The 7 Best Sub Collars for Fetishes and Fashion
Our Rating System Explained
It’s important to remain neutral and unbiased, no matter what type of product you’re reviewing. Here at Bedbible, we rate each product using the “Bedbible Rating” system, which considers each product on an individual basis. After eliminating the chance of brand bias, we can then access a sub collar on its specific design, how easy it is to use, and the quality of the product as a whole. Alongside the “Bedbible Rating”, you’ll also see a “User Rating”: this is calculated from multiple customer reviews to provide a general consumer score! We also tried to provide varied options, since some people may be searching for a visually appealing sub collar while others may be more concerned with finding a cruelty-free product. Regardless of the specific requirements you have, we’re sure the collar you’re looking for is listed below!
Things to Consider
Although it can be tempting to purchase the first sub collar that catches your eye, there are a few things you’ll want to consider before swiping your card.
- Size – Will the collar fit around your sub’s neck? If the collar in question has other adornments (such as harnesses), you’ll need to ensure that these will fit properly as well.
- Lockable – While having a sub collar that can be locked is a nice touch for some, others may not require it. Generally, a non-lockable collar will be cheaper.
- Comfort – You should establish how long you intend your sub to wear this specific collar. If it’s only for short-term wearing then comfort is less important. However, if you intend this collar to be worn for extended periods of time then comfortability is especially important.
- D-rings – If you’re buying a sub collar with the idea of chaining your sub, then you’ll want to make sure that the collar in question has D-rings. Without these, you won’t have any safe ways to chain your sub!
- Style – This all comes down to personal preference. While traditional leather collars are great, you may want to consider alternative options before settling down with the basics.
Different Types of Sub Collars
The type of sub collar isn’t determined by its physical appearance. Rather, the type of sub collar is determined by the meaning behind the collar!
- Play – Collars intended for BDSM play are worn solely for the sake of role-play.
- Posture – These collars restrict the neck’s movement, improving the overall posture of the person wearing it.
- Day Collars – Day collars are chosen specifically for public adornment. Generally inconspicuous, they symbolize the D/s relationship to those in the relationship, but not to those outside of it.
- Permanent Collars – These collars are a mark of ownership. Intended to be worn 24/7, these collars let other doms know that this sub is already claimed.
- Collars of Consideration – These collars are worn by potential subs. They signify that a sub is being evaluated by a dom to determine whether or not they want to move forward in the relationship.
Extra Features to Look Out for
While the actual collar itself is arguably the most important aspect of a sub collar, many collars offer additional features that may sway you between the various options. For example, integrated clamps (such as nipple, clit, or labia clamps) can help enhance your next bondage session! The same is true for wrist restraints or leashes. Consider additional uses beyond the simple collar when shopping around!
FAQ
What is a Sub Collar?
A sub collar is a collar designed to be worn by a submissive. They come in many different designs, sizes, and materials, but are often made with an emphasis on durability so that they can be used to restrain the sub during play time. While many collars are take a right-in-your-face approach, there are also more subtle designs available. Different collars can be worn to designate the sub's status in their current D/s relationship.
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The 7 Best sub collars in Test
Bondage Boutique Faux Leather Collar and Leash
Many people who enjoy BDSM are also vegan, which means that using a traditional leather sub collar is out of the question for them. While faux leather used to be pretty poor quality in the past, thankfully that is no longer the case: a great example of this progress is the Faux Leather Collar and Leash by Bondage Boutique! Since it uses faux leather instead of real leather, this collar/leash combo is essentially maintenance-free, can be used right away (rather than needing to be broken in), and will always maintain a “new” look! Fully adjustable and made to accommodate a variety of neck sizes, add this combo to your BDSM collection for only $20!
| Materials | Faux leather, metal |
| Length | 38 inches |
| Harness Size | 14 to 18.5 inches |
| Fastening | Buckle |
| Adjustable | Yes |
This submissive collar and leash combo offers a great value, costing less than $20 yet offering adjustability, high-quality materials, and durable construction. The faux leather requires zero maintenance, and—despite being made from synthetic materials—is gentle on skin, which prevents users from needing to deal with unwanted irritations or rashes like you might get from a lesser-quality material. Like many BDSM items, your only color option is black, but this is a fairly standard limitation. While the collar is adjustable, it’s better suited to those with thicker necks, whereas those with thin necks may need to make slight modifications in order to place the collar securely around their necks. It would be nice if they offered this combination in two different sizes so these types of modifications weren’t necessary, but we still think this combo is easily worth the $20 price tag nonetheless.
BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps
Having a sub collar is great, but why should the fun end there? Spice things up a bit with the addition of nipple clamps! This BASICS Collar with Nipple Clamps is the obvious way to go when you’re on a budget, costing less than $15 for both the collar and the clamps. The collar itself is velcro, making it easy to adjust to precisely the size of your sub’s neck. This collar is connected via two chains to the crocodile-style nipple clamps, which are also adjustable and fitted with PVC covers for extra grip.
| Materials | Metal, PVC, Velcro |
| Length | 23 inches |
| Harness Size | Up to 18 inches |
| Fastening | Clip |
| Adjustable | Yes |
When you’re getting both a collar and a set of nipple clamps for such a low price, it’s fair to assume that some corners have been cut. If that’s what you were thinking, then good news: you’re correct! The collar is made of velcro, so while it’s very easy to use and adjust, it is quite cheap, both in terms of material and in terms of looks. However, the included nipple clamps are fairly decent quality, allowing the user to adjust each one individually for the perfect fit. True, you can certainly find combos like this one that are made of much higher-grade materials, but considering the low price that this set is available for, we think the level of quality is more than acceptable and would recommend this to anyone wanting to expand their BDSM equipment collection on a budget.
DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar
Made of genuine leather and high-quality metal, this Deluxe Leather Collar from DOMINIX might cost a bit more than the faux competition, but the years of use you’ll receive from this product make it more than worth it! Adjustable from 12.5 to 18 inches in circumference, simply fasten this collar on your sub’s neck, clip a leash to the D-ring, and lead them wherever your heart desires! In addition to looking amazing when worn, this collar also features extra padding on the inside, making it comfortable for long-term use. If you want a collar that will last forever and match nearly any BDSM encounter, make the smart decision and pick yourself up a Deluxe Leather Collar by DOMINIX!
| Materials | Leather |
| Length | 21.5 inches |
| Harness Size | 12.5 to 18 inches |
| Fastening | Buckle |
| Adjustable | Yes |
This sub collar claims to be adjustable from 12.5 inches to 18 inches, but the user experience tells us another story. Still, there’s no doubt that the collar itself is adjustable, although you might find it to be extra tight (or very loose) if you yourself measure near one of these extremes. This can be especially problematic if you have a smaller neck since the collar lacks any loop to contain the extra collar length (like you would find on a belt). This means you’ll have the collar length hanging off of the side of your neck, which is somewhat unsightly. This is a shame because adding a loop would have been fairly easy, yet this detail has been overlooked. The design might have some flaws, but thankfully the materials used are very good, which is why we still recommend this collar for those with an average-sized neck who want a genuine leather sub collar.
Purple Reins Collar-to-Wrist Restraint
When a regular sub collar just doesn’t offer enough control, you might find yourself wondering how else you can subdue your partner. Perhaps try restraining their arms? The Purple Reins Collar-to-Wrist Restraint allows you to have full control over your partner’s upper body, keeping their arms bound either in front or behind them (the choice is yours!). Velcro straps make it easy to restrict your partner’s movement, and you can even adjust the central strap to truly limit the movement of their arms! Padded for extra comfort, this Collar-and-Wrist Restraint is perfect for those who are still relatively new to BDSM but want to take things to the next level.
| Materials | Nylon, velcro |
| Harness Size | (Collar) 11.5 to 17 inches, (Cuffs) 6.5 to 11.5 inches, (Central strap) 8 to 21 inches |
| Fastening | Velcro |
| Adjustable | Yes |
| Allergies | Latex & Phthalate-Free |
Priced at approximately $25, your expectations might be low for this item. These expectations may or may not be accurate! Unfortunately, quality control appears to be an issue when it comes to this Collar-and-Wrist Restraint, but thankfully, only a small number of people will have this issue. If you’re in the majority, the product you receive will give you a lot of bang for your buck! Comfortable to wear yet completely restrictive, this restraint can be used in front of or behind the body, binding the arms together and further limiting their movement with a strap that’s attached to the collar. While it may not be the most “sexy” looking item around, it will do the job for your average couple, and you’d be hard-pressed to find an item with similar potential in the same price range, so this gets two thumbs up from us!
DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps
Neck, nips, and…lips? Yup, you got it right: introducing the DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Collar with Clamps. Perhaps best suited for more experienced BDSM practitioners, this unique item allows you to completely dominate your partner using a variety of chains, clamps, and the collar! The adjustable collar fits necks from 14 to 18 inches around, while the PVC-tipped clamps can also be adjusted for more pleasure or more pain. Each part is connected using high-quality chains, providing a visual appeal alongside real restraining potential. If you’re going to go, go big or go home!
| Materials | Leather |
| Length | (Short chain) 15.75 inches, (Long Chain) 17.75 inches |
| Fastening | Tweezer-style clamps |
| Adjustable | Yes |
If you and your partner are looking for a way to combine a sub collar with nipple and labia clamps then this is surely a great way to do it! Stainless steel and genuine leather come together to make this great setup, leaving your wallet $55 lighter but your partner much happier. The clamps themselves—due to the nature of the design—can be a bit challenging to get just right, but they are completely adjustable so you’re sure to get it with some minor tweaking. As noted above, the leather might discolor your neck during the first few uses, but this won’t be an issue after it’s been worn multiple times. Considering how many clamps you get for the price (plus the materials used to make this item), we definitely think it’s worth considering for more experienced BDSM enthusiasts.
