The 5 Best BDSM Speculums to Help You Stay Wide Open
Below, you’ll find five of the best BDSM speculum sex toy products you can buy right now, complete with an evaluation for each. Whether you’re interested in vaginal or anal speculum play, I’ve found a product that should meet your speculum kink needs. The Bondage Boutique Steel Vaginal Speculum came out as “Test Winner”, but that’s not the only model worth considering. Keep reading to see the best options!
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How I Compared Each BDSM Speculum
It’s important to know exactly what you’re getting when you’re shopping for a new BDSM speculum sex toy. As such, I began this review/comparison with accuracy in mind. Rather than relying on a single source to gather data from, I used a mixture of customer feedback and manufacturer data to compare each product.
After gathering and compiling the data, I then rated each speculum on a couple of different relevant factors, including ease of use, overall quality, and value for price. Once the main factors had been rated, I then moved on to writing a more detailed review for each one.
I recommend reading through all of the products listed below before making a final decision. Some shine more than others, but each one has its ideal use case. Make sure to pay attention to both the pros and cons of each so you can be confident that the one you’re buying is the best option for you!
Vaginal Speculums Vs. Anal Speculums
While vaginal and anal speculum BDSM toys are closely related and essentially perform the same function, there is a slight difference in design between the two toys.
That said, when it comes to toys designed specifically for speculum play, some users do use these toys interchangeably. As with any other act you take against the recommendations of the manufacturer, proceed at your own risk!
Vaginal speculum BDSM toys generally feature two parts—called “bills”—which spread apart to allow the user to look inside the vagina. Anal speculums, on the other hand, use a similar design but usually have bills that look like a tube when closed.
This allows the device to be easily inserted inside the anus when properly lubed, where it can then be spread to the user’s desired spread.
Of course, there are many different designs used for these toys, so think of these descriptions as generalizations more than hard-set definitions!
Benefits of Using BDSM Speculums
The speculum kink is often closely associated with medical kinks, which makes sense as these are medical BDSM toys. If you have a medical fetish and want a new way to give your partner an “examination” then picking up a speculum could be a fruitful endeavor!
In a similar fashion, speculums can often be used for roleplaying, usually along the same medical guidelines.
However, speculums can also be used for watersports or for extreme anal gaping, where these toys can help users remain stretched out and accessible for long periods of time with minimal effort.
Reviews of the 5 best BDSM speculums
Test Winner Bondage Boutique Steel Vaginal Speculum
Overall Rating
4.5/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5.0
User Ratings:
4.4/5.0
Based on 36 user reviews
Rating: Bondage Boutique Steel Vaginal Speculum was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM speculum.
Rating: Bondage Boutique Steel Vaginal Speculum was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Bondage Boutique Steel Vaginal Speculum was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Bondage Boutique Steel Vaginal Speculum was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Bondage Boutique Steel Vaginal Speculum for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
If you have a speculum fetish but can’t quite figure out which model to buy then I think you’re sure to love my “Test Winner” pick.
The Bondage Boutique Steel Vaginal Speculum is a durable speculum that’s perfect for first-timers and more experienced users alike.
Being made from metal, this speculum is smooth to the touch and sturdy during use, ensuring you’ll be able to enjoy years of use from the device.
Even better, it’s completely sterilizable so you won’t need to worry about potential complications down the road.
Smooth, easy to use, and affordably, priced, the Bondage Boutique Steel Vaginal Speculum is an easy toy to recommend!
Pros
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Non-porous
- ✅ Bills are smooth
- ✅ Adjustable
Cons
- ❌ Not intended for anal use
- ❌ Painful if not relaxed
Verdict
This device earned the title of “Test Winner” for its durable and easy-to-use design, low price point, and beginner-friendly adjustability.
While there are other BDSM speculum toys out there that are easier to adjust, this one is still fairly straightforward. It also has two points of adjustability, which makes up for the slight complication increase.
Both bills on this speculum sex toy are smooth to the touch. This means you won’t need to worry about anything getting caught while inserting—or removing—the toy. That said, as some customers have pointed out, you’ll still want to be relaxed throughout the experience for maximum comfort.
All in all, the Bondage Boutique Steel Vaginal Speculum is simple enough for beginners, sturdy enough for more experienced users, and even has something to offer temperature play lovers. It’s definitely an option worth checking out.
