4 Best Thigh Cuffs & Restraints
While wrist and ankle cuffs get most of the good publicity, thigh cuffs are an underestimated piece of bondage gear. They’re so fun to use but are less common. That’s also why finding good quality thigh cuffs can be a bit challenging. In this review, I’ve compiled all of the thigh cuffs and restraints that we’ve tested at Bedbible and rated them in terms of design, ease of use, and quality.
Test Winner4.7  Overall Rating 4.7/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.3/5 User Ratings: 5.0/5 Based on 10 user reviews | Best Thigh Cuffs4.2 Overall Rating 4.2/5 Bedbible Rating: 4/5 Reviewed by: Catherine SeeleyUser Ratings: 4.3/5 Based on 40 user reviews | Best Thigh Sling4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4/5 Reviewed by: Mariah AndersonUser Ratings: 4.5/5 Based on 6 user reviews | Best Restraint Set4.0 Overall Rating 4.0/5 Bedbible Rating: 4/5 Reviewed by: Lady RedUser Ratings: 4.1/5 Based on 63 user reviews |
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| Strict Bondage Harness with Bows | DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Wrist to Thigh Restraints | Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Sling | Purple Reins Body Harness |
| $60See Deal | $50See Deal | $80See Deal | $40See Deal |
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How We Test thigh cuffs
We’re a team of 363 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best thigh cuffs, our testers tried and reviewed 274 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre thigh cuffs didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1455 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
Read more about how we test products.
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Test Winner Strict Bondage Harness with Bows
Overall Rating
4.7/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.3/5
Reviewed by:
Kiki HallUser Ratings:
5.0/5
Based on 10 user reviews
Rating: Strict Bondage Harness with Bows was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the thigh cuff.
Rating: Strict Bondage Harness with Bows was rated 60 out of 100, which means it is somewhat intuitive and easy to use.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Strict Bondage Harness with Bows was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Lower body harness with thigh cuffs and removable wrist cuffs
- Adjustable straps around the waist, thighs, and wrists
- Made of faux leather and nickel-free metal hardware.
Pros
- ✅ Fully adjustable
- ✅ Adorable design
- ✅ Versatile use
Cons
- ❌ Only two sizes available
- ❌ May require assistance to put on
Specifications
Why I Chose It
The Strict Bondage Harness with Bows is a clear Test Winner based on our tester, Kiki’s, review. Not only do these thigh restraint look absolute adorable with the little bows on the back but it’s versatile as well!
The removable hand cuffs allow you to explore with lots of different bondage positions and scenarios other than just wearing it to look cute. Kiki immediately fell in love with the design: “I am strictly a gold jewelry wearer so when I saw that the hardware was all gold, I wanted to squeal. The decorative bows add a playful, feminine touch that sets it apart from more utilitarian bondage wear.”
While most parts of the harness are adjustable, Kiki had some difficulty getting it to fit: “It only comes in two sizes, M/L and XL/2XL. I was sent the M/L and although it does fit, it’s not PERFECT. […] I wish the length of the straps that go across your butt/back of thighs was also adjustable. I feel like that would have made the adjustability near perfect.”
Although, if your size happens to align with the sizing for this harness, I still think it’s a great set of thigh cuffs with a twist! For such an affordable price, they definitely deliver on style and performance.
Best Thigh Cuffs DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Wrist to Thigh Restraints
Overall Rating
4.2/5
Bedbible Rating:
4/5
Reviewed by:
Catherine SeeleyUser Ratings:
4.3/5
Based on 40 user reviews
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Wrist to Thigh Restraints was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the thigh cuff.
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Wrist to Thigh Restraints was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Wrist to Thigh Restraints was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Wrist-to-thigh restraints
- Made of genuine leather
- Adjustable buckle fastenings on both the wrist cuffs and thigh cuffs.
Pros
- ✅ Simple but versatile
- ✅ Quality leather
- ✅ Comfortable to wear
- ✅ Quick fastening and release
Cons
- ❌ The stitching is quite weak
- ❌ Only fits thighs up to 29"
Specifications
Why I Chose It
The DOMINIX Deluxe Leather Wrist to Thigh Restraints are a great example of this classic wrist-to-thigh cuff that is one of the most popular versions of thigh restraints.
