The 10 Best BDSM Harnesses for Stylish Sexiness

How Did We Choose and Test These BDSM Harnesses?
Having written 500+ reviews as a company, we know what makes a good quality BDSM harness, from the materials, to the fastenings and how it’s used. We spent over 30 hours researching and writing about the harnesses in this post to make sure we are bringing you only the best!
We also know that everyone needs something slightly different from their kinky harness, which is why we include a range of different options and always tell you who it’s best suited and what activities you can enjoy in your harness.

Things to consider when shopping for a BDSM harness
- Harness Materials: Leather is a popular option for BDSM harnesses both for its strength and its style. Its a great investment if you want a harness that will last for a long time but it does take a little more upkeep. Stretchy fabric harnesses are often machine washable and tend to be cheaper and easier to move in making them great for beginners but not great for restraint play.
- Restraint Compatibility: If you are shopping for harness that will let you lock your lover up tightly while you toy with them, make sure to look for a harness that comes with restraints or has plenty of D or O-rings to attach your own.
- Size: Most harnesses have some level of adjustability but you should always measure yourself to check you are getting the right size before you order.
- Style: While black leather is the standard look for a BDSM harness, that doesn’t have to be the case! We have a few in this review that stray from that in favor of a more playful design!
Our test winner dominated this review with its super sexy design and play potential!
FAQ
What is a BDSM Harness?
A BDSM harness is a strappy harness, usually worn by a Sub during a BDSM scene. They often have O-rings or D-rings on the collar and body so you can attach different restraints to limit your subs movement or add a leash for leading them around on. Some have built in restraints, like handcuffs or added extras, like nipple or labia clamps. Leather and vegan leather are popular materials as they are strong and fit well with the BDSM aesthetic but there are also other fabric harnesses, which are more beginner friendly. As well as using BDSM harnesses in the bedroom, they have also become a statement piece to wear over your clothes.
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The 10 Best BDSM Harnesses in Test
DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Open Cup Body Harness
This leather BDSM harness means business. The wrist restraints are perfect for keeping your partner’s hands out the way while the open crotch, open cup design gives you easy access to tease them however you please! The harness also has multiple O-rings, so you can attach your own restraints for even deeper submission. The sturdy leather and metal design is strong enough to withstand some rough play and will keep your partner firmly locked into place! The central O-ring is also perfect for holding a suction cup dildo, transforming this kinky harness into a strap-on for all sorts of penetrative play!


This harness is the perfect combination of form and functionality! I love the open design, it’s flattering and revealing all at the same time and allows for a lot of teasing! The whole thing feels very sturdy and it’s incredibly versatile in terms of attaching the handcuffs or other restraints. There are only two size options but there’s a lot of adjustability so you will be able to get a snug fit. There’s really not a lot to critique about this stunning harness!
Male Power Shoulder Harness With Cock Ring
This sexy harness cock ring combo is the perfect introduction to BDSM harnesses. The black straps are made of soft, stretchy fabric giving a great bondage look without too much restriction. The belt comes with a two inch cock ring to put your cock front and center and give your erections a boost. The harness also has two other O-rings — one on the front and one on back of the chest piece, which is perfect for adding a leash to lead your naughty sub around!


If you want a harness to wear for a kinky weekend or you are just dipping your toes into kinky bondage underwear, this is a really great option! You will look and feel the part without having to commit to an expensive or intimidating full leather harness. Of course, if you are looking for more restraint or a stronger harness, this is going to work for you, but if you want something more for the look, this is ideal! The stretchy straps make this harness super comfortable to wear and allows you to move freely. It comes in two parts — the chest piece and the belt with cock ring so you can choose whether you want to use them together or separately. The cock ring won’t be the perfect fit for everyone so make sure to measure your member first!
DARQUE Bondage Halter and Crotchless Panty Set
This seductive bondage harness from Darque is bound to get temperatures rising! The deep merlot color adds a sensual feel while the open cup, open crotch design brings the spice! As well as framing all your best assests, the harness has a set of wrist cuffs that can be used for light restraint play and extra O-rings for adding other restraints. Made from nylon and elastane, this harness feels less restrictive and comfortable to wear — perfect for beginners or even wearing under clothes on a date night.


