5 Best Small Strap Ons Dildos

Oli Ochoa
by Oli OchoaUpdated:

Together with a team of Bedbible Testers I’ve picked out and ranked the best small strap on dildos. We’ve tested a ton og different ones throughout the past couple of years, and I’ve picked out the best reviewed on the smaller side.

Test Winner

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 51 user reviews

Runner Up

4.6Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 36 user reviews

Best Small Strapless

5.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Best Small Kit

4.4Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.3/5

Reviewed by: 

Emiel Vizzi

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 173 user reviews

Best Flexible

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Felicia Roy

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 27 user reviews

Tantus CharmerTantus Silk MediumStrap-On-Me Bendable Strap On SmallTracey Cox SupersexFun Factory Limba Flex Small
Tantus CharmerTantus Silk MediumStrap-On-Me Bendable Strap On SmallTracey Cox SupersexFun Factory Limba Flex Small
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Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
  • High-quality silicone
  • Pleasure ridges
  • Lightly curved for g-spot or p-spot stimulation
  • Firm but flexible shaft
  • Vaginal and anal safe
  • No suction cup base
  • No storage bag
  • Made with super smooth silicone
  • Curved tip for easy insertion
  • Great size for beginners
  • Harness compatible
  • Easy to use and to clean
  • No suction cup base
  • Might be too simple for more experienced users
  • Doesn't feel realistic
  • High quality construction
  • Variety of sizes to choose from
  • Easy to customize for different bodies
  • Dildo is a bit floppy and difficult to control
  • Strong vibes
  • Wider base for more control
  • Fully waterproof
  • Complete kit
  • Submersible
  • Not rechargeable
  • O-ring can stretch over time
  • Straps can be awkward
  • Bullet vibe takes LR44 batteries
  • Super flexible yet solid
  • Very versatile
  • looks and feels great to touch
  • Has a suction base
  • On the harder side of most dildos
  • Tip can be uncomfortable after insertion
  • Can be too short to use the suction base comfortably
  • Doesn't come with a storage bag

How We Test small strap ons

We’re a team of 335 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best small strap ons, our testers tried and reviewed 92 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre small strap ons didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1196 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
How Did Testing and Reviewing Small Strap-Ons Look Like?

Test Winner Tantus Charmer

4.7/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 51 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the small strap on.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Charmer was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

A Closer Look
  • 4 ridges
  • Starts wider and gets slimmer

Specifications

Pros

  • High-quality silicone
  • Pleasure ridges
  • Lightly curved for g-spot or p-spot stimulation
  • Firm but flexible shaft
  • Vaginal and anal safe
  • Harness compatible

Cons

  • No suction cup base
  • No storage bag

Why I Chose It

The Tantus Charmer has an incredible shape and size, and is the perfect small strap on dildo. When Isabelle, who tested it for us, provided gave her review of it, it was a no-brainer as the test winner.

She did say that it “left me wanting a fuller feeling when using vaginally”, but that is because of it’s small size. In other words, her main concern when using it vaginally is that it is slightly too small.

As an expert, reading that it’s a 1.4 inch diameter at the widest point, means it’s not among the smallest, but as the most narrow points does make me agree slightly with Isabelle.

Isabelle found the Tantus Charmer “pretty easy to use, although it doesn’t have a suction cup base”, but it does have a flared, flat base that means it “can be used in a harness for strap-on play”.

She also highlighted the slight rides that gave her a “feel of anal beads” and that they are “pronounced enough to that you can feel them without being too intense”. Again, the perfect match for anyone looking for a small strap on dildo.

Despite Isabelle looking for something a bit bigger for vaginal use, she does “find myself reaching for it on the regs”.

