The 4 Best Fleshlight Lubes

What to Consider When Looking for the Best Fleshlight Lube 

• Ingredients – The vast majority of basic lubricants will contain the same ingredients (usually displayed on the bottle’s label). However, once you venture into novelty lubes with flavors or special features like “heating” and “cooling”, you might find yourself dealing with an allergic reaction. It’s best to stick to lubes labeled “hypoallergenic” to minimize this risk.
• Composition – For most Fleshlight sleeves, a water-based lubricant is what you need. However, if you’re using another type of toy then you may be able to use oil-based, hybrid, or silicone-based lubricants instead. Water-based lube will work with any type of sex toy (no matter what it’s made of), but if you want to use a different type of lubricant, check to ensure that the lube’s composition is compatible with your toy before using it.
• Viscosity – Simply put, viscosity is a measurement of how much a liquid behaves like a solid. Confused? Here’s an example: a lube with a high viscosity is similar to a gel, whereas a lube with a low viscosity is closer to water. Lube with low viscosity will need to be reapplied often, whereas a high-viscosity lube will last much longer.
• Ease of Cleaning – For most people, the “clean up” process is the worst part of using a sex toy. You should see what other people are saying about the particular lubricant you’re considering before committing. If it’s extremely hard to clean out of your toy, stains surfaces, or is impossible to clean up once spilled, then it may be worth looking at other options instead.
• Price – For what it is, lubricant can be really expensive! However, beauty (or rather, value) is in the eye of the beholder. We’d recommend comparing a “premium” option to a cheaper option using the same toy. With this information, you’ll be able to see if the extra price is worth paying for.
• Volume – It may seem like purchasing lubricant in bulk is a smarter choice. This may be true, but it depends on how long the lubricant will last you. Most lubricants have a shelf life of 1 to 3 years, and you shouldn’t use them after they expire. While buying the bulk lubricant can save you money as opposed to buying the smaller bottles separately, it can also waste your money if you buy too much lube and can’t use all of it before it expires.

Going Deeper in My Comparison of the Best Lubes for Fleshlights

When you’re searching for the perfect Fleshlight lubricant for you, there’s a whole lot of choice out there. Out of the best options I found in this review, there are, of course, several that stood out for different reasons.

My top pick was Fleshlube Water, made by Fleshlight themselves. It’s a versatile choice available in multiple sizes, catering to different needs while ensuring condom safety. Similarly, Doc Johnson Ultra Lube offers a low-cost, body-safe option, also available in various volumes.

Sliquid H2O stands out for its high-quality, hypoallergenic formulation, making it a great choice for those with sensitive skin. It’s also vegan and avoids a host of unwanted chemicals, ensuring a safe and comfortable experience.

System JO H2O and Gun Oil H2O are both hypoallergenic and dermatologically tested, prioritizing skin health. Gun Oil H2O, in particular, includes beneficial ingredients like Aloe Vera and Ginseng, adding a touch of luxury to its use.

For those seeking a more stimulating experience, Fleshlube Ice and Fleshlube Fire offer cooling and warming sensations, respectively. These products are designed to add an extra dimension of sensation, enhancing the overall experience.

AH! YES Lubricant is the organic choice in the lineup, perfect for those preferring natural ingredients. It’s a high-quality, allergen-free option, though it comes at a higher price point.

Fleshlube Slide and Fleshpump Lubricant are specialized options. Fleshlube Slide is designed for ease of use and comfort during anal play, while Fleshpump Lubricant is specifically formulated for use with the Fleshpump device.

Lastly, the Fleshlube Elements Pack offers a variety pack, allowing users to experience a range of sensations and find their preferred choice.

Overall, this collection offers something for everyone, whether they prioritize organic ingredients, have specific health concerns, seek unique sensations, or need a product tailored for specific uses. Each product is highly rated by users, reflecting their quality and effectiveness.

Do Fleshlights Come with Lube?

Yes, They Do!

As you can see in this photo, each Fleshlight comes with a small sachet of Fleshlube Water in the box.

This will be enough for one use (or two, if you’re lucky), but after that, you’re on your own.

It’s a good opportunity to tell if you like how this Fleshlight lube feels, but we recommend ordering your own lube at the same time, or soon after you purchase your Fleshlight!

Don't Buy Silicone Lubes for Your Fleshlight!

When it comes down to recommendations, we can find plenty of information all over the internet, but that doesn’t mean the information that we find is true.

In writing this review, I’ve been checking different sites and have found many people recommending silicone-based lubes for Fleshlights. However, let me tell you now: silicone or oil-based lubes will damage your Fleshlight!

While silicone lubes are loved by many because of how smooth and long-lasting they are, they are not a good product to combine with TPE or silicone toys. For this reason, silicone lubes just can’t be the best Fleshlight lube for you.

Silicone-based lubes react with the Superskin material of Fleshlight sleeves (which is also known as TPE, or thermoplastic elastomer), which can cause it to break down and fall apart. Even worse, in silicone toys, silicone lubes react with the silicone surface and the molecules bond together, leaving the surface feeling sticky and actually unhygienic to use.

So, don’t get misled by this information. While some people tout the benefits of silicone lubes, like the original Gun Oil, it’s only good for toys made from ABS plastic, steel or glass. Remember, the best Fleshlight lube is always water-based, and never use silicone lube on silicone or TPE toys.

Why I Recommend Avoiding Ultra-Cheap Fleshlight Lubes

You have to be extra careful when buying a lubricant, because you are going to find many options. Big sizes and cheap prices sound great, but that doesn’t mean those lubricants are good to use.

There are some lubricants that are made just for very general purposes and can be a bit tricky to identify. Before buying a lubricant you have to know how you are going to use it, including toys and condoms.

We already know (or if you didn’t know, now you do) that you can’t use silicone lubes with silicone and TPE toys, but have you heard about the parabens? Many studies have been made about these ingredients, and while research is still ongoing, there have been links made to cancer.

Besides, one thing that you should do ALWAYS is to check the specifications from the manufacturer. Don’t get yourself led by the price, this lube is great but the manufacturer clearly specifies “Solutions containing parabens, glycerin and sugars should be used externally only.” 

So if your intention is this, then you should look for a different lube, preferably paraben-free. The most common and used all-around lube and that can be considered for many as the best fleshlight lubes are the water-based ones. However, you are the one that is going to use it and you know your body better than me, just remember to check the specifications and choose the one that fits better.