Whether you are locked up long-term or enjoy a few days under lock and key here and there, chastity games are a great way to add more excitement and amp up the sense of anticipation.
There are many different reasons for using chastity devices, but many enjoy chastity play for the thrill of relinquishing control of their genitals to someone else and the building anticipation for when they are finally released.
Many report that a stint in chastity can lead to some explosive orgasms when they are released, which isn’t surprising considering all that built-up tension!
Choosing a Chastity Device to Use in Your Chastity Games
Before you can get started with your first game, you need to make sure you’ve got something to keep you tightly locked up with no chance of escape — we wouldn’t want anyone breaking the rules now, would we?
No matter what genitals you are sporting there’s a device out there for you!
Devices range from tame (ish) to torturous, so there’s a good range to choose from. If you plan on wearing your device for longer periods of time, you might want to go for something softer and with more ventilation.
Here are my top picks for penis owners and vulva owners.
Cock Cages
Cock cages put your penis on an erection lockdown. The small, curved shaft locks to the ring around your testicles, preventing you from getting a hard-on or at least making it very uncomfortable when you do!
Best for Beginners: Hunkyjunk Lockdown Elastomer Chastity Device
If you are new to chastity play, you might want to start with something a little softer to get used to the sensation and strengthen your powers over your erections. A bit of mind over member strength training!
This penis cage is made from a blend of silicone and elastomer, so it’s has a bit of give in it, but it’s still heavy enough to restrict any forbidden erections. It’s also a great option if you want a comfortable and discreet cage to wear for longer periods of time. It is almost like a bird cage, but not in steel though. You can also consider reading the Man Cage Chastity cage review.
More Advanced: CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit
If you prefer a more secure penis prison then a solid penis cage with a lock is what you need.
When choosing a penis cage, seze really does matter, so make sure to measure yourself properly before buying your cage.
The CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit comes in clear plastic so you can look but you can’t touch — so cruel!
The padlock ensures you won’t be getting out for any sneaky fun before you are allowed.
Chastity Belts for People with Vulvas
If you need to keep your vulva vaulted and locked away from any wandering hands or sex toys, then you will need a female chastity belt.
They usually consist of an adjustable harness that covers either just the vulva or the vulva and anus.
Unfortunately, they aren’t quite as secure or practical as penis cages, as they interfere with using the toilet, but they do look pretty amazing! Here are my top chastity belts for playing chastity games.
Best for Beginners: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Lockable Female Chastity Belt
This sexy black chastity belt from Dominix Deluxe features two locks that will keep you tightly locked up with no hope of sweet relief until the game says so. The harness is made from leather with a padded gusset for added comfort. The heart cut out is the icing on the cake, giving you and your partner a teasing glimpse of the forbidden fruit beneath!
More Advanced: Deluxe Female Chastity Belt, Pink Leather
Let the Chastity Games Begin!
Now you’ve got your equipment, and you are locked and ready to play, the only remaining step is to choose a game and get playing! These are just suggestions and all of the games can be altered to suit your needs and desires. You might want to make it shorter or longer or find even more ways to tease and torture your partner before you let them out!
On Ice
This game is great for solos or couples and only requires some basic props. To play, place your key in a container full of water put it in the freezer until it’s frozen solid. When you or your keyholder decide some play time is on the cards, take the frozen block and let it melt to release the key. They say a watched pot never boils, but in this case, it’s more like a watched block of ice never melts. You’ll be desperate with anticipation as you watch and wait, but be careful not to upset your keyholder though, or they might just put it back in the freezer!
The Luck of the Dice
The sky really is the limit when it comes to dice-based chastity games and you can keep adding new rules as your chastity play develops.
Here’s a simple one to get you started. Take two dice. The first one decides how many days you are locked up, so it could be one day or six depending on the luck of the roll! The roll decides how many minutes you will be allowed out for by taking the number on the dice and multiplying it by 10. If you roll a six, lucky you — that’s a whole hour of freedom. Just hope you don’t roll a one! You can also add a third dice/roll to decide what you will be allowed to do when you are released by giving each number a specified activity (e.g., 1 = oral sex, 2 = penetrative sex, and so on).
