5 Best and Most Realistic Dildos
As a sworn dildo expert, I’ve tested all kinds of realistic dildos out there. I’ve even tested out different sizes, materials, and shapes. At this point, I am well-versed in the subject of realistic insertables, and I’m here to introduce you to the best ones we’ve tested here at Bedbible. I’ll be giving you some personal insights from our testers’ in-depth reviews, as well as the most important pros and cons about each product. Let’s have a look!
Test Winner | Runner-Up | Best for Beginners | Budget-Friendly | Expert Pick |
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Blush Neo Elite 7.5 Dildo With Balls | Vixen Tex | Blush Neo Elite 7.5″ Dildo | Colours Dual Density 5″ Dildo | Vixen Vixskin Johnny |
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How We Test realistic dildos
We’re a team of 345 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best realistic dildos, our testers tried and reviewed 123 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre realistic dildos didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1275 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
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Test Winner Blush Neo Elite 7.5 Inch Double Density Dildo With Balls
- Detailed realistic texture with balls
- Slight upward curve
- Suction cup base.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Perfect size for different experience levels and versatile use
- ✅ Suction cup is nice and strong
- ✅ Balanced stiffness and softness in the shaft feels super realistic
- ✅ Hypoallergenic high quality silicone that's easy to clean
Cons
- ❌ May be a bit too soft for some
Why I Chose It
I picked the Blush Neo Elite 7.5 Dildo With Balls as the Test Winner of this review because it’s the perfect all-rounder. The insertable length and diameter are a perfect medium to keep intermediate users happy while still being approachable for newbies. With the veins and the pronounced head, our tester, Ashley, found that “the details and textures of the Blush Neo Elite are a pleasurable experience, and feel wonderful!”. The balls really do complete the whole look and make the experience a lot more lifelike.
A non-negotiable for realistic dildos, in my opinion, is the dual density feature. The soft outer layer and the solid core creates “the perfect firmness to give you that real feel” and mimic an actual erection. For Ashley, this dildo stood out compared to her other experienced with dual density dildos: “The Blush Neo Elite 7.5 Inch Dildo With Balls takes first place in my nightstand drawer as far as double layered dildos go!”.
The last thing I want to point out about this product is the price. Our top picks are usually high-end, high quality products from trusted (yet expensive) brands. The Blush Neo Elite 7.5 Dildo With Balls is not overly expensive. It’s a Test Winner that most people will actually be able to afford. It still offers a premium quality experience with the dual-density platinum-cured silicone, and a great design that allows for versatile use.
Runner-Up Vixen Creations Vixskin Tex
- Shorter shaft with an insertable length of 5.25 inches
- Relatively smooth texture without raised veins
- Non-slip base.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Super durable and very long-lasting
- ✅ Unique Vixskin silicone formula is very elasticated and squishy
- ✅ Great for use with a strap-on harness
- ✅ Beginner-friendly size and texture
Cons
- ❌ Too short to be used hands-free
- ❌ Non-slip base is not as strong as a true suction cup base
- ❌ Expensive
Why I Chose It
I absolutely LOVE Vixen dildos. Their dual density dildos feel unbelievably realistic because of the unique silicone formula. This elasticated silicone feels super soft and squishy while still remaining 100% non-porous and body-safe. So, I simply had to include the Vixen Tex as the Runner-Up in this review.
Similarly to our Test Winner, this one is a great every-day size for both beginners and intermediate users. Rachel, who tested it, found that “As a go-to dildo, it ticks almost every box! My only complaint is that the shaft was not quite long enough for me to use hands-free, especially when the suction of the base was not so strong”.
In terms of sensation, the Tex doesn’t have a lot of texture, which makes it less overwhelming to use for vigorous thrusting. As far as that unique silicone formula goes, “One squish of that dual density head and I was certain that the Tex would feel pretty amazing to use. It really does have a very realistic feel, and felt wonderfully filling to use”.
Another small con is that Vixskin toys do have a bit of a sticky surface that easily attracts dust and lint. Just be prepared to rinse it before use!
Best for Beginners Blush Neo Elite 7.5″ Dual Density Dildo
- Very tapered tip for easy insertion
- Curved shaft and raised veins for added texture
- Suction cup base
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Incredibly soft skin-like sensation
- ✅ Size and shape is neither intimidating nor unatisfying
- ✅ Great for hands-free use (both with the suction cup and in a harness)
- ✅ Ideal for anal play
Cons
- ❌ Too soft and flexible to provide good internal massage
- ❌ Not the most realistic design compared to other dildos
Why I Chose It
I wanted to include a realistic dildo for all of those newbies out there looking for their first ever dildo and want something lifelike. Our tester, Alice, found that it was an ideal starter toy. “With an approachable size and girth, as well as hyper-realistic surfacing and finishes, it is an easy and accessible tool to use during individual play, partnered or group play, and pegging”.
The main reason I picked the Blush Neo Elite 7.5″ Dual Density Dildo as the best option for beginners is the super tapered tip. This makes insertion very easy and comfortable for those don’t have much experience with insertables. This design features also makes it ideal for any anal adventures!
