DIY Your Own BDSM Zipper

Preparing the string

Depending on how long you want the zipper to be, you’ll need to decide how many pegs you want to use.

For a full body zipper, you should measure the places where the zipper will go on your sub, for example from under the breast to the buttocks- this way you won’t make it too short!

The pegs

Once you’ve cut your string to size, lay it in front of you; take your first clothespin and thread the string through the metal hole.

Once the string is through, tie a knot in the string on each side of the clothespin to ensure it doesn’t move about.

Repeat these steps for however long you want your zipper to be.

Tips for beginners

If your sub is a beginner, they might not take very painful practices as well; when it comes to a bdsm zipper, there are a few things you can do to make it more beginner friendly:

• glue padding on the clothespin grips (this makes the pinch a little softer)
• make shorter bdsm zippers instead of longer or full body ones (this helps to ease them in)

Getting ready

First and foremost, your sub should have shown active and informed consent towards the act, and you should have your safeword ready beforehand.

Attaching the clothespin zipper

Once in the scene, the bdsm zipper should be lined on the body in a straight line as this will give the easiest and cleanest release when pulled.

Time to play

There are a few different ways to approach using the zipper for example:

• attaching the zipper to your sub yourself and watching them squirm under your touch (they won’t know when you’re going to release it!)
• having your sub attach it to themselves whilst you watch
• pulling the zipper off in one quick motion (this is intense)
• pulling the zipper off slowly (painful)

Extreme Full Body Zipper by Stockroom

This full body bdsm zipper does exactly what it promises to do, and then some! The 68″ rawhide lace is super durable, not to mention aesthetically pleasing, and the 24 wooden clothespins give the bite of your sub’s life.

The whole contraption is completely durable and crafted from high quality materials- there’s no danger of snappages with this beauty!

1. Dip your toe in

Not literally (unless you’re into that!).

What we mean by this is, don’t dive straight into a converation with your partner and overload them with topics of bdsm acts and everything you want to try right here right now; it’s a lot of information to take in and if they’re completely new to the idea of it, this might deter them.

Instead, try starting a conversation about your sex-life, things that turn you on, and then things that you’d like to try. Be sure to ask them if there is anything they’d like to try aswell- you might be surprised!

2. Consent- it’s simple

Ask your partner how they feel about what you’re discussing, and if it’s something they feel comfortable with- consent comes before anything!

Be sure to check their body language too; are they saying ‘yes’ to the conversation, but look visibly uncomfortable? This is a sign that they’re not ok with what is being discussed.

3. Show them what you want

If your partner is into the conversation and you’re both talking about what you’d like to try, great!

There might be some things that you want to try that your partner has never heard of; this is why it can be a good idea to show them what you mean. For example, using a bdsm zipper- show them what these devices are and what they achieve when used.

You can do this by showing them porn, pictures, or research of the things you want to try (with consent, of course).

4. Confidence is key

If this is something you really want, be sure to show confidence when you speak about it; if you sound unsure, you’ll only be sending mixed signals!

Of course, if you are genuinely unsure, you can still talk to your partner about it- be open and honest and see how you both feel.

Safety

First and foremost, safety should be your priority!

This includes making the space and play safe for yourself and your sub, aswell as maintaining and assessing any furniture or toys used, to ensure tgey are safe to use.

Create a safe word

A safe word is an essential part of any bdsm play and setting.

The safe word should be something that you might not usually say during play, instead of something that you would- this would make it hard for the dom to distinguish whether the sub is being serious.

For example, if your play involves ‘forced roleplay’, then the word ‘no’ or ‘stop’ may be something that is said as part of the play- therefore, the safe word should be something other than this.

Practice aftercare

There are a few steps that should be taken to ensure the sub is feeling alright after a scene has ended:

• Treat sore spots- sometimes bdsm scenes can leave sore spots; tend to these with care
• Eat or drink- it’s important to keep your energy up after physically, emotionally, or mentally tiring scenes
• Cuddle (if wanted!)- after a scene, some people crave intimacy whilst others want alone time- it’s whatever makes you feel best!
• Communicate- talk about what went well, what you liked, and what you’d want to change- communication is a great way to wind down after a scene
• Rest- it may go without saying for some people, but you’ll most likely need a good nap or a rest after a scene