Keyholder Quiz
This is the perfect way to demonstrate your devotion to your keyholder by showing just how well you know them! Have your keyholder come up with questions about themselves that you must answer. Each correct answer banks a number of minutes of freedom, but each wrong answer takes minutes from the bank. End up in minus points, and it’s up to your keyholder to decide your punishment!
Chasity Treasure Hunt
If you love the thrill of the chase and want something a little more involved then why not try a sexy scavenger hunt that could lead to freedom! Have your keyholder come up with clues, riddles, or tasks you must solve to get the next clue. This is a game that can keep going so it’s up to your keyholder how many clues there are before the final one. For even more anticipation, they can keep it a secret, so you never know if you are near the end or not!
Goals, Goals, Goals
Tired of setting yourself goals only to give up after the first few days? You might be more motivated if you knew sticking to them would you earn your freedom! Each time you complete the goal, you earn time out of chastity, and each time you skip it — you guessed it — there’s a punishment! It could be time taken away or any other punishment your keyholder deems appropriate. This is another game that’s perfect for solo or partner play.
In a Predicament
If you love the squirming indecision of being stuck between a rock and a hard place, then predicament chastity games will really get you going. Think of it as a cruel and kinky version of ‘would you rather.’ This is especially fun for keyholders who love to be cruel. Make your captive choose between more time in lockdown or a task you know they won’t enjoy. If you love humiliation play, is the game for you!
Card Games
Cards are another great tool for chastity games as you can invent so many different rules. If you’ve ever played King’s Cup (a.k.a. Ring of Fire or Waterfall) then you’ve got a ready-made chastity game! Assign each card a different sex act or free time allowance and let the cards decide! It’s still up to your keyholder to choose when a card can be selected though. Put the cards somewhere you can see them for some extra teasing!
Hide and Seek
Have your keyholder hide the key and let the search begin! You can make this as short or as long as you like. For a quick game, let your partner hide the key somewhere around the house. Make it even more exciting by having them tease you while you search, upping the ante for finding the key. For a longer game, expand your search area and have your keyholder drop you clues.
Get Out on Good Behaviour
This is chastity game is perfect for exploring domination and submission and it’s a win-win for both partners. You get the pleasure of being locked up and pleasing your keyholder and they get to be treated like a King or Queen! You keyholder can make requests that you can choose to complete. It could be anything from cooking them a nice meal to giving them some outstanding oral sex! They must then mark your efforts out of 10 and your score corresponds to how long you will be unlocked for.
Climax on the Clock
If your keyholder is a stickler for time, then this might be a quick, fun game to play! When they decide to release you, you will have a set time to orgasm, and for every minute you go over time, you extend your time back in total genital lockdown. They really get to be as kind or as cruel as they like here!
What Can Chastity Games Add to Your Chastity Play?
While the thrill of chastity alone can be enough to leave you tingling with excitement and wondering when you’ll get your next peek of freedom, chastity games can add a more playful edge to your days in lockdown.
Once locked in to your chosen chastity device the game decides when you are released and maybe even what you will be allowed to do.
In some situations that means you will be answering to both your keyholder or Dom/Domme and the game for a double dose of submission!
- Games can keep things more spontaneous and help you break out of routines.
- They can be a great way to get started with chastity play and try something new with your partner.
- It might make it more fun for the keyholder, especially if this isn’t a role they particularly enjoy or aren’t that confident in.
- There are chastity games for solo or partner play.
- The element of chance and luck can add more excitement.
- You can come up with games to suit your needs
- You can turn pretty much anything into a chastity game. Your imagination is the only limit here!
Chastity Game Safety
We want to have some good, clean, kinky fun and part of that is making sure everyone involved is kept safe, so make sure to follow these guidelines for safe play.
- Always follow the rules of safe, sane, sober, and consensual for both the keyholder and the person in the chastity device.
- Agree on boundaries and a safeword/signal beforehand.
- Always, always keep a spare key that you can access in case of emergency.
- Makes sure to clean and dry your genitals and chastity device regularly.
- Regurlarly check for chaffing or irritation and remove the device if your skin becomes broken or irritated.