7 Best Vibrators for Beginners
We’ve searched high and low to bring you the very best vibrators for beginners of every kind. You’ll find top-quality, beginner-friendly wand vibrators, rabbit vibrators, g-spot vibrators, bullet vibrators and much, much more! We’ve prioritised vibrators that are easy to use, unintimidating, and most of, very pleasurable!
Best G-Spot | Best Bullet Vibrator | Best For Couples | Best Rabbit Vibrator | Best Wand Vibrator | Best Clit Sucker | Best App-Controlled |
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Lovehoney mon ami G-spot Massager | We-Vibe Tango X | We-Vibe Sync 2 | Je Joue Hera Flex | Mantric Wand Vibrator | Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 | Lovense Lush 3 |
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How We Test vibrators for beginners
We’re a team of 345 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best vibrators for beginners, our testers tried and reviewed 383 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre vibrators for beginners didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1275 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
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Best G-Spot Lovehoney mon ami G-Spot Massager
- Slim, curved shaft is easy and comfortable to insert
- Bulbous, flat tip for maximum g-spot contact
- Flexible, soft silicone
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Curved, flexible shaft for comfort
- ✅ Powerful vibrations
- ✅ Can be use internally and externally
- ✅ Silky soft silicone
Cons
- ❌ The tip might be too girthy for some
- ❌ Can be hard to hold onto
- ❌ No clit stimulation, which some people need to orgasm
Why I Chose It
“As someone that needs clit stimulation to orgasm, I was surprised when I barely made it through the settings. Within less than 5 minutes and a tiny bit of clit stim, I was done. Seriously! I’ve tried it a few more times to see if it was a fluke and got the exact same results.”
The mon ami G-spot Massager is the perfect choice for beginners looking for deep G-spot stimulation. The design is classy, simple, and super easy to use, thanks to its slim shape and flexible shaft. The bulbous tip, a feature of many g-spot vibes, helps it feel filling and satisfying without too much stretch.
The best part, however, according to our tester Megan, is the power! Lovehoney claim that it has “sheet-clenchingly powerful vibrations”, and she confirmed that it definitely lived up to that promise. While they’re not so strong that they’ll make you numb, they have the perfect amount of rumble to provide deep stimulation — ideal for newbies looking for g-spot satisfaction.
Best Bullet Vibrator We-Vibe Tango X
- Sleek, lipstick-style bullet vibrator
- Hard ABS plastic body with a bulbed, silicone grip
- Ultra-rumbly yet quiet vibrations
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Discreet design
- ✅ Ultra-rumbly vibrations
- ✅ Quiet
- ✅ Classy and luxurious feel
Cons
- ❌ Only for external stimulation
- ❌ Can heat up with longer use
- ❌ Plastic can feel uncomfortable on the skin without lube
Why I Chose It
The We-Vibe Tango X was actually the second vibrator I ever tried! The first was a cheap, buzzy bullet that I enjoyed, but only because I didn’t know anything else. However, as soon the Tango X bullet vibrator entered my life, it changed the game, and it’s still my absolute favorite, even after trying 50+ other toys.
The Tango’s superpower is definitely its vibrations. They’re so rumbly that, at the lowest settings, they feel almost like a tapping sensation. I haven’t experienced that kind of deep, penetrating clitoral stimulation from any other toy. Plus, they’re pretty quiet, too! The hard plastic body means that you can really press down, but with some lube, it can still feel gentle on your skin.
I adore using it for solo play, either alone or paired with a dildo for that all-important clit stim. But, it’s also an absolute must-have if you want a vibe to use during sex. The compact size and lightweight build means it can easily slip between you and your partner, but you can still grip it easily thanks to the silicone handle. It may be a little bit of an investment, but I all that guarantee that it will be worth it for you.
Best For Couples We-Vibe Sync 2
- Wearable C-shaped vibrator that can be used solo or during penetrative sex
- Features 2 motors for clitoral and g-spot stimulation, plus stimulation for your partner
- Slim, flexible body that can be posed at different angles
- Comes with a wireless remote and app controls
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Dual stimulating design
- ✅ Small and easy to use
- ✅ Great for solo and couple's play
- ✅ Hands-free play with remote and app controls
- ✅ Soft, flexible body
Cons
- ❌ Vibrations may not be strong enough for some
- ❌ Might not fit all bodies
- ❌ Can come with a learning curve
Why I Chose It
The We-Vibe Sync 2 is a little different than most vibes suggested for beginners, but that doesn’t mean that it’s not a great choice for adventurous couples! It’s designed to be worn in the vagina, with the larger arm on the outside and the smaller one on the inside, and can be worn during penetrative sex to add some vibes for both of you!
