8 Best Long Distance Sex Toys

Isabelle Uren
by Isabelle UrenUpdated:

As a sex toy expert, I’ve made it my mission to try out all of the popular sex toy apps, and I’ve found there are definitely some that outperform the others! I’ve used my own experience, together with our tester’s reviews to pick out the best long-distance sex toys out there that will leave you feeling satisfied and connected instead of sexually and technologically frustrated! I’ve included my top toys for long-distance sex, including some great ones for video sex, as well as some that are perfect for discreet public play.

Test Winner

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.3/5

Based on 1081 user reviews

Best on a Budget

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.1/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.9/5

Based on 28 user reviews

Best for Beginners

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 23 user reviews

Expert Pick

5.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Flora Winters

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on 26 user reviews

Best Panty Vibrator

4.4Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Jen Schmidt

User Ratings:

4.1/5

Based on 35 user reviews

Best Masturbator

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.3/5

Reviewed by: 

Josh Gill

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 210 user reviews

Best for Anal

4.9Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Flora Winters

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 128 user reviews

Best G-spot Vibrator

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Mariah Anderson

User Ratings:

4.4/5

Based on 60 user reviews

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  • Discreet and quiet for public play
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Great connectivity
  • Not a lot of clitoral stimulation
  • The tail doesn't stay in place
  • App easy to set up and use
  • Can be used vaginally or anally
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Luxury design at affordable price
  • Buzzy vibrations
  • Might not fit all bodies
  • Two ways to use
  • Easy to connect
  • Gentle but satisfying stimulation
  • Air pulse can be a little jumpy
  • Gets quite loud on higher settings
  • Vibrations are a bit buzzy
  • Great range of interactive functions
  • Can be used with or without suction cup base
  • Vibes and thrusts controlled independently
  • Powerful stimulation
  • Not fully waterproof
  • Vibrations aren't the strongest
  • Quite loud
  • Hands-free
  • Can be worn in strap-on harness
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Quiet
  • App performs well
  • Lack of pressure against clitoris
  • Could be more powerful
  • Great for VR porn experience
  • Can interact with other Kiiroo toys
  • Comes with realistic looking and feeling stroker
  • Stroker can be used separately
  • A lot of customisation
  • Quite large and heavy
  • Gets pretty loud
  • Rumbly and quiet vibrations
  • App offers game, video, music, and voice interactivity
  • Comfortable to wear, even during public play
  • Luxurious feel
  • Too firm for some
  • Can only store up to 10 customized patterns
  • Vibrations spread through whole vibrator
  • Quiet vibrations
  • Fully waterproof
  • Rumbly vibrations
  • Can lose bend under pressure
  • Grip size is a little small

How We Test long distance sex toys

We’re a team of 348 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best long distance sex toys , our testers tried and reviewed 94 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre long distance sex toys didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1225 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
Testing and Rating the Long Distance Sex Toys

Test Winner Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator

4.5/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.3/5

Based on 1081 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the long distance sex toy.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Bulbed for G-spot stimulation
  • Fixed tail for clitoral stimulation
  • App enabled with long-distance and interactive capabilities

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Discreet and quiet for public play
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Great connectivity

Cons

  • Not a lot of clitoral stimulation
  • The tail doesn't stay in place

Why I Chose It

The original Lovense Lush kick-started the app-controlled sex toy revolution and it’s latest version, the Lush 3 has managed to remain the best long-distance sex toy! I tested the Lush 2 and it’s still my go to for wearing for discreet play with my partner in control of the vibrations. My fellow Bedbible sex toy expert, Kasia, tested the Lush 3 and agrees that this is the by far the best long-distance vibrator!

She “had a blast using it” and was impressed by it’s “powerful, super quiet, and extra discreet” vibrations. She was also a big fan of the egg shaped design as it was “very comfortable to wear and walk around with it inside.” Having worn the Lush on a 30 minute walk (for research purposes, of course), I can fully back this up! Kasia was a bit disappointed that the vibrations didn’t travel as well into the tail so clitoral stimulation was minimal, but adding some finger play using the tail felt great!

It’s also one of the quietest long-distance vibrators, reaching a maximum of around 43 decibels, which is definitely quiet enough to use anywhere with a bit of background noise.

