5 Best Plus Size Strap On Harnesses

Why I Chose It

I’ve picked out the Spareparts Joque as the Test Winner in this review because it’s one of THE best strap-on harnesses we’ve tested here at Bedbible. This thing is super sturdy and made of high-quality breathable materials that are comfortable to wear. Not only is the adjustable range quite wide, the harness itself is available in two different sizes. This makes it lot more likely for you to find that perfect fit for your body. The largest size (Size B) will fit waists between 30-65 inches.

“Having used only lower-quality harnesses before, this harness is a game-changer. Not only is it super comfortable and easy to adjust, the control is amazing. I noticed immediately that it was responding to my movements, and my girlfriend noticed too.”

This was how our tester, Jen, described her experience with this harness. However, the vibrator pockets aren’t placed perfectly for clitoral stimulation. Jen found that it paired better with a hands-free panty vibrator instead.

It’s easy to clean since it can be thrown in the washing machine. The only thing you need is a suitable dildo to put in it since it doesn’t come with one.

Why I Chose It

If you are looking to ease into strap-on play without spending too much, consider the Tracy Cox Supersex Pegging kit. I love how this kit offers a lot of versatility. The dildos can be used for solo play and they offer different textures, shapes, and sizes.

Emiel, our tester, also found that it was made to fit a really wide range of sizes. Since he’s quite petite and short, the excess strap length did hang a bit awkwardly from the harness.

As for how sturdy it was, “the harness sat snug on my body the entire time […]. Even with faster paced thrusting, everything stayed really secure. The bullet vibe held against me well, so I was able to get clitoral stimulation (my preferred way to get off)”.

One minor drawback about this kit is that the packaging is super gendered. This is always disappointing to me since it just contributes to some unnecessary discomfort among some customers. I definitely prefer more diverse and neutral designs.

Why I Chose It

The Desire Luxury Vibrating Strap-On Kit is a perfect kit for those who love vibrations and want a good quality product. I wanted to include it in this review because of its strong vibrations and its diverse sizing options. It comes with a handy storage bag that can be zipped up.

Now, how wide the range of adjustability is on these straps actually isn’t specified completely on Lovehoney. However, our tester, Peter, confirmed that it “will fit from a slim person all the way up to the fuller figure ladies, we can vouch for this as my beautiful wife is an absolute stunning BBW lady and fitted with no problems.”

As far as the quality goes, the dildo itself is “super smooth and it has an amazing velvety feel”. The vibrations are surprisingly powerful and Peter and his wife “had no issues with the loudness, as its so quiet you can hardly notice anything.”

One thing to keep in mind is that it’s only available in one color. The shape and size of the dildo may also not be suitable for everyone. Peter found the length good but he personally preferred a “slightly thicker” shaft and perhaps a more realistic look.

Why I Chose It

The Lovehoney Unisex Strap-On Harness Briefs are perfect for those who want something a bit more comfortable and suitable for long-term wear as well as something a bit less “feminine”. As our tester, Vern, noted, “they’re affordable, stylish, and are made for a variety of bodies and necessities.”

The soft and stretchy cotton makes them super comfortable. That also means that it’s perfect for wearing on a day-to-day basis with a packer.

As far as strapping goes, most harnesses will come with multiple o-rings for different dildo sizes. “This strap-on underwear, however, is only equipped with one ring that can’t be traded out.” Luckily, the 1.5 inch diameter is a fairly average size and you’ll be able to find a lot of dildos that will fit in the harness.

Now to the sizing issue. These briefs are available in a few different sizes and the fabric has a fair bit of give. For people who use any size under XXL, they’ll likely be able to find a comfortable fit. I would have loved to see more sizing options for those over a size XXL.

“As a fat trans masc person, I struggle to find the right size and fit for me that won’t make me feel more dysphoric or dysmorphic. […] I got a XXL, and I’ll admit they don’t fit me perfectly since I’m in between sizes. I wish that Lovehoney would create larger sizes for this harness, as well as have a clearer guide on measuring yourself to find the best fit for you.”

Why I Chose It

Last but not least, we have the Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness. This sexy little piece is a great introduction to strap-on play since it basically is worn like underwear. No straps to adjust or buckles to secure. This thing slips right on and feels snug and comfortable while on.

Isabelle, our tester, really loved the sexy design. She especially liked that it “had a cut out back as it allowed me to also have some extra fun while wearing it! Perfect for pairing with a cute butt plug. I wore it with my Rosebuds butt plug  and the Swarovski crystal really took the whole look to the next level!”

“It’s also very easy to slip a dildo into the elasticated O-ring.” Although, the small downside of having just one size o-ring is that you are limited to using dildos that fit in that diameter.

As far as the strapping experience goes, “the dildo sits well in the harness but does require a little stabilization, because the fabric can stretch as you thrust.” This is alright for occasional use, but for regular use, I would recommend something like the SpareParts Joque for more stability.

Similarly to the briefs, this piece isn’t what I technically would call plus-size. Yes, it’s available in multiple sizes and up to a XXL. While the fabric of this harness is fairly stretchy and will be able to accommodate some larger bodies, I do wish there were even bigger sizes available.