The 7 Best Lesbian Sex Toys

Why I Chose It

I’ve picked out the Wet For Her RockHer as the Test Winner today because it’s a super unique lesbian sex toy designed by lesbians! Wet For Her created this vibrator with vulva-on-vulva sex in mind, attempting to elevate the sensation with some vibrations and an ergonomic, wearable design.

My favorite part of this lesbian sex toy is it’s more versatile than it looks. The design is actually reversible! Our tester, Kaitlyn, mentioned that she and her partner “tried out various positions with both of us alternating wearing the RockHer with the bulb inserted and on the outside.” That said, it didn’t do wonders for them because of the moderate vibration strength. I do think the RockHer offers more of a supplementary sensation rather than stealing the sow with earth-shattering vibrations.

“My favorite use was as a hands-free vibe with me on my back and my partner using their fingers on my clit. It was really nice that we could have vibe assistance but neither of us had to hold anything.” This is where I think the RockHer really gets to shine. Sure, it may be nice for scissoring, but I personally appreciate how versatile it can be if you get creative. Wear it while your partner is performing oral on you, rubbing your clit, or even using another toy on it! This also makes it a fun tool to play around with by yourself.

I think the remote control is a very crucial feature of this toy. Especially since the button on the toy will be inside of you while you use it. The remote control lets you adjust the settings while in use. “It also lets you turn it off as soon as you are finished, so if you are someone who gets sensitive quickly and you don’t want to have to reach down and pull the toy out immediately, having the remote nearby is a huge plus.”

Something to consider is that the charge only lasts for 1 hour, which can make those long sessions a little frustrating when the charge dies!

Why I Chose It

The Sohimi Wireless Couples Vibrator brings a lot of fun to the table at a very affordable price! At only $34, you get a decent quality wearable vibrator that offers a plethora of features and sensations to have fun with. The JoyHub app alone unlocks long-distance features, video-synchronization, voice activation, among other fun features. Edwina, who tested the vibrator mentioned that she has “seen so many reviews of brand name toys speaking of difficulties with apps. So, imagine my surprise when I was able to connect to the JoyHub app and operate the Sohimi Couples Vibrator flawlessly. The interface is simple and clean, as well as being easy to use.”

The main reason I’ve chosen to include this vibrator in a review of lesbian sex toys is the basic design. If worn with egg-shape inserted into the vagina, the two arms will stimulate the labia while leaving your clitoris exposed to be stimulated further. I think this would be a great way to play around with oral or manual stimulation or grinding and tribbing while still getting to enjoy some amazing g-spot stimulation from the inside. I thin it’s a really good alternative to the Wet For Her RockHer than certainly won’t break the bank.

“Considering the price and versatility of this toy, yes I absolutely recommend this toy. However, if you’ve used one of these types of vibrators before, especially a more well-known brand, this one may fall flat.” I agree with Edwina about how the vibration strength in this device may not live up to those from other high-end brands. However, the unique design from this vibrator allows for a lot more vulva-on-vulva versatility that I can’t really find in other couples’ vibrators from a lot of other brands.

Why I Chose It

I’ve included the Wet For Her Pride Fusion in this review because I think it stands out from all over silicone strap-on dildos out there. This unique “Pleasure Base” does really take things up a notch. As far as lesbian sex toys go, you can really see the thought that’s gone into the design of this dildo.

As a dildo connoisseur myself, I am partial to a good old-fashioned suction cup base since they just offer a lot more versatile use. However, I’m pretty sold of the concept of this uniquely shaped dildo. Our tester, Vern, isn’t personally a big fan of grinding for building towards an orgasm but still had a pretty good time with it:

“While this toy wasn’t able to bring me to climax while wearing it, it worked better for my partner who’s always enjoyed friction/rubbing/grinding stimulation. It was a gender euphoric experience where we were able to both be pleasured and not have to worry about the struggles of a dildo twisting away from the angles we needed it to be in.”

I also appreciate when dildos have a poseable shaft. This makes for a more dynamic experience when you want to target different internal erogenous zones. “This was an interesting aspect of the toy, especially for those you like some g-spot or p-spot stimulation, but I did find that it doesn’t keep its shape while penetrating as much as I’d hoped.” This is a common issue with poseable dildos. An alternative strap-on dildo that does hold its shape very well, is the Fun Factory Limba Flex M.

Overall, I think this is a great lesbian-friendly strap-on dildo. It is a bit more expensive than your average silicone dildo. But I would certainly be willing to pay that price if grinding and simultaneous pleasure during penetration was my thing.

Why I Chose It

“Having used only lower-quality harnesses before, this harness is a game-changer. Not only is it super comfortable and easy to adjust, the control is amazing. I noticed immediately that it was responding to my movements, and my girlfriend noticed too.”

