13 Best BDSM Spreader Bars for Bondage and Restraint
This is my comprehensive ranking of the 13 best BDSM spreader bars available! A spreader bar is in fact a very simply bondage device – simply a bar to keep things held wide open. Thus, I’ve used a lot of time testing the most minute details! Some spreader bars come with a few additional features, and I’ve included all the different versions in this ranking.
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Bondage Boutique expandable spreader bar | Sportsheets Spreader Bar | Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Spreader | Sportsheets spreader bar | Purple Reins thigh spreader bar | Dominix inflatable spreader bar | Stockroom Thigh Spreader Bar | Bondage Boutique expandable spreader bar | XR Brands Master Series spreader bar | Sportsheets wrist spreader bar | Fetish Fantasy spreader bar and handcuff set | Dominix under-mattress cuff set | Fifty shades faux leather spreader bar |
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Testing the best BDSM spreader bars
Testing the BDSM spreader bars for this review is not the easiest thing in the world, but with our team of amazing sex toy testers and an army of freaky freelancers out there, we made it look like a piece of cake! Great to use alongside BDSM furniture, spreader bars offer a whole range of sexy options. We looked at all aspects of the BDSM spreader bars, and highlighted not only the positives but the negatives in order for you to get an honest and unbiased review.
We combine expert knowledge, customer reviews, and first-hand testing from our sex toy testers to you a balanced and reliable view of each product, so you know exactly what you are buying!
What to consider when buying a BDSM spreader bar
If you’re thinking about buying a BDSM spreader bar then you’re going to want to think about a few different things.
- Fixed or expandable – With fixed ones you’re tied to a certain width (no pun intended), but with expandable ones you can change and customize the experience.
- Does it come with cuffs – Some BDSM spreader bars require you to buy additional cuffs to help you use them. This is different from product to product.
- How many o-rings – Depending on which spreader bar you get, it might contain a different amount of O rings. That is, rings that you can strap lets/wrists etc.
- How secure are the restraints – You don’t want your sub slipping free, right? Making sure the BDSM spreader bar restraints are firm and won’t become loose or broken is essential.
- Comfort – As much as you want to have all kinds of naughty fun, it’s important that whoever is wearing the spreader bar is comfortable.
Spreader bar vs Bed restraints
There are two main camps when it comes to getting awesome access to the fun bits on the body: those that love spreader bars, and those that love bed restraints.
We’re going to take a little look at the two and weigh up the pros and cons of each!
- Spreader bar – They are easy to be used, can be used anywhere, and require no additional apparatus to get them to work. One issue that you might have with spreader bars is that the bar itself may get in the way when you’re getting down to it! That can be quite the annoyance!
- Bed restraints – Strap your partner to the bed with these kinds of restraints. Sexual straps are great if you have an actual bed to strap them to. They are a little fiddly to get tight enough and get your partner in the right position, but it offers unobstructed access to whatever you want!
Keep reading to find out why BDSM spreader bars are an incredible sex accessory.
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Reviews of the 13 best bdsm spreader bars
Test-winner Bondage Boutique Extreme Expandable Spreader Bar with Leather Cuffs
Bondage Boutique’s extreme spreader bar is the perfect tool for a little bit of loving ‘cruelty’ in your BDSM play! With an ankle spreader bar that expands from 18 to 26 inches, you can expose your partner just a little bit or really put the blush on things with a full Monty style spread.
The cuffs in between really allow for a full ‘southern exposure’ and uninhibited play with your partner’s body, particularly when locked and the keys taken away. If giving up (or receiving) power is your bag, this BDSM spreader bar is right up your street.
The wrist cuffs are static, which is one downside to the construction, but you can always play around with restraints tied to the bars if need be. The really fab thing is that the ankle restraints allow for a full 180 degree rotation – just think of the sexy scenarios!
Pros
- ✅ full 180° ankle cuff rotation
- ✅ 4 padlocks
- ✅ 8 keys
Cons
- ❌ padlocks can be time-consuming
- ❌ static wrist cuffs
- ❌ spreader bar may not be strong enough
My verdict
Based on some of the reviews, you may want to think twice before splashing out on a spreader bar some describe as difficult (locks) and not as durable as they’d like. However, most users have reported a sturdy construction and really fun play-time with this leg spreader bar, depending upon how far the bar is spread. With the holiday season coming up, this is probably one to add to your wishlist!
Buy, if you...
- are ready to spread 'em!
- want to take your kink play up a level
- love the idea of exposure kinks
Don't buy, if you...
- don't want to buy real leather
- are daunted by time-consuming locking and unlocking
- hate fiddly devices
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Runner Up Sportsheets Spreader Bar
The Sportsheets Spreader Bar is a BDSM toy featuring a sturdy metal bar with detachable, padded vegan leather cuffs in a signature red and black design, suitable for various restraint positions.
Pros
- ✅ Sturdy construction and high-quality materials
- ✅ Comfortable, detachable cuffs for versatile use
- ✅ Can be used in multiple restraint positions
- ✅ Vegan-friendly design
Cons
- ❌ Cuffs may feel stiff initially
- ❌ Color scheme might not appeal to everyone
- ❌ May not accommodate all body sizes
My verdict
In my opinion, the Sportsheets Spreader Bar is an excellent choice for both beginners and advanced users in the world of BDSM. Its sturdy construction, ease of use, and versatility make it a great investment for enhancing bondage play. The detachable and comfortable cuffs offer creative positioning options, making it a suitable tool for a variety of scenarios. However, if your preference leans towards real leather or more customizable spreader bars, this might not be the ideal product for you. Overall, it’s a well-made, high-quality product that’s worth considering for adding an intense and exciting element to your play.
Buy, if you...
- Are exploring intense restraint play
- Need a versatile bondage tool
- Prefer vegan leather over real leather
- Favor buckles to velcro for fastening
Don't buy, if you...
- Are specifically seeking real leather cuffs
- Want an extendable or adjustable spreader bar
- Prefer a spreader bar that is lockable
Beginners Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Spreader Sling
Let the Saffron Thigh Sling from Sportsheets keep your legs exactly where you want them, while you lie back and enjoy they fun!
The red vegan leather neck strap is padded to add some comfortable support, while the two stirrups can be used to support your thighs, lower legs or feet.
Both the main straps and stirrups are adjustable, so you can get the right fit in a range of positions. The neck support has also got two D-rings to make it even more easy to attach wrist restrains or what else you might want to secure.
Pros
- ✅ Easy to use during penetrative sex
- ✅ Neck rest supports head
- ✅ Can be used around thighs, legs, or feet
- ✅ D-rings neck rest for hand cuffs
- ✅ Fully adjustable straps
Cons
- ❌ Might not be suitable for more advanced bondage
- ❌ Not lockable
Reviewed by:
Isabelle Uren