The 7 Best Anal Toys for Beginners
I remember the combination of fear and excitement that comes with getting your first anal toy! Based on my personal experience and expert knowledge and the reviews written by our testers, I’ve selected the very best anal toys for beginners, including butt plugs, anal beads, and anal dildos.
Test Winner | Expert Pick | Budget Friendly | Best Vibrating Anal Toy | Best Anal Dildo | Best Anal Beads | Best Training Kit |
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Icicles No. 48 | b-Vibe Novice | Rear Assets Rainbow Plug | Romp Bass | Tantus Silk | Fifty Shades Anal Beads | b-Vibe Anal Training |
$22Shop Now | $130Shop Now | $11Shop Now | $30Shop Now | $43Shop Now | $20Shop Now | $160Shop Now |
Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons | Pros & Cons |
How We Test anal toys for beginners
We’re a team of 342 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.
To find the very best anal toys for beginners, our testers tried and reviewed 139 different products in this category.
Bad or even just mediocre anal toys for beginners didn’t make the list!
In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1267 toys over the past 6 years.
We even lab-tested some to get objective data.
Read more about how we test products.Table of contents (11)
Test Winner Icicles No. 48 Glass Butt Plug
- Strong, safe Borosilicate glass
- Slim, slightly bulbed plug
- Daisy base
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Cute and non-intimidating design
- ✅ Super smooth
- ✅ Tapered tip for easy insertion
- ✅ Can be warmed or cooled before use
Cons
- ❌ Can get slippery when lube up
- ❌ Cutesy design won't suit all tastes
Why I Chose It
Having tried every (body-safe) butt plug material there is, I knew I wanted to choose a glass or metal plug as the overall test winner. Choosing such a rigid material instead of a softer silicone might seem like an odd choice, but there is method to my madness! Glass slides so much more smoothly than silicone and the rigidity actually makes it easier to insert! And don’t worry, borosilicate glass is extra strong and can even be boiled for a deep clean!
I chose the Icicles no. 48 because it is slim and non-intimidating and our tester, Kasia gave it a glowing review! She loved the that the “glass material looks so luxurious and classy” and the “unusual and unique” daisy design on the base.
She was also a fan of how the glass butt plug felt in use, commenting that it “is quite small and easy to insert” and she “found it comfortable to wear, even during sex.”
The main downside to this material is that “the glass gets very slippery when used with lube,” which can make it a little tricky to handle.
Expert Pick b-Vibe Novice Plug
- Slim, vibrating butt plug
- Remote control
- Anal play guidebook
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Easy to insert and comfortable to wear
- ✅ Powerful but quiet vibrations
- ✅ Easy to change settings with remote
- ✅ Guide is helpful if you are nervous
Cons
- ❌ Charger connection a little weak
- ❌ On/off needs double click
- ❌ Pricey
Why I Chose It
I don’t think it gets much better than the b-Vibe Novice Plug when it comes to beginners butt plugs. That being said, I know that not every beginner wants to spend so much on something they don’t know if they’ll enjoy or not, which the main reason I didn’t choose this as the test winner.
That being said, this plug has a lot to offer and it really is a top-quality product, which is why I included it! I have tried a few b-Vibe products and am consistently impressed by their designs and vibration quality.
Our tester, Jess, “absolutely LOVED the B-Vibe Novice butt plug,” commenting that it “is by far the most comfortable plug” she’s ever worn!
I think the “tapered design that is roughly the size of a finger” is the ideal shape and size for anyone feeling a bit nervous about a more bulbous plug.
Jess also enjoyed that added vibrations which she described as “small but mighty” but also likes that it feels great with or without the vibrations, making it more versatile.
As a sex toy expert, I am always happy to see a remote control with anal toys as it can be super fiddly to change the settings while wearing the plug otherwise!
The last thing I really love is that the plug comes with an anal play guidebook full of helpful info that I would have loved to have when I first started my anal journey!
Budget Friendly Rear Assets Rainbow Butt Plug
- Bulbed tip
- Rainbow aluminium
- Heart shaped base
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Smooth metal is easy to insert
- ✅ Slim neck is comfortable
- ✅ Easy to clean
- ✅ Cute design with gem in base
Cons
- ❌ Can feel cold at first
Why I Chose It
Metal is another sex toy material I highly recommend for anal toy beginners, because of its smooth, gliding surface, and doesn’t get any less intimidating than a rainbow butt plug with a heart-shaped base, in my opinion!
Our tester, Naomi, was unsure of using a metal butt plug at first but was pleasantly surprised that “with a little lube, insertion was easy and comfortable”
She “loved the rainbow color scheme and the cute heart gem” and being able to heat it or cool before use for a wider variety of sensations.
Although she found it a little on the small side for her tastes, she “would recommend this for people curious about trying anal play for the first time.”
