The 10 Best Black Dildos for Realism and Fantasy

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Dildos are an absolute favorite when it comes to sex toys, but you could take it to the next level with a black dildo! Designed to help you live out your fantasies, they look and feel incredible! In our review, we aim to help you make the best decision for you when it comes to black dildos, and offer you some handy hints and pointers to help you get the most out of your penile plaything!

How do we test the best black dildos?

With over 300 sex toys tested on the BedBible website, you can be sure that we know what we’re on about when it comes to black dildos! Our team of experts and freelancers have put over 60 hours into the creation of this post alone, delving into the naughty nuances of such a delicious type of dildo! We looked at all aspects of the black dildos, making sure we highlighted not only the positives but also the negatives, so you know that you’re getting a balanced and unbiased review!

How do we test the best black dildos?

Popular types of black dildo

As with any other dildos, there are quite a lot of different types of black dildo! Let’s take a closer look at some of the most popular ones!

  • Realistic – As the title suggests, realistic black dildos are designed to look just like a real cock. They feature veins, life-like textures, and uncannily realistic looks. Perfect to help you live out your fantasies!
  • Vibrating – If you want to incorporate an extra pleasurable dimension into your black dildo fun, try out a vibrating one! They will buzz and rumble you to absolute ecstasy! They come in all shapes and sizes, large, small, thick, thin, but they all feel fantastic!
  • Squirting – Enjoy the sensation of being ejaculated in or on? Well with a squirting black dildo that’s exactly what you can do! Force that fluid through a tube that runs through the squirting dildo!
  • Double – If you want to share some black dildo times with a partner, a double dildo allows you to do so! Both ends are shaped like a cock, so two people can be penetrated at once!
  • Strap-on – Put on your harness and strap that black dildo to your crotch so you can pound away at your partner! Great whether you’re a lady that wants to take control or be ridden! A veritable silicone stunner!
  • Suction cup – Who doesn’t love getting naughty in the shower?! With a suction cup black dildo you can stick the toy to your wall and pound away at it. In fact, you can use it on any flat surface, as long as the suction cup will stick!

Materials

With all kinds of materials out there, what’s the best kind to use to make a black dildo? It’s high time we took a dive into some of the options!

  • Silicone – Super body-safe, realistic feeling, durable, and non-porous, silicone is a staple of sex toy materials! In fact, we can’t recommend it highly enough!
  • PVC – On the opposite end of the scale, PVC is a harmful material that can cause damage to the body as you use it. Always best to avoid this one! 
  • TPE – A kind of soft plastic, TPE has a lot of the same properties as silicone. The only major difference is that TPE is porous and will require a little extra cleaning!
  • Glass – Solid and stiff, glass is a fun material for a black dildo if you prefer something a little more dramatic and harsh. Looks great, easy to clean, and don’t worry – it won’t smash!

You can find out more about some of the most popular materials used in black dildos further down this post!

FAQ

Who can use black dildos?
Anyone! You can find such a huge variety of sizes and shapes that there is something to suit all preferences and experience levels. The best thing to do is start off thinking about your experience to help you decide on size, and then think about how you want the dildo to look before you start browsing.
Are black dildos expensive?
Some are and some are budget-friendly. It's probably better to start off with budget-friendly dildos until you figure out what it is that you like.
Can couples use black dildos?
Yes, you can use your black dildo in so many different ways, making them perfect for couples and solo use.
Where can I buy a big black dildo?
By following the links in this post! We point you in the direction of some of the most reputable and trustworthy sex shops out there. Part of the fun is actually shopping for a black dildo, so we're all about you having a fantastic experience.
What's the most realistic black dildo?
There is no one black dildo that we can point to and say "that's the most realistic one!" What you want to look for is one that as molded to look exactly like a cock, with veins, skin, and other life-like features. These are far more realistic than vaguely phallic shaped dildos!

What is a black dildo?

A black dildo is a sex toy designed for internal use, i.e., to stimulate either the p-spot or g-spot, and is black in colour. Black dildos can either be designed to look and feel realistic or not to suit all preferences. They are perfect for if you've ever had wild dreams of nights of passion and being pounded by a big, strong, black guy. Black dildos can really help you fulfil those amazing fantasies!

