The 13 Best BDSM Harnesses for Stylish Sexiness
Slip your sub into one of these super sexy BDSM harness and you are ready to explore all types of teasing and torture! Whether you are looking for something that looks the part, something for more serious restraint or a combination of the two, I have it all in this review! Not only that, I’ve got some top tips on making your own bondage rope harness!
Test Winner4.8  | Cheapest4.8 | Beginner4.8 | Restraints4.8 | Chest Harness4.9 | Leg Harness4.7 | Plus Size4.7 | Male4.3 | Clamps4.7 | Gag3.9 | 4.9 | 4.8 | 4.8 |
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How Did I Choose and Test These BDSM Harnesses?
Having written 500+ reviews as a company, the experts at Bedbible (including myself) know what makes a good quality BDSM harness, from the materials, to the fastenings and how it’s used. I’ve spent over 30 hours researching and writing about the harnesses in this post to make sure I’m bringing you only the best!
I also know that everyone needs something slightly different from their kinky harness, which is why I’ve included a range of different options and always tell you who it’s best suited and what activities you can enjoy in your harness.
Things to Consider when Shopping for a BDSM Harness
- Harness Materials: Leather is a popular option for BDSM harnesses both for its strength and its style. Its a great investment if you want a harness that will last for a long time but it does take a little more upkeep. Stretchy fabric harnesses are often machine washable and tend to be cheaper and easier to move in making them great for beginners but not great for restraint play.
- Restraint Compatibility: If you are shopping for harness that will let you lock your lover up tightly while you toy with them, make sure to look for a harness that comes with restraints or has plenty of D or O-rings to attach your own.
- Size: Most harnesses have some level of adjustability but you should always measure yourself to check you are getting the right size before you order.
- Style: While black leather is the standard look for a BDSM harness, that doesn’t have to be the case! I have a few in this review that stray from that in favor of a more playful design!
The test winner dominated this review with its super sexy design and play potential!
Reviews of the 13 best BDSM Harnesses
Test Winner DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Open Cup Body Harness
Overall Rating
4.8/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5.0
User Ratings:
4.8/5.0
Based on 47 user reviews
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Open Cup Body Harness was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM Harness.
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Open Cup Body Harness was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Open Cup Body Harness was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Open Cup Body Harness was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Open Cup Body Harness if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This leather BDSM harness means business. The wrist restraints are perfect for keeping your partner’s hands out the way while the open crotch, open cup design gives you easy access to tease them however you please! The harness also has multiple O-rings, so you can attach your own restraints for even deeper submission. The sturdy leather and metal design is strong enough to withstand some rough play and will keep your partner firmly locked into place! The central O-ring is also perfect for holding a suction cup dildo, transforming this kinky harness into a strap-on for all sorts of penetrative play!
Pros
- ✅ Unisex design looks great on anyone
- ✅ Handcuffs included
- ✅ Easy to adjust to get the right fit
- ✅ Plenty of O-rings to attach other restraints or a dildo
- ✅ Open crotch-design for easy access
- ✅ Sturdy leather and metal hardware
Cons
- ❌ Straps can pinch a little
- ❌ Only comes in sizes up to US 16
My verdict
This harness is the perfect combination of form and functionality! I love the open design, it’s flattering and revealing all at the same time and allows for a lot of teasing! The whole thing feels very sturdy and it’s incredibly versatile in terms of attaching the handcuffs or other restraints. There are only two size options but there’s a lot of adjustability so you will be able to get a snug fit. There’s really not a lot to critique about this stunning harness, which is why its my test winner in this review!
You should buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Open Cup Body Harness if you...
- love the BDSM aesthetic
- want a harness with cuffs inculded
- love the look and feel of leather
- love being restrained
You should not buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Open Cup Body Harness if you...
- are vegan/avoid leather products
- have a larger body
Cheapest Cosmo Crave Chest Harness
Overall Rating
4.8/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
0/5.0
Based on 0 user reviews
Rating: Cosmo Crave Chest Harness was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM Harness.
Rating: Cosmo Crave Chest Harness was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Cosmo Crave Chest Harness was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Cosmo Crave Chest Harness was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is cheap compared to other BDSM Harnesses.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Cosmo Crave Chest Harness for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
This holographic chest harness from Cosmo would just as at home in your bedroom as at a rave! The gorgeous holographic vinyl is paired with rose gold metal accents, including a delicate chain that drapes below the breasts for an almost ethereal look. The straps reach around your like a collar, and the down the chest, curving around the breasts and around the back, leaving your best assets on display. On the front, there are four O-rings that you can easily attach all kinds of restraints or accessories to, and the straps on the back are secured with adjustable buckles.
