The 6 Best Lay On Vibrators

Isabelle Uren
by Isabelle UrenUpdated:

I’ve looked through all of the vibrators we’ve tested here at Bedbible to find the very best lay on options for anyone who loves a bump and grind! Our tester’s really put these vibrators through their paces to find out just how comfortable, powerful and practical they really are!

Test Winner

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Mariah Anderson

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 1215 user reviews

Runner Up

4.6Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Baran

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on user reviews

Budget-Friendly

4.6Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Percival Nocturne

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 1649 user reviews

Best for Beginners

4.0Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

4.0/5

Based on user reviews

Best w. Remote Control

4.5Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Riccio

User Ratings:

4.0/5

Based on user reviews

Best Dual Stimulation

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 75 user reviews

Pom VibratorFun Factory Laya III plusOne MassagerTenga Iroha+ KushiVibePad 2Lovense Dolce
Pom VibratorFun Factory Laya III plusOne MassagerTenga Iroha+ KushiVibePad 2Lovense Dolce
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Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
  • Flexes with your body
  • Small, ergonomic design
  • Fits between bodies for partner play
  • Quiet
  • Easy to knock and change settings
  • Short battery life
  • Texture adds more stimulation
  • Easy controls
  • Memory function that starts where you last left off
  • Travel lock
  • Same button for speeds and patterns
  • Very long initial charge
  • Really cheap for a lay on vibrator
  • Easy to use one-button controls
  • Light indicates low battery
  • Vibrations are more subtle
  • No flexibility
  • Quiet
  • Discreet design
  • Easy to use single button control
  • Vibrations aren't super strong
  • Tricky to clean in grooves
  • Great for grinding
  • Can be placed on any surface
  • Actually mimics oral sex/ face sitting
  • Learning curve to find correct position
  • Powerful internal and external vibes
  • Bulbous internal arm
  • Great app features
  • Only available in hot pink
  • Bluetooth can lose connection

How We Test lay on vibrators

We’re a team of 345 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best lay on vibrators, our testers tried and reviewed 383 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre lay on vibrators didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1275 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
How I tested the lay on vibrators

Test Winner Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame

4.8/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Mariah Anderson

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 1215 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the lay on vibrator.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Flexible silicone
  • Firm tip for more pinpoint stimulation
  • 5 vibration speeds

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Pom Flexible Vibrator by Dame felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Flexes with your body
  • Small, ergonomic design
  • Fits between bodies for partner play
  • Quiet

Cons

  • Easy to knock and change settings
  • Short battery life

Why I Chose It

“I love this toy and I personally cannot wait to have a long, and happy life together.”

Our tester, Mariah, was totally smitten with the Dame Pom, and I can see why! I picked it as the best lay on vibrator because of it’s totally flexible design, that allows the vibrator to form to the shape of your body.

She loved the cute “ergonomically-shaped” design, comparing it to a “marshmallow peep!” She was impressed for such a small vibe it still packs quite a punch in the vibration department.

Another big pro is that it’s also quiet so you can use it discreetly. Mariah found that even “the highest setting is still whisper quiet.”

Runner Up Fun Factory Laya III

4.6/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Baran

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the lay on vibrator.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

A Closer Look
  • Curved, silicone vibrator
  • Vibrates and taps
  • Textured body

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Fun Factory Laya III felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Fun Factory Laya III was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Fun Factory Laya III felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Texture adds more stimulation
  • Easy controls
  • Memory function that starts where you last left off
  • Travel lock

Cons

  • Same button for speeds and patterns
  • Very long initial charge

Why I Chose It

“In one word: Amazing. Amazing for use in the shower (or pool), amazing for travel, amazing to use on yourself or your partner, simply amazing stimulation… Amazing!”

It’s clear our tester, Sarah, was impressed with the Laya III! She really loved the smooth curves, commenting that the best feature is the shape that is “is perfect to settle right up against the clit for direct stimulation” and how it sits “fit snugly against the body.”

The Laya has both vibrating and tapping stimulation, but even though she enjoyed the sensations, Sarah “couldn’t differentiate between the tapping and vibrating.” She did, however, like that “the smoothness verses the texture on the ends of the Laya III provided for some very enjoyable, yet different, sensations.”