Best Vibrating Anal Toy Romp Bass Vibrating Butt Plug
- Slim tapered design
- 10 vibration settings
- T-bar base
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Incredibly powerful vibrations
- ✅ Good quality materials and construction
- ✅ Waterproof
- ✅ Usable in public
Cons
- ❌ No remote controls
- ❌ Poor quality charger
- ❌ No storage container
Why I Chose It
“This thing made me glimpse God.”
It’s safe to say that our tester, Paden, was pleasantly surprised by the Romp Bass, even though he’s not usually into butt plugs! He found it was the closest he had been able to get having a prostate orgasm so far.
He loved the the powerful vibrations, commenting that you can “feel the vibrations from this thing in your entire lower half of your body.” The “lower settings give you a more rumbly type of vibration” which he enjoyed in combination with a rocking motion, before exploring the higher power settings.
I think this great range of intensities is perfect for a beginners anal toy, as you can slowly work up to more powerful stimulation as you get used to the sensations.
Plus, at just 1.2 inches in diameter, this vibrating butt plug is still small enough to be very approachable and it has a lovely taper for easy insertion!
Best Anal Dildo Tantus Silk Dildo
- Smooth silicone dildo
- Flared base
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Easy to insert
- ✅ Slim shaft
- ✅ Harness compatible
Cons
- ❌ No suction cup
Why I Chose It
I’ve always found that textures feel a lot more intense when using a toy anally because the anus is much tighter, which is why I think the Tantus Silk is by far the best anal dildo for beginners! It’s so smooth, meaning there will be little resistance when sliding it in.
Our tester, Kasia, found that the “the size was too small” and she “didn’t feel a ton of stimulation” when using it vaginally but was happy to have it as an “anal play buddy.” She also pointed out that it would make a great pegging dildo as it’s harness compatible.
In my experience, it’s much better to have a firmer dildo for anal play, otherwise it can be difficult to insert, which is another reason I chose the Tantus Silk.
For me, the simplicity and quality of the Tantus Silk makes it a real winner! And at just 1.1 inches in diameter it’s a super accessible size.
Best Anal Beads Fifty Shades Pleasure Intensified Anal Beads
- Chain of 6 oval beads
- Graduating size
- Loop handle
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Long chains
- ✅ Allows you to warm up
- ✅ Nice and flexible
- ✅ Easy to clean
Cons
- ❌ Can be difficult to insert first bead
- ❌ Not a huge amount of sensation
Why I Chose It
“I am glad that I chose the Fifty Shades of Grey Pleasure Intensified Anal Beads for my first journey into the world of anal beads. They really are perfect for any anal beginners who are curious about trying anal beads.”
Our tester, Cassie, felt these anal beads were the perfect first time anal beads for her and I couldn’t agree more that these are perfect for beginners!
Cassie really liked that the “graduating sizes, slim body, tapered shapes, and the over flexibility” made these anal beads very beginner-friendly. The downside of that is that “The first few beads are really small and bendy” which she found made them tricky to insert.
While she didn’t find the beads alone super stimulating, she did “enjoy the sensation as a part of some warm-up or combined with other kinds of stimulation on other body parts.”
Best Training Kit b-Vibe Anal Training Kit
- Small non-vibrating butt plug
- Medium vibrating butt plug
- Large weighted butt plug
- Anal accessories: lube applicator, anal douche, and storage bag
Vibrations
Specifications
Pros
- ✅ Helpful anal play guide
- ✅ Great range of sizes in butt plugs
- ✅ Quality materials and vibrations
- ✅ Gender neutral design
Cons
- ❌ Pricey
Why I Chose It
As I mentioned earlier, I’m a huge fan of b-Vibe’s anal toys and think they’ve really mastered their niche! I really love the how thoughtful this anal training kit it is and think it’s fantastic for anyone looking to explore anal training.
Our reviewer, Aaron, was impressed with all the kit has to offer. He found the smallest plug very approachable as “the end is only slightly bigger around than a finger” and the larger plug more satisfying size-wise. His favorite was the middle plug as he really enjoyed the variation and intensity of sensations, commenting that, to his surprise, the vibrations just kept “ramping up the intensity.”
Alongside the plugs, he was impressed by the anal play guidebook that was “very thorough, and full of valuable information.” He was surprised to find things he’d never heard before, including “tips to control breathing during anal play.” I love to see sex toy companies taking safety and education so seriously!
The only bit of the set that didn’t excite Aaron was the lube applicator, which he found a little unnecessary, but I would say this a small critique for an otherwise fantastic set!
