In the intricate world of modern relationships, one-night stands represent a compelling topic of study. This statistical overview explores who participates in these brief encounters and why. We dive into trends, motivations, and societal impacts, offering surprising insights into these fleeting connections. Join us to uncover the intriguing data behind one-night stands and what they reveal about contemporary social dynamics.
Here’s what we’ve covered:
- How common are one night stands?
- The aftermath of a one time sexual encounter
- Opinions towards casual sex
- Literature review
Key Statistics
- 2 out of 3 have had a one night stand (66%)
- The average person has an average of 5.8 one night stands in their lifetime (women report 5.1 and men 6.4).
- Americans on average have 10.7 sexual encounters and one night stands in their life.
- 86% of one night stands are not planned, but instead a spontaneous sexual act.
- 24.5% of people regret having a one-night stand.
- 3 out of 10 in the age group 18-29 years old have had a one night stand
- Finland, New Zealand, and Slovenia are the countries that have the most one night stands.
- Taiwan, Bangladesh, and South Korea are the countries that have the fewest one night stands.
- 44% of women do not tell others that they just had a one night stand.
- 63.5% of men say whenever they had a one night stand.
- 27.1% of individuals have acquired an STI from a one-night stand
- 1 out of 3 thinks that one night stands are wrong.
How common are one night stands?
- 66% of people have had a one night stand at one point in their life.
- 86% report that the one night stand happened spontaneously, while 14% planned it.
- The average person reports to have had 5.75 one night stands in their life.
- Women on average report to have had 5.1 one night stands, while men report having had 6.4.
- On average Americans tend to have 1-2 sexual encounters they categorize as one night stands more than Europeans.
By age
- 29% of 18 to 29-year-olds report having had a casual one night stand.
- 63% of 30 to 39-year-olds report having had a casual one night stand.
- 78% of 40 to 49-year-olds report having had a casual one night stand.
- 71% of 50 to 59-year-olds report having had a casual one night stand.
- 44% of 60 to 69-year-olds report having had a casual one night stand.
- 36% of 70+ year olds report having had a casual one night stand.
A similar trend is apparent when respondents in their 20s are asked to report on the number of sexual encounters they had in the past 12 months (some have been collected in previous decades).
We tabulated the data based on generations and gender.
Generation | Men | Women |
---|---|---|
1900s | 0.50 | 0.05 |
1910s | 0.53 | 0.18 |
1920s | 0.73 | 0.35 |
1930s | 1.17 | 0.53 |
1940s | 1.14 | 0.72 |
1950s | 1.35 | 0.89 |
1960s | 1.65 | 1.14 |
1970s | 1.78 | 1.24 |
1980s | 2.09 | 1.47 |
1990s | 2.48 | 2.01 |
2000s | 1.21 | 0.52 |
Total | 1.33 | 0.83 |
By Country
- Finland is the country with the highest likelihood of having a one night stand – or in other words, Finland is the most promiscuous country.
- New Zealand is the second most promiscuous country on the list.
- Slovenia is the third most likely country where people would have one night stands.