Another big reason I chose the Lush 3 as the test winner is the app control! The Lovense Remote is hands-down the best sex toy app I’ve ever tried and the one I will recommend to friends time and time again! I’ve never had any issues connecting my toy to the app, it’s stays connected well and generally reconnects by itself, so even if it drops out, it doesn’t interfere too much with the proceedings.

Best on a Budget Svakom Erica

4.5/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.1/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.9/5

Based on 28 user reviews

85/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Svakom Erica was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the long distance sex toy.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Svakom Erica was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Svakom Erica was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Two motors provide internal and external vibrations
  • Adjustable angles
  • App for close range and long-distance control

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Svakom Erica was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Svakom Erica felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Svakom Erica was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Svakom Erica felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • App easy to set up and use
  • Can be used vaginally or anally
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Luxury design at affordable price

Cons

  • Buzzy vibrations
  • Might not fit all bodies

Why I Chose It

I know that most long-distance sex toys are well over $100 but there are few gems, like the Svakom Erica that can be purchased for around $50! You really get a lot for your money with this one — a decent app and two vibrating motors!

Kasia tested it out for us and had a lot of good things to say! She “loved how smooth the silicone feels and how flexible the shaft is.” She found the shaft delivered “a nice G-spot massage” but the base was a bit too short to sit comfortably against her clitoris in many positions.

In terms of vibrations, they were “more buzzy than what [she is] used to” but she appreciate that “they are powerful and quiet,” so I can see this being great when you need to be discreet! Kasia also found the Erica comfortable to wear and it stayed in place well when she moved around.

For a much cheaper long distance vibrator, I was also impressed by Kasia experience using the app. She wrote that “the app control works great” and it “added a lot of fun to [her] experience.”

Best for Beginners Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3

4.8/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Rachel Worthington

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 23 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the long distance sex toy.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Pressure wave stimulation
  • Optional silicone membrane for direct contact
  • Can be controlled via the Satisfyer Connect App

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Two ways to use
  • Easy to connect
  • Gentle but satisfying stimulation

Cons

  • Air pulse can be a little jumpy
  • Gets quite loud on higher settings
  • Vibrations are a bit buzzy

Why I Chose It

“The new Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 hits all of the marks for me, and has given me some absolutely spectacular orgasms!”
That’s high praise from our reviewer and fellow Bedbible sex toy expert, Rachel, who isn’t usually a clit sucker fan! She absolutely loved the newest version of the iconic Satisfyer!

I chose this as the best long-distance sex toy for beginners because it’s easy to use and focusses on external stimulation, which can be less intimidating. It’s also got a few different types of stimulation, so it gives you more to explore.

Rachel loved the Liquid Air Technology as the silicone cover created the “closest sensations to oral sex” that she’s experienced in a sex toy! She described it as being “like a soft, fluttering tongue that you can tease your clitoris with or press down for satisfyingly firm pressure!” 

The vibrations aren’t particularly strong and Rachel found them “pretty buzzy,” but if you are new to sex toys, you probably don’t want anything too powerful!

The app is also very beginner-friendly! Rachel found it “very easy to connect the toy to the Satisfyer Connect app” and she “didn’t experience the toy disconnecting at all.” 

The only real downside I can see with this long-distance sex toy is that it’s not wearable or hands-free so you can’t use it for public play!

Expert Pick Lovense Gravity

5.0/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

5.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Flora Winters

User Ratings:

5.0/5

Based on 26 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Gravity was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the long distance sex toy.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Gravity was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

92/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Gravity was rated 92 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Up to 140 strokes/min with a 1.18 stroke length
  • Suction cup base
  • Connects to Lovense App for long-distance control and gamified features

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovense Gravity was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Gravity felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Lovense Gravity was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Gravity felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Great range of interactive functions
  • Can be used with or without suction cup base
  • Vibes and thrusts controlled independently
  • Powerful stimulation

Cons

  • Not fully waterproof
  • Vibrations aren't the strongest
  • Quite loud

Why I Chose It

I really wanted to include the Lovense Gravity, as not only does it offer some really great stimulation (hands-free thrusting, yes please!), but also the suction cup allows for totally hands-free use, which opens up some really fun video sex possibilities!

