The 9 Best BDSM Day Collars to Bring Submission Out From the Shadows
Looking for the best BDSM day collars out there to make sure your sub is wearing a symbol of your dominance wherever they go? You’ve come to the right place. Whether you’re in an official Dom/sub relationship and looking for an actual sub collar or you simply want to explore the spicy dynamic of introducing a subtle sexual collar into your regular play sessions, we’ve got something for you in this review! We have hand-picked some of the best products out there that are suitable to use as BDSM day collars to wear either out and about or all day long in the comfort of your own home – we’ve got some very subtle and cute options, but also some that are… less inconspicuous. Come along and find out which BDSM day collar should be clasped around your subs neck next!
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How We Tested and Reviewed These BDSM Day Collars
I’ve scoured through the internet to find the best BDSM day collars available out there right now, so you don’t have to! Here at Bedbible, we strive to be our readers’ one and only source on the journey towards better sex. We care about giving you all the information you need about a product to make an informed decision about your next naughty purchase.
For this review, I’ve done this by using our (s)expert team of testers and writers to collect all the information I can about a certain product and rate it properly. I look into the user ratings, the design, the quality, the price range, and the performance of individual products. This way I can tell you what you need to know, while giving tips on which level of experience the product is best suited for.
How are Day Collars Different from Other Types of BDSM Collars?
So BDSM collars can be many things – they can look very different and also have very different meanings and purposes. If you want an in-depth guide to all the different meanings, functions and features of different types of BDSM collars, I’ve actually written a whole blog post about it!
For now, I’ll just tell you about how BDSM day collars are different from other BDSM collars. First things first, there are many different types of bondage collars out there (again, check out the blog post for more info!):
- Consideration Collars
- Training Collars
- Protection Collars
- Play Collars
- Permanent Collars
- Day Collars
Apart from day collars and permanent collars, most of these collars will often be used during some BDSM play time and need to be functional for bondage or leash play. Functional sub collars for play time might even have some extra bells and whistles attached to them. Some are collars with nipple clamps or collars with a ball gag.
Day collars differ from these other types of collars since they are not neccessarily meant for play. They rarely require any functionality for bondage play at all. Day collars are moreso worn as a personal symbol one’s status as a sub in a Dom/sub relationship. A personal signifier for just you and your Dom (and maybe other kinksters you see out and about) but subtle enough to not attract unwanted attentin in public.
Can Anything Be a BDSM Day Collar?
The short answer is YES. Since BDSM day collars have mostly symbolic function, the requirements for what it could be is extremely open for interpretation. It’s totally up to you and your Dom what appropriately signifies your status and doesn’t compromise your anonymity at the same time.
BDSM day collars could even be:
- An actual collar that is just very slim, subtle, an comfortable to wear
- Chokers – in different materials, with pendants or ornamental patterns, or simply a ribbon tied (safely!) around the neck.
- Jewelry – necklaces, rings, bracelets – subtle or over the top (whatever you feel like!)
- Other accessories – like watches, hand bags, or even a brouch!
In this review we’ve focused on picking out the best kind of day collars that can’t easily be fashioned out of existing jewelry or household items. We’ve found some of the best BDSM collars out there that can also be used as day collars, in case you want to buy something that has a bit more of that BDSM-y look!
Reviews of the 9 best bdsm day collars
Test Winner Red Leather Choker With O-Ring
Overall Rating
5.0/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
5/5.0
User Ratings:
0/5.0
Based on 0 user reviews
Rating: Red Leather Choker With O-Ring was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm day collar.
Rating: Red Leather Choker With O-Ring was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Red Leather Choker With O-Ring was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Red Leather Choker With O-Ring was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is cheap compared to other bdsm day collars.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Red Leather Choker With O-Ring for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This Red Leather Choker collar is very much a functional BDSM collar, although it is only half an inch wide, making it a perfect size to wear out and about as well! Super cute and stylish in public, and kinky and fuctional behind closed doors… The O-ring attachment point allows you to include lots of other tools and gadgets into play with this one! Available in three sizes so you get just the right fit for you… or your sub!
