The 10 Best BDSM Collars to Keep Your Sub in Check
How Were These BDSM Collars Tested and Reviewed?
To create this round-up of the current best BDSM collars avaliable out there right now, I spent over 30 hours scouring the internet for the best of the best. I have researched everything there is to know about these BDSM collars, so you don’t have to!
When reviewing and rating these collars, I take the following factors into consideration: design, quality, performance, price, ease of use, materials etc. I also try my best to let you know who would be best suited to use these individual products based on their level of experience.
Different Types of BDSM Collars
What do different sexual collars mean? Not all kink collars have a specific meaning behind them. Sometimes they’re just a spicy little device used for kinky play time. But when it comes to BDSM collars, they can actually have very different meanings and functions.
Sometimes a collar can be:
- A sign that somebody is in a Dom/sub relationship of some kind
- A sign that someone is being considered as a Dom’s sub
- A (sometimes permanent) symbol of someone’s long-term commitment to a Dom.
A lot of the different meanings of sub collars are very much connected to the specific type of collar, as this also indicates their durability and function.
- Consideration collars – worn by subs in the period of time a Dom might be considering whether or not that sub is the right fit for them.
- Training collars – worn by subs mostly during playtime as a Dom trains them to their liking. These are often very durable and designed for hardcore bondage.
- Slave collars – a tier up from training collars. Some Doms and subs may enjoy an extremely sturdy and restrictive collar that is ideal for heavy duty BDSM. Often non-adjustable and lockable.
- Permanent collars – often made of metal and sometimes custom-fitted to make sure it is comfortable for permanent wear. More subtle for everyday use and less functional. Some kinksters consider permanent collars to hold the same value of commitment as an engagement ring.
- Day collars – the less intense alternative to a permanent collar (or simply another type of permanent collar). A small choker or piece of jewelry you can discreetly wear every day without attracting too much curiosity to your kinky life.
In the list of products below, I’ve got a bunch of different kinds of bdsm collars to show you. Some of them might belong to one or several of the categories above – but don’t worry, I’ll tell you more about that when we get to it.
FAQ
What is a BDSM Collar?
A BDSM collar is a type of sexual collar that is used for any sort of kinky BDSM play. Different kinds BDSM collars carry different meanings among the BDSM community and they are often used to signal the status of a submissive. Different kinds of BDSM collars also have different functions and designs. Some are designed for hardcore bondage and durability while others purely hold a symbolic value.
Table of contents (18)
The 10 Best bdsm collars in Test
Zoë Ligon x The Stockroom Limited Edition Premium Garment Leather Collar
Experience the feeling of embodying cuteness and kink all at once with this beautiful pastel-colored BDSM collar. With a latigo leather straps and nickel plated hardware at the fastening points, this adorable little bondage device is not just a treat for the eyes – it is super durable for more hardcore use and designed to last you for ages with thee right kind of care and maintenance. The O-ring fastening allows you to add a leash (or other fun gadgets) to the collar.
The Zoë Ligon x The Stockroom Limited Edition Premium Garment Leather Collar was rated 30 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
are looking for a cute yet sturdy collarwant a pop of pastel colorneed something available in different sizes
prefer a more traditional BDSM look in blackneed multiple D-ring attachment points| Length | Small/medium size: 11.25-13.5 inches |
| Length | Medium/large size: 13.75-16.25 inches |
| Waterproof | No |
| Materials | Garment leather, latigo leather, nickel-plated hardware |
| Fastening | Buckle |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Colors Available | Mint Green |
Cute and elegant look Gender-neutral colors meant to include all kinds of kinkstersSuitable for heavy duty useGreat quality
Only available in one colorI’ve chosen this collaboration item as the test winner of this round-up review because of it’s glowing reviews and versatile look and feel. This collar can be used as a cute fashion statement, a sexy accessory during non-BDSM activities, and, of course, a functional and durable BDSM collar that is designed to withstand some hardcore kinky play! If you ever feel like you want to expand your collection you can also get the full set of mint-green bondage items for this collaborative collection between Spectrum Boutique’s Zoë Ligon and The Stockroom. There’s more cuteness to found with their wrist and ankle cuffs, and matching leash.
Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Lead
A great novelty set for anyone who is looking to try out some collar and leash play or simply want to the enjoy the visual gimmick of some glow-in-the-dark kinky fun. This matching set allows you to use the collar by itself for a cute and glowy look during your usual routines (or as part of an outfit). Simply attach the chain leash and handle to start the true bondage fun! With a classic buckle fastening, the collar is adjustable and fits necks up to 17.5 inches.
The Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Lead was rated 30 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
want to try out a collar and leash for the first timelike the idea of a glow-in-the-dark setenjoy playing around with power dynamicsneed a collar and leash set that is durable and long-lastingprefer an all-black designdon't want a chain leash| Length | 35.5 inches |
| Length | (Collar) 17.5 inches |
| Waterproof | Yes |
| Materials | Faux Leather |
| Fastening | Buckle |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Storage Bag Included | No |
Suitable for beginnersAffordableGlow-in-the-dark featureEasy to useShorter leashLower qualityThis set is great for complete collar newbies since you get everything you need in one product but still have the option to detach the leash from the collar for some isolated fun once in a while. This is not my first choice of BDSM collar for any heavy duty bondage and the quality of this product is definitely not the best. But it is still a great collar and leash option for complete beginners who might want a fun new gadget in the bedroom and who might not be sure of how much they’re willing to spend on a high quality BDSM collar yet. An affordable and fun option!
Bondage Boutique Lead Me On Soft Collar and Leash
Designed to fulfill the needs of anyone curious about collar and leash play while also ensuring the wearer’s complete comfort. The internal padding and soft neoprene material allows you to enjoy the tug and torture of some mild BDSM play while staying safe and affordable. Velcro fastening makes the collar adjustable to the wearer, a lobster clip on a D-ring attachment point allows for quick release and easy removal if things get too intense.
The Bondage Boutique Lead Me On Soft Collar and Leash was rated 0 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
are looking for your first collar and leash setwant something affordableprioritize comfort over durabilityneed something easily removableare more experienced and want something durableprefer a chain or leather leashdon't want velcro fastening| Length | 30 inches |
| Length | Collar circumference: 16-20 inches |
| Waterproof | No |
| Materials | Soft neoprene, velcro |
| Fastening | Velcro and lobster clip |
| Adjustable | Yes |
Collar is padded for ultimate comfortVelcro fastening is great for adjustability and quick removalIdeal for complete beginnersThe velcro can feel uncomfortable during wearThe collar is quite wideThis is a great way to dip your toes into the world of sexual collars and kinky BDSM leashes without it feeling too intense or restrictive – and hopefully while staying well within your budget! Although the velcro is a big pro for this product in terms of adjustability and easy removal, user reviews decribe that the material can be uncomfortable to wear at times. Of course, this is not a heavy duty collar, so the fastening point will not be very durable. Although, you get what you need out of this beginner’s item and for a great price at that!
Bondage Boutique Soft Leather Collar
The Bondage Boutique Soft Leather Collar is a great collar for anyone longing for that well-known dark and sexy BDSM look with thick (yet soft) leather wrapped snugly around their neck. A sturdy metal D-ring attachment allows you to test out the impressive durability of this collar. Enjoy this highly functional and kinky-looking accessory that, with the proper cleaning and care, will last you a lifetime!
The Bondage Boutique Soft Leather Collar was rated 10 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for a complete beginner
love the look and feel of leatherneed a durable leather collarwant inclusive sizing and adjustabilityprefer a very slim collardon't want to deal with leather maintenance| Length | Total: 21.5 inches |
| Length | Collar adjustability: 13.75-18.75 inches |
| Waterproof | No |
| Materials | Leather and metal |
| Openings | 12 buckle holes |
| Fastening | Buckle |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Allergies | Contains nickel |
Genuine leatherClassic BDSM lookDurableMay require extra holes for smaller necksThis is a great option for all the leather-loving collared subs out there! Over time, the material will become more supple and soft, providing more comfort and a better fit. Some users experienced that the sizing was a bit large, and that they simply found the need to punch a few more holes in the collar for a more customized fit. Keep that in mind before your purchase. Also, keep in mind that leather collars require special cleaning and treatment once in a while.
Rouge Garments Stainless Steel Collar
This kind of collar could easily belong to several different categories of BDSM collar. I would classify this as a slave collar. Non-adjustable, solid stainless steel ring, locked with an allen key mechanism, and just unyielding in every way during use. But if you’re brave enough, this could actualy also pass as a statement necklace and BDSM day collar! Elegant, functional, and a deliciously restrictive BDSM accessory.
