The 10 Softest Vibrators Out There for the Squishiest Sensations

Gail Hooper
by Gail Hooper
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If you’re tired of using hard, cheap toys and want to find the softest vibrator (at an affordable price), then look no further: you’re in luck! The team here at Bedbible has spent over twenty hours doing the research, and we’re happy to report that we’ve found ten of the softest vibrators money can buy! Having powerful motors that can hit “that spot” every time is definitely important, but why should you have to settle for a hard, ABS vibe? It’s much better when your toy feels soft as silk, providing comfort as well as pleasure, with an elegant design to boot. Whether you’re looking for a shower-proof beauty, a “tongue toy”, a vibrating dildo, or a “finger” vibrator that works for both external and internal pleasures, the toy you’re looking for is included on the list below!

The Secret Behind Ranking the Best Softest Vibrator

It’s no secret that pretty much anyone can jump online, make a list of the “best” products, and publish it without a care in the world. Screw accuracy, right? Well, we don’t believe in taking shortcuts, which means that every list we put out has had a lot of research put into it! Directly comparing products can be effective in some situations, but when two toys are different types then it doesn’t work quite as well. Instead, we analyze each toy individually! This process allows us to focus on both the positives and the negatives of each product without being unfair (or biased) to certain products. There isn’t really a “secret” per se to ranking products: we simply believe in providing honest, accurate reviews to our readers!

The Secret Behind Ranking the Best Softest Vibrator

Why Might You Want a Soft Vibrator?

Soft vibrators are a great choice for beginners. These toys combine comfort with luxury, setting the bar quite high for future solo sessions (and really, why should you settle). This makes them a good option for more experienced users as well, particularly those who struggle with pain or discomfort during sex. These toys are very gentle, making them suitable for women with pelvic floor issues as well! Of course, soft vibrators aren’t the only soft toys around: jelly dildos are soft as well. However, soft vibrators (at least the luxury models we’ve listed below) made of silicone are a superior option. “Jelly” is a porous material that can quickly harbor bacteria if not properly cleaned, whereas silicone is a non-porous material that can be easily sterilized and maintained!

FAQ

Is silicone a safe material for a soft vibrator?
Silicone is one of the best materials for vibrators. It's allergy-free, easy to clean, non-porous (bacteria can't get into the toy) and feels great. Silicone toys are more expensive, but also, with care, they will last a lot longer than toys made from cheaper materials.
Which lube do I use with a silicone soft vibrators?
Water-based lubricant is advised for silicone toys.
Who can use a soft vibrator?
It depends on what you want to use it for. Palm, or pebble or bullet vibrators are for external use only. So they're great to stimulate the labia, clitoris, head of a penis, scrotum, around the anus. They can also be used on your nipples, inner thighs... you get the picture. Internal vibrators can also be used to stimulate externally, but, when it comes to inserting them, only vibrators with a flared base, can be used anally. Soft and squishy vibrators are popular with people who love the feel of silicone, who don't want something hard and rigid, who like the way silicone heats up to body temperature easily and who enjoy the luxury feel of them.
Why should I buy a a soft vibrator?
They are easy to clean, last a long time, feel incredible, come in a wide range of different toys and are one of the best materials to make vibrators out of.
Should I get a soft vibrator if I've never used a vibrator before?
You don’t have to, but you’ll likely have a better experience if you do! Soft vibrators feel better against the skin, so if your first vibrator is a soft vibrator, you’ll know what quality feels like right out of the gate!

What are the softest vibrators?

The softest vibrators are a variety of sex toys (including palm, bullet, g-spot, dildos, anal plugs, and many more!) that are made from silicone. They are elegantly designed and tend to have a number of different vibration speeds and patterns so that you can find something that hits the spot perfectly. These toys are easy to clean, don't harbor harmful bacteria, and—if well taken care of—will last a long time. Their gorgeous squishy feel appeals to many people and if you are a person who finds penetration difficult, then some of the slimmer internal vibrators may be suitable for you. Although these toys tend to cost more than their cheaply-made counterparts, there are still high-quality options available for those on a budget!