Flora tested it out for us and described it as a “mechanical marvel” that “outperforms any mortal companion!” She was so impressed by its “thrusting power and satisfying vibrations,” she wrote she’s “sure to please the proud pillow princess and performer alike.” 

The app was also a big hit! She loved that it made the Gravity into her own “personal creative tool” with all the fun ways to use it! She particularly like that the “long-distance control and voice feedback, allowed for deeply intimate sessions.” I also think having both the thrusting and vibrating to control offers a bit more fun for the partner in the driving seat.

Aside from all of the amazing app capabilities and powerful stimulation, one of the main reasons the Gravity is great for long-distance play is the suction cup, which Flora describes as having “unbudgeable force.” In my experience, having a hands-free toy with a big visual impact, like this one, makes long-distance sex video calls a lot more fun!

Best Panty Vibrator Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator

4.4/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Jen Schmidt

User Ratings:

4.1/5

Based on 35 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the long distance sex toy.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Clips into panties with a strong magnet
  • Ergonomic shape stimulates clitoris and labia
  • Connects to Lovense app for long-distance control

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Hands-free
  • Can be worn in strap-on harness
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Quiet
  • App performs well

Cons

  • Lack of pressure against clitoris
  • Could be more powerful

Why I Chose It

The Lovense Ferri is one of the best long-distance sex toys for anyone who prefers clitoral stimulation. It’s also one of the best for public play, given how quiet the vibrations are.

Jen tested it out and really liked that the design allowed her to use it in a strap-on harness. Overall, she was impressed with it, writing that “is of high quality- feels luxurious, never malfunctions, and the battery lasts long”

She was also impressed with the app: “For masturbation, the app adds an interesting layer. There are many vibration patterns to try out”. The Ferri stays put pretty well with moderate movement such as walking or sitting, but Jen found it moved around a bit when wearing it in a strap-on harness during sex.

The only issue with the Ferri, and most panty vibrators in my experience, is that once you stand up and gravity is at play, there is a lack of pressure against the clitoris. This also means you don’t get the full impact of the vibration power. I’ve found wearing some tight-fitting underwear helps!

Best Masturbator Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator

4.5/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.3/5

Reviewed by: 

Josh Gill

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 210 user reviews

75/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the long distance sex toy.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

95/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Up to 230 strokes per minute with adjustable stroke length
  • Can interact with VR porn
  • Connects to the Feel Connect app for long-distance play and interactive features

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is extremely powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Great for VR porn experience
  • Can interact with other Kiiroo toys
  • Comes with realistic looking and feeling stroker
  • Stroker can be used separately
  • A lot of customisation

Cons

  • Quite large and heavy
  • Gets pretty loud

Why I Chose It

The Kiiroo Keon was an obvious as the best long-distance masturbator because it’s the most advanced automatic masturbator out there with the widest variety of features! I like that the thrusting allows you to recreate the sensation of sex with a partner no matter how far apart you are!

In his review, our tester, Josh, wrote that the Keon “looks great, it’s effective, and it’s an all-round premium toy that gets the job done.” He was particularly impressed by the quality of the stroker, writing that it’s “fantastic quality, made of a soft and fleshy silicone that feels life-like and textured.”

Out of all the interactive masturbators, I feel like the Keon has some of the best interactive features, from syncing to online content to connecting to other Kiiroo toys. Josh like that despite all of the features, “the controls for the power, mode, speed, and stroke length of the Keon are all simple and intuitive, and with a little fiddling and trial and error, you can find something that will really rock your world.”

Josh did mention that the Keon “might be a little too big and bulky for some people’s liking” but he also found  “something undeniably satisfying about holding the toy by its ‘hips’ as it bounces up and down.” We actually have a Keon here in the Bedbible office, and agree that it’s not a small toy but that’s a sacrifice I’d be willing to make for overall experience.