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The 10 Best Black dildos in Test

1 Test Winner

Vixen Mustang VixSkin Realistic Dildo

Design: 100
Ease of Use: 95
Quality: 100
Price: 0/5

Bedbible rating: 0

User rating:
N/A

It’s hard to find a single fault with the Vixen Mustang, which is why we’ve rated it as the best black dildo on this list!

The dual density of this dildo along with Vixen’s patented ‘VixSkin’, which is a premium grade silicone, make this a hyper realistic black dildo that gives delicious internal massages with its wonderfully veined shaft.

The suction cup base makes this toy perfect for hands-free fun and it’s harness compatible for play with a partner.

This beautifully realistic black dildo can be a little hard to insert at first because of its flexible tip, but use lots of Water-Based Lubricant and it should glide right in and give you the ride of your life.

Vixen Mustang VixSkin Realistic Dildo test
Vixen Mustang VixSkin Realistic Dildo features
Recommended for:
BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Vixen Mustang if you...
Want a realistic black dildo
Are looking for a hands free dildo
Want a black strap on dildo
Want to invest in a luxury black dildo
Enjoy a realistically textured shaft
You should NOT buy the Vixen Mustang if you...
Prefer smaller dildos
Don't like realistic looking dildos
Want a budget dido
Vixen Mustang VixSkin Realistic Dildo features
Features
Length7 inches
Insertable length6.5 inches
Diameter1.6 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsVixSkin Silicone 
Pros
Extremely realistic black dildo
Suitable for anal and vaginal use
Perfect for hands-free use
Harness compatible
Waterproof
Cons
Expensive
Can be difficult to insert at first
Conclusion

The Vixen Mustang is a worthy winner on this list.

It is one of the more expensive black dildos out there but its superior quality makes it a great investment for anyone who loves realistic black dildos.

This toy is perfect for beginners and veterans alike, the curved shape of the dildo makes it a sensational masseuse for the p-spot or the g-spot depending on your preferred use.

2 Cheapest

Blush Novelties Dr. Skin

Design: 100
Ease of Use: 100
Quality: 80
Price: 0/5

Bedbible rating: 0

User rating:
N/A

This Blush Novelties black dildo is the perfect option for anyone looking for a cheap black dildo that is realistic and suitable for beginners.

Its insertable length of 5 inches make this a really approachable length for anyone who doesn’t have a lot of dildo experience, or anyone who prefers a gentler penetration.

You can use this to experiment with hands-free solo pleasure or as a black strap on dildo, plus it’s anal friendly so you can try out anal penetration with this one just make sure to use plenty of lube.

Although this toy is made of PVC it’s worth noting that this is Blush’s own PVC compound that is body-safe and non-porous.

Blush Novelties Dr. Skin test
Blush Novelties Dr. Skin features
Recommended for:
BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Blush Novelties Dr. Skin if you...
Want a cheap black dildo
Enjoy a subtly textured shaft
Are a dildo novice
Are looking for a hands free dildo
Want a black strap on dildo
You should NOT buy the Blush Novelties Dr. Skin if you...
Want to invest in a luxury dildo
Want a very large black dildo
Don't like realistic looking dildos
Blush Novelties Dr. Skin features
Features
Length5.5 inches
Insertable length5 inches
Diameter1.25 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsBlush Body-Safe Phthalate Free PVC (non-porous) 
Pros
Budget friendly
Perfect for beginners
Can be used for anal or vaginal play
Hands-free dildo
Harness compatible
Cons
Smaller size might not be enough for some
Subtle texture on shaft
Conclusion

The Blush Novelties Dr. Skin is an amazing cheap black dildo for anyone who enjoys a more medium sized toy, or is a great dildo for beginners.

Despite its low price, this one is still a beautiful quality toy and can be used in pretty much anyway you fancy, making it another one of the best black dildos on this list.

3 Beginner

NS Novelties Colours Pleasures Suction Cup Dildo

Design: 90
Ease of Use: 100
Quality: 100
Price: 0/5

Bedbible rating: 0

User rating:
N/A

This one is perfect if you are looking for a small black dildo, its ideally suited to beginners or anyone who doesn’t like a huge length.