A stand out feature of the Laya is that it has more adjustability in the settings as you can adjust the intensity of each pattern and even save your favorite so it automatically starts on it next time. While I wouldn’t go for this as a first vibrator, I recommend it for those who love having a lot of control.

Budget-Friendly plusOne Mini Massager

4.6/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.6/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Percival Nocturne

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 1649 user reviews

85/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: plusOne Mini Massager was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the lay on vibrator.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: plusOne Mini Massager was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: plusOne Mini Massager was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

A Closer Look
  • Curved silicone vibrator
  • 10 vibration modes

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: plusOne Mini Massager was rated 1 out of 5, which means it is silent.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of plusOne Mini Massager felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: plusOne Mini Massager was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of plusOne Mini Massager felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Really cheap for a lay on vibrator
  • Easy to use one-button controls
  • Light indicates low battery

Cons

  • Vibrations are more subtle
  • No flexibility

Why I Chose It

I was seriously impressed that our reviewer, Percival, has had this vibrator for over 5 years and still loves it! If that’s not quality on a budget, I have no idea what is!

They “love how easy and intuitive it is to use” and said they still find themselves “coming back to it, again and again” even after owning it for so long!

They were super impressed with the quality and durability, even though the vibrator “has been dropped, flung, slammed, squeezed, shoved, jostled, soaked, and shook,” it’s still going strong!

Although Percival said “it isn’t the strongest vibe out there,” they really enjoy using it with during partnered sex or with other toys.

Best for Beginners Tenga Iroha+ Kushi

4.0/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.0/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Vern Holland

User Ratings:

4.0/5

Based on user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Tenga Iroha+ Kushi was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the lay on vibrator.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Tenga Iroha+ Kushi was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Tenga Iroha+ Kushi was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

A Closer Look
  • Squishy textured silicone
  • Tapered tip for pinpoint stimulation
  • 5 vibrations speeds and 3 patterns

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Tenga Iroha+ Kushi was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Tenga Iroha+ Kushi felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Tenga Iroha+ Kushi was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is quite powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Tenga Iroha+ Kushi felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Quiet
  • Discreet design
  • Easy to use single button control

Cons

  • Vibrations aren't super strong
  • Tricky to clean in grooves

Why I Chose It

I picked the Kushi as the best lay on vibrator for beginners because it has such a cute and totally unitimidating design! It’s also not got super strong vibrations, so it won’t be overwhelming.

Vern tried it out for us, and as someone with more vibrator experience, they weren’t blown away with the vibrations, “they still really love[d] the Tenga Iroha+ Kushi.”

They particularly “love the design of this toy” and it’s “cutesie beach shell” vibes. They couldn’t “get over how soft and squishy the Iroha+ Kushi is,” commenting that it “feels like a dream.” I think this softness, along with the light textural details makes this perfect for lying on and grinding against!

Another great feature for beginners is that it’s super easy to use! Vern enjoyed that the “simplistic one-button system” made it easy to flick through the different settings.

 

Best w. Remote Control VibePad 2

4.5/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.5/5

Bedbible Rating:

5/5

Reviewed by: 

Sarah Riccio

User Ratings:

4.0/5

Based on user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: VibePad 2 was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the lay on vibrator.

90/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: VibePad 2 was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: VibePad 2 was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Vibrations and flickering tongue
  • Warming function
  • Remote control

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: VibePad 2 was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of VibePad 2 felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: VibePad 2 was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of VibePad 2 felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Great for grinding
  • Can be placed on any surface
  • Actually mimics oral sex/ face sitting

Cons

  • Learning curve to find correct position

Why I Chose It

I think the VibePad 2 has a really clever design, and I’m a big fan of it’s versatility and that you can put it on any surface and sit or lie on it!

Sarah reviewed it for us and loved it so much that it “earned its place as one of [her] all-time favorite sex toys.” She loved that she could “enjoy vibration across my entire vulva and have my clitoris warmed up and licked simultaneously” and described the sensation as “wildly pleasurable!”

She thought that the “warming feature is genius” and loved the sensitivity and arousal it added. The vibrations were “surprisingly powerful” but still “nice and quiet.” 

