3 Best Double Sided Strap Ons

Benjamin Jorgensen
by Benjamin JorgensenUpdated:

Together with a team of testers from Bedbible we’ve tested a ton of different double sides strap on dildos to find the best ones. And, after month of testing we’ve narrowed it down! This is our top list of the 3 best ones.

Test Winner

5.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie M

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

Best App-Controlled

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Joseph Mohrmann

User Ratings:

4.0/5

Based on user reviews

Budget-Friendly

4.3Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Victoria Jennings

User Ratings:

4.1/5

Based on 249 user reviews

Strap-On-Me Bendable Strapless Strap OnLovense LapisLovehoney Desire Luxury Strap-On
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Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
  • High quality construction
  • Variety of sizes to choose from
  • Easy to customize to accommodate different bodies
  • The dildo is a bit floppy and difficult to control
  • Grooved for extra clit stimulation
  • Triple-motor design
  • Complete control via app
  • Flexible neck
  • Expensive
  • Only offered in one size
  • Can slip out without a harness
  • Made of smooth, non-porous silicone
  • Rabbit-ears for clitoral stimulation
  • Fully waterproof
  • Great for solo and couples play
  • Lockable leather storage bag included
  • Button placement is a bit awkward
  • The rabbit ears may not feel comfortable for all body types
  • Difficult to keep in for longer sessions

How We Test double sided strap ons

We’re a team of 363 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best double sided strap ons, our testers tried and reviewed 107 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre double sided strap ons didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1457 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
How I Assessed Each Double Sided Strap On

Test Winner Strap-On-Me Bendable Strapless Strap On

5.0/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie M

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strapless Strap On was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the double sided strap on.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strapless Strap On was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strapless Strap On was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Comes in 3 sizes (S, M, L), this is a review of the small
  • Has bendable pony with egg-shape

Pros

  • High quality construction
  • Variety of sizes to choose from
  • Easy to customize to accommodate different bodies

Cons

  • The dildo is a bit floppy and difficult to control

Specifications

Why I Chose It

With almost ALL reviews we get from any testers of a double sides strap on, we receive the feedback, that they are hard to ‘keep up’ without using an actual harness.

When I learned that to her own surprise, Cassie, did not have this experience with the Strap-On-Me I knew it was the ultimate test winner. The main reason it stays up so well is because of the egg-shaped pony, with a very slim neck.

This egg-shape works wonders to also make it “a lot more interactive than I was expecting a it to be”, because the egg, for the wearer, “feels amazing since it puts so much pressure on the g-spot”.

It has to be said that contrary to e.g. the Lovense Lapis, this is a non-vibrating double sided strap on.

Cassie and her partner also found that the “the pronounced ‘head’ of the dildo easily targets the prostate (or g-spot) on the receiver” – it is generally a great thing for any dildo to have a slight curve or bump if you want to target an internal spot.

They actually had nothing bad to say and rated it so high I had no choice but to rank it as the test winner.

Best App-Controlled Lovense Lapis Double Strap On

4.5/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Joseph Mohrmann

User Ratings:

4.0/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Lapis Double Strap On was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the double sided strap on.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Lapis Double Strap On was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Lapis Double Strap On was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Works with the Lovense App to remote control vibrations
  • Adjustable pany/neck

Pros

  • Grooved for extra clit stimulation
  • Triple-motor design
  • Complete control via app
  • Flexible neck

Cons

  • Expensive
  • Only offered in one size
  • Can slip out without a harness

Specifications

Why I Chose It

As my “Best app-controlled” pick, it’s fairly obvious what the main appeal of this toy is.

Sure, the all-silicone build and extra-stimulating textured surface of this double sided strap on definitely work in its favor, but the real reason you’d want it is for those app-enabled vibrating features. For our tester, Joseph, this was also the main feature, saying that “I could feel the motor all through my whole body even on the lowest setting”.

Fortunately, the Lovense Lapis has plenty of features to offer.

More basic features include precise vibration control via the app, granting you unlimited patterns.

More advanced features include things like vibe-music sync and long-distance controls.

The only real reason you might not want this toy is the price tag, which hovers around $260 at full price.

I wouldn’t recommend this to a complete beginner who’s not quite sure if they like strap-ons or not.

Our tester did mention that it was very tricky to keep in place without actually wearing it with a harness.

However, if you’ve tried them before, have a harness at home, and want the best of the best in terms of vibrations then I think the Lovense Lapis could be a great double sided strap on for you!

Budget-Friendly Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On

4.3/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.3/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.6/5

Reviewed by: 

Victoria Jennings

User Ratings:

4.1/5

Based on 249 user reviews

85/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the double sided strap on.