Our tester Kasia loved “how small and easy this vibe is, the G-spot arm is small enough to quickly slide in, but the shape makes it stay even with more intense thrusting motions“. The shape is also adjustable, making it easier to find the right angle for you. When it comes to vibrations, Kasia discovered that they weren’t the strongest she had ever encountered, but they were the “perfect balance of buzzy and rumbly” to make them stimulating without being overwhelming.
Of course, it can be hard to press buttons on a toy that you’re wearing, so it’s ideal that the Sync 2 comes with both a wireless remote control and optional, free app controls via the We-Vibe app. Kasia preferred to use the intuitive remote control, but the nice thing about using the app is that you can also control the toy long-distance! However you choose to play, the Sync 2 is all about shared pleasure, which I think is a wonderful way to start your vibrator journey.
Best Rabbit Vibrator Je Joue Hera Flex
- Small yet powerful rabbit vibrator
- Slim, adjustable shaft with bulbous tip
- Wide, flexible rabbit arm
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Curved shaft for G spot stimulation
- ✅ Clit stimulating arm is very flexible
- ✅ Shaft is adjustable
- ✅ Easy to use controls
Cons
- ❌ May not go deep enough for some
- ❌ Vibrations are a bit buzzy
Why I Chose It
I know that rabbit vibrators can be a little intimidating for some, but that’s why I love this ultra-beginner-friendly version. The Je Joue Hera Flex’s small size and extra adjustability makes it way more accessible than most rabbits.
Bedbible tester Cassie was really impressed with its ‘Body Flex Technology’. She described how she has struggled in the past to find a rabbit that worked for her: “I’ve tried different designs, different sizes, different features… but it just always felt like the fixed distance between the clitoral stem and the insertable shaft didn’t match my proportions“. However, the Hera Flex was different, as the poseable shaft is “so easy to move around yet holds its shape pretty well“, lessening that learning curve of finding the right angles for your body.
Cassie also liked that the vibrations “were nice and powerful”, but not overwhelmingly strong. This gives you the perfect opportunity to experience that g-spot stimulation build-up and a fabulous blended orgasm without being immediately bombarded by extra strong clitoral vibes.
Best Wand Vibrator Mantric Rechargeable Wand Vibrator
- Slightly smaller magic wand vibrator
- Designed for external stimulation
- Wide head for a broad-type of stimulation
- Fully waterproof
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Powerful external stimulation
- ✅ Handy size, easy to store
- ✅ Ergonomic curved shape
- ✅ Great for solo, and partnered sex
- ✅ Pairs well with other toys
Cons
- ❌ External use only
- ❌ As the toy is curvy, sometimes it can slip off
- ❌ Battery life could be longer
- ❌ Head may be a bit small for some
Why I Chose It
The Mantric Wand Vibrator is an ideal first-time wand for a beginner looking for super-powerful and versatile external stimulation. I chose it as the best wand for beginners, mostly because of its slightly smaller size, great price, and easy-to-use design. It’s less complicated than a rabbit or a love egg — magic wands really do deliver when it comes to supercharged clitoral stimulation.
Victoria, who tested out this toy, is no stranger to wands, but had never found one that felt good and lasted! However, upon meeting the Mantric wand, she was instantly impressed: “This wand is absolutely great quality and it is my favourite of any I have used before“. Powerful vibes are a must with any wand, and she found that “the vibrations and patterns are strong, you can adjust strength and patterns separately“, something she appreciated, as she didn’t have to keep cycling through vibration modes.
Another thing to love about this wand is how user-friendly it is. Victoria loved that “the curve of the wand makes it easy to hold and reach” — this is something that can really help beginners, as you can explore your clit and the rest of your body with minimal effort! One other interesting feature of the Mantric wand is the light on the handle, which changes colors depending on the vibration mode. If you’re playing solo, you won’t really notice it, but it’s a great way for your partner to remember which modes you like best!
Best Clit Sucker Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3
- Comes with two interchangeable heads, one for ‘Air Pulse’ suction and one for ‘Liquid Air’ fluttering sensations
- Targeted, intense clitoral stimulation
- Can be used with or without vibrations
- App-enabled and non-app-enabled options available
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Air Pulse, Liquid Air and vibrations all in one!
- ✅ Large, squishy attachments for comfortable use
- ✅ Made with silky-smooth silicone
- ✅ Easy to connect to the Satisfyer app
Cons
- ❌ Can feel a little jumpy
- ❌ Pretty loud, especially on higher settings
- ❌ Vibrations feel quite buzzy
Why I Chose It
The Satisfyer Pro 2 is the absolute clit sucker icon loved by many, not only beginners but more advanced users as well! The reason I chose this toy as a top clit sucker for beginners is the gentle yet powerful stimulation it provides, its affordable price, and the design that is so easy to use and clean.
