6 Best Long Distance Sex Toys for Bliss Without Borders

Kasia Halinowska
by Kasia HalinowskaUpdated:

I know just how hard long-distance can be, so I’ve put together the ultimate list of all the very best long-distance sex toys! As a sex toy tester, I’ve tried many popular sex toy apps, so I know exactly which ones are the easiest to use and have the most interactive features! In this roundup, I’ve included the best app-controlled toys that will work on every body, and for every type of play you have in mind!

Test Winner

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.3/5

Based on 1081 user reviews

Budget-Friendly

4.4Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

3.9/5

Based on 16 user reviews

Best Hands-Free

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 75 user reviews

Best Panty Vibrator

4.4Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Jen Schmidt

User Ratings:

4.1/5

Based on 35 user reviews

Best Masturbator

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.3/5

Reviewed by: 

Josh Gill

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 210 user reviews

Best for Anal Play

4.9Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Flora Winters

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 128 user reviews

Lovense Lush 3 Satisfyer Curvy 2+ Lovense DolceLovense FerriKiiroo KeonLovense Hush 2
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Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
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Pros & Cons
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  • Discreet and quiet for public play
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Comfortable to wear
  • The app is easy to use, and features a lot fun features that work great for solo, and couple's play
  • Not a lot of clitoral stimulation from the tail
  • The tail doesn't stay in place
  • Not anal safe
  • Wide silicone rim spreads stimulation
  • Beautifully smooth, curvy design
  • Great in-app features and customisation
  • Whisper mode for when you need to be quiet
  • Suction nozzle might not fit all clitorises
  • Can be uncomfortable to hold/press buttons in longer sessions
  • Long charging time
  • No storage bag
  • Powerful dual stimulation
  • Comfortable and adjustable
  • Sturdy head and firm shaft
  • The Lovense app is the best on the market!
  • Requires time to find the right angles
  • Might not fit all bodies
  • Hands-free clitoral stimulation
  • Strong, but quiet vibrations
  • A lot of customisation in the app
  • Stays in place well with moderate activity
  • Can be worn in panties or a strap-on harness
  • Might still need to use your hands for added pressure
  • Magnet can slide around with very vigorous movement
  • Super interactive experience
  • Realistic look and feel of the fleshlight
  • Nicely textured inner sleeve
  • The automatic masturbator is easy to use, and easy to connect
  • Quite large and heavy
  • Gets pretty loud
  • Rumbly and quiet vibrations
  • App offers game, video, music, and voice interactivity
  • Comfortable to wear, even during public play
  • Luxurious feel
  • Internet access required for special features
  • Can only store up to 10 customized patterns in app

How We Test long distance sex toys

We’re a team of 274 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best long distance sex toys , our testers tried and reviewed 54 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre long distance sex toys didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 897 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
Testing and Rating the Long Distance Sex Toys

If You Are Looking For:

  • The best long-distance toy for beginners: The Lovense Ferri is the easiest-to-use toy on this list, and it provides gentle clitoral vibrators that I think will be perfect for those new to sex toys. It’s also a very versatile toy that can be used for all kinds of fantasies you have in mind.
  • The best long-distance toy for public play: The Lovense Lush 3 is the best for those looking for powerful G-spot stimulation, and the Lovense Ferri is the best long-distance sex toy if you prefer clitoral vibrations over internal stimulation. And if you are looking for the best anal toy for public wear, then the Lovense Hush 2  is the best choice!
  • The best app for long-distance play: The Lovense Remote app was designed to be the best app for long-distance play. It features many different interactive traits that will spice up your experience. You can choose between different games, chats, pattern creation, and so much more. Plus, it has the most reliable connection out of all the other apps we’ve tested.

Features to Look for

Simply being able to control a toy from half way across the world is impressive enough, but these toys often offer more than simplistic vibration functions.

Here are a few of the top-notch features offered in premium long-distance toys.