- Bust — S/M: 34-38 inches, L/XL: 38-42 inches
- Waist — S/M: 26-31 inches, L/XL: 31-38 inches
Pros
- ✅ Very affordable
- ✅ Unique, fun design
- ✅ Adjustable straps
- ✅ Multiple O-rings to attach additional accessories
Cons
- ❌ May not fit larger bodies
- ❌ Vinyl may degrade with time
My verdict
For those on a budget, the Cosmo Crave chest harness is almost a no-brainer! In my humble opinion, it looks absolutely spectacular, and is sure to add some sparkle and shine to any chest. Whether you’re looking for a party-ready outfit, or want to dazzle your partner with a BDSM harness in private, I highly recommend it.
I’ve linked to the S/M size above, but it’s important to note that there is also a L/XL size available here. However, there are only these two size options available, meaning that those with measurements larger or smaller may have to forgo this bondage harness. Good thing that I have plenty more for you that I love!
You should buy the Cosmo Crave Chest Harness if you...
- Are looking for a cute, interesting-looking BDSM harness
- Want to show off your chest
- Want a harness you can wear with or without clothes
- Are on a budget
You should not buy the Cosmo Crave Chest Harness if you...
- Are looking for a harness with restraints or a full-body harness
- Prefer the black leather look
- Have a larger body
Beginner Coquette Darque Bondage Halter and Crotchless Panty Set
Overall Rating
4.8/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.7/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.8/5.0
Based on 10 user reviews
Rating: Coquette Darque Bondage Halter and Crotchless Panty Set was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM Harness.
Rating: Coquette Darque Bondage Halter and Crotchless Panty Set was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Coquette Darque Bondage Halter and Crotchless Panty Set was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Coquette Darque Bondage Halter and Crotchless Panty Set was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is cheap compared to other BDSM Harnesses.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Coquette Darque Bondage Halter and Crotchless Panty Set for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
This seductive bondage harness from Coquette’s Darque range is bound to get temperatures rising! The deep merlot color adds a sensual feel while the open cup, open crotch design brings the spice! As well as framing all your best assests, the harness has a set of wrist cuffs that can be used for light restraint play and extra O-rings for adding other restraints. Made from nylon and elastane, this harness feels less restrictive and comfortable to wear — perfect for beginners or even wearing under clothes on a date night.
Pros
- ✅ Beginner-friendly
- ✅ Seductive deep red color
- ✅ Unisex design
- ✅ Open crotch & open cup design
Cons
- ❌ Stretchy design not suitable for strong restraint
- ❌ Only available in red
- ❌ Only fits up to 12 US dress size
My verdict
This harness looks incredibly sexy without being too hardcore bondage. The open cup and crotch design means you can leave the harness on while you play without sacrificing any stimulation. The straps are also slightly stretchy so you won’t feel as confined as you would in a leather harness and it’s a little easier to move around. This does mean it won’t stand up to more intense restraint play but if you are looking for a first bdsm body harness, this one ticks all the boxes! My only complaint is that it’s only available up to a US dress size 12, so won’t be suitable for those in larger bodies. I do however have some other great options with better sizing options in this review, and I’ve got a stunning plus size option coming up!
You should buy the Coquette Darque Bondage Halter and Crotchless Panty Set if you...
- want a beginner friendly harness
- prefer a harness you can move easily in
- enjoy light restraint/bondage
You should not buy the Coquette Darque Bondage Halter and Crotchless Panty Set if you...
- need sturdier restraint
- prefer the look and feel of leather
Restraints Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Restraint Harness
Overall Rating
4.8/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.7/5.0
Based on 31 user reviews
Rating: Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Restraint Harness was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM Harness.
Rating: Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Restraint Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Restraint Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Restraint Harness was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Restraint Harness ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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Once you are locked into this snakeskin style restraint harness, you are totally at the mercy of your partner! This is an amazing harness for anyone who craves the feeling of total submission! The elegant harness can be worn in two ways and provides plenty of ways to lock your arms tightly into place with the detachable wrist cuffs. Take the control one step further with the matching leash that can be attached to collar
Pros
- ✅ Really limits upper body movement
- ✅ Detachable wrist restraints
- ✅ Leash included
- ✅ Can be worn two ways
- ✅ Plenty of D-rings to attach other restraints
Cons
- ❌ Waist belt is big in size
- ❌ Buckles can dig in in certain positions
- ❌ Snakeskin won't be to everyone's taste
My verdict
Strong and stylish, this restraint harness is for all the subs out there that want some added elegance! This is a really versatile piece as it can be worn with the restraints at the front or back of your body and it has a total of 9 D-rings so you can get really creative. The matching collar is also a really nice touch, and is a lot of fun for leading your partner around and deepening your power play. As lovehoney points out, you should always release your partner’s hands when walking them around on the leash in case they fall over! This harness is a little big in size, so if you have a smaller waist, this might not be the best bondage harness for you.