Pros
- ✅ Super slim collar for a subtle look
- ✅ Available in two colors
- ✅ Functional for (non heavy duty) play
Cons
- ❌ Can seem a bit bulky by the O-ring
My verdict
This is a great BDSM day collar for anyone who wants to feel like they’re staying true to their inner collared sub but also want something that’s fashinably inconspicuous when they’re out and about. In terms of design, the center of the collar where the O-ring is attached can seem a bit bulky, if you’re looking for ultimate subtlety. There is a small compromise to be made in terms of subtlety VS functionality, so keep that in mind!
You should buy the Red Leather Choker With O-Ring if you...
- are looking a subtle yet functional collar
- like a pop of color in your day collar
- want an O-ring for extra attachments
You should not buy the Red Leather Choker With O-Ring if you...
- want a very very discreet day collar
- prefer a day collar that is purely decorative
Cheapest Master Series Lush Pet Silver Ring Choker
Overall Rating
4.8/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
0/5.0
Based on 0 user reviews
Rating: Master Series Lush Pet Silver Ring Choker was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm day collar.
Rating: Master Series Lush Pet Silver Ring Choker was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Master Series Lush Pet Silver Ring Choker was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Master Series Lush Pet Silver Ring Choker was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Master Series Lush Pet Silver Ring Choker for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
The Master Series Lush Pet choker can provide you with just the right amount of kinky expression for you to proudly wear your badge of ownership out in public. The classic O-ring design is a well-known symbol of submission in the world of BDSM and this slim and subtle choker allows you to showcase that in the shape of a necklace. The lobster-clasp fastening mechanism is what makes this product mostly ornamental since it is not meant for heavy-duty use.
Pros
- ✅ Cute classic O-ring design
- ✅ Passes as a cool statement necklace
- ✅ Easy fastening with the lobstar-clasp
- ✅ Vegan leather
Cons
- ❌ Not suitable for heavy duty bondage play
My verdict
I wouldn’t say this choker is suitable for actual BDSM play time. It has the cute and kinky look for it, but it’s more decorative than functional. The lobster-clasp fastening is more suitable for a piece of static jewelry and is not designed to withstand any substantial pulling or tugging. Although you can easily attach some static pieces, like nipple clamps with chains, for some extra stimulation during play time!
You should buy the Master Series Lush Pet Silver Ring Choker if you...
- want a collar that's more like a necklace
- want something easily removable
- like this silver O-ring design
You should not buy the Master Series Lush Pet Silver Ring Choker if you...
- need a day collar that's also functional for bondage play
- want a collar that has a lock
Clear Clear CTRL Vinyl Choker with O-Ring
Overall Rating
5.0/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
5.0/5.0
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Clear CTRL Vinyl Choker with O-Ring was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm day collar.
Rating: Clear CTRL Vinyl Choker with O-Ring was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Clear CTRL Vinyl Choker with O-Ring was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Clear CTRL Vinyl Choker with O-Ring was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is cheap compared to other bdsm day collars.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Clear CTRL Vinyl Choker with O-Ring for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This clear choker opens up so many doors for your themed BDSM play sessions! Giving kinky cyberspace princess vibes, you’re free to explore some futuristic roleplay and space roleplay, along with your regular old sub training. With a very similar design to the Red Leather Choker from Stockroom, this is a super slim and subtle product that will clearly (pun intended) pass the test of staying incognito as a true BDSM day collar in public!
Pros
- ✅ Clear material for ideal discreet kink
- ✅ Ideal for any sci-fi, space, or futuristic roleplay
- ✅ Subtle yet functional
Cons
- ❌ Vinyl may not be comfortable to wear for a long time
- ❌ Not suitable for heavy duty collar play
My verdict
This Clear CTRL Choker really is a great option for a BDSM day collar for anyone who perhaps wants to explore other options in terms of BDSM aesthetic. Black leather is not for everyone! Very similar to the Red Leather Choker, this little gadget is both a cool accessory and a functional sub collar. It does have a slightly wider collar, but still scores points on the subtlety scale because of the clear vinyl.
You should buy the Clear CTRL Vinyl Choker with O-Ring if you...
- love the look and feel of clear vinyl
- want a day collar that really blends in with other accessories
- want a collar that doesn't have the classic BDSM look
- want a lot of sizing options
You should not buy the Clear CTRL Vinyl Choker with O-Ring if you...