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The 10 Best softest vibrators in Test

1 Test Winner

Je Joue Mimi Soft

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The Je Joue Mimi Soft Luxury Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator is our Testwinner for very good reason! This luxurious silicone pebble vibrator has an extra-soft tip for toe-curling orgasms; it’s also waterproof and rechargeable.

It has 5 rumbly vibration speeds and 6 patterns giving you a multitude of sensations to play with. Its elegantly smooth surface is designed with pleasure in mind with its slim edge, perfect for precise stimulation

This vibrator fits neatly into the palm of your, or someone else’s hand, giving you the opportunity for solo or shared play. It is suitable for all-over massages as well as being perfect for clitoral caresses.

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What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Mimi Soft if you...
Want something that looks elegant and feels great!
Want to use solo, or shared
Love clitoral stimulation
Enjoy playing in the shower
You should NOT buy the Mimi Soft if you...
Are looking for g-spot stimulation
Want a vibrator for internal play
Je Joue Mimi Soft  features
Features
Vibration speeds5 
Vibration patterns6 
Length3.5  inches
Insertable length1.5  inches
Diameter1.59  inches
WaterproofYes 
MaterialsSilicone 
RechargeableYes 
Battery Life120 minutes
Allergies Latex-Free , Phthalate-Free 
FlexibilityFirm 
Pros
Body-safe silicone that feels incredible!
It's waterproof
Rechargeable
Elegant design
Solo or shared play
Cons
Louder on higher settings
Not suitable for penetration
Quite expensive
Conclusion

The luxurious feel and ergonomic design make the Je Joue Mimi Soft a great choice. It is perfect for solo, or shared play. The seamless design has a slim edge for clitoral stimulation and its smooth shape also makes it suitable to use all over the body – all play partners can enjoy this vibrator. The Je Joue Mimi Soft is palm-sized with 5 rumbly vibration speeds and 6 patterns to ensure that all preferences are catered for. For added sensation, use with a water-based lubricant. If you’re looking for something with very powerful vibrations, then this may not be the one for you. It has been mentioned that the stronger settings are louder, but this lessens when the vibrator is pressed against your body. Although the Je Joue Mimi Soft is at the higher end of the price range, the quality speaks for itself. It is easy to clean and is made from body-friendly silicone and is latex and phthalate free. Another plus is that its waterproof design gives you another reason to spend that bit longer in the shower.

2 Cheapest

Iroha Zen Hanacha

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The Iroha Zen Hanacha silicone waterproof mini vibrator is admired greatly for its soft squishy feel. It comes in a variety of pleasing pastel colours – strawberry milk pink, matcha green and yellow. This is a more sensual vibrator, appealing to those who prefer lower vibrations, or who don’t like the sensation of powerful vibrations when used internally. It’s a gorgeous design with a soft-pleated texture. Add a lick of lube and you’re going to enjoy it even more. It’s a quiet, battery operated toy that has a single button that cycles through the 3 vibrations strength and 1 pulsation settings. The Iroha Zen offers you mellow super-soft squishy playtime fun at an affordable price.

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What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
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What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Zen Hanacha if you...
Prefer less intense, gentle vibrations
Love funky colours!
Enjoy the squishy feel
Want to play in the bath or shower
You should NOT buy the Zen Hanacha if you...
Need more powerful stimulation
Want more variation in vibrations speed and pulse patterns
Prefer a rechargeable vibrator
Iroha Zen Hanacha  features
Features
Vibration speeds3 
Vibration patterns1 
Length5  inches
Diameter1.3  inches
RechargeableNo 
WaterproofUp to 50cm 
MaterialsSilicone, ABS Plastic 
AllergiesPhthalate-Free, Non-porous 
Pros
Super-soft squishy feel
So very quiet
Can be used in the shower
Very gentle, ideal for those who are more sensitive
Amazing price
Cons
Vibrations aren't strong
Battery operated
May be too small for some
Conclusion

