5 Best Bondage Kits

Isabelle Uren
by Isabelle UrenUpdated:

If I were to start my bondage collection from scratch, I’d definitely go for a bondage kit to get it off to a good start! I’ve picked out the very best bondage kits tested by the Bedbible team. As well as looking at the scores given by our reviewers, I looked for kits that provide quality, versatility and bang for you buck!

Test Winner

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Victoria Jennings

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 11 user reviews

Best for Beginners

4.7Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Jason Bragdon

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 35 user reviews

Budget-Friendly

4.4Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Moe Lawn

User Ratings:

4.3/5

Based on 761 user reviews

More Advanced

4.1Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.1/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Jesse Roberts

User Ratings:

4.2/5

Based on 10 user reviews

Best Bed Restraint Kit

4.8Bedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 110 user reviews

Sensation Play Bondage KitBind Date Bondage KitSportsheets Beginner's BondageAll You Need And More Bondage KitSportsheets Bed Restraint System
Sensation Play Bondage KitBind Date Bondage KitSportsheets Beginner's BondageAll You Need And More Bondage KitSportsheets Bed Restraint System
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Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
Pros & Cons
  • Great range of items
  • Items work well together
  • Not too intimidating
  • Gender neutral
  • Butt plug is on the small side
  • Restraints not that secure
  • Great value
  • Very beginner friendly
  • Dice and cards provide inspiration
  • Not for more advanced users
  • Bed restraints a little difficult to set up
  • Silky ties not that secure
  • Cheap
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Great for travel
  • Not very strong
  • Basic design
  • Only restraints
  • A lot to explore
  • Restraints lined with soft fabric
  • Toys are made of silicone
  • Buckle fastening more secure than velcro
  • Cock ring on the small side
  • Dildo is quite simple/basic
  • Spanking paddle could be bigger
  • Retractable connectors jam easily
  • Easy to put up
  • Four point restraint
  • Adjusts to all bed sizes
  • Velcro restraints are quick to put on
  • Cuffs can be used separately
  • Not the strongest/most secure restraint
  • Might not fit plus-size bodies

How We Test Bondage Kits

We’re a team of 362 sex toy testers and 13 sex toy experts.

To find the very best Bondage Kits, our testers tried and reviewed 268 different products in this category.

Bad or even just mediocre Bondage Kits didn’t make the list!

In total, we’ve thoroughly tested and reviewed 1404 toys over the past 6 years.

We even lab-tested some to get objective data.

Read more about how we test products.
How we Tested the Best Bondage Kits

Test Winner Lovehoney Sensation Play Bondage Kit

4.7/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Victoria Jennings

User Ratings:

4.5/5

Based on 11 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovehoney Sensation Play Bondage Kit was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Bondage Kit.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovehoney Sensation Play Bondage Kit was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovehoney Sensation Play Bondage Kit was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Restraints: 2 x satin ankle/wrist ties
  • Sensation play: BDSM candle, pinwheel, 2 in 1 tickler/flogger, blindfold
  • Toys: Nipple suckers & small metal butt plug with jewel base

Pros

  • Great range of items
  • Items work well together
  • Not too intimidating
  • Gender neutral

Cons

  • Butt plug is on the small side
  • Restraints not that secure

Specifications

Why I Chose It

The sensation play kit stood out as the overall best bondage kit for it’s versatility and quality. I love that you get a range of sensation play tools, restraints and sex toys in one package. It’s like a glorious pick and mix of pleasure!

Vicki tested it out for us and was also impressed “this kit delivers endless fun and versatility” that allowed her and her partner to enjoy “a symphony of different sensations.”

She liked that “You don’t have to use all the toys at once—though you definitely can if the mood calls for it,” and found that they worked really well together.

Although the restraints aren’t the most secure and won’t stand up to more intense play, they “have a soft, silky feeling that’s super comfortable on the skin.”

Vicki “especially enjoyed exploring candle play,” writing  The warm wax added a whole new layer to our experience, introducing a mix of sensations that ranged from a slight sting to a quick burst of pleasurable heat.

While the restraints and butt plug are both beginner-friendly, I would say the candle is a little more advanced. I does mean you have a kit that can grow with you though!