As you can probably tell, Jen, our tester, had a really good experience with this high quality strap-on harness. Of course a round-up review of lesbian sex toys has to include a really good strap-on harness that offers stability, adjustability, and comfort. I know it can be hard to find a harness that is actually nice to wear for extended periods. But here it is!

“The vibrator pockets are nice.  However, they are in the wrong place, so they pair better with a hands-free vibrator, where you don’t need the exact position of the pocket.”. The placement of the pockets can be a bit awkward for some, but I think this depends largely on your personal preference and anatomy.

“The harness is extremely easy to put on, so there’s not a lot of unsexy fumbling when you’re getting ready. Once on, it is also very easy to tighten if you are doing positions that need even more control.” The adjustability also caters to a wide range of sizes which is always a huge plus for me!

Comfort is definitely the key descriptor when it comes to this harness. Most online reviewers seem to rave about how comfortable this thing is compared to cheaper, less stabile harnesses. Is it worth the price though? According to Jen, “The SpareParts Joque is expensive, but it’s definitely worth it if strap-on sex is you main go-to. It’s so much more comfortable and offers a lot more control than other harnesses we’ve tried.”

Why I Chose It

Having tried a bunch of Lovense products myself, I know that they really have a lot to offer in terms of vibration strength, quality, and app control features. Luckily, our tester, Joseph also found that the “Lapis from Lovense is a fantastic choice for a strap-on accessory”.

One huge pro about this vibrating strap-on is that it’s a powerhouse to be reckoned with. “I had my partner use it on me with their hands, since I was a bit intimidated to wear it at first. And boy let me tell you, it felt amazing. I could feel the motor all through my whole body even on the lowest setting, though climbing to the third (and fastest) steady vibration setting proved to be a bit too intense for me.” 

“The drawback is that it’s not really great… strapless. […] Even with how adjustable the insertable part is, and even with clenching like my life depended on it, it still needed a hand to hold it in place.” Even though it kind of defeats the purpose of a strapless strap-on, I definitely recommend using it with a compatible harness. I wouldn’t consider this too much of a drawback though, since this is a fairly common issue with most “strapless” strap-on designs.

Of course, Lovense products always tend to be pretty expensive. Getting the Lovense Lapis would definitely be an investment in your strap-on adventures and perfect for those who love deep and powerful vibrations. Ideally, for this price, I would have liked something to actually be “strapless”. Alas, those devices are harder to get by than they seem.

Why I Chose It

“This isn’t your ordinary game of horseshoes with friends!”, Ashley points out in the beginning of her review. This double dildo means business! I wanted to include this nifty (not so) little lesbian sex toy in this review because it delivers an amazing feeling of fullness and interactive fun. This thing is ideal for lovers who want to enjoy some simultaneous penetration or explore some fulfilling double penetration.

“When I first unboxed the Blush Rusé Silicone Double Dildo, my literal first words were “holy sh–“!! While I did read the dimensions on the website, I was not prepared for the size!” Besides an impressive girth, this double dildo also features lifelike designs on both shafts. The pronounced heads as well as “the texture and “veins” on the surface added to the pleasure, and the O’s started coming in pretty quickly!”.

The only thing I recommend you keep in mind about this dildo is the firm u-shape. As Ashley mentions: “It is a little stiff, and hard to flex, so it may not be ideal for someone with grip or mobility issues. I honestly think the Blush Rusé Silicone Double Dildo is more suitable for partner play rather than solo play.”

In terms of price, I actually think it’s pretty affordable for a high quality double dildo with so much… substance to it. With proper care, it will service you for many years to come!

Why I Chose It

When I was looking for the best squirting dildo to add to a round-up review of lesbian sex toys, I had no doubt in my mind. It had to be this one! What makes it stand out for me is the super neutral, non-phallic design. For most lesbians, I’ll gladly make the assumption that they agree with what our tester, Sarah, pointed out, “When it comes to dildos, I prefer a non-realistic aesthetic. So, I like the fact that this dildo is completely smooth and doesn’t have realistic details like veins, testicles or a pronounced head.”

This seemingly “lesbian-friendly” design compared with the overall quality, versatility, and well-performing squirting feature makes it a great choice, in my opinion.

“What impressed me most about this toy is its ability to shoot large volumes of fake cum — and far! The syringe can hold up to a full ounce of fake ejaculate and, when you push down on the plunger, it goes flying out of the tip of the dildo.” Sarah also noted that when used internally, the squirting feature does actually feel quite realistic. This makes it ideal for anyone out there who wants to play around with cum play or cum fantasies.

As for the practical aspect, she mentions that “The tubing that runs through the dildo and attaches to the syringe might feel a little unwieldy at first. Keep in mind that you can cut the tubing to shorten its size, but I like to leave it long to give myself a little slack and easily change positions.” 

As far as the price goes, I’d say it’s within the typical price range of squirting dildos of this quality. It’s not overpriced or suspiciously cheap, and I definitely think it’s worth the price if you want to explore some impressive ejaculation play without the added realism.