Since I tested it myself, I can also tell you that it’s still a big favorite of mine! While I wasn’t overly impressed with the vibrations, as they felt a bit buzzy, I fell head over heels in love with its clit sucking powers and the unique Liquid Air feature. When combined with a generous dollop of lube, the soft silicone membrane covering the mouth feels like a heavenly fluttering tongue, and it’s actually one of the best oral sex simulating toys I’ve tried. If you want something a bit more intense, you can switch out the head for the regular one, which forms a squishy but effective seal around your clit.
And let’s not forget about the app-control! The version of the Pro 2 Gen 3 that I tested is app-enabled, and it was fun to play around with the different features, like syncing it up to music, exploring different stimulation patterns, and long-distance play. However, if you’d rather go old-school, they also make a non-app-enabled one for about $10 cheaper!
Best App-Controlled Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator
- Egg vibrator that provides powerful G-spot stimulation, and mild clitoral vibrations
- Designed to be a wearable vibrator, and can be used for public play
- App-controlled (with many customizable and interactive features, and long-distance play)
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Powerful internal vibrations
- ✅ Flexible tail for clitoral stimulation
- ✅ Fun, and reliable app control
- ✅ Great for long-distance couples
- ✅ 5 hours of battery life
Cons
- ❌ Can be loud on the higher settings
- ❌ Weak clitoral vibrations
- ❌ Clit tail doesn't stay in place
Why I Chose It
Even if you’re a newbie to vibrators, there’s a good chance that you’ve already heard of the Lovense Lush 3. This cult-classic egg vibrator is a favorite of many, thanks to its powerful vibes and versatile app controls, but it’s also surprisingly beginner-friendly.
Our tester Kasia has actually tested both the Lush 3 and its predecessor, the Lush 2, which was one of her first ever sex toys. She found using it to be an eye-opening experience: “Foreplay and powerplay [when wearing the Lush 3] were such a turn-on! I think it’s a great sex toy to tease your partner because just the view of someone wearing it looks very sexy…“. If you’re interested in taking your play public, or want to play with a partner long distance, the Lush 3 is perfect, due to its fantastic app controls and “super quiet, and extra discreet” vibrations.
Whether you wear this egg vibe alone or with a partner, there’s no denying how strong those vibrations are! Kasia called it a “powerful vibrating egg vibrator that provides deep G-spot pleasure and features a curved tail for additional clitoral stimulation“, though she was a little disappointed that the external vibrations in the tail were “delicate and weak, even on the highest settings“. If you’re looking for a dual-stimulating toy, the Je Joue Hera Flex above may be a better bet.
Comparison
Best | Best G-Spot | Best Bullet Vibrator | Best For Couples | Best Rabbit Vibrator | Best Wand Vibrator | Best Clit Sucker | Best App-Controlled |
Overall score | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 4.5 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.6 / 5.0 from 24 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 472 users | 4.2 / 5.0 from 404 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 656 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 308 users | 4.2 / 5.0 from 1111 users |
Price | Affordable | Moderate | Moderate | Moderate | Moderate | Affordable | Moderate |
Design | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
Ease of use | 95 / 100 | 97 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 70 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 |
Quality | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Sound | - | 20 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 60 / 100 | - | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 |
Power | - | 80 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 | - | 60 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | somewhat rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | - | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | somewhat rumbly |
Vibration speeds | 5 | 8 | 3 (+ More In-App) | 5 | 5 | 5 | 3 (+ More In-App) |
Vibration patterns | 7 | 7 | - | 7 | 7 | 7 | 4 (+ More In-App) |
Length | 7.9 inches | 3.9 inches | - | 7 inches | 9 inches | 6.5 inches | 8 inches |
Insertable length | 5.1 inches | - | 3 inches | 3.5 inches | - | - | 3.5 inches |
Diameter | 1.4 inches | - | - | 1.2 inches | - | (Mouth) 0.6 inches | 1.4 inches |
Flexibility | Flexible | None | Flexible internal arm | Flexible stem and poseable shaft | None | None | Firm |
Materials | Silicone | ABS Plastic, Silicone | Silicone | Silicone, ABS plastic | Silicone, ABS Plastic | Silicone, ABS Plastic | Silicone |
Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Toy: Yes, Remote: Splashproof | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
Battery Life | 60 minutes | 120 minutes | Up to 120 minutes | 90 minutes | 120 - 150 minutes | 120 minutes | 300 minutes |
Rechargeable | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
Charging Time | 120 minutes | 90 minutes | 90 minutes | 60 minutes | 120 minutes | 240 minutes | 85 minutes |
Remote Controls | No | No | Yes, Wireless Remote | No | No | No | No |
App Controls | No | No | Yes, via We-Vibe App | No | No | Yes, via Satisfyer App (with Connect version) | Yes, via Lovense Remote App |
Travel Lock | Yes | Yes | No | No | No | No | No |
Storage Bag Included | No | Yes | Yes | No | No | No | - |
Colors Available | Purple | Red, Blue | Pink, Purple, Green | Black | Black | Burgundy Red, Purple, Black | Pink |
Width | - | 0.9 inches | - | - | 1.75 inches | (Base) 2 inches | - |
Vibration modes | - | - | 7 (+ More In-App) | - | - | - | - |
Suction Modes | - | - | - | - | - | 11 | - |
If You Are Looking For:
- The most discreet vibrator: The We-Vibe Tango X is the quietest, and has a discreet lipstick design. I personally also love the Lovense Lush 3 as it can be discreetly worn in public.