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Cheapest Bondage Boutique Vaginal Speculum
Overall Rating
4.4/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.5/5.0
Reviewed by:
Kevin FoleyUser Ratings:
4.3/5.0
Based on 30 user reviews
Rating: Bondage Boutique Vaginal Speculum was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM speculum.
Rating: Bondage Boutique Vaginal Speculum was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Bondage Boutique Vaginal Speculum was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Cheap
Rating: Bondage Boutique Vaginal Speculum was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is affordable compared to other BDSM speculums.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I recommend Bondage Boutique Vaginal Speculum for beginners, it's easy to learn and use. Advanced users will also find it valuable.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Next up is the Bondage Boutique Vaginal Speculum. This speculum BDSM toy is a bit more beginner-friendly, both in design and in build quality.
The speculum itself is made from a hard plastic, which is smooth across both bills to ensure easy insertion & removal.
The toy has a single point of adjustability, making it ideal for someone who’s never used a speculum before.
Oh, and did I mention you can pick up your own for less than $15?
If you want to try using a speculum but don’t have a lot of money to blow then the Bondage Boutique Vaginal Speculum is a great option!
Pros
- ✅ Maximum spread of 4”
- ✅ Can be dismantled
- ✅ Single adjuster
- ✅ Affordable
Cons
- ❌ Not for anal use
- ❌ Made of plastic
Verdict
Costing less than $15 for the device, the Bondage Boutique Vaginal Speculum was the obvious choice for the “Cheapest” mention on this list. Still, despite the low price point, this speculum will do the job if you’re just starting to explore your speculum fetish.
It’s important to note that this isn’t a speculum anal toy. While it technically could be used for anal speculum BDSM play, the toy isn’t advertised for that use, so proceed with caution if you attempt that.
Design-wise, this toy is pretty good. It only has one point of adjustability, is smooth for painless insertions/removals, and is clear. This will prevent the device from limiting your view, unlike some other models.
However, being made of soft plastic means that this device can’t be sterilized. As such, you’ll only want to use this with one person. For use with multiple partners, I’d suggest looking into the metal version instead.
Overall, this is a great option for beginners and those who don’t want to spend a lot of money on their first speculum.
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Anal Stainless Steel Mathieu Anal Speculum
Overall Rating
4.3/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.3/5.0
Reviewed by:
Kevin FoleyUser Ratings:
0/5.0
Based on 0 user reviews
Rating: Stainless Steel Mathieu Anal Speculum was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM speculum.
Rating: Stainless Steel Mathieu Anal Speculum was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Stainless Steel Mathieu Anal Speculum was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Affordable
Rating: Stainless Steel Mathieu Anal Speculum was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest Stainless Steel Mathieu Anal Speculum if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
If your speculum fetish focused primarily on anal spreading then the Stainless Steel Mathieu Anal Speculum is the toy for you!
Made of stainless steel and easily locked into your desired position, this speculum anal toy has a maximum spread of 2” between its three prongs.
Each prong is smooth to the touch, meaning you’ll easily be able to slide them in with adequate lubrication.
Offering 3.5” of insertable length and a large handle that makes it easy to spread at will, the Stainless Steel Mathieu Anal Speculum is a great item to pick up for any fan of anal spreading!
Pros
- ✅ Easy to use
- ✅ Made of stainless steel
- ✅ Reasonably priced
- ✅ Single lock screw
Cons
- ❌ Maximum spread of 2 inches
Verdict
As my “Anal” pick on this list of toys, the Stainless Steel Mathieu Anal Speculum is specifically designed with anal play in mind. That’s not to say you can’t use it for vaginal spreading; just that it’s specifically designed for anal use.
With a maximum spread of only two inches, these medical BDSM toys are probably best suited for those with some—but not a lot of—prior experience with anal spreading. Some toys can spread much wider, which I think limits the appeal of this specific toy for those really into the speculum kink.
That said, it does have a few things going for it. The speculum is made of stainless steel, making it non-porous and able to be sterilized. It should also last for quite a long time, or even a lifetime with the proper care.
I also liked how you adjust the spread using the grip and then lock it into place with the adjustment screw. This is much better than having to fidget with a bunch of different screws.
If you’re still relatively new to the world of anal spreading or simply want to switch things up in the vaginal spreading department then I’d say this unique toy is worth adding to your collection!
