The 4 Best Labia Spreaders for Ease and Accessibility
How we tested the best labia spreaders
Who’d have thought there was so much to labia spreaders? Before we started exploring these exciting products we’d have never thought so! But after spending tens of hours delving into all aspects of them, we’ve found that there’s so much more to them than meets the eye. Our sex toy testing experts and our network of awesome freelancers based around the world stopped at nothing to find each and every positive and negative of these labia spreaders. We aimed to product an unbiased and well-balanced review that highlights the pros and the cons equally. And that’s exactly what we did!
Types of labia spreader
When it comes to labia spreaders you’d be forgiven for thinking that they’re all pretty much the same. In actual fact these products can differ wildly, with some more specialized than others. So let’s take a peek at a couple of the different types and highlight some of their similarities and differences.
- ‘Better sex’ spreaders -If you want to feel exposed and allow your partner to pleasure you in deeper and more intimate ways than you ever thought was possible, ‘better sex’ labia spreaders are perfect. They will gently but firmly clamp onto your vagina and hold you open, allowing unlimited access. It truly is a pleasurable experience – if a little strange and different at first! And it certainly makes the sex better!
- BDSM spreaders – More suited to those that like things a little more rough and painful, BDSM spreaders tend to be a little harsher than their ‘better sex’ counterparts. As with a lot of BDSM items, the pleasure is in the pain, and that’s why you’ll find these spreaders grip that little bit tighter and pull that little bit harder. These are more similar to pussy clamps and clit clamps, which aim to increase sensitivity.
What is a labia spreader?
A labia spreading toy is a device used to open the labia to fully expose the entire clitoris. Labia spreaders will usually work by clipping onto the labia and opening them with straps, or they will have flexible arms that are adjustable so that they mould to your body. They allow an unimaginable amount of access, which is super arousing for both parties. This can lead to new and exciting stimulation that you have never experienced before. Labia spreaders really are designed for maximum pleasure and maximum access.
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The 4 Best labia spreaders in Test
Lovehoney G-Spot Stimulating Part Spreader
The Spreader is designed to help you find your g-spot by inserting the textured centre loop, and then using the bendy prongs as a labia spreader.
The inserted loop will stimulate your g-spot, and this labia spreader toy will expose your clitoris for maximum access giving you a blended orgasm like you’ve never experienced before.
This one can be a bit tricky to insert to start with, so we would recommend being generous with some Water-Based Lubricant but once you’ve persevered you will be happy you did!
This silicone labia spreader is the perfect accompaniment to your alone time or pleasure with a partner.
It’s a little fiddly to get the hang of getting it on, but once you have it will definitely add a whole new dimension to your sex life.
The flexibility of this clit spreader means that no matter your size or shape it will mould to your body for the perfect fit.
Master Series Labia Spreader Straps with Clamps
These labia spreader straps are perfect for anyone who likes to add a bit of kink to their sex life, and who wants to try exposing their clitoris for maximum stimulation.
You can certainly use these straps to free up your hands for other things during self-pleasure, or they are perfect to combine with penetrative sex.
They are easy to use and extremely budget friendly, so they offer the perfect opportunity to try something new!
For an even more overwhelming experience try adding more restraints to other parts of your body, and combine it with other sex toys for a truly wild ride!
You can’t really go too far wrong with these labia spreader straps, they are extremely adjustable so they will fit most sizes and they are so reasonably priced that you won’t be devastated if they don’t become your new favourite addition to sex.
They provide amazing access to your sweet sensitive areas for more intense orgasms, and feel kinky without being super extreme which is great if you are new to this kind of thing.
Petal Pusher Labia Spreader
Then Petal Pusher Labia Spreader holds the labia open to expose the entire clitoris to give you maximum stimulation.
This frees up you or your partners hands to do other things, meaning that you can target more of you erogenous areas simultaneously for blended orgasmic bliss.
This silicone labia spreader isn’t the most luxurious toy, but it does what it’s supposed to by enhancing your pleasure and intensifying your orgasms, whether you are flying solo or with a partner.
