8 Best Long Distance Sex Toys

Why I Chose It

The original Lovense Lush kick-started the app-controlled sex toy revolution and it’s latest version, the Lush 3 has managed to remain the best long-distance sex toy! I tested the Lush 2 and it’s still my go to for wearing for discreet play with my partner in control of the vibrations. My fellow Bedbible sex toy expert, Kasia, tested the Lush 3 and agrees that this is the by far the best long-distance vibrator!

She “had a blast using it” and was impressed by it’s “powerful, super quiet, and extra discreet” vibrations. She was also a big fan of the egg shaped design as it was “very comfortable to wear and walk around with it inside.” Having worn the Lush on a 30 minute walk (for research purposes, of course), I can fully back this up! Kasia was a bit disappointed that the vibrations didn’t travel as well into the tail so clitoral stimulation was minimal, but adding some finger play using the tail felt great!

It’s also one of the quietest long-distance vibrators, reaching a maximum of around 43 decibels, which is definitely quiet enough to use anywhere with a bit of background noise.

Another big reason I chose the Lush 3 as the test winner is the app control! The Lovense Remote is hands-down the best sex toy app I’ve ever tried and the one I will recommend to friends time and time again! I’ve never had any issues connecting my toy to the app, it’s stays connected well and generally reconnects by itself, so even if it drops out, it doesn’t interfere too much with the proceedings.

Why I Chose It

I know that most long-distance sex toys are well over $100 but there are few gems, like the Svakom Erica that can be purchased for around $50! You really get a lot for your money with this one — a decent app and two vibrating motors!

Kasia tested it out for us and had a lot of good things to say! She “loved how smooth the silicone feels and how flexible the shaft is.” She found the shaft delivered “a nice G-spot massage” but the base was a bit too short to sit comfortably against her clitoris in many positions.

In terms of vibrations, they were “more buzzy than what [she is] used to” but she appreciate that “they are powerful and quiet,” so I can see this being great when you need to be discreet! Kasia also found the Erica comfortable to wear and it stayed in place well when she moved around.

For a much cheaper long distance vibrator, I was also impressed by Kasia experience using the app. She wrote that “the app control works great” and it “added a lot of fun to [her] experience.”

Why I Chose It

“The new Satisfyer Pro 2 Generation 3 hits all of the marks for me, and has given me some absolutely spectacular orgasms!”
That’s high praise from our reviewer and fellow Bedbible sex toy expert, Rachel, who isn’t usually a clit sucker fan! She absolutely loved the newest version of the iconic Satisfyer!

I chose this as the best long-distance sex toy for beginners because it’s easy to use and focusses on external stimulation, which can be less intimidating. It’s also got a few different types of stimulation, so it gives you more to explore.

Rachel loved the Liquid Air Technology as the silicone cover created the “closest sensations to oral sex” that she’s experienced in a sex toy! She described it as being “like a soft, fluttering tongue that you can tease your clitoris with or press down for satisfyingly firm pressure!” 

The vibrations aren’t particularly strong and Rachel found them “pretty buzzy,” but if you are new to sex toys, you probably don’t want anything too powerful!

The app is also very beginner-friendly! Rachel found it “very easy to connect the toy to the Satisfyer Connect app” and she “didn’t experience the toy disconnecting at all.” 

The only real downside I can see with this long-distance sex toy is that it’s not wearable or hands-free so you can’t use it for public play!

Why I Chose It

I really wanted to include the Lovense Gravity, as not only does it offer some really great stimulation (hands-free thrusting, yes please!), but also the suction cup allows for totally hands-free use, which opens up some really fun video sex possibilities!

Flora tested it out for us and described it as a “mechanical marvel” that “outperforms any mortal companion!” She was so impressed by its “thrusting power and satisfying vibrations,” she wrote she’s “sure to please the proud pillow princess and performer alike.” 

The app was also a big hit! She loved that it made the Gravity into her own “personal creative tool” with all the fun ways to use it! She particularly like that the “long-distance control and voice feedback, allowed for deeply intimate sessions.” I also think having both the thrusting and vibrating to control offers a bit more fun for the partner in the driving seat.

