The 9 Best Long Distance Sex Toys for Bliss Without Borders
Testing and Rating the Long Distance Sex Toys
Hands-on testing is the best method of testing so we always personally experience our recommended toy when possible. However, that’s not the only way we obtain information: we also read manufacturer specs and user reviews! Obtaining information from multiple sources allows us to get multiple viewpoints, giving us a lot to consider when completing our unbiased reviews. Based on the positives and negatives of each toy, we can then rate them on their design, ease of use, and quality to provide them with a “Bedbible Rating”. If you’re curious how the average consumer enjoyed (or didn’t enjoy) a toy, simply look at the “User Ratings” score!
Which Types of Toys Can Be Used Long-Distance?
You’d be surprised: there are a lot of options when it comes to long-distance loving! Here’s a quick overview of the various types of toys you can use on a far-away partner.
- Egg Vibrators – These toys are designed to sit comfortably inside of the vagina, with the vibrating egg directly targeting the G-spot for orgasm after orgasm! Many models can also be used for clitoral stimulation as well, although you should never use them in your anus due to the lack of a flared base.
- Clit Suckers – If you love it when your partner “does that thing” with their mouth but—unfortunately—they’re halfway across town, why not use the next best thing: a clit sucker! As the name suggests, these sex toys simulate oral stimulation by “sucking” on your clitoris.
- Rabbit Vibrators – These toys have two parts: the main dildo and the “ears”. While the dildo hits your g-spot, the ears stimulate your clitoris for an amazing combination of internal and external pleasure!
- Male Masturbators – Available in many different designs, you can find handjob imitators, blowjob machines, frenulum vibrators, and even hands-free masturbators! Designs vary widely so we recommend checking your options before settling on a specific model.
- Vibrating Butt Plugs – This type of remote control vibrator is designed to sit comfortably inside of your butt, providing a satisfying “fullness”. Depending on the size of the toy (and your specific anatomy), you might also be able to stimulate your prostate using one of the bad boys! Some models may also be suitable for outside-of-the-bedroom wear.
- Panty Vibrators – Varying in size, design, and functionality, vibrating panties are designed to sit inside or outside of your panties, providing clitoral stimulation on demand!
- Prostate Massagers – Designed to specifically target the p-spot, prostate massagers generally won’t stay inside when you’re walking around (unless you find some way to secure them). However, they will stimulate your prostate more than a simple butt plug can!
Features to Look for in Long-distance toys
Simply being able to control a toy from half way across the world is impressive enough, but these toys often offer more than simplistic vibration functions. Here are a few of the top-notch features offered in premium long-distance toys.
- Customizable Vibrations – By browning through your toy’s settings, you can change the vibration settings, as well as make your own patterns in the app!
- Music Sync – People have sex to music all the time, so why not masturbate to it too? Toys that can sync to music will buzz, vibrate, or do what they do to the song of your choosing!
- Alarms – Ever wanted to wake up and get off? These toys allow you to use your sex toy as an alarm of sorts, starting the day off right with sensations in all the right places!
- Voice and Video Chat – Perfect for personal use and business alike, these toys allow you to sync your experience with a partner(s) over voice and/or video chat.
What is a Long Distance Sex Toy?
A long distance sex toy is any type of sex toy that can be controlled remotely using the internet. While many toys offer Bluetooth controls for local remote controls, long distance sex toys use an internet connection instead, allowing them to be controlled from across the world! This makes them ideal for couples who live apart but still want to have a sex life together.
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The 9 Best long distance sex toys in Test
Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Love Egg Vibrator
The Lovense Lush 3 is our winner on this list of long distance sex toys, with its powerful vibrations and whisper quiet motor it’s perfect for long distance fun with a partner or for taking out to spice up date night with some discreet public play.
You can completely customise the patterns of vibration by using the app, and you can synchronise it to music and it will stimulate your g-spot and clitoris along to the beat with its deep rumbly vibrations.
It’s also completely waterproof so perfect for aquatic adventures and up to 5 hours of battery life, so you can play wherever and for as long as you desire.
Overall the Lovense Lush 3 is one of the best vibrators for long distance relationships because of its complete customisability in terms of vibrations, and the luxury quality of the toy itself.
This wonderful wearable vibrator isn’t limited to long distance relationships, it’s also perfect to take out on date night or for some hands-free alone time.
It’s not a budget-friendly toy but it’s a worthy investment and will prove its worth to you every time you use it.
Svakom Ella Neo Love Egg Vibrator
The Svakom Ella Neo is a beautifully crafted vibrator that’s a great option if you are on the lookout for long distance relationship sex toys.
You can choose between its 10 different vibration patterns by using the app, the button on the egg, or the button on the retrieval cord.
It has a deliciously textured shaft for added insertable pleasure, and it is USB rechargeable, waterproof, and it comes with a velvet storage bag, so you can take it with you for fun wherever you go.