KinkLab Pink Bound Leather Collar
One of the things people often struggle with is finding discreet day collars for subs. This sub collar isn’t necessarily “discreet” in the sense that people are likely to notice it, but it does look like a normal piece of fashionwear: in other words, they WILL notice it but they WON’T question it. This gives it an advantage over many other collars since it doubles as both a kink and a fashion accessory! Make your partner pretty in public and subdue them behind closed doors with this Pink Bound Leather Collar from KinkLab!
This collar lacks any type of interior padding, which could be a plus or a minus depending on how you look at it. On the plus side, it will get steadily more uncomfortable to wear over time, which could be a fun way to mess with your sub. On the other hand, if you’re wearing it primarily as a fashion statement, this could become an inconvenience. Nonetheless, this collar is made from real leather, can be adjusted, and uses a buckle-less design to prevent it from pulling on your hair. The price isn’t cheap, but we do think it’s fair, so we’d recommend this to those who want to add a bit of cute to their kink!
Silicone Locking Collar
So, you like the collar listed above but… you’re a vegan. Well, leather is out of the question, but that doesn’t mean you’re out of options. Although it’s black (not pink), this locking collar is made from silicone instead of leather, meaning it’s cruelty-free and ready to wear! The large collar is made to accommodate necks measuring 14.5 to 20 inches around, and a smaller version is available as well. The O-ring isn’t just for show either: you can put a leash on it and walk your “pet”! Visually simple, this classic design is just what you need for any type of BDSM play you might find yourself getting into.
The visual appearance of this sub collar makes it the perfect option for women with a submissive man: black is the best color for a male sub collar! Of course, this collar can be enjoyed by anyone—regardless of their gender—but people with a nickel allergy might want to steer clear of this one. The collar uses a variety of mid and high-grade metals including nickel plating, zinc, brass, and steel in its construction. Considering the price point, this is pretty disappointing. While we understand that vegan items often cost more, why cheap out on the metal(s) used? Still, if you’re not allergic to nickel, this collar is a good buy, offering a classic look with a durable design, but the allergic potential of this collar can’t be ignored.
Be Discreet with these Jewelry-like Sub Collars
BDSM is a fun way to fulfill your sexual fantasies, but chances are, you don’t want everyone to know what you’re up to when you go out in public. Using this sub collar jewelry, you can keep things kinky without drawing too much attention to yourself.
Additions for Your Sub Collar
So, you already own a collar: what’s next? Here are a few must-have items to help you get the most out of your favorite collar!
What Does BDSM Stand For?
BDSM stands for “Bondage and discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism”. Confused?
BD
Essentially, “Bondage and discipline” involves one partner restricting a partner’s movement and “punishing” them. “Dominance and Submission” refers to each partner’s role within the situation.
SM
“Sadism and Masochism” mean getting sexual gratification from either inflicting pain or receiving it.
The Sub Collar
So, how is this related to wearing a sub collar? Well, the sub collar indicates your role within this relationship (which could be all-inclusive or bedroom-specific). By wearing the sub choker, you’re “submitting” to your master and confirming the validity of their discipline, thus completing the roleplay. The collar can be used to let others in the community know your availability, status, and level of progression with your current dom. Also, wearing a sub collar just feels sexy!
How to Use a Sub Collar
Although sub collars come in a wide variety of sizes, designs, and materials, they are all used similarly. There isn’t any “right” or “wrong” way to use one, but here are the most common ways they are used.
As a Fashion Statement
Many men and women (even those who don’t partake in BDSM themselves) enjoy wearing collars and chokers for the aesthetic appeal.
As a Role-Playing Item
Collars can be used to restrain a partner during play time, which could involve you both roleplaying as dom/sub, master/pet, or any other combination of roles you decide to go with.
As a Status Designation
Sub collars are often used in the BDSM community to portray one’s role, status, and current relationship. There are many different messages you can portray with a collar so we recommend looking further into this if that’s your reason for wanting a sub collar.
How to Clean a Sub Collar
Faux leather and silicone can be easily cleaned using warm water and soap. Wash the surface off using a washcloth and then dry it off using a microfiber cloth. We recommend letting the item air dry for a bit as well since this will prevent any unwanted bacteria from growing on your collar. Genuine Leather uses the same method mentioned above for routine cleaning. However, it’s beneficial to also condition your leather with saddle soap after use (apply the saddle soap in a circular motion using a clean cloth). While you can technically use only regular soap to clean leather, conditioning the leather with saddle soap will help maintain the integrity of the leather, meaning it will last much longer.
materials
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
materials
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
components
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.