Best for Anal Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug

4.9/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Flora Winters

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 128 user reviews

94/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug was rated 94 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the long distance sex toy.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

A Closer Look
  • Tapered bulb shape plug with powerful vibrations
  • T-bar base
  • Connects to Lovense App

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Rumbly and quiet vibrations
  • App offers game, video, music, and voice interactivity
  • Comfortable to wear, even during public play
  • Luxurious feel

Cons

  • Too firm for some
  • Can only store up to 10 customized patterns

Why I Chose It

The Lovense Hush 2 is the both the best long-distance butt plug and it even won the top spot in our best vibrating butt plug review. It’s simply a really well-made and powerful vibrating butt plug that features the best app control on the market.

Our tester, Flora, really enjoyed the “powerful, rumbly vibrations” and even called it a “a truly transcendent experience.” Design-wise, she pointed out that “The ergonomic design was comfortable to wear, even during long sessions”. She also poined out that “”Hush” is an appropriate name to convey the discretion”, making it an ideal choice for some discreet public play.

Flora described the Lovense Remote App as the true “star of the show that transformed the butt plug into “an interactive masterpiece.” Another glowing review of the Lovense App!

The other thing I really like about the Hush is that it comes in four different sizes so there’s a Hush for every level of experience! Jesse reviewed the Hush 2 Large and wrote: “This toy really impressed me. Not only in the good quality and well thought design, but in its vibration capabilities, and its app capabilities.”

Best G-spot Vibrator We-Vibe Rave 2

4.5/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Mariah Anderson

User Ratings:

4.4/5

Based on 60 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: We-Vibe Rave 2 was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the long distance sex toy.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: We-Vibe Rave 2 was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: We-Vibe Rave 2 was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Assymetric shape designed to be twisted
  • Adjustable angles
  • App for long-distance play and customisability

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: We-Vibe Rave 2 was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of We-Vibe Rave 2 felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: We-Vibe Rave 2 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of We-Vibe Rave 2 felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Vibrations spread through whole vibrator
  • Quiet vibrations
  • Fully waterproof
  • Rumbly vibrations

Cons

  • Can lose bend under pressure
  • Grip size is a little small

Why I Chose It

I wanted to include a more traditional long-distance vibrator, as although it’s not wearable, it’s great for when you want to recreate the sensation of penetrative sex with your long-distance lover! The Rave 2 just goes above and beyond the competition with it’s dual motors that distribute the vibrations, ensuring maximum stimulation throughout the toy.

Our tester, Mariah crowned it her “favorite for g-spot stimulation”. She found that “The ability to bend the neck of this toy to fit your anatomy, as well as the dual-controlled motors (one for g-spot stimulation and one for stimulating the vaginal opening) is a complete game changer.” 

As a sex toy expert, I love it when companies allow for different bodies within the design as We-Vibe have done with this posable vibrator! Mariah discovered this was great for deep G-spot stimulation” and noted “if you’ve ever wanted to squirt, this is the toy to start with!”

The Rave 2 also has decently rumbly vibrations, which create a deeper penetrating stimulation. Having tried a few We-Vibe toys myself, I know they know a thing or two about rumbly vibes! They also did a complete overhaul on their app, which has been a massive improvement!