The Petal Pusher Labia Spreader is the perfect entry level labia spreader, its mould-ability means that it’s suitable for most people.
Like all pussy lip spreaders it’s a little fiddly to get on at first, but it’s more approachable for first timers than the others on the list.
Master Series Adjustable Pussy Clamp
Although this one looks a little scary to begin with, we promise that it’s not!
It can pinch you a little though so do be wary of this, but for many a little bit of discomfort really adds to the pleasure!
This Stainless Steel Pussy Clamp by Master Series will expose your most intimate regions, allowing you to access all areas whether that’s with a partner or another toy.
Use the screws to loosen or tighten the clamp, and you can open it up to a diameter of 1.25 inches giving you plenty of room to play with!
Be careful with how much lube you use especially to start with this one, as the slippier you are the more difficult it is to put on.
If you’re intrigued by labia clamping then this stainless steel beauty is a great place to start.
It’s probably not something we’d suggest you use if you are complete sex toy novice, just because it can be a bit of an intense experienced if you are a newbie!
It’s a great toy to combine with other things like restraints and nipple clamps.
This clamp is a beautiful quality toy and is easy to clean so although it’s the most expensive on this list, it will last you are very long time.
Pair with a clit clamp
Labia spreaders expose the entire clitoris, which means that clitoris focused toys are an amazing thing to combine with them.
Using a labia spreader and a clit clamp will mean that your vagina is exposed and your clit is being stimulated, leaving you or your partners hands to explore other areas giving you explosive and overwhelming orgasms.
Why Use a Labia Spreader?
Using a labia spreader fully exposes the clitoris, making it easier to access the whole thing and intensifying stimulation. This is something you would typically use your hands for, so using a labia spreader frees up you or your partners hands to explore other regions of your body.
How to use a labia spreader
There are lots of different ways to use a labia spreader, and whichever way you do it will give you unique and intense sensations that will give you electrifying orgasms.
Here are a few ideas to get you started!
Using a labia spreader during masturbation means that you have the best possible access to your clitoris. This will intensify your orgasms especially if you are using a clitoral vibrator. It also frees up your hands to touch other sensitive parts of your body for toe curling climaxes.
The use of a labia spreader during oral sex means that your entire clitoris is exposed to your partner giving them the ability to pleasure like never before. It also frees up their hands so that they can stimulate you in other regions simultanously.
Labia spreaders are a great addition to BDSM, they can be combined with restraints or used for humiliation play.
Having your clitoris completely exposed also makes teasing and edging easier, allowing your partner to completely control when they allow you to climax.
Labia spreaders are perfect for use during penetration, whether that’s with a g-spot vibrator or a partner.
Some labia spreaders also have a loop that stimulates the g-spot, and their texture also massages the penis giving your penis owning partner some extra yummy sensations too.
How to clean your labia spreader
Labia spreaders are super easy to clean which is always nice, because who wants to waste their post orgasm glow washing their toys!? All of the labia spreaders on this list are non-porous so some warm soapy water will do the trick! We've put together a little guide for you just in case you're not sure, but do always check the manufacturer's advice though too.
Soft plastic, hard plastic, jelly, rubber, Cyberskin are all porous materials, meaning that small particles and bacteria can penetrate the surface. This makes it impossible to completely clean these types of materials.
Therefore, it is recommended that you use a condom with these types of toys, especially if you are sharing them. Clean these toys with mild soapy water and dry gently with a towel. These materials are more easily damaged, so be sure to be gentle and make sure your toys are completely dry before storing.
Silicone, glass, stainless steel and some hard plastics can all be washed using a mild soap (like you would use on your body) and warm water. Just be careful if your toy contains electrical parts.
Silicone and stainless steel toys without any electrical parts can also be boiled for sterilisation.
If your toys contain electrical components, be extra careful when cleaning them and always check the instructions provided with the toy. You can use a gentle cloth and soap to wipe or sex toy cleaner or cleaning wipe to down your toy, making sure that no water comes into contact with the electrical parts.