The 6 Best Sexual Board Games for Flirtatious Fun as a Couple
What Makes Bedbible's Picks Special?
There are so many reviews of sexual board games out there, we know. So, why should you care about our favorite game picks in particular?
This Bedbible review isn’t just my personal preference, it’s a round-up of the very best and most-loved sexy couples games out there. In fact, over 20 hours of research and writing by a sex toy expert and educator have gone into it! We started off by trawling the internet to see which sexy games have got people buzzing, reading countless user reviews and opinions from board game professionals. Only those that people really love made the cut, at which point we took a close look at each to see if it’s really worth your money. Our Bedbible Rating is the result, taking into account every game’s design, ease of use, quality, price and features.
Types of Sexy Board Games
Go to the ‘Adult Games’ section of any sex toy store and you’ll see a whole lot of sexy games designed for couples! But which is best for you and your partner? Well, here are the different kinds you have to choose from:
- Traditional Board Game — these are probably the most varied, with all different themes and ways to play. Sexual board games usually take the longest to play and are the most involved.
- Card Game — there are many different kinds of card games out there, from suggestions to pick out to sexy snap!
- Dice Game — sex dice are a classic of the sexy game genre, but did you know how many kinds are out there? There are foreplay dice, oral sex dice, and even kinky bondage dice!
- App — you don’t have to stay in the physical realm, either. Scroll down and you’ll see our favorite sexy game apps, too.
What are Sexual Board Games?
Sexual board games are... pretty much what you would expect! You take the concept of a board game (or card game, or dice game), and you add a little bit of spice. Usually designed for couples to play, sexy board games are often centered around flirty questions or challenges to get you both in the mood for love. They feature different levels of difficulty and involvement, from simply picking out cards with sexy suggestions on them, to fully-fledged games with all kinds of pieces. You can find sexual board games that focus more on flirting or foreplay, as well as games focusing on oral sex, sex positions, bondage and more!
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Monogamy Game: A Hot Affair for Couples
Monogamy might just be one of the most famous sexual board games out there, and we couldn’t make a list of the best adult games without including it! It’s a game designed to both reignite your sexual desire and tension as a couple, and get you talking together about your relationship and your fantasies.
The basics are that you move around the board with your player piece and the dice. When you land on a square, you have a challenge to complete, which could be a kiss, a sensual massage, an erotic dance, an intimate touch, a strip tease and more. Or, you’ll have to pick a card and complete whatever it says, choosing either a ‘His’ or ‘Hers’ challenge. This could be answering a question about your partner or completing an erotic challenge — kind of like truth or dare! There are three different levels of cards to choose from, depending on how sexy you want to get: intimate, passionate or steamy! Once you’ve completed one of these challenges, you get a ring to add to your player piece. Then, for every round you complete, you get to pick a ‘fantasy’ card with a detailed role play scenario for you to act out together.
There are a couple of accessories that you’ll need to collect before you start to really experience everything Monogamy has to offer. These include something edible, something to drink, massage oil and lube. Of course, you can play this sexual board game without all this, but it will definitely help you complete all of the challenges.
Monogamy is a game chock-full of variety and new ideas! Of course, how much you enjoy each challenge in this sexual board game will depend on your personal tastes. Some users prefer to build up the tension by starting out with the ‘intimate’ cards and working their way up to ‘steamy’, while others want to jump straight in at the deep end! In the end, we recommend picking what you feel comfortable with, and skipping ones that don’t sound so fun to you.
It’s also quite evident from the design of this game that it was made for heterosexual couples. You may notice that the ‘hers’ options are more question-focused while the ‘his’ options require more work, but we say: do whatever you want! If you’re a woman who prefers the ‘his’ option, what’s to stop you from doing it?
Finally, Monogamy may not be the most travel-friendly game on this list, since it requires quite a bit of prep and space. However, there are plenty of options below that can easily slip into your suitcase!
Naughty Truth or Dare Kit
We’re going from a more complex game to one of the simplest ones out there, but don’t let that fool you. This Naughty Truth or Dare kit takes the classic high school game, makes it less corny and a whole lot sexier!
It comes in an attractive and sturdy box, and includes 104 truth or dare cards for you to pick from. Choose between questions that will get you admitting all your fantasies, fetishes and experiences, or challenges that range from teasing to truly erotic! It’s perfect for couples looking to learn more about each other while getting totally turned on. Just break it out in the bedroom with a glass of wine and, soon enough, you’ll be raring to go. However, it also makes a great party game for close friends who you don’t mind get a little raunchy with. Plus, you can always skip some of the more explicit dares!