Runner Up Tantus Silk Medium

4.6/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 36 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tantus Silk Medium was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the small strap on.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tantus Silk Medium was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tantus Silk Medium was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Harness compatible base
  • Smooth surface

Specifications

Pros

  • Made with super smooth silicone
  • Curved tip for easy insertion
  • Great size for beginners
  • Harness compatible
  • Easy to use and to clean

Cons

  • No suction cup base
  • Might be too simple for more experienced users
  • Doesn't feel realistic

Why I Chose It

I’ll admit, ranking another Tantus dildo as the Runner Up makes me look biased, rather than the objective expert I intend to be.

But, it’s simply because when it comes to small strap on compatible dildoes, we’ve had fantastic reviews of Tantus dildos among our testers.

And, the Tantus Silk is no exception! It was tested and reviewed by Kasia, who raved about it!

She’s tested her fair share of toys and said it is “a perfect choice for those that are looking for a starter insertable toy, or just an easy and always accessible dildo”.

It did turn out to be “too small for a filling and stimulating experience” for her, but despite that she was “not disappointed” because it could be used “for foreplay, anal play, and many other fun and spicy bedroom activities!”.

Just like the Tantus Charmer, Kasia said it has “a round base that can be used in a harness”, but no suction cup making it a better small strap on dildo, rather than a dildo for hands-free use.

The last important thing she pointed out was that it is because the “core is firm” this means she “had no problem reaching the G-spot” and in the end she said “I didn’t expect to enjoy such a small dildo, but I was pleased with the smoothness”.

Best Small Strapless Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap On Small

5.0/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap On Small was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the small strap on.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap On Small was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strap On Small was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Comes in 2 other sizes (M, L)
  • Has insertable, bendable pony/neck/egg

Specifications

Pros

  • High quality construction
  • Variety of sizes to choose from
  • Easy to customize for different bodies

Cons

  • Dildo is a bit floppy and difficult to control

Why I Chose It

Cassie who tested the Strap-On-Me bendable strapless strap on found it “comfortable to wear” and “surprisingly easy to keep in place”, which is NOT a given for strapless strap ons, especially not small ones like this one.

Typically we hear from testers that they struggle to actually use the so-called ‘strapless’ strap ons as they’re intended, and Cassie, who knows this was also baffled that it “requires less support than I thought a strapless strap-on would require”.

The reason behind why it’s so easy to wear is because of the “bulbous, egg-shaped pony” that has the additional benefit that it “put pressure on my g-spot every time the dildo moved”.

Cassie did also try the dildo end, and found it to be “quite slim”, but despite that said that “the pronounced tip does feel good”, and the “slimline design of the dildo makes it perfect for first-time pegging”.

Overall, this is in fact one of the best strapless strap on reviews on Bedbible, and on top of that it’s quite small, making it a great fit!

Best Small Kit Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit

4.4/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.3/5

Reviewed by: 

Emiel Vizzi

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 173 user reviews

85/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the small strap on.

75/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

85/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-On Pegging Kit was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • 2 different size dildos
  • 3 different size O-rings

Specifications

Pros

  • Strong vibes
  • Wider base for more control
  • Fully waterproof
  • Complete kit
  • Submersible

Cons

  • Not rechargeable
  • O-ring can stretch over time
  • Straps can be awkward
  • Bullet vibe takes LR44 batteries

Why I Chose It

The complete kit from Lovehoney was perfect for this top-list of the best small strap ons, as it comes with two different dildo sizes, one of which is the smallest in this entire top list.

It got a really great review from Emiel, who tested it.

They highlighted the versatility of the kit (although I personally hate that word) it does have almost anything you would want in a strap on kit. Emiel really pointed to “the sheer amount of items you receive for the money”.

First, of course the small dildo with just 4.5 inches of length, and 0.8 inches in diameter (the smallest of the entire top list). But, it also has a bigger textured dildo – that is by all measured pretty average sized. This one can hold a bullet vibrator. On top of everything the kit comes with 3 O-rings.

They liked that the harness “stayed in place well” and even “switching positions while wearing it was effortless”.