- The best vibrator for couples: Both the We-Vibe Sync 2 and the Lovense Lush 3 are designed with couple’s play in mind, with app-controls and long-distance options.
- The cheapest vibrator: The Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation, the Mantric Wand and the Lovehoney mon ami G-Spot Massager are the most budget-friendly options in this review.
Best types of vibrators for beginners
- Bullet — bullet vibrators are suitable for external stimulation, they are discreet, and they can vary a lot in intensity
- Dildo — dildo vibrators are suitable for internal stimulation and they can have a realistic look or appear neutral
- Rabbit — a rabbit vibrator has an internal shaft and external ‘rabbit ears’ so it stimulates the clitoris and vagina at the same time for blended orgasms
- Love egg — vibrating eggs are worn inside the vagina and remote control love eggs are great for partner play and long-wear (depending on material)
- Anal plug — vibrating butt plugs create a feeling of fullness while the vibrations add more stimulation
- Clit sucker — specifically centered on the clit, clit suckers provide pulsing indirect stimulation with or without vibratio
- Wand — wands are suitable for external use only and are usually very powerful
Should you spend more for a rechargeable vibrator?
Rechargeable Pros and Cons
- rechargeable toys tend to harbor more power
- convenient
- travel safe
- if you lose the charger the toy is unusable
Battery Operated Pros and Cons
- no charger to store
- battery operated toys tend to be less powerful
- less convenient
What to Look For in Vibrators for Beginners?
Before making your purchase, make sure to check certain product specifications to make sure your vibrator will be the right one for you!
Refer to our handy checklist below for some help:
Top 5 things to think about before buying a vibrator
- Size — Do you want a vibrator with plenty of girth, or a more beginner-friendly one? Beginner vibrators tend to be less girthy and shorter
- Materials — Silicone is body-safe, non-porous, and easy to clean. Hard plastic is also body-safe and non-porous, but unlike silicone, it’s rigid. PVC and jelly are both porous, so we recommend avoiding these materials.
- Buzzy/Rumbly — Buzzy vibrations tend to stimulate the surface of the body with high frequencies, whereas rumbly vibrations stimulate deeper into the tissue of the body with low frequencies.
- Price — Price doesn’t always equal total satisfaction, so you should go for the vibrator that suits your wants and needs. In general, cheaper vibrators tend to break easier and might use unsafe materials but there are some great cheaper vibrators out there, so be sure to shop around.
- Area of stimulation — If you enjoy clitoral stimulation, look for a bullet vibrator, clit sucker, or wand vibrator. If you prefer internal vaginal stimulation, look for a vibrating dildo, love eggs or g-spot vibrator. If you are looking for an anal vibrator, you can choose between a vibrating butt-plug, a vibrating dildo, or a P-spot vibrator. If you love nipple play, a wand vibrator or bullet vibe also makes a great nipple toy
Beginner-friendly?
Always double check the dimensions (diameter as well as length!) and ensure that the toy is suitable for your level of experience.
What Is the Best Size of Vibrator for Beginners?
One Size DOESN’T Fit All
If you’re wondering what’s the best size of vibrator for beginners, it really depends on your level of experience.
Being a beginner to vibrators is not the same as being a beginner to sex, and everything will depend on what kind of toy you’re looking for.
If you’re looking for a first time vibrator for vaginal penetrative purposes, there are some key specification to look out for, but ultimately your choice will depend on your experience.
Best size of vibrators for beginners, what to look out for:
- Size: not just length, but girth
- Texture: ridged, veiny, smooth etc
- The tip: if the vibrator has a bulbed head for G-spot stimulation etc
Reviewed by:
Megan Wallin