This Naughty Truth or Dare isn’t a full-on board game, but it is still certainly sexual! It might not be quite as involved, but it’s incredibly accessible and easy to pick up (and put down when the time comes *wink*).
Think of it as a deck of talking points — sometimes funny, sometimes sexy — and inspiration to spark new ideas for you and your partner. Plus, it’s small and discreet — perfect for taking away on a trip for some steamy hotel room sex.
Oral Fun Board Game
Oral Fun is a sexual board game that revolves around — you guessed it: oral sex. It’s very simple to get started with, but extremely pleasurable to get into!
To start off with, the player with the longest tongue goes first. You simply roll the dice and move around the board, landing on three different types of spaces. Each turn, you’ll have to either answer a sexy trivia question, take a drink, or complete an oral sex challenge. These challenges are incredibly varied, and incorporate all kinds of tools and accessories for you to bring into your play. This could be a blindfold, flavored lube, an ice cube, a lollipop and more. It’s all about surprising and delighting your partner in new and sensual ways!
The winner is the first to reach space 69, at which point we can almost guarantee that you’ll be all over each other!
Oral Fun is, in our opinion, one of the most replayable sexy board games out there. Since the main objective is just to give and receive pleasure, it’s hard for that to get old! Also, it doesn’t include any specific instructions for blowjobs vs cunnilingus, making this game suitable for all genders and relationships.
If you’re not a trivia person, then you might feel a bit sceptical. Unlike a game like Monogamy, Oral Fun is partly built around answering trivia questions, rather than answer questions about each other. However, you could play it without them if you choose, or switch them out for intimate questions you could ask each other. Drinking is also built-in to the game, which may or may not be your bag. Again, you could replace this with something else if you prefer.
Though Oral Fun does encourage all kinds of oral creativity, you will have to supply all the accessories yourself. They’re all pretty commonplace items in a blowjob kit, however, and you can play without them all if necessary.
Lovehoney Position of the Week Cards
This isn’t any ordinary pack of cards! The Lovehoney Position of the Week set includes 52 cards, each featuring a unique sex position for you to try out as a couple. That’s a whole year of inspiration!
On the front is a detailed yet tasteful image of the position, and on the back you’ll find written instructions on how to get into the position and tips on how to make it work better. Some also have tips on the difficulty, or suggestions on how you can spice it up even further! Maybe it’s a great position for intense eye-contact, or dirty talk, or deep penetration. The difficulty level varies, so you can work your way up from the easy to the more challenging positions, or shuffle them up and take one from the top of the pile for an extra element of mystery. There’s also a space on each card to rate each position out of five as you try it, so you know at a glance which ones to return to.
Okay, so the Lovehoney Position of the Week cards aren’t exactly a sexual board game, or even much of a game at all. However, we had to include this set, because it’s one of the best sets of new and interesting sex positions for couples that we’ve found! If you’re after more of a game-y feel, you could easily incorporate these cards into another activity, like truth or dare.
Some reviewers noted that several of the positions are quite similar, so if you’re going through them quickly, they might feel a tad repetitive. However, if you’re using this Position of the Week set as an occasional source of intimate inspiration, then this will probably become much less of an issue. Some users might also find themselves struggling with the difficulty of some of the positions, as they require quite a bit of flexibility and mobility! However, it’s easy to skip cards that aren’t appealing, or change them up a bit to fit your abilities.
Finally, as you can see in the images, this sexy game is geared heavily towards heterosexual couples. All the cards include instructions for ‘him’ and ‘her’, and the illustrations are solely male and female figures.
Sexy 6 Foreplay Dice Game
Sex dice — one of the most classic couples sex games out there! Of course, there are plenty of sex dice sets around, but we’ve done our research, and this one came out on top.
The Sexy 6 Foreplay Dice Game includes, you guessed it, 6 dice with 6 different categories on each. Simply roll the dice and it will give you a sensual scene to play out — and the best part is that it’s a total surprise! Roll all 6 dice at once, do it one-by-one, or choose to only roll a certain number of the dice, leaving the rest of the scene up to you or your partner’s discretion.
The dice categories are: ‘Who’, ‘Which’ (i.e. giving or receiving), ‘What’, ‘Where’, ‘When’ and ‘How’. For example you could roll ‘Me giving my partner gentle kisses on the inner thigh in the bedroom’, or ‘You giving rough sucking on the nipples in the bathroom’. In fact, there are a massive 720 possible combinations to roll!
