4 Best Double Sided Strap Ons
Together with a team of testers from Bedbible we’ve tested a ton of different double sides strap on dildos to find the best ones. And, after month of testing we’ve narrowed it down! This is our top list of the 4 best ones.
Test Winner5.0  Overall Rating 5.0/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.9/5 User Ratings: 5.0/5 Based on 3 user reviews | Runner Up4.8 Overall Rating 4.8/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.6/5 Reviewed by: Jess AdamsUser Ratings: 5.0/5 Based on 2 user reviews | Best App-Controlled4.5 Overall Rating 4.5/5 Bedbible Rating: 5/5 Reviewed by: Joseph MohrmannUser Ratings: 4.0/5 Based on 1 user reviews | Budget-Friendly4.3 Overall Rating 4.3/5 Bedbible Rating: 4.6/5 Reviewed by: Victoria JenningsUser Ratings: 4.1/5 Based on 249 user reviews |
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| Strap-On-Me Bendable Strapless Strap On | Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro | Lovense Lapis | Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strap-On |
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How We Test double sided strap ons
We’re a team of 329 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best double sided strap ons, our testers tried and reviewed 88 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre double sided strap ons didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1123 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
Read more about how we test products.
Test Winner Strap-On-Me Bendable Strapless Strap On
Overall Rating
5.0/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.9/5
Reviewed by:
Cassie MørchUser Ratings:
5.0/5
Based on 3 user reviews
Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strapless Strap On was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the double sided strap on.
Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strapless Strap On was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strapless Strap On was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Strap-On-Me Bendable Strapless Strap On was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Comes in 3 sizes (S, M, L), this is a review of the small
- Has bendable pony with egg-shape
Pros
- ✅ High quality construction
- ✅ Variety of sizes to choose from
- ✅ Easy to customize to accommodate different bodies
Cons
- ❌ The dildo is a bit floppy and difficult to control
Why I Chose It
With almost ALL reviews we get from any testers of a double sides strap on, we receive the feedback, that they are hard to ‘keep up’ without using an actual harness.
When I learned that to her own surprise, Cassie, did not have this experience with the Strap-On-Me I knew it was the ultimate test winner. The main reason it stays up so well is because of the egg-shaped pony, with a very slim neck.
This egg-shape works wonders to also make it “a lot more interactive than I was expecting a it to be”, because the egg, for the wearer, “feels amazing since it puts so much pressure on the g-spot”.
It has to be said that contrary to e.g. the Lovense Lapis, this is a non-vibrating double sided strap on.
Cassie and her partner also found that the “the pronounced ‘head’ of the dildo easily targets the prostate (or g-spot) on the receiver” – it is generally a great thing for any dildo to have a slight curve or bump if you want to target an internal spot.
They actually had nothing bad to say and rated it so high I had no choice but to rank it as the test winner.
Runner Up Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro
Overall Rating
4.8/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.6/5
Reviewed by:
Jess AdamsUser Ratings:
5.0/5
Based on 2 user reviews
Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the double sided strap on.
Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Premium
Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I suggest this if you're progressing beyond the basics; it’s straightforward but adds useful features.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Upgrade from the original ShareVibe (that Jess also tested)
- Adjustable pony
Pros
- ✅ Can be used solo or as a couple
- ✅ Can be used without a strap-on harness
- ✅ Waterproof
- ✅ Vibrations are fairly quiet
Cons
- ❌ Expensive
- ❌ Attracts hair and lint very easily
- ❌ Can require some prep for couple play depending on the situation
Vibrations:
Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.
What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro felt to the reviewer.
Rating: Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.
What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro felt to the reviewer.
Why I Chose It
Jess, who tested the Fun Factory ShareVibe Pro with her partner, was ecstatic about it.
They had previously tested the old model, and found several things had improved tremendously.
Two things had mainly improved.
First, Jess found it “was easier to peg without a harness due to the adjustable hinge”. Because the pony/hinge is both girtier, longer and adjustable it makes it much easier to use as a strapless double sided strap on, compared to both the old ShareVibe, and most others.