  • Reliable app connection — The best apps here is the Lovense app, and We-Vibe.
  • Customizable vibrations – By browning through your toy’s settings, you can change the vibration settings, as well as make your own patterns in the app!
  • Music sync – People have sex to music all the time, so why not masturbate to it too? Toys that can sync to music will buzz, vibrate, or do what they do to the song of your choosing!
  • Trustworthy brands that values security – We-Vibe have had a data leak that they settled for $3.75 million, fortunately, the app has since gone through extensive updates and are as secure as the revered Lovense App.
  • Interactiveness — Some long distance sex toys can interact with each other by transferring movement to the others toy (in this review the Lovense Max and Nora are great options).

Test Winner Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Kasia Halinowska

User Ratings:

4.3/5

Based on 1081 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the long distance sex toy.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

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PricePrice

Rating: Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Egg vibrator that provides G-spot vibrations
  • Flexible tail for extra clitoral stimulation
  • Designed to be a wearable vibrator, and can be used for public play
  • The Lovense Remote app comes with many customizable and interactive features such as: music based vibrations, creating and sharing patterns, video/voice calls, chats (including group chats), games, D&S Mode, and much more!

Pros

  • Discreet and quiet for public play
  • Powerful vibrations
  • Comfortable to wear
  • The app is easy to use, and features a lot fun features that work great for solo, and couple's play

Cons

  • Not a lot of clitoral stimulation from the tail
  • The tail doesn't stay in place
  • Not anal safe

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

I’ve tested the Lovense Lush 3, and I think it’s the best long-distance sex toy! Thanks to its ergonomic design, you can use it for all kinds of activities. You can put it in, sit back, relax, and let your partner control the vibrations, leaving your hands free for other stuff, or you can discreetly and comfortably wear it around, even in public!

The main reason why I chose the Lush 3 as the test winner is the app control! The Lovense Remote is hands-down the best sex toy app I’ve ever tested! (and as a professional sex toy reviewer, I’ve tried many popular sex toy apps.) I think the Lovense Remote is perfect for long-distance play because it has so many interactive, and wild features that keep things so entertaining that it’s hard to get bored!

Design-wise, I can highly recommend it for those who enjoy deep and rumbly G-spot vibrations. The egg shape is beginner-friendly and super easy to slip in and out of, and I’ve never experienced any discomfort in any position. Although the clitoral stimulator is too weak for my liking, so if your orgasms are also more clit-oriented, you won’t be that impressed. I still like using it for foreplay, teasing, and many other couples activities.

Budget-Friendly Satisfyer Curvy 2+ Long Distance Clit Sucker

4.4/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.9/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

3.9/5

Based on 16 user reviews

95/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Satisfyer Curvy 2+ Long Distance Clit Sucker was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the long distance sex toy.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Satisfyer Curvy 2+ Long Distance Clit Sucker was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Satisfyer Curvy 2+ Long Distance Clit Sucker was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Affordable

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Rating: Satisfyer Curvy 2+ Long Distance Clit Sucker was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is moderately priced, neither expensive nor cheap.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Features both clitoral suction stimulation and vibrations
  • The air pulse technology provides gentle, yet deep clitoral stimulation (often compared to oral sex)
  • The Satisfyer Connect app features: custom stimulation patterns that can be connected to music or ambient sounds, even listen to erotica that comes with corresponding stimulation patterns.

Pros

  • Wide silicone rim spreads stimulation
  • Beautifully smooth, curvy design
  • Great in-app features and customisation
  • Whisper mode for when you need to be quiet

Cons

  • Suction nozzle might not fit all clitorises
  • Can be uncomfortable to hold/press buttons in longer sessions
  • Long charging time
  • No storage bag

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Satisfyer Curvy 2+ Long Distance Clit Sucker was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Satisfyer Curvy 2+ Long Distance Clit Sucker felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Satisfyer Curvy 2+ Long Distance Clit Sucker was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Satisfyer Curvy 2+ Long Distance Clit Sucker felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

I picked the Satisfyer Curvy 2+ as the best budget-friendly because, despite its low price, it’s a high-quality sex toy that features an app control with a long-distance feature as well. The Satisfyer Connect app is not as advanced as the Lovense Remote, but it also has some cool features at a much more beginner and budget-friendly price.