You should buy the Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Restraint Harness if you...
- crave more intense restraint
- love being led around on a leash
- are into the snakeskin design
You should not buy the Bondage Boutique Faux Snakeskin Restraint Harness if you...
- prefer the black aesthetic
- are looking for a leather harness
- have a very small waist
Chest Harness Vondage Vegan Leather Bust Harness
Overall Rating
4.9/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.8/5.0
Based on 9 user reviews
Rating: Vondage Vegan Leather Bust Harness was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM Harness.
Rating: Vondage Vegan Leather Bust Harness was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Vondage Vegan Leather Bust Harness was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: Vondage Vegan Leather Bust Harness was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest Vondage Vegan Leather Bust Harness if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This chunky bust harness perfectly frames your breasts for all kinds of play! Complete with four D-rings, you can attach a pair handcuffs or a leash to use it for for upper body bondage. This boob harness is made from a strong vegan leather that can withstand some stronger restraint play and it is adjustable at the collar, chest, and waist. It is produced in Los Angeles by the Stockrooms own in house leather team, so you know you are getting a top quality harness!
- Collar — 11.5 to 14.5 inches
- Chest — 24.5 to 34.5 inches
- Waist — 8.5 to 11.5 inches
Pros
- ✅ Strong vegan leather
- ✅ 4 D-rings for other restraints
- ✅ Suitable for a Domme or Sub
- ✅ Adjustable
Cons
- ❌ Won't fit larger bodies
- ❌ Fairly pricey
My verdict
Whether you are a Domme or a Sub, this boob harness delivers a serious look! The thick, vegan leather straps are powerful and perfect for a restraint play that get’s a little rougher. The under boob harness design really makes your boobs the stars of the show — perfect for pairing with some nipple clamps or suckers or just letting your partner play! It’s a shame there’s only one size available, and although the straps are adjustable, this harness won’t fit larger bodies. Given the more expensive price, I would recommend this harness to anyone who has some experience with bondage harnesses but is looking to level up to a more serious, higher quality harness.
Oh and if the black doesn’t suit your style, it also comes in a gorgeous baby pink version!
You should buy the Vondage Vegan Leather Bust Harness if you...
- love the leather look but want a vegan option
- are looking for a strong bust harness
- want a harness to wear in the bedroom or over clothes
- want to attach other restraints
You should not buy the Vondage Vegan Leather Bust Harness if you...
- have a nickel allergy
- want real leather
- are looking for a full body harness
- need a flexible or stretchy harness
Leg Harness DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Leg Harness
Overall Rating
4.7/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.5/5.0
Based on 13 user reviews
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Leg Harness was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM Harness.
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Leg Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Leg Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Leg Harness was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Leg Harness if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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Feel the rush of power as you slip into this kinky leg harness and leather body straps firmly around your waist and legs. This leg harness is perfect paired with an open cup bra or even cheeky pair of nipple pasties. Add in a pair of handcuffs or a leash and you area ready for some serious submission! Or, if you are feeling daring, wear it out over some shorts or leggings to give your outfit the ultimate BDSM edge. The leather straps are strong and fully adjustable at the waist, legs, front panel so you can get just the right fit. The harness also comes with an extension strap that adds an extra 10 inches to the waist so this harness really does fit a wider range of body sizes.
Pros
- ✅ A lot of adjustability
- ✅ Can be used with other restraints
- ✅ Can be worn over clothes for a BDSM edge
Cons
- ❌ No restraint points on the back
- ❌ Can take some time to get the right fit
- ❌ Can shed small bits
My verdict
Wow! This harness just looks amazing! Whether you are wearing at home or as a statement piece over your clothes, you are bound to turn heads! The bold leather straps accentuate your curves while being strong enough to stand up to some more intense restraint play. The whole harness is fully adjustable so you can find the right fit for your body, but this will take a little time, so give yourself plenty of time to get into the harness and adjust it! The only thing I’d love to add to this is some D-rings on the back of the waist band for attaching handcuffs.