The Iroha Zen is an absolute treat for those who enjoy more of a soft touch stimulation. The gentle ridges on this soft and squishy vibrator make it perfect to use internally and can be coupled with a stronger vibrator externally to give you double the pleasure. It comes in such delicious colours that it would make a welcome addition to any collection. Its size and gentleness make it ideal for shallow penetration and suitable for anyone who experiences pressure-related discomfort during penetration. It’s a super-cute super-gentle vibrator, beautifully designed. However, it’s not for everyone. If you prefer your pleasure more intense then you may find that this doesn’t hit the spot. For quality and price though, the Iroha Zen is sensational.

 

3 Beginner

Svakom Cici

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90/100
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90/100
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The Svakom Cici soft flexible curved finger vibrator is different from many of the g-spot vibrators available. It’s much slimmer for starters, making it ideal for those who struggle with penetration. It has a super-soft ribbed and flexible head, the vibrator itself can bend from 0 to 180 degrees, it has 5 vibrations modes and 5 intensity levels – what more could you desire?! This gem is settled nicely in the mid-price range. It’s fully waterproof design makes it ideal for those long soaks in the bath and it’s perfect for both solo, and shared play.

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What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
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What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Cici if you...
Want to hit that g-spot
Prefer a slimmer vibrator
Enjoy clitoral stimulation
Want to play in water
You should NOT buy the Cici if you...
Prefer more girth to your vibrator
Need a vibrator to be very quiet
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Vibration speeds5 
Vibration patterns5 
Length7  inches
Insertable length4.5  inches
Diameter1  inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsSilicone,  
RechargeableYes 
Battery Life240 minutes minutes
Storage Bag IncludedYes 
AllergiesLatex-Free , Phthalate-Free 
Pros
Super flexible
Slim design
Fully waterproof
Great range of vibration modes and levels
Cons
Single button control
May not have the girth wanted for an internal vibrator
Vibrations are buzzy, rather than rumbly
Vibrations start at 3rd highest level, need to cycle through to lowest
Conclusion

The Svakom Cici soft flexible curved finger vibrator is our category winner for beginners and it’s easy to see why. Its slim shape is perfect for those who want g-spot stimulation without the girth that other vibrators offer. Reviewers who are experiencing vaginismus have recommended it as its silky-smooth silicone head makes it is easier to insert if you wish to explore internal stimulation.  With 25 tantalizing vibration combinations and a super-soft ridged, flexible head this vibrator is perfect for g-spot and clitoral stimulation.  This mid-priced silicone vibrator exudes quality and the 240-minute battery life makes it ideal for both solo and shared play. As it is made of body-safe silicone, it is easy to clean and it comes with its own velvety storage bag. Some may not like the one-button control but in reviews, this doesn’t seem to cause too much of an issue. Its features make it perfect for beginners and more experienced toy users. As with all silicone toys, water-based lubricants are recommended.

 

4 Clit

CalExotics Red Hot Ember

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The Red Hot Flickering Tongue vibrator lives up to its name. This stick of dynamite is sure to set you on fire! Made of soft silicone, this vibrator has a flickering tip to mimic oral sex. Reviews vary as to how similar it is with most saying that it’s great, but doesn’t feel like the real thing; many suggest adding some water-based lube to take it to another level. It’s a real powerful and versatile vibrator that’s going to give you intense orgasms. Solo or shared this vibrator will rock your world.