Another reason why I wanted to add the Curvy 2 + is that it you get the vibrations and suction in one toy! The vibrations are pleasing and complement the suction well, and the thick silicone mouth really helps the stimulation resonate and spread. However, they aren’t the most powerful, so keep that in mind if you need very powerful vibrations.

Our tester, and sex expert Cassie is a big clit sucker fan, and she was really impressed with the Satisfyer Curvy 2+, especially with the design: “Some minor detail about the shape of the suction nozzle, the size of the rim, the weight of the toy, or even just the cute design—any of these small differences in details apparently meant the world to me and my vulva.”

She also enjoyed using the Satisfyer Connect app, saying it’s “a sublime source of endless (and toe-curling) entertainment.” About the long-distance feature, Cassie said that it is a “perfect way to have some fun on nights that we don’t spend together. The set-up was quite intuitive and pain-free, and we enjoy being able to play around with different power dynamics.”

Best Hands-Free Lovense Dolce LDR Vibrator

4.7/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 75 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Dolce LDR Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the long distance sex toy.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Dolce LDR Vibrator was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Dolce LDR Vibrator was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Lovense Dolce LDR Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Dual vibrator designed for both internal and clitoral stimulation
  • Adjustable design for personalized pleasure
  • Two motors, which allows for different vibration levels and patterns in each arm
  • Features Lovense Remote App

Pros

  • Powerful dual stimulation
  • Comfortable and adjustable
  • Sturdy head and firm shaft
  • The Lovense app is the best on the market!

Cons

  • Requires time to find the right angles
  • Might not fit all bodies

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovense Dolce LDR Vibrator was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Dolce LDR Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Lovense Dolce LDR Vibrator was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is extremely powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Dolce LDR Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

I picked the Lovense Dolce for those who are looking for powerful blended orgasms. Its internal arm is similar to the Lovense Lush 3, but it’s got a bigger, and wider arm for clitroal bliss. Thanks to its size and adjustability, you can use it for hand-free play, grinding, or even as a panty vibe! Plus, it features the Lovense Remote app, which, in my professional opinion, is the best app on the market!

Our tester and sex expert, Cassie, mentioned that the toy didn’t exactly fit her body, but she still managed to enjoy the experience: “After a while, I was very pleased to find an angle that worked for me and hit all the spots I wanted it to.” She was also really impressed by the quality of the toy, pointing out that “the mechanism is quite firm, so once you’ve found an angle that works for you, that baby will stay in place.”

When it comes to performance, the vibrations were described as powerful and “sensationally rumbly”. But it was the Lovense Remote app that stole Cassie’s heart! She said that she and her partner “had a blast with the level of intimacy and connection we felt despite being nowhere near each other. I can definitely say that distance did not get in the way of hitting all those sweet spots with Dolce.”

Overall, I think the Dolce is a brilliant toy if you are looking for a powerful, dual-stimulating vibrator. However, as often happens with any dual vibe, it might take a while to get familiar with the toy, so I recommend spending some time exploring different angles and positions to find your sweet spots.

Best Panty Vibrator Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator

4.4/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Jen Schmidt

User Ratings:

4.1/5

Based on 35 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the long distance sex toy.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Pricey

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PricePrice

Rating: Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Discreet panty vibrator that provides external vibrations
  • Has a magnetic clip that can be attached to any pair of underwear (or a strap-on harness)
  • Features the Lovense Remote app
  • Can be worn in public

Pros

  • Hands-free clitoral stimulation
  • Strong, but quiet vibrations
  • A lot of customisation in the app
  • Stays in place well with moderate activity
  • Can be worn in panties or a strap-on harness

Cons

  • Might still need to use your hands for added pressure
  • Magnet can slide around with very vigorous movement

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

The Lovense Ferri is one of the best long-distance sex toys for anyone who prefers clitoral stimulation. It’s also one of the best for discreet public play, given how powerful but quiet the vibrations are! Of course, they aren’t totally silent, but as long as you are somewhere with some level of background noise, like a busy bar or restaurant, you should be fine!

