The 7 Best Restraint Kits for Bedroom Bondage

Bea Javier
by Bea Javier
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Are you looking for the best restraint kit? Then you’re in the right place. Stepping into the world of BDSM or bondage play is remarkably exciting and will make things inside the bedroom more fun. If you’re looking for restraint kits that will help you start this journey, this review is going to be your ultimate guide to finding that perfect kit, understanding the safety basics, additional options, and how to use the kit properly. The fun starts now.

FAQ

Are restraint kits safe to use?
Any bondage play toy is safe as long as you know how to use it properly. Make sure you read the instructions carefully and watch reviews first before you use them. You should also have your partner's consent.
Who can use a bed bondage restraint kit?
Anyone, regardless of gender and sexuality, can use the restraint kit. It all depends on what level you are in BDSM. If you're a beginner, find a kit that will suit your preferences the most.
Is a bdsm restraint kit expensive?
It's inevitable that some bedroom restraint kits are costly. It's usually because of the inclusions, quality, and functionality. Luckily, there are ones that are cheap and beginner-friendly but are still top-tier. You can look through our reviews to find the perfect one that suits your budget.
What if my partner doesn't want to try bondage play?
People have different tastes and preferences. If your partner doesn't want to try BDSM, you can always look for other ways to spice things up inside the bedroom! Forcing them to do it is not the answer.
What do I do when my partner is a BDSM beginner?
If your partner is a bondage play beginner, don't force them to use advanced-level toys. Fortunately, there are excellent beginner-friendly restraint kits out there. You can explore this review to find the ideal kit.

What is a restraint kit?

A restraint kit is a type of BDSM toy that consists of several items including a blindfold, restraints, cuffs, dildos, harnesses, and even sensory toys. It's used for bondage play. Couples who are into the dominant-submissive roleplay inside the bedroom will love bed restraints kit. The restraints are tied up to the bed posts and chair legs. Some cuffs can be adjustable or not adjustable. Some kits don't include sensory toys.

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The 7 Best restraint kits in Test

1 Test Winner

Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit

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One can’t say no to this mega BDSM restraint kit. Lovehoney Position gives you the opportunity to become the position master in the bedroom during bondage play! Thanks to its adjustable strappings, 8-piece position enhancer kit, and tailorable thigh cuffs, trying new sex positions will be easier. It’s great for all sexualities and genders too. Read and follow the kit’s instructions properly to enjoy the best bondage play experience.

Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit test
Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Lovehoney Position if you...
Are looking for a master restraint kit
Prefer quick-release clips
Like versatile restraints
Want adjustable straps
You should NOT buy the Lovehoney Position if you...
Are looking for a cheaper restraint kit
Prefer simpler toys
Are not into BDSM
Lovehoney Position Master Mega Bondage Kit features
Features
MaterialsFaux Fur 
AdjustableYes, Straps 
FasteningVelcro 
AllergiesPhthalates 
Pros
8-piece position enhancer kit
Velcro cuffs and quick-release clips
Adjustable straps
Tailorable cuffs
Blindfold included
Cons
Some parts are confusing
Pricey
Narrow swing straps
Cumbersome door swing
Conclusion

This bondage restraint kit will be an awesome addition to your bondage toys collection. Yes, it’s expensive, but it’s worth paying for given the features! Some parts might be too loose or narrow for some but once you get the hang of adjusting them properly, this kit will not fail to make you and your partner’s wildest dreams come true. Use it whenever and wherever!

2 Cheapest

Sportsheets Beginners Bondage Kit

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Whether you are new to BDSM or not, Sportsheets Beginners Bondage Kit will mesmerize you with its easy-to-use features and admirable price. It’s perfect for newbies because of its non-intimidating design and it comes with Velcro-fastened cuffs that provide comfortable restraint for your partner. Plus, it’s affordable! For full-body restraint, carefully attach the ties to the bed posts or chair legs. Increase your lover’s excitement by blocking their view with the kit’s eye mask.