The main issues with double sided strap on is often than they require a harness to ‘stay up’.
Second, Jess highlighted, and was very adamant the ShareVibe Pro’s vibrations, saying it “has the strongest motor of any double sided strap on on the market”, those vibrations are also super rumbly, which is typically the type of vibrations most people like.
Best App-Controlled Lovense Lapis Double Strap On
Overall Rating
4.5/5
Bedbible Rating:
5/5
Reviewed by:
Joseph MohrmannUser Ratings:
4.0/5
Based on 1 user reviews
Rating: Lovense Lapis Double Strap On was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the double sided strap on.
Rating: Lovense Lapis Double Strap On was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovense Lapis Double Strap On was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Premium
Rating: Lovense Lapis Double Strap On was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Works with the Lovense App to remote control vibrations
- Adjustable pany/neck
Pros
- ✅ Grooved for extra clit stimulation
- ✅ Triple-motor design
- ✅ Complete control via app
- ✅ Flexible neck
Cons
- ❌ Expensive
- ❌ Only offered in one size
- ❌ Can slip out without a harness
Why I Chose It
As my “Best app-controlled” pick, it’s fairly obvious what the main appeal of this toy is.
Sure, the all-silicone build and extra-stimulating textured surface of this double sided strap on definitely work in its favor, but the real reason you’d want it is for those app-enabled vibrating features. For our tester, Joseph, this was also the main feature, saying that “I could feel the motor all through my whole body even on the lowest setting”.
Fortunately, the Lovense Lapis has plenty of features to offer.
More basic features include precise vibration control via the app, granting you unlimited patterns.
More advanced features include things like vibe-music sync and long-distance controls.
The only real reason you might not want this toy is the price tag, which hovers around $260 at full price.
I wouldn’t recommend this to a complete beginner who’s not quite sure if they like strap-ons or not.
Our tester did mention that it was very tricky to keep in place without actually wearing it with a harness.
However, if you’ve tried them before, have a harness at home, and want the best of the best in terms of vibrations then I think the Lovense Lapis could be a great double sided strap on for you!
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Budget-Friendly Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On
Overall Rating
4.3/5
Bedbible Rating:
4.6/5
Reviewed by:
Victoria JenningsUser Ratings:
4.1/5
Based on 249 user reviews
Rating: Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.
What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the double sided strap on.
Rating: Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On was rated 40 out of 100, which means it is possible to figure out how it should be used.
What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).
Rating: Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.
What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.
Moderate
Rating: Lovehoney Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.
What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.
Recommended for
I would recommend any first-timer or beginner this toy, as it's very easy to learn and use.
Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.
Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.
Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.
- Vibrating rabbit ears for wearer
- Slight upwards curve on dildo
Pros
- ✅ Made of smooth, non-porous silicone
- ✅ Rabbit-ears for clitoral stimulation
- ✅ Fully waterproof
- ✅ Great for solo and couples play
- ✅ Lockable leather storage bag included
Cons
- ❌ Button placement is a bit awkward
- ❌ The rabbit ears may not feel comfortable for all body types
- ❌ Difficult to keep in for longer sessions
Why I Chose It
I think the Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On is the best option for anyone out there looking for a “rabbit”-style double-sided strap-ons.
But most of all, it’s the best possible option for anyone looking for a double sided strap on with the full package (vibrations and the like) for a very reasonable price.
It’s a really good quality product, it delivers strong vibrations that are super customizable. Our tester, Vicki, did say that “it felt bit wobbly not using the harness”. That is pretty comon for most strapless double dildos, and is something we hear from a lot of testers.
In fact, after some initial effort and preperation Jess and her partner found that the Lovehoney Desire managed to make “both ends hit the right spots and it was a connecting experience as both of us were at the blink of orgasm at the same time”.
The only issue I have with it, is that it is only offered in one size. Both in terms of width and girth it’s typically easier to find a good fit with some options.