This dildo has a beautifully realistic textured shaft that flexes and bends but also remains firm enough to keep pressing and massaging your g-spot or p-spot.

This black suction cup dildo can be used for hands-free solo fun, it’s harness compatible, waterproof, and suitable for anal or vaginal use, so you can truly experiment and find out what works the best for you, without having to splash out on an expensive dildo.

NS Novelties Colours Pleasures Suction Cup Dildo test
Recommended for:
BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the NS Novelties Colours Pleasures if you...
Are a dildo novice
Prefer dildos with smaller lengths
Are looking for a hands free dildo
Want a black strap on dildo
Enjoy a realistically textured shaft
You should NOT buy the NS Novelties Colours Pleasures if you...
Want a big black dildo
Don't like realistic looking dildos
Want to invest in a dildo
Have lots of dildo experience
Features
Length5.8 inches
Insertable length4 inches
Diameter1.5 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsSilicone 
Pros
Great for beginners
Small approachable size
Safe for anal use
Budget-friendly
Perfect for solo use or with a partner
Cons
Too small for more experienced users
Conclusion

This one is the perfect black dildo for beginners as it has a small insertable length of 4 inches, and a small price tag!

It has all of the functionality of a luxury dildo and is made from velvety soft silicone, meaning you can really get to grips with how/ whether you enjoy using a dildo before you invest.

We probably wouldn’t recommend this for dildo veterans because it will most likely be too small, but if you are someone that enjoys penetration but only with smaller lengths, this is the one for you.

4 Vibrating

Fun Factory G5 Big Boss Black G-Spot Vibrator

Design: 100
Ease of Use: 80
Quality: 98
Price: 0/5

Bedbible rating: 0

User rating:
N/A

This Fun Factory black vibrating dildo is a powerful but quiet toy, perfect for those who love the feeling of fullness but also enjoy the added sensation of vibrating.

The curved shaft of this luxurious feeling vibrator will push against and massage your g-spot as it is inserted, sending waves of delicious vibrations throughout your body.

Despite being super powerful this vibrator is quiet so is perfect for discreet use, and it is completely waterproof so you can take it to the bathroom for underwater adventures.

Fun Factory G5 Big Boss Black G-Spot Vibrator test
Fun Factory G5 Big Boss Black G-Spot Vibrator features
Recommended for:
BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
Vibrations:
Sound:

Power:

BuzzyRumbly
You should buy the Fun Factory G5 Big Boss if you...
Want a large black vibrator
Love powerful vibrators
Want to invest in a luxury black vibrator
Like using your toys in water
You should NOT buy the Fun Factory G5 Big Boss if you...
Haven't used a dildo/ vibrator before
Prefer smaller insertables
Don't like realistic shaped vibrators
Want a budget friendly vibrator
Fun Factory G5 Big Boss Black G-Spot Vibrator features
Features
Vibration speeds6 
Vibration patterns6 
Length9 inches
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter1.8 inches
RechargeableYes 
Battery Life120 minutes
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsSilicone 
FlexibilityFlexible 
Pros
Large length and girth
Powerful vibrations
Quiet
Waterproof
Cons
Not suitable for anal use
Expensive
Not suitable for beginners
Conclusion

The Fun Factory G5 Big Boss is an impressively large vibrator made from luxurious quality silicone, it’s definitely a worthy investment for your sex toy collection.

The powerful deep rumbly vibrations will have your whole body quivering, and you can use it externally to warm yourself up before using it for g-spot stimulation.

This one isn’t really suitable for beginners because of it’s more challenging size, and it shouldn’t be used anally so bear this in mind if you are looking to purchase one.

5 Thick

Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo

Design: 80
Ease of Use: 80
Quality: 100
Price: 0/5

Bedbible rating: 0

User rating:
N/A

If you are looking for a thick black dildo with a large insertable length, then you have come to the right place with Fun Factory’s The Boss!

This dildo is beautifully firm and made from velvety soft silicone, with a vein up the shaft for added sensual delight.