- don't like the sensation of vinyl on your skin
- really want that classic BDSM look
Steel Rouge Garments Stainless Steel Collar
Overall Rating
4.8/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.7/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
5.0/5.0
Based on 2 user reviews
Rating: Rouge Garments Stainless Steel Collar was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm day collar.
Rating: Rouge Garments Stainless Steel Collar was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Rouge Garments Stainless Steel Collar was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: Rouge Garments Stainless Steel Collar was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find Rouge Garments Stainless Steel Collar ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Although this would typically be the style of a permanent collar, we’ve included it in this review of day collars because it could be an ideal day collar for an event or style that fashionably incorporates the “cool silver necklace”-vibe. This collar can be a cool accessory or a super functional sub collar! With an allen key lock and an O-ring in the front, this collar is totally suitable for obndage play. Stainless steel also has the advantage of being super temperature absorbant. Use it for some thrilling temperature play during your session, if you like!
Pros
- ✅ Closes with a lock
- ✅ Lightweight and comfortable
- ✅ Temperature absorbant
Cons
- ❌ Not adjustable
- ❌ Not available in different sizes
My verdict
Alright, so there are a lot of features in this collar that also makes it a great options for a permanent collar, if that also might be of interest to you. That does not mean that it is unsuitable as a fun day collar! If you’re into this look and feel for a day collar, this lightweight little thing could be a great option. It is definitely on the pricier side of the products in this review but it also is one of the only products here that is actually suitable for some actual BDSM use. One thing I will note is that this collar is not adjustable and it is not available in different sizes either. Make sure this collar will fit you before spending the big bucks on it!
You should buy the Rouge Garments Stainless Steel Collar if you...
- like the look of a metal collar
- need a collar that locks
- want a functional day collar
- like collars that don't sit snugly around the neck
You should not buy the Rouge Garments Stainless Steel Collar if you...
- need a very subtle day collar
- want a collar that's easy to remove by yourself
- don't like the sensation of stainless steel on your skin
Lock Stupid Cute Heart Lock Choker
Overall Rating
5.0/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.9/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
5.0/5.0
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Stupid Cute Heart Lock Choker was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm day collar.
Rating: Stupid Cute Heart Lock Choker was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Stupid Cute Heart Lock Choker was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Stupid Cute Heart Lock Choker was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Stupid Cute Heart Lock Choker for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This Stupid Cute Heart Lock Choker really is stupid cute. The kind of adorable aesthetic that one might not usually associate with BDSM. But here we are – free to explore some dark kink while keeping it cute. Made of high quality baby pink leather, this choker wraps around your neck and is secured with a heart-shaped padlock. With a design that is super versatile, it’s perfect for both private bondage play and stylish everyday-wear and BDSM fashion.
Pros
- ✅ Adorable design
- ✅ Padlock fastening
- ✅ Ideal for DD/lg play
- ✅ Available in many different sizes
Cons
- ❌ Not adjustable
My verdict
This choker really is a crowd pleaser! A super cute, secure and functional, yet subtle, collar at an affordable price – what’s not to like? In terms of design, there are just a few things to keep in mind. The collar is not adjustable, so you’ll have to be sure to get the size that’s best for you. Second, as cute as the heart-shaped lock is, it is quite large. Subtlety probably isn’t the point with this collar, but the cute design does make it just a tad more palatable for the vanilla world out there!
You should buy the Stupid Cute Heart Lock Choker if you...
- love a cute collar design
- want a padlock on your collar
- want a leather collar
You should not buy the Stupid Cute Heart Lock Choker if you...
- don't enjoy this style of BDSM collar
- prefer an adjustable collar
- don't need a padlock closing
Spiked Spike Leather Choker with D-ring
Overall Rating
5.0/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
0/5.0
Based on 0 user reviews
Rating: Spike Leather Choker with D-ring was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm day collar.
Rating: Spike Leather Choker with D-ring was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Spike Leather Choker with D-ring was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Spike Leather Choker with D-ring was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest Spike Leather Choker with D-ring if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This spikey wonder will definitely elevate your kinky look – both in private and in public. Decorate your neck with some stylish leather and silver-colored spiked to go with your cool outfit or add to your kinky fantasies with these dangerous looking spikes and a functional D-ring attachment point by the neck. This cool collar is ajustable and available in three different sizes.
