The 10 Best BDSM Harnesses for Stylish Sexiness

This harness is the perfect combination of form and functionality! I love the open design, it’s flattering and revealing all at the same time and allows for a lot of teasing! The whole thing feels very sturdy and it’s incredibly versatile in terms of attaching the handcuffs or other restraints. There are only two size options but there’s a lot of adjustability so you will be able to get a snug fit. There’s really not a lot to critique about this stunning harness!

If you want a harness to wear for a kinky weekend or you are just dipping your toes into kinky bondage underwear, this is a really great option! You will look and feel the part without having to commit to an expensive or intimidating full leather harness. Of course, if you are looking for more restraint or a stronger harness, this is going to work for you, but if you want something more for the look, this is ideal! The stretchy straps make this harness super comfortable to wear and allows you to move freely. It comes in two parts — the chest piece and the belt with cock ring so you can choose whether you want to use them together or separately. The cock ring won’t be the perfect fit for everyone so make sure to measure your member first!

This harness looks incredibly sexy without being too hardcore bondage. The open cup and crotch design means you can leave the harness on while you play without sacrificing any stimulation. The straps are also slightly stretchy so you won’t feel as confined as you would in a leather harness and it’s a little easier to move around. This does mean it won’t stand up to more intense restraint play but if you are looking for a first bdsm body harness, this one ticks all the boxes! My only complaint is that it’s only available up to a US dress size 12, so won’t be suitable for those in larger bodies. We do however have some other great options with better sizing options in this review, and we’ve got a stunning plus size option coming up! 

Strong and stylish, this restraint harness is for all the subs out there that want some added elegance! This is a really versatile piece as it can be worn with the restraints at the front or back of your body and it has a total of 9 D-rings so you can get really creative. The matching collar is also a really nice touch, and is a lot of fun for leading your partner around and deepening your power play. As lovehoney points out, you should always release your partner’s hands when walking them around on the leash in case they fall over! This harness is a little big in size, so if you have a smaller waist, this might not be the best bondage harness for you. 

Wow! This harness just looks amazing! Whether you are wearing at home or as a statement piece over your clothes, you are bound to turn heads! The bold leather straps accentuate your curves while being strong enough to stand up to some more intense restraint play. The whole harness is fully adjustable so you can find the right fit for your body, but this will take a little time, so give yourself plenty of time to get into the harness and adjust it! The only thing I’d love to add to this is some D-rings on the back of the waist band for attaching handcuffs.

This wet look body is seriously sexy! It can be a confusing to figure out how to get it on but once you do, WOW! Although the front panel is filled in, the open crotch and cup design gives you plenty to play with without taking it off because who wants to get all dressed up to take it on in a few minutes! It also comes in a really great range of sizes. Some people found it came up a little big though so you might want to size down if you are just on the boundary between two sizes.

I really love the combination of the metal chains and thick leather collar — it looks sexy yet serious all at the same time! Plus the metal chains feel really great against your skin. This BDSM body harness is best suited to those who already know they love the feeling of clamps. The two sets of clamps are relatively straight forward to use as they are standard tweezer style clamps, but the labia clamps can be a bit tricky to get on. 

Whether you are a Domme or a Sub, this boob harness delivers a serious look! The thick, vegan leather straps are powerful and perfect for a restraint play that get’s a little rougher. The under boob harness design really makes your boobs the stars of the show — perfect for pairing with some nipple clamps or suckers or just letting your partner play!  It’s a shame there’s only one size available, and although the straps are adjustable, this harness won’t fit larger bodies. Given the more expensive price, I would recommend this harness to anyone who has some experience with bondage harnesses but is looking to level up to a more serious, higher quality harness.

Oh and if the black doesn’t suit your style, it also comes in a gorgeous baby pink version!

This harness is such a unique piece that’s perfect for anyone looking for a futuristic, space age themed bondage look! The clear vinyl material also looks incredible over other lingerie or clothes. Vinyl isn’t the comfiest of materials and it can get a little sweaty, but as long as you don’t mind that, this is one beautiful boob harness!

This BDSM chest harness certainly looks the part, and it will definitely help you get into you role once you are all strapped in! It’s incredibly well made and you can tell that the materials are top quality, as you would expect from this price range. It doesn’t offer a lot in terms of attaching other restraints, so that’s something to consider before you buy! It does, however, pair well with all other black leather bondage gear.