This remote control vibrator stays put pretty well with moderate movement but might move around during more vigorous movement, like if you are using it in a harness during sex.
Our tester, Jen enjoyed using the Lovense Ferri! She pointed out that the toy “is of high quality- feels luxurious, never malfunctions, and the battery lasts long”. She was also impressed with the app: “For masturbation, the app adds an interesting layer. There are many vibration patterns to try out”.

The only issue with the Ferri, and most panty vibrators, for that matter, is that you might not get enough pressure against your clitoral area when using it hands-free. It’s best to wear very tight-fitting, stretchy underwear to hold the toy as close as possible to your body.

Best Masturbator Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator

4.5/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.3/5

Reviewed by: 

Josh Gill

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 210 user reviews

75/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator was rated 75 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the long distance sex toy.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

95/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Moderate

Price ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice ratingPrice rating
PricePrice

Rating: Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is pricier than the rest, but not the most expensive.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • The Kiiroo Keon is a set that features an automatic masturbator, and a realistic fleslight
  • Provides many different types of stimulation: vibrations, thrusts, and suction!
  • Up to 230 strokes per minute!
  • Can interact with VR porn
  • Features the Feel Connect app which you can use for long-distance play, sync it with porn videos or other interactive content.

Pros

  • Super interactive experience
  • Realistic look and feel of the fleshlight
  • Nicely textured inner sleeve
  • The automatic masturbator is easy to use, and easy to connect

Cons

  • Quite large and heavy
  • Gets pretty loud

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is extremely powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

The Kiiroo Keon was an obvious choice for me because it’s the most advanced automatic masturbator out there with the widest variety of features! I chose it specifically because of the app-controlled thrusting feature, which is a great option for those looking for the most life-like experience for a couple in a long-distance relationship.

Our tester, Josh, was really impressed by the quality and versatility of this toy, especially with the fleshlight: “The Real Feel male masturbator is also fantastic quality, made of a soft and fleshy silicone that feels life-like and textured.”

Josh also pointed out that the Kiiroo Keon has so many interactive features that are definitely fun to use not only for long-distance play but also for solo as well, especially the VR porn! He also mentioned that the toy is surprisingly easy to use: “The controls for the power, mode, speed, and stroke length of the Keon are all simple and intuitive, and with a little fiddling and trial and error, you can find something that will really rock your world.”

There is very little negative feedback from our tester; the only thing he mentioned is that the Keon “might be a little too big and bulky for some people’s liking,” which I agree with. This masturbator is quite heavy as well, and it’s best to use it with both hands, which might be a con for some. It’s not a toy for those looking for a small and discreet masturbator; I chose it for those who want to experience truly realistic sensations! But on the positive side, you can place the Keon on a table and enjoy it hands-free.

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Best for Anal Play Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug

4.9/5

Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.9/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Flora Winters

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 128 user reviews

94/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug was rated 94 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the long distance sex toy.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Premium

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PricePrice

Rating: Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is in the premium price range.

What it is: The Price rating is indicated by 1-5 price icons. 1 indicate a very cheap product, while 5 indicate a very expensive product. The rating is a relative score compared to other similar toys.

BeginnerBeginner

Beginner: Suited for those new to the world of sex toys. These products are designed with simplicity and ease of use in mind, providing a gentle introduction to enhance your experiences. Whether you're exploring for the first time or looking for something straightforward, these items are a perfect starting point.

IntermediateIntermediate

Intermediate: Tailored for individuals who have some familiarity with sex toys and are looking to explore further. These products offer a balance between comfort and new sensations, allowing you to expand your horizons and discover new pleasures. Ideal for those ready to take the next step in their journey.