Comparison
Best | Test Winner | Expert Pick | Budget Friendly | Best Vibrating Anal Toy | Best Anal Dildo | Best Anal Beads | Best Training Kit |
Overall score | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 | 4.4 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 4.8 / 5.0 |
Bedbible rating | 5.0 / 5.0 | 4.6 / 5.0 | 4.0 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.5 / 5.0 | 4.7 / 5.0 | 5.0 / 5.0 |
User rating | 4.9 / 5.0 from 112 users | 4.9 / 5.0 from 9 users | 4.8 / 5.0 from 31 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 85 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 36 users | 4.6 / 5.0 from 69 users | 4.7 / 5.0 from 17 users |
Price | Affordable | Premium | Cheap | Cheap | Affordable | Cheap | Premium |
Design | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 80 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Ease of use | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Quality | 100 / 100 | 95 / 100 | 99 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 90 / 100 | 100 / 100 | 100 / 100 |
Sound | - | 20 / 100 | - | 20 / 100 | - | - | 60 / 100 |
Power | - | 80 / 100 | - | 80 / 100 | - | - | 60 / 100 |
Buzzy/Rumbly | - | somewhat rumbly | - | somewhat rumbly | - | - | neither really buzzy nor rumbly |
Materials | Borosilicate glass | Silicone | Aluminum | Silicone | Ultra-Premium Silicone | Silicone | Silicone, ABS Plastic |
Length | 3.5 inches | 4 inches | 3.5 inches | 4 inches | 5.75 inches | 10 inches | Plug 1: 3.9 inches, Plug 2: 5.3 inches, Plug 3: 5.4 inches |
Insertable length | 3 inches | 3.35 inches | 2 inches | 3.5 inches | 5.25 inches | 7.5 inches | Plug 1: 3.4 inches, Plug 2: 4.4 inches, Plug 3: 4.8 inches |
Diameter | 1.25 inches | 1 inches | 1 inches | 1.2 inches | 1.1 inches | Largest bead: 0.9 inches | Plug 1: 1 inch, Plug 2: 1.3 inches, Plug 3: 1.6 inches |
Waterproof | Yes | Splashproof | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes | Yes |
Storage Bag Included | No | Yes | Yes | No | No | Yes | Yes |
Vibration speeds | - | 6 | - | 6 | - | - | 1 |
Vibration patterns | - | 15 | - | 4 | - | - | 6 |
Battery Life | - | At least 60 minutes | - | 60-120 minutes | - | - | At least 75 minutes |
Rechargeable | - | Yes | - | Yes | - | - | Yes |
Charging Time | - | 120 minutes | - | 60-90 minutes | - | - | 120 minutes |
Remote Controls | - | Yes | - | No | - | - | No |
Travel Lock | - | Yes | - | No | - | - | No |
Colors Available | - | Pink, Black | Rainbow | Blue/Yellow | Black, Purple | - | Blue, Black |
Anal Toys for Beginners: A Buying Guide
Which Type of Anal Toy is Right for You?
- Butt plugs provide a feeling of fullness and pressure, and don’t need to be moved or manipulated once inserted, making them perfect for wearing during sex.
- Anal beads tend to be slimmer provide more stimulation to the anus as the beads are inserted and removed.
- Beginner anal dildos provide a similar sensation to anal sex.
Other Considerations:
- Size: Beginners anal toys should be around 1-1.25 inches in diameter or less, unless you have already experienced anal sex with a penis, in which case, you might want something slightly thicker.
- Materials: Always opt for silicone, glass, or metal (aluminium or stainless steel) anal toys as they are body safe! Silicone is less intimidating but glass and metal can actually be easier to insert as they are very smooth.
- Anal safe design: Any toy you insert into your anus should have a wide, flared base to prevent the toy from being fully inserted as this can be very dangerous.
Anal Essentials for a Pleasurable First Time
Even though it can be very exciting, it’s also totally normal to feel a little nervous about trying anal play for the first time. I’ve put together my favorite items that I use for pain-free, mess-free anal.
ID Glide Water-Based Lubricant
I’ve found that a good thick water-based lubricant is best for anal play as it provides both slip and cushioning, making everything slide much more easily and reducing the risk of friction or tears.
This water-based lubricant from ID is one of the thickest water-based lubes we’ve tested at Bedbible, and we’ve tested a lot of lubes!
I recommend a water-based lube because it can be used with all kinds of sex toy materials, unlike a silicone lube that can only be used with metal or glass.
The Aneros Prelude Enema Bulb Kit
Although it’s not necessary to douche before anal play, you might find it puts your mind at ease about any potential mess.
If you want to use a douche, I recommend doing it an hour or two before to allow all the water to come out.
The thing I love about the Aneros Prelude Douche is that it has a one-way valve so nothing can flow back into the bulb.
It also has a slow-flow nozzle for a gentle cleansing experience!
Liberator Fascinator Throw
I love using my Liberator Fascinator Throw for anal play. As you can see, it covers the whole of my bed and protects my sheets from lube or any other mess that might happen.
Most of all it gives me peace of mind and lets me relax and enjoy the experience more!
I also love that if an anal toy falls out or I take it out, it doesn’t go on my sheets.
And when all the fun is done, I can just throw it in the washing machine.
Reviewed by:
Kasia Halinowska