The Rouge Garments Stainless Steel Collar was rated 60 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
need a collar that lockslove the look and feel of a solid metal collarwant an ornamental yet functional BDSM collarlike collar that don't sit snugly around the neckprefer something less restrictiveneed an easily removable collardon't enjoy the sensation of metal on your skin| Diameter (internal) | 4.75 inches |
| Waterproof | Splashproof |
| Materials | Stainless Steel |
| Storage Bag Included | Storage case |
| Fastening | Allen key lock |
| Adjustable | No |
Closes with lockTemperature absorbantComfortable and lightweightNot adjustableOnly available in one sizeOne of my more expensive suggestions on this list of the best BDSM collars out there. But with a higher price range comes also more kinky fun! The solid metal frame both looks and feels more restrictive. Having your Dom lock you up until they’ve decided you’ve had enough also really elevates whatever power play you’ve got going on! Lightweight for a metal collar and still highly functional with a sturdy O-ring attachment point for leashes or cuffs. Since it is non-adjustable and only available in one size, make sure this collar will fit you before splurging on this product.
Curved Posture Collar
Posture collars, like this curved collar from The Stockroom, are meant to restrict the wearer movement even further. Usually quite tall and made of unyielding, thick, rigid leather that won’t crease over time. This curved posture collar is designed to leave a bit of room around the jaw line so the wearer has a bit more head mobility and can open their mouth wider. A heavy-gauge D-ring point of attachment also makes this collar very suitable for hardcore bondage play!
The Curved Posture Collar was rated 70 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
want some extra restriction in your collarneed a heavy duty collarwant a comfortable posture collarprefer a really tall posture collarneed a lot of head and neck mobility during play time| Length | Small size fits necks: 12.5-14.5 inches |
| Length | Medium size fits necks: 14-16.5 inches |
| Length | Large size fits necks: 16.5-19.5 inches |
| Width | 2.5 inches |
| Waterproof | No |
| Materials | Genuine leather |
| Fastening | Buckle |
| Adjustable | Yes |
Available in different sizesCurved for more comfort and mobilityRigid and durableLimited adjustabilityPerfect for kinksters who are looking to be super restricted in terms of movement. The physical restraint translates beautifully into psychological power play as the lack of control over your own movements can enhance the feeling of submission. A padlock can also be added to the buckle fastening for an extra secure domination. This collar is not really the cheapest option in the line-up but the quality and performance do deliver! The wide, rigid leather restricts to your liking while still leaving room for whichever movement your Dom desires.
Leather Collar With Spikes
Go for the grungy dungeon look with this impressive spiked leather collar from The Stockroom! Perfect as an edgy accessory on a night out or a super sexy and dangerous-looking bondage device for your kinky play time! The spikes have somewhat flat tips for a safer experience. A heavy-gauge O-ring fastening for heavy duty play. A lockable buckle for the adjustable fastening in the back to get the right fit and have your Dom lock it in!
The Leather Collar With Spikes was rated 50 out of 100 meaning that it is most suitable for someone with some experience
want to add a "dangerous" touch to your collared funwant a functional spiked collarwant a lockable collarprefer a more subtle lookare planning to wear your collar under clothes| Length | S/M size fits necks: 11.25-13.5 inches |
| Length | M/L size fits necks: 13.75-16.25 inches |
| Width | 1 inches |
| Waterproof | No |
| Materials | Latigo leather, nickel-plated hardware |
| Fastening | Buckle |
| Adjustable | Yes |
Available in different sizesGreat qualityLockable buckleOnly available in one colorIf sexy spikes are more your style in BDSM collars, then this collar is one of the best options on the market right now, if you ask me. With this collar you get the delicious look and feel of edgy spikes and genuine black leather, a functional bondage collar with the sturdy O-ring in front, and a great device for some real Dom/sub power play with the lockable buckle. Of course, there’s a learning curve to using a spiked collar. Be careful not to hurt yourself or anyone with these bad boys in general. They require extra caution.
Spartacus Leather Word Band Collar
The Spartacus Word Band Collar really focuses on delivering a treat for the eyes with the ultimate kinky name tag for labelling unruly subs! This SLUT word band sub collar is definitely more of a decorative accessory than a functional BDSM collar as there are no attachment points for a leash or other gadgets. The collar also fastens with snap buttons that will most likely not withstand any substantial pulling or tugging.