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Vaginal & Anal Anal & Vaginal Speculum / Spreader
Overall Rating
4.7/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4.4/5.0
Reviewed by:
Kevin FoleyUser Ratings:
4.9/5.0
Based on 18 user reviews
Rating: Anal & Vaginal Speculum / Spreader was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM speculum.
Rating: Anal & Vaginal Speculum / Spreader was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Anal & Vaginal Speculum / Spreader was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Anal & Vaginal Speculum / Spreader was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest Anal & Vaginal Speculum / Spreader if you're past the beginner stage and ready for more. It's beginner-friendly yet offers additional features for growing users.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Next up is the Anal & Vaginal Speculum / Spreader, a toy that’s essentially safe to use no matter where you want to put it.
This speculum sex toy is made of non-porous stainless steel, meaning it can last a lifetime if properly cared for.
Rather than using bills like a traditional speculum toy, this device uses 4.29-inch-long prongs to spread your partner’s cavities.
All adjustments are completed using a single adjustment screw, making it easy to master the device.
Simple to use, dual-purpose, and perfect for those who want an extra-wide spread, the Anal & Vaginal Speculum / Spreader is more than worth the reasonable price tag it’s offered at!
Pros
- ✅ For vaginal or anal use
- ✅ Made of stainless steel
- ✅ Easy to adjust
- ✅ Non-porous
Cons
- ❌ Somewhat expensive
Verdict
As my “Vaginal & Anal” pick, this speculum BDSM toy is arguably the most useful on this list. True, it does step away from a more traditional design like you might find on other vaginal or anal speculum BDSM toys, but I think this works in its favor overall.
The speculum is adjusted using a single screw, offering a maximum spread of 5.31 inches combined with 4.29-inch prongs.
While this is probably excessive for some users, I think having the option to spread this wide makes this toy an appealing option. This is especially true if you anticipate being into speculum play for a while. What’s better than having a toy you can buy now and still enjoy in the years to come?
Yes, it is a bit pricier than some of the other options, and no, it doesn’t feature the traditional bills you’re likely to find on other models. Still, I’d say it’s definitely a good option to consider if you’re looking for a high-quality item that can give you years of enjoyment.
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Extreme Alloy Extreme Anal Spreader- Speculum
Overall Rating
4.3/5.0
Bedbible Rating:
4/5.0
Reviewed by:
Kevin FoleyUser Ratings:
4.7/5.0
Based on 17 user reviews
Rating: Alloy Extreme Anal Spreader- Speculum was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the BDSM speculum.
Rating: Alloy Extreme Anal Spreader- Speculum was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Alloy Extreme Anal Spreader- Speculum was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Pricey
Rating: Alloy Extreme Anal Spreader- Speculum was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I find Alloy Extreme Anal Spreader- Speculum ideal for those with some experience, offering a moderate challenge. It's accessible enough for all to try.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
Last but definitely not least on this list of speculum fetish toys is the Alloy Extreme Anal Spreader!
This device can be used as a speculum anal toy or a vaginal toy: the decision is up to you. Either way, you’ll have six points of adjustment to work with, enabling you to get the precise stretch you’re after for the perfect view.
Thanks to the small balls on the end of each rod, this device slips right into your partner with a bit of lube.
Simply pop it into place, start adjusting the wing nuts, and spread them to your heart’s desire!
Pros
- ✅ Made of alloy
- ✅ Maximum spread of 4.33”
- ✅ Six points of adjustment
- ✅ Easy-to-turn wingnuts
Cons
- ❌ Takes a bit to adjust
- ❌ Contains nickel
- ❌ Pricey
Verdict
I selected this as my “Extreme” pick for a reason… and it’s not just the fact that “Extreme” is in the name!
While this BDSM speculum might not have the widest spread of any speculum sex toy on this list, it does have the most adjustability. With six separate rods spreading your sub’s orifice apart, you certainly won’t be complaining about the 4.33” maximum spread!
The main downside of this toy is the fact that you’ll need to manually adjust each rod, which will take a bit of time and practice. Still, for someone with a speculum link or a passionate love for medical BDSM toys, I think this slight downside is worth the rewards you’ll reap later on.
Various customers have sung this toy’s phrases, and one person even mentioned using it alongside a vaginal camera. When you have a toy capable of spreading this widely and evenly, the options are really only limited by your imagination.