The curved shape of this large black dildo will press against your g-spot or p-spot to give you deep intense internal orgasms.

We would recommend this one for anyone with some dildo experience as it is quite challenging to use if you haven’t used a dildo before. Make sure to lube it up first and it will reward you with extremely full yumminess.

Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo test
Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo features
Recommended for:
BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Fun Factory The Boss if you...
Enjoy a large girth
Want a dildo you can use anally
Are looking for a hands free dildo
Want a black strap on dildo
Like a smoother shaft
You should NOT buy the Fun Factory The Boss if you...
Prefer smaller dildos
Haven't used a dildo before
Want a budget dido
Fun Factory The Boss Stud Realistic Dildo features
Features
Insertable length7 inches
Diameter1.75 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsSilicone 
FlexibilityFirm 
Pros
Large length and girth
Can be used hands-free
Harness compatible
Cute love heart suction cup base
Anal safe
Cons
Not very beginner friendly
Too firm for some
Conclusion

If a large length and girth is your idea of a good time then this Fun Factory thick black dildo is the one for you.

This large black dildo is best suited to you if you have some dildo experience and know that you love the delicious feeling of fullness you can only get from larger toys.

It’s definitely a luxury quality toy, and can be used for anal adventures, underwater fun, and as a strap-on or hands-free dildo.

6 Massive

Doc Johnson Black Thunder Realistic Vac-U-Lock Dildo

Design: 80
Ease of Use: 40
Quality: 80
Price: 0/5

Bedbible rating: 0

User rating:
N/A

Ever fantasised about having sex with a pornstar?

Well that dream can become a reality with this giant black dildo that’s been cast from pornstar Black Thunder.

This toy has a huge length and girth, and is deeply curved for extreme g-spot or p-spot stimulation with the firmness of the toy adding intensely delicious pleasure.

It’s essential to use lots of water based lube with this one whether using it for anal or vaginal play, and we wouldn’t recommend it for anyone who doesn’t have any experience with larger toys.

As this is made from PVC which is porous this is a much more difficult toy to clean than non-porous dildos, for that reason it may be good to use a condom with this one.

Doc Johnson Black Thunder Realistic Vac-U-Lock Dildo test
Doc Johnson Black Thunder Realistic Vac-U-Lock Dildo features
Recommended for:
BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Doc Johnson Black Thunder if you...
Want a huge black dildo
Are looking for a hands free dildo
Like extremely realistic toys
Are an experienced dildo user
Want an XL dildo for anal use
You should NOT buy the Doc Johnson Black Thunder if you...
Haven't used a dildo before
Prefer flexible toys
Don't like the idea of a deeply curved shaft
Don't enjoy very large toys
Prefer unrealistic looking toys
Doc Johnson Black Thunder Realistic Vac-U-Lock Dildo features
Features
Length12 inches
Insertable length9 inches
Diameter2.23 inches
Waterproofsubmersible 
MaterialsPVC 
FlexibilityFirm 
Storage Bag IncludedYes 
Pros
Massive black dildo
Suitable for anal and vaginal use
Hands-free or strap-on capability
Deep curve for g-spot/ p-spot stimulation
Very textured shaft
Cons
Too large for some
Not beginner friendly
Very deep curve not suited to everyone
PVC is porous
Conclusion

For lovers of large insertable toys this one is a showstopper.

Its massive length and girth, along with the textured shaft will give you full feeling internal pleasure like never before.

However, the main downsides to this toy is that it’s definitely not beginner friendly and it is too curved for some. It is also made from PVC which is a porous material and therefore much harder to clean (see below section on cleaning), there are also other risks associated with PVC toys so a lot of people prefer to use condoms with dildos made from this material.

7 Strap on

Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Strap-On Set

Design: 75
Ease of Use: 90
Quality: 100
Price: 0/5

Bedbible rating: 0

User rating:
N/A

This Doc Johnson strap on set has it all, it’s an amazingly convenient kit for anyone who is new to trying strap ons and wants to try them in a variety of ways.