Pros
- ✅ Spikes are blunt for safety
- ✅ Collar is adjustable
- ✅ Ideal for different levels of experience
Cons
- ❌ Not suitable for heavy duty use
My verdict
The great thing about this collar is that as intimidating as it can seem, it is totally suitable for less experienced spiked collar wearers since the spikes are quite blunt. I also think that the small width of the collar makes it appear very subtle during every-day use. I wouldn’t mind using this as cool accessory by day and transform it into… a different kind of cool accessory by night!
You should buy the Spike Leather Choker with D-ring if you...
- love the look and feel of spikes
- want a collar that's also a fashion accessory
- want a collar that's also functional for leash play
You should not buy the Spike Leather Choker with D-ring if you...
- prefer something with a padlock
- prefer a smooth collar
Heart Heart Lock Choker
Overall Rating
4.9/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.9/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
0/5.0
Based on 0 user reviews
Rating: Heart Lock Choker was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm day collar.
Rating: Heart Lock Choker was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Heart Lock Choker was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Heart Lock Choker was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find Heart Lock Choker ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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Want to add some adorably kinky romance to your Dom/sub dynamic? Looking for a cute little choker with heart-shaped pendant to wear out and about? Nothing says true flirtacious devotion like wearing your heart around your neck. This choker is super similar to the Stupid Cute Heart Lock choker but this product offers a little more variety in color. If the baby pink is not your thing, the same design is basically available in black and red leather as well!
Pros
- ✅ Available in more colors
- ✅ Padlock closing
- ✅ Available in many different sizes
- ✅ Ornamental yet functional
Cons
- ❌ Not adjustable
My verdict
Oh, you thought getting a heart lock choker in other colors than baby pink was not possible? Luckily this Heart Lock Choker is here to offer you some variety. Like, the Stupid Cute choker, this is a really great product available at a really great price. Sublte enough to wear as merely a spicy little accessory, yet sturdy enough to be functional during some light BDSM play!
You should buy the Heart Lock Choker if you...
- want a collar with a padlock
- like the heart-shaped design
- want a cute yet functional day collar
You should not buy the Heart Lock Choker if you...
- prefer a regular padlock
- need an adjustable day collar
BDSM Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Tassel Choker Black
Overall Rating
4.8/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
0/5.0
Based on 0 user reviews
Rating: Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Tassel Choker Black was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm day collar.
Rating: Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Tassel Choker Black was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Tassel Choker Black was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Tassel Choker Black was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Tassel Choker Black if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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What is it? A piece of statement jewelry? A really sexy kink collar? With this beautiful Bijoux Indiscrets choker, you’ll get both without compromising on that classic BDSM look. A stylish accesorry for a cool event and a somewhat multi-functional bondage collar in private.
There’s even a built in leash with the long tassels in the front! Of course, this product might not be suitable for extreme pulling and tugging, but it will do just fine for gently leading your sub across the room. You can also use the tassels as a flogger or whip!
Pros
- ✅ Super versatile collar
- ✅ Ideal for bondage play
- ✅ Beautiful for both everyday-wear and BDSM fashion
- ✅ Adjustable
Cons
- ❌ Not for heavy duty use
- ❌ Not very subtle
- ❌ One-size
My verdict
This is a great day collar that lets you decorate your neck in incospicuous ways by day and also let’s you engage in some light bondage play by night!
The versatility really is a bonus with this collar. With the long tassels available to you for leash play, sensation play, or impact playm the world is your kinky little oyster! Even though it is a tad more expensive than some of the other products in this review, I’d say you get your money’s worth with all of these benefits.
You should buy the Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Tassel Choker Black if you...
- want a super versatile day collar
- love a cool statement necklace
- want a day collar that's easy to remove by yourself
You should not buy the Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Tassel Choker Black if you...
- want a collar for heavy duty use
- don't enjoy longer rope necklaces
- don't want anything that's too edgy
Bijoux Indiscrets Magnifique Tickler Pendant
Overall Rating
3.3/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
2.0/5.0
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Bijoux Indiscrets Magnifique Tickler Pendant was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the bdsm day collar.
