the description on many Wet For Her products

I acknowledge that the origin of Wet For Her came from the need to create a space for queer women to seek pleasure. So they use binary language to refer to women and lesbian couples. However, Wet For Her very much markets themselves as inclusively queer-friendly. To me, that would also mean using language that isn’t inherently exclusive to some people. People who see themselves as customers of certain products or services, but not necessarily as women or lesbian.

Vision and statement of inclusivity on the Wet For Her website.

I don’t know if I would actually feel very welcome in a space obviously catered to be for women and lesbians, if those were terms I was uncomfortable identifying as. While I do appreciate Wet For Her’s vision of being completely queer-friendly, I do think the website can be quite femme-oriented. This may result in less positive experiences for some non-binary or transgender customers.

To enhance their inclusivity, Wet For Her could consider adopting more gender-neutral terminology. That way they would explicitly include any potential customers instead of highlighting women and lesbian couples. This adjustment would not only align with broader trends towards inclusivity but also demonstrate a deeper understanding and respect for the complexities of gender identity. Balancing the specific needs of their target audience with the broader inclusivity of all queer identities is crucial. I personally think a refinement in language would further Wet For Her’s role as a progressive and inclusive leader in the sexual wellness industry.

Wet For Her Review: Packaging & Discretion

Wet For Her’s discretion in packaging is a crucial aspect of their service. I always appreciate online sex toy retailers that cater to customers who value privacy in their purchases. My colleague, Edwina, already ordered a product to test out the packaging. She wrote a full review answering the question: is Wet For Her packaging discreet?

Well, you can have a look at that blog post for the full review. For now, I’ll sum up the main points here.

Reviewing Wet For Her’s Discreet Packaging:

The packaging for Wet For Her is discreet.

The products are shipped in unmarked packaging apart from the label. No logos or designs giving anything away, ensuring no indication of the contents or the company name on the exterior.

This particular product was received in a plastic mailer, as opposed to a cardboard box or bubble mailer. Initially, this could arouse some worry about the safety of the product during transit. In this case, however, everything was still safe and intact.

Shipping Labels:

The shipping label for Wet For Her is discreet.

The shipping labels are also discreet, listing the return address as “WFH Design” rather than Wet For Her.

This subtle detail maintains privacy. It’s always nice to know that no one hanndling your package will recognize the name!

Inside the Package:

Inside the package of Wet For Her packaging.

The inside of the packaging is fairly simple. The products are accompanied by minimal accessories. Usually this is just a postcard from Wet For Her.

There wasn’t an invoice included in the packaging which actually ultimately adds to the aspect of discretion. There are just less things to get rid of or hide away!

Billing Discretion:

Billing discretion with WetForHer products.

The charges on bank or credit card statements also appear as “WFH Design”. This is also great for ensuring discretion extending beyond just the physical packaging.

This is crucial for customers who prefer to keep their purchases private from others who might have access to their financial statements.

Email Communication:

Email communication with WetForHer products.

While the physical aspects of the order are discreet, the email communications from Wet For Her are not as covert. The full company name is shown in the inbox.

Customers concerned about email privacy should consider using a private email account for their orders.

International Shipping:

  • It’s important to note that for customers outside the United States, the level of discretion may vary due to customs requirements. In some countries, customs forms require you to declare the contents of the package. This could obviously include descriptions like “sex toy” or “dildo.”
  • Wet For Her is transparent about this on their website, informing international customers of what to expect regarding packaging discretion.

Shipping Speed and Options:

  • The shipping process is not only discreet but also efficient. Edwina’s review actually highlighted a prompt and smooth delivery, with the order arriving safely within the expected timeframe.
  • Wet For Her offers various shipping options, including free ground shipping for orders over $65, standard shipping, expedited options, and UPS services with varying delivery times and costs.

Shipping, Customer Service, and Reviews of Wet For Her

Shipping Options and Policies:

WetForHer offers free shipping in the United States for orders above $65, with a $9.95 charge for 2nd day shipping. They send orders within 1 to 2 business days, not including weekends and bank holidays. The standard shipping methods include FedEx, DHL, and USPS. Ground deliveries take 3 to 8 business days, depending on the location. For those needing quicker delivery, a 2nd Day shipping option is available, promising delivery within 2-3 business days. International shipping is also available, with varying rates and delivery times depending on the region.

Customer Service and Returns:

WetForHer’s customer service seems to be responsive and accommodating. For returns, they accept Spareparts harnesses within 14 days after delivery. This is provided they are undamaged, unworn, and in their sealed original packaging. However, sex toys and non-apparel items are neither exchangeable nor returnable due to health code regulations. In cases of broken, damaged, or mis-shipped items, customers are advised to contact their customer service within 24 hours of receipt.

Reviewing Wet For Her FAQs and Additional Support:

Their FAQ section provides comprehensive information on various aspects like delivery times, tracking orders, payment methods, and product compatibility. This section is particularly useful for new customers who might have queries about their orders or products.

The FAQ's section on the Wet For Her website.

Reviews of Wet For Her

There is also a review page available on the site. This page shows all the products reviews and site reviews from users, with an average score of 4.9/5.0 based on 3391 reviews in total at the time.

The Review-section of the Wet For Her website.

I also tried to find site reviews of Wet For Her on other platforms such as Trustpilot and Reseller Rating but no external site reviews were available, except for one on Knoji.com. Here, Wet For Her has a relatively good rating of 3.9/5.0 out of 53 reviews. Check out the details of the review here on Knoji.

Wet For Her Review: Conclusion & Recommendation

Wet For Her stands out in the online sex toy market with its dedicated focus on the lesbian and queer communities. Combining high quality with an inclusive product range, positions them uniquely in the industry. Their commitment to privacy through discreet packaging and shipping is a significant advantage for customers valuing discretion. Additionally, the good customer service and the easy-to-use website enhance the overall shopping experience.

However, there’s room for improvement in adopting more inclusive, non-binary language across their platform to fully embrace all identities within the queer spectrum. Despite this, Wet For Her’s understanding of specific needs and commitment to inclusivity and discretion make them a great choice.

In essence, I think Wet For Her is a great option for those in the lesbian and queer communities seeking tailored, quality products that also offer quality, privacy and reliable customer support. Their niche focus and attention to detail in product selection and customer experience make them a unique choice in the sexual wellness market.

Whether you’re exploring solo or with a partner, Wet For Her offers a safe, inclusive, and satisfying shopping experience. Dive in and discover a world of pleasure designed with you in mind!