# | Nation | All | Men | Women | d |
---|---|---|---|---|---|
1 | Finland | 52.82 | 64.03 | 41.6 | 0.69** |
2 | New Zealand | 49.61 | 60.42 | 38.79 | 0.69** |
3 | Slovenia | 47.95 | 59.45 | 36.45 | 0.89*** |
4 | Lithuania | 47.85 | 60.44 | 35.25 | 0.82*** |
5 | Austria | 47.28 | 55.89 | 38.66 | 0.55** |
6 | Latvia | 45.55 | 49.42 | 41.68 | 0.30* |
7 | Croatia | 44.75 | 57.35 | 32.15 | 0.95*** |
8 | United Kingdom | 43.49 | 57.38 | 29.6 | 0.95*** |
9 | Israel | 42.85 | 53.99 | 31.71 | 0.83*** |
10 | Morocco | 42.82 | 65.58 | 20.06 | 1.24*** |
11 | Argentina | 42.81 | 55.52 | 30.1 | 0.90*** |
12 | Bolivia | 41.70 | 61.47 | 21.92 | 1.20*** |
13 | Estonia | 41.67 | 51.51 | 31.83 | 0.66** |
14 | Netherlands | 41.04 | 50.51 | 31.56 | 0.76** |
15 | Brazil | 40.55 | 53.96 | 27.13 | 0.82*** |
16 | Serbia | 40.44 | 48.99 | 31.89 | 0.71** |
17 | Germany | 40.40 | 46.36 | 34.44 | 0.48* |
18 | Fiji | 39.78 | 54.3 | 25.26 | 0.87*** |
19 | Switzerland | 39.76 | 45.25 | 34.26 | 0.49* |
20 | Czech Rep. | 39.23 | 48.96 | 29.49 | 0.81*** |
21 | United States | 38.64 | 48.03 | 29.24 | 0.73** |
22 | Australia | 38.63 | 46.52 | 30.73 | 0.66** |
23 | France | 38.27 | 45.88 | 30.66 | 0.66** |
24 | Turkey | 37.94 | 54.16 | 21.71 | 1.03*** |
25 | Mexico | 37.52 | 49.04 | 25.99 | 0.99*** |
26 | Italy | 36.56 | 51.73 | 21.39 | 1.13*** |
27 | Peru | 36.46 | 51.68 | 21.23 | 1.00*** |
28 | Slovakia | 36.40 | 44.27 | 28.52 | 0.64** |
29 | Canada | 35.82 | 44.33 | 27.3 | 0.75** |
30 | Spain | 35.63 | 46.08 | 25.17 | 1.0lY** |
31 | Poland | 35.60 | 44.29 | 26.9 | 0.68** |
32 | Congo, D.R. | 35.36 | 41.16 | 29.55 | 0.51** |
33 | Philippines | 34.60 | 51.24 | 17.95 | 1.16*** |
34 | Ukraine | 34.08 | 50.79 | 17.36 | 1.24*** |
35 | Romania | 34.06 | 48.64 | 19.48 | 0.98*** |
36 | Greece | 33.88 | 43.43 | 24.32 | 1.18*** |
37 | Belgium | 33.24 | 39.68 | 26.8 | 0.69** |
38 | Malta | 32.87 | 40.56 | 25.17 | 0.64** |
39 | Portugal | 31.30 | 41.27 | 21.32 | 1.09*** |
40 | Lebanon | 30.56 | 43.9 | 17.21 | 1.06*** |
41 | Ethiopia | 28.39 | 37.88 | 18.89 | 0.74** |
42 | Botswana | 28.31 | 33.56 | 23.06 | 0.39* |
43 | Japan | 26.60 | 32.47 | 20.72 | 0.63** |
44 | Hong Kong | 24.55 | 29.88 | 19.21 | 0.63** |
45 | Zimbabwe | 24.39 | 34.8 | 13.98 | 0.80*** |
46 | South Korea | 23.37 | 30.52 | 16.22 | 0.97*** |
47 | Bangladesh | 21.45 | 31.1 | 11.8 | 1.09*** |
48 | Taiwan | 21.33 | 28.42 | 14.24 | 0.80*** |
# | World | 37.01 | 46.67 | 27.34 | 0.74** |
We also found that a lot of the same countries are repeatedly present on a list of who has the highest number of total sexual partners (body count). Find more stats on this in our report: “Average Number of sexual partners: by age, gender, and country“
# | Country | Average no. of sexual partners, lifetime |
---|---|---|
1 | Turkey | 14.5 |
2 | Australia | 13.3 |
3 | New Zealand | 13.2 |
4 | Iceland | 13.0 |
5 | South Africa | 12.5 |
6 | Finland | 12.4 |
7 | Norway | 12.1 |
8 | Italy | 11.8 |
9 | Sweden | 11.8 |
10 | Ireland | 11.1 |
11 | Switzerland | 11.1 |
12 | Canada | 10.7 |
13 | United States | 10.7 |
14 | Greece | 10.6 |
15 | Israel | 10.6 |
16 | Thailand | 10.6 |
17 | Japan | 10.2 |
18 | Chile | 10.1 |
19 | Serbia & Montenegro | 10.1 |
20 | United Kingdom | 9.8 |
21 | Austria | 9.7 |
22 | Denmark | 9.3 |
23 | Bulgaria | 9.1 |
24 | Czech Republic | 9.0 |
25 | France | 8.1 |
26 | Croatia | 7.5 |
27 | Belgium | 7.5 |
28 | Singapore | 7.2 |
29 | Netherlands | 7.0 |
30 | Portugal | 7.0 |
31 | Taiwan | 6.6 |
32 | Spain | 6.1 |
33 | Poland | 6.0 |
34 | Germany | 5.8 |
35 | Malaysia | 5.8 |
36 | Slovakia | 5.4 |
37 | Indonesia | 5.1 |
38 | Hong Kong | 3.7 |
39 | Vietnam | 3.2 |
40 | China | 3.1 |
41 | India | 3.0 |
# | Global | 9.0 |
The aftermath of a one time sexual encounter
- 44% of women do not disclose to anyone that they had a one night stand.