It’s quite an expensive set but you get so much in the box that it’s definitely great value as it contains 3 different sized black dildos, a harness, a suction cup attachment, 3 O-rings, a bottle of sex toy cleaner, lube, and some renewer powder to keep your toys nice and fresh.

Each black strap on dildo is a dual density toy, which means it’s firm on the inside but soft on the outside to give it that ultra realistic feeling. This is worth bearing in mind if you aren’t a fan of super realistic sex toys.

Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Strap-On Set test
Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Strap-On Set features
Recommended for:
BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock if you...
Want to buy a strap on set
Are new to trying strap on dildos
Like realistic looking dildos
Want to try different sized dildos
Love the convenience of everything in one pack
You should NOT buy the Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock if you...
Want a budget strap on
Don't like realistic looking dildos
Already have lots of strap on equipment
Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Strap-On Set features
Features
Insertable length4.5, 6, 7.5 inches
Diameter1.75, 1.5, 1.59 inches
AdjustableUp to 69 inches 
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsSilicone 
Pros
3 different sizes
Great for beginners
Suction cup attachment for hands-free
Waterproof
Comes with lube and hygiene spray
Cons
Realistic look not everyone's taste
Expesive
Conclusion

This set is perfect if you are wanting to explore the world of strap on dildos because it contains everything you could possibly need to begin your journey.

It’s a little more on the expensive side compared to some other sets but it is extremely luxurious quality. However, the super realistic look and feel of these dildos might not be to everyone’s taste.

The black dildos contained in the set come in 3 magical sizes, so you can start small and work your way up as soon as you’re ready.

8

Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Silicone Dildo

Design: 80
Ease of Use: 100
Quality: 100
Price: 0/5

Bedbible rating: 0

User rating:
N/A

The Lifelike Lover Luxe is the perfect option for anyone who is fairly new to using dildos, or enjoys a medium size and extremely realistic looking dildo.

It’s got a strong suction cup base for you to ride away, or you can use it with a partner by attaching it to a harness. This one is a great balance between flexible and firm and the realistic veins up the shaft make for a delicious internal massage, while the larger head will stroke away at that g-spot or p-spot until you climax.

The balls at the end of this toy mean that this one is also anal safe, but make sure to lube up first and we would recommend that this isn’t your first ever anal dildo it would be better as a second size up.

Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Silicone Dildo test
Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Silicone Dildo features
Recommended for:
BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Lifelike Lover Luxe if you...
Want a very realistic black dildo
Like medium sized toys
Enjoy a lifelike textured shaft
Are looking for a hands free dildo
Love using your toys in the shower
You should NOT buy the Lifelike Lover Luxe if you...
Don't like realistic looking dildos
Want a luxury dildo
Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Silicone Dildo features
Features
Length6 inches
Insertable length5 inches
Diameter1.27 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsSilicone 
FlexibilityFlexible 
Pros
Manageable size
Budget-friendly
Anal safe
Fully waterproof
Textured shaft
Cons
Too lifelike for some tastes
Too firm if you prefer very flexible toys
Conclusion

The lifelike lover luxe is a great quality realistic black dildo, that is a manageable size for most but without being too small. This also makes it a good dildo for anyone who doesn’t have much experience with dildos but is wanting to explore them more.

It’s a fairly cheap black dildo but the luxuriously velvet soft silicone makes it feel a lot more high-end.

9

Cloud 9 Pro Sensual Suction Cup Dildo

Design: 100
Ease of Use: 80
Quality: 80
Price: 0/5

Bedbible rating: 0

User rating:
N/A

The Cloud 9 Pro is another amazing quality realistic dildo, that will have you riding your way to heaven.

It’s a cheap black dildo compared to others but that doesn’t mean that Cloud 9 have lowered the quality, it’s made from a wonderfully firm silicone and comes with 3 free cock rings which is definitely an added bonus, particularly if you’ve never tried a cock ring before.

This realistic black dildo is a good size and has a fairly large girth, so it might be a little too big for you if you’ve never used an insertable sex toy before.

It’s also anal safe and harness compatible so perfect for pegging, but the suction cup also means that you can have hands-free fun too.