Comparison

BestTest Winner Best on a Budget Best for Beginners Expert Pick Best Panty Vibrator Best Masturbator Best for Anal Best G-spot Vibrator
Overall score4.5 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.4 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.8 / 5.0 4.1 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0
User rating4.3 / 5.0
from 1081 users
4.9 / 5.0
from 28 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 23 users
5 / 5.0
from 26 users
4.1 / 5.0
from 35 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 210 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 128 users
4.4 / 5.0
from 60 users
PriceModerate Affordable Affordable Pricey Pricey Moderate Premium Moderate
Design90 / 100 85 / 100 95 / 100 95 / 100 90 / 100 75 / 100 94 / 100 90 / 100
Ease of use95 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 95 / 100 85 / 100 80 / 100 95 / 100 90 / 100
Quality100 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 92 / 100 90 / 100 95 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100
Sound20 / 100 40 / 100 60 / 100 60 / 100 60 / 100 40 / 100 20 / 100 40 / 100
Power80 / 100 60 / 100 60 / 100 60 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100 80 / 100
Buzzy/Rumblysomewhat rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly somewhat rumbly very rumbly somewhat rumbly somewhat rumbly
Vibration speeds3 Preset 5 5 3, plus more with app Preprogrammed: 3 -3 (+ more in-app) 10
Vibration patterns4 Preset 11 7 4, plus more with app Preprogrammed: 10 -4 (+ more in-app) 10
Length8 inches4.1 inches6.5 inches10.2 inches3 inches8.67 inches4.78 inches8.54 inches
Insertable length3.5 inches3.6 inches-5.12 inches--3.94 inches4 inches
Diameter1.43 inches1.2 inches(Mouth) 0.6 inches1.46 inches--1.5 inches1.5 inches
Battery Life300 minutes60 minutes120 minutes240 minutes180 minutes30 - 240 minutes240 minutes120 minutes
MaterialsSilicone Silicone, ABS Silicone, ABS Plastic Silicone Silicone Case: ABS & PC, Sleeve: TPE Silicone Silicone
WaterproofYes Yes Yes No, water-resistant Yes Yes Yes Yes
App ControlsYes Yes Yes Yes App Yes Yes Yes
Storage Bag IncludedYes Yes No Yes Yes No Yes Yes
RechargeableYes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes
Colors AvailablePink Blue, Rose Burgundy Red, Purple, Black ---Black Blue, Pink
Travel LockNo No No No No -No Yes
Width-3.5 inches(Base) 2 inches-0.83 inches5.12 inches--
Charging Time-90 minutes240 minutes120 minutes60 minutes240 minutes60 minutes90 minutes
Clitoral suction--11 modes-----
Thrust Modes---7, plus more with app ----
Weight-----2.43 lbs--
Openings-----Vulva --
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If You Are Looking For:

  • The best long-distance sex toy for public play: The Lovense Lush 3 the best for vaginal use and the Lovense Hush 2 is the best for anal use —both are discreet, hands-free and have great connectivity.
  • The longest battery life: The Lush 3 came out on top with 5 hours of battery life.
  • The best app for long-distance play: The Lovense Remote app has the best connectivity and a really great range of fun features and innovative ways to control your toys.

Best Long Distance Sex Toys for Couples (Interactive)

The Lovense go one step beyond the usual connectivity with sex toys that can actually interact with each other! You can do this with any Lovense Max, Max 2, or Calor. There are three different ways to connect them:
  1. Lond distance remote control where you are given the controls over your partner’s toy (or the other way around).
  2. Dual control allows you to control both toys at the same time using your phone.  up your toys. In this mode, you’ll be able to control both your and your partner’s toys at the same time.
  3. Sync/interactive mode allows you to control the functions of your partner’s toy through your toy’s movements alone.
All Lovense toys are able to connect with each other using the ‘Mirror’ sync mode in the app. That’s where you can move the icons to control the functions of both toys at once. However, the Long-Distance Sex function, which allows your toy to respond to the movement of your partner’s toy, can only be used with the Max, Max 2, Nora, and Calor. Our fellow sex toy expert, Rachel, put this technology to the test with her partner. They tried out the interactive features using the Lovense Nora and Max 2. Here’s what they found:
Lovense Nora

Lovense Nora

Lovense Nora
“When we connected them using the Long-Distance Sex function, I noticed the same problems as when I tried to sync its functions to music or my boyfriend’s voice. It’s so sensitive that it was immediately set off by even his smaller movements. Annoyingly, when I turned down the sensitivity slider, it didn’t seem to change much. Furthermore, the rotations don’t seem to have the same range of intensity as the vibrations, so the shifts in speed weren’t nearly as noticeable. They turned on and off as he moved, but that didn’t feel particularly natural to me. In fact, none of it felt very natural at all.”
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Lovense Max 2

Lovense Max 2

Lovense Max 2
“The Lovense Max 2, however, is a different story. There was lots of variation in the vibrations and contractions that really did get faster and slower as I moved the Nora. When I was moving the Nora slowly, the vibes in the Max 2 were low (but rumbly) and the contractions were intense but slow. Then, as I got more into it, the contractions got faster and even more intense for him, which he loved! In fact, he had to turn the sensitivity slider down to avoid it being too much, but it was nice to know the slider actually worked for the Max. It seems like the progression from slow to intense feels more natural in the Max than the Nora, making it way more enjoyable. Given our different experiences, perhaps the Long Distance Sex function would work better if you are two penis-owners both using Lovense Maxes?”
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Which is the Best App?