One last thing they pointed to is the “pocket that holds the bullet vibe, that allows for clitoral stimulation while topping”.

Best Flexible Fun Factory Limba Flex Small

4.3/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Felicia Roy

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 27 user reviews

70/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fun Factory Limba Flex Small was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the small strap on.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fun Factory Limba Flex Small was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

85/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fun Factory Limba Flex Small was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Bendable tip
  • Y-shaped suction cup base

Specifications

Pros

  • Super flexible yet solid
  • Very versatile
  • looks and feels great to touch
  • Has a suction base

Cons

  • On the harder side of most dildos
  • Tip can be uncomfortable after insertion
  • Can be too short to use the suction base comfortably
  • Doesn't come with a storage bag

Why I Chose It

Felicia said in her review of Fun Factory Limba Flex: “Don’t let it’s small size fool or disappoint you before trying it”.

As it is quite a small dildo, the added benefit that it can be bended, due to an internal metal rod, to just the shape you want makes it a perfect addition for any harness.

Felicia said it “It shaped very easily” and that “it 100% kept its shape” during use, which is generally what you hear about this technology used by Fun Factory.

But, she also said it “stuck to the wall quite nicely when I tested the suction”, however, the suction cup isn’t one of the strongest, and it’s a better fit for harness use.

The Y-shaped base is going to make it “fit perfectly into one of your favorite strap-on belts”, and Felicia did say that “with my hubby who wore a double strap on; it felt great”.

One thing to point out, is that using a metal rod as as the core is going to mean “it is a bit on the harder side”, and using it more aggressively can cause discomfort.

Comparison

BestTest Winner Runner Up Best Small Strapless Best Small Kit Best Flexible
Overall score4.7 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.4 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.7 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0
User rating4.6 / 5.0
from 51 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 36 users
5 / 5.0
from 3 users
4.6 / 5.0
from 173 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 27 users
PriceAffordable Affordable Moderate Affordable Moderate
Design90 / 100 90 / 100 95 / 100 85 / 100 70 / 100
Ease of use90 / 100 100 / 100 85 / 100 75 / 100 95 / 100
Quality100 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 85 / 100 85 / 100
Sound-----
Power-----
Buzzy/Rumbly-----
Length7 inches5.75 inches--5.75 inches
Insertable length6.5 inches5.25 inches6.1 inchesTextured dildo: 6 inches, Smooth dildo: 4.5 inches4.3 inches
Diameter1.4 inches1.1 inches1.06 inchesTextured dildo: 1.5 inches, Smooth Dildo: 0.8 inches1.2 inches
WaterproofYes Yes Yes Yes Yes
MaterialsSilicone Silicone Exterior: Premium silicone, Interior: ABS plastic Silicone, ABS plastic, Neoprene, Nylon Silicone
Texture-Smooth ---
Flexibility-Flexible Flexible shaft -Poseable
Colors Available-Black, Purple Black, Purple Harness: black. Dildos: pink, black. Electric Blue, Caribbean Blue
Storage Bag Included-No Yes No No
Diameter (internal)--1.53 inchesO-rings: 1, 1.5, 2 inches-
Adjustable--Poseable "hinge" Yes -
Vibration speeds---2 -
Vibration patterns---5 -
Harness Size---Up to 65 inches-
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Size comparison

Small Strap OnsDiameter (inches)Length (inches)
Tantus Charmer1.46.5
Tantus Silk1.15.25
Strap-On-Me1.066.1
Tracey Cox, Big1.56.0
Tracey Cox, Small0.84.5
Fun Factory Limba1.24.3
Author
Oli Ochoa
Oli Ochoa

Oli Ochoa is a longtime freelance writer living in Salt Lake City, Utah. She loves her dogs, her iced coffees, her awkward husband, her two teenage kids, aliens, monsters, and spending too much time on the internet.

Age: 34
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Pansexual
Sex toy experience: Advanced
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