Cloud 9 Pro Sensual Suction Cup Dildo test
Cloud 9 Pro Sensual Suction Cup Dildo features
Recommended for:
BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the Cloud 9 Pro if you...
Want a budget friendly dildo
Enjoy a decent length and girth
Are looking for a hands free dildo
Want a dildo that's anal safe
Love the idea of a strap on
You should NOT buy the Cloud 9 Pro if you...
Prefer smaller dildos
Don't like realistic looking dildos
Want to invest in a luxury toy
Cloud 9 Pro Sensual Suction Cup Dildo features
Features
Length8 inches
Insertable length5.75 inches
Diameter1.5 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsSilicone 
Pros
Comes with 3 cock rings
Good length and girth
Hands-free and harness compatible
Anal safe
Waterproof
Cons
Not great for total beginners
Conclusion

This one is another that is pretty hard to fault!

It’s a great sized dildo, with a very appealing price! Plus the free cock rings in the box sweeten the deal even more, as they add a whole new dimension of pleasure to experiment with.

This black dildo is made from a delightfully soft silicone that has a very realistic feeling, and the suction cup base and harness compatibility make it great for solo use or with a partner.

The only thing that this toy isn’t great for is if you are a total novice when it comes to insertable toys, as it is probably going to be a bit too big for a first time.

10

King Cock Ultra Realistic Dildo

Design: 70
Ease of Use: 80
Quality: 80
Price: 0/5

Bedbible rating: 0

User rating:
N/A

The size and girth of this toy will leave you feeling deliciously full, and it’s curved and textured shaft will give you that intense g-spot massage that you crave.

This huge black dildo is extremely realistic looking and feeling so if that’s your thing then you are going to love it!

The material of this dildo is the only real negative to it, it’s made from PVC which we don’t generally recommend as a good option for your sex toys.

It’s a porous material so will require a very intense clean after every use, some people prefer to use condom’s with PVC toys for this reason.

King Cock Ultra Realistic Dildo  test
King Cock Ultra Realistic Dildo  features
Recommended for:
BeginnerIntermediateAdvanced
You should buy the King Cock Ultra Realistic Dildo if you...
Want a realistic black dildo
Like very large toys
Enjoy a huge girth
Enjoy a realistically textured shaft
You should NOT buy the King Cock Ultra Realistic Dildo if you...
Are a beginner
Don't like realistic looking dildos
King Cock Ultra Realistic Dildo  features
Features
Length10.5 inches
Insertable length8 inches
Diameter2.07 inches
WaterproofSubmersible 
MaterialsPVC  
FlexibilityFlexible 
Pros
Extremely large
Amazingly textured shaft
Realistic feel
Waterproof
Hands-free and harness compatible
Cons
PVC is porous
Not beginner friendly
Conclusion

If you are looking for a huge black dildo that is ultra realistic then you have most likely found it in this 8 inch King Cock beauty.

This one is definitely not for beginners or anyone who does not want that super full feeling!

The curved edge will give your g-spot an overwhelming sensual massage, while the balls at the bottom at to the lifelike sensation.

However, the fact that this one is made of PVC can be a major downside because it is a porous material so will require very intensive cleaning after every use.

The Double Sided Black Dildo of Your Dreams

This one is for anyone who wants to double up on their pleasure! You can use double sided dildos in a number of ways, experiment with double penetration, use it with a partner, or even us it as an extra long dildo!

The World's Most Realistic Black Dildos

If you are someone who likes their dildos to be realistic, then the more realistic the better!

That’s what we’ve found for you here, realistic black dildos so lifelike that you will hardly be able to tell they aren’t the real thing!

How to choose the right size black dildo

So if you’ve decided that you want to try using a dildo for the first time, the first question you will probably wonder is what size you should go for.

There are a few things to consider before you make your purchase, we have jotted a few down for you to make your decision a little easier.

Diameter

Diameter

Diameter

The diameter which is also called the circumference or girth, is the most important factor in your decision on what size dildo you should choose.

The reason this is the most important is because the diameter determines how easy the toy is to insert. Larger girths will be trickier to get in, particularly if you’ve not used a dildo before.

Larger girths will give you a more intense sensation and a feeling of fullness, if that’s what you’re looking for then a larger diameter is the way to go.