AdvancedAdvanced

Advanced: Designed for the experienced and adventurous. These products cater to those who are well-acquainted with sex toys and are seeking more intense or diverse sensations. If you're looking to push boundaries and explore the depths of pleasure, these items are crafted just for you.

A Closer Look
  • Vibrating app-controlled butt plug
  • Comes in a few different sizes
  • Tapered shape for easy insertion
  • T-bar base for comfort
  • Can be used as a wearable butt plug
  • Features the Lovense Remote App

Pros

  • Rumbly and quiet vibrations
  • App offers game, video, music, and voice interactivity
  • Comfortable to wear, even during public play
  • Luxurious feel

Cons

  • Internet access required for special features
  • Can only store up to 10 customized patterns in app

Vibrations:

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Why I Chose It

The Lovense Hush 2 has been a winner in many of our anal-play-oriented roundups. It’s simply a really well-made and powerful vibrating butt plug that features the best app control on the market – the Lovense Remote app! I also like the fact that it comes in a few different sizes so that you can try long-distance booty vibes no matter the experience.

Our tester, Flora, really enjoyed the experience the Hush 2 provided. She described the vibrations as “powerful, rumbly vibrations” and “enhanced self-pleasure for a truly transcendent experience.”
Design-wise, she pointed out that the shape and size worked perfectly for her body and that the quality of the toy itself feels sleek and luxurious: “The ergonomic design was comfortable to wear, even during long sessions and non-sexual activities. It stayed in place thanks to the long, thin neck and t-bar base.”

The true winner for her was the Lovense Remote App: “The Lovense App has also inspired self-stimulation outside of sex—to incorporate the whole body in appreciating simple pleasures like music, meditation, videos, and games.” She also mentioned that “no bugs or technical difficulties were encountered.”

Comparison

BestTest Winner Budget-Friendly Best Hands-Free Best Panty Vibrator Best Masturbator Best for Anal Play
Overall score4.5 / 5.0 4.4 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.4 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.8 / 5.0 4.9 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.3 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0
User rating4.3 / 5.0
from 1081 users
3.9 / 5.0
from 16 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 75 users
4.1 / 5.0
from 35 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 210 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 128 users
PriceModerate Affordable Moderate Pricey Moderate Premium
Design90 / 100 95 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100 75 / 100 94 / 100
Ease of use95 / 100 95 / 100 85 / 100 85 / 100 80 / 100 95 / 100
Quality100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100 95 / 100 100 / 100
Sound20 / 100 20 / 100 40 / 100 60 / 100 40 / 100 20 / 100
Power80 / 100 60 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100
Buzzy/Rumblysomewhat rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly very rumbly somewhat rumbly very rumbly somewhat rumbly
Vibration speeds3 Preset --Preprogrammed: 3 -3 (+ more in-app)
Vibration patterns4 Preset -7 Preprogrammed: 10 -4 (+ more in-app)
Length8 inches5.3 inches-3 inches8.67 inches4.78 inches
Insertable length3.5 inches-3 inches--3.94 inches
Diameter1.43 inches----1.5 inches
Battery Life300 minutes60-120 minutes120 minutes180 minutes30 - 240 minutes240 minutes
FlexibilityFirm -Firm ---
MaterialsSilicone Silicone, ABS plastic Silicone Silicone Case: ABS & PC, Sleeve: TPE Silicone
WaterproofYes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes
Vibration modes-11 Unlimited in app ---
Clitoral suction-11 modes----
Width-1.8 inches-0.83 inches5.12 inches-
Rechargeable-Yes USB Yes Yes Yes, USB Rechargeable
Charging Time-240 minutes minutes60 minutes60 minutes240 minutes60 minutes
Travel Lock-No ---No
Storage Bag Included-No Yes Yes -Yes
Remote Controls--App-controlled App -Control remotely through app
Adjustable--Yes ---
Allergies--Latex-free and phthalate-free ---
Colors Available--Fuchsia --Black
Weight----2.43 lbs-
Openings----Vulva -
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Best Long Distance Sex Toys for Couples (Interactive)

In my personal opinion there are only really one very good recommendation for interactive sex toy sets that work on long distances. The set is from the amazing brand, Lovense.

