8 Best Long Distance Sex Toys
As a sex toy expert, I’ve made it my mission to try out all of the popular sex toy apps, and I’ve found there are definitely some that outperform the others! I’ve used my own experience, together with our tester’s reviews to pick out the best long-distance sex toys out there that will leave you feeling satisfied and connected instead of sexually and technologically frustrated! I’ve included my top toys for long-distance sex, including some great ones for video sex, as well as some that are perfect for discreet public play.
Test Winner | Best on a Budget | Best for Beginners | Expert Pick | Best Panty Vibrator | Best Masturbator | Best for Anal | Best G-spot Vibrator |
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Lovense Lush 3 | Svakom Erica | Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 | Lovense Gravity | Lovense Ferri | Kiiroo Keon | Lovense Hush 2 | We-Vibe Rave 2 |
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How We Test long distance sex toys
We’re a team of 329 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best long distance sex toys , our testers tried and reviewed 89 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre long distance sex toys didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1128 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
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- The best long-distance sex toy for public play: The Lovense Lush 3 the best for vaginal use and the Lovense Hush 2 is the best for anal use —both are discreet, hands-free and have great connectivity.
- The longest battery life: The Lush 3 came out on top with 5 hours of battery life.
- The best app for long-distance play: The Lovense Remote app has the best connectivity and a really great range of fun features and innovative ways to control your toys.
Test Winner Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Egg Vibrator
- Bulbed for G-spot stimulation
- Fixed tail for clitoral stimulation
- App enabled with long-distance and interactive capabilities
Pros
- ✅ Discreet and quiet for public play
- ✅ Powerful vibrations
- ✅ Comfortable to wear
- ✅ Great connectivity
Cons
- ❌ Not a lot of clitoral stimulation
- ❌ The tail doesn't stay in place
Vibrations:
Why I Chose It
The original Lovense Lush kick-started the app-controlled sex toy revolution and it’s latest version, the Lush 3 has managed to remain the best long-distance sex toy! I tested the Lush 2 and it’s still my go to for wearing for discreet play with my partner in control of the vibrations. My fellow Bedbible sex toy expert, Kasia, tested the Lush 3 and agrees that this is the by far the best long-distance vibrator!
She “had a blast using it” and was impressed by it’s “powerful, super quiet, and extra discreet” vibrations. She was also a big fan of the egg shaped design as it was “very comfortable to wear and walk around with it inside.” Having worn the Lush on a 30 minute walk (for research purposes, of course), I can fully back this up! Kasia was a bit disappointed that the vibrations didn’t travel as well into the tail so clitoral stimulation was minimal, but adding some finger play using the tail felt great!
It’s also one of the quietest long-distance vibrators, reaching a maximum of around 43 decibels, which is definitely quiet enough to use anywhere with a bit of background noise.
Another big reason I chose the Lush 3 as the test winner is the app control! The Lovense Remote is hands-down the best sex toy app I’ve ever tried and the one I will recommend to friends time and time again! I’ve never had any issues connecting my toy to the app, it’s stays connected well and generally reconnects by itself, so even if it drops out, it doesn’t interfere too much with the proceedings.
Best on a Budget Svakom Erica
- Two motors provide internal and external vibrations
- Adjustable angles
- App for close range and long-distance control
Pros
- ✅ App easy to set up and use
- ✅ Can be used vaginally or anally
- ✅ Beginner-friendly
- ✅ Luxury design at affordable price
Cons
- ❌ Buzzy vibrations
- ❌ Might not fit all bodies
Vibrations:
Why I Chose It
I know that most long-distance sex toys are well over $100 but there are few gems, like the Svakom Erica that can be purchased for around $50! You really get a lot for your money with this one — a decent app and two vibrating motors!
Kasia tested it out for us and had a lot of good things to say! She “loved how smooth the silicone feels and how flexible the shaft is.” She found the shaft delivered “a nice G-spot massage” but the base was a bit too short to sit comfortably against her clitoris in many positions.