A good way of checking this is by using your fingers to figure out what feels good.

We would recommend that if you have never been penetrated before by either a toy or a penis so this will be your first sex toy, then you should start with a diameter of 1 inch and below. If you are a beginner then 1-1.5 inches should be a good place to start, and you can work your way up from this depending on experience.

Dildos with tapered heads are easier to insert as it gradually eases you into a larger girth.

Length

Length

Length

Length is actually not as important as you might think when choosing the size of your dildo.

With a dildo that is too long you can stop inserting it at whatever point you feel comfortable, so you can still use that dildo.

So when choosing the size of your dildo, you don’t have to worry about length too much. If you’ve found a dildo that suits you in every other way but is a little longer than you are used to then you should probably still go for it.

Material

Material

Material

The material of the dildo is super important in your decision making, because the firmer the material then the more difficult it will be to use.

If you are going for something like glass that is totally rigid, then you are better of sizing down rather than up as you don’t want to be disappointed by not being able to use your new toy!

Use

Use

Use

How you plan to use your dildo will have an impact on what size you should go for.

If you want to use your black dildo as a strap on, then it’s worth sizing up slightly.

If you want to use your dildo anally then you’ll need to start off small and very slowly build your way up. You also need to make sure that your dildo is suitable for anal use and has a flared base.

How to use a black dildo

The world of sex toys can be a bit daunting at first, but don’t worry we are here to help!

Here are a few top tips to get you started on your exciting black dildo journey, once you do you’ll never look back!

How to use a black dildo

Lube up!

Lube up!

No matter how you choose to use your toys, we would always recommend using a Water-Based Lubricant to get things started.

This will stop any friction that could otherwise cause pain. Plus even if you are wet, lube will still make things feel better!

Hands-free solo pleasure

How to use a black dildo

Most of the dildos on this list are suction cup black dildos, making them perfect for hands-free fun.

Give yourself a workout while being pleasured by using the suction cup to fix your dildo to a smooth flat surface like a mirror, book, wall, toilet seat, etc., and then you can get to riding your delicious dong.

How to use a black dildo
How to use a black dildo

In a couple

In a couple

Lots of black dildos are harness compatible so you can use them to penetrate your partner. This could be female to female, or give pegging a go but always make sure to start off small.

Your black dildo doesn’t have to be harness compatible for you to enjoy it with a partner though, you or your partner can use the dildo during foreplay by rubbing it on your erogenous zones or a maybe bit of shallow penetration to get you nice and warmed up.

G-spot stimulation

How to use a black dildo

Dildos are a great way of stimulating your g-spot, especially if they are textured or have a curved shaft.

The g-spot is only 2-3 inches inside the vagina, so you don’t need dildos with lots of length if that’s not your thing.

For extra intense pleasure try stimulating your g-spot and clit at the same time and enjoy a sensationally explosive orgasm.

How to use a black dildo
How to use a black dildo

P-spot stimulation

P-spot stimulation

P-spot stimulation is one of the most pleasurable ways to use a dildo…If you have a p-spot that is!

Always make sure that you use lots of water-based anal lube and check that your dildo is anal safe before using it.

You can usually tell this just by looking at it as anal safe dildos will have a flared base or balls at the bottom, this acts as a stopper.

You can also try wearable anal dildos during sex for either double penetration, or p-spot stimulation at the same time as penetrating a partner, depending on your anatomy.

How to clean your black dildo

We know it's tedious... but we only nag you because we care! It's so important to clean your toys after every use otherwise they could become a breeding ground for bacteria, which is not only gross, it can also cause nasty infections and nobody wants that. The easiest toys to clean are non-porous materials like silicone, and the harder ones are porous because they can collect the bacteria in their pores so need a much more intensive clean every time. If you're worried about porous toys then you can use a condom with them (if they are condom compatible), or it might just be worth avoiding them altogether since there are so many options around. We've put together some top tips here for cleaning your black dildos, but you should also always check the manufacturer's instructions too.

Porous
materials

Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.

Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.

Non-propous
materials

Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.

Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.

The toys with electrical
components

If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.