You should buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Leg Harness if you...
- want the BDSM look
- want a harness to use with your own restraints
- want a harness to wear over clothes
You should not buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Leg Harness if you...
- don't use leather products
- want something quick and easy to get on
Plus Size Lovehoney Fierce Tough Love Open-Cup Teddy
Overall Rating
4.7/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.7/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.7/5.0
Based on 103 user reviews
Rating: Lovehoney Fierce Tough Love Open-Cup Teddy was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM Harness.
Rating: Lovehoney Fierce Tough Love Open-Cup Teddy was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovehoney Fierce Tough Love Open-Cup Teddy was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Lovehoney Fierce Tough Love Open-Cup Teddy was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Lovehoney Fierce Tough Love Open-Cup Teddy for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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Unleash your inner Domme in this fiery, feisty BDSM body. With an access all areas design, you can keep this harness on while you enjoy any kind of play that takes your fancy! The wet look finish and studs create a bold, BDSM look thats bound to please! Plus the open back and thong will have you looking amazing from all angles! As well as being adjustable, this harness is available in 6 sizes, from US dress size 2 -26.
Pros
- ✅ Great range of sizes
- ✅ Sexy wet look with added studs
- ✅ Has a a little stretch for comfort
- ✅ Sexy thong back
- ✅ Open cup and open crotch design
Cons
- ❌ Can be tricky to get on
- ❌ Sizes come up a little big
My verdict
This wet look body is seriously sexy! It can be a confusing to figure out how to get it on but once you do, WOW! Although the front panel is filled in, the open crotch and cup design gives you plenty to play with without taking it off because who wants to get all dressed up to take it on in a few minutes! It also comes in a really great range of sizes. Some people found it came up a little big though so you might want to size down if you are just on the boundary between two sizes.
You should buy the Lovehoney Fierce Tough Love Open-Cup Teddy if you...
- love the wet look finish
- prefer a stretchy harness
- want multiple sizes to choose from (up to dress size 26)
You should not buy the Lovehoney Fierce Tough Love Open-Cup Teddy if you...
- want to engage in stronger restraint play
- prefer leather
Male Male Power Shoulder Harness With Cock Ring
Overall Rating
4.3/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.2/5.0
Based on 84 user reviews
Rating: Male Power Shoulder Harness With Cock Ring was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM Harness.
Rating: Male Power Shoulder Harness With Cock Ring was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Male Power Shoulder Harness With Cock Ring was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Male Power Shoulder Harness With Cock Ring was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is cheap compared to other BDSM Harnesses.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Male Power Shoulder Harness With Cock Ring for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This sexy harness cock ring combo is the perfect introduction to BDSM harnesses. The black straps are made of soft, stretchy fabric giving a great bondage look without too much restriction. The belt comes with a two inch cock ring to put your cock front and center and give your erections a boost. The harness also has two other O-rings — one on the front and one on back of the chest piece, which is perfect for adding a leash to lead your naughty sub around!
Pros
- ✅ Perfect for beginners
- ✅ Comfortable to wear
- ✅ Includes a metal cock ring
- ✅ 2 O-rings to use with other restraints
Cons
- ❌ Not suitable for more intense restraint play
- ❌ Cock ring might not fit all bodies
My verdict
If you want a harness to wear for a kinky weekend or you are just dipping your toes into kinky bondage underwear, this is a really great option! You will look and feel the part without having to commit to an expensive or intimidating full leather harness. Of course, if you are looking for more restraint or a stronger harness, this is going to work for you, but if you want something more for the look, this is ideal! The stretchy straps make this harness super comfortable to wear and allows you to move freely. It comes in two parts — the chest piece and the belt with cock ring so you can choose whether you want to use them together or separately. The cock ring won’t be the perfect fit for everyone so make sure to measure your member first!
You should buy the Male Power Shoulder Harness With Cock Ring if you...
- want a harness with a cock ring
- prefer soft, stretchy straps
- want a gentle introduction to harnesses
You should not buy the Male Power Shoulder Harness With Cock Ring if you...
- want a harness for more intense BDSM play
- need a harness for restraint purposes
Clamps DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps
Overall Rating
4.7/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
4.5/5.0
Based on 4 user reviews
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM Harness.