Aside from all of the amazing app capabilities and powerful stimulation, one of the main reasons the Gravity is great for long-distance play is the suction cup, which Flora describes as having “unbudgeable force.” In my experience, having a hands-free toy with a big visual impact, like this one, makes long-distance sex video calls a lot more fun!

Why I Chose It

The Lovense Ferri is one of the best long-distance sex toys for anyone who prefers clitoral stimulation. It’s also one of the best for public play, given how quiet the vibrations are.

Jen tested it out and really liked that the design allowed her to use it in a strap-on harness. Overall, she was impressed with it, writing that “is of high quality- feels luxurious, never malfunctions, and the battery lasts long”

She was also impressed with the app: “For masturbation, the app adds an interesting layer. There are many vibration patterns to try out”. The Ferri stays put pretty well with moderate movement such as walking or sitting, but Jen found it moved around a bit when wearing it in a strap-on harness during sex.

The only issue with the Ferri, and most panty vibrators in my experience, is that once you stand up and gravity is at play, there is a lack of pressure against the clitoris. This also means you don’t get the full impact of the vibration power. I’ve found wearing some tight-fitting underwear helps!

Why I Chose It

The Kiiroo Keon was an obvious as the best long-distance masturbator because it’s the most advanced automatic masturbator out there with the widest variety of features! I like that the thrusting allows you to recreate the sensation of sex with a partner no matter how far apart you are!

In his review, our tester, Josh, wrote that the Keon “looks great, it’s effective, and it’s an all-round premium toy that gets the job done.” He was particularly impressed by the quality of the stroker, writing that it’s “fantastic quality, made of a soft and fleshy silicone that feels life-like and textured.”

Out of all the interactive masturbators, I feel like the Keon has some of the best interactive features, from syncing to online content to connecting to other Kiiroo toys. Josh like that despite all of the features, “the controls for the power, mode, speed, and stroke length of the Keon are all simple and intuitive, and with a little fiddling and trial and error, you can find something that will really rock your world.”

Josh did mention that the Keon “might be a little too big and bulky for some people’s liking” but he also found  “something undeniably satisfying about holding the toy by its ‘hips’ as it bounces up and down.” We actually have a Keon here in the Bedbible office, and agree that it’s not a small toy but that’s a sacrifice I’d be willing to make for overall experience.

Why I Chose It

The Lovense Hush 2 is the both the best long-distance butt plug and it even won the top spot in our best vibrating butt plug review. It’s simply a really well-made and powerful vibrating butt plug that features the best app control on the market.

Our tester, Flora, really enjoyed the “powerful, rumbly vibrations” and even called it a “a truly transcendent experience.” Design-wise, she pointed out that “The ergonomic design was comfortable to wear, even during long sessions”. She also poined out that “”Hush” is an appropriate name to convey the discretion”, making it an ideal choice for some discreet public play.

Flora described the Lovense Remote App as the true “star of the show that transformed the butt plug into “an interactive masterpiece.” Another glowing review of the Lovense App!

The other thing I really like about the Hush is that it comes in four different sizes so there’s a Hush for every level of experience! Jesse reviewed the Hush 2 Large and wrote: “This toy really impressed me. Not only in the good quality and well thought design, but in its vibration capabilities, and its app capabilities.”

Why I Chose It

I wanted to include a more traditional long-distance vibrator, as although it’s not wearable, it’s great for when you want to recreate the sensation of penetrative sex with your long-distance lover! The Rave 2 just goes above and beyond the competition with it’s dual motors that distribute the vibrations, ensuring maximum stimulation throughout the toy.

Our tester, Mariah crowned it her “favorite for g-spot stimulation”. She found that “The ability to bend the neck of this toy to fit your anatomy, as well as the dual-controlled motors (one for g-spot stimulation and one for stimulating the vaginal opening) is a complete game changer.” 

As a sex toy expert, I love it when companies allow for different bodies within the design as We-Vibe have done with this posable vibrator! Mariah discovered this was great for “deep G-spot stimulation” and noted “if you’ve ever wanted to squirt, this is the toy to start with!”