In terms of vibrations, they were “more buzzy than what [she is] used to” but she appreciate that “they are powerful and quiet,” so I can see this being great when you need to be discreet! Kasia also found the Erica comfortable to wear and it stayed in place well when she moved around.
For a much cheaper long distance vibrator, I was also impressed by Kasia experience using the app. She wrote that “the app control works great” and it “added a lot of fun to [her] experience.”
Best for Beginners Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3
- Pressure wave stimulation
- Optional silicone membrane for direct contact
- Can be controlled via the Satisfyer Connect App
Pros
- ✅ Two ways to use
- ✅ Easy to connect
- ✅ Gentle but satisfying stimulation
Cons
- ❌ Air pulse can be a little jumpy
- ❌ Gets quite loud on higher settings
- ❌ Vibrations are a bit buzzy
Vibrations:
Why I Chose It
“The new Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 hits all of the marks for me, and has given me some absolutely spectacular orgasms!”
That’s high praise from our reviewer and fellow Bedbible sex toy expert, Rachel, who isn’t usually a clit sucker fan! She absolutely loved the newest version of the iconic Satisfyer!
I chose this as the best long-distance sex toy for beginners because it’s easy to use and focusses on external stimulation, which can be less intimidating. It’s also got a few different types of stimulation, so it gives you more to explore.
Rachel loved the Liquid Air Technology as the silicone cover created the “closest sensations to oral sex” that she’s experienced in a sex toy! She described it as being “like a soft, fluttering tongue that you can tease your clitoris with or press down for satisfyingly firm pressure!”
The vibrations aren’t particularly strong and Rachel found them “pretty buzzy,” but if you are new to sex toys, you probably don’t want anything too powerful!
The app is also very beginner-friendly! Rachel found it “very easy to connect the toy to the Satisfyer Connect app” and she “didn’t experience the toy disconnecting at all.”
The only real downside I can see with this long-distance sex toy is that it’s not wearable or hands-free so you can’t use it for public play!
Expert Pick Lovense Gravity
- Up to 140 strokes/min with a 1.18 stroke length
- Suction cup base
- Connects to Lovense App for long-distance control and gamified features
Pros
- ✅ Great range of interactive functions
- ✅ Can be used with or without suction cup base
- ✅ Vibes and thrusts controlled independently
- ✅ Powerful stimulation
Cons
- ❌ Not fully waterproof
- ❌ Vibrations aren't the strongest
- ❌ Quite loud
Vibrations:
Why I Chose It
I really wanted to include the Lovense Gravity, as not only does it offer some really great stimulation (hands-free thrusting, yes please!), but also the suction cup allows for totally hands-free use, which opens up some really fun video sex possibilities!
Flora tested it out for us and described it as a “mechanical marvel” that “outperforms any mortal companion!” She was so impressed by its “thrusting power and satisfying vibrations,” she wrote she’s “sure to please the proud pillow princess and performer alike.”
The app was also a big hit! She loved that it made the Gravity into her own “personal creative tool” with all the fun ways to use it! She particularly like that the “long-distance control and voice feedback, allowed for deeply intimate sessions.” I also think having both the thrusting and vibrating to control offers a bit more fun for the partner in the driving seat.
Aside from all of the amazing app capabilities and powerful stimulation, one of the main reasons the Gravity is great for long-distance play is the suction cup, which Flora describes as having “unbudgeable force.” In my experience, having a hands-free toy with a big visual impact, like this one, makes long-distance sex video calls a lot more fun!
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Best Panty Vibrator Lovense Ferri Long Distance Panty Vibrator
- Clips into panties with a strong magnet
- Ergonomic shape stimulates clitoris and labia
- Connects to Lovense app for long-distance control
Pros
- ✅ Hands-free
- ✅ Can be worn in strap-on harness
- ✅ Powerful vibrations
- ✅ Quiet
- ✅ App performs well
Cons
- ❌ Lack of pressure against clitoris
- ❌ Could be more powerful
Vibrations:
Why I Chose It
The Lovense Ferri is one of the best long-distance sex toys for anyone who prefers clitoral stimulation. It’s also one of the best for public play, given how quiet the vibrations are.
