15 Best BDSM Collars For Bondage and Submissive Sex
This post are my rankings of the 15 best Bondage Collars meant for BDSM relationship and sex play. These rankings are the results of months of testing and comparison by myself and the Bedbible Testers.
Test Winner | Padded | Posture | With Nipple Clamps | Glow-In-Dark | Collar and Leash | BDSM choker | Spiked | With Cock Ring | With Ball Gag | Chained | Cute | Choker | Leather | Slut Collar |
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Bondage Boutique Collar and Lead Set | DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar | Stockroom Posture Collar | BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps | Bondage Boutique Glow Collar and Leash | Sportsheets Sincerely Bow Tie Collar | Bijoux Indiscrets Maze | Spiked Alpha Dog Collar | DOMINIX Deluxe Collar with Cock Ring | Posture Collar With Silicone Ball Gag | DOMINIX Deluxe Bondage Collar w. Clamps | Master Series Sweet Heart Choker | Heart Lock Choker | Zoë Ligon x The Stockroom Leather Collar | Spartacus Slut Collar |
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How We Rated and Reviews Bondage Collar BDSM Accessories
I’ve scoured through the internet to find the best BDSM collars available out there right now, so you don’t have to! Here at Bedbible, we strive to be our readers’ one and only source on the journey towards better sex. We care about giving you all the information you need about a product to make an informed decision about your next naughty purchase.
For this review, I’ve done this by using our (s)expert team of testers and writers to collect all the information I can about a certain product and rate it properly. I look into the user ratings, the design, the quality, the price range, and the performance of individual products. This way I can tell you what you need to know, while giving tips on which level of experience the product is best suited for.
Things to Consider
Although it can be tempting to purchase the first sub collar that catches your eye, there are a few things you’ll want to consider before swiping your card.
- Size – Will the collar fit around your sub’s neck? If the collar in question has other adornments (such as harnesses), you’ll need to ensure that these will fit properly as well.
- Lockable – While having a sub collar that can be locked is a nice touch for some, others may not require it. Generally, a non-lockable collar will be cheaper.
- Comfort – You should establish how long you intend your sub to wear this specific collar. If it’s only for short-term wearing then comfort is less important. However, if you intend this collar to be worn for extended periods of time then comfortability is especially important.
- D-rings – If you’re buying a sub collar with the idea of chaining your sub, then you’ll want to make sure that the collar in question has D-rings. Without these, you won’t have any safe ways to chain your sub!
- Style – This all comes down to personal preference. While traditional leather collars are great, you may want to consider alternative options before settling down with the basics.
Reviews of the 15 best bondage collars
Test Winner Bondage Boutique Collar and Lead Set
If you’re looking for a sex collar and leash set that does the job and looks beautiful while doing it then this is the one for you! This collar is adjustable, so you’ll find a snug fit somewhere between its 13.5” and 16.5” adjustable length. It also comes with a 39” lead to fulfil those BDSM fantasies.
Pros
- ✅ Aesthetically Pleasing
- ✅ Leash & Collar Set
- ✅ Soft Fur Lining
- ✅ Lead is removeable
- ✅ Budget friendly
Cons
- ❌ Cheap lead material
Verdict
The super-soft fur lining means that you won’t have to worry about any rubbing or chaffing on the neck. And if you’re into aesthetics then its rose pattern will definitely be easy on the eye. This sex collar is definitely worth the money, it’s budget-friendly and comes with a lead. What more could a sub want? If you’re looking for something that uses high-quality material, then the thin lead might be a turn-off for you. But you could always replace it with a different one.
Buy, if you...
- are looking for something aesthetically pleasing
- are into BDSM play
- want a collar that doesn't rub or chafe
Don't buy, if you...
- want something with higher quality materials
- don't like BDSM play
- prefer plain collars
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Padded DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar
DOMINIX Deluxe has done it again! This no-frills, handy collar is both versatile and attractive, made from deluxe leather that will make your Dom or Domme as proud as the day you first said, “Your wish is my command”. Featuring a belt fastening, this leather collar is versatile in sizing and who can remove it – handy for if play needs to come to a stop quickly.
Whatever the size of your neck, this collar with two stud embellishments is a must-have little black number for social occasions and private play.
Pros
- ✅ Made of real deluxe leather
- ✅ Soft, padded inner for comfort
- ✅ Adjustable sizing
- ✅ Beginner-friendly
Cons
- ❌ No locking mechanism
- ❌ Design may not appeal to everyone
- ❌ Not as tight as some collars
Verdict
If you need a straight-forward, adjustable, attractive BDSM collar that doesn’t break the bank, look no further!
Buy, if you...
- Need a standard O-ring collar
- Are looking for a comfortable bondage collar
- Want something lightweight to wear
Don't buy, if you...
