The 4 Best Fleshlight Lubes

Katie Moroney
by Katie MoroneyUpdated:

If you’ve stumbled upon this article in search of the best lube to use with your Fleshlight, then we’ve got good news and bad news for you. The bad news? There isn’t any single “Best Fleshlight lube”: different people enjoy different lubes with different toys! However, the good news is that there are plenty of options available on the market, so with a bit of perseverance and experimentation, you’ll be able to find the best Fleshlight lube! Some people are content with regular lubricant, whereas others might want a cooling effect or some heat. People who own a Fleshpump shouldn’t even use regular lubricant: there’s a special type of lube specifically for that toy! No matter what you use, chances are, you’re not enjoying your Fleshlight as much as you could be. Thankfully, with the right lube, you will be soon enough!

Test Winner

4.9Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Katie Moroney

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 94 user reviews

Runner Up

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 311 user reviews

Best for Beginners

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Katie Moroney

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 368 user reviews

Best Temperature Lube

3.9Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

3.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Katie Moroney

User Ratings:

3.8/5

Based on 36 user reviews

System JO H2OSliquid H2OFleshlube WaterFleshlube Fire
System JO H2OSliquid H2OFleshlube WaterFleshlube Fire
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Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
  • Good value for money
  • Longer-lasting than many water-based lubes
  • It is high quality and conditioning on the skin
  • Compatible with all condoms and sex toys
  • Great quality packaging that is easy to use
  • Not as long lasting as a silione lube
  • No special features like taste or tingling
  • No waterproof
  • Compatible with all sex toys
  • Vegan ingredients
  • Condom-safe
  • Free from glycerine, parabens and more
  • Low pH value
  • Fairly expensive
  • Dries out quite quickly
  • Thinner than other water-based lubes
  • Hypoallergenic
  • Safe to use with TPE and silicone sleeves
  • Good value for money
  • It can be used with any material sex toy
  • Can dry out
  • May feel too thick for some
  • The bottle is quite small
  • It has no special features - it is quite simple
  • Gentle warming feeling
  • Not irritating on sensitive skin
  • Easy to use bottle
  • Compatible with all toy materials and condoms
  • Warming is not very intense
  • May be too runny for some
  • Not great for vigorous activities
  • Not the longest lasting lube

How We Test Fleshlight Lubes

We’re a team of 340 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best Fleshlight Lubes, our testers tried and reviewed 42 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre Fleshlight Lubes didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1255 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
How We Compared the Best Fleshlight Lube

Test Winner System JO H2O

4.9/5
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Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Katie Moroney

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 94 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: System JO H2O was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Fleshlight Lube.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: System JO H2O was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: System JO H2O was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

A Closer Look
  • Water-based lube – compatible with silicone sleeves
  • Easy to use bottle and lid
  • Long-lasting and slimy

Specifications

Pros

  • Good value for money
  • Longer-lasting than many water-based lubes
  • It is high quality and conditioning on the skin
  • Compatible with all condoms and sex toys
  • Great quality packaging that is easy to use

Cons

  • Not as long lasting as a silione lube
  • No special features like taste or tingling
  • No waterproof

Why I Chose It

Fleshlights are best enjoyed when using the right lube – Sometimes sex can be great natural, without any lubrication added, but I wouldn’t say the same with masturbation sleeves. So try out a water-based lube if it is a silicone or TPE sleeve and choose the consistency that is most enjoyed by you. System JO water-based really is a great option if you’re trying to find a great match with your Fleshlight – It is a slightly thicker lube that is slimy and lasts a decent length of time without needing reapplication. The consistency of this lube almost feels like a silicone lube!

I am not going to sugar coat things to try and make something out of nothing – Lube is lube; it can be very plain and simple. System JO is exactly that – it has not bells and whistles, so rainbows with pots of gold at the end. This lube is simple, long-lasting, thick enough to provide extra cushioning, and has an attractive price tag. Although it may not sound like anything special, that’s exactly what you want for a Fleshlight – a lube that keeps you lubricated inside that sleeve and that works for as long as you can!

If you want to have a feather-soft sensation of a silicone lubricant but the ease and safety of a water-based one, then System JO H2O is for you! This is a must in my Fleshlight lube list – the top of my Fleshlight lubes list!