Best for Beginners Lovehoney Bind Date Bondage Kit

4.7/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.7/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.7/5

Reviewed by: 

Jason Bragdon

User Ratings:

4.7/5

Based on 35 user reviews

90/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovehoney Bind Date Bondage Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Bondage Kit.

68/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovehoney Bind Date Bondage Kit was rated 68 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

80/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovehoney Bind Date Bondage Kit was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very good quality.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • Restraints: 4 x silky restraints for ankles & wrists, under mattress strap system
  • Sensation play: feather tickler, blindfold, bullet vibrator
  • Games: Kama Sutra playing cards & sex dice

Pros

  • Great value
  • Very beginner friendly
  • Dice and cards provide inspiration

Cons

  • Not for more advanced users
  • Bed restraints a little difficult to set up
  • Silky ties not that secure

Vibrations

SoundSound rating

Rating: Lovehoney Bind Date Bondage Kit was rated 3 out of 5, which means it is fairly quiet.

What it is: The sound rating provides a visual representation of how loud the vibrations of Lovehoney Bind Date Bondage Kit felt to the reviewer.

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PowerSound rating

Rating: Lovehoney Bind Date Bondage Kit was rated 4 out of 5, which means it is very powerful.

What it is: The power rating describes how fast and strong the vibrations of Lovehoney Bind Date Bondage Kit felt to the reviewer.

Sound ratingSound ratingSound ratingSound ratingPower rating
BuzzyBuzzy
What it is: Buzzy vibrators have a high frequency that stimulates the surface (like a high pitch).
RumblyRumbly
What it is: Rumbly vibrators have low-frequency vibrations that stimulate deeper into the tissue (like the bass in music).

Specifications

Why I Chose It

This kit was tested by Jason and his partner who describe themselves as a ““vanilla” couple” who are “complete noobs when it comes to BDSM.” They loved it, “It was definitely an experiment but one we both enjoyed.” This is exactly why it scored the best for beginners spot in this review! I think it makes for a fun, sensual, and non-intimidating entry to the world of BDSM.

They both thought the Bind Date Bondage kit was “a great way to introduce you and your partner to the world of BDSM.” The kit also does a nice job of showing that “BDSM doesn’t necessarily mean pain.”

It also delivers “a lot of BANG for the buck,” while still being good quality, and Jason thought that “all the items felt premium.” 

He did mention that he felt the Kama Sutra cards and sex dice were the “odd balls” but I can see this being great prompts for when you need some fresh ideas!

Budget-Friendly Sportsheets Beginner's Bondage Fantasy Kit

4.4/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.4/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.5/5

Reviewed by: 

Moe Lawn

User Ratings:

4.3/5

Based on 761 user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Beginner's Bondage Fantasy Kit was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Bondage Kit.

95/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Beginner's Bondage Fantasy Kit was rated 95 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Beginner's Bondage Fantasy Kit was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

Lovehoney
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A Closer Look
  • Velcro wrist and ankle cuffs for tying to furniture
  • Eye mask

Pros

  • Cheap
  • Beginner-friendly
  • Comfortable to wear
  • Great for travel

Cons

  • Not very strong
  • Basic design
  • Only restraints

Specifications

Why I Chose It

Our tester, Mo, describes this bondage kit from Sportsheets as “a fun introduction to light bondage” and I couldn’t agree more! It’s a pretty basic set but it’s a great way to try out bondage at a low price point.

He liked that this kit can “add a little bit of spice to the bedroom without pushing the limits of comfort.” As well as being a great cheaper option, I would also recommend this to beginners looking to try out bondage before dropping cash on something more expensive.

Mo particularly like that the blindfold. For him, the “inability to anticipate where [his wife] was going next made each touch sizzle.” Combined with the restriction of the restraints, this simple set has the potential to create some pretty exciting scenarios.

The cuffs “are functional, comfortable, and close with simple hook-and-loop,” which is less intimidating than a buckle fastening and very quick and easy to use.

I think Mo sums up the quality of this kit really well: “I wouldn’t expect this kit to be around for years but that’s not to say it’s cheaply made.” While it’s not the most robust or versatile kit out there, it works well and has a very reasonable price!

 

More Advanced Lovehoney All You Need And More Bondage Kit

4.1/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.1/5

Bedbible Rating:

4/5

Reviewed by: 

Jesse Roberts

User Ratings:

4.2/5

Based on 10 user reviews

80/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Lovehoney All You Need And More Bondage Kit was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is designed very well.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Bondage Kit.