- 63.5% of men always tells someone whenever they have a one night stand.
- 43% of Americans don’t talk to their one night stand after (while only 29% of Europeans do not).
- 27.1% have contracted an STI through a one night stand.
- 24.5% of people regret having a one-night stand.
- 32% of American men report to feel very satisfied after one-night stands.
- 18% of American women report to feel very satisfied after one-night stands.
- 59% of American men think about the one night stand as a positive experience, compared to just 28% of women.
Opinions towards casual sex
- 81% of adults report they like having sex.
- 55% say that their preferred form of casual sex is with one night stands.
- 32% think that one night stands are wrong.
- 49% of sexual encounters that people beleive are one night stands develop into longer term sexual relationships.
- 34.5% of men and 26.5% of women prefer to have one night stands to satisfy sexual needs when traveling.
- 58% of women regret one night stands while only 23% of men do the same.
In a big survey amongst 15,162 respondents the following opinions towards one night stands came to light:
Gender | 16-24 | 25-34 | 35-44 | 45-54 | 55-64 | 65-74 | 16-44 | 16-74 |
---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
Men | ||||||||
: Always wrong | 16% | 21% | 28% | 30% | 36% | 49% | 22% | 28% |
: Mostly wrong | 15% | 14% | 16% | 23% | 24% | 23% | 15% | 19% |
: Sometimes wrong | 35% | 31% | 29% | 25% | 21% | 13% | 32% | 27% |
: Rarely wrong | 15% | 12% | 7% | 6% | 4% | 5% | 11% | 8% |
: Not wrong at all | 19% | 22% | 20% | 17% | 14% | 10% | 20% | 17% |
: Always/mostly wrong | 31% | 35% | 44% | 52% | 60% | 71% | 37% | 47% |
: Rarely wrong/not wrong at all | 34% | 34% | 26% | 22% | 19% | 15% | 31% | 26% |
Women | ||||||||
: Always wrong | 28% | 28% | 33% | 41% | 52% | 66% | 30% | 40% |
: Mostly wrong | 23% | 16% | 20% | 25% | 27% | 23% | 20% | 22% |
: Sometimes wrong | 31% | 32% | 26% | 22% | 15% | 6% | 29% | 23% |
: Rarely wrong | 8% | 9% | 6% | 4% | 2% | 1% | 8% | 5% |
: Not wrong at all | 9% | 15% | 15% | 8% | 4% | 3% | 13% | 9% |
: Always/mostly wrong | 52% | 45% | 53% | 66% | 79% | 89% | 50% | 62% |
: Rarely wrong/not wrong at all | 17% | 24% | 21% | 12% | 6% | 4% | 21% | 15% |
All | ||||||||
: Always wrong | 22% | 25% | 31% | 36% | 44% | 58% | 26% | 34% |
: Mostly wrong | 19% | 15% | 18% | 24% | 26% | 23% | 18% | 21% |
: Sometimes wrong | 33% | 32% | 28% | 24% | 18% | 10% | 31% | 25% |
: Rarely wrong | 12% | 11% | 7% | 5% | 3% | 3% | 10% | 7% |
: Not wrong at all | 14% | 19% | 18% | 13% | 9% | 7% | 17% | 13% |