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What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Red Hot Ember if you...
Enjoy pinpoint clitoral stimulation
Want a toy with powerful vibrations
Take it on your travels - it has a travel lock.
Love the idea of a 'flickering tip' across your clitoris.
You should NOT buy the Red Hot Ember if you...
Need more gentle stimulation
Want a slow build up
Don't enjoy intensity
CalExotics Red Hot Ember features
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Vibration speeds3 
Vibration patterns7 
Length5  inches
Insertable length4.5  inches
WaterproofYes 
MaterialsSilicone,  
RechargeableYes 
Battery Life180  minutes
AllergiesPhthalate-Free 
Pros
Versatile - flickering tip and vibrations
10 different vibration modes
Travel lock
Waterproof
Quiet
Cons
Intense
No warning when battery runs out
Flickering movement may be too hard for some
Conclusion

Simply dynamite! The Red Hot rechargeable silicone flickering tongue vibrator adds a new dimension to bullet vibrators. The flickering tongue coupled with strong vibrations makes sure that intense orgasms are coming your way! It’s a mid-priced quiet vibrator with so many features that make it stand out from the crowd. It’s perfect if you like pinpoint clitoral stimulation and its travel lock and size ensure that it can accompany you wherever you go.

5 Textured

FT London G Jack 2

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Welcome to the FT London G Jack 2 squishy textured vibrating dildo – the reviewers say ‘Wow!’ This super squishy vibrating dildo has to be the softest one around. It’s made with ecologically safe, hypoallergenic, premium “Bioskin” which is medical grade non-porous silicone material. This means that it feels amazing and is easy to clean! It is beautifully curved and textured so that you can reach those sweet spots more easily. 2 hours of charging gives this toy a massive 4 hours of play and it comes with a magnetic charger. This fully waterproof vibrator will tempt you into taking longer, more sensual baths and showers and the handle ensures a firm grip no matter how slippery the situation becomes. 

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What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
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What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the G Jack 2 if you...
Love squishy
Want the option of deeper thrusts
Take it on your travels - it has a travel lock.
Are looking for a g-spot and anal toy
Love textures
You should NOT buy the G Jack 2 if you...
Want something harder
Are looking for a small sized toy
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Features
Vibration modes6 
Length8.7 inches
Insertable length5  inches
Width1.46  inches
WaterproofYes 
MaterialsSilicone 
RechargeableYes 
Battery Life240 minutes
Travel LockYes 
AllergiesPhthalate-Free 
Pros
It feels incredible!
It has 6 different vibration modes
It has a travel lock
It is fully waterproof
It is quiet
It has 4 hours playtime on a full charge
Cons
It is a little expensive
It may not be powerful enough for some
Conclusion

The FT London GJack 2 squishy textured vibrating dildo is made of Revolutionary Bioskin™ which gives it an incredibly soft, squishy feel that’s supposed to be the nearest thing to human skin. The reviewers aren’t so sure about that, but they all agree that it feels amazing! The GJack 2 warms up as you use it making it an incredible toy to add to any collection. Its 6 vibrations modes cater for most needs. It’s fully waterproof, lasts for 4 hours on one charge, comes with a storage bag, has a magnetic charger and is amazing quality – it’s well worth the price for one of the squishiest, softest vibrators you’ll find.  

6 Rabbit

Lovense Nora

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The Lovense Nora is an app-controlled rechargeable rotating rabbit vibrator. It’s made out of silky soft silicone and is a dream to use. The bulb is soft, squishy and large so that it can cover a larger clitoral area making it suitable for a larger range of body shapes. The vibration modes vary from light and fluttery clitoral teasings to stronger vibrations and with different patterns. This coupled with the rotating head gently stimulating your g-spot means that you’re getting double the pleasure! The long battery life gives you 4 luscious hours of play. What sets this aside from other rabbit vibrators is that it’s app-enabled – meaning that you can hand over the controls to another person. Yep, you just lay back and enjoy the ride! It can also be synched with the Lovense Max, male masturbator for long-distance play. You can of course use it without the app.