Best Dual Stimulation Lovense Dolce

4.7/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Cassie Mørch

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 75 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovense Dolce was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the lay on vibrator.

85/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovense Dolce was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

100/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovense Dolce was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Two motors for internal and external stimulation
  • App-controls with long-distance control capabilities
  • Adjustable neck

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovense Dolce was rated 2 out of 5, which means it is quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovense Dolce felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
PowerSound rating

Rating: Lovense Dolce was rated 5 out of 5, which means it is extremely powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovense Dolce felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Pros

  • Powerful internal and external vibes
  • Bulbous internal arm
  • Great app features

Cons

  • Only available in hot pink
  • Bluetooth can lose connection

Why I Chose It

While the Lovense Dolce isn’t marketed specifically as lay on vibrator, I think it’s a great vibrator for when you’re also craving some internal stimulation as well!

Our tester, Cassie, was almost ready to give up on finding dual stimulation vibration but found the adjustability of the Dolce really hit the spot…both of them!

She really appreciated that the adjustable “mechanism is quite firm, so once you’ve found an angle that works for you, that baby will stay in place.” It made it so much easier to “achieve a perfectly blended orgasm.” This also makes it a great lay on vibrator as you can find an angle that’s comfortable for you while lying on your front.

She was also a fan of “the rumbly quality of the vibrations” and reported that “although powerful, the Dolce is not particularly noisy!”

The other big feature of the Dolce is the app features. Cassie “loved the interactive feature, and had a blast letting my partner control my stimulation.”

Having used multiple Lovense toys myself, I stand by that the Lovense app is the best for connectivity and fun features! It’s the one I would recommend time and time again for any long distance play.

Comparison

BestTest Winner Runner Up Budget-Friendly Best for Beginners Best w. Remote Control Best Dual Stimulation
Overall score4.8 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 4.6 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0
Bedbible rating5.0 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 5.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0
User rating4.7 / 5.0
from 1215 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 7 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 1649 users
4 / 5.0
from 1 users
4 / 5.0
from 1 users
4.5 / 5.0
from 75 users
PricePricey Pricey Cheap Pricey Moderate Moderate
Design100 / 100 90 / 100 85 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100
Ease of use90 / 100 90 / 100 100 / 100 90 / 100 90 / 100 85 / 100
Quality100 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100 100 / 100
Sound20 / 100 20 / 100 20 / 100 40 / 100 40 / 100 40 / 100
Power80 / 100 60 / 100 60 / 100 60 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100
Buzzy/Rumblysomewhat rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly neither really buzzy nor rumbly somewhat rumbly very rumbly
Vibration patterns5 3 -3 7 7
Vibration speeds5 7 -5 --
Length3.5 inches4.3 inches3.74 inches4.01 inches11.42 inches-
Width4.4 inches1.6 inches1.57 inches1.96 inches8.15 inches-
MaterialsMedical-grade silicone Silicone Body-safe silicone Silicone, TPU Silicone Silicone
WaterproofYes Yes Yes Yes Yes Yes
Battery LifeAt least 60 minutes40 to 120 minutes-60 minutes60 minutes120 minutes
RechargeableYes Yes Yes Yes Yes USB
Charging Time120 minutesInitial charge: (6-7 hours) 360-420 minutes120-180 minutes120 minutes120 minutes60 minutes
Travel LockYes Yes No No --
Storage Bag IncludedYes No Yes No -Yes
Colors AvailablePlum, Ice Soft Violet, Sage Green Teal or light blue Beige, Pink Purple Hot pink
Vibration modes--10 -7 -
Remote Controls--No No Yes, Handheld Remote App-controlled
Weight----0.9 lbs-
Insertable length-----3 inches
Adjustable-----Yes
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Isabelle Uren
Isabelle Uren

Site Manager | Aiming to empower people to embrace sexual pleasure one sex toy at a time or two, whatever takes your fancy! As well researching and writing about all things sex, I have studied Tantra and am currently studying towards becoming a psychosexual therapist. My life philosophy is the three Ms approach — meditation, masturbation, and mmm a good cup of tea!

Age: 33
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: Doxy Die Cast
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