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is priced in the middle.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This harness from DOMINIX offers style and stimulation! Attached to the thick black leather collar are two sets of tweezer clamps to add some pinchy pleasure — one set for your nipples and one for your labia or clitoris. Not only do these look and feel amazing when you have them on, when you release the clamps you are rewarded with enhanced sensitivity from the blood rushing back in. The collar is adjustable from 14 to 18 inches and features a large O-ring that can be used together with a leash.
Pros
- ✅ Two sets of clamps included
- ✅ Cold metal feels amazing
- ✅ Thick, sturdy leather collar
- ✅ O-ring can be used with a leash
Cons
- ❌ Collar might not fit larger necks
- ❌ Doesn't offer a lot of restraint opportunities
- ❌ Labia clamps can be tricky to get on
My verdict
I really love the combination of the metal chains and thick leather collar — it looks sexy yet serious all at the same time! Plus the metal chains feel really great against your skin. This BDSM body harness is best suited to those who already know they love the feeling of clamps. The two sets of clamps are relatively straight forward to use as they are standard tweezer style clamps, but the labia clamps can be a bit tricky to get on.
You should buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps if you...
- love having your nipples and labia clamped
- want a harness to use with a lead
- love the combination of metal and leather
You should not buy the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps if you...
- aren't interested in the nipple/labia clamps
- want a harness that offers more restraint
Gag Dark Amour Harness with Gag & Nipple Clamps Set
Overall Rating
3.9/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
3.7/5.0
Based on 3 user reviews
Rating: Dark Amour Harness with Gag & Nipple Clamps Set was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM Harness.
Rating: Dark Amour Harness with Gag & Nipple Clamps Set was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Dark Amour Harness with Gag & Nipple Clamps Set was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is fairly good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Low
Rating: Dark Amour Harness with Gag & Nipple Clamps Set was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is cheap compared to other BDSM Harnesses.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I advise Dark Amour Harness with Gag & Nipple Clamps Set for intermediate users, as it offers a good balance of complexity and learning potential.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
You’ll get into a real predicament with this bondage harness get-up. This two-piece set from Dark Amour features a chunky chest harness that reaches up to the neck and a gag with attached nipple clamps — what a combo! The harness will frame your boobs perfectly as they get pinched by the alligator-style nipple clamps, and the O-ring gag will keep your mouth open and ready for whatever. Your partner will love hearing you moan and groan, especially when you move your head and feel the tug on your nips!
- Harness Collar: 13-19.5 inches
- Harness Back Strap: 25-36 inches
- Gag Strap: 15-23 inches
- Nipple Clamps: 2 inches long, up to 1.6 inches wide, chains 13 inches long
Pros
- ✅ Three-in-one set
- ✅ Sleek, sexy leather look
- ✅ Affordable
- ✅ Adjustable
Cons
- ❌ Lower quality construction
- ❌ Not suited for larger bodies
My verdict
For those with some previous BDSM experience who are looking for a more intense kind of play, this harness set is ideal. It has plenty to play with, while remaining super affordable. The really great thing is that you can actually wear this set either together or separately, depending on your mood. You could even dress it up even more by adding additional restraints to the O-rings of the bondage harness — handcuffs, anyone?
However, it is only made to fit those of a small to medium size, and does not come in any other size variants. If it seems that it might not fit you, you could always create your own set by combining any of the harnesses I’ve mentioned here with a ball gag with nipple clamps!
You should buy the Dark Amour Harness with Gag & Nipple Clamps Set if you...
- Are looking for a more intense bondage harness set-up
- Love feeling restrained and submissive
- Like the leather look but don't want to wear real leather
You should not buy the Dark Amour Harness with Gag & Nipple Clamps Set if you...
- Have a larger body
- Want a full body BDSM harness
- Are a BDSM beginner
Clear Ctrl Bust Harness
Overall Rating
4.9/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
5.0/5.0
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Clear Ctrl Bust Harness was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM Harness.
Rating: Clear Ctrl Bust Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Clear Ctrl Bust Harness was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: Clear Ctrl Bust Harness was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very expensive.
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Recommended for
I suggest Clear Ctrl Bust Harness if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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This space age bust harness is just perfect for role play! The cool vinyl creates a cool sensation against the skin as you put it on and allows your partner to see every inch of you even while you are locked up! The harness has a thick collar with boob-framing straps and 4 D-rings for all kinds of bondage adventures!
• Collar — 11.5 to 14.5 inches
• Under breast — 24.5 to 34.5 inches
• Front strap — 8.5 to 11.5 inches
Plus, if you love the clear vinyl look, there’s a whole range of matching bondage items, including a pair of wrist cuffs and a leash that would work perfectly with this harness.