Sportsheets Beginners Bondage Kit test
Sportsheets Beginners Bondage Kit features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Sportsheets Beginners if you...
Want a cheaper bedroom restraint kit
Are looking for an easy-to-use bondage toy
Are a BDSM beginner
Like adjustable wrist and ankle straps
You should NOT buy the Sportsheets Beginners if you...
Are looking for a more advanced kit
Want to try tighter blindfolds
Sportsheets Beginners Bondage Kit features
Features
MaterialsVelboa Fabric, Velcro, Polypropylene Webbing, Elastic 
AdjustableYes, Cuffs 
FasteningVelcro 
Pros
44-inch durable cuff straps
Cheapest one today
Velcro-fastened adjustable cuffs
Includes eye mask
Non-intimidating
Cons
Blindfolds a little loose
No slip rings
Rough material
Conclusion

If you’re looking for restraint kits that are remarkably easy to use and won’t create a hole in your wallet, you have found the perfect toy. This bedroom restraint toy is comfortable to use but some people might find the blindfold a little loose or too big. Remember to tie them tight to the bed or chair legs to avoid them pulling loose. Overall, it gets the job done!

3 Beginner

Enchanting Bondage Sex Kit

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Increase excitement inside the bedroom during bondage play with this Enchanting Bondage Sex Kit. If you or your partner are beginners to BDSM, not to worry! This bed restraints kit is ideal for newbies. Plus, it has a gorgeously playful, sleek, and sweet color that screams passion. The set includes one silk blindfold, one alluring feather tickler, and two beautiful silk satin restraints. You’re going to love your partner’s reaction once you gently drag the tickler over their body.

Enchanting Bondage Sex Kit test
Enchanting Bondage Sex Kit features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Enchanting Bondage if you...
Like fashionable restraint kits
Are looking for a simple bondage toy
Are new to BDSM
Want to spend less money on sex toys
You should NOT buy the Enchanting Bondage if you...
Are not into stylish restraint kits
Are looking for something advanced
Enchanting Bondage Sex Kit features
Features
MaterialsPolyester, Polyurethane, Rooster Feather, Phthalate-Free PVC, Elastane 
AdjustableYes 
FasteningTying 
Pros
Beginner-friendly
Silky-soft satin material
Includes a cute feather tickler
Affordable
Gorgeous burgundy color
Cons
No clips or locks
Might be too simple for some
One size only
Conclusion

No one can resist the sexiness of this bondage restraint kit. For BDSM beginners, this toy is a really great find. It’s affordable, travel-friendly, and easy to use, which means you won’t encounter any hassle during bondage play inside the bedroom, kitchen, living room, or any place you can tie the restraints! If you’re into something advanced, this might not be what you’re looking for. The fun begins once you gently knot them to your partner’s wrists and ankles before slipping the silky matching blindfold.

4 Bed Restraints

Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit

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80/100
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90/100
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Take bondage play to the next level and feel like a Fifty Shades of Grey character with your partner with this high-quality under-the-bed restraint kit. It’s a complete kit that is adjustable to any size of bed you have! It also comes with 4x padded cuffs, a silky soft blindfold, and a Fifty Shades of Grey storage bag. Carefully connect the cuffs together using the clips and affix them to the bed straps for secure restraint. This bedroom restraint kit is a dream come true for every Fifty Shades fan.

Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit test
Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Fifty Shades if you...
Are looking for a bed restraint kit
Are a Fifty Shades fan
Like safe but secure bondage play
Prefer padded cuffs
You should NOT buy the Fifty Shades if you...
Want a cheaper kit
Prefer more D rings
Are looking for a more stylish toy
Fifty Shades of Grey Hard Limits Bed Restraint Kit features
Features
MaterialsPolyester 
AdjustableYes 
FasteningVelcro 
TextureSoft 
Storage Bag IncludedYes 
Pros
Has 4x padded cuffs
Adjustable to fit any bed size
E.L. James approved
Has D rings
Awesome addition to your play kits
Cons
Less D rings
Could be loose on a king bed
Simple design
Conclusion

Bondage play will never be the same again with this uniquely soft bed bondage restraint kit. It’s a bit pricey, but it will be worth it because of its top-quality material and overall functionality. Some find the straps loose when tied to a king bed, but just make sure to adjust it properly for ultimate comfort. The simple design might also not appeal to some. Of course, never dive into BDSM or use fifty shades of grey toys with your partner without consent.