“I used the Blush Neo Elite 7.5″ Dual Density Dildo in a number of ways, and each of them worked wonderfully. This is a high-performance dildo with many useful applications, and I highly recommend not only this product, but creatively exploring what this product can do for you!” I always recommend versatile products to beginners because it’s nice to experiment with different uses and positions. The suction cup is also sturdy and reliable. This just adds to an already pretty versatile toy.
“I did occasionally feel as though the dual density feature of this dildo, which feels so nice on the skin and is a fantastic quality, left me with the sensation that the penis I had inside of me was a bit flaccid. I usually prefer a sturdier dildo, but that didn’t deter my enjoyment of the Blush Neo Elite 7.5″ Dual Density Dildo.”
Budget-Friendly Colours Dual Density 5″ Dildo
- Very pronounced glans
- Realistic design with balls
- Suction cup base.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Realistic look and feel with the balls included
- ✅ The glans provides good g-spot and a-spot massage
- ✅ Strong suction cup base for hands-free fun
Cons
- ❌ May be too soft for some
- ❌ Suction cup could use a tab to help remove it from surfaces
Why I Chose It
Introducing the best budget-friendly option, the Colours Dual Density 5″ Dildo. Now, while this dildo is actually in the same price range as most of the other dildos in this review, it is THE cheapest option of them all. Luckily, this also means that choosing this dildo doesn’t require a sacrifice on quality or performance. It’s still a dual density dildo that’s made of high quality, platinum-cured silicone, just like all the other products on this list.
What stands out to me about this dildo is the pronounced tip with a large glans. This provides some nice during penetration as well as some extra g-spot or a-spot stimulation. On the other hand, our tester, Ashley, did find the inner core to be bit too soft, which does mean that it isn’t great for intense massage on those areas. Flexibility is great for beginners but less ideal when you’re looking for firm internal massage. This may also be a problem if you’re looking to use it for anal penetration, since a soft dildo will be more tricky to insert. Although, this was the “only real flaw” that Ashley had to point out.
The suction cup is also incredibly reliable and will withstand even the most vigorous riding! Ashley adds that “the suction cup makes it a great option for anyone with grip issues to use easily, as they can go hands-free!”. It can be a bit tricky to release the suction seal but the strength behind it definitely makes up for that.
Expert Pick Vixen Vixskin Johnny
- Luxury realistic dildo with soft and squishy balls
- Thick shaft with a diameter ranging from 1.75″ to 2″
- Balls double as a grinder and a handle.
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Hyper-realistic look and feel
- ✅ Vixskin silicone formula feels amazing
- ✅ Super satisfying girth
- ✅ Great for strap-on play
- ✅ The soft balls add some good cushioning
Cons
- ❌ Pricey
- ❌ Too thick for less experienced users
- ❌ No suction cup base
Why I Chose It
I’ve said it once in this review, and Ill say it again: I LOVE Vixen dildos! Therefore, my expert pick for this round-up review is, without a doubt, the Vixen Vixskin Johnny! We’re looking at a high-quality dildo with hyper-realistic features and an impressive size.
While some realistic dildos can look a bit “fake” if you look closely, the resemblance Johnny has a to real erect penis is almost uncanny. Our tester, Kasia, was initially “a bit weirded out by how realistic it looked, but after some time, I started admiring how beautiful (and big!) this penis was”.
The dual density along with the unique elasticated silicone formula makes it feel nice and squishy but still as firm as a real erection! Kasia also found that the balls were nice and squishy and actually provided some good cushioning during those deep thrusts.
As far as the size goes, Johnny is made for people who enjoy more girthy penetrative play, since the widest point is 2 inches in diameter. While Johnny looks a bit intimating “it doesn’t feel as huge as it looks, because of how soft and squishy it is”. Alternatively, for total beginners, I would opt for the Vixen Mustang or the Vixen Tex.
The main drawback about Johnny is that he doesn’t have a suction cup base. This does limit the versatility quite a bit, especially for solo play. However, the flat base works great in a strap-on harness.
Comparison
Best | Test Winner | Runner-Up | Best for Beginners | Budget-Friendly | Expert Pick |
Overall score | 5.0 / 5.0 | - | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.1 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.9 / 5.0 from 50 users | - | 4.9 / 5.0 from 56 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 35.6 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 25 users |
Price | Affordable | Pricey | Affordable | Affordable | Pricey |
Design | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Ease of use | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
Quality | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Sound | - | - | - | - | - |
Power | - | - | - | - | - |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - | - |
Length | 7.5 inches | 5.75 inches | 7.5 inches | 6.8 inches | 8 inches |
Insertable length | 5.5 inches | 5.25 inches | 7 inches | 5.3 inches | 7 inches |
Diameter | 1.5 inches | 1.75 inches | 1.5 inches | 1.5 inches | 1.8 inches |
Materials | Platinum silicone | Platinum silicone | Platinum silicone | Platinum silicone | Platinum silicone |
Colors Available | Vanilla, Orange, Pink | Vanilla, Caramel, Chocolate, Tie Bright | Vanilla, Blue, Pink | Vanilla, Chocolate, Dark Chocolate, Blue, Purple, Pink | Vanilla, Caramel, Chocolate, Tie Bright, Midnight Pearl |
If You’re Looking For…
- The best value for money – Our Test Winner, the Blush Neo Elite 7.5 Inch Double Density Dildo With Balls, is pretty affordable and has a great size and a versatile design.