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Comparison
| Best | Test Winner | Runner Up | Best App-Controlled | Budget-Friendly |
| Overall score | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 |
| Bedbible rating | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 |
| User rating | 5 / 5.0 from 3 users | 5 / 5.0 from 2 users | 4 / 5.0 from 1 users | 4.1 / 5.0 from 249 users |
| Price | Moderate | Premium | Premium | Moderate |
| Design | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 |
| Ease of use | 85 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 40 / 100 |
| Quality | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
| Sound | - | 20 / 100 | - | - |
| Power | - | 80 / 100 | - | - |
| Buzzy/Rumbly | - | somewhat rumbly | - | - |
| Insertable length | 6.1 inches | Wearer: 4.5 inches, Receiver: 6.1 inches | Shaft: 5.43 inches, Base: 3.43 inches | - |
| Diameter | 1.06 inches | 1.42-1.61 inches | Shaft: 1.61 inches, Base: 1.52 inches | - |
| Diameter (internal) | 1.53 inches | - | - | - |
| Materials | Exterior: Premium silicone, Interior: ABS plastic | Silicone | Silicone | - |
| Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
| Storage Bag Included | Yes | No | Yes | A very fancy leather pouch |
| Adjustable | Poseable "hinge" | Yes, dildo angle is adjustable | Yes | Yes |
| Flexibility | Flexible shaft | - | - | - |
| Colors Available | Black, Purple | Burgundy, Cool Grey | Pink | - |
| Vibration speeds | - | 3 | 3 preset | - |
| Vibration patterns | - | 5 | 4 preset | - |
| Length | - | 9.92 inches | 9 inches | - |
| Weight | - | 1 lbs | - | Light lbs |
| Battery Life | - | 90 minutes | Up to 150 minutes | - |
| Rechargeable | - | Yes | Yes | Yes -power cable included but no plug |
| Charging Time | - | 360 minutes | 105 minutes | - |
| Remote Controls | - | No | App controls | No |
| App Controls | - | No | - | - |
| Travel Lock | - | Yes | No | - |
| Vibration modes | - | - | - | Different modes for different ends of a strap on |
Types of Double-Sided Strap Ons
The term “double-sided strap on” actually covers a few different types of toys.
Let’s quickly go over the different variations of this toy.
- Vibrating Strap Ons – These toys provide various vibrations for added stimulation.
- Non-vibrating – These toys rely on physical movements and textures for stimulation.
- App-controlled – These toys allow you to control vibrations and other functions via a mobile app.
- Remote-controlled – These toys use a handheld remote to control their various functions.
- Strap-on – These toys generally are held in place by a bulb in the wearer’s vagina, with the dildo end hanging out from the front. They can be used with or without a harness.
- Double-ended dildo – These toys feature a dildo on each end, and are generally designed with female-to-female penetration in mind.
How to Choose the Best Double-Sided Strap on for You
Although shopping for a double headed strapon might seem like an easy decision, if you want to ensure that you end up with the best toy for you & your partner, you’ll actually want to put a bit of thought into it!
Here are a few points worth considering while shopping:
- Design – Do you want identical dual-stimulation? A separate type of stimulation?
- Textures – Do you prefer smooth surfaces, ribs, bumps, or something else?
- Adjustability – Can your toy be adjusted or posed?
- Harness – Will you use a harness, or are you planning on going strapless?
- Vibrations – Do you want vibrations, or do you prefer manual stimulation instead?
- Remote – Can your toy be remotely controlled? If so, is it with a remote, an app, or both?
Why Should I Use a Double-Sided Strap On?
Well, the main benefit of using a two way strapon is exactly that: pleasure becomes a two-way street! While using a regular strap-on provides a bit of pleasure for the person wearing it, it’s nowhere near the pleasure and sensations that the wearer will get from using a dual strap on.
Basically, you should use a double-sided strap on when you want to split the pleasure between both partners!
Reviewed by:
Cassie Mørch