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Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Nora if you...
Want clitoral and g-spot stimulation
Love the idea of your partner controlling your experience
Are in a long distance relationship
Want an interactive toy that responds to your movements
You should NOT buy the Nora if you...
Want a very quiet vibrator
Don't enjoy large shafts
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Features
Vibration modes10 
Length10  inches
Insertable length5  inches
Width1.5 inches
WaterproofSplashproof 
MaterialsSilicone, ABS plastic 
RechargeableYes 
Battery Life240  minutes
Travel LockYes 
Remote ControlsLovense Remote App 
AllergiesLatex-Free , Phthalate-Free 
Pros
Great fun if you're in a LDR
App-enabled
Wide girth
It vibrates, rotates and stimulates your g-spot too
It is fully waterproof
Cons
It's quite expensive
Some problems with the charger remaining connected
Will not suit every body shape
Conclusion

The Lovense Nora has it all. It feels great with its soft silicone skin, it offers dual sensation, a wide range of vibrating modes and patterns to tease your clitoris and a rotating head to give your g-spot a good workout. If you need a quieter vibrator, this wouldn’t be your top choice, but no doubt that this vibrator is going to get you exactly where you want to be. On its own, it’s amazing, but what really sets it apart is that being app-controlled, it gives long-distance lovers the opportunity to play together despite the miles between them.  

7 Anal

Dorcel Deep Expand

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90/100
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The Dorcel Deep Expand inflatable vibrating anal plug has a beautifully sleek design. It’s made of super-soft silicone that gives this plug a gorgeous squishy feel, this makes it easy to insert too. This toy does something so different, you can inflate it when it is inside you giving you an incredible full-feeling. The inflate button gives you full control over your experience and it does stop inflating when it’s full. The deflate button is ultra-responsive and lets the air out quickly. The diameter of the Dorcel Deep Expand swells from 1.3 inches to an incredible 1.9 inches. As this plug can be used to stimulate the g-spot, as well as the p-spot; the handle has some gentle ridges to softly tease your clitoris while the 10 vibration modes work to send you over the edge. Whether you are using it anally or vaginally, the Dorcel Deep Expand is going to stimulate all of your internal sweet spots with ease. 

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Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
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What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Deep Expand if you...
Want control over how full you feel with an anal plug
Enjoy fullness without the initial stretch
Are experienced with anal play
Want to use it anally or vaginally
Enjoy vibrating anal plugs
You should NOT buy the Deep Expand if you...
Are new to anal play
Don't want deep penetration
Dislike a fuller feeling
Dorcel Deep Expand  features
Features
Vibration modes10 
Length6.5  inches
Insertable length5.5  inches
Diameter1.9 inches
WaterproofSplashproof 
MaterialsSilicone, ABS plastic 
RechargeableYes 
Battery Life60  minutes
AllergiesPhthalate-Free 
Pros
Loop handle
Silky soft body safe silicone
Flared base so suitable for anal play
Also suitable for g-spot and p-spot play
10 different vibration modes
Controllable inflate and easy deflate
Cons
Buttons are quite easy to press accidentally
Not very quiet
Vibrations may not be powerful enough for clitoral stimulation
Conclusion

If you’re looking for something different to quite literally expand your experience then the Dorcel Deep Expand is the perfect toy to add to your collection. It’s beautifully designed, made of body-safe silky silicone, rechargeable and easy to clean. It’s more suitable for intermediate to advanced users and certainly ticks all the right boxes for providing a unique and sensual experience. It’s safe for anal and vaginal use. The only downsides are that it’s not as quiet as some may like it and the buttons could well be pressed accidentally.

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Dame Arc

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98/100
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95/100
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The Dame Arc is a beautiful and simply designed toy that caters for your g-spot and clitoris. Its powerful motor provides deep, rumbly vibrations through its choice of 5 vibration speeds and 5 patterns. The transition between the different vibrations and patterns is smooth rather than stepped which just adds to delight of this toy. The, squishy bulb, firm handle and shaft, and dramatic curve make it easy and comfortable to use. Reviewers suggest using a rocking motion with the toy, alongside your favourite vibration and pattern, to reach mind-blowing, intense highs. A lot of thought has gone into the Dame Arc, and it shows both in the product and in the reviews.