Pros
- ✅ Clear design lets you see everything
- ✅ Great for vinyl-lovers
- ✅ Suitable for more advanced restraint
Cons
- ❌ Vinyl can get sweaty
- ❌ Little flexibility
My verdict
This harness is such a unique piece that’s perfect for anyone looking for a futuristic, space age themed bondage look! The clear vinyl material also looks incredible over other lingerie or clothes. Vinyl isn’t the comfiest of materials and it can get a little sweaty, but as long as you don’t mind that, this is one beautiful boob harness!
You should buy the Clear Ctrl Bust Harness if you...
- love space or futuristic role play
- are looking for something a little different
- want to attach other restraints
- love the look and feel of vinyl
You should not buy the Clear Ctrl Bust Harness if you...
- prefer leather
- want a full body harness
Strict Bondage Harness with Bows
Overall Rating
4.8/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.8/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
0/5.0
Based on 0 user reviews
Rating: Strict Bondage Harness with Bows was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM Harness.
Rating: Strict Bondage Harness with Bows was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Strict Bondage Harness with Bows was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: Strict Bondage Harness with Bows was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest Strict Bondage Harness with Bows if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
This waist-to-thigh bondage harness perfectly walks the line between sweet and sexy! It features a strappy design with a waistband and two straps on the back that lead down to two garter-like straps around the thighs. Every strap is adjustable with metal buckles. Plus, there are two adorable bows on each cheek and a metal O-ring — perfect for attaching anything from restraints to a leash! Alongside the harness, you’ll also receive two matching wrist cuffs that can be easily attached and detached from the O-ring. Use them with the extenders for a sensual look, or without for a more extreme level of restraint.
- Waist — M/L: 26-42 inch circumference, XL/XXL: 35-52 inch circumference
- Thighs — M/L: 13-26 inch circumference, XL/XXL: 21.5-37.5 inch circumference
- Wrist Cuffs — Both sizes: 5.75-10.25 inch circumference
Pros
- ✅ Nickel-free hardware
- ✅ Super cute design with bows
- ✅ Detachable wrist cuffs
- ✅ O-ring on back for attaching additional restraints
- ✅ Adjustable on the waist, thighs and wrists
Cons
- ❌ May not fit larger or smaller bodies — check the sizing!
- ❌ Thinner straps may be less durable
My verdict
If you’re looking for a BDSM harness that’s ideal for cutesy or princessy fetish play, then this is definitely the one for you. Pair it with a pretty princess plug and you’ll be totally irresistible! It’s comfortable, adjustable and versatile in its uses, making it a great piece that looks as good as it feels to wear. While the faux leather may appeal to those who aren’t fans of animal-based products, it is also less durable than the real thing, and the thinner straps may make it a little less durable. So, handle with care!
You should buy the Strict Bondage Harness with Bows if you...
- Love the cute aesthetic!
- Want to be able to wear a harness with or without restraints
- Want a BDSM harness to wear over clothes
- Don't want to wear real leather
You should not buy the Strict Bondage Harness with Bows if you...
- Are looking for a harness that's simple to put on
- Want a full-body harness instead
The Bruiser Bulldog Harness
Overall Rating
4.8/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.6/5.0
Reviewed by:
Isabelle UrenUser Ratings:
5.0/5.0
Based on 3 user reviews
Rating: The Bruiser Bulldog Harness was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM Harness.
Rating: The Bruiser Bulldog Harness was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: The Bruiser Bulldog Harness was rated 97 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Medium
Rating: The Bruiser Bulldog Harness was rated 3 out of 5, which means it neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest The Bruiser Bulldog Harness if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
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If you love the BDSM look, this chest harness is the perfect accessory. With thick leather straps and strong buckles, the bulldog harness means business. With adjustable straps and three sizes to choose from, you can find your perfect fit! Pair it with your other leather accessories to complete the look!
Pros
- ✅ Strong but supple leather
- ✅ Sturdy construction
- ✅ Adjustable straps
- ✅ Three sizes available
Cons
- ❌ No extra D-rings for restraints
My verdict
This BDSM chest harness certainly looks the part, and it will definitely help you get into you role once you are all strapped in! It’s incredibly well made and you can tell that the materials are top quality, as you would expect from this price range. It doesn’t offer a lot in terms of attaching other restraints, so that’s something to consider before you buy! It does, however, pair well with all other black leather bondage gear.
You should buy the The Bruiser Bulldog Harness if you...