While I definitely wouldn’t recommend this to beginners or intermediate users, I think more advanced users who love spreading and speculums will get a lot of use from this toy.
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Comparison of the 5 best BDSM speculums
| Best | Test Winner | Cheapest | Anal | Vaginal & Anal | Extreme |
| Overall score | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | - | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 4.4 / 5.0 from 36 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 30 users | - | 4.9 / 5.0 from 18 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 17 users |
| Price | Affordable | Cheap | Affordable | Moderate | Pricey |
| Design | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 75 / 100 |
| Quality | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - |
| Materials | Metal | Plastic | Stainless steel | Stainless steel | Alloy |
| Length | 6 inches | 5 inches | - | (Spreader) 4.52 inches, (Prongs) 4.29 inches | - |
| Insertable length | 4.5 inches | 3.5 inches | 3.5 inches | - | - |
| Adjustable | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes (up to a spread of 5.31 inches) | Yes (up to a max spread of 3.75 inches) |
| Flexibility | Rigid | - | - | - | - |
| Waterproof | Splashproof | - | - | - | - |
| Allergies | Non-porous | Latex-free | Non-porous | Non-porous | - |
| Width | - | 1.19 inches | Spreads to a maximum of 2 inches | (Prongs) 1.22 inches | - |
| Fastening | - | Adjustable screw | Adjustment screw | - | - |
| Height | - | - | - | - | 0.80 inches |
| Diameter | - | - | - | - | (Outside) 4.76 inches, (inside) 4.29 inches, (screw) 0.32 inches, (ball) 0.43 inches |
Other BDSM Accessories That Are Great For Medical Play
Chances are, if you have a speculum fetish then you probably have most of these accessories already. However, if you’re just getting started and want to know what else you’ll need, simply refer to the list below for ideas and inspiration!
Lube Tube Applicator Syringe (2 Pack)
Applying lube by hand can get messy. Why not make things easier with a tube applicator? These syringes are easy to fill and completely reusable, making them one of the best things to have on hand before things get hot and heavy.
Anal Proctoscope
Perfect as a warmup toy or as an alternative to a speculum, this anal proctoscope inserts into their bum with ease. Simply remove the obturator—the middle part—for a better view!
Perfect Fit Medium Tunnel Anal Plug
This plug sides and stays in place, giving you a perfect viewing—as well as easy access—to your partner’s anus while keeping your hands free for a bit of exploring!
Adrenaline Spikes Metal Wartenberg Pinwheel
Equipped with 22 spikes designed to stimulate the skin underneath them, this Wartenberg Pinwheel is a great toy to add to your collection of foreplay devices!
Safe Use of BDSM Speculums
Speculum play, like any other type of BDSM play, requires constant and clear communication between all parties involved. This should be established before you even begin your speculum BDSM session by defining and discussing both your and your partner’s limits.
This is also the point where you’ll want to determine a “safe word” if you haven’t already. A safe word is simply a non-negotiable term that means “no”, as the word “no” doesn’t always mean “no” in BDSM. By having a safe world in place, you’ll be able to tell the difference between a roleplaying “no” and a “no, stop now”.
In regards specifically to both vaginal and anal speculum BDSM, you’ll want to take things slow and use lots of lube. Always start small and go slowly, as forcing a speculum is sure to result in injury.
BDSM Speculum Comparison
Whether you’ve read through the entire review or simply skimmed through the page, this next short section will give you a quick summary of the main points you need to know about these medical BDSM toys.
The “Bondage Boutique Steel Vaginal Speculum” came out as “Test Winner”. Offering a stainless steel construction and easy-to-use design, it’s a good all-around option for anything with a speculum kink.
If you’re on a budget, the Bondage Boutique Vaginal Speculum is your best option. Although it’s made from plastic and can’t be sterilized, it’s nonetheless a good choice for people who only plan on using the toy with one partner.
For anal enthusiasts, either the Stainless Steel Mathieu Anal Speculum or the Anal & Vaginal Speculum / Spreader are great options. The former is made specifically for anal use, while the latter is dual-purpose.
Lastly, if you just want the most impressive spread around, the Alloy Extreme Anal Spreader- Speculum should be your go-to toy. With six points of spread and a completely metal construction, this speculum is an excellent choice for more advanced speculum enthusiasts.
Reviewed by:
Kevin Foley