I personally LOVE this concept of having your wrists pinned to the sides or the fronts of your thighs. For something so simple that doesn’t require much additional bondage gear to set up, I actually think it they’re a genius way to add (almost) full body restraint to your play time.
Our tester, Catherina, really enjoyed these thigh restraints because of this versatility. Although, her main point of concern was the seemingly weak seams connecting the wrists to the thighs: “If you’re looking to purchase these, I would only say to look carefully at the sizing, and really evaluate your strength and the roughness of your play.”
Best Thigh Sling Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Sling
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4/5
Reviewed by:
Mariah AndersonUser Ratings:
4.5/5
Based on 6 user reviews
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Sling was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the thigh cuff.
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Sling was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Sportsheets Saffron Thigh Sling was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Thigh sling with a padded neck rest
- Made of faux leather
- Adjustable straps.
Pros
- ✅ Allows for hands free positioning and deeper penetration
- ✅ Comfortable vegan leather
- ✅ Fully adjustable straps
- ✅ Storage bag included
Cons
- ❌ Not really for restraint play
- ❌ Material can feel cheap
- ❌ Straps can slip mid session
Specifications
Why I Chose It
This thigh sling is a great alternative if you want less restriction, and more support. It’s a unique product that’s well-designed, comfortable, and isn’t restricted by weight or thigh size.
The sturdy stirrups keep the legs secured to the padded neck rest. I like that you can fully adjust the connecting straps so you can decide how far you want your thighs spread apart.
Our tester, Mariah, was blown away by how efficiently this freed up your hands and allowed for deeper penetration: “I’ve been sexually active for a long time, but let me tell you, I don’t think I’ve ever actually worried about someone else becoming a permanent part of my anatomy before. Either way, it was AWESOME!”
Best Restraint Set Purple Reins Body Harness with Wrist and Thigh Restraint
Overall Rating
4.0/5
Bedbible Rating:
4/5
Reviewed by:
Lady RedUser Ratings:
4.1/5
Based on 63 user reviews
Rating: Purple Reins Body Harness with Wrist and Thigh Restraint was rated 98 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the thigh cuff.
Rating: Purple Reins Body Harness with Wrist and Thigh Restraint was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Purple Reins Body Harness with Wrist and Thigh Restraint was rated 92 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
- Full body harness with thick thigh straps
- Padded wrist restraints
- Fully adjustable straps with velcro fastening.
Pros
- ✅ Wrist cuffs can be removed and used separately
- ✅ Lightweight and affordable
- ✅ Beginner-friendly full body bondage play
- ✅ Perfect for doggy-style bondage
Cons
- ❌ May be uncomfortable for certain body types
- ❌ Doesn't come with instructions
- ❌ Only available in one color
Specifications
Why I Chose It
Now, this is an affordable option for those who want to enjoy some full-body bondage with thigh restraints. The Purple Reins Body Harness may look a bit complicated but it’s fairly simple to use. I do wish it came with instructions, simply because it can look a bit confusing, but our tester, Lady Red, found it easy to use.
“My personal experience with this toy is that it is not a toy, it’s an experience. I have been into BDSM for some years now. I enjoy being handcuffed and dominated — I have been tied to the bed but I have never been tied in the way this harness does.”
She found that it was surprisingly comfortable and strong, despite the straps looking a bit flimsy. The main drawback has to be the lack of customization available in how to assemble this harness: “I believe there are only a few positions that you can be in while using this harness.” Of course, if you do love a good face-down-ass-up kind of position, this may be a perfect fit! Either way, it’s an affordable way to have fun with thigh restraints.
Comparison
| Best | Test Winner | Best Thigh Cuffs | Best Thigh Sling | Best Restraint Set |
| Overall score | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.2 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 5 / 5.0 from 10 users | 4.3 / 5.0 from 40 users | 4.5 / 5.0 from 6 users | 4.1 / 5.0 from 63 users |
| Price | Affordable | Moderate | Affordable | Cheap |
| Design | 90 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 98 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 60 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Quality | 95 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 92 / 100 |
| Sound | - | - | - | - |
| Power | - | - | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | - | - | - |
| Length | [M/L] Waist: 26-42 inches, Thighs: 13-26 inches, Cuffs: 5.75-10.25 inches | 29.5 inches | Straps: up to 48 inches, Thigh Cuffs: up to 32 inches | Wrist Cuffs: 8.5-11 inches, Thigh Cuffs: 16-26.5 inches |
| Adjustable | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Fastening | Buckles, Carabiner Clips | Buckle | None | Cuffs: Velcro, Straps: Slide Buckles |
| Materials | Vegan PU Leather, Metal | Leather, metal | PU Vegan Leather, Nylon | Nylon, Metal |
What to Consider When Buying Wrist to Thigh Cuffs
Once you’ve committed to buying bondage cuffs you’ll need to sort through the options to find the perfect set for you. While you could just go with the first set you see, we’d recommend putting some thought into your purchase instead. Consider the points below when shopping to ensure your new set of bondage restraints meets—if not exceeds—your expectations!