This one is pretty quiet so you can use it for discreet public play, but it does slip out easier than others and there are even quieter long distance sex toys on the list so if that is your main priority when choosing your toy there are better options.
The Svakom Ella Neo is a beautiful quality long distance sex toy
If you are looking for vibrator to take out on date night there are better options, but if the main thing you are looking at is which are the best vibrators for long distance relationships but that’s budget friendly too then this is your best bet.
We-Vibe Melt Clitoral Stimulator
The We-Vibe Melt is our pick as the most beginner friendly long distance sex toys, as it’s powerful and has a ton of functions but it’s super easy to use.
This clitoral vibrator is perfect if you want to try edging too, which is where you continually bring yourself closer to the edge but then stop. You keep doing this until you finally allow yourself to have an explosive and intense orgasm.
The We-Vibe Melt uses Pleasure Air technology, which means it engulfs the clitoris with waves that pulsate and have a gentle suction effect for glorious sensations without the toy ever even touching you.
It’s another of the best vibrators for long distance relationships, but it can also be used during sex to give any vagina owner a blissfully blended orgasm.
If a long distance controlled clitoral vibrator is what you are seeking, then the We-Vibe Melt is going to blow your mind.
It’s the perfect addition to any relationship whether it’s long distance or not, but it’s also great for solo use too so it’s extremely versatile.
Although it’s not a budget friendly toy but it has a beautifully luxurious quality, and any sex toy with app controllability is always going to be a bit of an investment.
Lovense Hush App Controlled Vibrating Butt Plug
The Lovense Hush is an amazing long distance sex toy for all of you anal players out there, although it’s not limited to long distance use, it’s perfect for hands-free solo play too.
This glorious vibrator is comfortable enough for long term wear but also large enough to give you that deliciously full feeling, but make sure that you use lots of Water-Based Anal Lubricant when you are putting it in.
To make this even better you can completely customise the vibrations, you can synchronise it to music, or use speed mode which responds to the speed of your movements so the faster you move the faster it vibrates!
It can be used as a long distance sex toy by controlling it through the app or you can even use voice control.
The Lovense Hush is one of the most advanced long distance toys in terms of its technology, and functions, which definitely accounts for the fairly high price tag.
It also feels like a luxury quality toy, and it’s one we would recommend for anal players with a bit of experience because it has a reasonably large girth.
Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator Combo Set
The Kiiroo Keon is a high end male masturbator that you can use for a full immersive experience by connecting it to movies and online videos, or you can use it as a long distance sex toy with the app control function.
It’s also lighter than it looks, so not too strenuous on the wrists as you hold it in position while the stroker moves up and down the length of your penis.
The interior is designed to feel beautifully realistic, with a slight sucking sensation as it moves and a textured interior that will give you delicious massages as it moves.
You can completely tailor the length of the strokes and the speed up to an impressive 230 strokes per minute.
The Kiiroo Keon is one of the more expensive masturbators out there but the technology it utilises and the quality of the toy more than make up for it.
Equally if you aren’t going to use the functions such as app control and syncing the toy to videos and movies, then you will probably be able to find a male masturbator that will fulfil your personal needs that isn’t as expensive as this one.
It’s compatible with water-based lube, so definitely lube up first for the best possible experience with this toy.
Lovense Edge 2 App Controlled Prostate Massager
The Lovense Edge 2 is another amazingly high tech long distance sex toy that we would recommend to anyone with some anal experience, because of its larger size.
The app control allows a partner to completely take control of your toy and choose how they pleasure you with completely customisable vibration intensities.
Of course you can use this toy without the app control, however, you would be missing out on some of the best functions of the toy like the ability to synchronise to it music.
It’s completely waterproof so perfect for aquatic adventures and is a beautiful quality toy.
The Lovense Edge 2 is an amazingly luxurious prostate massager and the perfect long distance sex toy for anyone with some anal experience.
It has so many functions to enjoy that we would definitely suggest that you are someone who will be able to use the app, otherwise a lot of the value of the toy will not be utilised.
We-Vibe Nova 2 App Controlled Rabbit Vibrator
If you’re looking for a long distance sex toy and you love dual g-spot and clitoral stimulation then you are in for a treat.
The We-Vibe Nova 2 perfectly targets the g-spot with its curved shaft which has been designed to be gloriously flexible enough to allow you to reach that perfect angle. Of course this is all the while the external arm gets to work on your clitoris for that perfectly blended orgasm.
It’s perfect for long distance relationships too as by using the We-Connect app your lover can still delight you from wherever they are.
Slather on a bit of Water-Based Lubricant for maximum pleasure.
The Nova 2 is an exceptional rabbit vibrator on its own with its flexibility and bulbous head to target your g-spot, and the external arm to vibrate against your clitoris for an explosive blended orgasm.