This sexy game is great for beginners and those who are searching for some inspiration in the foreplay department. If you struggle with finding new ways to excite and arouse your partner, the Sexy 6 Dice set can give you the push you need! Look forward to longer, more spontaneous and more pleasurable foreplay sessions!
The Sexy 6 dice also come in a little mesh bag that’s perfect for taking away with you (or hiding away discreetly in a nightstand). Break them out whenever you feel the urge to spice up your couples playtime and you’ll never have a dull moment again!
Lovehoney Oh! Hot Knots Beginners Bondage Game
Bondage is such a common fantasy for so many of us, but bridging that gap between dreaming about it and actually giving it a go isn’t always easy. What should I use to tie someone up? Which positions actually feel good (while still being safe)? What else can I do to dominate my partner?
Well, of course, you could read our guides to BDSM for beginners, and how to be a dominatrix, but you could also try this beginner-friendly game from Lovehoney. Hot Knots is a simple card game that gets you trying out different scenarios including bondage, sensory play and more!
All you need to do is first read the safety instructions that come in the pack, then shuffle the deck of 56 cards and place them in front of you and your partner. Then, take turns to pick a card and follow its instructions, using the included silky blindfold and restraints as it suggests. Whether you tell your partner what it says or keep it a sexy surprise is up to you both. There are also 4 ‘Switch’ cards amidst the deck that, when played, allow you to switch from giving to receiving, depending on whether you want to be dominant or submissive.
Hot Knots is a sexual game designed for newbies to bedroom bondage. It’s a light bondage kit of sorts, with extra guidance to help you create a sensuous and kinky scene together. The clear instructions make it a very accessible and exciting introduction to the world of BDSM. Plus, it gives both of you equal chances to play around with power dynamics and experience being dominant and submissive.
The accessories it comes with aren’t exactly luxury bondage items, but they are satin-y soft to the touch and easy to use. If you want to graduate up from the included tools, you could use a set of bondage cuffs or even bed restraints instead!
The Couples Sex Game that Gets You Talking
Sex is better when you talk to each other! Now, we’re not talking about dirty talk here (though, that’s definitely not off the table if you’re into it!). Talking together with your partner about what you enjoy, what turns you on, and what you fantasize about is a surefire way to having more pleasurable and more intimate sex!
Sexy Game Apps to Try
There are lots of sexy game apps out there, but none quite like Kindu! It’s an app designed to help you connect with your partner by finding new ideas for you try together, and helping you communicate what you like and are interested in trying!
It’s free to download, and has both free and premium idea packs to choose from, all with different themes. Suggestions include things like designating one night a week to wearing lingerie, surprising your partner with a bubble bath and a massage, or even watching a video on Tantric sex positions! Rate each idea separately, and Kindu will choose the ones you’re both into to suggest!
If you want to bring toys into your sexy couples games, you can’t go wrong with Lovense! They’ve perfected the art of app-controlled sex toys, from vibrators to masturbators to butt plugs, all with powerful vibrations and more exciting functions.
The best part, however, is that you can control them all using the Lovense Remote app! Adjust all the functions from your phone via Bluetooth, sync the vibes to music or ambient sounds, or even create alarms. Then, have your partner log in and control your toys from anywhere in the world over Wifi. If they have a Lovense toy, too, you can sync them up and enjoy a uniquely connected experience!
How to Use Sexual Board Games
Of course, every sexual board game has its own rules! However, there are a few things you can do to take your sexy game experience, whichever one you choose, from corny and awkward to totally tantalizing…
Create a Sexy Atmosphere
So much of what makes great sex great is the mood! One thing that can really help with getting in the right headspace for a sexy time with your partner is to take some time to set the mood. Dim the lights, light some candles, play some music and get cozy. You could also dress up in something sensual and erotic to really get them going.
Customize Your Game How You Want!
Just because your sexual board game comes with a set of rules and instructions doesn’t mean you have to stick with them. If you don’t like one aspect of your game, or would rather do something else, then ignore it and go your own way! Bring in whichever accessories turn on you and your partner the most and make it your own.
Take it to the Next Level
Many sexual board games, like Monogamy for example, have different levels of play depending on how steamy you want to get. If you’re not ready to jump right in, start off at the more romantic end of things and take it slow, really teasing and toying with each other until you just have to take things up a notch!
How to Clean Sexual Board Games
As you might imagine, sexy board games might get a little messy during the course of playing them. That's especially true if you're incorporating extras like lube, drinks and food! However, most games boards can easily be wiped down before you store them away again. Cards can be a different matter, as many of them aren't waterproof. That's why we suggest you do your best to keep liquids and other substances away from game cards.
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.