80/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Lovehoney All You Need And More Bondage Kit was rated 80 out of 100, which means it is very easy to figure out and use.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

85/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Lovehoney All You Need And More Bondage Kit was rated 85 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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A Closer Look
  • 10-function bullet vibrator
  • Faux leather buckle-fastening wrist and ankle restraints, paddle, and eye mask
  • Silicone dildo, nipple suckers, & cockring (compatible with vibe)

Pros

  • A lot to explore
  • Restraints lined with soft fabric
  • Toys are made of silicone
  • Buckle fastening more secure than velcro

Cons

  • Cock ring on the small side
  • Dildo is quite simple/basic
  • Spanking paddle could be bigger
  • Retractable connectors jam easily

Specifications

Why I Chose It

Many bondage kits are aimed at BDSM newbies, but I wanted to include a kit geared to those with a little more experience who want a more intense bondage experience! Enter the Lovehoney All You Need and More Bondage Kit!

Our reviewer, Jesse, is more experienced with bondage and “was pleasantly surprised overall with this collection of bondage toys .” He like that the faux leather restraints are “soft and sexy in both feel and appearance.” The buckle fastening also makes them more secure than velcro. Unfortunately, the chains that came attached to them were a little weak and “the linking clip mechanisms were very poor functioning.” 

He was “very impressed” by the bullet vibrator, writing that it has a “fantastic amount of settings and vibrations.” I also think it’s great that it can be used inside the silicone dildo or cock ring for some added vibrations.

Overall, I think the versatility and slightly higher quality of this kit makes ideal for stepping things up from beginner bondage kit!

Best Bed Restraint Kit Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

4.8/5
Overall RatingBedbible Rating

Overall Rating

4.8/5

Bedbible Rating:

4.8/5

Reviewed by: 

Isabelle Uren

User Ratings:

4.8/5

Based on 110 user reviews

100/100
DesignBeginner

Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is designed absolutely incredible.

What it is: The design rating takes into account the shape of the toy in both a visual and ergonomic perspective. We ask our reviewers to rate the overall feeling of the Bondage Kit.

100/100
Ease of UseEase of Use

Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 100 out of 100, which means it is extremely easy to use and worked very well.

What it is: The Ease of Use rating is a score given on how easy the toy is to operate and use. Aspects that are considered is the suitability for different kinds of people, intuitiveness, and potential learning curve of using the product for pleasure (or pain).

90/100
QualityQuality

Rating: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System was rated 90 out of 100, which means it is one of the absolute top quality toys.

What it is: The Quality rating is a score that takes into account the quality of the materials used in the toy, how well it was manufactured, the safety, durability and overall quality feel of the toy.

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  • Under bed straps with 4 attachment points
  • 4 x velcro fastening restraints

Pros

  • Easy to put up
  • Four point restraint
  • Adjusts to all bed sizes
  • Velcro restraints are quick to put on
  • Cuffs can be used separately

Cons

  • Not the strongest/most secure restraint
  • Might not fit plus-size bodies

Specifications

Why I Chose It

I tested this kit out for Bedbible a couple of years ago, and it’s still one of my most used bondage items in my rather large collection. It’s so convenient to use! I leave the under mattress strap in place so we can just attach the cuffs whenever we are in the mood for some bondage!

Usually I prefer the security of buckles on restraints as they create a more intense power dynamic. However, I love that these are velcro fastening. It’s so quick and easy to be tied up and once I’m all strapped in, I completely forget that it’s only velcro keeping me there!

The restraints are also very comfortable so we can enjoy long sessions without them digging in or needing to be adjusted. I like that they can also be clipped to each other or to other restraint points for a bit more mileage from the kit!

I highly recommend this bondage kit to bondage newbies and those with more experience!

