How to Use a Panty Vibrator – 12 Exciting Ways to Play

I would like to extend to you, an invitation to the Pants Party. The party, the pants …with the pants. Party with pants? Yes, that is Anchorman’s quote, but if you are looking to create your very own pants party, then you are in the right place. Whether you choose to invite anyone else is completely up to you! Whether you are looking for the thrill of some discreet fun out on the town or a hands-free addition to your solo routine, there are so many great panty vibrators to choose from and so many ways to enjoy them!

What Are Panty Vibrators and Who Should One?

Panty vibrators deliver hands-free clitoral stimulation at the push of the button, making them ideal for fun on the go or as a wearable vibrator for solo play. They come in a whole range of shapes, sizes, and prices and have different additional features, such as remote controls and app-enabled functions. So if you enjoy hands-free clitoral vibrations, a panty vibrator could be the next addition to your collection! If, however, you prefer internal stimulation, an egg vibrator might be more up your street, they are equally as versatile with plenty of ways to use them but they are worn inside the vagina for internal and g-spot stimulation.

12 Ways to Use Your Panty for Hands-Free Thrills

The versatility of panty vibrators means they can add some excitement to pretty much any task, your creativity really is the limit here!  Here are some ways you have a little more fun with your panty vibrator.

Discreet Public Play

Panty vibrators are ideal for some secret sexy sensations when you are out and about. Whether you enjoy the forbidden pleasure of public sex or the thrill of getting caught, getting your vibe on outside the house can be exhilarating.

What better way to take date night to the next level! Set yourself up with your panty vibrator in place and head with your partner in control of the remote. The anticipation of that first buzz will electrify your evening. You get to enjoy the sweet sensations while your partner can enjoy making squirm with the push of a button.

Other great places for discreet public play are public transport, a picnic, or a nightclub — you can even get panty vibrators that will buzz in time to the music!

Long-Distance Sex

Plenty of sex toys, panty vibrators included, can now be controlled from anywhere in the world. The bonus of using a long-distance panty vibrator is that it leaves your hands completely free for whatever you like. Use them to control your partner’s sex toy or stimulate other areas while putting on a sexy show for your partner!

Power Play

A remote-controlled panty vibrator is the perfect tool for some exciting power play with your partner. Get in position and hand the controls over to them. They are free to toy with you for as long as you can take. To up the intensity and surrender fully, you can add in some restraints and a blindfold. You may also want to explore edging during this dynamic by having your partner stimulate you to the brink of orgasm and then letting the sensation subside before repeating the process. The Fifty Shades of Grey Relentless Vibrations Panty Vibrator comes with powerful vibrations and an easy-to-use remote, making it perfect for a little power play in the bedroom.

Hands-Free Masturbation

A big pro of panty vibrators is you can get hands-free stimulation during solo masturbation, which opens up a lot of possibilities. You can use your hands for any other type of stimulation you are craving — add in some anal or nipple stimulation or even both to make for an intensely pleasurable solo session! Also, many vulva owners also find that rocking their hips and having something to grind against can help them orgasm. Panty vibrators are great for some pillow riding fun. You can use any pillow but a bolster-style pillow works fantastically! If you love rumbly vibrations from your vibrators, the We-Vibe Moxie is a great option for hands-free solo play, and the silicone is divinely soft!

Get Some Added Stimulation When Giving Oral

While the gift of giving is sometimes enough, it’s also nice to get a little treat of your own as you go down on your partner. A hands-free panty vibrator lets you use your hands and mouth to give your partner some loving while you let the vibrator take care of you. You can set your vibrator to your favorite setting, give your partner the control or some will even vibrate to music if you’ve got your sexy playlist in the background!

Dual Stimulation During Penetrative Sex

If you need clitoral stimulation to orgasm or just love the feeling of blended orgasms, a panty vibrator can be a great addition to penetrative sex (either anal or vaginal). Some are more practical than others for this and of course, you want to choose one that doesn’t get in the way of your partner’s penis or dildo. The Dame Eva II is designed to be worn as a panty vibrator but it also nestles against your clitoris during penetrative sex.

Slip it Inside a Strap-On Harness

If you enjoy using a strap-on dildo with your partner but want some clitoral stimulation while wearing it, a panty vibrator can be a great addition. Some harnesses come with an inbuilt pocket for a bullet vibrator, but it can be difficult to line it up with our clitoris and keep it in place as you thrust. A flat saddle shape panty vibrator will work best for this and might be more secure in an underwear-style harness.