Runner Up Sliquid H2O Water-Based Lube

4.7/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.6/5

Based on 311 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sliquid H2O Water-Based Lube was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Fleshlight Lube.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sliquid H2O Water-Based Lube was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sliquid H2O Water-Based Lube was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Slippery, runny lube
  • Neutral lube that promotes natural lubrication
  • Water-based lube

Specifications

Pros

  • Compatible with all sex toys
  • Vegan ingredients
  • Condom-safe
  • Free from glycerine, parabens and more
  • Low pH value

Cons

  • Fairly expensive
  • Dries out quite quickly
  • Thinner than other water-based lubes

Why I Chose It

Sliquid H2O is an ideal lube for your Fleshlight if you don’t mind spending a little more for a velvety-smooth feel. It’s water-based so it won’t react badly with the TPE sleeve of a Fleshlight or pocket pussy, and the consistency is formulated to feel just like the body’s natural lubrication, so you’re in for a super-realistic sesh! Plus, it’s glycerine-, paraben- and sulphate-free, making it totally body-safe too.

You’re probably bored of me saying how much of a toxic relationship me and Sliquid have, but it is the truth! Although I love Sliquids’ lube, I am thinking of personally writing to the CEO to change the packaging. The bottle is eye-catching and cute, with the blue design reflecting the fact it is a water-based lube, otherwise, the bottle is totally useless. It is made of too hard plastic that is too hard to squeeze and even get any product out! The click-close lid is the only upside, otherwise I would immediately decanter the lube into a pump bottle. Even just a jar would be better at this point.

I am a more natural girl myself; always enjoying a more intimate lube that is slightly thinner, than a thicker lube. This lube has my perfect consistency; it is smooth, runny and slippery when on the skin. It is really wet! While Sliquid H20 does unfortunately suffer from the same fate as other water-based lubes (in that it dries up over time), it can easily be reactivated with some saliva or more lube. If you’re looking for a real all-rounder, and aren’t on a tight budget, then Sliquid H2O is a winner.

Best for Beginners Fleshlube Water

4.3/5
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Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Katie Moroney

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 368 user reviews

75/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fleshlube Water was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Fleshlight Lube.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fleshlube Water was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fleshlube Water was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Water based sexual lubricant
  • Compatible with all Fleshlights and TPE sleeves
  • Good introductory lube for beginners

Specifications

Pros

  • Hypoallergenic
  • Safe to use with TPE and silicone sleeves
  • Good value for money
  • It can be used with any material sex toy

Cons

  • Can dry out
  • May feel too thick for some
  • The bottle is quite small
  • It has no special features - it is quite simple

Why I Chose It

If you’re struggling to wade through the huge range of lubes out there, then it’s a bit of a no-brainer to pick Fleshlight’s own Fleshlube, which is formulated especially for use with their toys? Isn’t it? I think so! Water-based lubes are the best all-rounder lubes, and I think that Fleshlube Water it is an ideal combination of a lasting lube that’s easy to clean off, and that can be combined with all kinds of Fleshlights and other male masturbators. That’s why I have also chosen this as my Beginner Friendly choice – sometimes the lube world can be overwhelming and a little too much for a newbie, so I have made it nice and simple by picking the brand’s own.

This lube is safe to use with Fleshlight’s Superskin TPE-blend sleeves in order to make them perfectly slippery for you to slide right in! Fleshlube Water has also been dermatologically tested and is hypoallergenic, so if you have sensitive skin, this could be the best Fleshlight lube for you.

Some may argue that there really isn’t much to this lube – no special features, nothing to brand to your mates about, but more of a humble, back of the draw kinda guy. I’d disagree – I’d say that if you own a masturbation sleeve or Fleshlight, then this is a must have lube to have, of those times where you miss the basics, and just want the job don’t quickly and correctly. If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it. Why buy a Porsche when the Toyota works just fine?

Best Temperature Lube Fleshlube Fire

3.9/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

3.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Katie Moroney

User Ratings:

3.8/5

Based on 36 user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fleshlube Fire was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Fleshlight Lube.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fleshlube Fire was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

70/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fleshlube Fire was rated 70 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

A Closer Look
  • Temperature feature
  • Water-based – compatible with all male masturbators and Fleshlights 
  • Heat activated by friction 

Specifications

Pros

  • Gentle warming feeling
  • Not irritating on sensitive skin
  • Easy to use bottle
  • Compatible with all toy materials and condoms

Cons

  • Warming is not very intense
  • May be too runny for some
  • Not great for vigorous activities
  • Not the longest lasting lube

Why I Chose It

Now you’ve just read my glowing report on Fleshlube water, now imagine that but with a little heat! Fleshlight has taken it one step further, by warming your bedroom activities up even more – Fleshlube fire is a warming lube that is activated by heat, so that you can feel a little more excitement and sensitivity under the sheets. 