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Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Dame Arc if you...
Want something designed for g-spot and clitoral stimulation
Easy to use, intuitive buttons
Something waterproof to play with in the bath
Want a rigid, precise toy that hits the spot
You should NOT buy the Dame Arc if you...
Want a flexible toy
Need a smaller head on a toy
Are looking for a toy for anal play
Dame Arc features
Features
Vibration speeds5 
Vibration patterns5 
Length7.5  inches
Insertable length4.5  inches
Width1.4 inches
WaterproofYes 
Materials Silicone 
RechargeableYes 
Charging Time120  minutes
Battery Life90  minutes
AllergiesLatex-Free , Phthalate-Free 
Travel LockYes 
Pros
Gorgeous, erganomic design
Precise stimulation
Waterproof
Intuitive buttons
Travel lock
Cons
Head may be too large for some
Is quite expensive
Buttons may be in the wrong place for some
Conclusion

The Dame Arc is a gorgous luxurious product. If you’re looking for something high-end, then this is a great choice. It’s designed with pleasure in mind and boasts an array of features guaranteed to make you weak at the knees. Bear in mind that it’s larger than the usual g-spot toys, the larger sqyishy head is designed for maximum pleasure, but may not be suitable for all.

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InBloom Tulipa

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90/100
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The Inbloom Tulipa will lick and flick you to your heart’s content. It fits into the palm of your hand perfectly, giving you great control. It’s just the thing for flicking and licking your clitoris, teasing your nipples, carressing your labia and exciting your anus – add a splash of water-based lube and you’re away. A tongue extends from the centre of the flower, giving you the choice of 3 speeds and 7 pattens to play with. It charges on a magnetic base and is made from soft supple body-safe silicone.

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What it is:

Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Tulipa if you...
Want a different type of stimulation
Want a toy that fits into your hand
Want to try something that licks and flicks
Doesn't look like a traditional vibrator
You should NOT buy the Tulipa if you...
Need something with strong stimulation
Prefer something insertable
InBloom Tulipa  features
Features
Vibration modes10 
Length2.24  inches
Width2.24  inches
MaterialsSilicone 
RechargeableYes 
Charging Time75 minutes
Battery Life90  minutes
Travel LockYes 
Pros
Can use all over the body
Pinpoint stimulation on higher settings
Good for edging
Cons
Can be difficult to clean
The sensation can be too hard for some
Toy stops if you apply too much pressure - no grinding
Conclusion

The InBloom Tulipa is something quite different. Its unique soft-touch tongue flicking action mimics the tongue tip action of oral sex. It’s small, discreet and a move away from the tradition phalic-shaped clitoral stimulators. This is great for wherever you like being licked. Reviewers are mixed over it, but overall, if you’re looking to try something different to traditional vibrators, it’s definitely worth a go.

10

Tenga Iroha Minamo

Design:

Rating:

What it is: 

95/100
Ease of Use:

Rating:

What it is: 

90/100
Quality:

Rating:

What it is: 

95/100
Price:

Rating:

What it is: 

Low

Bedbible rating:

Rating:

What it is: 

0.0/5.0

User rating:

Rating:

What it is: 

N/A

The Tenga Iroha Minamo waterproof wavy silicone vibrator is beautifully designed with pillow-soft silicone over a slightly flexible shaft and a soft, squishy, marshmallowy tip. The contours stimulate the vagina while gently caressing your g-spot. It has 4 vibration settings – low, medium, high and pulse. Charging the Minamo couldn’t be easier, its case is its charging dock. This is a versatile vibrator for both clitoral and g-spot stimulation. Every effort has gone into making this a wonderfully sensual toy. For interest, Minamo means ‘water surface’ in Japanese.