40/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On was rated 40 out of 100, which means it is possible to figure out how it should be used.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Vibrating rabbit ears for wearer
  • Slight upwards curve on dildo

Pros

  • Made of smooth, non-porous silicone
  • Rabbit-ears for clitoral stimulation
  • Fully waterproof
  • Great for solo and couples play
  • Lockable leather storage bag included

Cons

  • Button placement is a bit awkward
  • The rabbit ears may not feel comfortable for all body types
  • Difficult to keep in for longer sessions

Specifications

Why I Chose It

I think the Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On is the best option for anyone out there looking for a “rabbit”-style double-sided strap-ons.

But most of all, it’s the best possible option for anyone looking for a double sided strap on with the full package (vibrations and the like) for a very reasonable price.

It’s a really good quality product, it delivers strong vibrations that are super customizable. Our tester, Vicki, did say that “it felt bit wobbly not using the harness”. That is pretty comon for most strapless double dildos, and is something we hear from a lot of testers.

In fact, after some initial effort and preperation Jess and her partner found that the Lovehoney Desire managed to make “both ends hit the right spots and it was a connecting experience as both of us were at the blink of orgasm at the same time”.

The only issue I have with it, is that it is only offered in one size. Both in terms of width and girth it’s typically easier to find a good fit with some options.

Comparison

BestTest Winner Best App-Controlled Budget-Friendly
Overall score5.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.9 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0
User rating5 / 5.0
from 3 users
4 / 5.0
from 1 users
4.1 / 5.0
from 249 users
PriceModerate Premium Moderate
Design95 / 100 90 / 100 85 / 100
Ease of use85 / 100 85 / 100 40 / 100
Quality100 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100
Sound---
Power---
Buzzy/Rumbly---
Insertable length6.1 inchesShaft: 5.43 inches, Base: 3.43 inches-
Diameter1.06 inchesShaft: 1.61 inches, Base: 1.52 inches-
Diameter (internal)1.53 inches--
MaterialsExterior: Premium silicone, Interior: ABS plastic Silicone -
WaterproofYes Yes Yes
Storage Bag IncludedYes Yes A very fancy leather pouch
AdjustablePoseable "hinge" Yes Yes
FlexibilityFlexible shaft --
Colors AvailableBlack, Purple Pink -
Vibration speeds-3 preset -
Vibration patterns-4 preset -
Length-9 inches-
Battery Life-Up to 150 minutes-
Rechargeable-Yes Yes -power cable included but no plug
Charging Time-105 minutes-
Travel Lock-No -
Remote Controls-App controls No
Vibration modes--Different modes for different ends of a strap on
Weight--Light lbs
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Types of Double-Sided Strap Ons

The term “double-sided strap on” actually covers a few different types of toys.

Let’s quickly go over the different variations of this toy.

  • Vibrating Strap Ons These toys provide various vibrations for added stimulation.
  • Non-vibrating – These toys rely on physical movements and textures for stimulation.
  • App-controlled – These toys allow you to control vibrations and other functions via a mobile app.
  • Remote-controlled – These toys use a handheld remote to control their various functions.
  • Strap-on – These toys generally are held in place by a bulb in the wearer’s vagina, with the dildo end hanging out from the front. They can be used with or without a harness.
  • Double-ended dildo These toys feature a dildo on each end, and are generally designed with female-to-female penetration in mind.

How to Choose the Best Double-Sided Strap on for You

Although shopping for a double headed strapon might seem like an easy decision, if you want to ensure that you end up with the best toy for you & your partner, you’ll actually want to put a bit of thought into it!

Here are a few points worth considering while shopping:

  • Design – Do you want identical dual-stimulation? A separate type of stimulation?
  • Textures – Do you prefer smooth surfaces, ribs, bumps, or something else?
  • Adjustability – Can your toy be adjusted or posed?
  • Harness – Will you use a harness, or are you planning on going strapless?
  • Vibrations – Do you want vibrations, or do you prefer manual stimulation instead?
  • Remote – Can your toy be remotely controlled? If so, is it with a remote, an app, or both?

Why Should I Use a Double-Sided Strap On?

Well, the main benefit of using a two way strapon is exactly that: pleasure becomes a two-way street! While using a regular strap-on provides a bit of pleasure for the person wearing it, it’s nowhere near the pleasure and sensations that the wearer will get from using a dual strap on.

Basically, you should use a double-sided strap on when you want to split the pleasure between both partners!

Author
Benjamin Jorgensen
Benjamin Jorgensen

I’m Benjamin, the co-founder of Bedbible.com. My path in this venture has been an enriching blend of editorial leadership and content strategy. With a background in Political Science, my insights extend beyond mere editorial skills; they reflect a deep understanding of human behavior and social movements. Each article and review on our site is more than just content; it’s a carefully woven tapestry of facts and perspectives aimed at enriching our readers’ understanding of intimacy and relationships. I’m committed to ensuring that Bedbible remains a trusted, informative, and engaging resource. If you have any queries or feedback, I’m always open to discussions and ideas.

Age: 29
Gender: Male
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Beginner
All-time favorite sex toy: Fleshlight test
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