It seems like every sex toy company has jumped on the app bandwagon with varying levels of success! I’ve had some great experiences and some incredibly frustrating ones — tech problems aren’t the kind of teasing I enjoy! The number one most important thing for great long-distance experience is a reliable connection. I would say an easy to use app comes in second place for me and then range of features.

Lovense

Lovense

Lovense

The Lovense App is the overall best app on the market right now. Of all of the apps I have tried, it’s the easiest to set up, has the most reliable connectivity, and the best range of features.

I also feel like Lovense are always adding innovative new ways to control their toys, including gamified experiences, the option for handing over control anonymously, group play and even Dom/sub set ups!

We-Vibe App

We-Vibe App

We-Vibe App

The new version of the We-Vibe app is a huge improvement on their original app which was pretty unreliable and didn’t always recognise the toy. The new app has much better connectivity and it’s much easier to connect the toys.

It has fewer features than Lovense and focusses more on customisation and long-distance control.

Kiiroo App/ Feel Connect

Kiiroo App/ Feel Connect

Kiiroo App/ Feel Connect

I’ve had mixed experiences with the app, both with my own toys and my partners. We were able to get the app and toy set up relatively easily and could control each other’s toys no problem. However, we could not make the interactive features, where the toy’s movements interact, work. We also struggled to get to the video call function to work while controlling each other’s toys so it ended up being quite a frustrating process.

My partner had much more success connecting his Kiiroo to online content, but did note that it didn’t work great with free videos so you will likely end up needing to pay for premium content.

Satisfyer App

Satisfyer App

Satisfyer App

For toys in a lower price bracket, the Satisfyer App is pretty decent, although some people do experience disconnection problems.

It also doesn’t have quite as many fun features as other apps.

 

How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?

Sex tech can sound incredibly impressive and exciting but the important thing is that it enhances your sex life! Here are some of the benefits of having a long-distance sex toy.

Greater intimacy in long-distance relationships

Greater intimacy in long-distance relationships

Greater intimacy in long-distance relationships

If you’ve ever spent any time away from your partner, you know how frustrating it can be when you just want to rip each other’s clothes off and get down to it. Sure sexting and masturbating is a fine option but it definitely lacks excitement and intimacy. Long-distance sex toys allow you and your partner to stimulate each other for more connected long-distance sex. You also get to experience more intense, exciting stimulation than using your own hands!

Safer sex when dating

Safer sex when dating

Safer sex when dating

You don’t have to be in a relationship to use long-distance sex toys! They can also be a great way to enjoy safe sex when dating online.

Sync with VR porn and audio erotica

Sync with VR porn and audio erotica

Sync with VR porn and audio erotica

Many long-distance sex toys can sync to your favorite adult entertainment so you get a fully immersive masturbation experience! If this interests you, make sure to check your chosen toy has this feature as not all long-distance toys do.

Greater customisation

Greater customisation

Greater customisation

The majority of long-distance sex toys offer a lot of in-app customisations, from greater control over power levels to endless pattern options.

Fun in-app features

Fun in-app features

Fun in-app features

A lot also have other in-app features such as setting your vibrations to music, sounds, or even using your sex toy as an alarm clock. Again the available features vary by brand and product.

Enjoy public play

Enjoy public play

Enjoy public play

Being able to control your sex toy via an app also means you can discreetly control it while you are out and about! This only applies to wearable sex toys.

Power play

Power play

Power play

Long-distance sex toys are a great tool for power play. Whether your partner is in the room with your or the other side of the world, they can be in total control of your sex toy and whether or not you get to orgasm!

Author
Isabelle Uren
Isabelle Uren

Site Manager | Aiming to empower people to embrace sexual pleasure one sex toy at a time or two, whatever takes your fancy! As well researching and writing about all things sex, I have studied Tantra and am currently studying towards becoming a psychosexual therapist. My life philosophy is the three Ms approach — meditation, masturbation, and mmm a good cup of tea!

Age: 33
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: Doxy Die Cast
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