Tenga Iroha Minamo  test
Tenga Iroha Minamo  features
Recommended for

BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
Sound:

Rating:

What it is:

Power:

Rating:

What it is:

Buzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
Rumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).
You should buy the Minamo if you...
Prefer a squishy feel vibrator to a hard one
Want a luxury product
Have a sensitive body
You should NOT buy the Minamo if you...
Need something with strong stimulation
Don't want an expensive toy
Want to use a toy anally
Tenga Iroha Minamo  features
Features
Vibration modes4 
Length6.75  inches
Insertable length5  inches
Width1.5 inches
MaterialsSilicone 
RechargeableYes 
Charging Time120  minutes
Battery Life60  minutes
AllergiesPhthalates-Free, Latex-Free 
Pros
Designed to complement your body
Squishy!
Well designed
Waterproof
Case is a docking station
Cons
May not have strong enough stimulation for some
Expensive
Conclusion

If you want a gentle, soft, pliable, slender insertable vibrator, then the Tenga Iroha Minamo could be the one for you. Many people dislike hard plastic toys and this is a great alternative. Although it does have a powerful motor, the sensations may not be strong enough for some people. It’s a very sensual product that can be used for both g-spot and clitoral stimulation. 

Vibrators as a quiet as a whisper

When privacy is a must it’s good to know which vibrators are whisper-quiet! Here are 3 of the quietest vibrators on the market.

Silicone – the softest vibrator material!

Why choose silicone? Let’s have a look at the advantages and benefits of this super-smooth material.

 

The feel of it!

The feel of it!

The feel of it!

Silicone is one of the softest, silky smooth sex toy materials available.

It feels extrememly pleasurable against the skin.

It can cover a more rigid, or super-squishy base material.

It also warms to body temperature very quickly.

If you want to play with temperatures then it’s easy to heat up silicone toys or cool them down to add extra fun.

Easy to clean

Easy to clean

Easy to clean

Silicone is so easy to clean! Wash your toy with anti-bacterial soap and warm water.

Some toys can even be boiled or put in the dishwasher – please check the instructions before you try this though.

Body-safe

Body-safe

Body-safe

Silicone is free from  phthalates which are thought to be harmful to skin.

It is hypoallergenic, odourless, tasteless,  waterproof and non toxic.

Being non-porous, silicone is less likely to harbour bacteria.

Many toys are made from medical-grade silicone. It’s an inert compound meaning that it’s less likely to degrade over time.

Added flexibility

Added flexibility

Added flexibility

Many silicone toys have a degress of flexibility in them so they can find your sweet spots more easily.

What's the best kind of vibrator for a beginner?

Here’s a quick rundown of the pros and cons of the most popular types of vibrators especially for beginners.

There is so much choice out there that it can be daunting when you start looking for your first toy. Here are some tips to get you on the right track:

  • Think about the stimulation that you already like, or that you want to try.
  • Choose body-safe material. Silicon is a fantastic one as it also warms up quickly to body temperature, is easy to clean and has some ‘give’ to it.
  • Remember, only toys that have a flared base or a handle are suitable to use anally – no one wants an embarrassing trip to the ER!
  • Have a look through our reviews, round-ups and articles for the best vibrators for beginners.
Clitoral vibrators

Clitoral vibrators

Clitoral vibrators

Pros:

  • Size doesn’t matter, just hold it against your clitoris and move it around as you desire.
  • Adjustable vibration speeds/patterns.
  • Discreet – easy to keep in your top drawer.

Cons:

  • Not for penetration.
  • Not for g-spot stimulation.

G-spot vibrators

G-spot vibrators

G-spot vibrators

Pros:

  • Makes it so much easier to find and stimulate your g-spot.
  • Lots of variety of shapes and sizes to choose from.
  • Variable speeds and patterns.
  • Control over thrust.
  • If you don’t want to use internally, they can be used on the clitoris.
  • Some have simultaneous clitoral and g-spot stimulation.

Cons:

  • Some may be too girthy to be comfortable for beginners.
  • Some vibrations can be too powerful.
  • Can take a bit of practice to get used to them.

Rabbits

Rabbits

Rabbits

Pros:

  • Lots of choice of different actions – clitoral and g-spot vibration stimulation and sometimes rotating head.
  • Many different speeds/patterns to select.
  • Can use just to stimulate the clitoris.