- want a top quality chest harness
- love the look and feel of leather
You should not buy the The Bruiser Bulldog Harness if you...
- you have a nickel allergy
- want a harness with added D-rings
- want a full body harness
- prefer to avoid leather
Comparison of the 13 best BDSM Harnesses
| Best | Test Winner | Cheapest | Beginner | Restraints | Chest Harness | Leg Harness | Plus Size | Male | Clamps | Gag | null | null | null |
| Overall score | 4.8 / 5.0 | - | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 3.9 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | - | 4.8 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.8 / 5.0 from 47 users | - | 4.8 / 5.0 from 10 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 31 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 9 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 13 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 103 users | 4.2 / 5.0 from 84 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 4 users | 3.7 / 5.0 from 3 users | 5 / 5.0 from 1 users | - | 5 / 5.0 from 3 users |
| Price | Low | Low | Low | Medium | Medium | Medium | Low | Low | Low | Low | Medium | Medium | Medium |
| Design | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 70 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
| Quality | 95 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 97 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 70 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 97 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - | - |
| Fastening | Buckles | Buckles | - | Buckles | Buckles | Buckle | Hook and eye | Snaps (press studs) | Clip | Harness & Gag: Buckles, Clamps: Alligator | Buckle | Buckles | Buckle and snaps |
| Materials | Leather | Vinyl, Nickel-free Metal | Nylon, Elastane | Faux leather & brass hardware | Vegan leather, nickel plated-hardware | Leather | Polyester, elastane, nylon | Nylon, spandex, metal | Leather & Steel | Faux Leather & Metal | Vinyl & Nickel-plated hardware | PU Faux Leather, Nickel-free Metal | Leather, Nickel-plated Steel |
| Adjustable | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes (collar, waist, & chest) | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Harness Size | S/M: US size 6 - 8; L/XL: US size 12 - 16 inches | Bust: 34-38 inches, Waist: 26-31 inches | One-size (US dress size 2-12) inches | 36-43 inch waist inches | Under bust: 24.5 — 34.5 inches inches | Waist: 24 - 48.5 inches; Upper thighs: 8 - 26 inches inches | US dress size 2-26 inches | - | Collar size: 14-18 inches inches | Fits Small to Medium — Chest: 25-36 inches | Under bust: 24.5 to 34.5 inches inches | M/L: Waist 26-42 inches, XL/XXL: Waist 35-52 inches | S: Chest 36-40 inches, M: Chest 40-44 inches, L: Chest 44-48 inches |
| Allergies | - | Does not contain nickel | - | - | Contains nickel | - | - | - | - | - | Contains Nickel | Does not contain nickel | Contains Nickel |
Achieve a Perfect Fit with this Custom BDSM Harness
Most BDSM harness come with a fair amount of adjustability but it can be hard to get the exact right fit that clings snugly to the curves of your body. Stockroom know that all too well and came up with the perfect solution — custom made harnesses, made to your specific measurements! This is a really great solution for anyone looking to upgrade to the perfect fitting harness, made of high-quality, long-lasting materials. This is one of those extra special items you will love for many years!
Custom Locking Body Harness from the Stockroom
Available in black, or red, this custom harness is made by the Stockroom’s in-house leather team to your exact measurements to give you the fit of your dreams! With thick leather straps, 4 buckles, and 3 D-rings, there’s plenty of bondage play to be had in this kinky harness!
Harness Endless Possibilities with Bondage Rope
If you want even more versatility and possibilities to explore different styles, bondage rope could be just what you are looking for! With bondage rope, you are free to create your own harness to match your needs or explore the intricately beautiful art of Shibari!
Doc Johnson Kink Bind & Tie Initiation Kit
A bondage favorite, hemp bondage rope is strong and ages well. This beautiful natural hemp rope kit comes with three bundles in two different lengths, along with a pair of all-important bondage scissors and a handy discreet storage bag. The rope has a twisted design that gives it a strong hold and makes it easier to undo. It’s a perfect starter kit for you to try out all kinds of harness styles! I’ve been testing it out myself and am so impressed by its softness.
Doc Johnson Japanese-Style Bondage Rope 10 Meter
This beautiful merlot bondage rope from Doc Johnson is strong yet soft on the skin. The 10 meters of woven cotton rope is perfect for beginners to more advanced bondage alike.
How to Tie a BDSM Rope Harness
BDSM rope harnesses can be super simple or stunningly intricate and offer the opportunity to customise your harness to whichever activities you want to explore! You should always make sure to leave at least two fingers between the rope and your body, as tying the harness too tightly can interfere with your circulation and that’s definitely something you want to avoid.