Get a Head Start on the Foreplay

Know your partner’s coming home soon and want to give them a sexy surprise? Send them a sexy message to let them know you’ll be ready and waiting, and use your panty vibrator to get yourself going. Can you resist orgasming before they get home? Or, maybe you are ready to enjoy multiple orgasms. Either way, you’ll be especially happy when they walk through the door and so will they!

Add Some Excitement to Excercise Routine

Struggling to get on your yoga mat or get out for a walk? Give yourself the added motivation of an orgasm or two to help you get going! This works especially well for a little at-home yoga — wouldn’t recommend it for a studio class though! As you move through the different postures, the pressure will change and you will soon figure out which position and movements feel best! Not only does the movement add a new dimension to self-pleasure, connecting with your breath and body can make enhance those pleasurable sensations.

Meditation and Masturbation

Both mediation and masturbation are powerful ways to connect with your body and both have fantastic feel-good, stress-relieving qualities so why not combine them! There’s no one way to try this, but here’s an idea to get started. This works

1. Once you’ve got your panty vibrator in place, find a comfy position lying on your back or propped up on some pillows.
2. Begin by taking a deep breath in through your nose and sighing it out through your mouth as you relax your body. Do this a few times and as you settle into your position.
3. Take slow deep breaths and feel the breath traveling all the way down to your vulva, focusing on the sensations you feel in this area.
4. When you feel ready, you can turn on your panty vibrator, maybe choosing a low setting as you continue to breathe deeply and slowly, sending the energy of your breath to your vulva.
5. Slowly increase the settings but try to keep breathing deeply as you orgasm.
6. After you orgasm, don’t rush to get up but lie down and soak in all of that orgasmic energy!

Wear it While Writing an Erotic Story

Writing an erotic story for yourself or your partner can be incredibly arousing. It gives you a way to explore your fantasies — ones you would want to try or ones you are happy to keep as fantasies. It can also be a great way to share your desires with a partner. Combing the mental stimulation of writing your hottest fantasies and the physical stimulation of some vibrating panties can make for a very hot a steamy solo session!

Add a Little Fun to the Housework

We’ve all been there — a list of chores we know have to get done at some point but with zero motivation to do any of it! Slip your panty vibrator into your underwear and get going! Can you finish your job before your vibrator finishes you off? Ok, so this might not be the most efficient way to work, but it certainly makes it more fun!

Choosing Your Panty Vibrator

Now you know all the fun you can have with the simple panty vibrator, here are my top picks. When choosing a panty vibrator, much like any sex toy, it’s important to know what type of stimulation you enjoy and what you want to use it for to help you get the perfect match.

Best Long-Distance Panty Vibrator: Lovense Ferri

The Lovense Ferri is an app-enabled panty vibrator that uses a magnet to attach the device securely to your underwear so you don’t have to worry about it moving around or falling out. The Lovense app is known for being one of the most reliable for long-distance sex and offers a pretty amazing range of functions, including sync to music and unlimited patterns.

Best Rumbly Vibrator: We-Vibe Moxie

We-Vibe is known for high-quality vibrators with deliciously rumbly vibrations, and the Moxie is definitely one of the rumblier panty vibrators out there. The silky soft vibrator attaches to your underwear with the magnetic clip and can be controlled using the remote or app. I will say this isn’t the quietest panty vibrator out there, so it’s best for at-home use rather than for discreet public play.

Best for Wearing During Penetrative Sex: Dame Eva

The small shape and flexible arms make the Dame Eva a perfect addition to penetrative sex. You don’t even need to wear pants to enjoy its vibrations! The flexible arms nestle inside your labia holding the body against your clitoris as you enjoy hands-free vibrations during penetrative sex. This vibrator is ideal for anyone who needs clitoral stimulation to orgasm, but it probably isn’t the best option for taking out and about due to its lack of attachment.

Best Panty Vibrator on a Budget: Satisfyer Sexy Secret Panty Vibrator

For a sex toy under $50, the Sexy Secret from Satisfyer has a lot to offer. For one, it’s app-enabled which is pretty impressive for a toy of this price! It offers some decent vibrations, although it isn’t the strongest, so it might not be the best option if you crave power. It’s also pretty quiet making a great option for discreet public play!