Cons:

  • May be too large for a beginner.
  • Vibrations can be quite intense.
  • Can be bulky to hold.

Dildo

Dildo

Dildo

Pros:

  • Choose between soft and squishy and hard.
  • Simulates penile penetration.
  • You can have life-like dildos or something that looks like it’s from science-fiction!
  • If it has a flared base or handle it may be suitable for anal play.

Cons:

  • Size matters – to large and it could be too intimidating and uncomfortable to use.
  • If you’re a beginner, learn to use it on yourself first so you know what you enjoy.

Anal plug

Anal plug

Anal plug

Pros:

  • Safe introduction ot anal play
  • Come in a variey of shapes and sizes and some vibrate too.
  • Can stimulate the prostate or the back vaginal wall adding extra pleasure to your fun.
  • The anus is full of lovely nerve endings adding a different dimension to sexual play.

Cons:

  • Need to make sure size is suitable. If you are beginner, choose the smallest size.
  • You’ll need to use a suitable lubricant.

How to use a soft vibrator

Vibrators are a popular choice for very good reason. They’re versatile, they come in a variety of different shapes and sizes, they can be for internal use, external use or both, they can have a multitude of different vibration settings and patterns, and they feel absolutely amazing! What’s not to love?
Let’s have a look at just some of the things you can do to have fun with these great toys.

How to use a soft vibrator

Relax.....

Relax.....

The best thing about vibrators is that they can be used on places other than your genitals. Try running your vibrator over your breasts or chest, down your stomach, over your inner thighs. You can use your vibrator on your nipples and over your genital area. Take your time and enjoy the sensations.

Lube-up!

How to use a soft vibrator

The toys featured here are all silicone. It’s a beautifully soft, smooth material that’s enhanced by using a splash of lube. Silicone does require the right kind of lubricant though. Try a water-based one or a lube that’s specially made for use with silicone. of course, if you’re going to use condoms, please ensure that the lube you is suitable for them too.

How to use a soft vibrator
How to use a soft vibrator

Solo play

Solo play

The best kind of self-care there is! Take time out to get to know what excites and delights you. You and your vibrator deserve some time together so kick back, and enjoy! If you have a vibrator that you can use internally, try using it in different positions. Remember though ONLY TOYS WITH A FLARED BASE CAN BE USED ANALLY (in capitals because no one wants to go to the ER because they can’t extract their vibrator)

Playing with others

How to use a soft vibrator

Your partner or partners can also get in on the fun! You can hand over your vibrator for them to use on you, or you use your vibrator on them, or if you place it between you, vibrators add another dimension of pleasure to your partnered sexual experiences. App-enabled toys also add an element of power-play into sessions as you can hand over control to long-distance lovers.

How to use a soft vibrator
How to use a soft vibrator

Bath time!

Bath time!

Turn those steamy bathrooms into steamy sessions! Many vibrators are waterproof and can be fully submerged in water. Always check to make sure though as some are only shower-proof.

How to clean a soft vibrator

Cleaning silicone toys couldn't be easier! As it's a non-porous material you can wash your toys with hot water and liquid soap. Always make sure that any ridges or folds in the silicone are cleaned thoroughly. You may need to use a sponge, lint-free towel or even a soft toothbrush to make sure that every bit is cleaned. As a general rule. If a toy is made of silicone, borosilicate glass or stainless steel, it can be sterilized through boiling or even put in a dishwasher (no detergent, and on the sterilize program) as long as it doesn't have any electrical parts in it. Always check the manufacturer's recommendations first though. To dry, simply lay on paper towels and let your toys air dry. Toys are best stored in their own separate bags or cases as sometimes materials can bond together if they're stored touching each other.

Porous
materials

Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

Non-propous
materials

Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

The toys with electrical
components

If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.

Author
Gail Hooper
Gail Hooper
Age: 50
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Beginner
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