Wet For Her RockHer — Test & Review

Personal Experience

Scissoring Experience

Other Positions

Use as a Solo Vibe

Design

The silicone is soft and feels high quality and durable. The bulb is a good size for a feeling of fullness and keeping the toy in place, while also being easy to insert. The loop is sturdy enough to mostly stay in place around the clitoris and flexible enough for the angle between the loop and bulb to fit a range of body shapes and sizes. Inserting the loop and using it with the bulb outside is slightly more challenging and required a few tries to figure out how to get it in and keep it in place. It does not stay firmly in this position with any kind of vigorous motion.

Ease of Use

The RockHer turns on and changes settings with a single push of the button on the toy or the remote control. It turns off with a long press on either button as well. The button on the remote control is much larger than the one on the toy, and may be preferable for folks with grip and mobility issues. It does not have up and down buttons, so you need to either cycle through all 10 settings or turn it off and back on in order to get to the beginning. Some up and down buttons on the remote control would be a nice addition. It is truly hands-free once inserted, which may be helpful if you have trouble holding something in place or reaching between your legs. It can take some time to figure out how to put it exactly in the right place for your body and also to find positions that work for you and your partner.

Quality

The RockHer itself feels solid, durable, and high quality. The silicone is soft with nice texture and firmness. The remote is plastic and the button press is a little clunky, so that part of the toy feels a little cheaper. It is on the quieter side of vibrating toys even on its highest setting, but the vibrations are also only medium powerful.

Price

If you love scissoring and enjoy buzzy vibration, this toy would 100% be worth adding to your collection and may become a favorite. The price is decent for a silicone couples' vibrator and even if you don't use it for scissoring, it's a good choice to consider for an insertable hands free vibe.

Performance

Because scissoring doesn’t really work for my partner and me, I can’t speak to if this toy is a mind blowing addition to your scissoring game. It definitely holds up to its promises in terms of versatility and fitting a wide range of bodies. It claims to be a high powered vibrator, but at its highest setting I would rate it as medium strength. A charge only lasts about an hour and it needs about an hour to recharge, so definitely plan accordingly. I enjoy the labia spreading of the loop. Know that it spreads the inner labia more than the outer labia and will definitely function differently on different labia shapes and sizes.

Packaging

The design of the packaging was pleasing and fun to open. The white charging cord looks good with the light purple silicone. Wet for Her threw in a postcard with a discount code that was cute, cheeky, and color coordinated with the vibrator. The instructions on the box were minimal and there's no manual included, but the videos and instructions on the Wet for Her website are helpful and thorough.

Materials and care

The RockHer is covered in 100% medical grade, body-safe silicone. It is water resistant for cleaning and use in the shower, but should not be submerged as there is a small hole for the charging cable. It should be used with water-based lube and cleaned with soap and water or a sex toy cleaner. It should never be boiled or cleaned in a dishwasher.

Special feature

A special feature of the RockHer is its remote, which lets you change the setting once inserted.  It also lets you turn it off as soon as you are finished, so if you are someone who gets sensitive quickly and you don’t want to have to reach down and pull the toy out immediately, having the remote nearby is a huge plus. Also, as far as I can tell, this is the only couples’ vibrator on the market made specifically for scissoring. Wet for Her is an incredible sex toy company that brands itself as selling lesbian sex toys made and designed by lesbians, filling an important niche in the sex toy market. I have other Wet for Her toys in my collection and they tend to be some of my favorites. Although Wet for Her uses the words lesbians and women frequently in its marketing, it also talks about the toys being for the LBTQ+ community (yes, omission of the G is intentional) and has a section called “transgender gear” on its site.  It’s important to note that some transmasc and non-binary folks, who may enjoy many of its toys, may find the branding and marketing somewhat dysphoric, including the name and color of the RockHer.