Jen tested it out and really liked that the design allowed her to use it in a strap-on harness. Overall, she was impressed with it, writing that “is of high quality- feels luxurious, never malfunctions, and the battery lasts long”
She was also impressed with the app: “For masturbation, the app adds an interesting layer. There are many vibration patterns to try out”. The Ferri stays put pretty well with moderate movement such as walking or sitting, but Jen found it moved around a bit when wearing it in a strap-on harness during sex.
The only issue with the Ferri, and most panty vibrators in my experience, is that once you stand up and gravity is at play, there is a lack of pressure against the clitoris. This also means you don’t get the full impact of the vibration power. I’ve found wearing some tight-fitting underwear helps!
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Best Masturbator Kiiroo Keon Interactive Male Masturbator
- Up to 230 strokes per minute with adjustable stroke length
- Can interact with VR porn
- Connects to the Feel Connect app for long-distance play and interactive features
Pros
- ✅ Great for VR porn experience
- ✅ Can interact with other Kiiroo toys
- ✅ Comes with realistic looking and feeling stroker
- ✅ Stroker can be used separately
- ✅ A lot of customisation
Cons
- ❌ Quite large and heavy
- ❌ Gets pretty loud
Vibrations:
Why I Chose It
The Kiiroo Keon was an obvious as the best long-distance masturbator because it’s the most advanced automatic masturbator out there with the widest variety of features! I like that the thrusting allows you to recreate the sensation of sex with a partner no matter how far apart you are!
In his review, our tester, Josh, wrote that the Keon “looks great, it’s effective, and it’s an all-round premium toy that gets the job done.” He was particularly impressed by the quality of the stroker, writing that it’s “fantastic quality, made of a soft and fleshy silicone that feels life-like and textured.”
Out of all the interactive masturbators, I feel like the Keon has some of the best interactive features, from syncing to online content to connecting to other Kiiroo toys. Josh like that despite all of the features, “the controls for the power, mode, speed, and stroke length of the Keon are all simple and intuitive, and with a little fiddling and trial and error, you can find something that will really rock your world.”
Josh did mention that the Keon “might be a little too big and bulky for some people’s liking” but he also found “something undeniably satisfying about holding the toy by its ‘hips’ as it bounces up and down.” We actually have a Keon here in the Bedbible office, and agree that it’s not a small toy but that’s a sacrifice I’d be willing to make for overall experience.
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Best for Anal Lovense Hush 2 - App-controlled Vibrating Butt Plug
- Tapered bulb shape plug with powerful vibrations
- T-bar base
- Connects to Lovense App
Pros
- ✅ Rumbly and quiet vibrations
- ✅ App offers game, video, music, and voice interactivity
- ✅ Comfortable to wear, even during public play
- ✅ Luxurious feel
Cons
- ❌ Too firm for some
- ❌ Can only store up to 10 customized patterns
Vibrations:
Why I Chose It
The Lovense Hush 2 is the both the best long-distance butt plug and it even won the top spot in our best vibrating butt plug review. It’s simply a really well-made and powerful vibrating butt plug that features the best app control on the market.
Our tester, Flora, really enjoyed the “powerful, rumbly vibrations” and even called it a “a truly transcendent experience.” Design-wise, she pointed out that “The ergonomic design was comfortable to wear, even during long sessions”. She also poined out that “”Hush” is an appropriate name to convey the discretion”, making it an ideal choice for some discreet public play.
Flora described the Lovense Remote App as the true “star of the show that transformed the butt plug into “an interactive masterpiece.” Another glowing review of the Lovense App!
The other thing I really like about the Hush is that it comes in four different sizes so there’s a Hush for every level of experience! Jesse reviewed the Hush 2 Large and wrote: “This toy really impressed me. Not only in the good quality and well thought design, but in its vibration capabilities, and its app capabilities.”