If you’re expecting fire, then I should start squashing your excitement now, as this definitely isn’t the hottest lube. But like anything, the more work you put in, the higher the reward – the more friction that you create with this lube, the hotter it will get. 

A temperature lube can work really well with Fleshlights, as the faster and harder you masturbate, the more heat you feel! I would recommend this lube to the low heat lovers or those who want an introductory temperature lube instead. 

It doesn’t become tacky when you use it, and has a more oily/greasy texture to it. This lube is thin in texture, so I wouldn’t recommend it for more vigorous activities. It is still a water-based lube, so it may need reapplication or reactivation, the longer you use it. All in all, Fleshlight have really raised the stakes with this one…

Comparison

BestTest Winner Runner Up Best for Beginners Best Temperature Lube
Overall score4.9 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 3.9 / 5.0
Bedbible rating5.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0
User rating4.8 / 5.0
from 94 users
4.6 / 5.0
from 311 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 368 users
3.8 / 5.0
from 36 users
PriceCheap Affordable Moderate Cheap
Design100 / 100 95 / 100 75 / 100 80 / 100
Ease of use100 / 100 90 / 100 80 / 100 90 / 100
Quality100 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100 70 / 100
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WaterproofNo -No No
MaterialsPlastic bottle and lid -Plastic bottle -
Volume4 fl.oz / 120ml fl. ozAvailable as 2, 4.2 or 8.5 fl. oz250ml fl. oz100ml / 3.38 fl.oz fl. oz
Condom safeYes - all types Yes Yes - all types Yes - all
Ingredients Glycerin, Parabens, Propylene Glycol, Water (Aqua), Cellulose Gum, Menthol, Methylparaben, Propylparaben Purified Water, Plant Cellulose (from cotton), Cyamopsis (guar conditioners), Potassium Sorbate, Citric Acid Aqua, Glycerin, Methylpropanediol, Hydroxyethylcellulose, Caprylyl Glycol, Phenylpropanol, Butylene Glycol, Tromethamine, Lonicera Japonica (Japanese Honeysuckle) Extract Propylene Glycol, Glycerin, Aqua, Mel Extract, Potassium Sorbate
Allergies-Vegan-Friendly & Free of DEA, Gluten, Glycerine, Glycerol, Parabens, PEG, Propylene Glycol, Sorbitol and Sulphates --
Openings---Click lid
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Going Deeper in My Comparison of the Best Lubes for Fleshlights

When you’re searching for the perfect Fleshlight lubricant for you, there’s a whole lot of choice out there. Out of the best options I found in this review, there are, of course, several that stood out for different reasons.

My top pick was Fleshlube Water, made by Fleshlight themselves. It’s a versatile choice available in multiple sizes, catering to different needs while ensuring condom safety. Similarly, Doc Johnson Ultra Lube offers a low-cost, body-safe option, also available in various volumes.

Sliquid H2O stands out for its high-quality, hypoallergenic formulation, making it a great choice for those with sensitive skin. It’s also vegan and avoids a host of unwanted chemicals, ensuring a safe and comfortable experience.

System JO H2O and Gun Oil H2O are both hypoallergenic and dermatologically tested, prioritizing skin health. Gun Oil H2O, in particular, includes beneficial ingredients like Aloe Vera and Ginseng, adding a touch of luxury to its use.

For those seeking a more stimulating experience, Fleshlube Ice and Fleshlube Fire offer cooling and warming sensations, respectively. These products are designed to add an extra dimension of sensation, enhancing the overall experience.

AH! YES Lubricant is the organic choice in the lineup, perfect for those preferring natural ingredients. It’s a high-quality, allergen-free option, though it comes at a higher price point.

Fleshlube Slide and Fleshpump Lubricant are specialized options. Fleshlube Slide is designed for ease of use and comfort during anal play, while Fleshpump Lubricant is specifically formulated for use with the Fleshpump device.

Lastly, the Fleshlube Elements Pack offers a variety pack, allowing users to experience a range of sensations and find their preferred choice.

Overall, this collection offers something for everyone, whether they prioritize organic ingredients, have specific health concerns, seek unique sensations, or need a product tailored for specific uses. Each product is highly rated by users, reflecting their quality and effectiveness.