That’s without even mentioning the app control function, where you can completely customise how the toy vibrates to suit your personal desires or to continuously try something new. This is also a great feature as a long distance relationship sex toy because it allows your partner to totally customise how they please you.
Vibease Remote Control Bluetooth Vibrator
The Vibease is an amazing app controlled panty vibrator that’s perfect as a long distance relationship sex toy, or for hands free solo use.
You can also sync this toy to audiobooks to enjoy a completely immersive experience while listening to your favourite erotic authors.
It’s also quiet enough to take out with you for discreet public play.
The vibease is a good long distance sex toy if you are looking for a wearable panty vibrator.
It also has the advantage of being a hands-free toy for when you’re flying solo as well as being great for use in a couple.
The main downside with this one is that the bluetooth connection can be a bit temperamental so you may have to refresh the connection a few times.
Hot Octopuss X Kiiroo Pulse Solo Interactive
The Pulse Solo Interactive is an exceptionally advanced vibrator for penis owners because you can connect it to online videos for an immersive experience, or it can be used as a long distance sex to with a partner.
You can use it for wet and wild adventures as it’s completely waterproof and because it simply needs holding in place while the vibrations get to work, it’s perfect for anyone with reduced mobility. You also don’t need to be erect when you use it so it’s also ideal if experience erectile dysfunction.
It’s an amazing quality male vibrator that’s definitely an investment in your pleasure, which is why we would suggest that when considering purchasing it that you will definitely get the most out of it.
The Pulse Solo Interactive is an incredible male masturbator if you are looking for one that has remote/ long distance control and can be synchronised to online videos.
It’s also perfect for anyone who has reduced mobility or erectile dysfunction and expands in diameter to fit any sized dong.
The Ultimate Long-Distance, Hands-Free Fleshlight Experience
Why not make your long distance sex toy hands-free as well!?
A Matching Set
His and hers long distance sex toys? Yes please!
Wish You Could Clone Your Partner?
Don’t fancy an interactive sex toy while your boyfriends away? Don’t worry we’ve got you covered, with this one you can clone your partner’s penis to keep you fulfilled while you’re not together.
Lovense vs Kiiroo
Lovense toys tend to be more focused on the app/ remote control aspect of their sex toys, making them a primary choice when it comes to long distance relationship sex toys. This means that you will generally find Lovense toys to be better in terms of customising the way that your partner pleasures you from their app, such as by creating personalised vibration patterns.
Kiiroo toys are also great wifi sex toys which makes them another solid choice for long distance loving, but their focus tends to be on the connectivity of their toys to things like online videos. So Kiiroo toys are on the whole better if you are looking for a toy that is going to give you an immersive experience when you are using it flying solo.
What is Teledildonics?
Teledildonic toys are in their essence impressive technologically advanced sex toys that not only connect to the internet, but are also capable of connecting to videos, synchronising to music, and giving you complete control over their functions such as vibration patterns.
This allows for more intense and immersive solo sessions but also changes the game when it comes to long distance relationship sex toys.
Teledildonic toys are constantly evolving so it’s exciting to see where they will be in the future!
How to use a long distance sex toy
There are so many different ways to use a long distance sex toy, and. not all of them require the long distance aspect!
Here are just a few ways you can bring one of these amazing connected sex toys.
Long distance relationships
Of course this is the primary function of this list, so we couldn’t leave it off the how to use section!
App control functionality allows your long distance lover to take charge of your toy giving them total control of your pleasure no matter where they are in the world.
This makes these toys the best vibrators for long distance relationships, whether the distance is for the long or short term it will help to keep you satisfying each other while you are miles apart.
Discreet Public Play
Bear in mind that not all long distance sex toys are suitable for discreet public play! Make sure that you test out if your toy is a silent vibrator at home first, before you to take it out for a spin.
Wearable vibrators such as panty vibrators work the best for taking out on date night, to add an extra bit of naughtiness to your evening.
Hands-free solo play
The remote control aspect of long distance sex toys means that many of them are great for hands-free masturbation.
One of the best things about not using your hands to operate your toy is that it frees them up to stimulate other areas, while your vibrator gets to work on your primary pleasure giving zones.
Long distance sex toys like butt plugs and clitoral vibrators are also perfect for using during sex with a partner for extra stimulation.
They can be used for trying out double penetration, or just for dual stimulation for a beautifully blended orgasm.
How to clean your long distance sex toy
Cleaning is a drag, we know, but it's one of the most important parts of play time because it stops bacteria from gathering on the surface of your toy. Anything that is porous, such as soft plastic, requires extra attention and a more intensive clean after every use because otherwise bacteria gets in the little pores of the toy and can cause nasty infections if allowed to build up. We've put together a handy little guide to help you properly clean your toys, but you should always check the manufacturers instructions too.
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.