Rating: Bijoux Indiscrets Magnifique Tickler Pendant was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Bijoux Indiscrets Magnifique Tickler Pendant was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Bijoux Indiscrets Magnifique Tickler Pendant was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Bijoux Indiscrets Magnifique Tickler Pendant for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
This beautiful piece of jewelry is the kind of day collar you will want to wear out and about before you change into an actual collar for play time. The kind of symbolic day collar that doesn’t scream BDSM to anyone who lays eyes on it, and yet has a (not purely) decorative mini-whip at the end that can also be used for some light teasing. Ideal for wearing out and about as an elegant accessory or for pairing with your favorite lingerie (or nothing) for play time with your Dom.
Pros
- ✅ Very subtle and elegant
- ✅ Versatile
- ✅ Symbolic day collar
- ✅ Adjustable
Cons
- ❌ Not a functional BDSM collar
- ❌ Quality is not the best
My verdict
This one scores point for absolute subtlety. This is really an example of how any kind of jewelry can be a day collar, if you want it to. Of course, this particular product does have the little tickler pendant at the bottom. This makes it great for any potential sensation play you would want to engage in on-the-go, but it generally doesn’t seem like this necklace is super functional as an actual collar or BDSM accessory. It’s supposed to be more of a symbol and an ornament. It’s safe to say that it does that very well! It is quite pricey compared to the other products. But if you’re sold on the idea of walking around with this stunning piece that means much more than the naked eye can see, it might just be worth those extra bucks!
You should buy the Bijoux Indiscrets Magnifique Tickler Pendant if you...
- want a very subtle day collar
- love long rope necklaces
- enjoy the added tickler pendant feature
You should not buy the Bijoux Indiscrets Magnifique Tickler Pendant if you...
- need a day collar that also works for play time
- prefer a different style of collar
- are on a budget
Comparison of the 9 best bdsm day collars
| Best | Test Winner | Cheapest | Clear | Steel | Lock | Spiked | Heart | BDSM | null |
| Overall score | - | - | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | - | - | - | 3.3 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 |
| User rating | - | - | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users | 5 / 5.0 from 2 users | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users | - | - | - | 2 / 5.0 from 1 users |
| Price | Low | Low | Low | Medium | Low | Low | Low | Medium | Low |
| Design | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Quality | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Length | Small: 15.5 inches | Total length: 16.25 inches | Small size fits necks from: 11-14.5 inches | - | Small size: 12.5 inches | Small size fits necks: 11-14.5 inches | Small size: 12.5 inches | - | 31.5 inches |
| Width | 0.5 inches | O-ring: 0.75 inches | 1 inches | - | - | 0.5 inches | - | - | - |
| Waterproof | No | No | Splashproof | Splashproof | No | No | No | No | No |
| Materials | Leather, metal | Vegan leather, metal | Vinyl and nickel-plated hardware | Stainless Steel | High-quality leather & nickel-plated hardware | High-quality leather & nickel-plated hardware | Latigo leather & nickel-plated hardware | 100% vegan leather, metal | Nickel-free metal |
| Fastening | Buckle | Lobster-clasp | Buckle | Allen key lock | Padlock | Buckle | Padlock | Clasp | - |
| Adjustable | Yes | Yes | Yes | No | No | Yes | No | Yes | Yes |
| Colors Available | Red, Black | Black | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Diameter (internal) | - | - | - | 4.75 inches | - | - | - | - | - |
| Storage Bag Included | - | - | - | Storage case | - | - | - | - | - |
Discreet Sex Toy Necklaces
Okay, so maybe you’re not into the whole my-day-collar-really-does-look-like-an-actual-collar vibe. That’s totally fine! I’ve also got some suggestions for a few pieces of sexy statement jewelry. They’re not the most subtle pieces, but they’re elegant, functional, and a hoot to bring to a party!
Crave Vesper Bullet Necklace Vibrator
The Crave Vesper is not just a beautiful statement necklace. Oh no, there’s so much more to this baby… With one click on a button, this sleek metal wand will turn into a powerful bullet vibrator!
Check out our own test and review of the Crave Vesper!
Bijoux Indiscrets Silver Flogger Necklace
This necklace is also highly multifunctional. A beautiful and elegant long rope necklace that doubles as a small silver flogger for any impromptu sensation or impact play!