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Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit

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90/100
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The Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Play Kit is your best option if you want to add another kit to your collection. What makes this set amazing? It doesn’t just come with straps, blindfolds, and cuffs, it also has nipple suckers, a dildo for penetration, a ball gag, a universal harness for pegging, and a wired bullet vibrator, and more! This bed bondage restraint kit will even turn beginner bondage play into a comfortable, satisfying, safe, and fun experience. Every item is easy to use and it also comes with full instructions.

Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit  test
Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit  features
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Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Lovehoney Take Control if you...
Want a complete bondage play kit
Prefer kits with dildos and vibrators
Are looking for easy-to-use bondage toys
Want to go for splashproof toys
You should NOT buy the Lovehoney Take Control if you...
Are looking for a smaller kit
Want to spend less money on toys
Lovehoney Take Control Bondage Kit  features
Features
MaterialsSilicone, Faux Leather, Strong Nylon 
AdjustableYes 
FlexibilityFirm 
Vibration modesSpeeds and Patterns 
RechargeableNo, Requires 2x AAA Batteries 
WaterproofSplashproof 
AllergiesPhthalate-Free 
Pros
a 10-piece BDSM kit
Comes with sensory toys
Includes a suction cup dildo and harness
Interchangeable O-rings
Has full instructions
Cons
Loose cuffs
Ball gag might be too big
Loud vibrations
Expensive
Conclusion

Overall, this restraint kit is definitely a great find for beginner and intermediate-level couples who want to level up their bondage play experience inside the bedroom. With the inclusions and features, it’s worth every penny if you don’t mind spending more on sex toys. Some couples might find the cuffs or blindfolds loose when used and the design can still be enhanced. When using the dildo, always apply a good water-based lube for easy slip and slide.

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Scandal Beginner's Fetish Kit by Calexotics

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90/100
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100/100
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100/100
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Dive into the world of beginner bondage and play with your partner with this Scandal Beginner’s Fetish Kit! It comes with two erotic nipple suckers, a sexy blindfold, and reusable vinyl tape that you can use as restraints. The tape is multi-purpose, and you can gently squeeze the nipple suckers to make your partner’s nipples more erect. Use the seductive blindfold to block your lover’s view and heighten their other senses! They will be enticed by this bondage restraint kit.

Scandal Beginner's Fetish Kit by Calexotics test
Scandal Beginner's Fetish Kit by Calexotics features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Scandal Beginner's Fetish if you...
Are looking for a beginner's BDSM kit
Want to try bondage play with nipple suckers
Prefer smaller kits
You should NOT buy the Scandal Beginner's Fetish if you...
Are finding bigger bondage play kits
Are not a BDSM beginner
Don't like to use tapes as restraints
Scandal Beginner's Fetish Kit by Calexotics features
Features
MaterialsVelvet, Vinyl, Silicone, Polyester, PVC 
AdjustableNo 
Pros
Reusable, multi-purpose tape
Has easy-to-use nipple suckers
Seductive, double-padded eye mask
Great for beginners
Sexy colors
Cons
Limited kit
Tape might not appeal to some
Blindfolds not adjustable
Conclusion

Adding this beginner’s restraint kit to your bondage toy collection won’t hurt. It’s remarkably easy to use and the price seems reasonable with its gorgeous features and inclusions. The mask is stretched to fit and one size fits most. You can use the tape as a restraint and it’s also reusable. Don’t forget to wash the nipple suckers before and after use for sanitary reasons. Store them inside the box after use to avoid damage.

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Bodywand Midnight Bed Spreader Kit

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90/100
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100/100
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90/100
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With this superb under-the-bed restraint kit, your partner will keep wanting more. The Bodywand Midnight Bed Spreader Kit is a beginner-friendly kit that includes a powerful and relaxing wand massager and a soft blindfold. You can tie the restraints to your bed posts and they’re also long enough to fit any box springs or mattresses. The black satin blindfold looks sexy, and will effectively block your partner’s view while you pleasure them to climax.

