Of course, giving a fantastic blowjob is about finding a good technique that your partner loves. However, having a blowjob kit full of fun and tantalizing accessories can make it even better!
Today we’ll go over ready-made blowjob kits and what you should look for in one, as well as how to make your own, personalized kit for an oral extravaganza…
What Comes in a Blowjob Kit?
You mean, other than your partner? Sorry, I couldn’t resist!
Blowjob kits, just like blowjobs themselves, can vary a lot. That means you might have to some shopping around to find your perfect combination of BJ accessories. However, there are some common components that you can expect from many blowjob kits. These include:
- Flavored lube
- Tingle drops
- Mints
- Throat numbing spray
- A stroker
- A cock ring
- Lip balm or gloss
- Pop rocks!
Of course, you won’t find all these in every kit. In fact, there are some that you should stay far away from — namely, anything that numbs or desensitizes (more on that below).
Two ready-made blowjob kits we love are the Doc Johnson GoodHead for Him kit and the Fun Factory Blow & Glow kit…
Includes:
- Mint flavored lube
- Tingling mints
- Fruity lip balm
- A stretchy vibrating cock ring
- An oral sex tip card
Includes:
- The Fun Factory Manta vibrating stroker
- The Fun Factory NoS vibrating cock ring
- Massage candle
- Hair scrunchie
The Problem with Numbing Sprays
I get it, your gag reflex can be annoying. If you want to pleasure your partner with oral sex, then an overactive gag reflex can make things difficult or anxiety-inducing. Not to mention if you want try deep-throating.
So, having something that can numb your throat and mouth seems like a handy idea, right? Well, unfortunately it’s not that simple.
While numbing agents like deepthroat sprays might suppress your gag reflex, they will also numb any pain you might feel. This can end up being very dangerous, as you could end up with some serious injuries that you just can’t feel. You have a gag reflex for a reason, and if you ever feel pain when giving oral sex, you should stop immediately.
Numbing sprays also don’t differentiate between your mouth and your partner’s penis. Any spray, mint or other desensitizer you use will very quickly transfer to the penis and leave it numb and desensitized, too! In that way, it really defeats the whole point of a blowjob.
And finally, deep-throating is not a 100% necessary part of a blowjob. You are under no obligation to have a penis that far into your mouth! If you are comfortable with it, and you know your partner really enjoys a deep blowjob, then only go as far as you can. With practice, you may be able to overcome a strong gag reflex, but trying to shortcut it with a numbing spray in your blowjob kit is not worth the trouble.
Safe Ways to Deal With Your Gag Reflex
Instead of trying to numb your throat, here are some tips to help you give confident and sexy blowjobs…
1. Try to relax beforehand. Worrying out if you’re going to gag and how unpleasant it might be is actually more likely to make it happen. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy! Take some deep breaths, massage your jaw muscles, and whatever happens, happens.
2. Only go as far as you’re comfortable with. Your safety and comfort is always more important than whether your partner gets their penis down your throat or not!
3. Use your hands to control the depth. Place a hand around the shaft of the penis at around the depth you’re comfortable with going. This will stop it going too far in, and doubles as a handjob, too!
4. Take breaks. Give your gag reflex some time to relax and return to normal by taking some pauses in between sucking. In the meantime, use your hands or a male stroker to keep your partner occupied.
Making the Perfect Blowjob Kit
Compiling your own blowjob kit is the best way to get all the oral sex goodies you like, without wasting money on stuff you don’t. Plus, it’s surprisingly easy!
Here are some ideas for things you might want to include, and some expert recommendations to get you started!
Lube
We love penises for so many reasons, but the taste isn’t always among them. While flavored lube is no replacement for good hygiene, it can help make a blowjob that little bit tastier!
Take a look at any online sex toy store and you’ll see a huge range of flavored lubes in every flavor you can think of! Most are very sweet, with sugars and/or sweeteners that mean that they shouldn’t be used in the vagina or anus. They are, however, perfect for blowjobs.
One of our favorite brands is Sliquid’s Swirl range, which is a high-quality water-based lube that’s free from glycerine and parabens. They have 8 flavors, including blue raspberry, cherry vanilla, piña colada, pink lemonade and blackberry fig.
If you want something extra sweet and luxurious, you can’t go wrong with the Wicked Salted Caramel lube, which is long-lasting and never sticky. Or, for variety, check out Doc Johnson’s 5-pack of GoodHead flavored lubes.
Tingle Tools
Want to add a little sparkle to your homemade blowjob kit? Stay away from the glitter and try some of these super tingly, mouthwatering products instead!
You might have already heard of the age old trick of sucking on a mint before going down on your partner, but that’s just the tip of the iceberg. Nowadays, you can get everything from liquid drops to lip gloss to candy. They can add some extra tingles to your mouth and tongue, giving him amazingly unique sensations.
There are, however, some things we recommend steering clear of. You might see people telling you to have some pop rocks before giving a blowjob, but they’re pretty spiky and could well end up doing more harm than good to the delicate skin of the penis. The other no-go is toothpaste — we even have a whole blog post on why using toothpaste on genitals is a bad idea.
If you want to safely add extra tingles to your oral sex, then try out the Hot Kiss lip gloss that provides both warm and cool tingles on your lips, or the GoodHead Tingle Drops that you can drip on your tongue and delight him with.
Lubrication makes everything better, including blowjobs. If you tend suffer from a bit of dry mouth during oral, or just want to make things extra juicy, here are two products to add to your blowjob kit!
Flintts Mouthwatering Mints come in a variety of flavors and strengths. They offer a tingly, fresh taste and will get your salivary glands working overtime. Or try the Slow Sex Mouthwatering Spray with malic acid, just like you find in super sour candy!
Strokers
Your mouth can do some pretty amazing stuff, and sometimes, that’s all you need! But, if you want to give your jaw and gag reflex a break, a penis stroker can be a great supplement. Plus, they can be a great way to make sure you only go as deep as you feel comfortable with whilst still giving him loads of stimulation.
The BlowYo Extreme Wave Stroker is made from a super stretchy material that can sit at the base of the shaft while you suck, and can then be stretched out over the whole penis when you need a rest. It’s even designed to feel just like a blowjob in itself!
Then there’s the Fun Factory Manta. For the eagle-eyed among you, you’ll notice that this is the second time I’m mentioning it in this post, but that’s because it’s so amazing! It fits snugly around the shaft and delivers powerful vibrations wherever you need them, including the balls and anywhere else!
Finally, the Lovehoney Head Master is a budget-friendly option for those who like tight, intense stimulation. It’s small, so you can use it on the base while you give the head some attention. Plus, it vibrates!
Cock Rings
A cock ring can really be a miracle worker! The basic way they work is by restricting blood from flowing away from the penis during an erection, which can result in stronger and longer-lasting hard-ons. They can also make the penis extra sensitive, making them a perfect accompaniment to a blowjob! Just be sure to use them safely.
There are loads of different types out there, from rabbit cock rings to BDSM cock rings! However, you don’t need to go fancy to get the effect. The BASICS Comfort stretchy cock ring is soft, squishy and comfortable to wear, no matter your size, while the Doc Johnson Adjustable cock ring features a lasso-like design that ensures a perfect fit.
If you want to push the boat out more, try the We-Vibe Verge. This vibrating cock ring is powerful, flexible, and can controlled via app from anywhere in the world. Perhaps not so useful when you’re giving a blowjob, but we do love a multitasker!