This harness looks incredibly sexy without being too hardcore bondage. The open cup and crotch design means you can leave the harness on while you play without sacrificing any stimulation. The straps are also slightly stretchy so you won’t feel as confined as you would in a leather harness and it’s a little easier to move around. This does mean it won’t stand up to more intense restraint play but if you are looking for a first bdsm body harness, this one ticks all the boxes! My only complaint is that it’s only available up to a US dress size 12, so won’t be suitable for those in larger bodies. We do however have some other great options with better sizing options in this review, and we’ve got a stunning plus size option coming up!
Once you are locked into this snakeskin style restraint harness, you are totally at the mercy of your partner! This is an amazing harness for anyone who craves the feeling of total submission! The elegant harness can be worn in two ways and provides plenty of ways to lock your arms tightly into place with the detachable wrist cuffs. Take the control one step further with the matching leash that can be attached to collar


Strong and stylish, this restraint harness is for all the subs out there that want some added elegance! This is a really versatile piece as it can be worn with the restraints at the front or back of your body and it has a total of 9 D-rings so you can get really creative. The matching collar is also a really nice touch, and is a lot of fun for leading your partner around and deepening your power play. As lovehoney points out, you should always release your partner’s hands when walking them around on the leash in case they fall over! This harness is a little big in size, so if you have a smaller waist, this might not be the best bondage harness for you.
DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Leg Harness
Feel the rush of power as you slip into this kinky leg harness and leather body straps firmly around your waist and legs. This leg harness is perfect paired with an open cup bra or even cheeky pair of nipple pasties. Add in a pair of handcuffs or a leash and you area ready for some serious submission! Or, if you are feeling daring, wear it out over some shorts or leggings to give your outfit the ultimate BDSM edge. The leather straps are strong and fully adjustable at the waist, legs, front panel so you can get just the right fit. The harness also comes with an extension strap that adds an extra 10 inches to the waist so this harness really does fit a wider range of body sizes.


Wow! This harness just looks amazing! Whether you are wearing at home or as a statement piece over your clothes, you are bound to turn heads! The bold leather straps accentuate your curves while being strong enough to stand up to some more intense restraint play. The whole harness is fully adjustable so you can find the right fit for your body, but this will take a little time, so give yourself plenty of time to get into the harness and adjust it! The only thing I’d love to add to this is some D-rings on the back of the waist band for attaching handcuffs.
Lovehoney Fierce Tough Love Open-Cup Teddy
Unleash your inner Domme in this fiery, feisty BDSM body. With an access all areas design, you can keep this harness on while you enjoy any kind of play that takes your fancy! The wet look finish and studs create a bold, BDSM look thats bound to please! Plus the open back and thong will have you looking amazing from all angles! As well as being adjustable, this harness is available in 6 sizes, from US dress size 2 -26.


This wet look body is seriously sexy! It can be a confusing to figure out how to get it on but once you do, WOW! Although the front panel is filled in, the open crotch and cup design gives you plenty to play with without taking it off because who wants to get all dressed up to take it on in a few minutes! It also comes in a really great range of sizes. Some people found it came up a little big though so you might want to size down if you are just on the boundary between two sizes.
DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps
This harness from DOMINIX offers style and stimulation! Attached to the thick black leather collar are two sets of tweezer clamps to add some pinchy pleasure — one set for your nipples and one for your labia or clitoris. Not only do these look and feel amazing when you have them on, when you release the clamps you are rewarded with enhanced sensitivity from the blood rushing back in. The collar is adjustable from 14 to 18 inches and features a large O-ring that can be used together with a leash.


I really love the combination of the metal chains and thick leather collar — it looks sexy yet serious all at the same time! Plus the metal chains feel really great against your skin. This BDSM body harness is best suited to those who already know they love the feeling of clamps. The two sets of clamps are relatively straight forward to use as they are standard tweezer style clamps, but the labia clamps can be a bit tricky to get on.
Vondage Vegan Leather Bust Harness
This chunky bust harness perfectly frames your breasts for all kinds of play! Complete with four D-rings, you can attach a pair handcuffs or a leash to use it for for upper body bondage. This boob harness is made from a strong vegan leather that can withstand some stronger restraint play and it is adjustable at the collar, chest, and waist. It is produced in Los Angeles by the Stockrooms own in house leather team, so you know you are getting a top quality harness!
- Collar — 11.5 to 14.5 inches
- Chest — 24.5 to 34.5 inches
- Waist — 8.5 to 11.5 inches