Best G-spot Vibrator We-Vibe Rave 2
- Assymetric shape designed to be twisted
- Adjustable angles
- App for long-distance play and customisability
Pros
- ✅ Vibrations spread through whole vibrator
- ✅ Quiet vibrations
- ✅ Fully waterproof
- ✅ Rumbly vibrations
Cons
- ❌ Can lose bend under pressure
- ❌ Grip size is a little small
Vibrations:
Why I Chose It
I wanted to include a more traditional long-distance vibrator, as although it’s not wearable, it’s great for when you want to recreate the sensation of penetrative sex with your long-distance lover! The Rave 2 just goes above and beyond the competition with it’s dual motors that distribute the vibrations, ensuring maximum stimulation throughout the toy.
Our tester, Mariah crowned it her “favorite for g-spot stimulation”. She found that “The ability to bend the neck of this toy to fit your anatomy, as well as the dual-controlled motors (one for g-spot stimulation and one for stimulating the vaginal opening) is a complete game changer.”
As a sex toy expert, I love it when companies allow for different bodies within the design as We-Vibe have done with this posable vibrator! Mariah discovered this was great for “deep G-spot stimulation” and noted “if you’ve ever wanted to squirt, this is the toy to start with!”
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Comparison
Best | Test Winner | Best on a Budget | Best for Beginners | Expert Pick | Best Panty Vibrator | Best Masturbator | Best for Anal | Best G-spot Vibrator |
Overall score | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.1 / 5.0 | 4.9 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.3 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.3 / 5.0 from 1081 users | 4.9 / 5.0 from 28 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 23 users | 5 / 5.0 from 26 users | 4.1 / 5.0 from 35 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 210 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 128 users | 4.4 / 5.0 from 60 users |
Price | Moderate | Affordable | Affordable | Pricey | Pricey | Moderate | Premium | Moderate |
Design | 90 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 75 / 100 | 94 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
Ease of use | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 85 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 90 / 100 |
Quality | 100 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 92 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Sound | 20 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 40 / 100 | 20 / 100 | 40 / 100 |
Power | 80 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 60 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 80 / 100 |
Buzzy/Rumbly | somewhat rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | neither really buzzy nor rumbly | somewhat rumbly | very rumbly | somewhat rumbly | somewhat rumbly |
Vibration speeds | 3 Preset | 5 | 5 | 3, plus more with app | Preprogrammed: 3 | - | 3 (+ more in-app) | 10 |
Vibration patterns | 4 Preset | 11 | 7 | 4, plus more with app | Preprogrammed: 10 | - | 4 (+ more in-app) | 10 |
Length | 8 inches | 4.1 inches | 6.5 inches | 10.2 inches | 3 inches | 8.67 inches | 4.78 inches | 8.54 inches |
Insertable length | 3.5 inches | 3.6 inches | - | 5.12 inches | - | - | 3.94 inches | 4 inches |
Diameter | 1.43 inches | 1.2 inches | (Mouth) 0.6 inches | 1.46 inches | - | - | 1.5 inches | 1.5 inches |
Battery Life | 300 minutes | 60 minutes | 120 minutes | 240 minutes | 180 minutes | 30 - 240 minutes | 240 minutes | 120 minutes |
Materials | Silicone | Silicone, ABS | Silicone, ABS Plastic | Silicone | Silicone | Case: ABS & PC, Sleeve: TPE | Silicone | Silicone |
Waterproof | Yes | Yes | Yes | No, water-resistant | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
App Controls | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | App | Yes | Yes | Yes |
Storage Bag Included | Yes | Yes | No | Yes | Yes | No | Yes | Yes |
Rechargeable | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
Colors Available | Pink | Blue, Rose | Burgundy Red, Purple, Black | Red | - | - | Black | Blue, Pink |
Travel Lock | No | No | No | No | No | - | No | Yes |
Width | - | 3.5 inches | (Base) 2 inches | - | 0.83 inches | 5.12 inches | - | - |
Charging Time | - | 90 minutes | 240 minutes | 120 minutes | 60 minutes | 240 minutes | 60 minutes | 90 minutes |
Clitoral suction | - | - | 11 modes | - | - | - | - | - |
Thrust Modes | - | - | - | 7, plus more with app | - | - | - | - |
Weight | - | - | - | - | - | 2.43 lbs | - | - |
Openings | - | - | - | - | - | Vulva | - | - |
Best Long Distance Sex Toys for Couples (Interactive)
- Lond distance remote control where you are given the controls over your partner’s toy (or the other way around).