- Want to attach more than one accessory
- Are looking for a lockable BDSM collar
- Don't want a real leather collar
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Posture Stockroom Tall Curved Posture Collar
The Stockroom has created a collar that is an absolute winner in its category — a quick Internet search reveals all similar collars to be double or even triple the price. Crafted from fine leather that’s firm and non-markable on the outside, but soft and gentle on the inside, this BDSM sex collar has one D-ring for use with a leash or other connectable toy.
It is available in sizes S, M and L, and closes via a lockable buckle on the back – what this means is that it can be closed, but left unlocked so the wearer can remove it, or it can be locked and the key taken away for fun trust and power play with a partner.
The collar stands 4 inches high from base to top and includes a rather thoughtful chin indent, which allows for a more comfortable position along the jawline — for the caring Dom/Domme in your life!
Pros
- ✅ Affordable
- ✅ Great for controlling your sub's posture
- ✅ Soft inner and durable outer
Cons
- ❌ Only available in black
- ❌ May be too tall for some wearers
Verdict
You genuinely can’t find a posture collar of this size and quality for cheaper on the market. In the beautiful, understate black color and with classic leather on the outside and softer leather on the inside to protect the skin, it also comes in a decent variety of sizes. With a leash ring and a lockable closure and special chin area, it’s everything you could want from a intermediate to advanced level posture or training collar. Just make sure to check the measurements first, as this bondage collar is definitely on the tall side!
Buy, if you...
- Like good posture in a sub
- Are seeking a touch of elegance
- Want a sturdy and crease-proof bondage collar
Don't buy, if you...
- Want a collar for daily wear
- Have a shorter neck and need a posture collar less than 4 inches tall
- Aren't into real leather
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With Nipple Clamps BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps
If you really love clamping someone else’s nipples or having yours clamped and you want to do that while attached to a collar, BASICS has you covered! This collar with attached alligator nipple clamps creates a real feeling of submission, and you’ll be left in a predicament of whether to stay still or move your body and have the chains tug on your nips. It’s also incredibly affordable, so if you’re even mildly curious, give it a go! The clamps are adjustable and so is the collar, which attaches with a super easy Velcro fastening.
Pros
- ✅ Affordable
- ✅ Adjustable alligator-style nipple clamps
- ✅ Easy Velcro fastening
- ✅ Lightweight
- ✅ Easy to keep clean
Cons
- ❌ Not lockable
- ❌ Velcro fastening not very secure
- ❌ Screw feature only loosens clamps
Verdict
At such a low price, anyone can get into the leash, nipple clamp and collar game, so if you’ve been curious, this is a great place to start.
The BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps is incredibly easy-to-use, making it suitable for beginners. The adjustable nature of the nipple clamps is also an advantage, allowing for a customizable level of intensity, and who can resist the look of the chain draped attractively between the breasts?
Keep in mind, however, that this bondage collar may not be sturdy or secure enough for some. Plus, it’s important to check the measurements before you buy!
Buy, if you...
- Want an accessory that feels both sexy and submissive
- Enjoy intense nipple stimulation
- Are on a budget
- Are starting out with nipple play
Don't buy, if you...
- Want a collar for daily use
- Aren't into clamped nips
- Are looking for a more heavy-duty collar
- Don't enjoy pressure on your nipple
- Have a metal allergy
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Glow-In-Dark Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash
The Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash Set is a perfect initiation tool for those exploring the world of BDSM or kink. This unique set, featuring a collar and leash, is made from a flexible faux leather material that transforms from a subtle white in daylight to a captivating glow when darkness falls, adding an element of surprise to your nocturnal adventures. The collar has seven adjustable holes and a buckle fastening, ensuring a comfortable fit for a variety of neck sizes. The interior is lined with a soft fabric to ensure comfort for the neck and hands. This set is a great choice for those who prefer to avoid real leather, but still enjoy an edgier look.
Pros
- ✅ Affordable
- ✅ Vegan leather
- ✅ Glows in the dark!
- ✅ Beginner-friendly
Cons
- ❌ Lower quality
- ❌ Can stain easily
- ❌ Some may prefer a longer leash
Verdict
After my experience with the Bondage Boutique Glow-in-the-Dark Collar and Leash, I can confidently say it’s a unique and enjoyable addition to my BDSM toolkit. I was a little unimpressed with its initial appearance, but its glow-in-the-dark feature truly shines, adding a fun twist to our playtime. It’s comfortable, easy to use, and affordable, although it may not be the most durable piece of kit long-term.
Buy, if you...
- Like the idea of a leash with your collar
- Like the leather look, but want to stay away from animal products
- Enjoy a bit of whimsy or fantasy in your bondage play
- Are on a budget
Don't buy, if you...
- Are looking for a premium looking and feeling bondage collar
- Prefer a more traditional kinky look
- Want a more subtle or cute collar for day wear
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Reviewed by:
Isabelle Uren