What to Consider When Looking for the Best Fleshlight Lube 

  • Ingredients – The vast majority of basic lubricants will contain the same ingredients (usually displayed on the bottle’s label). However, once you venture into novelty lubes with flavors or special features like “heating” and “cooling”, you might find yourself dealing with an allergic reaction. It’s best to stick to lubes labeled “hypoallergenic” to minimize this risk.
  • Composition – For most Fleshlight sleeves, a water-based lubricant is what you need. However, if you’re using another type of toy then you may be able to use oil-based, hybrid, or silicone-based lubricants instead. Water-based lube will work with any type of sex toy (no matter what it’s made of), but if you want to use a different type of lubricant, check to ensure that the lube’s composition is compatible with your toy before using it.
  • Viscosity – Simply put, viscosity is a measurement of how much a liquid behaves like a solid. Confused? Here’s an example: a lube with a high viscosity is similar to a gel, whereas a lube with a low viscosity is closer to water. Lube with low viscosity will need to be reapplied often, whereas a high-viscosity lube will last much longer.
  • Ease of Cleaning – For most people, the “clean up” process is the worst part of using a sex toy. You should see what other people are saying about the particular lubricant you’re considering before committing. If it’s extremely hard to clean out of your toy, stains surfaces, or is impossible to clean up once spilled, then it may be worth looking at other options instead.
  • Price – For what it is, lubricant can be really expensive! However, beauty (or rather, value) is in the eye of the beholder. We’d recommend comparing a “premium” option to a cheaper option using the same toy. With this information, you’ll be able to see if the extra price is worth paying for.
  • Volume – It may seem like purchasing lubricant in bulk is a smarter choice. This may be true, but it depends on how long the lubricant will last you. Most lubricants have a shelf life of 1 to 3 years, and you shouldn’t use them after they expire. While buying the bulk lubricant can save you money as opposed to buying the smaller bottles separately, it can also waste your money if you buy too much lube and can’t use all of it before it expires.

Do Fleshlights Come with Lube?

Yes, They Do!

Yes, They Do!

Yes, They Do!

As you can see in this photo, each Fleshlight comes with a small sachet of Fleshlube Water in the box.

This will be enough for one use (or two, if you’re lucky), but after that, you’re on your own.

It’s a good opportunity to tell if you like how this Fleshlight lube feels, but we recommend ordering your own lube at the same time, or soon after you purchase your Fleshlight!

Don't Buy Silicone Lubes for Your Fleshlight!

When it comes down to recommendations, we can find plenty of information all over the internet, but that doesn’t mean the information that we find is true.

In writing this review, I’ve been checking different sites and have found many people recommending silicone-based lubes for Fleshlights. However, let me tell you now: silicone or oil-based lubes will damage your Fleshlight!

While silicone lubes are loved by many because of how smooth and long-lasting they are, they are not a good product to combine with TPE or silicone toys. For this reason, silicone lubes just can’t be the best Fleshlight lube for you.

Silicone-based lubes react with the Superskin material of Fleshlight sleeves (which is also known as TPE, or thermoplastic elastomer), which can cause it to break down and fall apart. Even worse, in silicone toys, silicone lubes react with the silicone surface and the molecules bond together, leaving the surface feeling sticky and actually unhygienic to use.

So, don’t get misled by this information. While some people tout the benefits of silicone lubes, like the original Gun Oil, it’s only good for toys made from ABS plastic, steel or glass. Remember, the best Fleshlight lube is always water-based, and never use silicone lube on silicone or TPE toys.

Why I Recommend Avoiding Ultra-Cheap Fleshlight Lubes

You have to be extra careful when buying a lubricant, because you are going to find many options. Big sizes and cheap prices sound great, but that doesn’t mean those lubricants are good to use.

There are some lubricants that are made just for very general purposes and can be a bit tricky to identify. Before buying a lubricant you have to know how you are going to use it, including toys and condoms.

We already know (or if you didn’t know, now you do) that you can’t use silicone lubes with silicone and TPE toys, but have you heard about the parabens? Many studies have been made about these ingredients, and while research is still ongoing, there have been links made to cancer.

Besides, one thing that you should do ALWAYS is to check the specifications from the manufacturer. Don’t get yourself led by the price, this lube is great but the manufacturer clearly specifies “Solutions containing parabens, glycerin and sugars should be used externally only.” 

So if your intention is this, then you should look for a different lube, preferably paraben-free. The most common and used all-around lube and that can be considered for many as the best fleshlight lubes are the water-based ones. However, you are the one that is going to use it and you know your body better than me, just remember to check the specifications and choose the one that fits better.

Author
Katie Moroney
Katie Moroney

Content Specialist | I’m a sex expert and Content Specialist here at Bedbible! I produce content through single and round-up reviews, as well as producing all the content for the lube reviews, in something I liked to call ‘The Lube Lab’! I run the social media accounts; creating fun and informative content for our social media users. I’m here to help our readers find all the information they need on their desired sex toy, so they can have the most amount of fun! ❤️😋✨

Age: 21
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Intermidiate
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