Lovense Nora and Max 2

Lovense Nora and Max 2

Lovense Nora and Max 2

I’ve tested out both the Lovense Nora and the Lovense Max 2, and they are the perfect synergy of a couples. They provide an amazing option to use the toys together, so that any movement and stimulation made by one partner is transferred to the other partners toy. A unique experience I can truly recommend anyone try out, being in a long distance relationship or not.

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Lovense vs Kiiroo

Lovense and Kiiroo are the two leading manufacturers of interactive sex toys, which is why (as you might have noticed) they feature heavily on this list.

Lovense

Lovense

Lovense
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Lovense toys tend to be more focused on the app/ remote control aspect of their sex toys, making them a primary choice when it comes to long distance relationship sex toys. This means that you will generally find Lovense toys to be better in terms of customising the way that your partner pleasures you from their app, such as by creating personalised vibration patterns.

Kiiroo

Kiiroo

Kiiroo
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Kiiroo toys are also great wifi sex toys which makes them another solid choice for long distance loving, but their focus tends to be on the connectivity of their toys to things like online videos. So Kiiroo toys are on the whole better if you are looking for a toy that is going to give you an immersive experience when you are using it flying solo.

How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?

Sex tech can sound incredibly impressive and exciting but the important thing is that it enhances your sex life! Here are some of the benefits of having a long-distance sex toy.

Greater intimacy in long-distance relationships

Greater intimacy in long-distance relationships

Greater intimacy in long-distance relationships
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If you’ve ever spent any time away from your partner, you know how frustrating it can be when you just want to rip each other’s clothes off and get down to it. Sure sexting and masturbating is a fine option but it definitely lacks excitement and intimacy. Long-distance sex toys allow you and your partner to stimulate each other for more connected long-distance sex. You also get to experience more intense, exciting stimulation than using your own hands!

Safer sex when dating

Safer sex when dating

Safer sex when dating
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You don’t have to be in a relationship to use long-distance sex toys! They can also be a great way to enjoy safe sex when dating online.

Sync with VR porn and audio erotica

Sync with VR porn and audio erotica

Sync with VR porn and audio erotica
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Many long-distance sex toys can sync to your favorite adult entertainment so you get a fully immersive masturbation experience! If this interests you, make sure to check your chosen toy has this feature as not all long-distance toys do.

Greater customisation

Greater customisation

Greater customisation
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The majority of long-distance sex toys offer a lot of in-app customisations, from greater control over power levels to endless pattern options.

Fun in-app features

Fun in-app features

Fun in-app features
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A lot also have other in-app features such as setting your vibrations to music, sounds, or even using your sex toy as an alarm clock. Again the available features vary by brand and product.

Enjoy public play

Enjoy public play

Enjoy public play
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Being able to control your sex toy via an app also means you can discreetly control it while you are out and about! This only applies to wearable sex toys.

Power play

Power play

Power play
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Long-distance sex toys are a great tool for power play. Whether your partner is in the room with your or the other side of the world, they can be in total control of your sex toy and whether or not you get to orgasm!

Author
Kasia Halinowska
Kasia Halinowska

Content Specialist | Working with sex education has been a dream of mine for a long time, but after years of studying marketing and working at boring corporations, I never thought my dream could come true, but here I am! Therefore, my goal at Bedbible is to help you discover all the sex toy wonders that I have the pleasure of working with and touch on the subjects close to my heart, like body positivity, inclusivity, feminism, and most importantly, sex and intimacy! Plus, as a person with a marketing background, you can be sure I will not fall for any false advertising and be brutally honest with my reviews!

Age: 25
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
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