- Dual control allows you to control both toys at the same time using your phone. up your toys. In this mode, you’ll be able to control both your and your partner’s toys at the same time.
- Sync/interactive mode allows you to control the functions of your partner’s toy through your toy’s movements alone.
Lovense Nora
Lovense Max 2
Which is the Best App?
It seems like every sex toy company has jumped on the app bandwagon with varying levels of success! I’ve had some great experiences and some incredibly frustrating ones — tech problems aren’t the kind of teasing I enjoy! The number one most important thing for great long-distance experience is a reliable connection. I would say an easy to use app comes in second place for me and then range of features.
Lovense
The Lovense App is the overall best app on the market right now. Of all of the apps I have tried, it’s the easiest to set up, has the most reliable connectivity, and the best range of features.
I also feel like Lovense are always adding innovative new ways to control their toys, including gamified experiences, the option for handing over control anonymously, group play and even Dom/sub set ups!
We-Vibe App
The new version of the We-Vibe app is a huge improvement on their original app which was pretty unreliable and didn’t always recognise the toy. The new app has much better connectivity and it’s much easier to connect the toys.
It has fewer features than Lovense and focusses more on customisation and long-distance control.
Kiiroo App/ Feel Connect
I’ve had mixed experiences with the app, both with my own toys and my partners. We were able to get the app and toy set up relatively easily and could control each other’s toys no problem. However, we could not make the interactive features, where the toy’s movements interact, work. We also struggled to get to the video call function to work while controlling each other’s toys so it ended up being quite a frustrating process.
My partner had much more success connecting his Kiiroo to online content, but did note that it didn’t work great with free videos so you will likely end up needing to pay for premium content.
Satisfyer App
For toys in a lower price bracket, the Satisfyer App is pretty decent, although some people do experience disconnection problems.
It also doesn’t have quite as many fun features as other apps.
How can long-distance sex toys benefit your sex life?
Sex tech can sound incredibly impressive and exciting but the important thing is that it enhances your sex life! Here are some of the benefits of having a long-distance sex toy.
Greater intimacy in long-distance relationships
If you’ve ever spent any time away from your partner, you know how frustrating it can be when you just want to rip each other’s clothes off and get down to it. Sure sexting and masturbating is a fine option but it definitely lacks excitement and intimacy. Long-distance sex toys allow you and your partner to stimulate each other for more connected long-distance sex. You also get to experience more intense, exciting stimulation than using your own hands!
Safer sex when dating
You don’t have to be in a relationship to use long-distance sex toys! They can also be a great way to enjoy safe sex when dating online.
Sync with VR porn and audio erotica
Many long-distance sex toys can sync to your favorite adult entertainment so you get a fully immersive masturbation experience! If this interests you, make sure to check your chosen toy has this feature as not all long-distance toys do.
Greater customisation
The majority of long-distance sex toys offer a lot of in-app customisations, from greater control over power levels to endless pattern options.
Fun in-app features
A lot also have other in-app features such as setting your vibrations to music, sounds, or even using your sex toy as an alarm clock. Again the available features vary by brand and product.
Enjoy public play
Being able to control your sex toy via an app also means you can discreetly control it while you are out and about! This only applies to wearable sex toys.
Power play
Long-distance sex toys are a great tool for power play. Whether your partner is in the room with your or the other side of the world, they can be in total control of your sex toy and whether or not you get to orgasm!
Reviewed by:
Kasia Halinowska