- The largest realistic dildo – The Vixen Vixskin Johnny is definitely the biggest option in this review with a diameter of 2″ and an insertable length of 7″.
- The most realistic sensation – The Vixen Tex offers the most lifelike penetration out of all the dildos in this review.
Where to Buy the Most Realistic Dildos
Best Online Shops:
If you buy sex toys online, I recommend you only use legitimate and trustworthy online sex shops that offer good customer service and discrete packaging.
My favorite shops to use are Lovehoney, SheVibe, and HustlerHollywood.
Brands you can trust:
Many shops have a wide selection of realistic dildos, but it’s hard to judge the product just from looking at it online or even from first impressions at a physical store.
So here are the best brands that offer the best quality realistic dildos:
- Vixen Creations
- Uberrime
- Blush – Dr.Skin
How to Choose a Realistic Dildo
Choosing a realistic dildo isn’t always the easiest thing to do. There are a lot of things you need to consider. But where do you start? Well here are a few of the things that you need to keep in mind when shopping for a realistic dildo!
- Features – Most realistic dildos are similar to each other in a lot of ways, but also very different. Some are textured with raised veins and big heads and others are smooth. Some vibrate, some have a suction cup to attach to a wall, some are anal-safe while others aren’t. Think about what kind of experience you want!
- Color – Sometimes the feel of a realistically textured dildo isn’t enough, and you want the full package. That’s why some people go for skin colored dildos, to add that cherry on top to the realism. Others prefer something colorful and bright to use. It’s a personal choice! Many brands also offer a wide range of different skin tones to choose from.
- Materials – There are materials that are 100% non-porous and body-safe, like silicone, glass, and metal. You should by all means avoid porous materials, like TPE, PVC, jelly, or soft plastic since these materials harbor dirt and bacteria over time.
- Size/thickness – The size and girth of realistic dildos is part of what makes them so…well, realistic! Some people like to go deep, some people like a good stretch, others not so much. Have a look at the length and width of the dildo and consider how it matches your needs and anatomy.
- Price – More expensive dildos do tend to be higher quality items that are a lot more long-lasting than some cheaper, lower quality models. These also tend to offer more variety in skin tones and colors available. However, cheap doesn’t have to equal poor quality. Check if the brand has good reviews and offers high quality materials, and you may very well find a decent match for your budget.
Why Should I Buy a Realistic Dildo?
Here are some of the reasons to treat yourself with a lifelike dong!
To fulfill your fantasies
If you have a particular fantasy or desire, a realistic dildo can help fulfill it!
Fulfill your dreams about double penetration, threesomes, or playing with large, girthy toys. The realistic dildo can be a safe way to experiment and explore your desires without involving another person.
For a realistic solo or couple pleasure
A realistic dildo can provide a satisfying sexual experience for solo or couples’ play! You can use dildos with a harness for pegging action or lesbian sex. And the realistic textures, like raised veins and pronounced head, will add very satisfying sensations!
So many choices!
Just like real penises, there are all sorts of shapes, colors, and sizes to explore when it comes to realistic dildo. Having so many options to choose from allow you to find one that suits your personal preferences and needs. For example, you can get realistic dildos with a suction cup base, a vibrating motor, or even squirting features!
Single-density vs. Dual-density vs. Triple-density
Reading through this post, you might be a bit confused about the whole dual-density thing, but don’t worry, I am here to explain everything!
Single-density, dual-density, and triple-density are terms used to describe the different levels of firmness and density of a dildo.
It’s a common feature with more realistic dildos since different layers of density add to the realistic sensations.
Single-density
Single-density dildos are made from a single material with a consistent density throughout the toy.
This means the toy will feel the same firmness from base to tip. The single-density doesn’t feel as realistic as the other types, but usually, this is the most budget-friendly option!
Dual-density
Dual-density dildos have a softer outer layer and a firm inner core.
This creates a more realistic feeling; the outer layer will feel more like skin while the inner core provides firmness and support that feels similar to an erection.
Dildos with dual-density feel extremely realistic, almost like the real thing!
Many top-quality realistic dildos offer this feature, so if you value life-like sensation, this is the one I recommend looking for.
Triple-density
Triple-density dildos have three layers of different types of firmness and density.
The outer layer is soft and flexible, the middle layer is firmer and more supportive, and the inner core is the firmest layer for added stability.
This creates an extremely lifelike feel, with the outer layer providing the softness and squishiness of skin, the middle layer mimicking muscle, and the inner core feeling like a firm, erect penis.
The triple-density is the best option for extremely natural sensations and those who want the best of the best realistic dildo!
Reviewed by:
Ashley Snyder