Bodywand Midnight Bed Spreader Kit test
Bodywand Midnight Bed Spreader Kit features
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BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
Sound:

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Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Bodywand Midnight if you...
Want a BDSM kit with a wand massager
Wish to add a spreader kit to your collection
Are into rumbling vibrating wands
You should NOT buy the Bodywand Midnight if you...
Are looking for a cheaper spreader kit
Want stronger restraints
Bodywand Midnight Bed Spreader Kit features
Features
Vibration speedsMultiple 
RechargeableNo, Plug into any standard U.S. socket 
WaterproofNo 
AdjustableYes 
MaterialsPlastic, TPE 
Pros
Has a multi-speed wand massager
Beautiful black satin mask
Adjustable restraining cuffs
Professional design
Longer restraints
Cons
Massager needs electricity to work
Expensive
Loose blindfold
Conclusion

This bed bondage restraint kit makes every BDSM and wand massager enthusiast’s dream come true. With the wand’s rumbling vibrations, your partner can relax and feel good while you heighten excitement with the blindfold and the adjustable restraints. Just plug the wand massager into a socket near your bed. The mask might be too loose for some. Just be careful not to apply too much pressure on the restraints to avoid breaking them. It’s pricey, so make sure you talk to your partner before buying this kit for your collection.

Treat Yourself with this Restraint Kit

If you think that’s it to our ultimate bed restraint kit list, think again. If you’re looking for another bondage play kit that looks sexy and will blow your partner’s mind, check this one out:

Stay Safe with Your Restraint Kit

BDSM or bondage play sounds exciting and fun, but only if everyone is on the right page. Before you indulge yourself into it, consider the simple but useful safety tips below.

Consent First

Consent First

Consent First

No matter what kind of bedroom play you’re into or you’re about to do, never do it without your partner’s consent. Trust us, it’s going to offend them and might even ruin your relationship. Remember, communication is key! They should be willing to play dominant-submissive with you. If not, be sure to respect their decision.

Understand Your Toys

Understand Your Toys

Understand Your Toys

It can be dangerous when you don’t know what toy you’re using during bondage play. Before using the item, read the instructions first and watch reviews. For example, some restraints can be complicated to tie on the wrists or bed posts. Avoid hurting your partner or breaking the bed by understanding its function and usability. Also, find the best restraints that are comfortable and worth the money.

Have a Safe Word

Have a Safe Word

Have a Safe Word

We’re still humans, after all. This means we have limitations no matter where we are or what we do. During bondage play, it’s important to have a safe word, in case you or your partner feels overwhelmed or in pain. Honestly, it can be anything, as long as you and your partner understand each other.

How to use restraint kits

Every restraint kit is different because not everything has the same item or toy. But it’s always wise to know the basics of using them! Here are some easy steps to help you get started.

How to use restraint kits

Setting up

Setting up

First of all, you will need to set up the restraint cuffs and straps to the bed posts or chair legs. Adjust it properly to avoid loose restraints. It’s easier if its fastening is Velcro. If it needs to be tied, do it properly to avoid difficulties when it’s time to remove them. Your partner should know whether or not it’s too tight or loose.

Tease them

How to use restraint kits

Before you do anything else, don’t forget to tease your partner. You can use a feather tickler or a flogger to gently create sensations. You can also run your fingers through their skin, kiss their neck, and grab every inch of their bodies.

How to use restraint kits
How to use restraint kits

Add the blindfold or eye mask

Add the blindfold or eye mask

Increase excitement with the kit’s blindfold. This will keep your partner guessing what you will do next, since they won’t be able to see you. You could remain sensual or add some pleasurable pain.

Use the toys

How to use restraint kits

If your kit has nipple suckers, vibrators, wand massagers, dildos, or even anal plugs, you should use them after you have tickled and pleasured your partner. This will drive them crazy, and will keep wanting more.

How to use restraint kits
How to use restraint kits

It's all about comfort

It's all about comfort

You don’t have to be a master tie-knotter or a BDSM enthusiast to enjoy bondage play with your partner. Just make sure everything is comfortable and everyone feels safe. Remember to find the right kit that suits your level. If you’re a BDSM beginner, you will find this guide useful.

How to clean your restraint kit

Cleaning a restraint kit depends on the kinds of toys it includes. When it comes silicone-made dildos and nipple suckers, you should wash them with lukewarm water and a good detergent to remove germs, stains, and bacteria. Fabrics should be washed carefully to avoid damage and make sure you read whether or not it's safe for machine-wash. Always wipe them dry before storing them in a clean and safe drawer, box, or storage.

Porous
materials

Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

Non-propous
materials

Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

The toys with electrical
components

If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.

Author
Bea Javier
Bea Javier
Age: 22
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Pansexual
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