Comparison

BestTest Winner Best for Beginners Budget-Friendly More Advanced Best Bed Restraint Kit
Overall score4.7 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.4 / 5.0 4.1 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0
Bedbible rating4.8 / 5.0 4.7 / 5.0 4.5 / 5.0 4.0 / 5.0 4.8 / 5.0
User rating4.5 / 5.0
from 11 users
4.7 / 5.0
from 35 users
4.3 / 5.0
from 761 users
4.2 / 5.0
from 10 users
4.8 / 5.0
from 110 users
PriceModerate Affordable Affordable Affordable Moderate
Design100 / 100 90 / 100 80 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100
Ease of use80 / 100 68 / 100 95 / 100 80 / 100 100 / 100
Quality80 / 100 80 / 100 90 / 100 85 / 100 90 / 100
Sound-60 / 100 ---
Power-80 / 100 ---
Buzzy/Rumbly-somewhat rumbly ---
Storage Bag IncludedNo No No No -
MaterialsButt plug and pinwheel: metal, suckers: silicone, restraints and blindfold: satin Silk, Nylon, ABS, Metal, Synthetic Feathers Nylon webbing, soft fleece, and plastic hook-and-loop Silicone and faux leather Polypropylene, polyester, nickel-free metal, ABS plastic
Vibration modes-7 ---
Fastening-Spring Loaded Metal Clips, Metal O-Ring, Under Mattress Straps, Silk Restraints Hook-and-loop for the cuffs and knot-tying for the straps Buckle -
Waterproof-Bullet Vibrator, Yes No. It is, however, made of cloth so it will dry. Silicone yes. Faux leather no -
Rechargeable-No, Uses 3 LR44 Batteries -Yes -
Colors Available-Black and Red Black --
Remote Controls-No ---
Adjustable-Yes -Yes Fits any size mattress
Length--Strap Length - 48 inches-Straps x 4: 60 inches & Connector Strap: 60 inches
Width--Cuff Width - 2 inches--
Diameter--Cuff Diameter - 3 inches--
Vibration speeds---3 -
Vibration patterns---7 -
Insertable length---Dildo 6.3 inches-
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How to Talk to Your Partner About Trying Bondage

Broaching the topic of trying bondage with your partner can feel scary but I have some top tips to make it easier on all involved!

  1. Start the conversation in a non-sexual setting when you are both calm, relaxed, and available to talk.
  2. Mention that you’ve been thinking about wanting to try something new with them that you think you will enhance your sex life and be fun for you both.
  3. Explain why you think bondage or BDSM would be fun (e.g., is it the novelty of trying something new together of the thrill of having your partner in charge/ being the one in charge.
  4. Suggest some beginner-friendly ways to try bondage. I recommend starting with some soft, velcro wrist restraints.
  5. Give your partner time to think about your ideas and ask questions.

What's in a typical bondage kit?

Bondage kits contain all kinds of tantalizing treats that you and a partner can use to fulfill your BDSM dreams, so let’s take a little dive into the kinds of things you’d expect to find in your average bondage kit!

  • Restraints – An absolute staple of bondage kits, bondage restraints can come in a few different forms. From bondage cuffs to ropes, to silky lengths of fabric, the idea is still the same: to make sure that your partner is restrained and at your mercy! A bondage restraint kit can be really fun!
  • Blindfold – Another bondage kit staple, blindfolds are great to deprive someone of one of their primary senses. If they can’t see, they don’t know what you’re about to do to them. Blindfolds can really help heighten the mood and sharpen their other senses until every little touch and tickle is almost orgasmic!
  • Tickler – Tickling can be fun for some, and torture for others! But it’s all about that teasing and tantalizing! When you’ve got someone restrained and blindfolded, introduce the super soft touch of a tickler. Stroke it up and down their body and tease those erogenous zones until they can’t take any more.
  • Impact toolBDSM whips and floggers are an essential part of a bondage kit! Whereas the tickler provides a soft, delicate touch, an impact tool delivers a harder, stinging, and deliciously painful aspect. Mix the tickler and the impact tool up, switching from one to the other to drive them absolutely wild!
  • Nipple toys – Ah, one of the most common erogenous zones on the body! Nipple clamps are one of the most fun wearable sex items you can find. From weighted nipple clamps to ones joined by chains, incorporating nipples into your BDSM play is a game changer!
Author
Isabelle Uren
Isabelle Uren

Site Manager | Aiming to empower people to embrace sexual pleasure one sex toy at a time or two, whatever takes your fancy! As well researching and writing about all things sex, I have studied Tantra and am currently studying towards becoming a psychosexual therapist. My life philosophy is the three Ms approach — meditation, masturbation, and mmm a good cup of tea!

Age: 33
Gender: Female
Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
Sex toy experience: Experienced
All-time favorite sex toy: Doxy Die Cast
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