TheDuchy — Bikini Harness
The bondage experts at TheDuchy have some really great videos tutorials for all levels of rope bondage. This bikini chest harness is perfect for beginners as it only uses some very simple knots.
Shibari Kuma — Full Body Harness
Shibari Kuma has some really easy to follow instructions to create this visually striking full body rope harness.
TheDuchy – Barre Harness
Another great chest harness from TheDuchy, the Barre Chest Harness looks complex but is actually quite easy to get the hang of!
Ideas for Using a BDSM Harness
Bondage harnesses are so great because they’re so versatile! The possibilities are endless, but here are some ideas to get you started…
Attach Additional Restraints
Many BDSM harnesses have O-rings or D-rings to connect the various straps together. As well giving the harnesses that sexy, kinky look, these also give you the opportunity to attach different kinds of restraints to the harness.
Try out a pair of bondage wrist cuffs, a collar or even a leash!
Try Out Sensation or Impact Play
Wearing a bondage harness exposes your skin to the eyes, hands, mouth and more of your partner. Use that to your advantage by experimenting with some sensation play or impact play.
You can use your body by using light touch across the skin, licking and sucking different areas, or even spanking.
You can also bring in a toy or two! For lighter sensations, try a feather tickler, massage candle or a pinwheel. For more of a slap, try a spanking paddle, flogger or crop.
Grab Hold of the Straps
The fantastic thing about BDSM harnesses is that they give you plenty to hold onto! This can be great during foreplay or sex, as you can tug on them and pull your partner towards you, whichever position you’re in.
Experiment with Dom and Sub Roles
Wearing a bondage harness can make you feel both submissive and/or powerful! It can be fun to play around power play and role-playing in the bedroom, with you and your partner exploring both dom and sub roles with each other.
Just be sure to follow the golden rules of any BDSM play, including consent and safewords. See more in Bedbible’s blog post on BDSM for beginners.
Have a Boudoir Photo Shoot
We all know that lingerie is sexy, but how about switching that out in your next boudoir shoot with a BDSM harness?
Wearing one can feel incredibly sensual for yourself as well as your partner, so try out striking some poses and making one unforgettable photo shoot!
Wear a Harness as a Fashion Accessory!
A bondage harness isn’t just for bondage and sex — it can make a cool, cute or edgy accessory when worn in the daytime.
You could go classy and wear a chest harness over a crisp white shirt, or go sleek and pair it with a turtleneck. Or, if you’re in more of a festival or rave mood, then pair it with a sheer dress, bralette or even just nipple pasties! Leg harnesses go great with leggings, jeans or shorts, too.
How to Use a BDSM Harness
Each BDSM harness will be used in a slightly different way, depending on the style and which features it has. You can get creative with how you want to use yours, but here are few ideas to get you started!
Use it with leash
Adding a leash to your BDSM harness is great for power play. Leash up your sub and lead them around before you have your fun with them for deeper submission.
Attach your own restraints
Some BDSM harnesses come with their own restraints and some have D-rings to attach your own. You can explore restraint by locking your partner’s wrists to their waist or behind their back or go deeper by using the D-rings to tie your partner to the bed or a chair.
Bring out your inner Dom/me
A strong BDSM harness can really help you get into character and bring out your inner dom or dominatrix. Add in a whip or flogger and you are good to go!
How to Clean your BDSM Harness
Different BDSM harnesses will have different cleaning instructions based on their material, so you should always check the manufacturer's guidelines to make sure you don't damage your harness. If your bondage harness is made of leather, you can clean it with warm water and a mild soap or saddle soap. You will also want to use a leather conditioner to keep the leather moisturised and supple and prevent it from cracking. Some synthetic materials are machine washable and other will need to be wiped down with a damp cloth and mild soap.
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.
FAQ
What is a BDSM Harness?
A BDSM harness is a strappy harness, usually worn by a Sub during a BDSM scene. They often have O-rings or D-rings on the collar and body so you can attach different restraints to limit your subs movement or add a leash for leading them around on. Some have built in restraints, like handcuffs or added extras, like nipple or labia clamps. Leather and vegan leather are popular materials as they are strong and fit well with the BDSM aesthetic but there are also other fabric harnesses, which are more beginner friendly. As well as using BDSM harnesses in the bedroom, they have also become a statement piece to wear over your clothes.
Reviewed by:
Isabelle Uren