- Material – First off, you should decide which materials you want to be pressed against your skin. Leather is a popular natural option, but there are plenty of synthetic options (like faux leather, nylon, or polyester) as well. Beyond how it feels, you should also consider durability. If you’re planning on being rather rough then you’ll need a material that can take the heat!
- Fastening – Buckles and velcro restraints are the two main types of fastenings used on bondage thigh cuffs, although you may occasionally see other types. There are two things to consider here: the time it will take to fasten the fastening and how well the fastening will stay put. Buckles are better for rough play, whereas velcro is best suited for light play (but takes less time to put on!).
- Comfort – The materials used will affect the comfort, but so will the sizing and the design. You should make sure that your new BDSM thigh cuffs are sized correctly to your anatomy, especially if you have thick thighs or thin wrists.
- Extras – You might have begun your journey simply looking for bondage thigh cuffs, but by now, you’ve probably noticed that you can get a few extras to go with your cuffs. While you don’t necessarily *need* them, it’s worth considering if a harness, chains, or spreader bars are things you would/could actually use.
Thigh Cuff Positions
Thigh cuffs can be a great tool to spice up some standard sex positions and introduce elements of bondage to your regular sex life!
Perhaps you’ve bought a set of wrist to thigh cuffs but you’re not sure how to get the most use out of them. Here are some of my favorite ways to have fun with thigh restraints!
The Half Hogtie
The hogtie is a position that involves the ‘restraintee’ being laid on their stomach, with their limbs tied together behind them. Now, using thigh cuffs instead of ankle cuffs is a great way to make this position a tad less intense. By securing their wrists to the backs of their thighs, the submissive is able to stretch their legs and feel more comfortable for the submissive.
Face Down Ass Up
The intensified version of “doggy-style” we all know and love can easily be elevated by securing your lover’s wrists to their thigh cuffs from the side or while their arms are on their backs.
Spread Eagle
Whether you’re on your back or standing up bent over, a thigh spreader bar can be a fun tool to elevate penetration or oral play!
How to Pick The Perfect Thigh Restraints for You
Although many models look visually similar, there’s actually a bit more to consider than just looks alone when selecting a set of thigh cuffs. Here’s a short list of things to consider:
- Materials – Most materials can be modified to look a certain way, but the actual “feel” of the material against the skin is more important. Leather is always a common choice in BDSM gear, but there are many artificial options available for vegans and people who prefer cruelty-free products.
- Comfort – In addition to the main material used, you’ll also want to consider the possibility of any pinching (from the straps) or uncomfortable positioning that the cuffs might put you in. You might want to make sure there’s some kind of soft padding in the inside.
- Fastening – Velcro fastening is easier to put on/take off (making them perfect for beginner BDSM), but is much easier to escape than actual buckles. On the other hand, while buckles may restrain a person more effectively, the time it takes to properly fasten them could kill the mood.
- Adjustability & Sizing – You should take your measurements and have them on hand when shopping for cuffs. It’s important that your new thigh cuffs fit properly, although the measurements won’t need to be exact if the cuffs in question are adjustable!
- Amount of Restriction – Depending on the intended purpose, more or less mobility may be desired. Perhaps you’re looking for a full body harness with thigh cuffs or maybe you’re just looking for individual wrist to thigh cuffs.
- Fastening mechanisms and anchors – Make sure you know exactly what kind of fastening mechanisms you’re working with when considering a new piece of bondage gear. Does it have carabiner clips, lobster clips, or a third option? How many potential fastening points are there and where? How can these thigh restraints be combined qith other types of restraints?
Reviewed by:
Kiki Hall