More BDSM-Inspired Accessories to Make a Kinky Fashion Statement
So, if you’re past the point of trying to be understated with your BDSM accessories, you might be ready to embrace the beautiful possibilities of decorative BDSM gear – suitable for both BDSM play, play parties or gatherings, and as cool fashion accessories (paired with other clothing) for going out!
Bijoux Indiscrets Maze Multi-Way Body Harness
This cool leather harness can easily be put on over a dress or shirt making it a super fashionable everyday accessory. Remove the clothing under and you’re ready for some sexy play time!
Coquette Black Chain Garter Belt
With a short dress or a budy suit, this chain garter belt would grace your outfit with just enough of a subtle sexy vibe for you to turn heads on a night out clubbing or something! Of course, it doubles as super elegant and kinky lingerie paired with some sexy underwear or nothing at all!
Bijoux Indiscrets Maze H Harness
A perfect blend of a sexy body harness and a subtle collar. This statement piece will definitely elevate your BDSM vibes in any setting. Whether paring it with other clothing for a special event in public or wearing it during play time, this gorgeous H-harness will impress those around you.
DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Cross-Body Harness
Cross-body harnesses are a staple in the world of BDSM accessories. Perfect for any Dom or sub who just wants to dress up for the occasion! Again, a cool accessory for cool events in a more public sphere with some extra clothes on (or not – up to you), but also just the *chef’s kiss* perfect way to dress for some kinky activities.
How to Use a BDSM Day Collar
In Public: The Whole Wide Vanilla World
How do I use my day collar in public? The ones we have suggested here are obviously a tad more… obvious than a simple vanilla-looking necklace. So how do you actually wear these as day collars without receiving a few curious looks throughout the day?
Style it up! Try to match the look of the collar with the rest of your outfit. If you can style up your outfit to the point that your collar isn’t coming off as the main attraction, you might very well just be mistaken for a very fashionable person.
Embrace the aesthetic! If you’ve found a collar with a style you like, you could also go all in with other similar accessories. Add some extra spice to your regular style with other similar accessories once in a while, and your little collar might be quite inconspicuous!
In Safe Kink Spaces
Whether in the comfort of your own home or at kink parties or gatherings, there’s a lot more freedom in how to use your BDSM day collar when in safe kink spaces.
Of course, you might want to take advantage of that and use this oppertunity to break out one of your more hardcore sub collars…
But you can totally keep rocking your BDSM day collar in these settings as well. The bonus is that you can way more fun with it! Your collar will still symbolize your Dom/sub relationship to other kinksters around you, but you can also use the collar in action. Play around with a leash or use it for some light bondage play (depending on how sturdy your day collar is).
Regular Cleaning and Care!
No matter what material or design your day collar is made from, regular cleaning and care is always a good idea.
Some materials require different kinds of care. Make sure you maintain them properly. Wipe them down gently with a damp cloth once in a while. Your leather collar might appreciate some leather conditioner once in a while as well.
It’s also a good idea to provide some regular cleaning and care to yourself! Be sure to take off your collar once in a while (perhaps if you’re having a shower anyway) and clean the skin around your neck thoroughly. If you wear the collar for too long without regular cleaning, you might increase the risk of skin irritation.
How to clean
Most of the BDSM day collars included in this review or not waterproof. Of course, you still need to keep your collar nice and clean in between uses. Be sure to check how the maufacturer of the product recommends you clean your specific collar. Depending on the materials, manufacturers will have differen recommendations. For most of the materials in the products included here, I would recommend wiping your collar down with a damp cloth with warm soapy water after use. Let it dry completely and store it safely away from any lint or dust until you're ready for your next collared adventure!
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.
FAQ
What is a BDSM day collar?
A day collar is the type of BDSM collar that can be worn on the daily while you're out and about in the world. They are often subtle enough to pass as jewelry or regular accessories and mostly work as a token of one's status as a collared submissive. A discreet mark that might be recognized by other kinksters but will raise no eyebrows among other people. The point of wearing a day collar is often just for the wearer (and their Dom) to proudly wear a symbol of their relationship out and about, without it being too NFSW.
Reviewed by:
Cassie Mørch